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Cyril
10-30-2009, 06:25 PM
I think this thread was a test. That everyone failed. We hear over and over again how strippers are just normal people...with a risque job.
Well, normal people think it's weird and pathetic if a guy goes to a strip club every week blowing thousands of dollars on fake love and attention. Sorry, they just do. I have been that guy, and I still think it's weird and pathetic.
So if you don't think that, you're not normal. Sorry.
I think there was one more test that they failed.
Let us look at this text from Evan86:
He has tipped me $100 bills more than once just cuz. He's in his late sixties and lost his wife recently. I have no idea where he gets the money...possibly her life insurance policy, but he is my daddy!!! If he wants to blow his money on strippers and alcohol, I'll be glad to assist.
The majority in USA will agree that it is rotten to take advantage of someone who is emotionally down. Furthermore, they will have problem understanding how someone can sleep peacefully at night when they have to do this kind of things to make living.
Sometimes, I wish I had not come to this forum for this forum has destroyed my faith in strippers. The kind of things I hear makes me wonder if there exist two parallel USAs; one where I have been living and another where many of you live.
sexy_adriana
10-30-2009, 06:35 PM
I think there was one more test that they failed.
Let us look at this text from Evan86:
He has tipped me $100 bills more than once just cuz. He's in his late sixties and lost his wife recently. I have no idea where he gets the money...possibly her life insurance policy, but he is my daddy!!! If he wants to blow his money on strippers and alcohol, I'll be glad to assist.
The majority in USA will agree that it is rotten to take advantage of someone who is emotionally down. Furthermore, they will have problem understanding how someone can sleep peacefully at night when they have to do this kind of things to make living.
Sometimes, I wish I had not come to this forum for this forum has destroyed my faith in strippers. The kind of things I hear makes me wonder if there exist two parallel USAs; one where I have been living and another where many of you live.
Then please go away and don't come back! I was hoping that they permanently banned you.
sexy_adriana
10-30-2009, 06:37 PM
I like the regulars that spend money, especially when they spend money on me.
Cyril
10-30-2009, 06:59 PM
Then please go away and don't come back! I was hoping that they permanently banned you.
I cannot stop you if permanent darkness is what you want. Suit yourself.
WiseGuy_TX
10-30-2009, 07:22 PM
The majority in USA will agree that it is rotten to take advantage of someone who is emotionally down. Furthermore, they will have problem understanding how someone can sleep peacefully at night when they have to do this kind of things to make living.
Sometimes, I wish I had not come to this forum for this forum has destroyed my faith in strippers. The kind of things I hear makes me wonder if there exist two parallel USAs; one where I have been living and another where many of you live. ...routinely looking for the depressing side of life is eating at your soul. Your assumption that "the daddy" is oblivious to her "manipulating ways" is a perfect example. Be happy Cyril.
I like the regulars that spend money, especially when they spend money on me. This truth cuts to the chase and is no cause for alarm for clubbers. All the other soul wrenching and complaining about having to give money to strippers is lame.
FBR
lopaw
10-30-2009, 09:00 PM
I think there was one more test that they failed.
Let us look at this text from Evan86:
He has tipped me $100 bills more than once just cuz. He's in his late sixties and lost his wife recently. I have no idea where he gets the money...possibly her life insurance policy, but he is my daddy!!! If he wants to blow his money on strippers and alcohol, I'll be glad to assist.
The majority in USA will agree that it is rotten to take advantage of someone who is emotionally down. Furthermore, they will have problem understanding how someone can sleep peacefully at night when they have to do this kind of things to make living.
Sometimes, I wish I had not come to this forum for this forum has destroyed my faith in strippers. The kind of things I hear makes me wonder if there exist two parallel USAs; one where I have been living and another where many of you live.
Unless you are marched into a stripclub at gunpoint, you have made a cognizant choice to go in. Being depressed, happy or anything in between doesn't matter - if you enter and don't know how a club works, you'd better smarten up fast. I've pissed away more than my share of money in clubs,and will continue to do so. Do I regret that? Hell, no. Have I ever been taken advantage of by a dancer? Once or twice. But I'm a big girl, and have moved on, while also learning some valuable lessons from it.
"Fool me once, shame on you.
Fool me twice, shame on me".
kyrah_foxx
10-30-2009, 09:17 PM
Not trying to be a beyotch, Cyril, but what was your viewpoint of strippers before anyways? Just curious. Most of us are just normal women trying to make money for school, our families, and things like that.
WiseGuy_TX
10-30-2009, 09:26 PM
Not trying to be a beyotch, Cyril, but what was your viewpoint of strippers before anyways? Just curious. Most of us are just normal women trying to make money for school, our families, and things like that....there's a thread somewhere where he essentially calls them whores, if memory serves me. But he also loves them, etc...
kyrah_foxx
10-30-2009, 09:28 PM
Haha oh dear.
xdamage
10-30-2009, 10:31 PM
I think there was one more test that they failed.
Let us look at this text from Evan86:
He has tipped me $100 bills more than once just cuz. He's in his late sixties and lost his wife recently. I have no idea where he gets the money...possibly her life insurance policy, but he is my daddy!!! If he wants to blow his money on strippers and alcohol, I'll be glad to assist.
The majority in USA will agree that it is rotten to take advantage of someone who is emotionally down. Furthermore, they will have problem understanding how someone can sleep peacefully at night when they have to do this kind of things to make living.
Sometimes, I wish I had not come to this forum for this forum has destroyed my faith in strippers. The kind of things I hear makes me wonder if there exist two parallel USAs; one where I have been living and another where many of you live.
It was only a matter of time before you switched to your other extreme Cyril. First idealization, now utter devaluation.
Consider though a 3rd possibility. If there were no strippers what would this man do?
He'd still be lonely. Still hurting.
The strippers bring a little joy, feelings he probably would never feel again, at least not with a younger hot woman, back into his life.
That they cannot go as far as actually loving him, that is just reality. So another way to look at it is to be happy someone will do it, do the job of being a stripper.
We don't deserve jack-shit from women. They don't owe us anything, and the odds are against this guy being loved by a younger woman.
He could pursue relief from women his own age, but for whatever reasons, he requires emotional relief from younger, hotter women. What if nobody would do the job? Would he really be happier? Think about it because I don't think the answer is clearly obviously yes.
newb4321
10-30-2009, 11:12 PM
I really hate threads like these. What kind of answers were you guys looking for? No stripper is going to talk shit about someone who spends alot of money on them. No one wants to know that someone they enjoy spending time with actually considers them a pathetic loser. If a stripper admitted that she felt this way you would think she was a bitch.
You aren't going to hear many positive responses either. We really know nothing about the person besides that he spends money at a strip club. It isn't fair to judge someone on that.
I play poker and I watched one player throw away millions of dollars online. At first I thought it was kind of sad but I later found out that this guy created Cirque du Soleil. He went from a broke street performer to a billionaire with his own charity. I definitely don't consider him pathetic.
Earl_the_Pearl
10-31-2009, 01:19 AM
I play poker and I watched one player throw away millions of dollars online.
I definitely don't consider him pathetic.
There is a way to cheat in one line poker so yes he is pathetic.
Earl_the_Pearl
10-31-2009, 01:22 AM
Consider though a 3rd possibility. If there were no strippers what would this man do?
He'd still be lonely. Still hurting.
He thinks a relationship exists when none does. Save money and go to Market Street Paterson.
Earl_the_Pearl
10-31-2009, 01:28 AM
Sometimes, I wish I had not come to this forum for this forum has destroyed my faith in strippers. The kind of things I hear makes me wonder if there exist two parallel USAs; one where I have been living and another where many of you live.
You got off easy as you didn't have to go to clubs. It takes some many years to learn to facts; some never learn.
mvivian
10-31-2009, 02:34 AM
I think there was one more test that they failed.
Let us look at this text from Evan86:
He has tipped me $100 bills more than once just cuz. He's in his late sixties and lost his wife recently. I have no idea where he gets the money...possibly her life insurance policy, but he is my daddy!!! If he wants to blow his money on strippers and alcohol, I'll be glad to assist.
The majority in USA will agree that it is rotten to take advantage of someone who is emotionally down. Furthermore, they will have problem understanding how someone can sleep peacefully at night when they have to do this kind of things to make living.
Sometimes, I wish I had not come to this forum for this forum has destroyed my faith in strippers. The kind of things I hear makes me wonder if there exist two parallel USAs; one where I have been living and another where many of you live.
Oh, honey.
I tried to explain earlier about this but let me try again using your proposed situation of a man in his 60s who just lost his wife.
Grieving man in his 60s who just lost his wife, heretofore known as GMIH60sWJLHW, is, as mentioned grieving. GMIH60sWJLHW sits at home but all he can think of is his wife because he's surrounded by his memories. Sad, sad, sad. :'(
GMIH60sWJLHW decides the only way he is going to cope with his loss is if he increases his activities so that he doesn't break down and cry every 5 minutes. Only problem is is that his bridge club only meets once a week, on say, Thursday night, his lawn bowling team only plays on Sunday afternoons, and the Perry Mason marathons only run on Tuesday nights. 4 other empty nights.
GMIH60sWJLHW is not ready to start dating women again because his emotions are still so raw but he misses interacting with women. GMIH60sWJLHW is emotionally unavailable. What to do?
So, GMIH60sWJLHW starts going to a strip club once a week. GMIH60sWJLHW meets a nice girl there who gives him lap dances, listens to him, and pays him all the attention that he missed. GMIH60sWJLHW feels appreciated and GMIH60sWJLHW isn't sitting at home in the dark, playing Russian Roulette and spiking his cocktails with Drano.
Spending time in the strip club allows GMIH60sWJLHW to interact with beautiful women without exposing bleeding emotions and without having to worry about who gets the left side of the closet and who gets the right side of the closet.
Really, I don't see why you think this is such a big deal.
And besides, who are you to judge?
Everyman
10-31-2009, 05:46 AM
No one wants to know that someone they enjoy spending time with actually considers them a pathetic loser. If a stripper admitted that she felt this way you would think she was a bitch.
I think this is where dancers and regulars part ways, and what makes the "regular" relationship so fucked up. Admitting your reg is a pathetic loser is not what makes a dancer a bitch...the hypocrisy of secretly thinking it is. The long-term stripper-customer relationship is not like a one-night-stand where the stripper is paid to be a naked party girl (where she can fake it all she needs to). Ideally, and Yoda describes this a lot, it's a relationship where the parties at least somewhat mutually enjoy each other, even if it is never going to extend to real life. For a dancer to fake this kind of "reality" all along, is what makes her a bitch -- not the discovery of it.
xdamage
10-31-2009, 05:51 AM
He thinks a relationship exists when none does. Save money and go to Market Street Paterson.
People do sometimes lose themselves in vices, drugs, prostitutes, gambling, sure. And this is, in part, why some in our society argue these things (including SCs) should be illegal, because vices sometimes do result in people who are left worse off for using the vice. I don't think there is any solution that will make everyone always happy; either the responsible will have their freedoms curtailed, or some of the irresponsible will be left worse off, but I honestly don't believe there is a utopian outcome possible. The best one can do is refine the laws and require greater disclosure of the risks of using a vice.
But if someone knows someone they think is deluded, tell them. I'd tell them if I thought they were going to do something dangerous or stupid. Likewise those profiting will do their thing of trying to sell, and in the end it works out about as well as it can.
bem401
10-31-2009, 04:39 PM
I really hate threads like these. What kind of answers were you guys looking for? No stripper is going to talk shit about someone who spends alot of money on them. No one wants to know that someone they enjoy spending time with actually considers them a pathetic loser. If a stripper admitted that she felt this way you would think she was a bitch.
I don't think there is much doubt that a lot of dancers feel this way about their regulars, but they'd never admit it because it would jeopardize their money. The regulars, for their part, either : a. don't contemplate it; b. don't think it applies to them; or c. don't care.
KiwiStrawberry Splenda
10-31-2009, 04:55 PM
I've never thought that anyone who spent a lot of money on me were PLs. And I would not accept a serious PL as a regular. There are some club regulars who occasionally spend money on me that I consider rather pathetic, but they are getting as much out of hanging out at the club as I am receiving financial compensation, so why feel sorry for the guy?
I think you guys are looking at exceptional cases of women taking poor lovelorn guys for all they got. I've never done it, and I'll wager that most of the women here have never done it.
And regular civvies look upon all strippers and SC-goers as strange and messed up and immoral. I could give two shits what they think, they do not pay my bills nor determine what I do for entertainment.
Earl_the_Pearl
10-31-2009, 05:05 PM
But if someone knows someone they think is deluded, tell them.
They will not listen as they really don't want to know.
WestCoast101
10-31-2009, 07:43 PM
The OP should understand that most dancers don't spend alot of time analyzing customers, and probably 99.99% of dancers on the planet are not going to ever post on a site like this, let alone contemplate an answer to such a question.
Think of strip clubs as this: customers share their cash, and dancers share their ass - not much more complicated than that
Cyril
10-31-2009, 08:08 PM
Not trying to be a beyotch, Cyril, but what was your viewpoint of strippers before anyways? Just curious. Most of us are just normal women trying to make money for school, our families, and things like that.
I used to think strippers were free spirited women who were not afraid of nudity and sexual openness. But they were sweet, kind and honest. I always believed if I were to give a stripper two twenties instead of one twenty (by accident), she would return the second twenty to me. Somehow I do not have confidence in that anymore.
Cyril
10-31-2009, 08:10 PM
...there's a thread somewhere where he essentially calls them whores, if memory serves me..
This is a LIE. You have been methodically and consistently lying on this forum. But it does not matter.
Cyril
10-31-2009, 08:19 PM
You got off easy as you didn't have to go to clubs. It takes some many years to learn to facts; some never learn.
I am a fairly intelligent man. Now, I think I have pretty good understanding of the underlying ethos strippers subscribe to. I have been reading this forum for months now.
WiseGuy_TX
10-31-2009, 11:44 PM
I used to think strippers were free spirited women who were not afraid of nudity and sexual openness. But they were sweet, kind and honest. I always believed if I were to give a stripper two twenties instead of one twenty (by accident), she would return the second twenty to me. Somehow I do not have confidence in that anymore....invalid conclusion if she never knew it was an 'accident' or thought it was generosity.
This is a LIE. You have been methodically and consistently lying on this forum. But it does not matter....someone here once recommended praying or meditating if you are annoyed.
I am a fairly intelligent man. Now, I think I have pretty good understanding of the underlying ethos strippers subscribe to. I have been reading this forum for months now....sorta like watching every Star Trek show and then claiming you know space travel from a Star Fleet Captains point if view. ::)
Cyril, get your lazy ass over to a club and get some lap dances. Maybe you'll become someones regular and can report back. Are you scared you will like it?
KiwiStrawberry Splenda
10-31-2009, 11:54 PM
Thank you wise guy, thank you many times.
In almost ANY situation where tipping is appropriate, if someone give you an extra amount of money for the service, you'll consider it a tip..
Obviously, Cyril, you don't read anything about the number of customer who rip off dancers, because, I promise you, its more frequent, considering most of us get our money at the end.
Then whose fault is it?
Earl_the_Pearl
11-01-2009, 12:08 AM
Obviously, Cyril, you don't read anything about the number of customer who rip off dancers, because, I promise you, its more frequent, considering most of us get our money at the end.
Who rips off dancers more customers or management.
Foghorn Leghorn
11-01-2009, 12:24 AM
I hope this will summarize the dancer/regular relationship for everyone.
Regular goes to SC for entertainment and temporary companionship.
Dancer goes to strip club to make money.
Sometimes the two genuinely like each other.
Most of the time it's just business.
eagle2
11-01-2009, 02:17 AM
I think this thread was a test. That everyone failed. We hear over and over again how strippers are just normal people...with a risque job.
Well, normal people think it's weird and pathetic if a guy goes to a strip club every week blowing thousands of dollars on fake love and attention. Sorry, they just do. I have been that guy, and I still think it's weird and pathetic.
So if you don't think that, you're not normal. Sorry.
No it isn't, especially for people who have that kind of money. You don't know what it's like for every single person that does this. I'm sure there are plenty of men that want the type of relationship they have with strippers with no strings attached. As Charlie Sheen once said, "I don't pay them for sex. I pay them to leave".
I know that most of the ladies here don't have sex with customers but the same thing would apply to dances, conversations, or whatever else goes on in the strip club.
eagle2
11-01-2009, 02:19 AM
I used to think strippers were free spirited women who were not afraid of nudity and sexual openness. But they were sweet, kind and honest. I always believed if I were to give a stripper two twenties instead of one twenty (by accident), she would return the second twenty to me. Somehow I do not have confidence in that anymore.
I don't know why you would think all strippers are the same.
Cyril
11-01-2009, 07:37 AM
Who rips off dancers more customers or management.
I am convinced that one of the following is true:
a) Strippers are not interested in finding out the truth
b) Strippers know the truth but cannot do anything about it
c) Strippers genuinely are unable to see the truth for some reason
Cyril
11-01-2009, 07:42 AM
Obviously, Cyril, you don't read anything about the number of customer who rip off dancers, because, I promise you, its more frequent, considering most of us get our money at the end.
Then whose fault is it?
To the best of my knowledge, I have not seen a single post on this forum by a PL claiming to rip off a stripper. On the contrary, I have seen countless proud posts from strippers on this forum where they have taken advantage of an emotionally impaired PL.
You ladies are sending out a consistent and methodical message and I am simply acknowledging it. You tell me, whose fault this is.
hockeybobby
11-01-2009, 07:43 AM
I am convinced that one of the following is true:
a) Strippers are not interested in finding out the truth
b) Strippers know the truth but cannot do anything about it
c) Strippers genuinely are unable to see the truth for some reason
I am convinced that one of the following is true:
a) Cyril is a troll
b) All Cyrils are trolls
c) See a)
Cyril
11-01-2009, 07:47 AM
I am convinced that one of the following is true:
a) Cyril is a troll
b) All Cyrils are trolls
c) See a)
That is hilarious. You come up with a trolling post and call me a troll. Come on. Get real.
yoda57us
11-01-2009, 07:59 AM
Get real.
Perhaps you should follow your own advice Cyril. You have managed to run the gamut from placing dancers on pedestals and blindly worshiping them to calling them liars and cheats during your time here on stripper web. You have managed to create your own little world where you know everything there is to know about a profession that you actually know absolutely nothing about.
Get real? Indeed....
WiseGuy_TX
11-01-2009, 11:38 AM
...amen HB and Yoda, amen.
mediocrity
11-01-2009, 12:51 PM
Perhaps you should follow your own advice Cyril. You have managed to run the gamut from placing dancers on pedestals and blindly worshiping them to calling them liars and cheats during your time here on stripper web. You have managed to create your own little world where you know everything there is to know about a profession that you actually know absolutely nothing about.
Get real? Indeed....
Ugh, like I said... who gets reanimated from being banned? I can get behind everything you said, yoda.
Oh the only thing I could ask for is cyril to be suicidal instead of disappointed...
(Wow, I'm in a mood today.)
Cyril
11-01-2009, 05:20 PM
Perhaps you should follow your own advice Cyril. You have managed to run the gamut from placing dancers on pedestals and blindly worshiping them to calling them liars and cheats during your time here on stripper web. You have managed to create your own little world where you know everything there is to know about a profession that you actually know absolutely nothing about.
Get real? Indeed....
I might put them back on pedestal again. You never know. Up and down. Black an white. Far and near. This is how life is - contrast.
mediocrity
11-01-2009, 05:47 PM
I might put them back on pedestal again. You never know. Up and down. Black an white. Far and near. This is how life is - contrast.
"Types of zombies
Rage Zombie
Slave Zombie
Demon Zombie
Ghoul Zombie
Reanimated Corpse Zombie
Rage zombie they die in two months or sooner avoid at all cost they die similar to humans and they don't eat the living
Slave zombiesare part of a voodoo curse, and are normally not undead, but rather humans on drugs. They can be killed like humans. Can also be detoxed back to human, but may be brain damaged (though no longer a zombie).
Demon zombiesare corpses possessed by demons. It is possible that a spell or exorcism may be needed to stop these. (Evil Dead 1, 2, 3)
Ghoul Zombie they kill and eat humans slow stupid mindless corpses (George Romero movies) a bullet to the head normally kills them or decapitation maybe afraid of fire, also easy to burn and possible kill with fire
Reanimated Corpse Zombie the body must be completely destroyed or the pieces will keep coming after you (return of the living dead 1, 2, 3 not 4 or 5) use fire, acid or a deep freezer. They can run and some remain human for a short time even if they are a zombie may not kill friends or family. They may also have memories of their former self and possible be able to talk."
Earl_the_Pearl
11-01-2009, 05:51 PM
"Types of zombies
Rage Zombie
Slave Zombie
Demon Zombie
Ghoul Zombie
Reanimated Corpse Zombie
You forgot computer Zombie where a clueless person lets another gain access to their computer.
mediocrity
11-01-2009, 05:53 PM
You forgot computer Zombie where a clueless person lets another gain access to their computer.
/:O No one has access to my computer.
Earl_the_Pearl
11-01-2009, 05:58 PM
/:O No one has access to my computer.
Most don't have a clue another is in control thus the name Zombie. Not saying yours is but millions yes millions are. Honestly everything I post is not about you personally.
WiseGuy_TX
11-01-2009, 06:04 PM
I might put them back on pedestal again. You never know. Up and down. Black an white. Far and near. This is how life is - contrast....in other words you had no 'comeback' to yoda's truth.:D
chris91
11-01-2009, 06:47 PM
I am convinced that one of the following is true:
a) Strippers are not interested in finding out the truth
b) Strippers know the truth but cannot do anything about it
c) Strippers genuinely are unable to see the truth for some reason
Hey I have an idea. How about you don't judge all strippers based on the few posts you've read on a message board? Do you know how stupid you sound when you say this kind of crap? I've known a few doctors who were evil bastards, and a few drug dealers who were wonderful and kind, but you won't hear me saying "doctors are evil and drug dealers are kind.", because that would be stupid.
The truth is, there isn't one man alive who knows what it's like to be a female stripper. you can read all the posts and talk to a million dancers, but you still only know what we tell you to know.
If there is anything to be learned from this board, it's that there are many different kinds of clubs, many different kinds of dancers, and many different kinds of dancer/customer interactions. So, please, stop talking about us like we all make up some kind of giant voltron stripper that can be judged as a single entity.
chris91
11-01-2009, 06:52 PM
In response to the op:
In the same way that strippers can't be judged as one entity, neither can regulars. I can tell you that if I find a guy weird or pathetic, it definitely has nothing to do with how often he comes to the club or how much money he spends.
yoda57us
11-02-2009, 12:05 AM
I might put them back on pedestal again. You never know. Up and down. Black an white. Far and near. This is how life is - contrast.
It's not really surprising that you see everything in the extreme Cyril. That is the way most people view a topic that they know nothing about. The reality is that most of life is lived in the gray area between your two extremes. People are more complicated than black and white or good and evil.
You are certainly not the first now-it-all to show up here telling us all how wrong we are and how right you are. But you are definitely one of the more clueless examples...
Earl_the_Pearl
11-02-2009, 03:02 AM
It's not really surprising that you see everything in the extreme Cyril.
Oh mighty Yoda; you know all. How much did you spend on hustlers and how much pussy did you get?
You have admitted to me that you don't read Hustle Hut because you can't handle the truth. Whatever floats your boat.
You are to me what an extra dancer is to the so called clean dancers. You fuck up my agenda.
yoda57us
11-02-2009, 05:49 AM
Oh mighty Yoda; you know all. How much did you spend on hustlers and how much pussy did you get?
You have admitted to me that you don't read Hustle Hut because you can't handle the truth. Whatever floats your boat.
You are to me what an extra dancer is to the so called clean dancers. You fuck up my agenda.
First of all Earl what the fuck does your entire post have to do with anything? I don't go to strip clubs looking for sex. I pay dancers to dance for me. I pay escorts to fuck me and I'm a good shopper...
Earl, I have never "admitted" anything to you. Show me where I did. I don't read Hustle Hut, or any other thread here that I can't participate in because it is of no interest to me if I can't contribute. It's not an issue for me, why is it an issue for you? Are you sure you are not GR???
I live to fuck-up the agendas of clueless, bitter guys like you and Cyril. It's my favorite thing about this site...
Earl_the_Pearl
11-02-2009, 06:05 AM
I live to fuck-up the agendas of clueless, bitter guys like you and Cyril. It's my favorite thing about this site...
You have no effect on me on this site as this site means nothing. Nor does your type have an effect in the clubs I frequent as we probably go to different types of clubs. New Jersey has one or two clubs for your type and 100 for my type. Of course some clubs cater to both types perhaps the same dancer caters to both types.