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genevievela
01-23-2010, 09:29 AM
Eros is great for most cities. City Vibe really depends o. Where you are located. Great for the West Coast not so great for the East Coast. You can (if you have a site) exhange links with The Erotic Review. They will list your site as well as allow you to post ads once per week on their boards. One of the best ways to free advertising is by being active on message boards in your area. Indys.com, TER, Big Doggie, ( there are many) listing yourself on P411 and Date Check ( and roomates if you are in Chicago).

malayataylor
01-23-2010, 10:45 AM
I've heard of girls getting busted on roomservice .....I'm not gonna try my luck.

However, I am a member of datecheck, P411 and frequest a poster on TER, SGFE and sweet dixie ..not so much bd. I also have exchanged links with TER... I did all this when I first started to get my name out there. I'll have to start exchanging banner with other escorts.

Jessie_tinydancer
01-23-2010, 10:52 AM
Just out of curiousity... what happens in the US when you get busted?

malayataylor
01-23-2010, 11:06 AM
Just out of curiousity... what happens in the US when you get busted?

I have no clue.. Some states will just write you a ticket and have you show up in court.. some take you straight to jail right away. Um I've never been arrested so I wouldn't know how the whole arrest process works but I'll have to ask someone.

genevievela
01-23-2010, 02:18 PM
I've heard of girls getting busted on roomservice .....I'm not gonna try my luck.

However, I am a member of datecheck, P411 and frequest a poster on TER, SGFE and sweet dixie ..not so much bd. I also have exchanged links with TER... I did all this when I first started to get my name out there. I'll have to start exchanging banner with other escorts.

I have heard of girls being busted on datecheck, TER and BD as well. Adsp just had the big ordeal in Houston before they shut down. Nothing is 100 percent anywhere. Chicago is known as a rather tricky place to work.

As far as arrests, in depends on the state/county.
Most times the take you in - questions, fingerprints, etc then either set bail that someone must pay to get you out or serve you with a notice to appear. There is a thread on this board of a girl who was arrested. Was considered a misdemeanor as opposed to a felony. But I think it really varies from area to area. In Canada they arrest you but you are nit taken to jail nor are you read any rights as it is considered a summary offense. ( unless have any outstanding charges - in which case they will most certainly bring you in). They release you with a promise to appear.

malayataylor
01-23-2010, 05:32 PM
Two arrests.. Two huge mistakes. I know you just kinda forget but an escort is supposed to be alert at all times because of the nature of the job. I get sooo many emails (appointment requests) daily.. I could forward you All the ones I've turned down and you'd be like huh why? Escorts have to pay VERY close attention to detail.


Your first friend - Was answering questions about donations.


he asked her about her services donation etc


I've been in a situation similar to this one. I got to his room He was like "How much am I paying now?".. I was like "What are you talking about" He asked "What services do you provide .. are you full service?" I was like "I don't know what you're talking about you need to call the agency. He was like " I swear I'm not a cop or anything I've been ripped off by escorts so many times" and I was like "Ok sweetie I'm leaving call the agency.. (RUN TO MY CAR)

The room looked staged like he TRIED to mess it up (sign he's LE) ...I mean he just had shit everywhere.. and his ID was all weird looking like it was FAKE! The next morning on tv two girls working with a different agency were busted at the Hampton inn next door to the marriott.

Back to your friend : She wasn't supposed to do that. You don't answer questions like that. I've never had a client ask me about my donation. They know they're not supposed to do that. It's even listed on my "etiqutte" page even with that being said, a lot of stupid guys will ask you "what will you do?" "what won't you do" ... "Can we do 3 hours for 1k instead of 1200?" ... It's happened to me and I just delete the email.
With a strict screening you won't have to deal with things like this. I know ladies that have been in the business 10-15 years and have never been busted. It's definetely not for everyone. The trick is SAVING enough money and NEVER getting to the point where you're desperate for that NEXT call (alot of escorts nowadays are struggling to pay their bills simply because of poor business practices)

Your second friend: collected the money, took the money from HIS hand AND answered HIS question relating to sexual services.


,he gave her the money, he started to get undressed, all they way to the boxers, and he asked her a couple questions like whats off limits she responded with "no greek" and she asked him

I'm not going to say it's common sense for all but it is for professional escorts.. Sorry that happened to your friends. It's mind boggling that LE would use such a reputable hotel such as the hyatt to initiate a bust. Wow.

What I do is I tell my clients NEVER hand me money. Always leave the money where I can see it. If I can't find the donation within the first 5 minutes I'll leave. So it's not like they're GIVING it to me .. it's more like me finding it..lol.

Another thing I do is when I'm going to a hotel/home.. I ask for additional info. for hotels: I'll call the front desk and verify that that's the name he gave me. You won't believe how many girls don't do this. They just kinda go with their instincts and kinda get busted. For homes: I ask for a two utility bills in their name .. matching thier id.. and unless they've moved it should be the same address... Alot of escorts say "Oh that's too much to ask" It's bull ... If he wants to see you he'll go the extra mile to. There are soo many things you can do to avoid a bust but IF LE WANTS YOU THEY WILL GET YOU.

Before you even get to the appointment: Screen.. just don't go with your instincts.. though your instincts WILL save you life.. you don't want to rely on it. If you do run into a LE: know what to say, what NOT to say and DO not provoke the officers.... though still even then some asshole cops will arrest you just for the hell of it.

SCREEN!

have some really AWESOME tips about how to avoid busts, How to stay safe and anonymous while working as an escort. The articles on there are great reads for anyone thinking about getting into the business. I've learned ALOT from that site.

genevievela
01-23-2010, 07:29 PM
Very good advice above. It is also really amazing how many girls do not phone the hotel to make sure the person is actually staying there. When I first started, I had a few 'gents' call me to some imaginary hotel room number and when I would call to verify the operator would either say that there was no one there under that name or that the room number didn't exist! Lol. I had fun with one guy who tried this on me. I told him he must have the room number wrong as I had been to this hotel several time and know there is no room number (123 or whatever he said). Then he said oh it's the other location, they have two hotels, this one is on .. the other side of town. So, I said ok, I will meet you at whatever time it was, then called the other hotel (already knowing that this guy was trying to play me) and of course there was no room in their hotel with the room number he gave me. I call him back again but this time, I do not let him know that I know there is no room/he is not there. Then he says he has to cancel because... he is a Chippendale dancer (lol) and he has to go to do a show. I played along for a while, telling him that I would love to go to his show and just happen to live in the area where they are performing. It went on for a while until I let him know I was onto his .. scam or whatever it was he was up to. Was funny but sad because so many girls do not check first. Imagine how many showed up at the hotel..

malayataylor
01-23-2010, 08:16 PM
Very good advice above. It is also really amazing how many girls do not phone the hotel to make sure the person is actually staying there. When I first started, I had a few 'gents' call me to some imaginary hotel room number and when I would call to verify the operator would either say that there was no one there under that name or that the room number didn't exist! Lol. I had fun with one guy who tried this on me. I told him he must have the room number wrong as I had been to this hotel several time and know there is no room number (123 or whatever he said). Then he said oh it's the other location, they have two hotels, this one is on .. the other side of town. So, I said ok, I will meet you at whatever time it was, then called the other hotel (already knowing that this guy was trying to play me) and of course there was no room in their hotel with the room number he gave me. I call him back again but this time, I do not let him know that I know there is no room/he is not there. Then he says he has to cancel because... he is a Chippendale dancer (lol) and he has to go to do a show. I played along for a while, telling him that I would love to go to his show and just happen to live in the area where they are performing. It went on for a while until I let him know I was onto his .. scam or whatever it was he was up to. Was funny but sad because so many girls do not check first. Imagine how many showed up at the hotel..

ROTFL @ the Chippendale dancer! I can't believe you went along with it lol! I couldn't I'd be mad as hell and just curse him out for just wasting my time.. ha!

I'm so paranoid to the point that when I'm going to an outcall at a hotel.. I ask them to meet me down in the lobby and we'll make small talk and while talking I'll look in his eyes, smile and giggle a little while rubbing his chest (It sounds funny but I'm really checking for wires)..

I even put my ear to the door before I knock just incase I hear a walkie talkie go off or something lol

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* Always remember you are NOT selling sex.. You are selling time! This will save you from getting busted. Don't sell different sex acts seperate.. it's tacky and unprofessional. You're not selling sex! You're not a street walker!!

* Whatever your pph (price per hour) is make sure it's worth your time. I can't STRESS this enough. If you're trying to hustle your clients for tips and you're an independent you're wrong! Have a set hourly rate and DON'T hustle your clients ..you're not in the strip club! Your clients will appreciate you SO much and they'll come back

M3wlove
01-23-2010, 08:54 PM
this is great advice, especially the chest rubbing to check for wires, i'm very paranoid about getting caught and im actually making lists of things to check for LOL. this thread helps me organize my thoughts.

Miss_McKenna
01-23-2010, 09:56 PM
I'm so grateful for all the information you girls help out with! I'm tentatively considering getting into escorting.... I don't think I'm "there" yet but I'm doing all my research - reminds me of the way I was about dancing once, way back when!

Can I ask how you girls handle what services each client wants? I knew a big no-no in terms of LE is mentioning which sexual acts are included, and I was wondering how that would be resolved. Do you rely on the client to check your reviews to ascertain what you might be willing to do and not do?

Malaya, after you gave your escort name on here, I checked out your EROS ad and your website - I'm really impressed! I noticed that you made it clear that clients mustn't mention sexual services during the appointment or during conversations with you before. How would you make it clear what is and isn't acceptable?

Thanks for all the help and advice, all! :):):)

malayataylor
01-24-2010, 06:31 AM
I'm so grateful for all the information you girls help out with! I'm tentatively considering getting into escorting.... I don't think I'm "there" yet but I'm doing all my research - reminds me of the way I was about dancing once, way back when!

Can I ask how you girls handle what services each client wants? I knew a big no-no in terms of LE is mentioning which sexual acts are included, and I was wondering how that would be resolved. Do you rely on the client to check your reviews to ascertain what you might be willing to do and not do?

Malaya, after you gave your escort name on here, I checked out your EROS ad and your website - I'm really impressed! I noticed that you made it clear that clients mustn't mention sexual services during the appointment or during conversations with you before. How would you make it clear what is and isn't acceptable?

Thanks for all the help and advice, all! :):):)

Aw thanks :)


As far as my clients knowing what I do and won't do. I always send a link to my p411 profile there they can see decide for themselves if they'd like to see me or not. I don't have on my p411 profile "what I won't do" .. It's a category named "services I enjoy" (makes sense?) So it's not directly implying that this is what they're paying for ..they're just paying for my time remember? When a clients sends me the first email I decide if I want to see him or not and then reply WITH two links One link to my etiqutte page to let him know what I won't tolerate AND a second link to my P411 profile because I understand not everyone can find it on thier own.

For example: I don't "greek" or "bbbj".. I've never had a client cancel an appointment because I won't engage in these activities. I've also never had a client that mentioned sexual activities when contacting me.. they know it's WRONG! I don't have listed on my website what i will and won't do because I feel it's tacky. Though It does have on there on my faqs "Do you speak greek? No I speak english and french" to kinda weed out the clients looking for that...ugh lol!

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Because of the way I've presented myself online, My clients don't treat me like a some fuck doll.. they're not seeing me because they're looking for someone to bounce around. They're interested in me as a person and want to know about me: what I like, don't like, they ask me questions about posts I made on my blog (on my business site).. etc. I'm not confined in a hotel room with these men though we do spend private time .. we go to parties, strip clubs, lunch/ dinner, we go shopping, they buy me gifts.....etc! They take me out in public more than anything .. It's all about the true girlfriend experience...

Xiomara
01-25-2010, 08:24 PM
So, is having a sugar daddy the same as being an escort when it comes to LE? Like say you meet a man who clearly says " I wanna be ur sugar daddy " or somethin like that.... do the rules change?

And Malaya ur a smart ass woman! SMART not smartass....eh forget it ya know what I mean :) :)

malayataylor
01-25-2010, 09:47 PM
So, is having a sugar daddy the same as being an escort when it comes to LE? Like say you meet a man who clearly says " I wanna be ur sugar daddy " or somethin like that.... do the rules change?

And Malaya ur a smart ass woman! SMART not smartass....eh forget it ya know what I mean :) :)

You're so silly .. I know what you mean. Thanks :P! I was gonna text you but um.. it's kinda late.. lol!

Is having a sugar daddy the same as being an escort? No.

It was on sw that I found out that women actually fuck their sugardaddies. For some reason I always thought sd/sb arrangments were more about companionship and less sex but I guess all this time I just got lucky. I've had sugardaddies in the past but have NEVER slept with them.

I know some ladies that find their sds on seekingarrangement.com and all.. However, I feel those men are NO different .. I would still find a way to screen them. most women don't worry about 1.) If the guy's a fake 2.) If he's a psycho.. they're just focusing on the $$$. Talk about setting yourself up..

Another thing is when I leave my house to go to an appointment... I KNOW I'm getting paid. I know when I leave the guy i'll have money in my purse. However with a sugardaddy he could tell you something like "ooh lets meet here and have a bite" ..yall talk, laugh.. you go home with $0 in your purse in most cases hoping he ends up spoiling you or giving you some insane amount of cash later. So unless you're telling these men .. Ok I'll meet at the cheesecake factory for one hour for $200-$400 (no you can't get arrested for doing this..it's legal as long as you're not selling sex).. I think it's all a goose chase. It's the reason why I've never REALLY pursued the whole sd/sb relationship. to ME it's just not worth my time

As far as being worried about LE, No the rules don't change.. .. you can still get busted so be careful. I wouldn't recommend for anyone to go this route when making the decision to become an escort because it's VERY risky.. I mean really how many guys are gonna want to show you their id? or something like that.. at least escort clients know that it's standard procedure ya know? Well check out my pm... Good luck gurlie!

1st_samurai
01-25-2010, 11:45 PM
It was on sw that I found out that women actually fuck their sugardaddies. For some reason I always thought sd/sb arrangments were more about companionship and less sex but I guess all this time I just got lucky. I've had sugardaddies in the past but have NEVER slept with them.


Your ex-sugardaddies probably consider themselves unlucky.

malayataylor
01-26-2010, 01:39 AM
Your ex-sugardaddies probably consider themselves unlucky.

Let's see one still pays my car insurance till this day and has been for the past 4 years now (met him when I was 16 and broke lol ...and he's WAY WAY WAY older than I am) the other has been sending my daughter money ever since she was born (Lost his wife and kid in a car crash in london n obsesses about the idea of having me as his wife ). Both live OUT of state (Atlanta, ga) also where my daughter's dad lives...Oh and he's paid too (.. drives a mercades, works for att corporate headquarters, lives in buckhead). The others, I see all the time when I go clubbing in atl..maybe they consider themselves unlucky but they can't get over me.

My older cousin taught me sugar daddies were meant to be "used". She would have all these guys take her shopping, out to eat, on business trips and will NEVER have sex with them or better yet she would lead them on and will disappear on them. She was the type of person that would make them eat her pussy and ask them to leave. She's now a stripper and has a beautiful condo in hawaii.. even before she became a stripper she always had that "your money is my money"/ bitchy attitude. However, I've never been able to adapt that attitude. That lifestyle never appealed to me though I admired that she was able to fool soo many men.. I just thought the whole idea was super cool... but very dangerous.

It's sad that most women feel they have to have sex with a man in order for him to pamper em'. When done the right way it could be a win-win situation.. Again personality takes you a long way.

so.. Just FYI, ANY man that has had the opportunity to be around Me is an extremely LUCKY man ;)

do you notice the attitude? that was very rude 1st samurai....

GoldCoastGirl
01-30-2010, 08:25 AM
I'm a cuddle-slut + this is why I did so well with my lap dances. I loved the intimacy, the sensuality, the touching with another person and connecting for that moment. It had sexual overtones however plenty of times it was just about touching and being touched ....

So it is totally understandable when I read about escorts offering GFE that sex may not even happen... because... honestly.. all we REALLY want.. all of us no matter who we are (because it is the one thing that we have in common as humans)... is to touch and be touched:

thus to hug and be hugged can be more blissful than actual sex.

Just thought I would put that in here because y'all were talking about the GFE...

It's given me something to think about.

Are there providers that "specialise" in GFE yet not necessarily do BBBJ... but they offer the rest like a "dotting girlfriend" would do ?

malayataylor
01-30-2010, 10:39 AM
Are there providers that "specialise" in GFE yet not necessarily do BBBJ... but they offer the rest like a "dotting girlfriend" would do ?


I don't indulge in bbbjs some will say that's not being a "True" GFE.. but that's just bullshit. I haven't had one guy complained so anyone that say I'm not a "GFE" can go to hell ha!. GFE means you kiss that's all. When my clients arrive at my incall I open the door and give them a big hug and kiss (usually LFK) like a girfriend, make conversation... and well... that's what a GFE does lol

amytaylor
11-24-2014, 02:19 AM
Seriously, shut your mouth. I've never advertised under another name in my life; I have a stellar reputation and have survived (nay, thrived) 14 years even with idiots like you lying about me. NO ONE else has been able to do that, in this business full of psychos and liars (like you).

Stop being a moron...I advertise on Backpage, as well as everywhere else, because I CAN. Good clients can come from all over, you never know.

My reputation is legendary (I've earned it...largely through integrity. Know what that is? It starts with not being a LIAR, like you).

Again, shut up. Karma is brutal to liars like you, moron. And I won't be this nice to you again, if you keep lying about me. Understand?

xoxo,

Amy Taylor