View Full Version : Extras, why customers ask?
bigmarv
01-12-2010, 08:12 PM
I just had an idea. How about next time Bigperv or whatever his name is goes into his local. He gives the girl $500 and says you can either do what we normally do or you can just dance, drink and chat with me for an hour. Your choice. I want you to do what makes you happy. hmmmm I wonder what she will choose.
Been there done that sweetie. She got a massage from me for the whole time we were in VIP. :)
bigmarv
01-12-2010, 10:35 PM
*Thinks there is probably a good reason why bigmarv has a pic of a chick's ass as his avatar rather than his own face*
The simple reason darlin is because I love rubbing a beautiful dancers ass. Don't you think that's a pretty one. :)
Elvia
01-12-2010, 10:55 PM
What's with some of the blues being in such desperate need of negative attention lately?
bigmarv
01-12-2010, 11:06 PM
What's with some of the blues being in such desperate need of negative attention lately?
I have no idea. I'm personally about all the positives. :)
Elvia
01-12-2010, 11:41 PM
^^^ well then, maybe you can go pay someone for that positive attention again. That would be slightly less pathetic than trolling.
FasterMike
01-13-2010, 04:46 AM
Why should it make you sick when you said it wasn't her first rodeo?
Have you been enjoying your participation in this thread? I'm honestly curious if the reactions you have encountered from the women of stripperweb make you feel bad or good.
Jessie_tinydancer
01-13-2010, 08:18 AM
*Thinks there is probably a good reason why bigmarv has a pic of a chick's ass as his avatar rather than his own face*
OMG it is 2am and I just got home. Trying to laugh quietly as to not wake the whole house... and.. it... is ... too ... hard. hahahahahahahahah
jaizaine
01-13-2010, 08:22 AM
OMG it is 2am and I just got home. Trying to laugh quietly as to not wake the whole house... and.. it... is ... too ... hard. hahahahahahahahah
hehehehehe
hot4ablackchick
01-13-2010, 03:10 PM
I think we agree on more than you realize. You are not able to separate your emotions from the topic and I certainly understand that. I am not however willing to accept that a woman who needs money has no other choice than to suck a man's cock to get it. It is a choice. That being said, I am also not passing judgment on the women that do.
I think you hit the nail on the head. Sucking cock is a choice, and I will never, ever feel sorry for any extras girl or any prostitute/escort. I have a great respect for prostitutes and I wish there was a way to make their job safer. I do not have any respect for girls having sex of any sort ITC. I had 2 kids when I started and I was VERY poor. I had zero hustle, and was very very shy, so I wasn't making really good money for a while. I worked a regular job and danced Fri and Sat to supplement my income. I didn't suck cock because I needed money (which I really needed), I worked out something else.
Yes I would suck cock if I had no other options and my kids were starving. I would rather work at McDonald's than suck strange penises. Maybe some girls would rather suck cock than work at McDonald's. I would rather dance naked and grind a bit on a stranger than work at McDonald's. Many women would rather work at McDonald's than dance naked for strangers. I'm not going to say I don't have a choice by dancing because there is always a choice. I'm simply choosing not to choose any other options. There are always choices in life. You can either choose to step up your game/hustle to get dances, become "dirty" to get dances, find some other way to supplement your income, or get the fuck out of the business. 99% of the time, the woman has a choice. If the guy chooses to buy the extras then thats between them. A man is not an asshole for buying what she is selling. High end escorts may not really enjoy their job and be on drugs as well, but nobody is going to say, "Oh don't pay them for sex. They probably don't really like fucking strangers, and are only doing it because they feel they have no choice. If you pay for it you are exploiting them and making their lives worse." Whether it is true or not, I'm not giving any woman sympathy for choices they made.
bigmarv
01-13-2010, 03:20 PM
Have you been enjoying your participation in this thread? I'm honestly curious if the reactions you have encountered from the women of stripperweb make you feel bad or good.
The truth is I feel very good. This site is very informative and entertaining.
bigmarv
01-13-2010, 03:28 PM
Bearing in mind Big Marv's interests, and his habit of calling everyon darlin', I believe I may have found a photo of him.
http://www.arrse.co.uk/images/albums/userpics/23655/normal_santapresent4u.jpg
Phil.
The only part of that pic I can identify with is the reading glasses.
Phil, are you gay?
Elvia
01-13-2010, 03:30 PM
Have you been enjoying your participation in this thread? I'm honestly curious if the reactions you have encountered from the women of stripperweb make you feel bad or good.
Of course trolls enjoy trolling.
bigmarv
01-13-2010, 03:48 PM
Of course trolls enjoy trolling.
Speaking of trolling, I just trolled over to the Ladies Only Section and noticed a thread on giving head. According to the poll about 65% of the ladies enjoy sucking cock. Love those extras ladies.
We do not allow topics and discussions from the ladies only sections to bleed over into other areas. Just a reminder as I am sure that most folks know that.
FBR
bigmarv
01-13-2010, 06:40 PM
We do not allow topics and discussions from the ladies only sections to bleed over into other areas. Just a reminder as I am sure that most folks know that.
FBR
My bad.
ColtCmdr
01-13-2010, 06:52 PM
I will use this thread as an opportunity to make my first post, but keep it relevant to the thread lol
The first time I went to a strip club, the dancer I chatted with, and decided to get a lap dance from, ended up "giving" me extras without offering, maybe because she liked me, maybe because it was the club norm, who knows, but what I do know is that it ended up setting a bar or comparison, if you will, that took me a while to discover was beyond the norm.
So in answering the question, there is also the possibility that customers do not exactly understand what clubs or dancers consider to be "extras."
yoda57us
01-13-2010, 07:34 PM
The first time I went to a strip club, the dancer I chatted with, and decided to get a lap dance from, ended up "giving" me extras without offering, maybe because she liked me, maybe because it was the club norm, who knows, but what I do know is that it ended up setting a bar or comparison, if you will, that took me a while to discover was beyond the norm.
This is a practice that has become fairly common among "extras" girls over the last few years. I think it's already been discussed on this thread but, just to reiterate, nowadays some girls are giving unsolicited extras simply as an incentive for you to continue to give them business. I doubt she "liked" you though I'm certain she was quite fond of your wallet. I would never assume extras are a club norm.
mediocrity
01-13-2010, 08:58 PM
I guess that's why sometimes I feel like Forrest Gump with a box of chocolates, you just never know what your gonna get in a SC. I just hope it's nothing contagious. :)
Stop antagonising. You know full well that is what you are doing, so just stop.
Athenathefabulous
01-13-2010, 09:50 PM
Speaking of trolling, I just trolled over to the Ladies Only Section and noticed a thread on giving head. According to the poll about 65% of the ladies enjoy sucking cock. Love those extras ladies.
enjoying sucking cock and enjoying sucking your cock are two totally separate things. just throwing that out there.
bigmarv
01-13-2010, 10:09 PM
Stop antagonising. You know full well that is what you are doing, so just stop.
Ok Catherine, I'll share my box of chocolates with you.
bigmarv
01-13-2010, 10:18 PM
enjoying sucking cock and enjoying sucking your cock are two totally separate things. just throwing that out there.
I know exactly where your coming from and thanks for enjoying sucking my cock. It's sexy ladies like you that keep me going back to my local SC. :)
Elvia
01-13-2010, 10:24 PM
We do not allow topics and discussions from the ladies only sections to bleed over into other areas. Just a reminder as I am sure that most folks know that.
FBR
Then hey, how about deleting the antagonizing post that is against the rules?
Athenathefabulous
01-13-2010, 10:26 PM
I know exactly where your coming from and thanks for enjoying sucking my cock. It's sexy ladies like you that keep me going back to my local SC. :)
i actually prefer eating pussy.
bigmarv
01-13-2010, 10:44 PM
Then hey, how about deleting the antagonizing post that is against the rules?
I was not trying to antagonize anyone just stating the facts of the poll. If I've offended anyone, I apologize. I'll admit I don't know all the rules.
Thank you for your participation in this thread.
FBR