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hockeybobby
07-26-2009, 03:07 PM
So hb, you haven't shared what makes your favorite your favorite yet...
I'm building the suspense Bob. :P

But seriously, I don't think I could adequately express all that she is. I could write pages of praise, and the things I missed would only serve to diminish her. Where would I even begin?

When the thread is done, and everything has been said, I'll try and do her justice.

Earl_the_Pearl
07-26-2009, 04:00 PM
They are the scary ones that wait down the road in their car for you to leave and try to follow you home. ;)
I have never been/had a regular. I know what a club is and what it is not. Dancers in these trying times can also want more than a PL can give so a hobby phone that can be turn off is necessary.

Pretty_Penny
07-26-2009, 04:47 PM
Reading this I can now see what I would never consider doing is working well for some PLs. I can see why they are a dancer's dream in a part of their life.


Well if it's any consideration, I will tell you this:

While my favorite regulars may not get "extras" from me, they absolutely DO get the best dances and the best treatment.

dtxgirl
07-26-2009, 05:15 PM
My regulars tend to be people I would like anyway. It makes the experience more personal and enjoyable when I don't have to pretend to be anything I'm not.

I can have a conversation with them about serious things, or about ridiculous absurd things and have equally as much fun talking about either. Sometimes we dance for 45 minutes solid, sometimes I literally don't dance at all and am the naked therapist.. It just depends on them.

The biggest thing is respect.
My regs have all done the club thing. They know how it works and also know from the get go that they're not getting any OTC or extras from me. They almost always are married and older business owners who love their wives/kids/grandkids, but need a mental break from them. (well, except for the guy who likes me to dominate him, but that's another story altogether...lmao!)}:D

But I will tell you that when I see them, I am genuinely happy that they are there. Not just from a financial standpoint, but from a "I can be myself and see someone I consider a friend" view. Although the money (and occasional gifts) does help lol :P

stressed
07-26-2009, 08:24 PM
I'm building the suspense Bob. :P

But seriously, I don't think I could adequately express all that she is. I could write pages of praise, and the things I missed would only serve to diminish her. Where would I even begin?

When the thread is done, and everything has been said, I'll try and do her justice.


Uh just give us the cliff notes:P:P:P

dreamer1980
07-27-2009, 02:40 PM
i dont really have "ATF's" so to speak, but dancers who i would rather spend my time/money with over any other dancer would be:

appearance: medium/long brunette hair. also seeing that she has taken some time to look decent and smell good would draw my attention. i take the time to shower, shave, put on clean clothes, wear deodorant/cologne, brush my teeth and chew gum.

personality: must have a good attitude! being herself around me also scores lots of points, because ill be myself around her. also, remembering my name is a bonus. i have an uncommon first name and it usually takes a few visits for the dancer to remember, lol. i think there only been one that remembered after the first time.

hockeybobby
07-27-2009, 04:36 PM
Uh just give us the cliff notes:P:P:P

Haha touche!

hockeybobby
07-27-2009, 04:39 PM
being herself around me also scores lots of points, because ill be myself around her.

Finding the real "her" can be very difficult without a lot of time, and without seeing her outside in a more normal setting, yet a few guys have mentioned this.

princessjas
07-27-2009, 05:51 PM
Finding the real "her" can be very difficult without a lot of time, and without seeing her outside in a more normal setting, yet a few guys have mentioned this.

So true! All my regs thought they knew the "real me", but really only a handful did. They ALL commented on how genuine and sweet I was though. Sweet maybe, genuine?? at work?? Not a chance, I'm WAY to shy! ;D

stressed
07-27-2009, 06:35 PM
Ok Hb

A favorite to me is someone that goes beyond the call and i am not talking about extras. Someone that is not only gorgeous but truly attentive. Someone that puts me at complete ease and drives me crazy the next. Someone that can go from fun and friendly to sexy and naughty in seconds. Someone that you dont have to always contact first. Someone that i can be myself around. They also feel free to be themselves around me. They are at ease and so am I. No drama, and extremely relaxed, until its time to play games. I like mind games always have and always will. So i guess what i am trying to say is she has to

BLOW MY FUCKING MIND!!!!!

Perfect example below

hockeybobby
07-28-2009, 02:55 AM
Awesome TR stressed. And a new favourite arises.

bem401
07-28-2009, 05:46 AM
Finding the real "her" can be very difficult without a lot of time, and without seeing her outside in a more normal setting, yet a few guys have mentioned this.

So true. I have been fortunate enough to become RL friends with several dancers and, for the overwhelming majority of them, their club personas are very different than their real-life personalities. In the club, they have to behave in a way that keeps the money flowing. Outside of work, they can afford not to be putting on an act. Sometimes the difference is glaring, sometimes it is subtle, but it is always apparent.

The Boob
07-28-2009, 03:09 PM
getting away with something

quickly Slashing your way out of the normal meet and greet routine, because I'm not there for normal, nor to talk about my life (which is what I'm trying to escape by going to a flippin stripclub).

quirky, able to combine sexy with ridiculous, and enjoys doing so.

rampaging titties. a titstorm powerful enough to make me forget about Jesus until I'm so buffeted by breasts that I breathlessly exclaim "Jesus!" at which point I remember about Jesus again, and I thank the Lord.

time machine big hair

as for her look, it's best to put on the air of an international woman of mystery, ala Austin Powers, so that questions are raised by her appearance that I'll feel the need to have an$wered (without resorting to nose rings). This is better than being easily defined at first sight, unless the definition you're going with is "I'm the most baywatch dancer of them all." Outfits can be nice as part of selling a mystery or theme, but really it starts with the person--body language, the content in the eyes, a bit of twitchiness as if in heat and just wanting to get this show on the road, a bit of gotcha! mixed with a pinch of lust and a twist of smile.

then, restore my faith in the lapdance. (Easy to do. I've lost track of how many times I've said to people "You've restored my faith in the lapdance!")

audrey_k
07-29-2009, 05:55 AM
My favorite customers are the ones who tip me a loooooooot on stage and just want me to hang out with them and buy me drinks... I don't need them but it's a nice gesture.... and they understand I need to deal with the PLs and are not pissy when I have to leave to try and sell dances and come back.

My favorite customer was this guy who came with a bachelor party. I talked to him for a bit but he told me straight up he wasn't into dances but he was sure his friends were going to buy a lot (which they did). I talked to him for a bit anyway cause he was really nice and intelligent and respectful. He tipped me a lot on stage throughout the night, but got no dances from anybody. I went back a few hours later just to make sure he didn't want any dances, and he put his hand out for me to grab and take to the lap dance booth, it was really adorable. We did a few dances and he didn't touch me once, tipped well and we talked for a bit afterwards. I don't really know what it was about him, but he pushed me step closer to the possibility of re-storing any faith in the male population.

Everyman
07-29-2009, 06:41 AM
Is comfortable being herself around me. Names and personal details aren't important. Wherever she sets her personal boundaries is fine by me. But a girl who can drop her ITC stripper persona and be genuine and sincere scores major points with me.


I don't agree with everything bob said, but this is sooooo key to me. My regs have all been "themselves" almost right away. And I knew them long enough after that to know it was true. Whereas, girls who act all sexy and stripperish might get occasional dances from me (especially if their dances are good), but they're never going to become a regular thing unless they get real.

Shy_Guy
07-29-2009, 07:04 PM
Trying not repeat all the things already said about getting to know "the real person" and a sense of familiarity, I will say that these partnerships(?) developed after catching the dancer on an off night. It was either that she was tired, had a lot on her mind, or just having a bad night. Whatever the reason, she didn't have her "game" on. The girl wasn't looking for a dance and didn't particularly care if I was even a prospect or not. She probably hoped I wasn't, but wanted to at least look like she was trying. Or sometimes after a dance, she just decided to take a break and follow me back to my seat.

Either way, the sexy was gone and all that is left is the girl (which I think we can all agree is a whole different level of sexy). It's rare, and even rarer still that I notice the difference, but when I do, what follows is an easy conversation between two people making the best of their night. Those moments have developed into some of the most rewarding partnerships. Many of those have developed into friendships lasting long after she has hung up the heels.

-SG

kyrah_foxx
07-31-2009, 12:53 PM
I have the same opinion of Audrey... of course, I will always keep a warm place in my soul and pantaloons for those rare few who make it rain up here. It's even better because our bills start at 5$! bwahaha.

hockeybobby
07-31-2009, 05:37 PM
I have the same opinion of Audrey... of course, I will always keep a warm place in my soul and pantaloons for those rare few who make it rain up here. It's even better because our bills start at 5$! bwahaha.

How common is stage tipping there in the west kyrah?

kyrah_foxx
08-01-2009, 03:04 PM
It's not that common, we do our sets on stage and then after we have our promo games etc. However, sometimes "high rollers" will just chuck a bunch of cash on stage which is pretty rad, a lot easier than having loonies and toonies thrown at your sensitive areas. LOL. I always appreciate any tips though of course.

Cyril
08-01-2009, 03:42 PM
It's not that common, we do our sets on stage and then after we have our promo games etc. However, sometimes "high rollers" will just chuck a bunch of cash on stage which is pretty rad, a lot easier than having loonies and toonies thrown at your sensitive areas. LOL. I always appreciate any tips though of course.

I envision a strip club where PLs will be given an electronic device upon entering the strip club which they can use to tip the strippers by pressing it. Each stripper will have a numbered sticker on her back which can be used to route the tips to appropriate strippers. The idea of throwing money on breasts and vagina is absolutely outdated. At some point we have to start exploiting technology for the betterment of PLs and strippers both.

hockeybobby
08-01-2009, 05:43 PM
^^^I'd rather slip the fiver into her thong, thanks.

Earl_the_Pearl
08-01-2009, 05:53 PM
^^^I'd rather slip the fiver into her thong, thanks.
Fiver? Mine is seven. :P

princessjas
08-01-2009, 06:00 PM
Fiver? Mine is seven. :P

Playing "Whose got the bigger dick?" on a stripper forum, how novel. ::)

kyrah_foxx
08-01-2009, 06:04 PM
Haha the electronic idea is pretty rad but I actually do have fun playing the games... it's interesting interaction especially if the person playing is shy! The only bad part is when someone gets a little overzealous and whips coins at your tata or hooha. Plus there is always a weird mental image of a coin beaning me or getting stuck somewhere unappealing... heh. Sometimes I wish I got tipped like the USA girls do though!

Earl_the_Pearl
08-01-2009, 06:14 PM
Playing "Whose got the bigger dick?" on a stripper forum, how novel. ::)

I thought we were talking about the size of bills.

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audrey_k
08-02-2009, 06:57 AM
^^^I'd rather slip the fiver into her thong, thanks.

Yes let's keep it that way...

I prefer cash, always ;D

And there is nothing more fun than having money rain on you on stage.

However, my three pet peeves are:

a) guys who offer up a couple crumpled and worn dollars that look like they were pulled from their ass and

b) guys who fold the dollar bills into balls and then expect you to spread your legs so they throw them

c) guys who INSIST on sticking that $1 bill into your stocking and ripping them in the process...

hockeybobby
08-02-2009, 08:13 AM
I thought we were talking about the size of bills.




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The Duke of the double entendre around here. Yeah...the Duke of Earl. :D

stressed
08-18-2009, 08:12 PM
ok HB its your turn
enough suspense