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sxcbbw
02-23-2010, 06:07 PM
Sex is a need. People that don't have enough become depressed and often do bad things like become women haters.
Ever heard of Maslow's hierarchy of needs? He talked about what humans need to not only survive, but to be happy as well. The things at the bottom are most important. Once they have been seen to the next level becomes important.
He talked about what humans need to not only survive, but to be happy as well.
He talked about what humans need.
He talked.
He.
I've seen plenty of people die, happily virgins. I know plenty of people not getting any, and glad of it - and even more that just don't care. I mean maybe you really do have that strange dick/brain neuron disorder, but you're one in 6 billion. If someone becomes a woman hater because he's not getting any ass, he had problems long before he stopped getting any.
Now, girls?
Raise your hand if, while a dancer, you've ever worried about rent, insurance, bills, the mortage, loan payments, paying for school for you or your kids.
And could the millionaires with no money woes also present themselves? Cheers.
mediocrity
02-23-2010, 06:11 PM
http://www.mediabistro.com/agencyspy/original/bitch_slap.jpg
sxcbbw
02-23-2010, 06:12 PM
First Pretty_Penny makes me lose THE GAME, now you give me nightmares. Fuck today, yo'.
Scoundrel
02-23-2010, 06:15 PM
All of you are right. I don't know anything about your end of the business. So, tell me exactly why what I'm saying is so wrong. Educate me.
sxcbbw
02-23-2010, 06:17 PM
For someone that can string a sentence together, you can't read this thread and make note of the posts telling you exactly what you just asked us to tell you again?
MissMynxx
02-23-2010, 06:21 PM
All of you are right. I don't know anything about your end of the business. So, tell me exactly why what I'm saying is so wrong. Educate me.
Should we even bother? I sort of doubt that we would be able to 'educate' someone like you. Especially since the sarcasm came flying out of the screen from your post like a pissed off raccoon.
JayATee
02-23-2010, 06:21 PM
All of you are right. I don't know anything about your end of the business. So, tell me exactly why what I'm saying is so wrong. Educate me.
For someone that can string a sentence together, you can't read this thread and make note of the posts telling you exactly what you just asked us to tell you again?
Yeah, learning to read would be a tremendous help.
Scoundrel
02-23-2010, 06:24 PM
For someone that can string a sentence together, you can't read this thread and make note of the posts telling you exactly what you just asked us to tell you again?
What? That all of you work hard for your money and deserve respect? I never said you didn't.
I did say that trying to get more value for money isn't a sin.
But, I'm not a PUA and really can't defend them if they teach men to lie, trick or cheat their way into a woman's bedroom. If that's what they teach it's wrong.
mediocrity
02-23-2010, 06:26 PM
Should we even bother? I sort of doubt that we would be able to 'educate' someone like you. Especially since the sarcasm came flying out of the screen from your post like a pissed off raccoon.
Especially since the population of girls on this board tends to have at least one level of higher education. Excuse me while we all bust out our thesauruses so we can dumb it down for someone who's made nothing of themselves.
I love being on-call.
mediocrity
02-23-2010, 06:30 PM
What? That all of you work hard for your money and deserve respect? I never said you didn't.
I did say that trying to get more value for money isn't a sin.
But, I'm not a PUA and really can't defend them if they teach men to lie, trick or cheat their way into a woman's bedroom. If that's what they teach it's wrong.
Value for money when it comes to living things- let me break it down real nice for you.
Value for money: indentured servitude of people in sweat shops.
Value for money: puppy mills that mass produce puppies who are ill of have bad genetic backgrounds to sell to pet shops.
Value for money: Laying people off and outsourcing jobs for cheaper company costs.
Apply that to:
Value for money: getting a woman to stoop as low as she can and give up her body for your suggested "retail value".
Value is irrelevant when it comes to.. WAIT FOR IT...
THINGS THAT HAVE FEELINGS.
Scoundrel
02-23-2010, 06:41 PM
Especially since the population of girls on this board tends to have at least one level of higher education. Excuse me while we all bust out our thesauruses so we can dumb it down for someone who's made nothing of themselves.
I love being on-call.
You're right. I'm not a smart man. I didn't even finish high school. But, I did open my own business with money I earned myself and I ran it for ten years. I worked very hard. Often as many as72 hours a week. I also made a vary good income for the time. Much more than my friends that went to college.
Then one day I asked myself why I was working so hard. Was it making me happy? It wasn't. So, I closed up and took a long vacation. I traveled across the country and partied with all kinds of people.
When I came home I took a simple, but low paying job that gave me lots of time to enjoy the time I have left. Mid-life crises? Probably so. Whatever, I'm so much happier now than I ever was when I was working so hard.
So yeah, I have nothing to show for the life I've lived. I've wasted the great gift I was given. Life. But, I've had a great time and who will care in 100 years?
Scoundrel
02-23-2010, 06:48 PM
Value for money when it comes to living things- let me break it down real nice for you.
Value for money: indentured servitude of people in sweat shops.
Value for money: puppy mills that mass produce puppies who are ill of have bad genetic backgrounds to sell to pet shops.
Value for money: Laying people off and outsourcing jobs for cheaper company costs.
Apply that to:
Value for money: getting a woman to stoop as low as she can and give up her body for your suggested "retail value".
Value is irrelevant when it comes to.. WAIT FOR IT...
THINGS THAT HAVE FEELINGS.
Wow, you are comparing me to a sweat shop operator? That's pretty harsh. I see your point and stand corrected. I offer all of you a heart felt apology. I am truely sorry to have offended you so deeply.
hockeybobby
02-23-2010, 07:58 PM
Quick Charlie! Close it now! Hurrrrryyyyyy!
:D
charlie61
02-23-2010, 08:30 PM
^ For real man. It's getting close.
He got laid. That's all this thread is about. Who da fuck cares.
WestCoast101
02-23-2010, 08:42 PM
^ For real man. It's getting close.
He got laid. That's all this thread is about. Who da fuck cares.
If it were really that simple, you wouldn't have a thread with 267 comments in only a few days. Its entirely possibe his question is legit, but by definition guaranteed to piss off dancers.
rubyredlipsss
02-23-2010, 08:44 PM
nooooo...i love this thread, i can't stop lol'ing.
yoda57us
02-23-2010, 08:54 PM
^ For real man. It's getting close.
He got laid. That's all this thread is about. Who da fuck cares.
There isn't much of value here but there isn't much of value on most of the "does she really like me" threads that fester like an open soar all over CC on a regular basis either.
If we are going to start applying the "who cares" index to CC threads it's going to become a much smaller part of SW...
Your right, all he did was get laid and post about it here...but there are 270 posts on this thread and only 54 of them came from the OP.
Scoundrel
02-23-2010, 09:09 PM
Yep, Howard Stern didn't have much real value either. But he ruled radio for a long time.
yoda57us
02-23-2010, 09:38 PM
Yep, Howard Stern didn't have much real value either. But he ruled radio for a long time.
He still does. You just have to have satellite radio to hear him now...
Djoser
02-23-2010, 09:43 PM
I would like to announce...everyone...i just got laid...should i start my own thread?
Hell yes! ;D
I could believe him, doesn't really matter if I do or not, its the internet. I've worked in so many clubs over so many years that I have seen a lot of girls who are lazy, burnt out, trashed, stupid, bored, etc...that will sit with guys for free. And sometimes those guys have some game and can hook up with them.
Also...although I have never danced in the Midland area, I am quite familiar with the club scene out there. NOT the hottest of brightest girls. Its Jesus country out there, and stripping has a HUGE stigma for girls out there. So, the ones that do it are doing so against a lot of judgement and a lot of odds. Hence, they are either extremely liberated..or most likely, extremely desperate and even more likely, alcoholics or addicts..which can greatly preclude the ability to hustle.
Another thing...if he's picked up a few girls from the same club AND he is good in bed/well hung, maybe the strippers have talked to each other about him, and he's been chosen as a no-strings-attached stud.
But really, most strippers I've ever worked with were not honor roll students and I've seen some stupid shit (done some myself too but ssssssssssssssssssssssh!)
Spot on. This is the darker side of reality as I have seen it in the clubs as well. Though I never worked in the Midland area, there are similarities to Daytona in that the people tend to be very stupid, desperate, and impulsive. Sleaze will beat out class every single time.
He got laid. That's all this thread is about. Who da fuck cares.
You hit the nail on the head. The guy is bragging, and that's apparently his purpose for being here. If people let that piss them off, he wins--if anyone does.
Athenathefabulous
02-23-2010, 09:51 PM
all i hafta say, is i cant believe that there are 274 posts (including this one) on this moron claiming on getting some pussy! Geez louize!
I wish this many people would care when i talked about getting pussy. :-[
Scoundrel
02-23-2010, 10:02 PM
I'm really not trying to brag. If there's a way to ask my question without coming off as bragging I'd love to hear what it wold be.
Djoser
02-23-2010, 10:03 PM
all i hafta say, is i cant believe that there are 274 posts (including this one) on this moron claiming on getting some pussy! Geez louize!
I wish this many people would care when i talked about getting pussy. :-[
Actually, I would be a great deal more interested in you getting pussy. Where's that thread?
;D
Athenathefabulous
02-23-2010, 10:05 PM
Actually, I would be a great deal more interested in you getting pussy. Where's that thread?
;D
lol next time i have a moment of glory with the puss, i will be sure to start a thread.
Almost Jaded
02-23-2010, 10:09 PM
Whaaaat the FUCKING FUCKITY FUCK is this happy horse shit?
I read the first page and a half and skipped to the end to post. I suspect I didn't miss too much, but maybe some fun, LMAO.
I think Earl and Cyril had a lovechild who just found his daddies favorite old trolling ground...
I'm really not trying to brag. If there's a way to ask my question without coming off as bragging I'd love to hear what it wold be.
LOL This is your 15 minutes of fame courtesy of charlie :)
FBR
Almost Jaded
02-23-2010, 10:12 PM
Ooh ooh! I read back a little and now I get it! Can I brag now KS? Djoser? Laurcon? Would it be okay here? :P
^ I am sure those folks would give you special dispensation if they could. But alas, there are two sheriffs here and none of those folks mentioned above wear that badge.
FBR
chris91
02-23-2010, 11:24 PM
I'm really not trying to brag. If there's a way to ask my question without coming off as bragging I'd love to hear what it wold be.
What question? Do strippers fuck me in the parking lot because I am so awesome? No, there is not a good way to ask that question without bragging.
Anyway, you already got the answer to your question: No, these girls did not fuck you because you are just that awesome. They fucked you because they are trash, and that's what trash does. Like it or not, your "question" has been answered. This thread only went on so long because you kept insisting that we are wrong and these girls think you are hotpants.
I'm gonna guess that when you were little, your mom told you that bees only stung you because you smell so sweet.
veronicachick
02-23-2010, 11:33 PM
LOL at this whole hot mess of a thread.
WestCoast101
02-24-2010, 12:16 AM
quote=Scoundrel;1905907]I know this will come off as bragging, but I don't know any other way to ask. I'm a 48 year old man. I'm 6' 3" tall and weigh about 225 lbs. I never buy lap dances, but sometimes tip at the stage. I like to dress well. For some reason dancers like me. Last week I went into a club I'd never been to before and within 20 minutes a girl in her late 20s was all over me and a couple of hours later we were having sex in the parking lot. I didn't offer her any money or drugs or anything. She just liked me and said I give off a "pimp" vibe. I assume that's a complement? This kind of thing happens to me fairly often.
Am I just the exotic dancer boyfriend type?[/quote]
Well, there must be a lot of "fucked up" dancers because I do that kind of thing often. LOL Yeah I am sexually active. I also go to college bars and get BJs in the men's room. I don't see any reason to be insulting. I'm asking if I fit some type. Maybe I'm just more fun than other guys. I don't know. I do jack with them a lot. If they try to sit on my lap, I push them off. I've had dancers give me money to tip other girls when I run out, buy my drinks and even hook me up with other dancers. I like dating dancers because they don't usually want anything more than sex and I'm cool with that.
I understand this is my first post and you have to test me. I'm cool with that.
Is it so hard to believe that I'm an attractive, interesting man that women like? Haven't any of you ever met a man that just turned you on? Someone that could give you butterflies and aroused a passion in you that couldn't be denied? A man that understood you want to be cherished but also need to be grabbed by the hair, drug back to the cave ad pounded like a dirty little slut? If not, I pity you.
All sorts of red flags come up just in your first 3 posts. You talk about creating "butterflies" in some of these women, that sounds like "love" yet you claim that the reason you like dancers to date is because its just about sex to them, and i guess more than one of these 17 you first did in the parking lot or something similar? because you also said those kind of things happend "fairly often"
Why would a college girl or some young girl from a college bar suck your dick in the bathroom? Even if she too had the "butterflies. You are middle aged, you got bad teeth, since the pic shows you smoking then I can fairly assume you're not really in good shape despite being almost normal weight for your height. Sorry, but any girl sucking a guy's dick in that siutation is definitely a slut, its the very definition of the term.
You say you are a hs dropout and have no education yet you are (later) citing Maslow which nearly every freshman learns about their first year of college, and that would fit in with this being a PUA college age guy. People are self taught fine, but what are the odds here when you bringing up Maslow?.
WestCoast101
02-24-2010, 12:32 AM
I do know many colleges have spring break either near or just started, the exams and papers turned in, perfect timing for a PUA colllege guy to create a personna in here
However, its still hard to figure.
Pushing them off your lap? mentioned as early as post 2, and as someone alluded to earlier, that's from the PUA bible.
Hopper
02-24-2010, 01:54 AM
At least the perv is paying me. Talking to people like you is never fun. Getting paid is the only thing that make you worthy of my time. Otherwise, I'd laugh you out of the club.
That applies to you but other strippers often do chat to customers.
Djoser
02-24-2010, 02:03 AM
You say you are a hs dropout and have no education yet you are (later) citing Maslow which nearly every freshman learns about their first year of college...People are self taught fine, but what are the odds here when you bringing up Maslow?.
Interesting...
Hopper
02-24-2010, 02:12 AM
Firstly, I said I tip at the stage. But, even if I didn't how would that be costing you time and money? If I'm sitting alone at a table, minding my own business it doesn't cost you anything. You don't have to talk to me. There is a room full of men willing to pay for your attention and if I'm the only guy there it isn't any different if I'm there or not.
I think she means that you are taking up seating space that could be occupied by paying customers. The room is less full of paying men by one because you are there. Maybe you should stand.
Secondly (regarding other posts), even if I was some kind of PUA why would it matter? If women can get together and plot to empty mens bank accounts why shouldn't these same men get together and plot to get sex from those women and spend as little as possible?
It wouldn't if you openned your own club and did it there instead.
pussyinboots
02-24-2010, 02:25 AM
This 'Scoundrel' person got exactly what he wanted and won his bet, when this Thread was allowed to go past Page 2.
To begin with I got a little annoyed with him - then things got slightly amusing for a while - then I began to get bored. Now it's all entered the realms of pathetic.
WHY - are we all still giving this person the time of day? WHY are we still pandering to his ego - and not just ignoring him completely?
This is NOT happening IRL - it's just a dork, posting a deliberately antagonistic thread on a Female Forum....same as he's admitted he's done before on others.
I'll answer the OP's question.
NO. You are NOT the 'type' of individual that decent, honest, hard working girls (Dancers/Strippers or no..) will go out with. You are arrogant, cheap, very, very plain looking and full of 'BS'.
You ARE however, the type of male (and a sad example at that) - that sluts will fall over themselves for.
I believe you're here - simply because you have nothing better to do.
WestCoast101
02-24-2010, 02:39 AM
Secondly (regarding other posts), even if I was some kind of PUA why would it matter? If women can get together and plot to empty mens bank accounts why shouldn't these same men get together and plot to get sex from those women and spend as little as possible?[/quote]
Depends
If you are presenting yourself and your claims accurately AND also happen to be a PUA, then its probably irrelevant, however if you've created a fictional persona precisely because you are a PUA (e.g test driving what you've learned) then it is completely relevant.
Your defense of PUAs sounds like it could be word for word out of a PUA textbook, either that or you are way more articulate than a typical high school dropout.
Scoundrel
02-24-2010, 06:07 AM
All sorts of red flags come up just in your first 3 posts. You talk about creating "butterflies" in some of these women, that sounds like "love" yet you claim that the reason you like dancers to date is because its just about sex to them, and i guess more than one of these 17 you first did in the parking lot or something similar? because you also said those kind of things happend "fairly often"
That's the question I started out asking. Why would these beautiful young women have sex with an old loser like me that doesn't buy dances and treats them like bratty little girls? Am I just the right type?
Yes, I've had sex with several dancers only a couple of hours after meeting them. Others took longer. One dancer didn't have sex with me for almost a year. And I'd say 17 in roughly 2 years is fairly often. Wouldn't you? That would be one about every five or six weeks?
Why would a college girl or some young girl from a college bar suck your dick in the bathroom? Even if she too had the "butterflies. You are middle aged, you got bad teeth, since the pic shows you smoking then I can fairly assume you're not really in good shape despite being almost normal weight for your height. Sorry, but any girl sucking a guy's dick in that siutation is definitely a slut, its the very definition of the term.
Again, that is the question I am asking.
Some of us define "slut" as someone that has sex for the wrong reasons. A woman having sex for validation or to become a member of some group would be a slut in my opinion. If she's not having sex because she wants sex. But, a woman that enjoys sex or even a woman that likes having multiple partners in my opinion isn't necessarily a slut. If she's doing it because that's what turns her on and she likes it, good for her. She's just doing what any man would if he could.
You say you are a hs dropout and have no education yet you are (later) citing Maslow which nearly every freshman learns about their first year of college, and that would fit in with this being a PUA college age guy. People are self taught fine, but what are the odds here when you bringing up Maslow?.
So, you think I'm really a 20 something kid pretending to be a 48 year old man? ROFLMFAO! Tell you what, below is a pic of me taken back when I was about that age (1983?). We were on our way to the Rocky Horror show in Ft. Worth which is why my hair is so dark. And by the way, the other guy in the pic isn't really that short. I was wearing platform KISS boots with 6 ince heels. God, I was so skinny then. LOL
Maslow. What can I say? I like to read about what makes people tick. I also read Richard Dawkins and Dan Dennett as well as many others. But, it's true that I never finished high school. I have dyslexia and simply couldn't keep up. That's also why I never went to college.
When I talk about giving a woman butterflies I mean desire (some may call it lust), not love. A burning desire to have sex right now. This is not just horny. It's deeper. It's rip your clothes off, hair pulling, fucking in an ally behind the bar against a chain link fence passion. And it feels GREAT!
SteveSmith
02-24-2010, 08:11 AM
That's the question I started out asking. Why would these beautiful young women have sex with an old loser like me that doesn't buy dances and treats them like bratty little girls? Am I just the right type?
I doubt that these women were young and beautiful. More like older and average looking at best, and most were probably snaggletoothed bitches. They're probably skanks with a variety of venereal diseases and drug addictions.
Judging from your pictures, these women had to be desperate skanks or coke whores to fuck you. I wonder if there were any offers of drugs on your part.
Your question: "Am I just the right type?" Yeah, for disease ridden, desperate skanks. I doubt that you can do much better than that. I can't imagine you going into an upscale club and picking up something decent.
Scoundrel
02-24-2010, 08:19 AM
I doubt that these women were young and beautiful. More like older and average at best, and most were probably snaggletoothed bitches. They're probably skanks with a variety of venereal diseases and drug addictions.
Judging from your pictures, these women had to be desperate skanks or coke whores to fuck you. I wonder if there were any offers of drugs on your part.
Your question: "Am I just the right type?" Yeah, for disease ridden, desperate skanks. I doubt that you can do much better than that. I can't imagine you going into an upscale club and picking up something decent.
You've come late to the party. We've already covered this.
Westcoast101, the pic is for you.
georgie
02-24-2010, 09:00 AM
scoundrel, you are a scoundrel. with your attitude (walking into a STRIP CLUB and RUDELY oggling girls for free) i would just scowl at you and avoid you. as would all the other strippers. strippers HATE guys that dont spend.
personally... id rather push bits of bamboo under my fingernails than speak to the grotty, arrogant likes of you!
PS. YOU DEFS HAVE A STD HEY
PPS. youre so revolting for sleeping with a girl who you know has a boyfriend. good god, you obviously think youre too cool to have morals. what a turn off.
jaizaine
02-24-2010, 09:02 AM
BORRRRRRIIIIIIINGGGGGGGG!!!
LOL.
You wouldn't pick up any dancer I know, not in a million years. I know girls who would rather let their vaginas grow cobwebs than have u and your Maslow's hierarchy of needs come within a foot of it!!
I would rather sit in the dressing room and check facebook from my phone than sit out in the club and chat to some guy for free. Why would I give you my valuable attention for free when you come into my place of work and freeload? I loathe non-spending customers with a passion.
The way I see it is if I wouldn't talk to a particular guy if I was out at a club or wherever else in my free time, I certainly am not going to talk to him in the club just because it's quiet or because nobody is spending.
I have met guys ITC before who did appeal to me. Their appearances differed greatly as did their personalities but they all had one thing in common - they respected the fact that I was there to make money and they paid me for my time. Nobody who comes ITC and has the attitude of being above it and not having to tip would ever come close to getting to know me OTC. That very theory is extremely misguided.
BTW the reason this thread angers me is not because a guy bragged about getting sex. It's because a guy had the audacity to come onto a dancer support site and brag about the fact that he doesn't spend money and doesn't think he needs to spend money when going into a strip club. That attitude just pisses me right off.
KS_Stevia
02-24-2010, 09:13 AM
I've seen plenty of people die, happily virgins.
Really, you've seen plenty of people die virgins at your age? Am I reading this incorrectly? I'm in my 30's and I seldom see anyone die at all, much less a virgin, and happy about it.
Pretty_Penny
02-24-2010, 09:16 AM
people responding to a thread to complain about how long it is or to ask why people keep giving it attention is..... pretty amusing.
Pretty_Penny
02-24-2010, 09:23 AM
When I talk about giving a woman butterflies I mean desire (some may call it lust), not love. A burning desire to have sex right now. This is not just horny. It's deeper. It's rip your clothes off, hair pulling, fucking in an ally behind the bar against a chain link fence passion. And it feels GREAT!
Ok. I honestly think you're joking/being sarcastic now. My brain really can't comprehend that you actually believe that.
sxcbbw
02-24-2010, 09:53 AM
Really, you've seen plenty of people die virgins at your age? Am I reading this incorrectly? I'm in my 30's and I seldom see anyone die at all, much less a virgin, and happy about it.
Family members and friends of the family are all getting pretty old, and a lot of my mother's friends are extremely religious.
KS_Stevia
02-24-2010, 10:05 AM
Gotcha, thanks. I didn't get to see old family members pass on because my parents and I moved halfway across the world, and they stayed. Sometimes I can't see the obvious.
MarvelGirl
02-24-2010, 10:11 AM
I like this thread. And I don't like all the slut shaming going on. Lots of judgement from some supposedly liberated women, and from the men who supposedly love "liberated strippers."
I openly admit that I am judgemental of people who play with feces. Sucking a dick within a few feet of a pubic toilet IS dirty. It has nothing to do with any moral crap, it's just unhygenic. Any woman who performs oral sex in the men's room of a nightclub has some serious issues. It is jugemental but I have the same feeling about people who eat shit for erotic purposes.
Scoundrel
02-24-2010, 10:12 AM
I've met guys like this, haha. Lust at first sight. They always end up being bad news. :-\ Wouldn't mind meeting one now to get some exciting inspiration in my life...but it never turns out well with them. :-[
All the dancers I slept with remained my friends until they left town or until I moved out here. and I'm still in contact with a couple now. We text back and forth. I don't make demands on women. If they want to be with me cool. If they don't that's also cool.
Sorry to hear you've had bad ones.
sxcbbw
02-24-2010, 10:12 AM
Gotcha, thanks. I didn't get to see old family members pass on because my parents and I moved halfway across the world, and they stayed. Sometimes I can't see the obvious.
Ohhh, our family did that - except we're the branch that stayed. So everyone under 50 is in Germany and Australia, and everyone 50+ is here x_x Well, apart from me and my siblings. Sometimes I half wish I'd buggered off to Australia too like my aunt.