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Earl_the_Pearl
11-01-2009, 04:06 PM
You still didn't have to be such a huge doucher.
Remember this is blue and some women use me as a douche. When they grab the back of my head or force themselves down on me I can't breath. It must be how it is to be water boarded. :-[

Earl_the_Pearl
11-01-2009, 04:13 PM
It's pretty frustrating b/c even on this site, where the men are on here b/c of their interest in the strip clubs, majority of the men still don't want a long term relationship with a dancer. Post this question on a non SC related website and the answers would be way harsher.
Strippers are to look at and enjoy, but not worth dating. Worth sleeping with, but not worth seriously DATING. That's how men see us.
It's a shame. And very frustrating.

Not true of all men. Some would not mind if dancers would let us behave as they do but they don't like it. They want to run the show and do as they please wile the SO sits at home waiting for her return. Dancers have difficulty not seeing all men as they see men in the club. They want to be in control and "empowered".

hockeybobby
11-01-2009, 04:33 PM
It's pretty frustrating b/c even on this site, where the men are on here b/c of their interest in the strip clubs, majority of the men still don't want a long term relationship with a dancer. Post this question on a non SC related website and the answers would be way harsher.
Strippers are to look at and enjoy, but not worth dating. Worth sleeping with, but not worth seriously DATING. That's how men see us.
It's a shame. And very frustrating.

An interesting sidebar to this is that many men who would have no problem dating a stripper can be found in a strip club. However, the vast majority of strippers on this site vow they would never date a strip club patron.

Customers are to dance for, but not worth dating. Worth taking money from, but not worth seriously dating. That's how strippers see us. It's a shame. And very frustrating.

Christyismyalias
11-01-2009, 05:11 PM
^^^That is not my view on it at all. My reasons for not dating guys I meet in the club is not because I don't think they are worthy by any means. I've met plenty of men I would consider dating had I met under a different circumstance.

It is the fact that when you meet someone in the club, they have this vision of the person you are.

I am looking my best, always dolled up, sexy, and my personality is on point. Whereas in life I'm shyer, more reserved, and definitely not as attractive. If a guy wants to get to know me at those moments, I feel there's more of a chance he's interested in the person I am, not the persona I portray at work.

Most guys want to date (or fuck) a stripper, but of course they do, it's because they are HOT!
It's not because they like my personality and want to get to know me. Maybe sometimes a guy sees through the glitz, but more often than not.... And even if they think they are seeing the real girl, they are often wrong.

princessjas
11-01-2009, 05:27 PM
^^There is also a bit of a difference in not wanting to date someone who is a regular in OUR club and not wanting to date someone who goes to another club. What are we supposed to do?? Tell them they are not allowed in the club anymore if we go out with them?? It's just a BAD idea to date people you meet at work, doubly so because of the nature of the work and the fact that we are not who we seem at work...and lets face it, it's very true that men often want the stripper persona, not the real person.

Earl_the_Pearl
11-01-2009, 05:46 PM
I am looking my best, always dolled up, sexy, and my personality is on point. Whereas in life I'm shyer, more reserved, and definitely not as attractive. If a guy wants to get to know me at those moments, I feel there's more of a chance he's interested in the person I am, not the persona I portray at work.
All women when they go out to look for a man are looking their best, always dolled up, sexy, and there personality is on point.

I don't even know why "does it honestly matter" was even asked of PLs. Dancers should know how their dating life is and I think they do know it does matter unless they can accept their personal dating life to be like it is in the club.

As a PL I can accept this I find the dancer cannot. A dancer can have a long term relationship with a PL more easily than someone that does not go to SC. Of course she will have to accept the PL wanting to dance with others as the dancer will want to dance with others. This is when the dancer protecting her best regular kicks in and it goes the way of all regulars.

princessjas
11-01-2009, 06:49 PM
All women when they go out to look for a man are looking their best, always dolled up, sexy, and there personality is on point.
Not to the same extent strippers do. Not even CLOSE!! Unless you are dating a drag queen or one of those NJ/NY chicks that chases after guidos. As for our personality, we may be on our best behavior while looking for dates, but we are still ourselves. When we are at work that is often not the case. Trust me, I act like a flirty party-girl at work, or play up the innocent thing....Neither is even CLOSE to real life. :P


I don't even know why "does it honestly matter" was even asked of PLs. Dancers should know how their dating life is and I think they do know it does matter unless they can accept their personal dating life to be like it is in the club.
So by your logic, the only relationship we can have is one we are paid for? Gawd, you are a dipshit. ::)


As a PL I can accept this I find the dancer cannot. A dancer can have a long term relationship with a PL more easily than someone that does not go to SC. Of course she will have to accept the PL wanting to dance with others as the dancer will want to dance with others. This is when the dancer protecting her best regular kicks in and it goes the way of all regulars.

WTF are you even saying here? That we should accept that our guys are going to want to date other women?? or just fuck them?? or are you actually talking about dancer/custy relations and can't wrap your brain around us being actual people with actual relationships and connections with others and such.

BTW - Before I get slammed for saying this on Blue...I have no issues with my guy going to a SC or getting dances or what-have-you...as long as it does not endanger my health. Guys are guys and I have no issues with that. :D I just have issues with EtP and his tendency to lump all dancers into certain categories....including his thinking that we hate all customers...It bugs me.

xdamage
11-01-2009, 06:57 PM
It's pretty frustrating b/c even on this site, where the men are on here b/c of their interest in the strip clubs, majority of the men still don't want a long term relationship with a dancer. Post this question on a non SC related website and the answers would be way harsher.
Strippers are to look at and enjoy, but not worth dating. Worth sleeping with, but not worth seriously DATING. That's how men see us.
It's a shame. And very frustrating.

Like I wrote, happens to porn actors as well. You might even watch porn and enjoy it, but might be someone who would never consider a relationship with someone whose job is porn, even though it is a legal job, and they might even feel for them "it is just a job". They are good enough to watch and entertain us but they may ask, are not good enough to date? Seems like the same thing, just a different set of personal limits.

Perhaps some of them feel frustrated over the stigma as well, but OTOH...

The stigma may be part of why it pays what it does. If it was completely stigma free or anonymous there might be even more people wanting a share (and actually we see so many amateur porn actors on the internet now that who knows - could be already it is paying poorly for many).

I think it just goes with the territory; sex and sexual-like behavior stirs very deep seated emotions in us people.

stressed
11-01-2009, 07:32 PM
As for our personality, we may be on our best behavior while looking for dates, but we are still ourselves. When we are at work that is often not the case. Trust me, I act like a flirty party-girl at work, or play up the innocent thing....Neither is even CLOSE to real life. :P

I hear ya. I am no where near the same person at work, at club, at home. I like fun girls out, but at home i am good with sitting together in the living room in our pajamas reading a book while not watching tv that is on. Just simple chit. And i <<333 the no makeup messy hair chilling look;D

As long as she doesnt mind when i dont shave for 3 days or get out of my robe all day on sundays.:P

Smokeless
11-01-2009, 10:53 PM
Pimp:
noun 1. a person, esp. a man, who solicits customers for a prostitute or a brothel, usually in return for a share of the earnings; pander; procurer.

I disagree with the solicitation part as they usually remain in the background and the women does the hustling.

Be as disagreeable as you wish. But complain about the definition to Random House, not Med.

Earl_the_Pearl
11-01-2009, 11:13 PM
Be as disagreeable as you wish. But complain about the definition to Random House, not Med.

http://blog.searchenginewatch.com/White%20Knight%20SEO.JPG

Phil-W
11-02-2009, 04:57 PM
Customers are to dance for, but not worth dating. Worth taking money from, but not worth seriously dating. That's how strippers see us. It's a shame. And very frustrating.

If you look at it from a dancer's POV, they adopt a different persona from their normal one as soon as they go into work. It gives them the degree of mental separation needed to do their job.

The dancers I know OTC would get seriously embarrassed if I took any interest in them while at work. They can't dance in front of me because I'm a friend, not a customer - it would make them very uncomfortable. Everyone else in the place: no problem - because they're mentally pigeon holed as a customer.

And therein lies your problem. Dancers can only get naked for you if they adopt a specific mental attitude - and as soon as they've slipped into that mental attitude they've no interest in seeing you OTC. Its a real Catch 22.


It's not because they like my personality and want to get to know me. Maybe sometimes a guy sees through the glitz, but more often than not.... And even if they think they are seeing the real girl, they are often wrong.


...and lets face it, it's very true that men often want the stripper persona, not the real person.

And to pick up on the points made by Christyismyalias and princessjas, the person you meet in the SC is very unlikely to be the person you meet outside. Hair, make-up and clothing is likely to be more subdued and above all, their personality is likely to be a lot quieter than the person you see in the club.

One dancer, for example, I've spent a lot of time with over the last five years helping with her studies - and I'm damn pleased for her, because she's about to get her MSc. And most of my time with her has been her scruffing about her flat in an ancient pair of jeans, tatty t-shirt and no make-up - about as far away as you can get from glamorous.

Another dancer's idea of a perfect night off is lounging on a sofa in her dressing gown, splitting a bottle of wine with me and watching TV while I cook for her - again about as far away from glamorous as you can get.

Another Catch 22 - because a dancer's personality is so different at work, you have no idea whether the person you like at work is going to be any resemblance to the girl in real life.

Phil.

FBR
11-02-2009, 08:21 PM
Phil, I know you are a good man and I respect that. But please tell me that somewhere along the line you banged at least one of those strippers. I mean, for God's sake, how can you stand to be only friends all of the time? ;)

FBR

KiwiStrawberry Splenda
11-02-2009, 08:42 PM
I don't care if my SO goes to clubs. However, for whatever reason, none of the guys I've seriously dated were into going to the SC on a regular basis, or even at all.

And of course many strippers have SO's that they met at work. Haven't you dated a coworker before, guys? But if the dancer lets you guys know that a custy might have a chance, then there goes her potential profit, and she's stuck with time wasters wanting a date. Its simple business.

I would certainly rather date a male stripper than an SC regular.

xdamage
11-03-2009, 05:45 AM
Since joining I've read a few extreme stances and the majority moderate. One extreme is dancers who regularly go to SCs themselves with their SOs. The other extreme is dancers who feel that if a guy has ever gone to a SC that marks him as an automatic loser, automatic no-way ever.

Then in the middle are variations of it's okay to sometimes go but not spend too much, which remains at odds with wanting other customers to spend often and a lot.

None of that is the least surprising because it's a vice, and sexual-oriented.

Like I said, a lot of people watch porn, so they are good enough to entertain us, but wouldn't date a porn actor even if they are just doing their entirely legal job.

A lot of people would have no issue if their SO was a musician and the partner obsessively loved music, even listening to others music, or going to hear live music weekly, so it's not the same as non-vice entertainments.

And I'm really not sure how well even many dancers could cope with a dancer SO, one who engaged in contact levels equivalent to their own. Everything is easy to say but until one is actually in a situation we often don't realize how strongly we will feel about sex.

I guess the only thing that I don't get is why does it remain so difficult to acknowledge that it is a legal job that pays good money, but being a vice, being sexual in nature, of course it's expected that many buyers and sellers have some conflicts of interest. I think it just goes with selling vice/sexual-oriented entertainment.

If we really didn't care at all, if sexual entertainment was no different then being a musician, I think the market and competition in the market would be very very different (and the pie would be cut far thinner then it already is). Even in saying that, it will raise conflicts because it requires facing that the stigma is also beneficial.

Conflicts of interest don't bother me in the least. They are normal. But not facing them head on does bother me because it leaves people who have to believe some pretty outrageous things to avoid facing the conflicts.

yoda57us
11-03-2009, 06:23 AM
This is blue not the sugar coated pink. Blue is truth not support except for the "White Knights" and we all know what they are after. They want what a "Black Knight" gets. :boobies:

It's probably never occurred to you Earl that maybe white knights get it too....and pay less....

princessjas
11-03-2009, 08:19 AM
It's probably never occurred to you Earl that maybe white knights get it too....and pay less....

And just occassionally, those 'white knights" don't have to pay for it at all. Being a nice guy really can have some perks. Sometimes women will actually sleep with you because they like you, not because you are paying. :O

Sorry if your brain just exploded Earl. :P

yoda57us
11-03-2009, 09:05 AM
Customers are to dance for, but not worth dating. Worth taking money from, but not worth seriously dating. That's how strippers see us. It's a shame. And very frustrating.

It's important to realize that dating a woman and taking her seriously are two different things. Lots of men would have no problem dating a stripper but the vast majority of those men are looking for sex and good times with a beautiful woman. When it comes to a serious relationship the ultimatums start to flow like cheap VIP room champagne.

Most guys, if they get serious with a dancer, want her to quite dancing and either find a normal job or let the guy support her. Most dancers have learned this the hard way and have no desire to get involved with a relationship that will most likely end badly.

Ultimately it comes back around to the same basic difference between dancers and customers. We are in the club to have fun. They are in the club to earn a living.

Earl_the_Pearl
11-03-2009, 02:40 PM
Phil, I know you are a good man and I respect that. But please tell me that somewhere along the line you banged at least one of those strippers. I mean, for God's sake, how can you stand to be only friends all of the time? ;)

FBR
I Earl_the_Pig cannot be friends with an attractive woman like I could be friends with a man. The sexual tension would not permit my mind to talk about ideas; it would not be think1ng as the blood would be in the little head.

I could be friends with an attractive woman after about six months of swapping body fluids as by then the novelty will have worn off.

Earl_the_Pearl
11-03-2009, 02:45 PM
And just occassionally, those 'white knights" don't have to pay for it at all. Being a nice guy really can have some perks. Sometimes women will actually sleep with you because they like you, not because you are paying. :O

Sorry if your brain just exploded Earl. :P
So you do meet PLs OTC and give them free sex. The last time I got free sex it cost me $300,000.00.

rockie
11-03-2009, 02:54 PM
Earl: I take it you weren't in New Jersey!:P

KiwiStrawberry Splenda
11-03-2009, 03:45 PM
An interesting sidebar to this is that many men who would have no problem dating a stripper can be found in a strip club. However, the vast majority of strippers on this site vow they would never date a strip club patron.

Customers are to dance for, but not worth dating. Worth taking money from, but not worth seriously dating. That's how strippers see us. It's a shame. And very frustrating.

Dood, we meet 20 customers a day, 5 days a week, for example. That's 100 new men A WEEK! Why should they all get the chance to date a stripper? Its not a double standard because you're trying to compare apples to melons.

Why do you feel so entitled to be able to date a stripper? The whole point of our existence is to give pervy old men like you a taste of what you can't have. We are NOT the dating pool.

Besides, strippers date guys they meet at work all the time. Its just that, it might take meeting 2,000 men before each individual woman finds someone she feels is a compatible match. Sometimes it doesn't happen. Some women are disciplined enough not to let it ever happen, to maintain professionalism, most are not.

The things said on the pink side, re: dating custies, are generally not the reality, at least from what I've seen in a variety of clubs.

And this "good enough to take money from but not date" is ridiculous. Do you, or have you ever worked in any kind of sales capacity? Let's say you are an accountant. You happily take your client's money for the work you do, but are you going to date each and every one that might ask you out? Of course not, some are men, some are married, some are unattractive to you, some have unappealing personalities. You would not feel obligated to date each and every one of your clients that ask you out.

WHY SHOULD A STRIPPER DO THAT THEN? HUH?

Earl_the_Pearl
11-03-2009, 05:03 PM
Most guys, if they get serious with a dancer, want her to quite dancing and either find a normal job or let the guy support her.

A third scenario is the PL pays most if not all of the bills wile cohabiting with a dancer. The dancer comes and goes as she pleases keeps all of her money and has cut way back to two times a week dancing, the PL doesn't mind as he met her in the club and accepts what she does.

The dancer treats the PL like her number one regular and won't let the PL do as she does going so far as to cause trouble with the dancers the PL drives checking his phone and calling his friends making threats. Not that the PL cares but she insists she is a totally clean dancer.

The PL learned much from knowing dancers; he starts to check her phone, reading text messages and listening to her voice mail. Dancer tells PL she is going to a restaurant with some of her girl friends, girls only party. PL finds out she is doing a private party with some of the biggest extra dancers in all of New Jersey, they only got $100 to show up but big tips no doubt.

The PL calls her phone and one of the guys that set up the party answers WTF PL asks for the dancer and he hangs up. PL then calls his phone, got his number form the dancer's phone, he answers I ask where they are as I want to come and see them. He gives me a fake address and hangs up.

The PL really doesn't care as dancers are no different than other women. What the PL can't stand and told said dancer many times don't lie and play him for a fool.

She still calls the PL and denies it was a private party even after he has 100% proof. PL doesn't care what his friends do just don't play homey for a fool.





http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v17/earlcamembert/Homeydontplay.jpg


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Earl_the_Pearl
11-03-2009, 05:05 PM
Earl: I take it you weren't in New Jersey!:P
I hardly ever leave NJ as the world comes to me. New Jersey is a community property state each get half but the woman's half is bigger.

Earl_the_Pearl
11-03-2009, 05:12 PM
WHY SHOULD A STRIPPER DO THAT THEN? HUH?
I agree 100% and a PL should never forget that he is buying a commodity.

"A commodity is some good for which there is demand, but which is supplied without qualitative differentiation across a market." Next.

safado
11-03-2009, 05:13 PM
A third scenario is the PL pays most if not all of the bills wile cohabiting with a dancer. The dancer comes and goes as she pleases keeps all of her money and has cut way back to two times a week dancing, the PL doesn't mind as he met her in the club and accepts what she does.

The dancer treats the PL like her number one regular and won't let the PL do as she does going so far as to cause trouble with the dancers the PL drives checking his phone and calling his friends making threats. Not that the PL cares but she insists she is a totally clean dancer.

The PL learned much from knowing dancers; he starts to check her phone, reading text messages and listening to her voice mail. Dancer tells PL she is going to a restaurant with some of her girl friends, girls only party. PL finds out she is doing a private party with some of the biggest extra dancers in all of New Jersey, they only got $100 to show up but big tips no doubt.

The PL calls her phone and one of the guys that set up the party answers WTF PL asks for the dancer and he hangs up. PL then calls his phone, got his number form the dancer's phone, he answers I ask where they are as I want to come and see them. He gives me a fake address and hangs up.

The PL really doesn't care as dancers are no different than other women. What the PL can't stand and told said dancer many times don't lie and play him for a fool.

She still calls the PL and denies it was a private party even after he has 100% proof. PL doesn't care what his friends do just don't play homey for a fool.





http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v17/earlcamembert/Homeydontplay.jpg


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So are you going to stop paying her bills and kick her to the curb?

princessjas
11-03-2009, 05:13 PM
So you do meet PLs OTC and give them free sex. The last time I got free sex it cost me $300,000.00.

No, I do not meet custies OTC...EVER! I have no issues with guys who are custies at other clubs tho, as long as they aren't the crazy/creepy, there every night, obsessed with the ATF type.

Earl_the_Pearl
11-03-2009, 05:18 PM
It's probably never occurred to you Earl that maybe white knights get it too....and pay less....
They may get it but it defiantly costs more maybe not in money but it costs big time.

Earl_the_Pearl
11-03-2009, 05:25 PM
No, I do not meet custies OTC...EVER! I have no issues with guys who are custies at other clubs tho, as long as they aren't the crazy/creepy, there every night, obsessed with the ATF type.


And just occassionally, those 'white knights" don't have to pay for it at all. Being a nice guy really can have some perks. Sometimes women will actually sleep with you because they like you, not because you are paying. :O

Sorry if your brain just exploded Earl. :P

You do know what a "white knight" is very similar to a "save a Ho". Where do you meet these "white knights"? If not in the club they are not really "white knights" as they don't know you are a dancer and have no reason to save you.

safado
11-03-2009, 05:30 PM
If not in the club they are not really "white knights" as they don't know you are a dancer and have no reason to save you.

How about on stripper web?

Earl_the_Pearl
11-03-2009, 05:33 PM
How about on stripper web?
Many "white knights" trying to get in good with dancers.

Earl_the_Pearl
11-03-2009, 05:43 PM
So are you going to stop paying her bills and kick her to the curb?
The PL doesn't have to kick her to the curb as it is her apartment. She wanted to move into the PLs house a long time ago but the PL knows if she gets her mail there and had her toothbrush there she is considered living there. If she calls the police the PL will be removed even if he did not sign the papers and she is not on the deed. That is how the lesbian controlled courts work; judges don’t want a bunch of screaming women in pant suits picketing his ass.

The PL can get the same arraignment for about the same money with a dancer younger, slimmer, taller and much better looking but she wants to have his babies.

safado
11-03-2009, 05:48 PM
The PL doesn't have to kick her to the curb as it is her apartment. She wanted to move into the PLs house a long time ago but the PL knows if she gets her mail there and had her toothbrush there she is considered living there. If she calls the police the PL will be removed even if he did not sign the papers and she is not on the deed. That is how the lesbian controlled courts work; judges don’t want a bunch of screaming women in pant suits picketing his ass.

The PL can get the same arraignment for about the same money with a dancer younger, slimmer, taller and much better looking but she wants to have his babies.

I think the PL should get a vasectomy and then trade for the younger better piece of ass.

hockeybobby
11-03-2009, 05:58 PM
Dood, we meet 20 customers a day, 5 days a week, for example. That's 100 new men A WEEK! Why should they all get the chance to date a stripper? Its not a double standard because you're trying to compare apples to melons.

Why do you feel so entitled to be able to date a stripper? The whole point of our existence is to give pervy old men like you a taste of what you can't have. We are NOT the dating pool.

Besides, strippers date guys they meet at work all the time. Its just that, it might take meeting 2,000 men before each individual woman finds someone she feels is a compatible match. Sometimes it doesn't happen. Some women are disciplined enough not to let it ever happen, to maintain professionalism, most are not.

The things said on the pink side, re: dating custies, are generally not the reality, at least from what I've seen in a variety of clubs.

And this "good enough to take money from but not date" is ridiculous. Do you, or have you ever worked in any kind of sales capacity? Let's say you are an accountant. You happily take your client's money for the work you do, but are you going to date each and every one that might ask you out? Of course not, some are men, some are married, some are unattractive to you, some have unappealing personalities. You would not feel obligated to date each and every one of your clients that ask you out.

WHY SHOULD A STRIPPER DO THAT THEN? HUH?

For greater clarity, my post was just a cheeky response to a post that likewise exagerated and generalized. You make some good points though.

You are right about the pervy old man part too. :D

hockeybobby
11-03-2009, 06:04 PM
The last time I got free sex it cost me $300,000.00.

Hahaha :D

Earl_the_Pearl
11-03-2009, 06:40 PM
I think the PL should get a vasectomy...
The Holy Father said that would be a sin. The PL could date Lorena Bobbit . :scared:

dlabtot
11-03-2009, 07:18 PM
For me, this thread is mostly posts from someone on 'ignore', but to answer the OP's question....

Of course it 'matters' what someone does for a living.... if I meet someone new, it matters whether she is a cop or unemployed or a chef or a grocery clerk or a dancer.

What someone does is at least part of who they are.... cop... that would really matter to me, lol I can't see it happening..... grocery clerk... not impressive, but it certainly wouldn't stop me from dating.... dancer... well in this small town I already know all the dancers so I don't think I'll meet someone new at the grocery store lol, however... all the SW regulars know that some are not cut out for the job and it does mess some people up - but again, it wouldn't stop me from getting to know her... a chef - well there's no doubt that would add to the attraction.

taxguy
11-03-2009, 08:25 PM
The guys at work were talking this last week at work. I don't recall many men objecting to dating a stripper. Of course the reasons were less than pure but that's a given for most. I personally didn't see major implications with dating one (besides the obvious girlfriend getting naked for other guys) until today. All the men wanted to know ALL the details about the company clubs, about the dancers, and how the business ran. I've never seen so many accountants excited that early in the morning. That didn't surprise me but I didn't expect the women to react the way they did. By lunch, they had overheard most of the guys conversations. I have never been given so many dirty looks.. eventually some of them became more vocal. "You went to one of "those" places?" "I hope you didn't ACTUALLY enjoy it there" soon the insecurities kicked in.. "I just don't understand why men go to strip clubs! Can't they get a girl without paying?" "Only God can help those girls now. Obviously their parents couldn't do anything" That was the rest of my day from lunch on.
Now I'm not sure how eager I would be to date a dancer. The negative response at the office was enough to bear, and that doesn't even include pressure from my family/friends and possibly even clients. Unless there was something serious between us, I just don't see it happening. It's a lot of stress to put on a new relationship.
Life would be easier if everyone was more open minded about things they know nothing about.

princessjas
11-03-2009, 09:24 PM
^^This cracks me up! It's hilarious, especially since I was an accountant and stripper simultaneously. Haha

That being said, why would it matter what others opinions were? Who would find out what your gf did for a living? Most dancers don't exactly go around announcing it to strangers because we are familiar with the prejudices. Unless you are only dating a dancer for bragging rights it shouldn't be important. After all, most of us aren't classless idiots who are going to walk into your mom's house and start taking our clothes off and spinning around the Newelpost. ::)

KiwiStrawberry Splenda
11-03-2009, 09:29 PM
Oh Earl, please seek therapy! Find yourself a nice older lesbian psychiatrist. I recommend a mood stabilizer, it will help the rage and psychosis.

yoda57us
11-03-2009, 09:35 PM
A third scenario is the PL pays most if not all of the bills wile cohabiting with a dancer...

Rather than another scenario, that sounds more like another episode in "the Life and Times of Earl the Pearl" to me Earl

yoda57us
11-03-2009, 09:41 PM
They may get it but it defiantly costs more maybe not in money but it costs big time.

LOL, you in a hurry Earl? Is someone looking for you?

lopaw
11-03-2009, 09:43 PM
.....That is how the lesbian controlled courts work; judges don’t want a bunch of screaming women in pant suits picketing his ass....


Your obsession with lesbians just makes me all tingly inside.

FBR
11-03-2009, 09:46 PM
^ Ha! lopaw rules ;D I would love to use my moderation powers to somehow have my way with her but I think she nixed that a long time ago }:D

FBR

taxguy
11-03-2009, 09:47 PM
I don't particularity like most of my co-workers, but they do give me peer reviews after every project cycle, so I do brown nose in epic proportions ::) Another thing I admire about dancers.. no boss behind the desk!

Well if no one else knew, then there wouldn't be any reason not to date a stripper.. but I highly doubt I'd ever been the position to reject a dancer gf, don't see too many fighting for me right now ;D

FBR
11-03-2009, 09:49 PM
This is an entertaining thread and I appreciate folks actually keeping it fairly civil. Imagine that in Blue.

FBR

Earl_the_Pearl
11-03-2009, 09:53 PM
Rather than another scenario, that sounds more like another episode in "the Life and Times of Earl the Pearl" to me Earl
Did you see the word I,me or Earl in the post? No you did not you know what happens when you ass/u/me.

Earl_the_Pearl
11-03-2009, 10:03 PM
I don't particularity like most of my co-workers, but they do give me peer reviews after every project cycle, so I do brown nose in epic proportions ::) Another thing I admire about dancers.. no boss behind the desk!

Well if no one else knew, then there wouldn't be any reason not to date a stripper.. but I highly doubt I'd ever been the position to reject a dancer gf, don't see too many fighting for me right now ;D

OK you are the real deal. When you get power over dancers in the club as to schedules, working conditions and keeping a-hole managers off their backs you will have more dancer friends than vital fluid.

Earl_the_Pearl
11-03-2009, 10:11 PM
Your obsession with lesbians just makes me all tingly inside.
I am not obsessed with lesbians but I would arm wrestle the butch for her fem any day.

Earl_the_Pearl
11-03-2009, 10:15 PM
LOL, you in a hurry Earl? Is someone looking for you?
No one has to look for me I'm in the book and have been at the same address for 26 years; except for a brief 1 1/2 year lesbian family court enforced absence.