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femmefatale88
09-15-2010, 01:04 AM
It never bothered me except for the few times that guys said "I'll decide if I wanna dance after I see you on stage." This only happened a couple of times and it was always at this one club were my floor outfit was a bikini with a sheer wrap skirt. Uh, c'mon, I'm damn near naked here anyway. What do you think I'm hiding under a g-string with about 2 square inches of fabric?? Am I going to take that off and suddenly, whammo, I'm fat or deformed?? Like that little string is holding in a giant gut or covering neon green lady bits or something? :rotfl:

In that case I think they just want to see how you move your body or they're just making up an excuse (in an assholey way) not to buy a dance .

georgia_peach
09-15-2010, 09:46 AM
I like to watch the ladies dance on stage before I buy a dance from them. It's not because I want to see them naked before I pay them. I want to watch how they move. I've seen some dancers who are smoking hot walking around, but awkward and stiff-legged up on stage, and that's not really what I want from a dance. But I've never actually told a dancer that I want to watch her dance first. If she's attractive and made a point to sit down and chat me up I'll usually buy a dance from her.

Tasha_xoxo
09-15-2010, 11:35 AM
This is a lot of time for a dancer to spend with one guy, on a busy night. If you were to walk into a busy strip club on any given night, you would be approached by at least ten girls within thirty minutes. It might not seem like much time to you, but every minutes counts for us, time is money, and I can miss out on good customers by wasting time with broke ones.

Nuff said!

kustom
11-26-2010, 09:47 AM
i read 6 pages then skipped ahead. i like to see a girl dance on stage before i start buying lap dances and it does not have to do with seeing her nude first. i like to see her move. some girls cant move. so why spend my time with her when i can be enjoying myself throwing my monney at a girl i like.

pootcacti
11-27-2010, 03:53 AM
For me, i ask because I often go to strip clubs to see my favs(maybe 4-5 girls out of 30) and if my fav isnt dancing till another hour, I will leave the club and get a drink or a bite to eat, and come back, so ill know when shes ontage. Its just a timeline thing.

Rookie2010
12-06-2010, 02:36 AM
I have asked this before but when i ask this i already know im going to buy multiple lap dances.. i would just like a nice show/tease before the dances! a good warm-up lol! Of course i also tip good when they go on stage though..in my experiences lap dances are better when you watch a girl on stage, tip her real good, then quickly take her to the VIP!


Also some guys have favorite dancers and leave after they give them private dances so im sure they would like to get to see them on stage before they take off..

MinTay
12-23-2010, 03:34 AM
I always ask this question after I get a private dance from the stripper. It's just to make sure that I don't miss out on her performance and a spot at the tipping row. I've received private dances before, when I wanted to see a particular stage set. That's why I always ask.

Almost Jaded
12-23-2010, 04:39 AM
Am I imagining it, or did this thread start a year ago and come back from the dead in the 3 pages I skipped? lol

As the OP stated, there are different versions of this question. She's not asking about the ones following a dance or VIP (I do this too), or the ones indicating a desire to see you your show. She stated that she is specifically asking about when guys say it in response to being asked for a dance.

Sometimes it's a dodge, sometimes it's because they want to see you onstage first, sometimes some of both or something else. :shrug: I admit I've used it - rarely but I can't say I haven't - as all of the above and more.

Then again, now that I think about it, I can't say I've ever used it in the specific context described, in response to being asked for a dance, so nevermind, lol...

Montrealais
04-06-2011, 11:02 PM
Long thread, didn't read it all, so if this has been covered just ignore me.

In Montreal, it seems a girl called for stage has to go, even if she's in mid-dance in the booths. I ask because I find it really annoying to be so interrupted.

So if you're not going to get called for ages, let's go now. If you're going to get called in fifteen minutes, I'll say "I'd rather wait then, but come grab me when you're off-stage, we'll go straight to the booths."

Soth
06-05-2011, 07:50 PM
so when do you dance on the stage? I hate this. I think to myself, Why? So you can see me naked before you commit to a dance? I almost always just walk off once a guy asks this, in my experience it means he's cheap. Enlighten me people!

I've never asked this, and I often sit by the stage. When I do, I always tip.

I'm not one of the guys about whom you're asking, but I'm guessing they want to either see the goods (nudity, energy level) before a PD or they're just cheap and want nudity for free.