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Don't text when buzzed.
FBR
racejeff
01-12-2010, 07:29 PM
Don't text when buzzed.
FBR
Somehow this cries out for more background.
yoda57us
01-12-2010, 07:34 PM
Don't text when buzzed.
FBR
Word...
xdamage
01-12-2010, 07:38 PM
Don't text when buzzed.
FBR
Hahaha, and add IMing and Email to the list ;)
lopaw
01-12-2010, 09:15 PM
uh oh....drunk dialing can be very dangerous.....:O
JoeUnCool
01-13-2010, 09:07 AM
Don't text when buzzed.
FBR
You texted Dancer A and Dancer B showed up. That is hilareous..........
You texted Dancer A and Dancer B showed up. That is hilareous.......... No I told dancer A that I had 5 large to spend on her and then my customer told me that well he couldnt send the check because his customer didnt pay him. Im sure it will will work out but right now it is embarrassing.
FBR
Smokeless
01-14-2010, 10:50 AM
5 large? Seems too high a price for what you've reported getting. Why not just find a good escort, FBR? And why bother announcing the (non-)available cash?
(5 large is more than enough for an entire year of SC fun for me! Outta my league. But I'm not so sure you get more pleasure from the deal.)
5 large? Seems too high a price for what you've reported getting. Why not just find a good escort, FBR? And why bother announcing the (non-)available cash?
(5 large is more than enough for an entire year of SC fun for me! Outta my league. But I'm not so sure you get more pleasure from the deal.)
I typed 5 large but I meant 5 small. My bad.
FBR
Smokeless
01-14-2010, 10:52 PM
^^^ Ok. I've spent that (5 small) on the road for a whole week of enjoyment. But on many dancers, playing the field, never playing my hand in advance.
Nonetheless, you can have a couple hours with a good escort for that amount, at least in Denver.
JoeUnCool
01-15-2010, 06:55 AM
No I told dancer A that I had 5 large to spend on her and then my customer told me that well he couldnt send the check because his customer didnt pay him. Im sure it will will work out but right now it is embarrassing.
FBR
Wow, 5 large or small, it doesn't matter. That's one of the rules that you broke. Never make a promise to a stripper about money when you can't keep it. Its a corollary to my rule of "Never mess with a stripper's money, you will come back with a bloody stump, or worse."
Wow, 5 large or small, it doesn't matter. That's one of the rules that you broke. Never make a promise to a stripper about money when you can't keep it. Its a corollary to my rule of "Never mess with a stripper's money, you will come back with a bloody stump, or worse."You are exactly right. And in fact, that is why I posted my misstep here. I felt a need for verbal flagellation because my action was stupid and I knew just where to seek out that punishment and ultimately redemption.
FBR
JoeUnCool
01-16-2010, 05:01 AM
You are exactly right. And in fact, that is why I posted my misstep here. I felt a need for verbal flagellation because my action was stupid and I knew just where to seek out that punishment and ultimately redemption.
FBR
I'm an expert at making these types of mistakes. Nothing personal, but I think its funny when I see others make the same mistakes. ;D
Smokeless
01-16-2010, 09:19 PM
A brief TR relevant to the discussion (e.g., letting go of old flames). Too brief for an official TR.
Last night I got to the club for a (relatively) extended stay. I had 3 hours to spend, and I brought a bankroll of $300+. Usually I have a much shorter leash, but with a recent small windfall and the wife off with girlfriends drinking in Denver, I had a nice opportunity.
Anticipating the possibility, I emailed a few of my favorites. One says she might work "and would love to see me." Others sometimes work Fridays, but not always.
I get to the club and I see no one I know. I sit off perv row for a few minutes surveying the scene. About 10 dancers and about 5 customers. That changes radically when 20 customers arrive 5 minutes later.
One skinny dark haired gal finally arrives who's given me a LD before. It had been OK with lots of contact, but she had neglected to brush her teeth and gargle after dinner. Lots of garlic. She sits next to me uninvited and tries to be friendly. No garlic tonight, but some Listerine would have helped. Jeez! (I'm not making this up.)
I move to perv row when some cute young gals are on stage. They get my $2 tip but they are rather reserved. "I'm so cute, I don't have to be friendly or touch you to get your money." I'm a sucker for a gal who's a bit more friendly from the stage. Nothing's happening. And I'm nearly out of Ones, so I head to the bar.
One dancer joins me and another custie on the VIP side of the bar. We start a conversation. It's not clear that the conversation is exclusively with me or the other guy. Later I find out the manager has sent her. But she's interrupted by another dancer who has been sent by the DJ. This is starting to get interesting. Unfortunately, the sound system is loudest right here in this spot, so I suggest to girl #2 that we adjourn to a quieter room so we can hear each other. I leave girl #1 with the other guy. (Unfortunately for her, he's a party pooper and just leaves to sit by himself in VIP. Odd. Sorry girl #1.)
Girl #2 is comfortable to talk with. Even more comfortable to be with. Through 6 LD's and some nice shoulder/neck massage. She knows she's been sent there because some of my other friends have decided not to work tonight, but I tell her to not worry about such things. I'm willing to make new friends. After two dances, I confess, "I fall in love easily." Indeed, she's easy going on the eyes and the soul. We spend at least an hour or more together, have a bundle of fun. She makes a decent bundle of money and maybe enjoys the time herself. Except for a fraction of my bankroll, I'm no poorer for missing my old friends. I'm glad I didn't leave earlier when things weren't so promising.
As I leave, girl #1 sees me at the door. Have I got more time? Sorry, I don't. I'd like to make up for the conversus interruptus at the bar, but I'm satisfied and out of time. Next visit, perhaps.
Damage is a bit more than $225.
Smokeless
01-23-2010, 10:56 AM
... It is nice when your old friends show up and give you a good time.
Last night I did something unusual. I had a wing man and some extra time. Two old favorites were at the club and girl #2 from last week. All lavished welcome and cheer upon our arrival and the rest of the evening. Familiarity does not breed contempt in this context (they appreciate the income, I'm sure, but after two years of seeing each other at this club, we've grown some in-club and occasional out-of-club friendships). It's also nice when you've got a good relationship with the club, too.
I had three really fine private visits. We watched and enjoyed the antics on stage. And the gals helped loosen up my friend, who is not a frequent SC visitor. He had a superb time. Total damage a bit more than the last visit, plus some extra cash to break the ice for my shy wingman. (It's amazing what a free LD or 2 or 3 can do for one's attitude.)
So, FBR... What's the latest news?
^ I am pushing for FS. After six plus years and tens of thousands of dollars that seems reasonable to me. I know better ROI is out there but I have feelings. I am dealing with it. I will carry on.
FBR
JoeUnCool
01-24-2010, 03:02 PM
^ I am pushing for FS. After six plus years and tens of thousands of dollars that seems reasonable to me. I know better ROI is out there but I have feelings. I am dealing with it. I will carry on.
FBR
Feelings? Feelings? Seriously FBR, you have feelings in the wrong spot on this one. You sound like I did oh those many years ago. Of course, no one could tell me any different back then, so I doubt that you will listen to me.
I doubt that this will work. You've setup a relationship that doesn't involve FS and you've paid lots of money for the relationship. What is her motivation to change the relationship? Are you really going to walk out on her over this?
KS_Stevia
01-24-2010, 04:17 PM
Of course he has feelings. He thinks this girl has actually been single for the past 6 years too! Haha.
^ well not single maybe but I bet not penetrated more than once or twice during those six years :P
FBR
JoeUnCool
01-24-2010, 05:07 PM
^ well not single maybe but I bet not penetrated more than once or twice during those six years :P
FBR
She's saving herself for u. ::)
^ I know she is not a virgin so her saving herself for me would be a letdown. Having said that, slightly used wouldn't be that bad.
FBR
yoda57us
01-25-2010, 12:09 AM
^ I am pushing for FS. After six plus years and tens of thousands of dollars that seems reasonable to me. I know better ROI is out there but I have feelings. I am dealing with it. I will carry on.
FBR
Not likely too happen if it didn't happen years ago. To be blunt, if she was willing to boink you she would have leveraged her pussy for more money. Everyone has their own personal boundaries and obviously penis into vagina is a biggie. It doesn't matter if she screws twelve guys a month that she met at school or in a bar for free. If she screws you then, in her mind, she is a prostitute. That's a pretty big hurdle to get over for any woman.
Hey, who knows, maybe if she is missing your cash she might be willing to go the extra mile to get it. Then you have to ask yourself if that's what you really want at this point? A situation like this is the reason I would rather hire an escort, a girl who has already decided that she wants to sell her pussy and is really good at it, and not waste a lot of time trying to convince a stripper to have sex with me. It's a fine line and yes it's all about the money but a good hooker wants you to keep coming back the same as a good dancer does.
JoeUnCool
01-25-2010, 06:46 AM
Not likely too happen if it didn't happen years ago. To be blunt, if she was willing to boink you she would have leveraged her pussy for more money. Everyone has their own personal boundaries and obviously penis into vagina is a biggie. It doesn't matter if she screws twelve guys a month that she met at school or in a bar for free. If she screws you then, in her mind, she is a prostitute. That's a pretty big hurdle to get over for any woman.
Hey, who knows, maybe if she is missing your cash she might be willing to go the extra mile to get it. Then you have to ask yourself if that's what you really want at this point? A situation like this is the reason I would rather hire an escort, a girl who has already decided that she wants to sell her pussy and is really good at it, and not waste a lot of time trying to convince a stripper to have sex with me. It's a fine line and yes it's all about the money but a good hooker wants you to keep coming back the same as a good dancer does.
I doubt it will happen. We live in capitalistic society, no matter what DC tries to push on us. If she hasn't had FS with u already, I doubt she is going to do it now. She has had you coming back an not had to have sex with u. Based on negotiations, what is her motivation to do something more? Is FBR going to double what she already gets? Is FBR going to cut her off if she doesn't have sex with him? This girl would know FBR and negotiate based on that.
Smokeless
01-25-2010, 10:19 PM
Having followed this drama for at least the last 3 years, there is no evidence that Miss D. will change her ways now except at a price (I'm not necessarily talking about money) that is too high for FBR to pay.
She's got you wrapped, FBR. It's time to unentangle yourself and find greener pastures.
sadbuttrue
01-25-2010, 11:38 PM
I have to agree that she probably will not change her tune so easily and in a short span of time.
Maybe distance will change things, FBR. See my post in Outside the club. I put Miss P off for years. There were some meetings with her in that time, but only enough to see that she had not changed. (Hopefully it will not be years for you, though.) This time around she called and I did not see her right away and eventually it worked out.
-Sad-
jack0177057
01-26-2010, 11:47 AM
I'm not one to give advise here because I don't spend more than $150 on a visit and I've never had a fav (though I've met someone recently that may fill that spot)... but, my question is - why not start with something more than what you were getting before, but less than FS? Were you already getting extras? If not, maybe you can take it one step at a time.
Also, maybe she thinks that if she does it once for you, she'll be expected to do it with you everytime... Is that your intention? Can you use a special occasion, like your birthday or the anniversary of the first dance she did for you, etc... and tell her you want to "celebrate" and be with her for just one time?
I have to agree that she probably will not change her tune so easily and in a short span of time.
Maybe distance will change things, FBR. See my post in Outside the club. I put Miss P off for years. There were some meetings with her in that time, but only enough to see that she had not changed. (Hopefully it will not be years for you, though.) This time around she called and I did not see her right away and eventually it worked out.
-Sad-
Hey sad!
I've blown off two texts from her in the last two days pushing for a non-RR get together. As Kat incognito said earlier she is probably getting as much sugar as she needs so she is trolling for cash to pay her bills. Considering how addicted I have been I feel sort of empowered by not instantly responding Pavlovian style. We shall see. Right now I am distracted by work stuff but I will have to deal with it sooner or later.
FBR
hockeybobby
01-27-2010, 04:58 AM
Hey FBR. You don't need any help from me in running your life. But just to throw my 2 cents worth in....since the old way of doing things doesn't really turn your crank any more, how about finding a new way to scratch that itch?
Just to throw it on the table: how about discussing a change in your SO relationship that would allow you the freedom to have a little (non-paying) fun on the side with other women? Hell....you only live once.