lopaw
03-15-2010, 07:52 PM
It's even weirder when I'm ALONE and leave without being approached.
I am not incapable of approaching a dancer, nor REALLY unwiling whe push comes to shove - but sometimes I get frustrated, like "what's wrong with me that I'm not getting approached? If they aren't going to try to sell me, I"m not going to get up and go offer my money to THEM" lol. Like, if I had to wait around a car lot for a salesperson to show me a car - well, there are other lots and other cars, ya' know?
I think that aside from shortened songs, bathroom trolls and girls unwilling to give extras (!), one of the most common complaints from SC patrons is not getting approached. There have been many discussions over on TUSCL about it. It's just one of those things that we all expect from time to time. And it's a funny thing because it can occur in any club, at any time. It depends on so many different factors (time of day, number of girls on shift, etc.) that unless you are a regular and know some of the girls when you visit, there is always a chance that you're gonna be sitting there with money in your hand and an empty chair next to you. It seems to happen more often during weekday dayshifts in smaller clubs, where the number of dancers is less, and those few dancers there are with their regulars. :-\
I am not incapable of approaching a dancer, nor REALLY unwiling whe push comes to shove - but sometimes I get frustrated, like "what's wrong with me that I'm not getting approached? If they aren't going to try to sell me, I"m not going to get up and go offer my money to THEM" lol. Like, if I had to wait around a car lot for a salesperson to show me a car - well, there are other lots and other cars, ya' know?
I think that aside from shortened songs, bathroom trolls and girls unwilling to give extras (!), one of the most common complaints from SC patrons is not getting approached. There have been many discussions over on TUSCL about it. It's just one of those things that we all expect from time to time. And it's a funny thing because it can occur in any club, at any time. It depends on so many different factors (time of day, number of girls on shift, etc.) that unless you are a regular and know some of the girls when you visit, there is always a chance that you're gonna be sitting there with money in your hand and an empty chair next to you. It seems to happen more often during weekday dayshifts in smaller clubs, where the number of dancers is less, and those few dancers there are with their regulars. :-\