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Golden_Rule
10-15-2009, 01:56 AM
She's obviously making some money, if she's got guys penciled in her appointment book. Making appointments is smart as hell and good business sense, and I bet I'd be making better money if I did that instead of relying on the weekends as my big money-making nights.

Someone still needs to explain this "make an appointment" thing to me about dancers in S-C's?

I make appointments with my doctor, plumber, maybe even my mechanic, but the whole idea about S-C's, to me, is that I don't have life's drama to deal with once I go through the doors of the club. I just relax and whatever happens, happens. Half the fun is the, "What's could happen today?", aspect.

If I got to start making appointments ... its not so much fun anymore.

Then again I don't have "ATFs" and other such things. Its all "go with the flow" for me.

Earl_the_Pearl
10-15-2009, 09:03 AM
Someone still needs to explain this "make an appointment" thing to me about dancers in S-C's?

I make appointments with my doctor, plumber, maybe even my mechanic, but the whole idea about S-C's, to me, is that I don't have life's drama to deal with once I go through the doors of the club. I just relax and whatever happens, happens. Half the fun is the, "What's could happen today?", aspect.

If I got to start making appointments ... its not so much fun anymore.

Then again I don't have "ATFs" and other such things. Its all "go with the flow" for me.
I have often been chastised for using PL to describe a customer. I think I have been vindicated.

xdamage
10-15-2009, 01:30 PM
Someone still needs to explain this "make an appointment" thing to me about dancers in S-C's?
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If I got to start making appointments ... its not so much fun anymore.

Then again I don't have "ATFs" and other such things. Its all "go with the flow" for me.


Just different strokes I think. Like you I like the spontaneity and don't have ATFs. The variety, and lack of planning is fun because it's a break from everyday life, but obviously some like being regulars, even making appointments. Oh well, no harm done.

Golden_Rule
10-15-2009, 09:45 PM
Just different strokes I think. Like you I like the spontaneity and don't have ATFs. The variety, and lack of planning is fun because it's a break from everyday life, but obviously some like being regulars, even making appointments. Oh well, no harm done.


Oh I don't think there is any harm in it. Just being honest about not particularly getting the why of it is all.

princessjas
10-16-2009, 03:59 AM
Oh I don't think there is any harm in it. Just being honest about not particularly getting the why of it is all.

The appointment guys are usually very picky about their dancers. They like a certain look/s and will forgo sponteneity to get that look. I'm a tiny little glammed up blonde, usually the only one in any particular club...most "Barbie" types are closer to 6ft than 5 ft, some guys really dig the uniqueness of my look and size. Other girls get appoinments for similar reasons, I'm sure. They fit a particular customers "ideal."

Elvia
10-16-2009, 04:05 AM
I've had regulars that like to arrange appointments. Usually they're the type that get frustrated if they show up and discover someone's keeping me busy for awhile.

JoeUnCool
10-16-2009, 12:46 PM
I really don't get this. Dancers, even hot ones, are like buses. If you miss one there will be another one coming around the corner in a few minutes. I take the position that a dancer should be thrilled to be on my schedule.

FBR

Amen Brother FBR.........Amen

JoeUnCool
10-16-2009, 12:52 PM
CP, I really don't see an issue with uberstripper. Maybe she has a full appointment book and couldn't squeeze you in (lube anyone?). She can do as she pleases. I had a hottie at Treasures in LV one night tell me she couldn't do anything with me because she had a regular customer coming to see her in 2 hours. When i saw her later that night, I could say yes to her and I could say no thanks. if the place is full of hotties, just move along to the next one.

JoeUnCool
10-16-2009, 01:04 PM
I have 2 theories as to why some guys have trouble with this idea:

-they believe the other guy is getting better service than they are and since they don't visibly see the other guy waving around stacks of bills they assume that it's because the other guy is some broke asshole cock-blocking PL, which makes them even more annoyed because they think the stripper somehow "likes" the broke asshole cock-blocking PL more, even more than she likes the original guy's money [hence comments like "I found another dancer who was more than happy to take my money" Because the thing is, ANY dancer is happy to take your money, but not every dancer has the time or energy to do so when you're not the only customer in the club :) ]


-they want to think that they're keenly aware of their surroundings and that they know as much about the "inner workings" of the SC as any stripper or staff member just by virtue of being a customer in them a lot, or "knowing" dancers or having dancer "friends". Which is hilarious because many of us spend our whole lives going to restaurants occasionally (or often) but very few of us really know very much about the food we're eating, how it's prepared, or the inner workings of what's going on aside from what is being presented to us. I worked in restaurants for a couple of years and was very surprised at a lot of things I learned. When another table gets their food before me even though I ordered before them I never get mad, because I know there are a million reasons why that could've happened, not because the kitchen is ignoring me or the server dislikes me. /tangent

Dear god, might I suggest a valium or other sedative or a return to the top side of the site for your pent up frustrations with customers. }:D

SerenaSin
10-16-2009, 01:11 PM
Dear god, might I suggest a valium or other sedative or a return to the top side of the site for your pent up frustrations with customers. }:D

I'm not frustrated, just making observations and stating some truths that I've gleaned as a result ;)

KiwiStrawberry Splenda
10-17-2009, 02:31 AM
I've made appointments with regulars. Only thing...often the regulars are just as flaky, so I won't wait around for them if there is immediate money. If she was waiting for this guy, he must have been a GOOD regular to her.

It would be very nice if I could schedule appointments by time slots all the time, that's one step closer to guaranteed money.

mr_punk
10-17-2009, 10:56 AM
<snip>shrill ravings

<snip>shrewish mutterings
LOL...Sweet Jiminy Christmas! what's up with all the mouthy broads down here? i thought they were all long gone after SW apocalypse. i guess what they say about cockroaches being the only survivors after a nuclear war is true.

Earl_the_Pearl
10-17-2009, 04:38 PM
Just different strokes I think. Like you I like the spontaneity and don't have ATFs. The variety, and lack of planning is fun because it's a break from everyday life, but obviously some like being regulars, even making appointments. Oh well, no harm done.

I think the regular has to have some type of emotional attachment and that is monetary death in a SC.

Now some are regulars because they know what they are going to get and for how much in a physical way but the former is more prevalent.

Golden_Rule
10-17-2009, 08:04 PM
The appointment guys are usually very picky about their dancers. They like a certain look/s and will forgo sponteneity to get that look. I'm a tiny little glammed up blonde, usually the only one in any particular club...most "Barbie" types are closer to 6ft than 5 ft, some guys really dig the uniqueness of my look and size. Other girls get appoinments for similar reasons, I'm sure. They fit a particular customers "ideal."

Could be why it wouldn't be my M.O. I don't particularly have a preferred look. I preferred personality type... a clown, cut up, life of the party sort. I'm similar. If I find someone like that with a good imagination I love doing things that get the crowd whipped up some. It is entertaining for me and helps all the dancers as it gets the guys tipping.

princessjas
10-17-2009, 08:16 PM
Could be why it wouldn't be my M.O. I don't particularly have a preferred look. I preferred personality type... a clown, cut up, life of the party sort. I'm similar. If I find someone like that with a good imagination I love doing things that get the crowd whipped up some. It is entertaining for me and helps all the dancers as it gets the guys tipping.
Considering we don't gen see eye to eye, you probably won't like hearing this, but honestly I've always wondered if my sense of humor has been the key to my success. I'm a huge goof and blow kisses from the stage...in a silly/flirty way, wink, etc. I LOVE to crook my finger and get a reg to come up so I can kiss his cheek, then do something goofy... Gets everyone involved.

Of course, Imma huge dork and was both class clown and sal/val in school. (Don't ask, my HS had mega drama and 4 of us ended up with both honors which make them worth shit. haha)

Golden_Rule
10-17-2009, 11:55 PM
Considering we don't gen see eye to eye, you probably won't like hearing this, but honestly I've always wondered if my sense of humor has been the key to my success. I'm a huge goof and blow kisses from the stage...in a silly/flirty way, wink, etc. I LOVE to crook my finger and get a reg to come up so I can kiss his cheek, then do something goofy... Gets everyone involved.

Of course, Imma huge dork and was both class clown and sal/val in school. (Don't ask, my HS had mega drama and 4 of us ended up with both honors which make them worth shit. haha)

I think that's great. Why would I not?

The only thing I like as much as being entertained is doing the entertaining so I fully appreciate the idea and would probably readily join in to any antics you thought might stir up the crowd. Especially in a dead club. I hate that. I mean why even go to a S-C to sit there with a long face?

Elvia
10-18-2009, 12:06 AM
I think the regular has to have some type of emotional attachment

I think there's a lot of truth in this. It's definitely for the kind of guy who likes to devote his time to one or very few dancers. Whether he really forms an emotional attachment or just wants to fantasy aspect of a more GFE experience...who knows.


I've made appointments with regulars. Only thing...often the regulars are just as flaky, so I won't wait around for them if there is immediate money. If she was waiting for this guy, he must have been a GOOD regular to her.


That's a very good point. I won't even consider waiting for an appointment unless it's a very good, well established reg.

JoeUnCool
10-18-2009, 11:34 AM
LOL...Sweet Jiminy Christmas! what's up with all the mouthy broads down here? i thought they were all long gone after SW apocalypse. i guess what they say about cockroaches being the only survivors after a nuclear war is true.

Seriously, I have to agree with you on this. There are tons of man haters over on the pink side. If they want to argue these points, then go post the drivel over on the pink side where the chicks will just jump all over a guy for being a guy. }:D

JoeUnCool
10-18-2009, 11:38 AM
Personally, i think this thread is funny. CP made an offhand observation, and we're all analyzing the shit out of it.

I try to follow the corollary to the first rule: It's my money, i can spend it on whoever I want to.

Earl_the_Pearl
10-18-2009, 05:09 PM
Personally, i think this thread is funny. CP made an offhand observation, and we're all analyzing the shit out of it.

I try to follow the corollary to the first rule: It's my money, i can spend it on whoever I want to.
Only if she will accept it as this thread is about.

hockeybobby
10-18-2009, 07:38 PM
I know it's overwhelmingly the hot stripper chicks, but admit it CP...the weird shit and drama that happens in the club is at least part of what keeps you (and the rest of us) going back.

Christyismyalias
10-18-2009, 08:02 PM
(c) most important of all, she fucking around for almost an hour not trying to make any money while getting a sensual massage from a PL <shudder>.


Why do you guys assume she wasn't making money. Clearly if this girl has scheduled appointments, she is a business woman and she probably didn't waste an hour of her time doing nothing. She was probably making money regardless of whether you saw it or not.

Also, she turned down a VIP. That's not something crazy. Has that never happened before??
Some of us turn down VIP's for whatever reason, whether the guy is a fucking weirdo and we don't want to deal with it, or we are making killer money on the floor, or we have something else to do. It's not something unbelievable..

In the end, the girl made great money that night. And gained a new regular. Kudos to her..