View Full Version : Camgirls marrying their clients... wtf
BritishBecky
06-15-2010, 06:33 PM
Just saw this and thought I'd share my story
I am married to a guy I met through webcamming
I'm English, so is he.
He (David) first started viewing my webcam at the end of 2002. We used to chat a lot, pretty much every night. As time went on the chat got more, and the sexy stuff got less. I started to feel less and less comfortable with the sex and eventually asked him to stop viewing my webcam. After a few more months chatting (on the phone) we met up. We got on really well and started dating. From then on it was just like a normal relationship - I didn't sleep with him for another four or five months after that. By that time it had been nearly a year since he stopped viewing my cam so it seemed normal. We got married in January this year :) and are very very happy together
But, don't get me wrong, I would never meet another viewer. It was a particular chain of circumstances that led to me meeting up with him, and I definitely wouldn't recommend it in general. Obviously we've been together a long time now, and sex goes up and down, but there's still some residue from when I was his camgirl. Like, he still expects me to feel sexy after I finish a cam session - for some reason he can't get it into his head that I don't actually enjoy camming - I think he believes I actually orgasm time and again all night lol. It's like when I said 'yeah baby I want it so bad', he won't believe me when I now say 'I was acting - you paid me!' Also, and more amusingly, he still calls me by my webcam name rather than my real name (though of course he knows what it is) :D
Anyway, just thought I'd share the fact that it can happen to relatively 'normal' people without it being for money etc. It worked out for me anyway :)
malayataylor
06-15-2010, 07:45 PM
.....interesting
DevonSantos
06-15-2010, 08:54 PM
I've dated 2 customers that I met online. One was rich but lost all of his money due to the stock market crash so I dumped him and the other one was killed in a car accident but both guys had great personalities, great careers, smart, and didn't mind that if we got serious that I would ''still'' cam online and host shows while they work and pay the bills for us. In both relationships, I would cam during the day while they were at work and our night times were always spent with one another just like normal people. So yeah, meeting a nice gentleman online is cool as long as he can fully support the both of us financially! On another note, I'm not a modern day girl that combines my income with a significant other. It just doesn't feel right for me to be online giving live nude shows, then comes bill time, some dude that ''claims'' he ''loves'' me expect for me to hand him a dime. No, no! Don't think so! If I wanted a ''roomate'' I would have just looked on Craigslist for one but I obviously wanted or real man or else I would have left both of my ex's on trick status. To me, a man should ''always'' be paying ALL the bills and keeping his woman free of stress and worrisome! It's not like they have anything else more important to offer! I can't stand women who are always '' my man this and my man that'' yet, she's financially struggling and can't seem to stay afloat but that's whos dick she's sucking every night! Screw that!
wanderlust08
06-15-2010, 09:06 PM
I've dated 2 customers that I met online. One was rich but lost all of his money due to the stock market crash so I dumped him and the other one was killed in a car accident but both guys had great personalities, great careers, smart, and didn't mind that if we got serious that I would ''still'' cam online and host shows while they work and pay the bills for us. In both relationships, I would cam during the day while they were at work and our night times were always spent with one another just like normal people. So yeah, meeting a nice gentleman online is cool as long as he can fully support the both of us financially! On another note, I'm not a modern day girl that combines my income with a significant other. It just doesn't feel right for me to be online giving live nude shows, then comes bill time, some dude that ''claims'' he ''loves'' me expect for me to hand him a dime. No, no! Don't think so! If I wanted a ''roomate'' I would have just looked on Craigslist for one but I obviously wanted or real man or else I would have left both of my ex's on trick status. To me, a man should ''always'' be paying ALL the bills and keeping his woman free of stress and worrisome! It's not like they have anything else more important to offer! I can't stand women who are always '' my man this and my man that'' yet, she's financially struggling and can't seem to stay afloat but that's whos dick she's sucking every night! Screw that!
These customers you were dating who let you work and paid the bills, were they good-looking and good in bed? (Please say yes, a girl's gotta have hope.)
DevonSantos
06-15-2010, 09:30 PM
These customers you were dating who let you work and paid the bills, were they good-looking and good in bed? (Please say yes, a girl's gotta have hope.)
Bafuckingha!!!! Hell NO!!! But I haven't cared about looks since I was in high school. Once I became a woman and started living on my own for the first time while attending college and waitressing on the weekends busting my ass and struggling, thats when I realized that the physical stuff such as a nice six pack, a big cock, and long eyeslashes didn't matter to me anymore! I raised my standards in dating and decided that I would no longer tolerate the ''hot guy'' bullshit! Each guy was handsome but they were NOT considerably attractive off bat. Call me a ''whore'' or something but I'm ''automatically'' turned on and become sexually aroused when I know I am being taking care of financially. The ''hot'' ones are normally the broke ones because they usually find some dumb girl to ''take care or them'' or help them save more money by splitting the bills! I DO NOT care how attractive a guy is, I can't orgasm or see him as sexually appealing if he's a server at Outback Steakhouse. Nope! The word ''cute'' is for babies, so I don't care about a man being ''cute''! ''Sexy'' is for Supermodels and I've never met one! *wink*
wanderlust08
06-15-2010, 10:34 PM
Bafuckingha!!!! Hell NO!!! But I haven't cared about looks since I was in high school. Once I became a woman and started living on my own for the first time while attending college and waitressing on the weekends busting my ass and struggling, thats when I realized that the physical stuff such as a nice six pack, a big cock, and long eyeslashes didn't matter to me anymore! I raised my standards in dating and decided that I would no longer tolerate the ''hot guy'' bullshit! Each guy was handsome but they were NOT considerably attractive off bat. Call me a ''whore'' or something but I'm ''automatically'' turned on and become sexually aroused when I know I am being taking care of financially. The ''hot'' ones are normally the broke ones because they usually find some dumb girl to ''take care or them'' or help them save more money by splitting the bills! I DO NOT care how attractive a guy is, I can't orgasm or see him as sexually appealing if he's a server at Outback Steakhouse. Nope! The word ''cute'' is for babies, so I don't care about a man being ''cute''! ''Sexy'' is for Supermodels and I've never met one! *wink*
Kudos to you, I'm still stuck in my "I want a rockstar" phase. It's a hard phase to get out of...skinny guys with tattoos and guitars are sooo effin' hot.
Maybe I could look for a rich guy into cuckolding. Word. That'd be so awesome hahaha.
Alex OBrian
11-05-2011, 10:24 AM
And Besides....There are a lot of asian camgirls(mainly from Thailand and Phillipines) who is searchin' for european husband's through MFS and SM....WTF!!??
ukmissy
11-05-2011, 10:44 AM
What do you mean 'wtf' ... Are you bumping the thread to find out why poor girls want to marry rich men? Because these countries are poor (well at least the people are) , and they need a way out , it's actually perfectly natural , and I didn't understand the nature nor intention of your post .
Missy .
MommieLongLegs
11-05-2011, 11:44 AM
My questions for escorts are, do you actually form real relationships with your clients? Do they not want to do freaky stuff? Is there no possible danger in escorting, seeing as you're actually meeting the person, who could be psycho? Are they screened first? What if you're an independent escort? Anyway, I'm a cam girl, and 9x out of 10, I get too annoyed with clients and thier requests to want any kind of relationship with them outside of camming.
There is, however, this guy that I talk to on Yahoo Messenger under a fake name. When camming, he never really wanted to do anything but talk, said he felt kinda uncomfortable and shy so he'd stop cam2cam and just spend the remainder of the chat messaging me. He was sweet and just tried to get to know me (minus personal info). He was protective of me in free/group chat. Like if he thought a gut was too old or too rough with me or whatever he'd be like "hell no" lol. I thought it was kinda strange at first cuz I didn't understand why he even cared.
Last night, we talked on Messenger(no video or voice, just text) for 4 hours. He's no longer a client, we just talk. Just talked about things like does "race" exist, the differences between nationality and culture, foreign languages we want to learn, martial arts movies, boxing, all kinds of stuff. None of it sexual at all. I'm not saying I want to be with him or even meet him, but I am saying that I can see how a cam girl could end up with a client given certain circumstances.
Overall, it's very dangerous because the client is still a stranger. If a cam girl truly feels a connection with a client, I would highly suggest taking another guy with her, and meeting in a neutral location away from her home, maybe even a nearby city to be safe.
Just be very careful.
Kellydancer
11-05-2011, 11:51 AM
I see this bumper is back. All "she" does is bump year old threads.
SweetPinkCupcake
11-05-2011, 11:51 AM
To each their own. I have never personally met a client through escorting or camming, but I see NO difference in meeting a client through the two.
laurielegs
11-05-2011, 12:32 PM
I see this bumper is back. All "she" does is bump year old threads.
I noticed that and I have reported "her". I don't understand why this is allowed to continue. It really gets in the way of viewing actual relevant recent posts.
I also don't see the point of bumping irrelevant threads that are from years back.
Kellydancer
11-05-2011, 01:22 PM
I reported "her" the other day when she bumped a 4 year old thread and only said "imma bump this thread, lol".
Leighton
11-05-2011, 09:39 PM
lol it seems like this section has been abandoned. all those creepy posts about physical therapy have yet to be deleted...