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Elvia
08-18-2009, 08:02 PM
^^^for going out of my way to fulfill a stranger's fetish? Yeah, that's not something I'd do on my own time for free. I was a pro-domme for years and I damn sure didn't do it for free.

Cyril
08-18-2009, 08:04 PM
^^^for going out of my way to fulfill a stranger's fetish? Yeah, that's not something I'd do on my own time for free. I was a pro-domme for years and I damn sure didn't do it for free.

We are talking about the bulletin board here. We are all (including yourself) typing stuff here all day anyway. Why not devote couple of insults for our resident PLC?

Elvia
08-18-2009, 08:06 PM
because it's not my job to get guys on the internet off for free. He can call a 900 number if he wants that.

You'll notice that the dancers in general don't talk dirty to arouse men on this site. It's really not the purpose of the site.

This might be the most clueless thing you've ever asked me. Wow.

Cyril
08-18-2009, 08:16 PM
because it's not my job to get guys on the internet off for free. He can call a 900 number if he wants that.

You'll notice that the dancers in general don't talk dirty to arouse men on this site. It's really not the purpose of the site.

This might be the most clueless thing you've ever asked me. Wow.

I doubt he is trying to get aroused. He just likes being insulted.

Elvia
08-18-2009, 08:18 PM
Yeah Cyril, you didn't even know this fetish existed until a couple days ago. I've been studying,and involved in, the BDSM scene for a decade. I think I have a better understanding of the fetish than you do, since you don't even seem to understand what a fetish is. Once again you've formed an opinion in ignorance, making it useless.

Almost Jaded
08-18-2009, 08:49 PM
I doubt he is trying to get aroused. He just likes being insulted.

He gets aroused by BEING insulted, specifically when insulted about his cock. That's the fetish in question.


Once again you've formed an opinion in ignorance, making it useless.

...but funny.

Check your PM's Elvia, I have a few Q's for you re the BDSM scene and your former professional capacity.

xdamage
08-18-2009, 08:55 PM
I doubt he is trying to get aroused. He just likes being insulted.

In this matter I am 99.9% sure Elvia (and others) read the situation correctly; it is his sexual fetish and wants free service. There are now several indicators of that.

It is also clever that the dancers picked up on it far faster then you, I or most of us would. Again, there are areas where others know far more then us because they have experience in those areas (interesting concept right?)

PatheticLoserCuckold
08-18-2009, 09:21 PM
bump for elvia

Elvia
08-18-2009, 09:36 PM
^^^ ?

PatheticLoserCuckold
08-18-2009, 10:40 PM
^^^ ?

Just wanted to keep this bumped for you because I know how much you like it LOL ;D

Earl_the_Pearl
08-19-2009, 01:45 AM
You want to charge money for being rude? /:O

^^^for going out of my way to fulfill a stranger's fetish? Yeah, that's not something I'd do on my own time for free. I was a pro-domme for years and I damn sure didn't do it for free.


You want to charge money for being rude? /:O

I took my roommate to a clothing optional beach and she did not partake of the option. Countless nubile people that do not get nude for a living had no problem frolicking it the surf and sun.

There can be thousands of people from all walks of life taking advantage of the option; providers take advantage. It appears that those that demand they be compensated for being clothing optional have a problem not being compensated for doing so. I Earl_the_Pearl have no problem taking advantage or the option and do not expect nor will I accept compensation. :dance:

Earl_the_Pearl
08-19-2009, 01:46 AM
Just wanted to keep this bumped for you because I know how much you like it LOL ;D
Be careful you are letting your true colors come showing through.

verfolgung
08-19-2009, 05:55 AM
You want to charge money for being rude? /:O
I took my roommate to a clothing optional beach and she did not partake of the option. Countless nubile people that do not get nude for a living had no problem frolicking it the surf and sun.

There can be thousands of people from all walks of life taking advantage of the option; providers take advantage. It appears that those that demand they be compensated for being clothing optional have a problem not being compensated for doing so. I Earl_the_Pearl have no problem taking advantage or the option and do not expect nor will I accept compensation. :dance:

R vs N?

verfolgung
08-19-2009, 05:58 AM
I doubt he is trying to get aroused. He just likes being insulted.

Cyril, some might wonder if the same is true for you.

Golden_Rule
08-19-2009, 09:50 AM
I was wondering if the dancers ever make jokes about certain 'regulars' who happen to be small in size?

Their money is the same size as anyone elses' and spends the same, yes?

Elvia
08-19-2009, 01:56 PM
I took my roommate to a clothing optional beach and she did not partake of the option. Countless nubile people that do not get nude for a living had no problem frolicking it the surf and sun.

There can be thousands of people from all walks of life taking advantage of the option; providers take advantage. It appears that those that demand they be compensated for being clothing optional have a problem not being compensated for doing so. :dance:

I have noticed that once you're a dancer, getting perved on by strange guys in public is even less tolerable than it was before. Who wants to feel like they're at work on their day off?

JayATee
08-19-2009, 02:15 PM
I have noticed that once you're a dancer, getting perved on by strange guys in public is even less tolerable than it was before. Who wants to feel like they're at work on their day off?

+1.

I have no tolerance for this at all anymore. If Im not getting paid I have less than no reason to be nice.

Cyril
08-19-2009, 07:30 PM
Cyril, some might wonder if the same is true for you.

In that case, you are not very smart for fulfilling my fantasy for free. Come on you got to show some intellect after all you are the exemplary PL of the board. :)

SpeakngEZ
08-20-2009, 02:17 AM
It's not only a matter of providing a service here for free. It's also that in doing so, we prevent him from going out and paying for it from some dancer/900#girl/domme that needs to pay her rent and feed her cats. I'm not taking money out of her kitties' mouths. (That came out awesome.)

Anyway, I don't believe that he even wants free service here as much as he wants to believe that while he is in the club, the dancers are in the back making fun of him. While he is there, this might enhance the experience for him (believing this) but I'm not sure if it will cause him to spend more money (in need of more LDs as a result of such arousal) or less money (for being aroused and not needing to pay for arousal).

So, then, do we humor him or not? Or do we leave that up to the dancers at his local strip joint to take care of?

Elvia
08-20-2009, 06:57 PM
^^^ I would say no, don't humor him. In my experience, there's two types- the one's that go out and pay for the service, and the jack off artists who try to get their jollies on the sly for free (usually calling or emailing Dominas, trying to get them to give graphic descriptions of what a session would entail, when they have no intention of ever getting one). The latter hardly ever turns into the former. So they are best ignored. If he really wanted to go out and live out the fetish, he'd just be out doing that.

PatheticLoserCuckold
08-20-2009, 07:04 PM
^^^ I would say no, don't humor him. In my experience, there's two types- the one's that go out and pay for the service, and the jack off artists who try to get their jollies on the sly for free (usually calling or emailing Dominas, trying to get them to give graphic descriptions of what a session would entail, when they have no intention of ever getting one). The latter hardly ever turns into the former. So they are best ignored. If he really wanted to go out and live out the fetish, he'd just be out doing that.


Wow not for nothing but you're kinda nutty. I was just having some fun in a thread. Not looking for 'jollies'. But thanks there Domme.

Elvia
08-20-2009, 07:10 PM
Of course you were, honey. You're special and unique. :rollseyes:

Condescension on the house.

Cyril
08-20-2009, 08:49 PM
Wow not for nothing but you're kinda nutty. I was just having some fun in a thread. Not looking for 'jollies'. But thanks there Domme.

She is a very trusting soul. :D

JayATee
08-21-2009, 01:49 AM
Wow not for nothing but you're kinda nutty. I was just having some fun in a thread. Not looking for 'jollies'. But thanks there Domme.

Which is why you're getting the response you're getting. You're quick huh? ::)

PatheticLoserCuckold
08-21-2009, 03:34 AM
Which is why you're getting the response you're getting. You're quick huh? ::)

::) Exactly, try not taking yourself too serious. But I just read your rant in the other thread and I think I understand you now. This is more of your place to vent your frustrations and hate men in general. Its all good.

Almost Jaded
08-21-2009, 05:50 PM
Not all men. Just the ones that piss her off. You know - most men. ;)

Golden_Rule
08-21-2009, 11:44 PM
::) Exactly, try not taking yourself too serious. But I just read your rant in the other thread and I think I understand you now. This is more of your place to vent your frustrations and hate men in general. Its all good.

You have to understand that there are certain lines of work that can drasically alter your perceptions of reality. I had one myself so I know.

For a cop, especially detectives, working with nothing but victims and criminals, it becomes quite normal to divide people into two groups: victims and victimizers. You compound that by hanging with cops when not working, because they understand how you are feeling about what you do for a living. It can and does make for quite a little snarky view of the world.

If you don't realize that your job is one of those handful of types that can vastly alter your perceptions of reality and take steps to deal with it [like deliberately not hanging out with your own when not working - but instead making sure your life has in it as many "normal" people as possible who keep your views grounded and within the norms] you wind up falling into the "group think" of your occupation.

Dancers don't see men at their best. Men do a lot of things in clubs that color their perceptions of them. Compounding that is a tendency, just like with cops, to hang out with those like themselves who understand how they are feeling but by backing those feelings up with their own reaffirm those feelings, even though they don't match social norms.

Just like with the above cop example the probable way to get around the occupational group think is to not hang out with other dancers when not working. To have as many people not associated with your line of work in your life as possible and allow them to get and keep your thinking outside that of your work environment in order to keep your perceptions rooted in what would be considered normal parameters.

The problem is not too many people make those efforts. Its much easier to settle in with your co-workers and commiserate with them in an "us vs them" mentality then to deliberately seek out others who might feel differently, even negatively, about your job and what goes on in it. The result is that few people in such jobs manage not to fall down the "occupational group think" rabbit hole.

It is what it is... Cops wind up thinking like cops. Dancers wind up thinking like dancers. You can't blame folks for being folks and doing what folks do to deal with things, like the pressures of having one of "those kind of jobs".

JayATee
08-22-2009, 01:57 AM
::) Exactly, try not taking yourself too serious. But I just read your rant in the other thread and I think I understand you now. This is more of your place to vent your frustrations and hate men in general. Its all good.

I don't take myself too seriously, I don't hate men, and believe me when I say, you understand NOTHING about me.

mediocrity
08-22-2009, 02:33 AM
In all seriousness? It's not whatcha got, its what you do with it.

femmefatale88
08-27-2009, 12:03 PM
Nah I don't care about the size of a man's endowment I'm just giving him dances not f**ing him.