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yoda57us
01-25-2010, 01:03 PM
I feel like I just stepped out of a time machine and back into jr. high school...
really people who the fuck cares?
KS_Stevia
01-25-2010, 02:19 PM
Because I can't just sit here and let Bem feel like king of the castle when in fact he is just a court jester who was fired a long time ago but refuses to move out.
bem401
01-25-2010, 04:16 PM
Your ass has been saved Bem.
I've had several inbound contacts over the past week, one not so good for you, and one just tonight, and he says he was a customer of the dancer in question for 2 years, and says he's not been in the club recently because his Brazilian dancer is out of the country for 2 months, but he says you do hang with several dancers and said he "understood for the most part it to be ITC" but because you knew so many people around town, and in other clubs and so forth, and had common acaquantances and somehow knew certain family members including her sister who used to dancer at another club, he wasn't sure whether to call it "real life" or not, said it could be a semantics issue in in your cae,, he took an agnostic or cannot tell one way or the other position.
Now he did say the describing her as possibly #1 in the city would be an understatement, was uncommonly beautiful, and that she could easily be described as having the looks of a finalist in the Miss World contestant, Miss Singapore or Miss China he cited. He adivised that I " cut you some slack" because this girl can get dances with any nearly guy in the club at any given moment, and if you're haniging with her for free, that's a major accomplishment in and of itself,
He also said he believed you didnt think all customers were dupes. that many knew and understood the deal.
So we will call it a draw for now
The person who emailed you is very familiar with the situation (he's the one who tested whether she'd dance for me or not). She and I are just not interested in a dancer/customer thing, I think because we know each other fairly well. We've certainly shared with each other information we have shared with hardly any others in the club. My patronization of her family's business came at her suggestion once she pulled the plug on the dancer/customer thing. To me, that means that interaction is non-club-related. I also have plenty of casual interaction with other dancers away from the club from time to time.
I never said all customers were dupes. Its just that as I became friends with certain dancers, the idea of being a customer to them no longer worked for any of us.
To me, being a customer to someone you have interaction with outside the club just complicates the relationship. I have occasion to regular interaction with several dancers OTC that has nothing to do with them being dancers, call it RL, call non-ITC, call it whatever you want.
bem401
01-25-2010, 04:32 PM
Ok, I shouldn't comment again, but I just got a rather informative pm about this. Apparently Bem is exaggerating. By OTC friends, he means that he frequents a company (non stripping) owned by a dancer's relatives. Also, that he's just cheap and doesn't tip anyone. This isn't to single him out (because this is hearsay), but guys with this attitude (and I've seen this in clubs) are truly delusional about the meaning of OTC friends.
Actually, there are several other dancers and former dancers with whom I have more non-club involvement than the girl we were talking about. That girl however has chosen to share information with me that might have been shared with maybe one other dancer and certainly no customers. For that reason, and not my patronage of the other business, I consider us to be friends.
As far as not tipping, what exactly should I tip them for if there is no dancer/customer interaction. I am more than willing to treat them to drinks if they need them or dinner if they are hungry. I'm not going to pay someone to sit with me while they are between customers and I don't expect a single one of them to come over to me if there is money to be made elsewhere.
Like Yoda said, this is certainly getting tedious. As far as me considering myself king of the castle, I never said anything even remotely resembling that. KS is just trying to fan the flames.
yoda57us
01-25-2010, 08:14 PM
Because I can't just sit here and let Bem feel like king of the castle when in fact he is just a court jester who was fired a long time ago but refuses to move out.
Actually my comments are not aimed at anything you have posted on this thread at all KSS. My issue is with all of this ridiculous gossiping about what one person pm's to another person concerning yet another person. Not only is it childish but it's not viable in any way as nothing anyone says about anyone else on the internet can be corroborated. LOL, It's all BS and it's just plain silly. The only thing it really accomplishes is to give BEM a chance to yap one more time about his personal interaction with his "friends"...
Hopper
01-26-2010, 01:07 AM
As far as not tipping, what exactly should I tip them for if there is no dancer/customer interaction. I am more than willing to treat them to drinks if they need them or dinner if they are hungry. I'm not going to pay someone to sit with me while they are between customers and I don't expect a single one of them to come over to me if there is money to be made elsewhere.
I agree with this. I would tip a stripper who sat and talked with me, even if it was just "between customers", but only if I actually liked her. Otherwise it's nothing but two people chatting and she's getting as much out of it as I am. She also might be keeping strippers I do like from approaching me.
A girl once sat with me for about two hours and I tipped her for it, because I did like her. Then I bought an LD from her. I had never met her before, so she wasn't talking to me because she knew me. She said she didn't feel like working that night.
WestCoast101
01-26-2010, 01:14 AM
Actually my comments are not aimed at anything you have posted on this thread at all KSS. My issue is with all of this ridiculous gossiping about what one person pm's to another person concerning yet another person. Not only is it childish but it's not viable in any way as nothing anyone says about anyone else on the internet can be corroborated. LOL, It's all BS and it's just plain silly. The only thing it really accomplishes is to give BEM a chance to yap one more time about his personal interaction with his "friends"...
1000s of people read this site, some of them are from Rhode Island, and some only monitor these posts, but others respond to what they read, either by an existing account of maybe they open an account, and they can post or PM if it interests them, so "corroboration" can happen, and Bem himself already has corroborated certain things.
the idea is to get the facts underlying Bem's various claims,, whether it partly has to do with or has nothing to do with: delusion, exagerratiion, half-truths, wishful thinking, the small town nature of Providence, or as someone suggested Bem to accumulates "club info" that has value to certain dancers - in exchange for hang time.
bem401
01-26-2010, 07:10 AM
the idea is to get the facts underlying Bem's various claims,, whether it partly has to do with or has nothing to do with: delusion, exagerratiion, half-truths, wishful thinking, the small town nature of Providence, or as someone suggested Bem to accumulates "club info" that has value to certain dancers - in exchange for hang time.
West, why would I lie or exaggerate? I only reveal bits and pieces of my situation when other posters challenge what I offer as an opinion. Things have just developed into situations with certain girls that exclude me treating them like a stripper and that exclude them treating me like a customer. I have only elaborated when people say that doesn't happen and I refrain from going into much detail. As far as accumulating "club info", that only referred to one dancer (patronized by another poster here) who drops out of sight for weeks on end, isn't particularly friendly with any other dancers, and knows I am. She's among the hardest working dancers I've ever seen and understandably only spends time with me when there is zero chance of earning elsewhere. I've never been inclined to be her customer (even when I was a fairly heavy spender). When we talk, she wants updates on what's happened in her absence. I don't understand why any of this stuff is considered so unfathomable.
JoeUnCool
01-26-2010, 07:15 AM
I feel like I just stepped out of a time machine and back into jr. high school...
really people who the fuck cares?
This thread is a trainwreck.
WiseGuy_TX
01-26-2010, 07:21 AM
...my ATF is clipping my toenails right now. Does that make her my real stripper friend or does she have to clip ITC or OTC? I'm so confused!!!!!!!
yoda57us
01-26-2010, 10:33 AM
1000s of people read this site, some of them are from Rhode Island, and some only monitor these posts, but others respond to what they read, either by an existing account of maybe they open an account, and they can post or PM if it interests them, so "corroboration" can happen, and Bem himself already has corroborated certain things.
LMAOWROTF! And you have proof that what people post or pm on the internet is the truth?
Dude , there are no facts, just words on a page. If you think BEM, or anyone on this or any other site is full of shit that's your business but there is no "proof" of anything.
It's all story time her WC. No one knows whats real or what's BS.
yoda57us
01-26-2010, 10:35 AM
...my ATF is clipping my toenails right now. Does that make her my real stripper friend or does she have to clip ITC or OTC? I'm so confused!!!!!!!
I think toe nail clipping is a score regardless...;)
KS_Stevia
01-26-2010, 12:34 PM
The only thing it really accomplishes is to give BEM a chance to yap one more time about his personal interaction with his "friends"...
Hmmm, you do make a compelling point my friend.
yoda57us
01-26-2010, 02:37 PM
Hmmm, you do make a compelling point my friend.
Why thank you my dear. Somehow I knew that you would get my drift...
WestCoast101
01-26-2010, 03:25 PM
its a regular BEMgate
yoda, LOL, at this point we know the club, we know the girls, and what Bem says about being "real life" friends with several dancers at his "club of choice" is somewhere on a continuim scale between moderately exagerrated wishful thinking - and delusional bullshit. However I do credit Bem with trying to refute certain comments, he's being a good sport about it at least.
among other parties, do you want to know what bartender to discuss it with, and what shifts and what day this bartender works?
and FYI bem is busy today, because his main "friend" is ITC today,
WestCoast101
01-26-2010, 03:42 PM
by the way, i've now got info now from a total of 4 diifferent sources including one I already knew, one of my buddies who is routinely in new england on business, and is also a strip club junkie and is happy to stop by a club. We used to hit clubs all over the place, when I was doing more out of state travel.
like Nixon and Watergate, Bem, you need go into a modified limited hangout strategy, like I think Dean and Haldelman recommended.
KS_Stevia
01-26-2010, 04:04 PM
Haha, why would he limit his hang out strategy? He's getting the attention of dancer's for free. If they want to waste their time with a panty waste, its up to them. And if he buys drinks and food and doesn't get into fights, the club isn't going to ban him.
So, really, despite your awesome investigative endeavours, remniscent of Woodward and Bernstein, I doubt anything will change, nor does it need to.
WestCoast101
01-26-2010, 04:41 PM
yes, i know Bem will never admit he has a very odd definition of "real life" and that's the point I' made months back when i suggested it looked like bullshit, and that's when i was guessing, versus now where i got evidence all over the place he is stretching the truth at a min..
not surprinsingly we now have him in this thread even discounting the significance of one of the two main dancers he has numerous times referred to as his"friends" at his "club of choice". These are his centerpiece examples of "friends" yet he is still tap dancing and avoiding anything specific.
here is just one example from a thread a few months back responding to KwandaStrawberry
"......I visit when its convenient for me and when my friends might appreciate my presence. If I have an hour to kill, I swing by. If their cars are not there, I generally keep going. I have nearly zero interest in meeting new dancers, though it does happen. If I go in and they're busy, I finish my drink and move on before I have to start dealing too much with new girls. If this arrangement works for my friends and me ( dances are out of the question), why does it irritate you so? The minute I got any impression they'd rather I not be there, I wouldn't be."
Kellydancer
01-26-2010, 05:18 PM
yes, i know Bem will never admit he has a very odd definition of "real life" and that's the point I' made months back when i suggested it looked like bullshit, and that's when i was guessing, versus now where i got evidence all over the place he is stretching the truth at a min..
not surprinsingly we now have him in this thread even discounting the significance of one of the two main dancers he has numerous times referred to as his"friends" at his "club of choice". These are his centerpiece examples of "friends" yet he is still tap dancing and avoiding anything specific.
here is just one example from a thread a few months back responding to KwandaStrawberry
"......I visit when its convenient for me and when my friends might appreciate my presence. If I have an hour to kill, I swing by. If their cars are not there, I generally keep going. I have nearly zero interest in meeting new dancers, though it does happen. If I go in and they're busy, I finish my drink and move on before I have to start dealing too much with new girls. If this arrangement works for my friends and me ( dances are out of the question), why does it irritate you so? The minute I got any impression they'd rather I not be there, I wouldn't be."
I think this sums up why dancers get irritated with delusional customer. Not to say he's delusional specifically, but every dancer I know has dealt with delusional customers and many are sick of it. Just because a customer runs into a dancer OTC doesn't mean they are friends of any sort, yet many guys think they are. Unless a customer ever came over my house or something like that (and that happened ONCE and he's now my boyfriend), he's not a friend. I am someone who's really strict on terms like that. Even if I chatted with someone in a club, he's still not usually a friend. Granted there are exceptions (my instance for example since the friendship started there) but that's a rare exception. He reminds me of a guy who used to come into a club I worked at. This guy was a regular of the club (came in every night), yet rarely bought dances from girls he "respected". I thought that was odd and just another excuse to be cheap.
KS_Stevia
01-26-2010, 06:39 PM
None of my customers ever knew the car I drive. Thank god. :) And NO, I don't want them to know so they can come by. Any good customer that's worth a shit would have my email or dancer phone #, or just step in and say hi when THEY felt like it. And if I was there, awesome. If not, hope they had a good time with someone else.
Then again, I think of all the thousands I lost not being possessive of regulars. Then AGAIN, I think of all the headaches I've saved avoiding giving personal information to the Bem types. Guess I'm lucky not to be Asian. ;)
yoda57us
01-26-2010, 07:43 PM
its a regular BEMgate
Oh please, don't flatter yourself...
yoda, LOL, at this point we know the club, we know the girls, and what Bem says about being "real life" friends with several dancers at his "club of choice" is somewhere on a continuim scale between moderately exagerrated wishful thinking - and delusional bullshit. However I do credit Bem with trying to refute certain comments, he's being a good sport about it at least.
He's being a good sport because, in spite of the fact that he is getting ripped apart by a bunch of busy-bodies, he gets to log on here and talk about his "friends". He likes the attention. I'm quite certain WC that you can understand that...
among other parties, do you want to know what bartender to discuss it with, and what shifts and what day this bartender works?
Dude, get real, I know more about this than you could ever hope to know and I know it first hand, not via pm. I just choose to keep it to myself.
and FYI bem is busy today, because his main "friend" is ITC today,
Yes, she works every Tuesday. Somehow you have gotten the impression that I give a shit, I don't.
I like a good argument as much as the next guy and BEM and I can find endless topics to disagree about. I'm not really interested in anything beyond his opinions as he expresses them on this board.
yoda57us
01-26-2010, 07:51 PM
Then again, I think of all the thousands I lost not being possessive of regulars. Then AGAIN, I think of all the headaches I've saved avoiding giving personal information to the Bem types. Guess I'm lucky not to be Asian. ;)
Not to worry, You've got some other things working for you...8)
WestCoast101
01-27-2010, 12:15 AM
note Yoda himself now providing additional corroboration after earlier claiming nothing could ever be corroborated, lol, and as for Bem's responses, the new york street hustle card game 3 card monte comes to mind, keep moving those cards, or in Bem's case just allude to supposed other dancer "friends" to confuse matters further.
hockeybobby
01-27-2010, 03:49 AM
What a curious thread *raises a Spockian eyebrow*
yoda57us
01-27-2010, 05:36 AM
note Yoda himself now providing additional corroboration after earlier claiming nothing could ever be corroborated,
Note, how do you know I'm telling the truth?
yoda57us
01-27-2010, 05:38 AM
note Yoda himself now providing additional corroboration after earlier claiming nothing could ever be corroborated,
Note, how do you know I'm telling the truth?
Let me help you out. The correct answer would be that you don't...
bem401
01-27-2010, 07:43 AM
yes, i know Bem will never admit he has a very odd definition of "real life" and that's the point I' made months back when i suggested it looked like bullshit, and that's when i was guessing, versus now where i got evidence all over the place he is stretching the truth at a min..
not surprinsingly we now have him in this thread even discounting the significance of one of the two main dancers he has numerous times referred to as his"friends" at his "club of choice". These are his centerpiece examples of "friends" yet he is still tap dancing and avoiding anything specific.
here is just one example from a thread a few months back responding to KwandaStrawberry
"......I visit when its convenient for me and when my friends might appreciate my presence. If I have an hour to kill, I swing by. If their cars are not there, I generally keep going. I have nearly zero interest in meeting new dancers, though it does happen. If I go in and they're busy, I finish my drink and move on before I have to start dealing too much with new girls. If this arrangement works for my friends and me ( dances are out of the question), why does it irritate you so? The minute I got any impression they'd rather I not be there, I wouldn't be."
"Real life" to me means that which has nothing to do with the club. I'd say OTC but that gets misconstrued as meaning sexual activity. As far as the dancer we've been discussing is concerned, I'm just not going to divulge information she's shared with me to prove an inside connection. She a popular topic of discussion at the "club of choice" and there's maybe one dancer who has the same amount of inside information as me and we keep a lid on it out of respect to her. Then again, if I was only interested in appearing to be king of the castle on this thread, I could make stuff up. You accuse me of discounting the significance but I'm only trying to make sure you don't view things as something that might be exaggerated.
What's wrong with the thread you posted? I know what cars they drive because I've had contact with them away from work. A couple of them have actually needed rides from me in a pinch. I stop by the club when I'm out and have an hour to kill. It's virtually effortless because I live like 3 minutes away.
yoda57us
01-27-2010, 08:07 AM
"Real life" to me means that which has nothing to do with the club. I'd say OTC but that gets misconstrued as meaning sexual activity.
This is a key point. As exciting as reading all of WC's minutiae about what different sets of initials may imply vs. what he thinks they actually mean BEM is absolutely right. Most folks assume that "OTC" means sexual activity, for free or for pay, is involved when the "OTC" topic comes up. BEM has never even hinted that there is a sexual component to any of his friendships with dancers either on this site or in any private conversations that we have had over the years.
Just one more reason why this thread may well hold the record for containing the most posts about absolutely nothing on the CC board...and that's really saying something!
bem401
01-27-2010, 08:07 AM
note Yoda himself now providing additional corroboration after earlier claiming nothing could ever be corroborated, lol, and as for Bem's responses, the new york street hustle card game 3 card monte comes to mind, keep moving those cards, or in Bem's case just allude to supposed other dancer "friends" to confuse matters further.
No, my point was that I have had more significant interaction with dancers other than her (and bartenders since you brought them up) away from the club. That's all. Why is the fact that I find myself in the presence of club employess away from the club such a difficult concept to swallow? As far as her having been at work yesterday, I don't know if she was or not. She has been working on a limited basis lately and I do not plan visits strictly because she might be there. Had I occasion to be in the area yesterday and seen her car there, I might have stopped in, but that didn't happen.
I still don't see how this thread turned into an attack on me. Despite what's been said, I only reluctantly brought my personal situations up. They are not situations I would ever encourage people to shoot for. They were never things I aspired to have happen. Its just the boat in which I find myself. I'll tell you what though. I'll probably hit the club sometime this week and I'll describe this thread to the friends of mine that are available and see what they say. And I promise to be 100% honest if any of their reactions are relevant.
bem401
01-27-2010, 08:31 AM
This is a key point. As exciting as reading all of WC's minutiae about what different sets of initials may imply vs. what he thinks they actually mean BEM is absolutely right. Most folks assume that "OTC" means sexual activity, for free or for pay, is involved when the "OTC" topic comes up. BEM has never even hinted that there is a sexual component to any of his friendships with dancers either on this site or in any private conversations that we have had over the years.
Once, when I once mentioned to a customer that his dancer was in contact with others outside the club, it was misinterpreted as saying something detrimental about the girl. I meant nothing of the sort. All the girls I know seem to lead relatively normal lives away from work. I don't jump to conclusions about their activities away from work because they choose to dance for a living.
JoeUnCool
01-27-2010, 10:33 AM
None of my customers ever knew the car I drive. Thank god. :) And NO, I don't want them to know so they can come by. Any good customer that's worth a shit would have my email or dancer phone #, or just step in and say hi when THEY felt like it. And if I was there, awesome. If not, hope they had a good time with someone else.
Then again, I think of all the thousands I lost not being possessive of regulars. Then AGAIN, I think of all the headaches I've saved avoiding giving personal information to the Bem types. Guess I'm lucky not to be Asian. ;)
We agree on that.
Except for a few dancers that I actually know, no one knows how to get ahold of me unless I specifically give them that info. Giving out real live information is a risk, especially in a strip club. I give it out so irregularly, no one knows me. I'm like the hand up the Mona Lisa's skirt, you don't see me, but I am there.
JoeUnCool
01-27-2010, 10:35 AM
...my ATF is clipping my toenails right now. Does that make her my real stripper friend or does she have to clip ITC or OTC? I'm so confused!!!!!!!
It depends, are you watching her clip her toenails and paying for it? If so, then this could be a cool domination type of market segment, "Forced Toenail Watching"
JoeUnCool
01-27-2010, 10:37 AM
Note, how do you know I'm telling the truth?
Let me help you out. The correct answer would be that you don't...
Yoda, have you been corroborating behind my back again?
WestCoast101
01-27-2010, 11:18 AM
Nice try, bringing up a a red herring non-issue. No one is accusing or has accused Bem of claiming he is having sex or a romantic relationship with the dancers he has referenced.
The issue is very simple and anyone who reviews Bem's posts for the past year will note the following:
1. Bem has consistently been claming for the better part of one year now to have developed "real life" friendships with certain dancers.
2. that these are (as it turns out) two dancers who work at his "club of choice"
3 with at least one of these dancers, or maybe both, he was once a customer but by "mutual agreement" ceased being a customer, and thus Bem believes his non-customer status somehow makes real friendship possible, and that paying customers can never actually be 'real life' friends with dancers because they are among other things treating dancers as "employees", and (at times) alternatively is claiming that their "friends" status itself made the continuation of the dancer ciustomer relationship impossible.
4. at various times he makes vague references to other dancers but is never specific but the vast bulk of his posts very clearly refer to these same two dancers at this one club.
5. Its only after this recent challenge (one earlier by me on the Prolonged Efford thread in August) that he has tried to explicitly claim he is really talking about other dancers.
Here is the problem:
Multiple parties that work at or are familiar with the club and the individuals involved say Bem is either misguided or delusional, and while he spends club time with certain dancers w/o spendiing any significant money, he is absolutely not "real life" friends as the term "real life friends" (e.g. OTC platonic friends) is normally defined.
Bem really only goes to one club in his city, having been banned from his old club of choice.
So he is only taking about one club and for the most part about these 2 dancers.
WestCoast101
01-27-2010, 11:30 AM
these comments in regards to two sources:
one of my sources indicated earlier today her initial "please be discreet" request is no longer in effect given Bem's continued stonewalling, though she said don't use real first names, but that stage names of the dancers can be used if necessary, and name of club which is hardly a secret anyways, and any other info necessary to prove the point - so others visiting the club can affirm the same thing.
as for my other direct club source, she never even indicated at any point any "discretion" was necessary in this case, maybe she too is just tired of Bem's exaggerations and delusions.
hockeybobby
01-27-2010, 11:48 AM
Dude...you're bordering on obsession here, and it's creepy.
Seriously, who cares? We're all a little fucked up at times. Let it go.
yoda57us
01-27-2010, 11:58 AM
WC, get down off your high horse and reel it in. You are out of line and obsessed about the private goings-on of a person you don't even know.
WestCoast101
01-27-2010, 12:01 PM
Hey Hockey Head, i heard your Natl Health Service has cut the waiting time for brain operations in half to six months, so maybe you should get back in line, instead of interferring with the 1st ammendement in the USA.
Phil-W
01-27-2010, 12:06 PM
WC, get down off your high horse and reel it in. You are out of line and obsessed about the private goings-on of a person you don't even know.
I think he has a Sherlock Holmes fixation.
"The case of the dancer who didn't bark in the night?"
Phil. ;)
KS_Stevia
01-27-2010, 12:18 PM
Bem's been rambling on about this for much longer than the past year. Its been many years now.
WestCoast101
01-27-2010, 12:20 PM
when some blantantly lies for months on this thread, I will call it out for what it is: BULLSHIT.
and its takes like 10 minutes in the club on the wkdy dayshift to get the actual story, and they all know "bem" and they all know the veteran dancer club hottie
its not rocket science
Kellydancer
01-27-2010, 01:06 PM
I have nothing against Bem personally (I didn't know he rants about this a lot), I just hate when guys claim to be friends with a dancer and they aren't. That's probably why many others have an issue with this also. I hate when people twist things around and make them something they aren't. Unless you are actually going to someone's house, doing things together etc you aren't real life friends from the club. By OTC, I don't think that even means always sexual either.
People that twist things are a personal pet peeve. I once had a friend who claimed to be "friends" with a major rock band (one that most of you would know). Her idea of being friends was she knew where they stayed while in Chicago (Ritz Carlton) and got a room there. She would hang out at the bar there because a few members did as well. Sure, they knew her name, but do you honestly think they thought of her as a friend? Probably not, just as a somewhat off fan. That reminds me of this thread because the whole OTC situation is being twisted around.
hockeybobby
01-27-2010, 02:31 PM
Hey Hockey Head, i heard your Natl Health Service has cut the waiting time for brain operations in half to six months, so maybe you should get back in line, instead of interferring with the 1st ammendement in the USA.
It's spelled amendment.
WestCoast101
01-27-2010, 03:40 PM
and by the way, no need to post any names, stage or otherwise of any dancers as it would not be proper under these circumstances as these dancers from my what my sources tell me had nothing to do, beyond kindness and civility, with Bem's decision to attempt to inject himself into their lives and families, and claim to others they are 'real life' friends.
enough facts are already posted here to ascertain the club. and there is enough info on the parties for anyone in that area to stop by and get quickly get the story. Just expect comments like "Yeah right" accompanied by lots of eye rolling.
yoda57us
01-27-2010, 03:41 PM
when some blantantly lies for months on this thread, I will call it out for what it is: BULLSHIT.
and its takes like 10 minutes in the club on the wkdy dayshift to get the actual story, and they all know "bem" and they all know the veteran dancer club hottie
its not rocket science
Again I say, so what? You have every right to your opinion and, as irelevent as I think it is, you can post about it here if it makes you feel like a big man but what it all boils down to at this point is that you are simply picking on a stranger at the other end of the internet. We have all been reading BEM's posts for years. We are all capable of drawing our own opinions of them as well. You are simply beating a dead horse here under the guise of "calling bullshit" yawn.
When exactly were you in the club on a weekday shift again?
WestCoast101
01-27-2010, 03:45 PM
good catch Bobby, i have been spelling that wrong for years.
WestCoast101
01-27-2010, 03:46 PM
never been to the club in my life and don't plan on going, although i hear its a pretty good club
WestCoast101
01-27-2010, 04:08 PM
my "key point" for you yoda, i don't care what you think, Ok.
i've documented it like 9 diferent ways, Bem is not a "real life" (meaning platonic OTC) "friiends" with those dancers that he has been been incessantly talking about on this site for many months.
so lets just put it to rest, and if other wants to: they can go to the club or have a trusted friend stop by and verify the same thing, which in my case was just a final verification for what multilple other parties were already indicating to me beforehand.
other than one club customer (who thought it was maybe semantics) and yourself yoda, its well known in the club that Bem and her dancer "friends" while hanging out are definitely not "real life" and maybe Bem needs to tell his "friends" to explain this to everyone else the real nature of it, because (oddly) its seems they are not aware of it.
and when you find this out, during your next visit, you can post your correction in here.
KS_Stevia
01-27-2010, 04:31 PM
As long as those girls don't tell Bem, directly to his face, "you are NOT my friend", then all of this is for naught.
bem401
01-27-2010, 05:23 PM
So he is only taking about one club and for the most part about these 2 dancers.
Pal, you need to lighten up. Perhaps you can PM who the only two dancers are. I'm thinking I've had OTC platonic involvement with at least a dozen of them over the years and none of it was anything I've represented as anything but non-club-related.