View Full Version : Finally gave it a try.....
skoolgirl
11-28-2009, 03:31 PM
Ladies, really. This is ridiculous at this point. Why don't you all agree to disagree?
malayataylor
11-28-2009, 05:23 PM
Well thank God for that. Better late than never. Hopefully you will get there before your man gets herpes.
I've been thinking the same thing as I've read your posts.
But you deserve respect? How low for you to say such thing. Wow! ARE YOU REALLY THAT ANGRY? This is really disturbing...Like seriously. What makes you think i am not practicing safe sex? I get a checkup every three months and i am very healthy fyi and you're telling me that my man is going to get herpes? You are clearly very immature. It's over with..let it go...i mean damn! I agree with the above poster... we can all agree to disagree. It's gotten outta hand.
Elvia
11-28-2009, 05:28 PM
Oh, I can't say it, but you can let him run that risk unknowingly? read what the others have said, herpes can easily be contracted even with condom use.
Yeah...I think I can live without your "respect."
malayataylor
11-28-2009, 05:48 PM
Oh, I can't say it, but you can let him run that risk unknowingly? read what the others have said, herpes can easily be contracted even with condom use.
Yeah...I think I can live without your "respect.
Did i say it couldn't? geez.. you need a life dude.
GREAT!
Elvia
11-28-2009, 05:49 PM
Ok, so you know and you just don't care. Gotcha.
malayataylor
11-28-2009, 05:54 PM
Ok, so you know and you just don't care. Gotcha.
I'm sure i'm the only escort that has to worry about that being a risk ::)::)::)::) and yes you know what i care about... i don't care about this anymore... lol!
babybambi08
12-01-2009, 12:52 AM
http://i122.photobucket.com/albums/o244/inourcancer/Cartman.jpg
wow, get a life?/ seriously is sad
pixiepower329
12-01-2009, 11:58 AM
Here is the bottom line: Do I agree with her not telling her SO? No, but that is her decision and not anyone elses. There are many, MANY girls out there that keep a hidden life when it comes to the escort industry. Often it ends badly. But ultimately, it is each individuals decision as to how to live their life. May not make it fair to the unknowing SO, but those are the choices made in life sometimes.
lilmisssunshine
12-01-2009, 12:16 PM
Malaya your such a joke. You started this thread and now your just gonna insult everyone who tries to respond in here. We all get to say whatever we want in in this forum as well. If you don't like GTFO! This IS a forum for support. You are the one who has turned this into nothing but insults and attacks.
Babybambi, stop being Malaya's puppet and get an opinion of your own. Can you think for yourself? I am starting to think Malaya has two accounts.
Yes you two are ghetto.
lilmisssunshine
12-01-2009, 12:17 PM
This whole thread is just a joke now.
malayataylor
12-01-2009, 01:01 PM
Malaya your such a joke. You started this thread and now your just gonna insult everyone who tries to respond in here. We all get to say whatever we want in in this forum as well. If you don't like GTFO! This IS a forum for support. You are the one who has turned this into nothing but insults and attacks.
Babybambi, stop being Malaya's puppet and get an opinion of your own. Can you think for yourself? I am starting to think Malaya has two accounts.
Yes you two are ghetto.
Who cares!!! I stopped responding days ago and my name keeps coming out of your mouth? I DO NOT CARE OK! aND
[email protected] me having two accounts..Dammit you must have ALOT of time on your hands...I don't. I mean seriously stop. Do you get paid for posting on sw? I sure don't but i'm starting to think YOU do. you said "this whole thread is a joke" I'm glad we can agree on SOMETHING. YOu want to keep arguing with me and fussing at babybambi for no reason...It's so immature...grow up..I just had to respond to me having two accounts thing..it's soo stupid.
and at Babybambi thinking for herself: She is thinking for herself..i mean she feels the same way i do ..Period. Geeeeeeeez I never asked anyone to agree with me...
sorry i have an overnight appointment to prepare for.
lilmisssunshine
12-01-2009, 01:33 PM
Ummm your the one who keeps responding to me and posting here constantly. It's a public forum, anyone gets to post here. You don't get to tell me when to stop. Like I said, if you don't like it GTFO.
Babybambi called me bitch. I have reason to fuss at her. That's between me and her.
So did you, just because I merely called you out for insulting another member. That's what's immature. You never asked anyone to agree with you but you sure don't mind insulting anyone who doesn't.
You need to grow up.
lilmisssunshine
12-01-2009, 01:35 PM
Sorry I have an overnight appointment to prepare for? Like we all don't have businesses to run.
KhymDanyels
12-01-2009, 06:23 PM
Wow. I have been reading this thread for over an hour....and it is simply amazing.
This is my take on it, as I have been an escort for a number of years...and this is not meant as an attack on anyone, please do not take it that way. But this thread has gotten waaayy off track..and this is supposed to be a support thread, correct? So..let's all be supportive.
Being an escort, in itself, automatically puts you at risk. Sure, you may get your checkups, like I do, everything is covered, you only see select men..but you are still putting yourself at risk. maybe not an urgent medical risk..but you put your mental stability, your physical being...all of it is at risk. You do not "know" who you are seeing. Even if they provide proof of recent bloodwork..we all know that can be photoshopped and faked.
The best practice, I have found, is to employ every safe tactic out there and just avoid relationships. In my personal opinion...i do not believe it is fair, nor wise, to jeopardize the safety of someone I care about. I just can not do that. And yes..I am a silly chit because I am honest and upfront.
My main concern right now is to pay my bills and bank the rest. i know i will not be doing this forever....and i do have an "exit" plan. I think everyone should..kind of like a plan B, C and D, right?
Yes, being an independent does mean you are alone most of the time...but I have found valuable information from positive interaction with others. I had to learn the hard way..never burn bridges, for you never know when you may need to cross it. Sure, when I first started out, no one helped me. I figured out how to post ads, word the ads, screen, where to have incall....i figured it out on my own. I would have been grateful if someone had helped me out along the way. Do I have a chip on my shoulder because of this? Not at all...and if i can help out a fledgling, I do so. If someone has advice for me..I take it with a grain of salt. I still listen to it, consider it....and do what i will with the information that has been imparted to me.
name calling and the like only creates drama..and in the escort business..the true successes have worked hard...and "networked"...they have made and kept any kind of contacts that will help them out. Word will get out fast if you are a drama queen...and your business will suffer...or, you will attract the kind of client you do not want to see. So, just be very careful who you piss off...or on. You never ever know who that person knows..if could be someone who could help you out of a bind one day.
Thats all i have to say. Egos are to saved for the HDH's...those who can break a wallet in one session. That is not me yet....but I am working on it.
This business is all about networking..remember that.
camille27
12-01-2009, 10:20 PM
damn, this thread was all kinds of hilarious :rotfl:
babybambi08
12-04-2009, 03:52 PM
Malaya your such a joke. You started this thread and now your just gonna insult everyone who tries to respond in here. We all get to say whatever we want in in this forum as well. If you don't like GTFO! This IS a forum for support. You are the one who has turned this into nothing but insults and attacks.
Babybambi, stop being Malaya's puppet and get an opinion of your own. Can you think for yourself? I am starting to think Malaya has two accounts.
Yes you two are ghetto.
UMM excuse me, we are friends and our opinions happen to be the same..
:'( its so sad that you are so involved with a web board and me and malays life (kinda feels like that time a had that creepy secret cusher) , its our lives and we will live it the way we want. Great have an opinion :D but dont tell us what we should and shouldnt do, Im pretty sure everone is grown here.. well for the most part.
we dont want to tell the guys we call our bfs or whatever. We practice safe sex, anyone who has sex can get anything thats just the bottom line.
I happen to be single, I have a man that I hang out with at home but we are not in a commited relationship and I dont plan on it anytime soon.
I don't think malaya relationship is heading straight for marriage right not, maybe in the future but as long as they are just bf/gf I dont thinks she has to tell him anything. Yes if they were to get married I would consider tell him or quitting. I have two thoughts on marriage. first I think its special and sweet and all that jazz. But then I also think of how many people turn on each other.. I have a friend who has been married for 30 years and she has breast cancer and her husband left her cause he cant deal with it.. :O
All in all its our lives we are not tryn to tell you how to live your sad lives, dont tell us
malayataylor
12-04-2009, 04:37 PM
UMM excuse me, we are friends and our opinions happen to be the same..
:'( its so sad that you are so involved with a web board and me and malays life (kinda feels like that time a had that creepy secret cusher) , its our lives and we will live it the way we want. Great have an opinion :D but dont tell us what we should and shouldnt do, Im pretty sure everone is grown here.. well for the most part.
we dont want to tell the guys we call our bfs or whatever. We practice safe sex, anyone who has sex can get anything thats just the bottom line.
I happen to be single, I have a man that I hang out with at home but we are not in a commited relationship and I dont plan on it anytime soon.
I don't think malaya relationship is heading straight for marriage right not, maybe in the future but as long as they are just bf/gf I dont thinks she has to tell him anything. Yes if they were to get married I would consider tell him or quitting. I have two thoughts on marriage. first I think its special and sweet and all that jazz. But then I also think of how many people turn on each other.. I have a friend who has been married for 30 years and she has breast cancer and her husband left her cause he cant deal with it.. :O
All in all its our lives we are not tryn to tell you how to live your sad lives, dont tell us
Amen! Ooh everyone's different. They don't have to agree with us. I'm going to keep doing my thing. I'm not worried about what everyone else is doing just ME ME ME lol.. and I would comment on one of the above posts but that'll just fuel more craziness...
...when are you flying back out? Are you working i sent you a text earlier today....text me when you're free.
bustybabe312
12-05-2009, 02:10 AM
there are other ways to express yourself than sounding stupid and plain ignorant or should i say "ignant". Who cares about the "number" ...do you know how much escorts (like myself) make? I've been a dancer...uhh hated it! (no offense to the dancers out there) i love escorting! And i hope the "number" doubles next month.. Like seriously lol!! And for those that think escorting messes up your body...think again my body is perfect and my skin is great...just fyi ...
Thanks for explaining this sweetie. I've said this many times and i'll say it again "escorting is not for everyone". ..just like camming and dancing is not for everyone...you have to find what you're good at and what you love doing and stick to it ...have you ever heard the saying "do what you love and you'll never have to work a day in your life"...that's how i feel...
Ppl don't think about it ok ... Say your rate is $300 an hour ... Working just 5 days a week ..and seeing 2 clients a day that's $600 a day and 3k for those 5 days.... In a month that's 12k. Just seeing 2 ppl a day not including weekends... Ha! Uhh i say more men please! Haha!!
i say get that money!!! Hell, let me see 5-10 clients a day!!!!
malayataylor
12-05-2009, 06:40 AM
i say get that money!!! Hell, let me see 5-10 clients a day!!!!
I know right? lol :)
Kylea2
12-05-2009, 09:51 AM
i say get that money!!! Hell, let me see 5-10 clients a day!!!!
... supply and demand.
lilmisssunshine
12-05-2009, 12:25 PM
Arrgh! Babybambi can't you read! I never post anything about Malaya's relationship! NEVER! Cuz I don't care! I only post legal advice, which I removed. This is the second time I told you this. I NEVER POSTED ANYTHING ABOUT MALAYA'S RELATIONSHIP. I don't like her attacking people. That is what I don't like. I don't like being attacked for pointing it out either. God, y'all are so freaking dense!
And y'all post here more than I do. Malaya posts here WAY more than I do. Don't make me get a post count out on this thread. So stop the cheap insults about how I am so involved with the board or Malaya. Lots of us post on this board alot. It's a place for girls in the business to post with other girls in the business. Why do you post here?
And I don't give a shit about Malaya's life. I never had anything to say about it. Again, for the umpteenth time, I am sick of both of your insults to people on this board. But apparently, you both feel it's ok to disrespect people anytime you want.
So here it goes, I will now make the first comment about your personal lives. Neither of you can show any respect for those in your personal lives, I don't know why I even bother trying to point out the total disrespect you have for those that post on an open public forum who were trying to help you. Maybe you didn't care for my advice or others advice, but there are other people who read these threads who might.
So I already understand that no one here needs help, advice or input. I get it that in your minds I am nothing more than an obsessed, washed out, old bitch. I understand that you two get to insult others at will for simply posting here. That is what makes you ghetto.
malayataylor
12-05-2009, 01:06 PM
[/quote]Neither of you can show any respect for those in your personal lives, I don't know why I even bother trying to point out the total disrespect you have for those that post on an open public forum who were trying to help you. Maybe you didn't care for my advice or others advice, but there are other people who read these threads who might.
So I already understand that no one here needs help, advice or input. I get it that in your minds I am nothing more than an obsessed, washed out, old bitch. I understand that you two get to insult others at will for simply posting here. That is what makes you ghetto.[/quote]
bla bla bla bla bla bla bla
I sure as hell don't recall asking for help with my relationship...Ooh this is just like the dancers at my old club that tried to intervene in other girl's relationships ...it never ended well with those chicks.
LOL! You're talking to bambi and still talking about me... HA! gEEZ you must find me FASCINATING .. I understand I find ME fascinating too. I'm so flattered! I already said i could careless about the mess on this board but I guess You're just some "obsessed, washed out, old bitch" that just can't let shit go. You keep making it seem like i was just insulting people to insult em. I was attacked for my decision for the millionth time (and you called bambi "dense" ha!) and then i started insulting people.. was it cool? NO...but i had good reason and i sure as heX don't regret it. You can think what you want to THINK about my personal life....no one's PAYING you to THINK darling. Hell if insulting ppl on this board makes me ghetto then i'll wear it... I'LL BE GHETTO THEN....sheesh! Your lil words don't bother me. I just think it's funny how you keep talking about me and your beef is with bambi. I didn't even respond to your last post because it's so stupid. I thought you'd quit and focus and bambi but dammn you keep TALKING ABOUT ME...shiiiiiiit! Leave bambi alone she means no harm..damn.
And the funny thing is the insults STOPPED and you keep talking about it. Dammn YOU really don't have anything better to do hahaha and I bet you WILL count all my postS on the thread... Ooh i'm sure you counted ..how many posts have i made on this thread? Hmmm :) ... Shiiit and you say i post here more than you do? Sooo what? I'm a frikking escort dammnit I'm on my laptop half of the time .. I can post here IF I WANT TO DARNIT and if YOU don't like it "GTFO"!
lilmisssunshine
12-05-2009, 01:18 PM
I never offered help with your relationship. I don't care about your relationship. You can't read.
You are still insulting and never stopped. You are the only one who attacks people Malaya.
Not fascinating. Ghetto.
And you can't stop posting after me either. Maybe you are fascinated.
You are an escort who has nothing to do but sit on your laptop half the time. Point taken.
Funny I am the one who told you that if you don't like it, GTFO? But you still respond as rudely as possibly to every post.
This last post really is a prime example of your state of mind.
You think I am stupid but you are the one who can't stop insulting. At least now you admit you started insulting people.
lilmisssunshine
12-05-2009, 01:24 PM
Why do you have so much hate and ugliness inside?
malayataylor
12-05-2009, 01:37 PM
I never offered help with your relationship. I don't care about your relationship. You can't read.
You are still insulting and never stopped. You are the only one who attacks people Malaya.
Not fascinating. Ghetto.
And you can't stop posting after me either. Maybe you are fascinated.
You are an escort who has nothing to do but sit on your laptop half the time. Point taken.
Funny I am the one who told you that if you don't like it, GTFO? But you still respond as rudely as possibly to every post.
This last post really is a prime example of your state of mind.
You think I am stupid but you are the one who can't stop insulting. At least now you admit you started insulting people.
Damn You Are obsessive..VERY VERY VERY. If you POST ABOUT me, I will respond... I'm not just going to sit there while LILMISSSUNSHINE posts her lil negative thoughts about me. You are soo funny. Yes I can read and you NEVER posted anything about my relationship until your post before this one. Girl GET A FRIKKING LIFE. LOL @ me having nothing to do but sit by my laptop all the time? I take this as a compliment. I had a overnight appointment last week and banked. i don't have to work for the rest of the MONTH if i don't want to ...ooh but i sure did work yesterday and BANKED...what did YOU do? Like i said ..NO ONE'S Paying YOU to think ...SO who cares what YOU think!
You'VE BEEN INSULTING ME. YOU NEED HELP! go and seek help LITTLE MISS SUNSHINE PLEASE! I didn't have a problem with you.... You posted that i was insulting people on the board and I apologized to kylea because I DID INSULT HER AND I SAID I WAS SORRY..what is your deal ..WHY ARE YOU SO "FULL OF HATE AND UGLINESS inside" WHY?? why don't you just chill? Why do you have to be soo fascinated with me that you just can't agree to disagree?
I couldn't be fascinated with someone like you. You are just NOT right. You've gone way too far with this mami. You need HELP ASAP...A FUCKING SAP chica. I told you I will wear "GHETTO"::). I live in the best part of town, Have a bad ass condo, drive a bad ass car.. all with NOT EVEN escorting but camming money. come and check it out ..You'd have to seek a second opinion mami but LIKE I SAID ... i'll be "ghetto" for "insulting people" on stripperweb.
Why do you have so much hate and ugliness inside?
:OYOU ARE CRAZYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
again..
You are CRAZYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY hate and ugliness????????READ YOUR POSTS...you are clearly deranged!
Elvia
12-05-2009, 01:43 PM
Damn You Are obsessive..VERY VERY VERY.
LOL! That is hilarious, coming from the woman who's said she's "done!" half a dozen times now.
malayataylor
12-05-2009, 01:47 PM
LOL! That is hilarious, coming from the woman who's said she's "done!" half a dozen times now.
Yup ...done with the "boyfriend" subject. That's what i meant Elvia and I am done with the boyfriend subject. She's talking about me insulting people.. She never mentioned anything about my boyfriend...Guess i didn't make myself clear in the previous posts.::)
lilmisssunshine
12-05-2009, 01:47 PM
Because you are still insulting, Malaya.
You apologized to Kylea, what about everyone else?
Elvia
12-05-2009, 01:49 PM
^^^ the point is hunny, you're as involved in this discussion as anyone else. You don't get to call other people obsessive for continuing with the discussion while you do the same thing.
lilmisssunshine
12-05-2009, 01:49 PM
BTW, I have a car, condo and all the above. I don't have to work either. So what? There are many on this board who are financially well off. They don't go round insulting people with their free time.
lilmisssunshine
12-05-2009, 01:51 PM
Deranged? Read your own posts.
*SIGH* another insult...
malayataylor
12-05-2009, 02:00 PM
Because you are still insulting, Malaya.
You apologized to Kylea, what about everyone else?
Well she deserved an apology. I guess you're trying to say you never insulted me. You continue to attack me even when i don't respond to your posts...is that fair? If you notice there are some people who have replied to this thread trying to pick a fight with me and i just ignore them ..why? because it's useless. Everyone has the right to their own opinion. Yes i called you deranged..Hate and ugliness? I'm one of the most loving people you'd ever come across. Sorry this board escalated into such a mess. I admit when I am wrong. Why don't you? Why don't you tell me why you keep going on and on? You've called me every name in the book. I didn't complain. I understand this is the internet. If you were here i'd have to really have to SHOW MY COLOR...but you're not... So i guess i'll be the bigger person and say sorry miss sunshine.
Deranged? Read your own posts.
*SIGH* another insult...
*SIGH* sorry
taylormadison
12-05-2009, 02:03 PM
Where are the Mods?
Golden_Rule
12-05-2009, 03:38 PM
If you live in the US you have the problem of dealing with the current social norms of this society. They are, for the most part, not particularly friendly to open minded ideas of adults sharing themselves outside of monogamous unions between two people of opposite sexes. Other places have different values but one has to remember that in a society that prints "In God We Trust" on something as important as its money you are going to be bumping heads with folks who hold some pretty strong opinions about selling sex for money.
Don't fret though. Just be thankful you aren't a man on this board that admits to partaking in the purchasing of sex. You get beat up pretty badly.
Malaya, et al, I've seen you've met some of our resident moral crusaders. God bless their endeavors. They go about the board from place to place making sure everyone knows precisely what they think about what you are doing. Deal with it, don't deal with it, the end result is they don't like you even though they don't know you. It is what it is.
Just remember that if you are going to escort for a living there are two kinds of people when they come out the other end of it. Its not about taking a knick or two along the way. Everyone does. It has its costs and everyone pays them.
The question becomes how much did you have to pay [emotionally, physically] and how much you profited from it.
The smart Ladies get in it having a game plan and a time frame. They achieve their goals [get an education, start a business, etc] and get out. It is a business and you have to run it like one.
The ones who don't fare as well stay too long, increase the risk of potential damage done, spend their money foolishly because they presume there will always be more to make. They fall into decline, their price drops, and they aren't making what they use to but can't get out because they haven't saved the coin or acquired the tools to establish themselves in something else.
Look about and you'll see them. Learn from their errors. Set your limits. Enforce them with your customers, BUT even more importantly enforce them on yourself. Keep to your plan and when you have achieved your goals avoid the temptation to stick around a bit longer to make a few more $$$.
Most importantly, KEEP YOUR MONEY. Unless someone is providing you a real service, like a good agency should, ALL the money you make should go in your pocket to YOUR ends and goals.
I wish you all well [even the keepers of the social norms] and hope you all stay safe and find much success.
malayataylor
12-05-2009, 04:23 PM
^ I love this. beautiful. Thank you!
Elvia
12-05-2009, 04:27 PM
Don't fret though. Just be thankful you aren't a man on this board that admits to partaking in the purchasing of sex. You get beat up pretty badly.
Not so. Most of the women on this board have made it clear they have no problem with prostitution. When it comes to prostitution in the club, yes, that bothers us for obvious reasons. Endangering your partner without their knowledge? Also not going to go over well.
malayataylor
12-05-2009, 04:47 PM
Not so. Most of the women on this board have made it clear they have no problem with prostitution.
Mmmhmm and damn proud of it :).
Endangering your partner without their knowledge? Also not going to go over well
And he's YOUR partner right? YOU are sleeping with him right? As they would say in my country Onye arala afo tabukwe gi. Thuda babukwe gi afanu. Obviously you did NOT read the previous posts.
Elvia
12-05-2009, 04:54 PM
So because he's your partner, that gives you the right to mistreat and endanger them? What previous posts are you referring to?
It was my understanding that you didn't want to continue talking about this, but if you've changed your mind on that once again we can certainly continue...
Golden_Rule
12-05-2009, 05:02 PM
Not so. Most of the women on this board have made it clear they have no problem with prostitution. When it comes to prostitution in the club, yes, that bothers us for obvious reasons. Endangering your partner without their knowledge? Also not going to go over well.
What you don't realize, and I can't explain to you no matter how many times I have tried, is that in this country the number or woman who would be understanding about such things is incredibly small [much better chance in Europe - particularly France or Italy where society is more more tolerant of such things, at least as done by men [not saying that is right, but its a start].
So since the number of partners of either sex willing to be tolerant of their mates seeing professional sex providers for non-emotionally involved , no threat to their relationship like an affair would be, sex is so small the choice if one has a partner in this country and sees providers is to LIE ABOUT IT. So if you want to have a relationship, which isn't what providers do, then you lie about seeing providers for what they do, which in a lot of cases is keep relationships from going south from lack of sexual attention being paid [sometime for legit reasons like illness, etc] to them by their S.O.
If that changes than perhaps men and women trying to address issues of lack of sex in their marriages, or other issues, will feel freer to be forth-coming.
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Here is one for you El.
Would you tell a man with a wife who is fighting a long battle with cancer, who finds the last thing on her mind being having sex of any sort, that he is wrong to see a provider?
Would you insist that in order for him to be honest with himself and his mate that he tell his wife and ask her consent thus dumping that decision on her at a time she is ill prepared to deal with it?
Just asking.
Elvia
12-05-2009, 05:06 PM
Sorry, I really don't think that justifies it.
You know, just because people don't agree with doesn't mean they don't understand what you're saying.
malayataylor
12-05-2009, 05:08 PM
So because he's your partner, that gives you the right to mistreat and endanger them? What previous posts are you referring to?
It was my understanding that you didn't want to continue talking about this, but if you've changed your mind on that once again we can certainly continue...
Dude what is your problem? WHY CAN'T YOU READ DAMN?! Ok this is ridiculous
Kylea2, thank you. Golden Rule, thank you. Clare, Thank you Your posts were brilliant. Sorry for all the insults and the immaturity and the disaster this thread turned out to be.
Ms. Elvia, Continue what? lol.. I have addressed the issue already. You're being immature because you keep bringing it up. Any posts directed towards me or any pms i receive I will answer. HELL I DON'T EVEN CARE IF YOU BRING IT UP...EVERYTIME YOU DO YOU'LL GET A SMART ASS RESPONSE FROM ME. I will NOT let anyone on Stripperweb bad mouth me and go free, I will respond. Last time i checked it was a free country.. So what if i change my mind about ANYTHING? WHO ARE YOU? WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ABOUT IT? Are you going to FIND him and tell him? PLEASE DO shiiiiit! All you want to do is start something. This must be some form of entertainment for you. Yes this is an open forum but please stop "picking" at a situation that has nothing to do with YOU. You ARE so worried about my life. You are soo worried about the guy... and the situation but you didn't even read the previous posts about it... geez!
bustybabe312
12-05-2009, 05:08 PM
Damn You Are obsessive..VERY VERY VERY. If you POST ABOUT me, I will respond... I'm not just going to sit there while LILMISSSUNSHINE posts her lil negative thoughts about me. You are soo funny. Yes I can read and you NEVER posted anything about my relationship until your post before this one. Girl GET A FRIKKING LIFE. LOL @ me having nothing to do but sit by my laptop all the time? I take this as a compliment. I had a overnight appointment last week and banked. i don't have to work for the rest of the MONTH if i don't want to ...ooh but i sure did work yesterday and BANKED...what did YOU do? Like i said ..NO ONE'S Paying YOU to think ...SO who cares what YOU think!
You'VE BEEN INSULTING ME. YOU NEED HELP! go and seek help LITTLE MISS SUNSHINE PLEASE! I didn't have a problem with you.... You posted that i was insulting people on the board and I apologized to kylea because I DID INSULT HER AND I SAID I WAS SORRY..what is your deal ..WHY ARE YOU SO "FULL OF HATE AND UGLINESS inside" WHY?? why don't you just chill? Why do you have to be soo fascinated with me that you just can't agree to disagree?
I couldn't be fascinated with someone like you. You are just NOT right. You've gone way too far with this mami. You need HELP ASAP...A FUCKING SAP chica. I told you I will wear "GHETTO"::). I live in the best part of town, Have a bad ass condo, drive a bad ass car.. all with NOT EVEN escorting but camming money. come and check it out ..You'd have to seek a second opinion mami but LIKE I SAID ... i'll be "ghetto" for "insulting people" on stripperweb.
:OYOU ARE CRAZYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
again..
You are CRAZYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY hate and ugliness????????READ YOUR POSTS...you are clearly deranged!
condo, bad ass car, good neighborhood, just from camming???? well shit bitch, lemme come kick it witchu for a while!! lololol, how do you like that typing?
here i go again-----i wanna get wit yer agency! but for real, i do. this bodyrub thingy isn't quite cutting it for me. i need 3k or better a week too.
Elvia
12-05-2009, 05:12 PM
Dude what is your problem? WHY CAN'T YOU READ DAMN?! Ok this is ridiculous
Kylea2, thank you. Golden Rule, thank you. Clare, Thank you Your posts were brilliant. Sorry for all the insults and the immaturity and the disaster this thread turned out to be.
Ms. Elvia, Continue what? lol.. I have addressed the issue already. You're being immature because you keep bringing it up. Any posts directed towards me or any pms i receive I will answer. HELL I DON'T EVEN CARE IF YOU BRING IT UP...EVERYTIME YOU DO YOU'LL GET A SMART ASS RESPONSE FROM ME. I will NOT let anyone on Stripperweb bad mouth me and go free, I will respond. Last time i checked it was a free country.. So what if i change my mind about ANYTHING? WHO ARE YOU? WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ABOUT IT? Are you going to FIND him and tell him? PLEASE DO shiiiiit! All you want to do is start something. This must be some form of entertainment for you. Yes this is an open forum but please stop "picking" at a situation that has nothing to do with YOU. You ARE so worried about my life. You are soo worried about the guy... and the situation but you didn't even read the previous posts about it... geez!
Actually, Gr brought it up again and I responded to him.
That's fine, you can respond to whatever you want. Just understand that that, in turn, might keep the conversation going. You're not guaranteed the last word, and just as you don't want to stop, that doesn't mean anyone else has to either.
Elvia
12-05-2009, 05:17 PM
Here is one for you El.
Would you tell a man with a wife who is fighting a long battle with cancer, who finds the last thing on her mind being having sex of any sort, that he is wrong to see a provider?
Would you insist that in order for him to be honest with himself and his mate that he tell his wife and ask her consent thus dumping that decision on her at a time she is ill prepared to deal with it?
Just asking.
I would say he needs to suck it up and deal with it. Meaning, refrain from having sex with hookers, or anyone else for that matter. But no, I don't think that scenario gives him license to cheat on his wife. The fact that she's going through such a difficult thing makes the fact that he would cheat worse, not better.
malayataylor
12-05-2009, 05:17 PM
condo, bad ass car, good neighborhood, just from camming???? well shit bitch, lemme come kick it witchu for a while!! lololol, how do you like that typing?
here i go again-----i wanna get wit yer agency! but for real, i do. this bodyrub thingy isn't quite cutting it for me. i need 3k or better a week too.
If you knew my history before camming... You'd kno.. with camming it was do or die for me. Something had to give. A select few know what i'm talking about.. I refuse to discuss it so publically.. but LMFAO @ how do you like that typing? LOVE IT ..hahaha!
Ewwww YOU want to get with my old agency? They're so full of shit.. i mean you might like it but hey pm me and i'll shoot your their website and more info about how to not get fucked over by them. 3k or better? WHAT you do with your money?!?! LOL!! Shopping eh? I have a slight addiction too but it's not that bad..
but to elaborate on my condo.. It's not mine as of yet..have you heard of lease/purchase option? That's what it is. I cammed my little heart out and it's funny when you first start camming you really get addicted to checking your stats every minute(well i did) you just want to see the money get higher and higher in real time and that's what motivated me on imlive. I also did niteflirt.. ooh did i bank! And did my thing with malayataylor.com but that's all over with now.. I'll be getting back into camming though..escorting is stressful.
Golden_Rule
12-05-2009, 05:26 PM
Sorry, I really don't think that justifies it.
You know, just because people don't agree with doesn't mean they don't understand what you're saying.
When what you write suggests it understand what I wrote, by addressing the points I made and not taking off in other directions that have nothing to do with what I wrote, yes I do.
And what part of the multiple times I have said that you are certainly initialed to your opinion but that doesn't mean you have a right [not the same thing as the ability] to judge others with that opinion don't you understand?
What part of it is hypocritical to be a sex worker judging other sex workers just because they don't do the same kind of sex work you do?
What part of just because you do things differently then others but society would paint you with the same brush because to them we are ALL dirty and disgusting because sex is somehow involved don't you understand?
What part of you are purchasing into the same kind of judgment scenario that justifies others in how they judge you because you work in a strip-club?
What part of your glass house isn't better than my glass house just because you think it is?
I could go on... but we are worlds apart on these kind of issues.
malayataylor
12-05-2009, 05:28 PM
Actually, Gr brought it up again and I responded to him.
That's fine, you can respond to whatever you want. Just understand that that, in turn, might keep the conversation going. You're not guaranteed the last word, and just as you don't want to stop, that doesn't mean anyone else has to either.
Ooh Gr is a guy ... makes sense now. Hm very impressive.
...just like you said, Just because we don't agree dosen't mean I don't understand what you are saying. I understand perfectly.. but what I want you to understand that in this world you're going to find people that don't feel the same way you do and and it's ok. Elvia, I've seen your other posts and you are a very intellectual woman I'm sure I can learn alot from you. I never said you were wrong in anyway. We just don't agree.
malayataylor
12-05-2009, 05:29 PM
When what you write suggests it understand what I wrote, by addressing the points I made and not taking off in other directions that have nothing to do with what I wrote, yes I do.
And what part of the multiple times I have said that you are certainly initialed to your opinion but that doesn't mean you have a right [not the same thing as the ability] to judge others with that opinion don't you understand?
What part of it is hypocritical to be a sex worker judging other sex workers just because they don't do the same kind of sex work you do?
What part of just because you do things differently then others but society would paint you with the same brush because to them we are ALL dirty and disgusting because sex is somehow involved don't you understand?
What part of you are purchasing into the same kind of judgment scenario that justifies others in how they judge you because you work in a strip-club?
What part of your glass house isn't better than my glass house just because you think it is?
I could go on... but we are worlds apart on these kind of issues.
Where the heck have you been all this while? Wow. Very well said.
Golden_Rule
12-05-2009, 05:33 PM
I would say he needs to suck it up and deal with it. Meaning, refrain from having sex with hookers, or anyone else for that matter. But no, I don't think that scenario gives him license to cheat on his wife. The fact that she's going through such a difficult thing makes the fact that he would cheat worse, not better.
And his pain, which having a little non-emotional sex as a tonic to take him away from himself and his problems [remember, men use sex as an escape - it is specifically how we are wired], that's not an issue. He should just "suck it up" as you say.
Why am I not surprised you'd feel that way. :)
Elvia
12-05-2009, 05:35 PM
When what you write suggests it understand what I wrote, by addressing the points I made and not taking off in other directions that have nothing to do with what I wrote, yes I do.
And what part of the multiple times I have said that you are certainly initialed to your opinion but that doesn't mean you have a right [not the same thing as the ability] to judge others with that opinion don't you understand?
I understand what you're saying. I Just don't agree.
What part of it is hypocritical to be a sex worker judging other sex workers just because they don't do the same kind of sex work you do?
I don't judge her for being a prostitute. I judge her for keeping it from her partner, who has a right to know. I would say the same thing to a dancer.
What part of just because you do things differently then others but society would paint you with the same brush because to them we are ALL dirty and disgusting because sex is somehow involved don't you understand?
What part of you are purchasing into the same kind of judgment scenario that justifies others in how they judge you because you work in a strip-club?
Yup. I heard you. Just don't think it's relevant.
What part of your glass house isn't better than my glass house just because you think it is?
My "taboo" breaking doesn't hurt or betray anyone. cheating does.
I could go on... but we are worlds apart on these kind of issues.
My responses in bold.