Harleigh HellKat
01-15-2010, 04:23 PM
This is what I did when I was in a controlling/abusive relationship. It may seem like the cowardly way out, but it worked because he couldn't stop me from leaving. I waited until he left the house, packed a suitcase, put it in my car and nt to work like normal. Only this time I just didn't come home.
Oh yeah and then when I finally got my new apartment and he kept calling and calling to beg me to come back. So one day I invite him over and make him go down on me then tell him to leave. I told him we could hang out on valentines day then I stood him up to hang out at the bar with my girlfriends and hit on hot muscular dudes. The end! ;D
I think I really understand what you are going through. I have a high IQ, and I almost had a bright modelling career ahead of me a few years ago, and I left it for this guy... he apparently thought modelling was a form of prostitution and had sever jealousy issues because OMFG someone else has seen his girlfriends tits!!
He was also on coke and I never really knew it. I knew he was a VIOLENT alcoholic but never saw the coke thing coming. I actually never even saw what the stuff looked like until like a year after we broke up, that's how drug illiterate I am. /:O Some strange chick offered me some in the bathroom at a bar I was like whoaaaaa no thanks.... anyway, off topic.
This guy wouldn't even let me drink or smoke a cigarette or follow my career modelling but he's off drinking fighting and doing hard drugs? WTF?
I'll have to admit I haven't read the whole thread bc I am getting ready for work, but I just wanted to say that I can understand how we get ourselves into these situations without knowing how bad they are, because I've been there. The best thing to do is leave and don't look back. It always helps to have a friend there to help you see what your life will be like without this guy. My friend Amy helped me out there by encouraging me to travel and be away from him so I could see why I didn't need him.
Crap, I'm off to work... If you need support you can PM me. Just remember you deserve the best life has to offer, and this guy is about as far from that as you can get.
HUGS!! kbai
Oh yeah and then when I finally got my new apartment and he kept calling and calling to beg me to come back. So one day I invite him over and make him go down on me then tell him to leave. I told him we could hang out on valentines day then I stood him up to hang out at the bar with my girlfriends and hit on hot muscular dudes. The end! ;D
I think I really understand what you are going through. I have a high IQ, and I almost had a bright modelling career ahead of me a few years ago, and I left it for this guy... he apparently thought modelling was a form of prostitution and had sever jealousy issues because OMFG someone else has seen his girlfriends tits!!
He was also on coke and I never really knew it. I knew he was a VIOLENT alcoholic but never saw the coke thing coming. I actually never even saw what the stuff looked like until like a year after we broke up, that's how drug illiterate I am. /:O Some strange chick offered me some in the bathroom at a bar I was like whoaaaaa no thanks.... anyway, off topic.
This guy wouldn't even let me drink or smoke a cigarette or follow my career modelling but he's off drinking fighting and doing hard drugs? WTF?
I'll have to admit I haven't read the whole thread bc I am getting ready for work, but I just wanted to say that I can understand how we get ourselves into these situations without knowing how bad they are, because I've been there. The best thing to do is leave and don't look back. It always helps to have a friend there to help you see what your life will be like without this guy. My friend Amy helped me out there by encouraging me to travel and be away from him so I could see why I didn't need him.
Crap, I'm off to work... If you need support you can PM me. Just remember you deserve the best life has to offer, and this guy is about as far from that as you can get.
HUGS!! kbai