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charlie61
10-31-2009, 08:50 PM
I hate it when guys get over aggressive, thinking it feels so good touching you, when it fucking hurts. Just keep your hands away from me down there, please. Thank you.
QFT! Guys try to jerk me off like I'm a dude.
Earl_the_Pearl
10-31-2009, 09:11 PM
Oh, and I'm multiorgasmic as well.
All women are; it is so unfair. :-[
charlie61
10-31-2009, 11:12 PM
^ Actually not all women are. Not by far...
KiwiStrawberry Splenda
11-01-2009, 12:02 AM
True that, many women are not. I am though. More later on how that makes sense anatomically. Although, I have known guys who can get hard and fuck again after they orgasm. It happens, at least in the beginning of the relationship.
Now, I'm lucky if I can get my SO to sex me once a week. But I can have daily multiple orgasms on my own, so I technically have no need for a man anyway......
AHA! That's the point, of the issue..that we don't need men! Well, we really don't, but I like them anyway.
bigmarv
11-01-2009, 08:28 PM
^ Actually not all women are. Not by far...
My second wife was multi-orgasmic, when she was in the mood. :)
Earl_the_Pearl
11-01-2009, 10:32 PM
My second wife was multi-orgasmic, when she was in the mood. :)
It is up to the man to put her in the mood; of course that is only if he is in the mood.
"And in the end the love you take is equal to the love you make". Of course if you just want to bust a nut and only have 3 minutes she is just an object.
Gia2608
11-02-2009, 12:40 AM
Every man over 18 should know this stuff by now. I can not believe there are men out there who don't.
In fairness, you can't just blame the men. In the US it's so fucking taboo to talk about or be educated about sex w/in your family and most social groups,
Fuck that I love sex and talk about probably 15- 20% of the time that I open my mouth.
That means a lot of others talk to me about sex. I'm not saying I'm an expert, just a collector of experience and opinions.
In my opinion, women can and do have orgasms from penetration.
And if a man feels the same sensations when his penis is touched or sucked on as a woman does when her clit is; I can def. see why they are such horndogs.
Earl_the_Pearl
11-02-2009, 03:07 AM
And if a man feels the same sensations when his penis is touched or sucked on as a woman does when her clit is; I can def. see why they are such horndogs.
Oh baby PM me; we are able for a short time.
jack0177057
11-02-2009, 09:29 AM
The Journal of Sexual Medicine 2009, vol. 6, no5, pp. 1223-1231 explained that the "G-spot" is actually the "root" of the clitoris. The clitoris is more than just the "love bud" or "nubbin" that is on the outside. It consists of a bundle of nerves on the inside that loop down so it is very close to the anterior wall (front) of the vaginal canal on the interior side of the pubic bone. All sexual pleasure is connected to the clitoris. However, in some cases, the clitoris is extremely sensitive to direct touch and direct touch can even be painful.
Because there is no natural lubrication that moistens the clit, I use a lot of lubrication when I massage my GF's. I don't think she is multi-orgasmic, but she does likes to continue having sex after her orgasm. Basically, we have vaginal sex until she is very turned on, then I rub the tip on my penis on her clit until she orgasms, then we're back to vaginal sex until I orgasm. She continues to enjoy vaginal sex for about 10 minutes after her orgasm (but, no further direct contact of clit), but doesn't orgasm again.
I guess this proves that (at least for women) long term partners are more sexually satisfying - because each woman has a unique combination of specific things that are required to reach her optimum orgasm. A guy can learn to be a sex god with one woman and then repeat the same process with another women, only to be remembered as her worst lover ever.
charlie61
11-02-2009, 10:06 AM
My second wife was multi-orgasmic, when she was in the mood. :)
Yes, many women are. Many aren't. :)
devilkitty
11-02-2009, 06:26 PM
It's ok. I don't believe in god. Or jerking off men under the bar for $20.Wow This is the most fabulous thing I've read all year I swear to your non-existant god.
taxguy
11-02-2009, 06:53 PM
Vaginal orgasms are the reason that many women think they hit their sexual high around 30. It's actually just the lining of the vaginal walls thinning with age which makes the vaginal orgasm possible/more frequent.
yoda57us
11-02-2009, 07:11 PM
Discuss?
My current primary sex partner can orgasm three to five times before her clitoris can't take any more. That being said it is all accomplished by oral stimulation on my part or her pocket rocket. She doesn't mind a penis in her vagina but it does nothing to get her off.
KiwiStrawberry Splenda
11-02-2009, 07:23 PM
The Journal of Sexual Medicine 2009, vol. 6, no5, pp. 1223-1231 explained that the "G-spot" is actually the "root" of the clitoris. The clitoris is more than just the "love bud" or "nubbin" that is on the outside. It consists of a bundle of nerves on the inside that loop down so it is very close to the anterior wall (front) of the vaginal canal on the interior side of the pubic bone. All sexual pleasure is connected to the clitoris. However, in some cases, the clitoris is extremely sensitive to direct touch and direct touch can even be painful.
Yes, yes, this is what I meant.
Oh, and I'm having an interesting revelation. I orgasm very quickly and strongly when I have a penis in my mouth. Strange how our tastes evolve...
susie2
11-02-2009, 08:01 PM
Vaginal orgasms are the reason that many women think they hit their sexual high around 30. It's actually just the lining of the vaginal walls thinning with age which makes the vaginal orgasm possible/more frequent.
Fuck you if that was true sex would be great after delivering a baby when the skin is at its thinest, but it's not. Acheaving orgasm has a lot to do with hormones, not just nerve endings.
Don't be sad just because a womans sexual peak is way longer than a mans.
Back on topic:
I have internal climaxes, ones that I don't think have anything to do with the clit(however, if nerves from above the ass go to the clit,like spanking climaxes, it probably is connected), their deep in me. I generally only have them when I love the man, and I am reallllly feeling the love and zoning into the love making. ie, when kissing makes you dizzy.
Now, to all the innie orgasmers, have you found that you squirt two different ways? I've had experiece to the euretha squrts, but the way better climaxes come from the ejaculations that come from the euterous. Is anyone else wired that way?
KiwiStrawberry Splenda
11-02-2009, 08:31 PM
Vaginal orgasms are the reason that many women think they hit their sexual high around 30. It's actually just the lining of the vaginal walls thinning with age which makes the vaginal orgasm possible/more frequent.
I don't think that's the case. I had internal/g-spot orgasms with frequency in my twenties. Now that I'm in my thirties, I don't like to bother with it so much because of the initial feeling of urination, and the soreness afterwards.
And I have just as many orgasms now as then. Vibrators are my friends.}:D
taxguy
11-02-2009, 08:40 PM
Sorry.. Just something that I watched on Discovery Channel :-\
KiwiStrawberry Splenda
11-02-2009, 08:45 PM
It could be accurate, I don't know, but anatomy is an interest of mine and I've never heard this.
taxguy
11-02-2009, 09:00 PM
Thanks Kiwi ;D You always know just what to say
jack0177057
11-02-2009, 09:49 PM
Yes, yes, this is what I meant.
Oh, and I'm having an interesting revelation. I orgasm very quickly and strongly when I have a penis in my mouth. Strange how our tastes evolve...
You lost me there...but, I'm intrigued... a penis in your mouth and clitoris stimulation... or just a penis in your mouth? Are you referring to a 69 or ménage à trois?
KiwiStrawberry Splenda
11-02-2009, 10:07 PM
You lost me there...but, I'm intrigued... a penis in your mouth and clitoris stimulation... or just a penis in your mouth? Are you referring to a 69 or ménage à trois?
I like to lie on my back and use my vibrator on my clit while my SO stands over me and I fellate him, simultaneously. This works well because he is very large and I don't like giving him blowjobs. He wants them to completion and I always gag and my jaw gets tired.
Earl_the_Pearl
11-02-2009, 10:45 PM
Vibrators are my friends.
Did you ever hear the story of John Henry? He was a steel driving man from New Jersey. When the railroad brought in a steam dildo to work on a difficult tunnel John Henry stepped forward and said he would challenge the steam dildo.
John Henry was humping on the right side,
The big steam dildo on the left,
Before that steam dildo could beat him down,
He humped his fool self to death.
They carried John Henry to the mountains,
From his shoulder his penis was hung
It grew large as the women kissed it good bye
Said she this penis is coming back for me
John Henry was lying on his death bed,
He turned over on his side
And these were the last words John Henry said
"Bring me a warm wet pussy before I die."
KiwiStrawberry Splenda
11-02-2009, 11:13 PM
I don't know Jersey folklore. The only time I've spent in NJ was in the Newark airport.
Earl_the_Pearl
11-03-2009, 01:49 AM
I don't know Jersey folklore. The only time I've spent in NJ was in the Newark airport.
Depending on the gate you may have been in Elisabeth. That is not the real New Jersey. I know you have a man but if it should not work out PM Earl and I will show you New Jersey from High Point to Cape May. Now High Point is best in the winter and Cape May is best in the summer.
Such a small state but so much to see; if you insist I can show you New York, New York, New York. It is really no big deal but we can do whatever you want to do. Some people are impressed by it but it smells like piss in the summer months.
I prefer to drive my 2000 Purple Plymouth Van but if you would like to go 100MPH and squeal that can also be arranged. I am now totally single; I have really been single form 5/26/1996 but totally free for several months.
We are from the same tribe; let’s do lunch.
hyzenthflay
11-03-2009, 01:59 PM
I'm able to have both types of orgasms, and sometimes (rarely) simultaneously. And I've been having vaginal ones since my 2nd sexual experience....though it is with what I call the in/hold/out rhythm preferably with deeper penetration. It's an orgasm that has to be worked at/concentrated on for me, and difficult to get with doggy style. The vaginal orgasm for me is far more powerful and satisfying. I can actually have a better one with the vibe, but prefer skin on skin;p The clit ones feel great, but my bladder doesn't work right for days after...so usually not worth it.
Sadly, I've never been able to achieve multiples or squirt...
KiwiStrawberry Splenda
11-03-2009, 03:32 PM
We are from the same tribe; let’s do lunch.
And what tribe would that be?8)
rockie
11-03-2009, 04:12 PM
wherthefucrwe tribe!::)
Earl_the_Pearl
11-03-2009, 06:50 PM
wherthefucrwe tribe!::)
It is balloon.
http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_GzXYfK-lDG4/RqyqHdHIEII/AAAAAAAACLE/_KWxms_JJiw/s400/Condom-shaped+hot+air+balloon.jpg
KiwiStrawberry Splenda
11-03-2009, 09:16 PM
Ok, now I'm really confused.
Earl has really gone off in the deep end. He is speaking in riddles more and more, and his posts don't even make sense. Loony Tunes!
KiwiStrawberry Splenda
11-03-2009, 10:59 PM
Ok, I thought I was going crazy. Earl, are you hitting the bottle or the crack pipe tonight?
Elvia
11-04-2009, 02:16 AM
"it is balloon" is going to be my new go-to wtf statement to throw out at random times.
Earl_the_Pearl
11-04-2009, 11:30 AM
Ok, now I'm really confused.
I'll explaine; there was a show called F-Troop.
The Hekawi tribe supposedly derived their name from an incident in which the tribe became lost,
exclaiming "Where the heck are we?", which then became
"We're the Hekawi".
http://harpervalley.files.wordpress.com/2009/04/f-troop.jpg
And what tribe would that be?
wherthefucrwe tribe!
I took rockie's post to be a take on the show F-Troop and the tribe. A famious saying by the tribe in an episone was "It is baloon".
This is the only clip I can find. Al Goldsteen was not in the original show.
It is no longer funny if it has to be explained.
Dude, just remember we are way too young to know about any of the shows that you have watched.
Earl_the_Pearl
11-04-2009, 11:39 AM
Dude, just remember we are way too young to know about any of the shows that you have watched.
I'm too young to remember The Shadow radio show but I know of it.
KiwiStrawberry Splenda
11-04-2009, 12:24 PM
I think I've seen the F-Troop show on Nick at Night when I was younger. It was pretty racist if I recall.
laurcon
11-04-2009, 03:01 PM
It is no longer funny if it has to be explained.
something needs to be funny in the first place in order to no longer be funny.
MsClaireVoyant
11-04-2009, 03:27 PM
I agree not all women are muti orgasmic or even orgasmic at all. I rarely have orgasms.. I hardly ever masturbate and only orgasm through sex once in a great while. Dont get me wrong though, I LOVE sex, its amazing and almost constantly a very intense pleasure.. that pleasure just is continious though.. it doesn't build up to an "end" for me. And honestly, I don't really need it to.
charlie61
11-04-2009, 04:15 PM
^ That's really interesting. Then again, I do find that most women are satisfied with their sexual abilities, whether or not that includes being multiorgasmic or nonorgasmic. To each her own!
princessjas
11-05-2009, 09:35 AM
Dude, just remember we are way too young to know about any of the shows that you have watched.
Yeah, I'm one of the older girls on here and still miss a good deal of his references.
I'm too young to remember The Shadow radio show but I know of it.
Well, lets put it this way Earl. I know of F-troop. Have heard of it, was even forced to watch a few reruns as a kid, but know diddly squat about quotes from specific episodes. I'd have to be 50ish to have been old enough to likely remember much of it. Now, that you mention it, I vaguely remember my GRANDFATHER quoting that "We're the Hewcawi" episode. Hell, it aired from 65-67, I wasn't even born till the mid 70's and most of the girls here are a decade younger than me.
Don't act like we are stupid because we are decades younger than you.
carmen_b
11-05-2009, 12:48 PM
I agree not all women are muti orgasmic or even orgasmic at all. I rarely have orgasms.. I hardly ever masturbate and only orgasm through sex once in a great while. Dont get me wrong though, I LOVE sex, its amazing and almost constantly a very intense pleasure.. that pleasure just is continious though.. it doesn't build up to an "end" for me. And honestly, I don't really need it to.
Again ....... a disagreement between you and I. I am frankly quite pissed off if a guy doesn't have a 110% invested interest in getting me off.
charlie61
11-05-2009, 01:00 PM
^ I think you may have misinterpreted her post. I think she's claiming that she's satisfied (as in, her body is satisfied) with not having orgasms, and that she experiences pleasure in other ways. It has nothing to do with being with someone who doesn't want to pleasure her.
carmen_b
11-05-2009, 01:02 PM
Oh .. I think I did misread it.
Actually ....... even though I read the words ....... I don't think I wrapped my head around the she is *really* satisfied with not having a big finish.
charlie61
11-05-2009, 01:05 PM
^ I'm maniacally multiorgasmic (can't imagine masturbating without getting off at least a few times), but my younger sister finds she's satisfied with one orgasm. Personally, that would be hellish for me...but it's all about perspective. Everyone has different libidos, desire for release, etc.
One of my customers (male) has never masturbated, and feels no need to have sex. He enjoys looking at women and touching them, but does not desire intercourse.
Shrugs. To each his/her own...
charlie61
11-05-2009, 01:06 PM
I also know a girl at work whose boyfriend won't let her masturbate because he's too jealous (he thinks he's the only one who should be allowed inside her). Now THAT is something to get pissed off about!!!!! :mad:
jack0177057
11-05-2009, 01:29 PM
^ I'm maniacally multiorgasmic (can't imagine masturbating without getting off at least a few times)
Wow,... you're a sex freak! You're awesome!
There should be a social club for extremely-high-libido people like you and me to meet and date... Seriously, I find that, unless a GF's libido matches mine (which is unusual), she doesn't get me... Low-libido people (and even medium-libido people) just don't understand us. Sexuality plays a cental role in my romantic relationships, but I've heard women say "Why can't you just be romantic without getting sexual?" My response is, "Okay, I'll go down on you first."
carmen_b
11-05-2009, 01:41 PM
[quote=charlie61;1867554]^ I'm maniacally multiorgasmic (can't imagine masturbating without getting off at least a few times)quote]
This is me too ...........
I didn't orgasm at all until I was 20, so perhaps I'm making up for lost time? Around 23-24, my body just eased into multiples.
Mine sort of come in a set ( images plateus where they rise in size as a visual diagram ) . #1 kind of gets the edge off , #2 is deeper, and #3-4 is WOW !
carmen_b
11-05-2009, 01:43 PM
I'm not sure if I'd consider people high libido just because of multiples.
KiwiStrawberry Splenda
11-05-2009, 02:30 PM
Wow,... you're a sex freak! You're awesome!
There should be a social club for extremely-high-libido people like you and me to meet and date... Seriously, I find that, unless a GF's libido matches mine (which is unusual), she doesn't get me... Low-libido people (and even medium-libido people) just don't understand us. Sexuality plays a cental role in my romantic relationships, but I've heard women say "Why can't you just be romantic without getting sexual?" My response is, "Okay, I'll go down on you first."
Does being multi-orgasmic suddenly make someone a sex freak?