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chris91
09-04-2009, 02:17 PM
Ouch! Using that logic, the customer could say the entertainer is just a pair of boobs! (I'm NOT saying this)

I tend to think there are 2 individuals who are in a setting that creates a mood where they can relax and if so inclined, get closer to eachother. If it's just the guy being a walking wallet, that reduces it to something else.

You're just breaking it down to the bare bones and you're kind of right, but I don't think guys want to see it that way.

I'm OK with dancers seeing dollar signs over my head in their mind, just don't let me know that's what's up!

The customer can say that I'm just a pair of boobs. I don't care, as long as he pays me and doesn't break my rules. I'm not trying to fool myself into thinking that a wallet actually cares about me.

We're not in a setting where two individuals can relax and if so inclined, get closer to each other. We're in a setting where one individual pays another to make it seem that way.

xdamage
09-04-2009, 03:37 PM
Again we run into the definition of 'Russian', and what it is to be 'pure Russian'. What would Rurik have to say about this, I wonder? ;D

Valid point ;) Purity is irrelevant to many of us but for those who think it matters they can be surprisingly rigid in who they feel is part of their group.



As for 'Pure Americans', most of them were killed off a long time ago...

;D

J.D.
09-04-2009, 03:43 PM
The customer can say that I'm just a pair of boobs. I don't care, as long as he pays me and doesn't break my rules. I'm not trying to fool myself into thinking that a wallet actually cares about me.

We're not in a setting where two individuals can relax and if so inclined, get closer to each other. We're in a setting where one individual pays another to make it seem that way.

It's all part of the fantasy for the customer. You have no idea how many times guy friends of mine say, "Oh no, this stripper really does like me, she wants to hook up with me." He's notorious for spending money in SC's. I just roll my eyes.

goreantx
09-04-2009, 05:14 PM
It's all part of the fantasy for the customer. You have no idea how many times guy friends of mine say, "Oh no, this stripper really does like me, she wants to hook up with me." He's notorious for spending money in SC's. I just roll my eyes.

I met a regular to the club last night whose date had to stay home with her sick kiddo and he was telling me how she was going to be his girlfriend and they made a pact that he couldnt kiss any other woman and she couldn't kiss any other guy and I was just thinking :O

J.D.
09-04-2009, 08:23 PM
^^^^^ Exactly. I can't believe how delusional guys are sometimes. Yeah buddy, she really likes you, you're just that cool!

lopaw
09-04-2009, 08:58 PM
The customer can say that I'm just a pair of boobs. I don't care, as long as he pays me and doesn't break my rules. I'm not trying to fool myself into thinking that a wallet actually cares about me.

We're not in a setting where two individuals can relax and if so inclined, get closer to each other. We're in a setting where one individual pays another to make it seem that way.




Well said!


We customers are pretty much walking ATM machines, and dancers are often viewed as walking, talking body parts. It's just the way it is, and the way it probably should be. Keeps things real & in perspective. Many customers don't have a problem with this concept.

Thinking any differently (from a custies standpoint) is simply delusional, and often leads to heartbreak & empty bank accounts.

yoda57us
09-04-2009, 09:26 PM
We customers are pretty much walking ATM machines, and dancers are often viewed as walking, talking body parts. It's just the way it is, and the way it probably should be. Keeps things real & in perspective. Many customers don't have a problem with this concept.


EXACTLY! It cracks me up when some newbie SC expert shows up here or on SCL warning us all that dancers are only after our money. DUH! OF COURSE THEY ARE! SIGN ME UP!

rusdancer
09-05-2009, 07:41 AM
Thanks for writing this. I do not pretend to be an expert on the history of Russia, I am more curious to find the truth than trying to tell it.

Have you been to Kiev? From what I hear it was a bustling metropolis and cultural center when Moscow was a still little riverside town in the 12th and 13th centuries. I would love to go there. We have a lot of dancers from the Ukraine, as well as a few from Siberia.

There were 3-4 from Moldova at my last club (formerly known as Bessarabia), another one of those smaller republics which have split off from the old USSR. I think I have worked with about 8-10 all told from the Moscow area, including a very charming woman from near Gorki. though that is probably a lot higher if you include some of the ones who moved on after a short time.

It's also interesting to see how people view the term 'Russia.' these days. So much of what people referred to as Russia, or USSR, say 20-30 years back, has now splintered apart into various semi-autonomous nations, as some of the various ethnic groups seek independence. But so long as travel is freely encouraged and frequent, this would not necessarily reflect a trend towards segregation, per se.

I am also curious as to how the Russian people view the Tsarist heritage. Sure the country was wealthy, but the division of wealth was surely one of the most imbalanced in history--the plight of the serfs being not much better than slaves from what I have read, and not much of a 'middle class'. Not that communism was the answer to that situation. What's interesting about the USA today is that despite the massive wealth of the nation, and the prosperity of the average citizen compared to say a hundred years ago, the division of wealth is also becoming increasingly unbalanced.

We are digressing here, sorry, but this is quite interesting. Maybe we should start a thread on Russian history somewhere else! That would be fun...
And thank you for replying!

No,unfortunately never been to Kiev,although it's very interesting that Kiev used to be the capital city of Russia (Kievskaya Rus').You are absolutely right,the history is indeed fascinating.As far as Ukraine,I've only been to the Crimea,Feodicia,whic was last summer actually,great time and great people.Crimea used to be a part of Russia some time ago and now you have to use a travel passport between the two countries.Just to show how things can shift,very interesting.

Perhaps some time there would be more discussions about this.And,DJozer,hopefully we can meet one day and do that too! ;D

Also wanted to add about the "wallet" thing....I won't deny making very many friends over the years out of customers,some of these friendships have lasted way over a decade,some even feel like family.But the fact remains the same....This is a JOB.We go in to work to sell looks and personalities,and I absolutely do not mind being considered a pair of boobs or something like that,because,indeed,that's my job.If I went into work stricltly or more for friendships etc,I won't make any money.I can socialize all I want on my days off...When you go to buy a car,for example,do you think a salesperson cares for you as a person?Or do you about him/her?All it is is a professional interaction.In the end it is all about paying bills first.Once that's done,then it's time to have fun!

johnnytwoshoes
09-07-2009, 11:33 AM
This comment is going to hurt but here is the truth.. I'd say about 85-90% of white strippers have had black boyfriends either currently or in the past. Why I don't know. It is one of the most unusual observations I have made about white strippers. I have some psychological theories why I think this is true but I can't get into that here.

I think some of the black strippers could back me up on this one.

Bob_Loblaw
09-07-2009, 11:42 AM
http://i171.photobucket.com/albums/u282/BobLoblaw61191946/JesusFacepalm.png?t=1252348925

hockeybobby
09-07-2009, 11:57 AM
^^^hahaha

MarvelGirl
09-07-2009, 12:05 PM
This comment is going to hurt but here is the truth.. I'd say about 85-90% of white strippers have had black boyfriends either currently or in the past.

Why would that hurt? Most women I've met both in and out of the industry have dated a black man at some point. I'm actually a rarity because I haven't but that's probably because I grew up in a mostly white area and got married very young.

What year are you living in?

princessjas
09-07-2009, 12:09 PM
This comment is going to hurt but here is the truth.. I'd say about 85-90% of white strippers have had black boyfriends either currently or in the past. Why I don't know. It is one of the most unusual observations I have made about white strippers. I have some psychological theories why I think this is true but I can't get into that here.

I think some of the black strippers could back me up on this one.

Why is this relevant? Do you have an issue with interracial dating? Psychological theories? Are you insinuating that someone must be deeply troubled to date outside their race?

If you are saying it's a higher percentage than the general female population, well, that just shows that as a group we are more open-minded and less racist than the population as a whole. Yay! Go strippers! We rock! 8)

johnnytwoshoes
09-07-2009, 12:29 PM
The purpose of my comment is quite straightforward. Basically, I have been reading from this thread from the dancers themselves that they like to stick to their own race when questioned about it (here).

However, I state that this is not the case. In other words, I make the claim that dancers only care about one thing and that is money. Race be damned. I support this proposition by the observation that many white dancers have dated outside their own race.

MarvelGirl
09-07-2009, 12:35 PM
The purpose of my comment is quite straightforward. Basically, I have been reading from this thread from the dancers themselves that they like to stick to their own race when questioned about it (here).

However, I state that this is not the case. In other words, I make the claim that dancers only care about one thing and that is money. Race be damned. I support this proposition by the observation that many white dancers have dated outside their own race.

It sounds like you are unable to distinguish between a dancers personal life and her job. I haven't seen any dancer on this thread say that she likes to stick to her own race when it comes to dating. I haven't seen any dancer bring up her personal life on this thread actually.

We are talking about customers that we approach in the club. Yes, we only care about money when dealing with customers, not our own personal preferences. I'm not sure why you think this is breaking news.

JayATee
09-07-2009, 12:46 PM
This comment is going to hurt but here is the truth.. I'd say about 85-90% of white strippers have had black boyfriends either currently or in the past. Why I don't know. It is one of the most unusual observations I have made about white strippers. I have some psychological theories why I think this is true but I can't get into that here.

I think some of the black strippers could back me up on this one.


This has NOTHING to do with anything. Are you freakin kidding me??

xdamage
09-07-2009, 12:52 PM
This comment is going to hurt but here is the truth.. I'd say about 85-90% of white strippers have had black boyfriends either currently or in the past. Why I don't know. It is one of the most unusual observations I have made about white strippers. I have some psychological theories why I think this is true but I can't get into that here.

I think some of the black strippers could back me up on this one.

What precisely "hurts" about this as the implication is that it is shameful? There are relatively minor genetic differences between people; it just appear dramatic because those with dark skin have more melanin. Our society is trying to get over this and see it as it should be seen; a minor genetic difference of no significant matter to how we treat people. If nothing else it is one of the few good things to come out of our society over the last few decades, so it hurts why?

slowpoke
09-07-2009, 01:01 PM
Why are old people allowed to be racist? I know they lived through a time when it was 'acceptable', but times have changed.



You talk about it like it is a bad thing. Maybe old people remember when they still had some individual freedom, before people became enslaved by left wing political correctness.

hockeybobby
09-07-2009, 01:06 PM
^^^Don't YOU think racism is a bad thing?

JayATee
09-07-2009, 01:12 PM
^ I think I understand what he meant... it was just a very poor way to say it.

miabella
09-07-2009, 03:27 PM
dating outside your race doesn't make you not racist. in fact, in most instances, it's a form of racism in itself, if you are dating outside your race because that other race is more 'submissive' or 'exotic' or 'stereotyped characteristic'. and most people who date outside their race come to the table with skanky preconceptions.

if having sex with other races would end racism, racism would have ended hundreds of years ago and sally hemings would have been the first black first lady.

Elvia
09-07-2009, 03:34 PM
This comment is going to hurt but here is the truth.. I'd say about 85-90% of white strippers have had black boyfriends either currently or in the past. Why I don't know. It is one of the most unusual observations I have made about white strippers. I have some psychological theories why I think this is true but I can't get into that here.

I think some of the black strippers could back me up on this one.

what is up with you and your bizarre "observations?" Unless you are following dancers home from the club and stalking them around in their personal lives and recording your findings, I very much doubt you have any idea what dancers do in theirprivate life. How on Earth did you come up with that number?

goreantx
09-08-2009, 02:34 PM
Last night was very very sparse customerwise. After 4 hours of no new customers, the last customers to come in at 12:30 were a black couple. I was scared to go up to them because they were obviously a couple and they were black, so I figured they probably were in to black people. Of course, being desperate, and with the knowledge that there were only caucasian dancers working, I tried to chat up the lady. Well, that failed... They didn't get any dances at all, so I think they might have been into black people after all.

Earl_the_Pearl
09-09-2009, 03:18 AM
I understand there are specifically 'black' clubs, but no specifically white ones, which is discriminatory on its face.

Name one. I have been in clubs where I have been the only Eueropiean. I have never had a problem; in fact the dancers give me as much if not more bang for the buck as any other customer.

Earl_the_Pearl
09-09-2009, 03:22 AM
I don't think it's racism to be sexually attracted to a certain body type, skin tone, or other racially defined feature.
I like them young, slim and pretty; that is all.

Donovan28
09-10-2009, 02:28 PM
You talk about it like it is a bad thing. Maybe old people remember when they still had some individual freedom, before people became enslaved by left wing political correctness.

Wow, ballsy! I have to say I agree with you, slowpoke. It's not OK for one side of a disagreement to 'own the language' and have control over who is a 'bad person' because they don't subscribe to a set of beliefs foisted on them by liberals.

miabella
09-10-2009, 03:28 PM
you never hear crippled bisexual guatemalan folks complaining about 'political correctness', just people who benefit from old-style affirmative action-- white people, usually men.

they don't like that they don't get to benefit from affirmative action as much, so out comes the 'political correctness' bludgeon to dominate and derail discussion.

Earl_the_Pearl
09-10-2009, 07:32 PM
Black women do not like it when black men prefer to date white women. It is an insult to them.

I have found that WOC love to parade an old white guy with money around. Not just to friends but to family. Once one falls into the ring of fire it is all good.


Love is a burning thing
And it makes a fiery ring
Bound by wild desire
I fell into a ring of fire.

I fell into a burning ring of fire
I went down, down, down and the flames went higher
And it burns, burns, burns, the ring of fire.
The ring of fire.

miabella
09-10-2009, 08:31 PM
some black women feel that way. many don't care, but that fact spoils the myth of the raving black woman obsessed with all the good black men absconding with white women.

in dating non-rich white guys, my biggest problems in terms of looks and harrassment were white men and second white women. black people didn't care overall.

Djoser
09-11-2009, 03:55 AM
you never hear crippled bisexual guatemalan folks complaining about 'political correctness', just people who benefit from old-style affirmative action-- white people, usually men.

they don't like that they don't get to benefit from affirmative action as much, so out comes the 'political correctness' bludgeon to dominate and derail discussion.

I am sick of everyone always having to be politically correct, but could care less about affirmative action. Not that some guys don't have a problem with this, I think some do--and if I lost a job I really wanted to someone less qualified I might be pissed too--but it's never happened to me in my entire life, so I'm not concerned.

I'm just really tired of the smarmy self-righteous bullshit (not saying from you, just in general) you get so often when discussing issues honestly for a change, and not just race either, all kinds of political/sexual/social issues will bring the PC patrol on.

I think everyone has little faults somewhere in their thinking, things that bug them about certain kinds of people or behaviors (not meaning race necessarily, could be people enslaved to fads, people acting like idiots in certain situations, any number of things). Sometimes the aggressive PC stance is a hindrance to truly open communication, which is the only way people can overcome problems like this.



This comment is going to hurt but here is the truth.. I'd say about 85-90% of white strippers have had black boyfriends either currently or in the past. Why I don't know. It is one of the most unusual observations I have made about white strippers. I have some psychological theories why I think this is true but I can't get into that here.

I think some of the black strippers could back me up on this one.

Where the hell are you getting that figure? In ten years in the business I have seen a fair number of white dancers with black guys, sure--but nowhere near this high a proportion. The percentage might be slightly higher than in the 'civilian' population, but you see it a lot out there now anyway. Maybe not so much in Macon, Georgia though.

I have known many, many dancers who weren't attracted at all to black men--and quite a few in Daytona who were as racist as any white man I've ever met, especially in the biker oriented club.

It's true I have seen a lot more white woman/black man couples than the white guy with the black woman, but it does also happen that way as well. And a lot of black women do get pissed about being regarded as less attractive by black men, not that I blame them--but I haven't seen any that were raving or obsessed about it, either. Of course they might not want to discuss it with me, I don't know. :D

Like Miabella says a lot could care less, too.

Donovan28
09-21-2009, 12:25 PM
I am sick of everyone always having to be politically correct, but could care less about affirmative action. Not that some guys don't have a problem with this, I think some do--and if I lost a job I really wanted to someone less qualified I might be pissed too--but it's never happened to me in my entire life, so I'm not concerned.

I'm just really tired of the smarmy self-righteous bullshit (not saying from you, just in general) you get so often when discussing issues honestly for a change, and not just race either, all kinds of political/sexual/social issues will bring the PC patrol on.

I think everyone has little faults somewhere in their thinking, things that bug them about certain kinds of people or behaviors (not meaning race necessarily, could be people enslaved to fads, people acting like idiots in certain situations, any number of things). Sometimes the aggressive PC stance is a hindrance to truly open communication, which is the only way people can overcome problems like this.




Agreed! Watch how bad it's getting in Washington, DC right now though.

One guy (Joe Wilson) gets heated about illegal aliens taking healthcare from Americans (he was on the committee working on this part of the bill, so he knows it better than Obama does) and blurts out "You Lie" and it turns into a RACIAL thing?? WTF?

Then a couple of days later Kanye Crovisier West grabs the microphone from Taylor Swift during her acceptance speech and sparks racism from sea to shining sea?? What's up with that?

Miss L
09-21-2009, 12:55 PM
I haven't had too many specific problems with customers of different racial makeup, but I SOOOOOO grow sick of the blatant, casual racist comments I hear all the time. I'm white, but that doesn't mean you can get me alone and start complaining about "all the damn n---" or say how nice it is for me that I'm a pretty white girl. I also hear other dancers I've worked with over the years say some pretty racist redneck crap. I'm like, wow, that's offensive and ignorant, and then I'm the "pc uptight" one. Well, no, it's just that I don't like hateful speech and I'm not afraid to say so.
That said, I've been harassed a TON while traveling abroad--the worst places for that were france, ireland, and india. not so random when you consider machismo and patriarchy, but interesting--ALL men (and some women) are capable of innapropriate behavior and display it at times, not just those who are not white.

chris91
09-21-2009, 05:21 PM
Agreed! Watch how bad it's getting in Washington, DC right now though.

One guy (Joe Wilson) gets heated about illegal aliens taking healthcare from Americans (he was on the committee working on this part of the bill, so he knows it better than Obama does) and blurts out "You Lie" and it turns into a RACIAL thing?? WTF?

Then a couple of days later Kanye Crovisier West grabs the microphone from Taylor Swift during her acceptance speech and sparks racism from sea to shining sea?? What's up with that?

Somebody said that kanye was being racist? I didn't hear any of that.

J.D.
09-21-2009, 05:52 PM
Kanye has been accused of being racist through comments he has made since he became famous. But that was f*cked up what he did at the VMA's!

Elvia
09-21-2009, 05:58 PM
I haven't heard anything about racism in relation to the whole kanye/ vma's thing. Joe Wilson's been accused of racism since he argued to keep the confederate flag flying in the state capitol in 2000.

mediocrity
09-21-2009, 06:50 PM
http://www.nicolemart.com/imgs/racist.jpg

Donovan28
09-21-2009, 09:14 PM
Somebody said that kanye was being racist? I didn't hear any of that.

No, I don't think what Kanye did was racially motivated, he's just a drunk moron, regardless of his race. What turned it racist was the bloggers.

http://www.thegrio.com/2009/09/reactions-to-kanye-putting-foot-in-mouthagain.php

Actually this whole site ^^ is run by NBC Universal and it just stirs up race hatred through race baiting. People get really heated and threaten each other. (internet + anonymity makes some really tough folks!)

In my opinion, BOTH MAJOR PARTIES are trying to divide and conquer this country. If we're so busy reacting to Hollywood stories and race relations, they think they can rob us blind under cover of night.

Vote ALL of them out in 2010, I say. Congressional approval ratings have been under 20% for 2 years+ since Pelosi took over.:O

chris91
09-22-2009, 12:19 AM
No, I don't think what Kanye did was racially motivated, he's just a drunk moron, regardless of his race. What turned it racist was the bloggers.

http://www.thegrio.com/2009/09/reactions-to-kanye-putting-foot-in-mouthagain.php




I think people are too hard on kanye west. I don't like his music, but I have respect for a man who stands up against what he sees as an injustice. Even if he does do it in the stupidest way possible.

The problem I have with people who scream racism all the time, is that they draw attention away from the real issue. Like when that professor got arrested and accused the cop of being racist. If he hadn't done that, then maybe we could have talked about the fact that cops arresting a people for being sassy is an abuse of power.

BuxomBeauty
09-22-2009, 12:45 AM
If racism is to ever go away, EVERYONE has to give it up, not just 'white' people.A-fucking-men to that. I have said this for years. We will get rid of racism when EVERYONE is willing to leave it alone.

I get asked constantly "what are you", mostly by non-white people. I'm human, just like you.

kaluah21
09-24-2009, 12:27 PM
I used to prefer White and Hispanic girls,... I also prefer them petite, thin waist, big curvy boobs and curvy ass. I'm not racist, but that was just my preference.

However, a Black dancer might have changed this a bit. She sat down uninvited and chatted with me for a while. I wasn't going to buy a dance, but she was classy, a good conversationalist, had a very nice personality and was very sexy, so I couldn't resist. (She was a good hustler and proudly bragged about her hustling skills, saying she was doing better than the White girls in the club because the White girls did not hustle - It was true, they all stayed in the bar area.) She was the first Black girl I've ever kissed (lips only) and she fondled me... So, I like Black dancers now.:)


:O:O Excuse me????!!

Last i checked thats the whole streotype i die distancing myself from...Ugh. You love black girls now because the 1 Single Black Dancer you had KISSED YOU ON THE MOUTH and FONDLED UR LITTLE WHITE COCK?!?!?! ARE YOU F***ing Kidding ME???!!!! I am in no way racist. You could be purple with green eyes and were just a nice guy and we could chit chat, ya know. This comment just irked me. I am by NO means gonna KISS A CUSTOMER ON THE MOUTH! Thats just gross. It pisses me off when they try to sneak them and then wonder why they get an accidental elbow to the throat! LOL}:D. But to brag about this doesnt sit well for me. As a "classier and less desperate BLACK dancer" I dont grab cock. I dont have to. Im smart and cute and have a hot bod but im also a great dancer. Grabbing is cheating to mein this competition. Im not faulting the chick but please DON'T make it seem like thats what WE ALL do. Okay? Now i know i sound all beyotchy and whatnot but you wouldnt understand until you pride yourself on not being "one of those girls". Then have some random dude come on the board is making seem like its the reg. At the more urban clubs thats a norm, thats why I stay away from them. Just that stigma alone will keep a girl like me out of a good place because the 1 Single Black dancer they hired turned out was just trying to take all their fine white customers or whatever to the hole in the wall place down the road for a little sucky-f***y. Grinds my gears. And thats the world we live in. *End Unintentional rant*.;D Also on another note...Racism in Porn? Why is it that anytime they hire a black girl i have to be Boomquisha with nappy weave and razor bumps on some dusty old couch? Also why is it that since im blessed with a fat rump...why do you want to stick a huge cock up there for me to get work? (ok, now im really done. mods move if you like.)

oxox Kahlua

p.s. Buxom said it perfectly. And Kanye is a weakling that needed Liquid Courage to tell the world his opinion like anyone cares what he thinks. lol.

Earl_the_Pearl
09-24-2009, 03:26 PM
:O:O Excuse me????!!
FONDLED UR LITTLE WHITE COCK?!?!?!

I am by NO means gonna KISS A CUSTOMER ON THE MOUTH! Thats just gross. It pisses me off when they try to sneak them and then wonder why they get an accidental elbow to the throat! LOLfile:///C:/Users/EARLCA%7E1/AppData/Local/Temp/moz-screenshot.png}:D. But to brag about this doesnt sit well for me. As a "classier and less desperate BLACK dancer" I dont grab cock.
NO "Excuse me????!!". :irked: I have it from several reliable sources that white penis are on average the same size as any other; go to a pharmacy in Newark, New Jersey and you will see the same raito of magnum, my size, to smaller sizes as you will in Newton, New Jersey.

Every PL worth his salt knows the Brazilians are to ones to see if one wants a penis massage; they WILL want a warm passionate DFK wile doing it also. I feel so cheap and used. :-[

J.D.
09-24-2009, 05:13 PM
NO "Excuse me????!!". :irked: I have it from several reliable sources that white penis are on average the same size as any other; go to a pharmacy in Newark, New Jersey and you will see the same raito of magnum, my size, to smaller sizes as you will in Newton, New Jersey.

Every PL worth his salt knows the Brazilians are to ones to see if one wants a penis massage; they WILL want a warm passionate DFK wile doing it also. I feel so cheap and used. :-[

Comments like this are why racism still exists. Anyways, I thought I might add, an R.N. told me one time there's actually no difference between magnum and regular condoms. She said they are all made to stretch, you can even stretch one over your head if you want! She said it's a marketing thing, to inflate guys' egos. ::)

kaluah21
09-24-2009, 05:30 PM
I knew i shouldve edited that out! Sorry bout that. i didn't mean as in all white men have small penises. i meant little as in the girl that did it was a little slut.;D There are big and small in every color. *muah* kiss to make it better babe.

miabella
09-24-2009, 06:10 PM
anyone who has played the 'condom balloons' game knows they all get pretty stretchy.

(it is a game where you blow them up like balloons and see who can make the biggest one. it is tricky because they do not inflate quite as quickly as regular balloons do).

Earl_the_Pearl
09-24-2009, 06:15 PM
Comments like this are why racism still exists. Anyways, I thought I might add, an R.N. told me one time there's actually no difference between magnum and regular condoms. She said they are all made to stretch, you can even stretch one over your head if you want! She said it's a marketing thing, to inflate guys' egos. ::)



You are invited to see for yourself; regular size does stretch to accommodate the circumference but it takes a magnum to reach the testicles. Bring your RN friend as long as she is not a he; it is for scientific exploration only.

Earl_the_Pearl
09-24-2009, 06:18 PM
*muah* kiss to make it better babe.
If you work in NJ PM me; I'm an excellent driver. :wheelchai

J.D.
09-24-2009, 06:20 PM
You are invited to see for yourself; regular size does stretch to accommodate the circumference but it takes a magnum to reach the testicles. Bring your RN friend as long as she is not a he; it is for scientific exploration only.

I bet you use Gogurt tubes as condoms. ::)

Earl_the_Pearl
09-24-2009, 06:57 PM
I bet you use Gogurt tubes as condoms. ::)

http://www.yoplait.com/images/goGurt_hero.jpg

I can see this is marketed to women. ;)

justreggie
06-17-2011, 10:54 AM
I'm Black and really don't like the Rap clubs at all. Too rowdy. I'm a Yuppie-type. Huxtable-type. Haha. Some clubs cater to a certain economic class. Country place I don't care for either. Some people pass up money. If you're a white guy, a Black club isn't for you. You could get your butt kicked royally. Sad to say, but if you're a Black guy and the club is all-white, pass too. If a "redneck" club, pass. My experience is few care if you got the cash. The owner might be a bigot but 90% of the girls aren't. And, in big cities, you can call and ask. They'll tell you. Some Black strippers don't like Black guys. Haha. It's all really stupid and humorous at the same time. I'm a business (professional sales to other businesses) salesman and I don't care what they are--it's money. In clubs, I really am only interested in white women.

sparky72
06-17-2011, 12:40 PM
My own personal experience is that the black dancers are the most aggressive and slutty. I think that at least some of them are very attractive and certainly would like to have sex with them but they way they try to hustle me is such a turn off.

Time permitting I prefer a little chit chat first, maybe a drink