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chris91
10-10-2009, 12:45 AM
may i suggest a more dynamic and powerful medium?




thank you. I will use that link next time.

yoda57us
10-10-2009, 02:57 PM
If a "reg" lost his job and could not tip you except for a few dollars how long would you keep him as a reg? What if he promised he would make it up to you as soon as he got a new job?

Last December a few days before Christmas my ATF asked me to go see her at work during the club's holiday party. My wife and I had just split up and moving expenses combined with it being my slow season meant that I was pretty much broke. I told her I couldn't make it because I had no LD funding but she insisted that I come out anyway to enjoy the buffet and keep her company during what, to her, was a different shift than she was used to working. We had a great time. I didn't get any dances that day but she was just as nice to me as she always has been both in the club and when we meet for an occasional lunch or dinner date.

I'm honestly not sure if you are kidding half the time or just a bitter pathetic sex fiend Earl but you have a knack for taking a POV that flies in the face of reality. Dancers have no trouble distinguishing customers from time-wasters and nice guys from A-holes. Why is it so difficult for you to grasp this fact?

Earl_the_Pearl
10-10-2009, 05:12 PM
Dancers have no trouble distinguishing customers from time-wasters and nice guys from A-holes. Why is it so difficult for you to grasp this fact?
Because dancers are not all the same some will pick your pocket and some will tell you you just dropped $10 on the floor. Why is it so difficult for you to grasp this fact?

Golden_Rule
10-11-2009, 01:43 AM
Why do so many people have to make adult entertainment so complicated?

Go in, have a drink,chat a bit, have some dances, go home.

Repeat as needed.

You see, with my long posts I'm really talking about the same thing here.

Its just that my contention is that leaving the desire to double deal, on the part of management, dancers and customers, outside the door of the club and just relax and enjoy does precisely that. Makes everything easier.

I truly think S-C's can be just cool adult fun and everyone can come out a winner.

People, being people I suppose, looking to make it more than that by seeking where the can take advantage of others [on all sides of this equation] make it complicated because now everyone has to keep a look out not to get their ass. wallet, head, what-have-you caught in a vise.

Things can never be simple or uncomplicated in arenas where keeping your guard up is a rudimentary requirement.

Anyway...:)

yoda57us
10-11-2009, 08:17 AM
Because dancers are not all the same some will pick your pocket and some will tell you you just dropped $10 on the floor. Why is it so difficult for you to grasp this fact?

Um...yes, there are some bad people in the world. Some of them are dancers. That has nothing to do with what we are talking about here Earl.

JayATee
10-11-2009, 12:12 PM
Um...yes, there are some bad people in the world. Some of them are dancers. That has nothing to do with what we are talking about here Earl.

Youre wasting your breath Yoda...

yoda57us
10-11-2009, 03:17 PM
Youre wasting your breath Yoda...

Nah, I'm entertaining myself by cyber-jousting. I know I will never change Earl's mind but that's not what I'm here for...

xdamage
10-11-2009, 04:18 PM
Yep, there are dishonest people in every area of life. Maybe it seems worse when an attractive woman is dishonest but it is really no different (and arguably less severe) then say, a higher earning white collar criminal. But if I really believed every dancer was fundamental dishonest I'd never go back to a SC again. In my experience though the vast majority deal fair and square.

Golden_Rule
10-11-2009, 09:14 PM
Yep, there are dishonest people in every area of life. Maybe it seems worse when an attractive woman is dishonest but it is really no different (and arguably less severe) then say, a higher earning white collar criminal. But if I really believed every dancer was fundamental dishonest I'd never go back to a SC again. In my experience though the vast majority deal fair and square.

Agreed, but in the work place I am being paid to be on guard. BTW, I think it is the small minority of dancers, obviously, and not every dancer trying to make a living.

At the strip-club it would be nice if one could relax. That's the purpose isn't it?

Stripper Hacks
10-11-2009, 11:39 PM
Totally different. A rare breed even. I wont' say that guys aren't guys. I will say it takes a certain type of guy to be a regular to a strip club.

Shy_Guy
10-12-2009, 10:20 AM
^ wow, someone actually answered the question.

Care to expand what you mean?

JayATee
10-12-2009, 03:11 PM
^ wow, someone actually answered the question.

Care to expand what you mean?

Several ppl answered your question. It's a whole thread of answers to your question. /:O

mediocrity
10-12-2009, 03:59 PM
Totally different. A rare breed even. I wont' say that guys aren't guys. I will say it takes a certain type of guy to be a regular to a strip club.

This I can agree with.

In my experience there are four kinds of regulars:

a) Miserable marriage or what have you, looking for non-drama regular lady company
b) Businessmen who travel frequently
c) Loser perverts
d) Fetishists

Shy_Guy
10-12-2009, 04:04 PM
^ That's a nice run down. Which are your most common regulars?

Does any one have different categories? (I'm not saying you're wrong, just looking for more opinions. Everybody sees things differently.)

mediocrity
10-12-2009, 04:07 PM
^ That's a nice run down. Which are your most common regulars?

Does any one have different categories? (I'm not saying you're wrong, just looking for more opinions. Everybody sees things differently.)

Mine? I usually get a lot of businessmen and miserable ones who need company.

Shy_Guy
10-12-2009, 04:11 PM
^ odd question, but do the miserable ones stop coming in after you cheer them up, or are they habitually miserable?

mediocrity
10-12-2009, 04:14 PM
^ odd question, but do the miserable ones stop coming in after you cheer them up, or are they habitually miserable?

They keep coming in because they need repeated cheering up. I had a regular like that for two years. He wasn't in a miserable marriage, but he was a very lonely man.

jack0177057
10-12-2009, 07:07 PM
This I can agree with.

In my experience there are four kinds of regulars:

a) Miserable marriage or what have you, looking for non-drama regular lady company
b) Businessmen who travel frequently
c) Loser perverts
d) Fetishists

What is a "regular"... 2X a month?... 2X a week?... Every day? Would you say that the "regular" has a SC addiction?

princessjas
10-12-2009, 07:21 PM
What is a "regular"... 2X a month?... 2X a week?... Every day? Would you say that the "regular" has a SC addiction?

I had one reg that came in every 1-2 weeks, usually closer to two and dropped 3k or so a visit...He was a reg, I've had other regs who come in 7-8 times a month and drop $1-300. Depends on money and their preference for you.

Had one reg that was a lotto winner and he dropped around 10-15k each visit (not all on me) but he only came in every 7-8 mos...but when he did, I was his fav. He liked variety, but I was occupied all night with him and got paid reasonably well...he'd give me like a $50 tip to find whatever look he was in the mood for that night and he'd take us both to VIP, and I'd get a tip that coincided with how well he thought I did searching out other girls + whatever I would have normally got.

lopaw
10-12-2009, 07:43 PM
This I can agree with.

In my experience there are four kinds of regulars:

a) Miserable marriage or what have you, looking for non-drama regular lady company
b) Businessmen who travel frequently
c) Loser perverts
d) Fetishists


Based on these choices, I'm thinking about giving up my "regular" status for something a bit more pleasant.

Maybe "irregular"? ;D

Shy_Guy
10-12-2009, 08:08 PM
What is a "regular"... 2X a month?... 2X a week?... Every day? Would you say that the "regular" has a SC addiction?

Once dancer defined a regular as any customer who came in specifically for her.


Based on these choices, I'm thinking about giving up my "regular" status for something a bit more pleasant.

Maybe "irregular"? ;D


They have pills for that, now ;)

princessjas
10-12-2009, 08:11 PM
Based on these choices, I'm thinking about giving up my "regular" status for something a bit more pleasant.

Maybe "irregular"? ;D

Maybe we could just adjust the 2nd one, something like..

2. Hot businesswomen.

All better now? }:D

chris91
10-12-2009, 09:24 PM
What is a "regular"... 2X a month?... 2X a week?... Every day? Would you say that the "regular" has a SC addiction?

I would say that regular simply means the guy comes in over and over at relatively predictable times.

I used to have a customer who came in only on thanksgiving. He would give me a hundred on stage, and a fifty when I went to tell him thank you. We'd talk for five minutes and he'd leave. He did that for four years in a row, and always on thanksgiving night. He may still be going and giving the money to some other girl. I'd call him a regular, but I definitely wouldn't say that he has a strip club addiction.

lopaw
10-12-2009, 09:27 PM
Maybe we could just adjust the 2nd one, something like..

2. Hot businesswomen.

All better now? }:D


yesthankyou! :goodvibes

princessjas
10-12-2009, 09:31 PM
yesthankyou! :goodvibes


I live to serve...or yanno to have you serve...whatever works. ;)

BTW- Hot businesswomen are full of awesomeness.

JayATee
10-13-2009, 11:11 AM
What is a "regular"... 2X a month?... 2X a week?... Every day? Would you say that the "regular" has a SC addiction?

Yes to all of the above except the SC addiction. What does SC addiction mean to you?


I live to serve...or yanno to have you serve...whatever works.

Really? We should talk... }:D

mediocrity
10-13-2009, 01:27 PM
What is a "regular"... 2X a month?... 2X a week?... Every day? Would you say that the "regular" has a SC addiction?

I would say regular is someone who is either a) in often enough that many of the dancers/bartenders/etc recognise him and can call him by name or b) patronises one or a small group of dancers on a consistent basis.

And I would be hard pressed to slap anyone with a label of SC "addiction", unless their clubbing interfered with their every day lives. And even then, it's not really my business.

Earl_the_Pearl
10-13-2009, 02:10 PM
a) Miserable marriage or what have you, looking for non-drama regular lady company.

I was a what have you looking for non-drama lady company. I would make it a point to NEVER go to a club to see a specific dancer.

In the last year and a half that "non-drama" has gone totally to hell in a hand basket. I can't help but think of them as regular people and so goes the PL. :-[

vmurphy252
10-13-2009, 02:13 PM
Really? We should talk... }:D
Yes, we all 3 should...

jack0177057
10-14-2009, 01:45 PM
Yes to all of the above except the SC addiction. What does SC addiction mean to you?

I would say that it has become a severe "addiction" when (like any addiction) it is interfering with a person's normal life and commitments, for example: (1) his marriage is crumbling or his SO is leaving him because he cannot stop himself from going to the SC on a regular basis, (2) he cannot develop a normal romantic relationship with women, in part, because he spends most of his time and money in the SC (and he might only be attracted to dancers), (3) he cannot pay his rent, mortgage or car payment because he overspends at the SC, (4) he steals money to pay for dances, (5) he does not have any friends or social life because he spends most of his free time at the SC, etc.

A mild addiction would be a less dramatic condition where the guy feels compelled to go to the SC on a regular basis. He would feel very lonely and depressed and experience "withdrawal symptoms" if he could not go for any reason.

lemmiwinks31
10-16-2009, 10:31 AM
I was a what have you looking for non-drama lady company. I would make it a point to NEVER go to a club to see a specific dancer.

In the last year and a half that "non-drama" has gone totally to hell in a hand basket. I can't help but think of them as regular people and so goes the PL. :-[

so now you place yourself in the 'c' category. Which is where everyone else had you already....

progress!

Earl_the_Pearl
10-16-2009, 11:35 PM
so now you place yourself in the 'c' category. Which is where everyone else had you already....

progress!
"c"; do you mean 3?
"(3) he cannot pay his rent, mortgage or car payment because he overspends at the SC"

If so I don't have a mortgage or car payments; I own my house and cars free and clear. By drama I mean my life outside of the club is full of dancers. :-\

When did "everyone" get together and vote on this? :O

OIC I B A C. c) Loser perverts.

KiwiStrawberry Splenda
10-17-2009, 01:25 AM
a) Miserable marriage or what have you, looking for non-drama regular lady company
b) Businessmen who travel frequently
c) Loser perverts
d) Fetishists

I prefer B, and have often made most of my money from bored, travelling guys. However, I've had plenty of all the kinds. If I were to have another choice, it would be fetishists, although some fetishes gross me out. The nice thing about fetishists is that they usually aren't into direct-sex extras. They want you to kick them in the balls, or massage your feet, etc. That's totally cool in my book, naturally. :P

Great breakdown mediocrity, so accurate.

KiwiStrawberry Splenda
10-17-2009, 01:28 AM
What is a "regular"... 2X a month?... 2X a week?... Every day? Would you say that the "regular" has a SC addiction?

Regular = at least once a week at a club, perhaps? Addiction = multiple times a week at the club and thinks he's friends with the dancers and staff. Trust me, he's not, they just put up with him due to indifference, or for tips.

anouk.oui
11-11-2009, 09:00 PM
generally, these types visit my club in sydney australia

bucks nights looking for booze and naked lady fun

businessmen in suits winding down after a stressful day at work looking for company coz they dont feel like going home

curious young guys who just turned 18 who i generally dont approach coz most of the time they cant afford a show and dont tip they just wanna be in the environment and watch you on stage

out of town visitors here for work and leaving tomorrow... theyre my fave they usually treat it like a bucks night and spend a lot of money

lately, a lot of 18-25 girls giggling with the whole i-cant-believe-were-in-an-actual-stripclub-omg. i usually dislike them coz they take up the tipping seats around the stage, dont tip and give bitchy or pitying stares

a bunch of foreigners, usually asians and indians who dont speak much english or due to cultural differences usually the indian men want me to go back to their hotel and sleep with 15 of them for 30bucks. theyre the types i tend to avoid. not coz theyre indian but in the degrading way in which they behave

laurcon
11-12-2009, 02:49 AM
Regular = at least once a week at a club, perhaps? Addiction = multiple times a week at the club and thinks he's friends with the dancers and staff. Trust me, he's not, they just put up with him due to indifference, or for tips.

well to me i'd consider a regular anyone who comes in maybe a 3rd time that i knew of. i just mentioned my problem recognizing faces so i probably think there are less regs than there are, but still i feel like my club is way too expensive to visit much more than like twice a month. i mean, lots of guys come in a little more when they're hooked at the moment or whatev. but i guess it all depends. i was gonna say in my 8 yrs of dancing i've never seen an addiction, but i guess that really must be cause i don't recognize people? i mean, is it possible i'm that oblivious. weird. :O

mediocrity
11-13-2009, 02:18 PM
Regular = at least once a week at a club, perhaps? Addiction = multiple times a week at the club and thinks he's friends with the dancers and staff. Trust me, he's not, they just put up with him due to indifference, or for tips.

We have one of those and I tell him to go home every day.

KiwiStrawberry Splenda
11-13-2009, 02:22 PM
We have one of those and I tell him to go home every day.

Yup, your club has a lot of them, especially during the day. Can't say I blame them, its a great club with nice people. If I was a socially inept uber-PL, I'd hang there too, to the detriment of others. :( Bartenders hate them even more than the dancers.

JayATee
11-13-2009, 02:23 PM
Regular = at least once a week at a club, perhaps? Addiction = multiple times a week at the club and thinks he's friends with the dancers and staff. Trust me, he's not, they just put up with him due to indifference, or for tips.

:yes: right on. This is perfect.

stressed
11-13-2009, 02:27 PM
thinks he's friends with the dancers and staff. Trust me, he's not, they just put up with him due to indifference, or for tips.

WHAT!!! You mean!!!:O

:'(


::)


:P

KiwiStrawberry Splenda
11-13-2009, 02:37 PM
This doesn't apply to everyone. I like some super-regulars too, so does the staff. But they tip and/or buy dances.

If you are generous and don't hound me to do stuff I don't want to do, then come hang out in the club, every day.

stressed, you seem to be an ideal regular. I think I called you an asshole once, for some reason, and I am truly sorry.

stressed
11-13-2009, 02:38 PM
Yes to all of the above except the SC addiction. What does SC addiction mean to you?

I think maybe being a member of this site:-[

stressed
11-13-2009, 02:40 PM
This doesn't apply to everyone. I like some super-regulars too, so does the staff. But they tip and/or buy dances.

If you are generous and don't hound me to do stuff I don't want to do, then come hang out in the club, every day.

stressed, you seem to be an ideal regular. I think I called you an asshole once, for some reason, and I am truly sorry.

:D Yes you did, but trust me i deserved it that day:-[

mediocrity
11-13-2009, 02:43 PM
Yup, your club has a lot of them, especially during the day. Can't say I blame them, its a great club with nice people. If I was a socially inept uber-PL, I'd hang there too, to the detriment of others. :( Bartenders hate them even more than the dancers.

One in particular, "M", bothers me a lot. He buys one beer, and wanders talking to all the staff. I've never seen him buy a dance. I once asked him "What brings you in to see the pretty ladies tonight?" and he was all "Oh, I don't know, I wanted to tell [staff member] something and I had nothing else to do." He suckers the new girls into talking with him foreverrrrrrrrr and then they learn the hard way. I did, the first time I hung out with him.

So now when he's like "Hi Catherine!" I roll my eyes and go "Go home, M.".

KiwiStrawberry Splenda
11-13-2009, 02:47 PM
Uh oh, is M in his mid 30's, tall, dark hair, knows everyone? But the regular M I know out there will buy dances, drinks for the ladies, and tips...so it might be a different loser.

mediocrity
11-13-2009, 02:51 PM
Uh oh, is M in his mid 30's, tall, dark hair, knows everyone? But the regular M I know out there will buy dances, drinks for the ladies, and tips...so it might be a different loser.

Yup. He has apparantly ceased doing all of the above.

KiwiStrawberry Splenda
11-13-2009, 02:57 PM
Damn, if its the same guy, I need to smack him around next time I see him. He goes to Sugars and the Rose too, because I see him at an SC almost every time I go, which is infrequent. He used to be a major save-a-ho, and would let strippers live with him for free, etc....

I can totally see him coming in and saying, "Oh, I don't know, I wanted to tell [staff member] something and I had nothing else to do."

laurcon
11-13-2009, 03:07 PM
I think maybe being a member of this site:-[

yes if you post on a message board titled "strip club junkie" you're probably addicted. ::)

Earl_the_Pearl
11-13-2009, 10:28 PM
yes if you post on a message board titled "strip club junkie" you're probably addicted. ::)
Addicted yes; but I pay for my sins.