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mediocrity
02-12-2010, 07:34 PM
Yea she worked there for a few years up until october 09. I do know most girls if not all do extras there. LOTS of drugs as well.

Why the hell didn't she go to the Cheetah? Oasis? Pink Pony? Follies?

Im_not_here
02-12-2010, 08:20 PM
Doing it for money stimulates the economy and we certainly need economic stimulation. That could mean a big screen HDTV for you, for example and perhaps other goodies. Just turn a blind eye.

FBR

I'm sure u could find some dude to blow for an HDTV. Stimulates the economy and hey, u will prob enjoy it. Its a win win. ugh

Im_not_here
02-12-2010, 08:24 PM
I'll be honest - if it were me, and I were an extras girl, you would have to worry about me on BUSY nights more than empty nights.

On a slow night, the energy in the club is just awful. I get happy when customers come in, but my sets on stage are half-asses, and so are my dances. An extras girl I was friends with used to tell me that if the night was bad, she didn't even feel like sucking dick. LOL

Try not to freak out.

Yea i guess i have to worry any time she steps thru that door. jeez. Im REALLY trying not to freak out. And ive done pretty good for 4 years but its really starting to takes its toll. Ive never even seen her dance hahah. I wont step foot past the front door. Some dude would be going home in a body bag if i did. grrrrrrr.

Im_not_here
02-12-2010, 08:31 PM
Why the hell didn't she go to the Cheetah? Oasis? Pink Pony? Follies?

Oasis, check
Pink Pony, check
Mardi Gras, check

She even danced at Follies. That club is all extras. She danced there for quite a while. Im trying to ad all this up. Tell me if im being paranoid. She tried Oasis, didnt last long. They arent known for extras. Pink Pony, pretty strict with Panther being house mom. Again, not many extras. Didnt last long. Mardi Gras, asshole staff, didnt last long. Tiffany's, WELL known for extras, was there a LONG time. OK now Charleston. Thee Southern Belle, No extras, didnt last long. Jaguars, Not many extras, didnt last long. Jester Social...loves it there and is still there. See a pattern? Its one of many patterns im seeing.

Im_not_here
02-12-2010, 08:35 PM
And get this, at 8:30 pm tonight she text and said she had zero money because no customers were there. Its 10:30 now and she just text and said she had $300 from just stage sets because ppl were coming in. What?!!

FBR
02-12-2010, 08:37 PM
I'm sure u could find some dude to blow for an HDTV. Stimulates the economy and hey, u will prob enjoy it. Its a win win. ugh I'm not looking for anyone. IMO you seem pathetic in terms of asking dancers here to help you. Pretty much all the dancers here have said over the years that it takes a strong man to not worry about it.

FBR

SteveSmith
02-12-2010, 09:00 PM
The fact that you haven't communicated your thoughts and fears with her about this means you two aren't the soul mates you claim to be. Soul mates talk about everything.

You asking strangers if your wife is cheating or not doesn't compute with me. How would we know. The communication between you and your wife sucks.

I smell a troll. http://imgcash6.imageshack.us/img410/26/thicontroll.gif

veronicachick
02-12-2010, 09:10 PM
all signs point to - your wife's a whore. ::)

Im_not_here
02-12-2010, 09:38 PM
I'm not looking for anyone. IMO you seem pathetic in terms of asking dancers here to help you. Pretty much all the dancers here have said over the years that it takes a strong man to not worry about it.

FBR

IMO you are pathetic for thinking its ok for a girl to suck dick as long as you get a HDTV. So really, your opinion doesnt mean much to me.

Im_not_here
02-12-2010, 09:42 PM
The fact that you haven't communicated your thoughts and fears with her about this means you two aren't the soul mates you claim to be. Soul mates talk about everything.

You asking strangers if your wife is cheating or not doesn't compute with me. How would we know. The communication between you and your wife sucks.

I smell a troll. http://imgcash6.imageshack.us/img410/26/thicontroll.gif

I have, we are , and we do. She is just not willing to go to far into it explaining some things. She gets very defensive. And im just asking for other dancers opinions because its what they do and they have more of a clue than you for sure. You wouldnt go to a tire shop and ask someone why your engine keeps over heating.

Im_not_here
02-12-2010, 09:43 PM
all signs point to - your wife's a whore. ::)

Thats very helpful, thanx ::)

veronicachick
02-12-2010, 09:58 PM
Thats very helpful, thanx ::)

you are very welcome. you asked for a dancer's opinion and I gave it to you.
she only lasts at clubs that are known for extras, her former co worker tells you she does extras in the VIP, etc... your wife sounds like a whore.

FBR
02-12-2010, 10:01 PM
^ this thread is getting boring. I would like to finagle veronicachick if I could afford her }:D

FBR

SteveSmith
02-12-2010, 10:06 PM
I have, we are , and we do. She is just not willing to go to far into it explaining some things. She gets very defensive. And im just asking for other dancers opinions because its what they do and they have more of a clue than you for sure. You wouldnt go to a tire shop and ask someone why your engine keeps over heating.


you are very welcome. you asked for a dancer's opinion and I gave it to you.
she only lasts at clubs that are known for extras, her former co worker tells you she does extras in the VIP, etc... your wife sounds like a whore.

It looks like you got your answer. :P

Im_not_here
02-12-2010, 10:07 PM
you are very welcome. you asked for a dancer's opinion and I gave it to you.
she only lasts at clubs that are known for extras, her former co worker tells you she does extras in the VIP, etc... your wife sounds like a whore.

Well if thats truly your opinion then thank you. I value a dancers opinion on this. Just kinda sounded like you were being mean.

Im_not_here
02-12-2010, 10:12 PM
It looks like you got your answer. :P

And so it seems i did. What a drag. Maybe I will go dance and see how SHE handles it. It would be an interesting turn of the tables. I'll pull all the stops. Come home smelling like alcohol and say i only had a glass of wine, do some extras and let the rumors fly, have girls calling me and texting how much they love and miss me. Sounds fun. except the getting naked and dancing part. lol. Male dancers just look silly to me. But hey, i have a six pack. And im sure i can round up a fireman hat and some suspenders. ;)

Im_not_here
02-12-2010, 10:14 PM
^ this thread is getting boring. I would like to finagle veronicachick if I could afford her }:D

FBR

Its a big forum. No ones making u post.

princessjas
02-12-2010, 10:18 PM
Well if thats truly your opinion then thank you. I value a dancers opinion on this. Just kinda sounded like you were being mean.

It's hard not to sound mean when you tell someone you think his wife is an extas whore...but eh, it really does sound like it. ;) I danced for over a decade and I've never seen a clean dancer get fired from clean clubs but stick around the whorehouses. Just sayin.

Im_not_here
02-12-2010, 10:23 PM
It's hard not to sound mean when you tell someone you think his wife is an extas whore...but eh, it really does sound like it. ;) I danced for over a decade and I've never seen a clean dancer get fired from clean clubs but stick around the whorehouses. Just sayin.

She never got fired really. She left because she said money wasnt good at a certain club. As soon as she found the nastiest little club full of girls doing extras, she stayed and made money. All the while saying that yea, a few girls there did extras but she would never do that. or the classic, "all those girls were fired and its clean now". Yea right.

RBurgundy
02-12-2010, 10:32 PM
Just my objective opinion as a guy.

(a) Never been to any upscale gentleman's club that VIP wasn't a fun time. You have to recognize that most girls on here will never say they do anything, but trust me, we have either found the website of the 1% stripper demographic, or many of the girls here just lie about what they actually do in the club to bank. Don't let them tell u that your girl can work in an extras club and bank while being an angel.

(b) If there are dudes texting her, that can't happen unless she is giving out her number. Huge warning flag. Huge.

Best of luck. You should have a honest discussion.

KS_Stevia
02-12-2010, 10:32 PM
Sometimes, its nice to be a big fish in a small pond though. I've made good money dancing clean at extras-ridden clubs. The girls simply weren't as hot as me and didn't have much game. But the club was comfortable, well-located, and management treated customers well. So sometimes they went with extras girls, sometimes with me. She might be doing something similar.

And don't say silly things like, "I'll dance" unless you are ready to dance for other men. Its not that easy to get hired as a male stripper at a striptease venue solely for females. Your emotions are showing, and I think everyone on the site is riling you up and making it worse.

Djoser
02-12-2010, 10:32 PM
On a slow night, the energy in the club is just awful. I get happy when customers come in, but my sets on stage are half-asses, and so are my dances. An extras girl I was friends with used to tell me that if the night was bad, she didn't even feel like sucking dick. LOL

Try not to freak out.

This is my favorite post in the thread so far. You had me 'laughing out loud' for real.

Sorry, 'I'm_not_here', I don't mean to laugh at your situation. But you are starting to sound like a troll with the constant worrying and insecurity. Haven't met many musicians that would freak out like this.

Plus we get so many threads like this, the women here don't generally do extras and get sick of hearing about it, and the jealousy--they get very sick of that. You can't blame them, even if it's a natural reaction from men raised with the Western notion of Romantic love, etc.

And also you totally fucked with the wrong guy, FBR was trying to inject a little humor into the situation. Of course he didn't really think you'd be happy with a big screen TV if your beloved wife was sucking dick.

Which, I hate to say it, and if you are for real, she probably is. Buck up, go back to being a musician, you'll be deluged in booty again, and you will mend.

Im_not_here
02-12-2010, 10:40 PM
Sometimes, its nice to be a big fish in a small pond though. I've made good money dancing clean at extras-ridden clubs. The girls simply weren't as hot as me and didn't have much game. But the club was comfortable, well-located, and management treated customers well. So sometimes they went with extras girls, sometimes with me. She might be doing something similar.

And don't say silly things like, "I'll dance" unless you are ready to dance for other men. Its not that easy to get hired as a male stripper at a striptease venue solely for females. Your emotions are showing, and I think everyone on the site is riling you up and making it worse.

Its obvious the only way im gonna know for sure if shes doing stuff is to send someone in. My gut says yes, the evidence points to yes. As far as dancing, i know i would have to dance mostly for guys. I really dont care. Not a homophobe. I think it would be good for her to see how it feels.

Im_not_here
02-12-2010, 10:43 PM
This is my favorite post in the thread so far. You had me 'laughing out loud' for real.

Sorry, 'I'm_not_here', I don't mean to laugh at your situation. But you are starting to sound like a troll with the constant worrying and insecurity. Haven't met many musicians that would freak out like this.

Plus we get so many threads like this, the women here don't generally do extras and get sick of hearing about it, and the jealousy--they get very sick of that. You can't blame them, even if it's a natural reaction from men raised with the Western notion of Romantic love, etc.

And also you totally fucked with the wrong guy, FBR was trying to inject a little humor into the situation. Of course he didn't really think you'd be happy with a big screen TV if your beloved wife was sucking dick.

Which, I hate to say it, and if you are for real, she probably is. Buck up, go back to being a musician, you'll be deluged in booty again, and you will mend.

Yea most musicians wouldnt freak about it. Im usually one that wouldnt. But shes my wife! I said i would NEVER get married but with her i didnt give it a second thought. Maybe i should have. my mistake i guess. And honestly i dont care who i fucked with. i wont be heartbroken if i get booted.

chris91
02-13-2010, 01:59 AM
^^^ I understand that this is true for 99% of dancers with respect to 99% of customers. But, are you telling me that a dancer with super-high libido might not get a little bit of pleasure from a Chippindales-looking customer with a charming personality and a bucket full of Benjamins? What if he's been her regular for more than two years?


Hahaha, this is some ridiculous shit.

mediocrity
02-13-2010, 02:08 AM
Oasis, check
Pink Pony, check
Mardi Gras, check

She even danced at Follies. That club is all extras. She danced there for quite a while. Im trying to ad all this up. Tell me if im being paranoid. She tried Oasis, didnt last long. They arent known for extras. Pink Pony, pretty strict with Panther being house mom. Again, not many extras. Didnt last long. Mardi Gras, asshole staff, didnt last long. Tiffany's, WELL known for extras, was there a LONG time. OK now Charleston. Thee Southern Belle, No extras, didnt last long. Jaguars, Not many extras, didnt last long. Jester Social...loves it there and is still there. See a pattern? Its one of many patterns im seeing.

Panther is a personal friend of mine. She runs a tight fucking ship.

Djoser
02-13-2010, 03:37 AM
Pink Pony has had a good rep, with 16 pretty well-run clubs, last I heard. The Atlanta club was very nice last time I was there, I liked it.

It's true you will find non-extras dancers in even heavy extras clubs. Except maybe one where a friend of mine is still DJing. Last time I saw him he said 'Remember there would be a few girls a night that weren't sucking dick? Now they all are, every last one of them.'

But I have known a few hot ones who liked working the extras clubs for a short time and moving on, because for a while the guys would assume they would eventually so they could still bank. The strategy had more limited value after a while, of course.

mediocrity
02-13-2010, 03:51 AM
^^ I danced at PP for three years and can NOT say enough good things about it. Jack rocks.

Djoser
02-13-2010, 04:09 AM
The Atlanta one? Does it still have two stages in two rooms, sort of? I'm trying to remember if I heard they moved or remodeled it, it's been a long time.

I had never worked in a club when I went there, but I was really impressed. They also had one of the first DJs I was really impressed with working there, I remember that.

mediocrity
02-13-2010, 04:24 AM
^^ Yes, Atlanta. Brian the night time DJ rocks.

Im_not_here
02-13-2010, 09:22 AM
^^ I danced at PP for three years and can NOT say enough good things about it. Jack rocks.

Yea panther does run a tight ship. Thats why she is still there. Rock on.:) And gilardi..great xmas parties hahaha.

Im_not_here
02-13-2010, 09:26 AM
Pink Pony has had a good rep, with 16 pretty well-run clubs, last I heard. The Atlanta club was very nice last time I was there, I liked it.

It's true you will find non-extras dancers in even heavy extras clubs. Except maybe one where a friend of mine is still DJing. Last time I saw him he said 'Remember there would be a few girls a night that weren't sucking dick? Now they all are, every last one of them.'

But I have known a few hot ones who liked working the extras clubs for a short time and moving on, because for a while the guys would assume they would eventually so they could still bank. The strategy had more limited value after a while, of course.

What club was this where they were all dong that? And how long ago?

Pink pony has a new one in atl call pink pony south. its huge!!! Has a giant round main stage thats lit up under the floor. Oh, and a sushi bar thats not half bad. hahaha. Pink pony was always my favorite. Its where most of the musicians went. And trust me, if u had enough cash there was DEF xtras going on there. Seen it first hand, many times.

hockeybobby
02-13-2010, 09:35 AM
Dude, you sound like an accomplished strip club junkie. Get thee to blue.

Im_not_here
02-13-2010, 09:42 AM
Dude, you sound like an accomplished strip club junkie. Get thee to blue.

Well not really. I was in a pretty big band there and a lot of my friends are in major bands from Atl. They all would drag me to the clubs. Im DEF NOT a SC junkie by any means. I bet mediocrity and I know A LOT of the same ppl since she danced at the pony for a long time. Esp between 2002 and 2007.

mediocrity
02-13-2010, 09:53 AM
^^ Yup, I was there '03 to '06. That club holds a very special place in my heart. I miss my PP hustle buddy. She's still there.

yoda57us
02-13-2010, 10:05 AM
^^^ I understand that this is true for 99% of dancers with respect to 99% of customers. But, are you telling me that a dancer with super-high libido might not get a little bit of pleasure from a Chippindales-looking customer with a charming personality and a bucket full of Benjamins? What if he's been her regular for more than two years?

Spoken like a true RIL jack....not that there is anything wrong with that.

Don't confuse a dancer's enjoyment of spending time with a guy who is generous and not a dick head as anything more than a bit more fun than dealing with a grabby, cheap-ass moron customer.

Im_not_here
02-13-2010, 10:18 AM
^^ Yup, I was there '03 to '06. That club holds a very special place in my heart. I miss my PP hustle buddy. She's still there.
Then U prob know some of the sevendust boys and maybe collective soul, and Stereomud. I was in a band with the current drummer for CS.

mediocrity
02-13-2010, 10:24 AM
Not SM. My ex boyfriend is a very prominent person in the music industry, but more on the hip hop side. I'm not a hip hop girl, but I did get to dance for some very well known artists ( even got to eat dinner with one at R. Thomas.... omfg R. Thomas..), one in particular who was one of the most generous men I have ever met.

Though it was kind of hilarious to have some big random black dudes come start slinging ones all over my stage, and me WTF'ing all over the place wondering how they knew me, only to find out later they worked for my ex. Good times.

KS_Stevia
02-13-2010, 11:00 AM
Yea most musicians wouldnt freak about it. Im usually one that wouldnt.

Sure musicians will freak. My boyfriend is a musician and he's super jealous. But he also doesn't tour right now, just punching in a clock atm.

safado
02-13-2010, 12:53 PM
I think that you should relax for a while about this extras stuff as long as she is making good money and spending it on you. Although I think that you should get more than a big screen HDTV, I say you should go for a sports car. It is not so bad at least you can get something out of the deal, a lot of guys get cheated on and never get anything of monetary value out of it. Just make sure you don't knock her up. You need to look at things in a more positive way.

Im_not_here
02-13-2010, 01:09 PM
I think that you should relax for a while about this extras stuff as long as she is making good money and spending it on you. Although I think that you should get more than a big screen HDTV, I say you should go for a sports car. It is not so bad at least you can get something out of the deal, a lot of guys get cheated on and never get anything of monetary value out of it. Just make sure you don't knock her up. You need to look at things in a more positive way.

I'd rather just have my wife NOT doing extras than have stuff. I DEF DO NOT want her spending money on me if she got the cash doing extras. I'd really rather starve to death. Im totally serious. Besides I dont need her money. I work hard for my cash and dont need it. And she as an IUD. Chances are she wont be getting knocked up.

Im_not_here
02-13-2010, 01:10 PM
Not SM. My ex boyfriend is a very prominent person in the music industry, but more on the hip hop side. I'm not a hip hop girl, but I did get to dance for some very well known artists ( even got to eat dinner with one at R. Thomas.... omfg R. Thomas..), one in particular who was one of the most generous men I have ever met.

Though it was kind of hilarious to have some big random black dudes come start slinging ones all over my stage, and me WTF'ing all over the place wondering how they knew me, only to find out later they worked for my ex. Good times.
Thats awesome! Yea, the pony is the musicians fav place for sure.

mediocrity
02-13-2010, 01:16 PM
I'd rather just have my wife NOT doing extras than have stuff. I DEF DO NOT want her spending money on me if she got the cash doing extras. I'd really rather starve to death. Im totally serious. Besides I dont need her money. I work hard for my cash and dont need it. And she as an IUD. Chances are she wont be getting knocked up.

Don't mind him, he's a bottom feeder.

FBR
02-13-2010, 01:19 PM
I'd rather just have my wife NOT doing extras than have stuff. I DEF DO NOT want her spending money on me if she got the cash doing extras. I'd really rather starve to death. Im totally serious. Besides I dont need her money. I work hard for my cash and dont need it. And she as an IUD. Chances are she wont be getting knocked up. You never told us you are a man of means. Knowing that, I would insist that she quit dancing immediately.

FBR

Elusive21
02-13-2010, 02:03 PM
Ok someone asked me to post a pic of my wife to see if anyone would tell me if she was doing stuff. Um, I dont think thats a good idea. But! The club is in Charleston SC. It was called the Joker Social Club. Now its just called 1337 King St. I think. The other would be Tiffany's in Atlanta. The Joker being the current. Any info on these places? I've heard horrible (for my situation) things about both.

why don't you go on tuscl or stripclublist.com and see the reviews of this club or maybe even of your girl? (but then u also have to remind yourself, that some of the reviews aren't exactly accurate. many guys like to claim that they got a HJ from so-and-so and sometimes jealous dancers will post bad reviews of other dancers)

laurcon
02-13-2010, 02:47 PM
okay i just read this whole thread. it doesn't make any possible sense that she didn't stay long at all of those clean clubs but then banks in dirty clubs without doing extras?
so go put on your thong and start giving handy-j's to give her a taste of her own medicine. that's very mature and what soul mates would do.

btw, you're not soul mates. if you were, there would be no secrets or suspicious jealousy. you would have an honest and open conversation about your feelings, and she would either quit dancing and use her degree, or leave the marriage as to not put you through your jealously pains anymore. another btw... Tulane is a fine college, but is not an ivy league school as you said earlier, unless she has another degree?

and also, please stop name-dropping. no one cares about sevendust or collective soul or whoever your super cool musician self played with. we have threads for name-dropping so do a search if you want to do that.

yoda57us
02-13-2010, 03:07 PM
I think that you should relax for a while about this extras stuff as long as she is making good money and spending it on you.


I'd rather just have my wife NOT doing extras than have stuff.


Dude, I honestly don't have a lot of sympathy for you or your situation but I do strongly suggest that you pay absolutely no attention to anything that safado offers in the way of relationship advice...

Im_not_here
02-13-2010, 05:20 PM
You never told us you are a man of means. Knowing that, I would insist that she quit dancing immediately.

FBR

She knows how i feel about it. She danced long before i met her so i really cant insist. I guess i just hoped she wasnt one of the ones doing extras. Things are great when we are together. Shes a really cool person and cares about ppl. But ive thought that about other girls as well only to find out otherwise. So who knows. Ppl can cheat on each other without the other person ever knowing. happens ALL the time.

Im_not_here
02-13-2010, 05:24 PM
why don't you go on tuscl or stripclublist.com and see the reviews of this club or maybe even of your girl? (but then u also have to remind yourself, that some of the reviews aren't exactly accurate. many guys like to claim that they got a HJ from so-and-so and sometimes jealous dancers will post bad reviews of other dancers)

Yea i think i saw that site. Dont they want you to pay to read that stuff? Im very careful about using my CC on any sex industry sites.

safado
02-13-2010, 05:35 PM
Yea i think i saw that site. Dont they want you to pay to read that stuff? Im very careful about using my CC on any sex industry sites.

The only way you will know for sure is if you send someone to the club and investigate, your best bet is to hire a PI. Also she could be meeting guys at hotels while she tells you she is at work.

An old favorite of mine would leave her club early and meet me at a motel before going home to her boyfriend.