View Full Version : do strippers avoid couples??
lopaw
10-24-2009, 07:32 PM
The BEST female customers are the ones who were strippers, or still are. They know the deal, & hard work. 8)
Us well-heeled, well-behaved lesbians come in second! ;D
lopaw
10-24-2009, 07:43 PM
Just for the record; I have had women yell at me for approaching; for dancing; and have had my clothes and an ashtray THROWN at me by a woman.
So yes, I do think that women will react badly. Gee, I wonder where i got that idea!
I still approach if I feel comfortable; am tipped; or am asked; however. Most of those things mentioned above happened in my first three-four years of stripping.
Thanx for still approaching us gals, even after all you've been through. You're a trooper! :)
KiwiStrawberry Splenda
10-25-2009, 02:29 PM
Went to the SC last night with my partner, and the strippers definitely did NOT ignore us! }:D:P;D
pinkDOLLY
11-07-2009, 07:56 PM
I personally avoid couples. But thats because I had a bad experience one time. I was dancing for the guy as the wife was watching and I guess he touched my leg or my ass during the dance... and he wasn't supposed to. So, she walked out of the club and left him.
I don't think couples should be coming in to the club if they are not 100% secure in their relationship. I have walked by couples sitting in booths or at a table, the guy always looks inviting but the woman would give me dirty looks. I'm like hellllllo! Your at a strip club!!! If you don't like the strippers, GO HOME! and leave your man here. hahaha
yoda57us
11-08-2009, 11:05 AM
Us well-heeled, well-behaved lesbians come in second! ;D
LOL, I've taken my ATF to a few clubs and it's always a lot of fun. I'm pretty generous at the tip rail but I have learned that whatever I put up for the dancer my ATF is going to grab a few more bucks off of my wad and put it up there as well...
Fortunatly we seem to have the same taste in what constitutes "hot", "scary" and "working hard" so it's all good...
anouk.oui
11-11-2009, 08:33 PM
i dont approach couples bc its hard to tell whether the girl is open for a dance and my company but is just shy, or just tagged along to keep an eye on her man. many times i just get given that measuring look when shes trying to determine how many bjs i give ina night, if im a prostitute or would i start making out with her bf if she went to the bathroom.
my advice for couples, tip me and chat to me while im on sage, let me know where youre siting or come up to me directly after my show and reveal your intentions. its not weird if ur gf wants a dance. id rather u get to the point than make me sit there and avoid the question till i bring it up. theres no shame in treating yourself to what you like
if youre at a supermarket do u sit infront of the chocolate sand and wait for the brand that likes you best to hop i your basket?
laurcon
11-12-2009, 02:30 AM
i'm surprised that a lot of girls say they have problems with the woman being not into it enough, and looking down on them. my prob is the women at my club get way to into it! i'm sure they still look down on us because they have the money so they are in charge, and i know i do get a little rush when i go to another club with a rich guy. so yeah, i used to hear girls talk about how female customers were never wearing underwear and loose skirts, spreading their legs and i was like "whaaaa" but then i had my first and that's really all you need to never want to do it again!
Kimbre
11-25-2009, 09:19 PM
OH MY GOD, the Northern, in Fargo.
Lots of big attitudes there, but also, lots of girls around who have been working there forever. When I worked there we didn't have many female guests, but I'm not the sort to exclude a woman from asking her if she'd like to spend some time in the CR, or have a table dance.
My experience there is probably a little different than yours. However, I think for the most part, the girls there have had a lot of negative experiences approaching men who are already there in the company of other women. The women who do find their way in there either are there with friends, or for a party, or there for the steak dinner, or the pool/dart league downstairs in the Basement Bar. At least that's how it was when I worked there. I don't work there at all anymore. I can recall girls wanting to get dances from guys and freaking out if there was a woman sitting at the table. Some girls are just more reluctant to approach people because they don't want to offend or make a scene.
I don't think it's that great of a business move, personally. Over the years I've learned to approach the woman first, because the man who is accompanying her always LOVES that. I show her that I'm not there for any malicious reasons, but that I'm not avoiding her either. I think it's important to build familiarity and a brief rapport with everyone at the table, and my silliness reflects that. If you can't charm them to death, I figure, at least you can make them laugh their asses off.
And yes, some women are tough customers. That's part of the fun. I think you could sell a dance to a woman almost easier than you could to a man JUST because she's there, and she's probably very curious about how "the other half [US]" lives. I try to approach it like I'm inviting and encouraging her to get up onstage with me, or to dance with me, and see where that goes. It's almost always worked well for me. There have been women who just are too set in their ways and are not interested, but for the most part, after several drinks, and a few dances later, most of those women will want to try and take you home, lol.
GlitterBexie
12-02-2009, 11:35 AM
I was approached by a male couple (one gay, one bi, they told me) to ask if i would dance for the bisexual man while the gay man watched, course i will, but u both have to pay to go upstairs i tells them. So then i get them both having this ''well do you want to?'' ''Do YOU want to?'' ''But do you WANT to?'' conversation in front of me, i was embaressed, they they started arguing ''Well if Im not enough for you and you need to see tits them we might as well just stop now'' etc, i nearly died! ''If you want a dance, ill be around gents'' and i was off! Crikey! I wdnt mind but they approached me! It wdnt put me off dancing for couples, just ones who are are clearly having a relationship crisis!
abaddon248
12-02-2009, 11:56 AM
The two Strip clubs I have been to I have always come up to the strippers and tip and make them feel comfortable that I do like their entertainment and my boyfriend would stay in the back most of the time because for some reason he does not want it. However we went to playmates, full nude and I was beggin him to get a dance he felt so ackward! but it actually made me feel hot.
However, there was another couple there and one of dancers did dance for them and I guess the girl (the one with the guy) got upset and left because the dancer did this trick with the dollar bill basically put it on the guys mouth and she would grab it with her ass. I thought it was hysterical.
I understand why girls will not go up to couples though because it can be troublesome and its easier for that couple to come up to them and ask for the dance.
HelloJ
12-02-2009, 10:29 PM
I've gone to strip clubs many times with my SO and we never have a problem getting females coming over to say hello and strike up conversation and offer dancers. However, that could also be because we usually have a few other males in our group or because I tip the bouncers well and they go get who we like for us ;)