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rubyredlipsss
04-18-2010, 03:41 PM
I am speaking from my experience as a dancer and what I have witnessed .... I am not assuming anything. The point I was trying to make is that it isn't necessary to do anything other than strip and entertain. We engage men, make them laugh and feel special, take our clothes off and shake our asses. It is the ultimate treat for them! And anything beyond that is just unnecessary.
We wouldn't give these men the time of day if we met them outside the club.... yet most dancers seem to forget this when it comes time to charge these men for the pleasure of our time, company and beauty..... not to mention the view of our naked bodies in front of their faces! I am not trying to trash anybody, I just wish we could all remember what entertaining is really about.
unfortunately that's not how the industry really is anymore, at least in my area. yes, it's out of my comfort and boundaries, but i literally cannot compete in my area by doing only an air-dance and make money. i guess some may say i'm a hypocrite for grinding a little bit and then coming down hard on girls that give handjobs but i simply don't put them in the same category because my dances are not meant to get the guy off but rather to make them feel connected and special, which to me means i have to get close and put my body near them...to me that's part of the company they're paying for, i guess sort of like the girlfriend experience. i'm also one of the few dancers in the clubs i've worked at that gets paid to sit (because i also also demand and usually without fail they fork over a little bit of money or sometimes a lot) and talk or once in the vip room i sit on their lap and talk with them.
also to clarify i've never been a dancer on stage that makes physical contact with the men sitting at the stage, while many of the other dancers rub their boobs in their face or whatever else. it's tough out here in la to make decent money but as a good and smart hustler i've seemed to do okay.
i agree with you that that is part of what entertaining is about but like i said the industry has become more about guys seeking sex or getting off and as a stripper i think it's hard to justify that men aren't coming in for 'entertainment' but rather for a sexual connection with women they could not normally get otc. imho i think it's naive to think that men are coming in to simply be entertained and watch naked women, otherwise would we not have the problem of constantly being solicited even if we haven't even danced for them? i guess i don't really see how giving 'affection' (if we can even call it that) doesn't involve some sort of touching, and i'm not talking about hj's or boob touching or kissing or extras of that sort.
Christyismyalias
05-05-2010, 10:05 PM
Maybe if a good portion of Houston dancers stood up for themselves against the spoiled brat custies with entitlement issues, it could be a decent city to dance in, and dancers wouldn't have to resort to doing things that made them feel bad about themselves in order to earn a decent buck.
^^^
This is my thing.
Dancers need to rally together, stand up for themselves, and work as one to change the industry. The power is in OUR hands. If we as a whole say NO to contact, grinding, and extras, they will eventually go to escorts and we will get the guys who want the ENTERTAINMENT in the clubs.
I dont get why girls give the men the power... They come to US, they want US, and yet girls continue to give them whatever they want.
Men will take WHATEVER you allow! So quit allowing it!!!
Don't "compete" and go to the level of the other girls doing more than dancing, stand your ground and demand the respect you deserve.
Quit running this industry into the ground. At this rate the clean dancers will eventually not make money and leave the biz, then SC's will be all brothels. What a shame that would be.
I just dont get it. Why would any girl want to do more for less... Is your self worth THAT LOW that you let these men have free reign to your body for chump change?
Take it to an agency, charge these fuckers the amount you truly deserve and leave the SC to those who want to dance and entertain.
I stormed out tonight after two guys asked me to come back to their hotel rooms for around $200. After I laughed intheir faces, they both took two separate girls up to the vip. I just cannot compete with this, girls like NREXM. They are ruining our industry, period. I am now sitting at the airport waiting to board my redeye flight home. I am using this negative experience to motivate me more for my day job. I no longer want to work with these types of girls!
Athenathefabulous
05-06-2010, 12:48 PM
^^^
This is my thing.
Dancers need to rally together, stand up for themselves, and work as one to change the industry. The power is in OUR hands.
Yes, but i think i have said it before.... it is easier to get a group of potheads to wake up early and march together for change than to get a bunch of dancers to band together and act within their own best interests.
:(
And houston, if all the dancers banded together and agreed to follow the law, all the dancers would be broke. becuase all of the 'lap dances' would have to be given 6 ft away.
But you are right, if all strippers everywehre started giving light contact dances, then all of our money would go up. not to mention i think the industry as a whole would start attracting better customers. you get burned out from high contact dances... i am convinced that we are just not mentally able to handle several different guys groping us several times a week-- regardless of how skilled we are at dissociating ourselves. so light contact dances would lead to happier dancers who would lead to happier customers-- except the for the customers who want to get sucked and fucked, but whatever they can go home and use their hands or get hit by a bus.
honestly, since expecting a bunch of strippers to band together is unrealistic, i really think it is on strip club management at this point. the power really is in their hands. its not hard to make a club clean--- have a meeting, explain the rules, offer like 2 warnings, then start firing the girls who break the rules. put cameras in the VIP rooms-- this should be done anyway at the very least to make sure we are safe. its not hard.
and i really do believe it is management. i watched my favorite club turn from light one way contact to titty groping in the course of 2 weeks when management decided to stop paying the attention and the newer bouncers started looking the other way. its a sad reality, but a lot of girls in this industry do not have hte mental strength or self worth to tell the customers no. they need an external force-- and management has to be that force. but they dont, and this is why we end up with dirty clubs :(.
this be depressing me.
Kylea2
05-06-2010, 12:48 PM
^^^ In Alabama the girls would leave the club for $100. :O
Poleprincess07IL
05-07-2010, 04:25 PM
Ok. I'm usually a nuetral power on many subjects, but I need to clarify things.
There are strip clubs, escort services, and brothels.
If you are going to perform a sexual act, instead of infiltrating a stripclub where no sex acts are allowed, why don't you try a brothel or an escort service? You can make just as much possibly more.
But to come into a club where honest and clean girls are simply trying to make a living by dancing and teasing is wrong IMO. It unsettles the industry to where clientel mistake the tease industry for a prostitution establishement.
I believe if you want to prostitute, go for it. Just do it where it is legal and allowed. It really makes it hard for us girls do make a living simply creating a fantasy.
lilmisssunshine
05-08-2010, 01:38 AM
Dancers will never band together. Nice thought though.
Managers will never care.
And for those who are saying that extra's girls should go to brothels and escort, you are totally right. Problem is that Houston is just one giant freakin brothel everywhere you go.
Miabella, the nude clubs out there have become just as bad as the topless.
NREXM was just being honest about her situation. You can't really be mad at her for being honest. The situation is Houston just sucks.
I am glad to no longer be there. I hope other cities don't follow in Houston's footsteps. Although I don't dance anymore, it's sad to watch the industry go to shit. I remember when air dancing was the norm and you earned freakin insane money for it. I also remember when girls actually wore dresses, not string bikini's with their asses hanging out. But I am from a whole 'nother era, back when big hair was in and nobody wore platform shoes.
Sad to watch it all go to shit.
deedee at the beach
05-09-2010, 07:45 PM
^^^
This is my thing.
Dancers need to rally together, stand up for themselves, and work as one to change the industry. The power is in OUR hands. If we as a whole say NO to contact, grinding, and extras, they will eventually go to escorts and we will get the guys who want the ENTERTAINMENT in the clubs.
I dont get why girls give the men the power... They come to US, they want US, and yet girls continue to give them whatever they want.
Men will take WHATEVER you allow! So quit allowing it!!!
Don't "compete" and go to the level of the other girls doing more than dancing, stand your ground and demand the respect you deserve.
Quit running this industry into the ground. At this rate the clean dancers will eventually not make money and leave the biz, then SC's will be all brothels. What a shame that would be.
I just dont get it. Why would any girl want to do more for less... Is your self worth THAT LOW that you let these men have free reign to your body for chump change?
Take it to an agency, charge these fuckers the amount you truly deserve and leave the SC to those who want to dance and entertain.
I agree with everything you wrote here 110% totally but when you're desperate for money???? I'm not defending their behavior but you just don't know how or what desperate measures these women are under.
pixierocksonthepole
05-09-2010, 09:35 PM
Stripping and Prostituting are two separate types of work.
They also both have their proper designated areas.
It is greatly appreciated when they are kept where they belong.
Thanks.
dtxgirl
05-09-2010, 10:33 PM
I agree with everything you wrote here 110% totally but when you're desperate for money???? I'm not defending their behavior but you just don't know how or what desperate measures these women are under.
(Deedee, this isn't meant at you. It's meant as a general rant at the industry and extras girls. )
If someone is desperate for money go do something else. Sell something you own, or go escort in a smart way. But stay the f*ck out of my club. Just cause it's the norm in YOUR club, or in THAT REGION doesn't made a damn bit of difference to me. I would rather you be selling drugs than whoring.
YOU ARE BREAKING THE LAW, PUTTING MY CRIMINAL RECORD AT RISK AND DESTROYING THE INDUSTRY, cause you can't use your brain instead of being a walking vagina. Gee, thanks for that.
Yeah, I've been desperate before, WHILE DANCING. Am I going to break my ethics, the law and contribute to the downturn of the industry? Nope. I'll work more shifts, or switch clubs, or work harder and smarter at my other 2 businesses that I started and support with my dancing money.
And this:
" NREXM was just being honest about her situation. You can't really be mad at her for being honest. The situation is Houston just sucks."
The original post was about whether to go to houston or dallas.She has a choice, and dances all over the US. So do I. So do many of my friends. I've made money being a clean dancer in a dirty club too. But do I offer any service other than entertainment? Nope. Cause I respect myself, my co workers, and the freakin' DANCING industry. I've said a million times I'm a huge fan of escorts. I have so much respect for TRUE escorts it's not funny.
Would it have been really really easy to take the 25 grand that someone offered me to go to his house? Yes.
Would I have been OK with telling my boyfriend that his girlfriend is selling her body for sex? No.
tempest666
05-09-2010, 10:53 PM
Cliched but true: opinions are like assholes: we all have em. Having worked in Texas (dunno if El Pisshole really counts) I saw a lot of shit go on. I saw a girl in the booth next to me being eaten out by a drunk patron. I don't care what anyone does with their pussy. Its yours, cherish it, sell it, abuse it, I don't give a fuck. Just have some respect for those of us who choose not to engage in your extracuricular activities. Extras are always going to go on. I personally wouldn't give a HJ in the club because if the guy turned out to be on the small side I would probably bust up laughing. The peep show was hard enough. I just wouldn't be able to feign enthusiasm. That being said, try El Pisshole. I'm sure you'll be fine.
(just for clarification: I never did HJ's in the peep show. I meant showing self restraint was pretty hard)
NREXM
05-12-2010, 03:37 PM
I've been to Texas and back and JD is still talking shit about me two months later.
Man there are some jealous bitches on this forum.
I'm not really jealous, just kind of feel sorry for you....
Also, what you consider "talking shit" is me trying to make other new girls reading this thread understand that they don't HAVE to be dirty (even if everyone else is doing it) to make money.
I'm over it now, LOL, when I hear stories like this it just motivates me even more to apply more energy into my day job and get out of the strip club.
dtxgirl
05-12-2010, 04:28 PM
I worked with a girl recently. She was 20, and had been dancing for 3 weeks. She literally didn't know that you didn't need to be dirty to make money.
No one ever explained to her that you don't have to let guys touch you, that you can use your brain instead of your hand, or your mouth, or your vagina to make money.
She made me want to cry. I had a talk with the (awesome female manager) and she was going to talk to her about it.
I danced for her "regular" when she went home early one night. He kept trying to finger me and telling me "You have to spoil me... she spoils me"..
No, you bastard. I don't. My hot naked body and sparkling personality are "spoiling you" enough.
I don't want your money bad enough to let you do whatever the hell you want to me. Girls who whore themselves in the clubs disgust me and are the reason this industry will eventually be all prostitutes. Congratulations on helping to destroy an industry. I hope you're proud.
Kylea2
05-12-2010, 04:33 PM
My hot naked body and sparkling personality are "spoiling you" enough.
Perfect siggy line! LOL
I agree, it's sad to see new girls just go along with things because they don't know any better. I just wrote those same words to another SW'er last night in a private email.
I worked with a girl recently. She was 20, and had been dancing for 3 weeks. She literally didn't know that you didn't need to be dirty to make money.
No one ever explained to her that you don't have to let guys touch you, that you can use your brain instead of your hand, or your mouth, or your vagina to make money.
She made me want to cry. I had a talk with the (awesome female manager) and she was going to talk to her about it.
I danced for her "regular" when she went home early one night. He kept trying to finger me and telling me "You have to spoil me... she spoils me"..
No, you bastard. I don't. My hot naked body and sparkling personality are "spoiling you" enough.
I don't want your money bad enough to let you do whatever the hell you want to me. Girls who whore themselves in the clubs disgust me and are the reason this industry will eventually be all prostitutes. Congratulations on helping to destroy an industry. I hope you're proud.
I LOVE YOU!!! You handled that much better than me! UGH. If a guy spoke those words to me I would have gone off on him.... put him in his place!
tempest666
05-12-2010, 06:21 PM
I say que sera, sera. I was busy freaking out about some dirty little bitch at my club, but I gave it alot of thought over the past 4 days of my convalescence. Dirty girls are like cockroaches. You can stamp out one but there's always gonna be 2 more waiting in the wings. To quote John Lennon (whom I am presently listening to) "Let it be"
Dirty girls are like cockroaches. You can stamp out one but there's always gonna be 2 more waiting in the wings.
True dat sexy!
Kylea2
05-12-2010, 06:30 PM
I don't agree with that - if that were the case exterminators wouldn't still be in business because people would say they don't work.
We are our own exterminators.
Surprise
05-12-2010, 09:59 PM
i'm just imagining a shit load of strippers busting into the club wearing yellow latex catsuits and knee high boots, with biohazard masks, fumigating clubs...and all the prostitutes do like they did in Crank, they all scatter into the street...LMAO
pixierocksonthepole
05-12-2010, 10:16 PM
LMAO thats great ^^^
tempest666
05-12-2010, 10:45 PM
i'm just imagining a shit load of strippers busting into the club wearing yellow latex catsuits and knee high boots, with biohazard masks, fumigating clubs...and all the prostitutes do like they did in Crank, they all scatter into the street...LMAO
Thanks for almost killing me, I started laughing so hard! fucking awesome}:D
NREXM
05-12-2010, 11:00 PM
You're obviously not over it because you continue to post the same shit about how you "feel sorry for me" and how you try to justify your overreactions LOL TWO MONTHS AFTER THIS WAS ARGUED.
However, I laughed so incredibly hard when you stated that you "went home after some guy offered $200 to come to his room." Grow a fucking backbone, in fact given this statement, stripping is CLEARLY not your profession, not because you refused to go home with the man but because you are so emotionally pretentious about the thought of being solicited.
If you're so bent on teaching new girls that they don't have to be dirty (which you'd never do because the minute you find out you'll ridicule them for months to come) why don't you teach them how to step up their game, mind their own business, make their clean money and get out. Oh wait, because you'd rather create drama and talk about how much better you are for "going home (and missing out money) because some guy asked you to go home with them." Man, I wish all dancers were like you; I'd be banking every single hour.
Kylea2
05-12-2010, 11:11 PM
i'm just imagining a shit load of strippers busting into the club wearing yellow latex catsuits and knee high boots, with biohazard masks, fumigating clubs...and all the prostitutes do like they did in Crank, they all scatter into the street...LMAO
That was pretty good! ;D
tempest666
05-12-2010, 11:13 PM
Ah fuck it.... I'm gonna take up bank robbery! If the "Geezer Bandit" can do it, so can I! I'm 40 years younger and no competing with cocksuckers :)
femmefatale88
05-12-2010, 11:38 PM
I have no problem with escorting - supply to a demand. But not in the club.
If some baristas started giving blowjobs along with their lattes, those not willing to do that would have a hard time getting custom. Same. Deal.
Men expect more and more mileage, work gets so much harder for those that don't want to do that - doesn't mean clean dancers aren't good hustlers, just means nasty dancers selling themselves short are messing things up.
Well that is not true because at my club guys expect less mileage for girls who are considered a "10" or very attractive and they'll still pay good prices for girls who don't do extras depending on how much he likes her or how hot she is. It really depends on the guy and what he is looking for. The extras girls at my club never hurt my money. I still make good money despite it all
Kylea2
05-12-2010, 11:54 PM
^^^ I hear what you're saying, but I don't agree 100%. Having better looks helps, but some guys think they can get anything from anyone.
pixierocksonthepole
05-13-2010, 09:19 AM
You're obviously not over it because you continue to post the same shit about how you "feel sorry for me" and how you try to justify your overreactions LOL TWO MONTHS AFTER THIS WAS ARGUED.
However, I laughed so incredibly hard when you stated that you "went home after some guy offered $200 to come to his room." Grow a fucking backbone, in fact given this statement, stripping is CLEARLY not your profession, not because you refused to go home with the man but because you are so emotionally pretentious about the thought of being solicited.
If you're so bent on teaching new girls that they don't have to be dirty (which you'd never do because the minute you find out you'll ridicule them for months to come) why don't you teach them how to step up their game, mind their own business, make their clean money and get out. Oh wait, because you'd rather create drama and talk about how much better you are for "going home (and missing out money) because some guy asked you to go home with them." Man, I wish all dancers were like you; I'd be banking every single hour.
All right, seriously, you done now? This is getting really annoying, just drop it.
britneyireland
05-13-2010, 09:29 AM
[quote=NREXM;1934592]why don't you teach them how to step up their game, mind their own business, make their clean money and get out. /quote]
That is exactly what my Stripper School (http://www.stripandgrowrich.com)does.
I'll be the first to admit that TX clubs are handsier than Scottsdale, AZ...but I can say that I don't go home feeling dirty or taken advantage of...and I still make great money.
You're obviously not over it because you continue to post the same shit about how you "feel sorry for me" and how you try to justify your overreactions LOL TWO MONTHS AFTER THIS WAS ARGUED.
However, I laughed so incredibly hard when you stated that you "went home after some guy offered $200 to come to his room." Grow a fucking backbone, in fact given this statement, stripping is CLEARLY not your profession, not because you refused to go home with the man but because you are so emotionally pretentious about the thought of being solicited.
If you're so bent on teaching new girls that they don't have to be dirty (which you'd never do because the minute you find out you'll ridicule them for months to come) why don't you teach them how to step up their game, mind their own business, make their clean money and get out. Oh wait, because you'd rather create drama and talk about how much better you are for "going home (and missing out money) because some guy asked you to go home with them." Man, I wish all dancers were like you; I'd be banking every single hour.
Yeah, it's CLEARLY not my profession, that's why I've been so successful at it for five years, okay. I already made well over 10K (my goal) so I was exhausted, and two in a row guys soliciting me was enough for me to go upstairs, change, and go straight to the airport. It was the end of the night and I was over it. Why should I subject myself to things like this that are a direct result of YOUR actions in strip clubs (and other dancers like you)? I just don't give a fuck enough.
Have fun, you do you, Imma do me! ::)
dtxgirl
05-13-2010, 06:55 PM
In all seriousness, NREXM, does it not bother your husband? He's OK with you giving strange dudes handjobs "for the right price?" Does he even know?
Also, what IS the right price? 200? 500? 1000? 5000? I'm curious.
And while you obviously are aware that it's illegal, how concerned ARE you about getting arrested and possibly convicted for those acts? Would it bother you to spend time in jail for this? How would you explain it to your family? To any future employers? To someone you're trying to work for? What if you got busted and the PD brought in video and broadcast it all over the internet?
when I started out, I personally thought that you had to be dirty to make money. I only sold rooms to one regular. I was pretty high contact, and had a hard time telling guys no, I'm not ok with you touching me. I sat with a girl and her regular after they invited me over, and she flat out said "hey, I'm going to go give him a BJ, do you want to come with or what?"
I spent 2 hours in a champagne room with a dude and another girl when I was desperate for money and almost did some gay for pay until I saw her huge herpes sores and thought " I can't do this. " Then he tried to stiff us out of any money at all.
Once I started being cleaner, and giving less contact in my dances my income doubled. Once I learned some more about sales, my income went up even more. But I realized that once someone sees you as a walking vagina, they will never see you any other way.
Kylea2
05-13-2010, 07:06 PM
does it not bother your husband? He's OK with you giving strange dudes handjobs "for the right price?" Does he even know?
Even though that isn't directed at me, I want to say that I know plenty of married women who are escorts or escorts/dancers that are married and do this stuff - including FS - and the husbands have ZERO problem with it. So with some of these girls in the club doing extras in the club the husbands/bf simply don't care. No judgment call on it... just saying that there's people out there like that.
Zinaida
05-13-2010, 07:30 PM
Anyone that gives handjobs in a strip club is a skank.
rubyredlipsss
05-13-2010, 07:43 PM
z, i think you have summed up this thread quite well and concisely and i say that should be the conclusion. the end.
*Jade*Love
05-13-2010, 07:45 PM
Yeah, it's CLEARLY not my profession, that's why I've been so successful at it for five years, okay. I already made well over 10K (my goal) so I was exhausted, and two in a row guys soliciting me was enough for me to go upstairs, change, and go straight to the airport. It was the end of the night and I was over it. Why should I subject myself to things like this that are a direct result of YOUR actions in strip clubs (and other dancers like you)? I just don't give a fuck enough.
Have fun, you do you, Imma do me! ::)
I would have done the same thing. It's a great feeling when you know you've made more than enough $$$ so when guys start messing with you, you can just shut them down and leave!
Vyanka
05-19-2010, 02:09 PM
It all comes down to management, and what they allow in the club really. I don't hate/judge on extras girls if they are doing it in a club where management is ok with it. If anything, as much as it sucks ass that us clean girls have to compete with this...it's managements fault that makes it hard on the clean girls! They don't give a flying fuck about anyone, they just want some house fees.
If you're an extras girl that works in a club where management allows this shit to happen, at least don't low ball yourself. Charge a couple of thousands at least & try to take it outside of the club. Is all I can say.
Athenathefabulous
05-19-2010, 02:15 PM
agreed that management is mostly responsible for the increasingly dirty situation. if they wanted to get rid of ITC prostitution, they would. its really not that hard.
Kylea2
05-19-2010, 08:41 PM
^^^ TOTALLY Agree.
lilmisssunshine
05-19-2010, 11:28 PM
I think a SKANK is a person who hates on another person on an open public forum for circumstances that occur in a city that is already fucked and she has no control over. It is NOT one person's fault for what is happening in Houston. Taking your frustrations out on one person and name calling DOES NOT MAKE YOU A BETTER PERSON. It makes you skanky.
Why don't you call up the city of Houston or the club managers and call them names? I think they have more control over this than any one else.
Just sayin'.
lilmisssunshine
05-19-2010, 11:29 PM
Anyway, y'all have beat this into the ground already.
Kylea2
05-19-2010, 11:54 PM
Good thing we aren't dependent on other people's definitions of certain words... it could be the dissolution of the English language .
rubyredlipsss
05-20-2010, 09:09 AM
^seriously. but i do agree with sunshine that this has been beaten down into the ground and that management where extras are the norm are gonna look the other way, they're part of the problem too.
Laurisa
05-20-2010, 09:57 AM
I read through the first three pages of this thread but got tired of the cattiness. I'm curious though how that dancer was "easily" making "at least a G" every night just dancing and giving hand jobs in this economy? How much are you charging for a hand job and a lap dance? I can't think of a man in his right mind that would pay more than $40-$50 for a HJ and a lap dance! A hand job and a lap dance should take between 5 and 8 minutes and my experience says that hand jobs aren't too much more exciting than masturbation. So, if you were selling a LD and HJ for $50 you'd have to sell 20 in a night. That's not including paying your house fee (assuming you don't work somewhere like Deja Vu) and any mandatory/optional tip outs you have. You could easily pay out $3-400 in a night if you're making "a G" because with a $100 house fee and tipping the DJ and housemom 10% you're already out $300 if you've made "a G". So you're telling me in a 6-7 hour shift you sell OVER 20 HJs/LDs but you are still a semi-clean dancer?
Hahaha! Fuck you. It's dancers like you that have put me in my current situation. I have to drive AN HOUR to work at a club so I don't have to weed through hookers in VIP rooms and protect my son from STDs because I'm breastfeeding. I have ZERO problem with escorts, more power to them, but it doesn't belong in the SC...period. There is no rationalizing it, and it does affect clean dancers' business.
A sales example of this would be:
- Salesman A from Travelocity is offering you four (4) round trip plane tickets, a one week hotel stay, and all meals paid for $2,400.
- Salesman B from Travelocity is making a back door deal. He is offering you four (4) round trip plane tickets, a two week hotel stay, all meals paid, and tickets to DisneyWorld for $2,400.
Which are you going to choose?
Salesman A has little to no chance of selling his package to you (even though is trying to make an honest living) if you know about Salesman B's offer. So, hookers in strip clubs are lazy, rude and create unfair competition. I agree with J.D.
KS_Stevia
05-20-2010, 10:27 AM
So, if you were selling a LD and HJ for $50 you'd have to sell 20 in a night. That's not including paying your house fee (assuming you don't work somewhere like Deja Vu) and any mandatory/optional tip outs you have. You could easily pay out $3-400 in a night if you're making "a G" because with a $100 house fee and tipping the DJ and housemom 10% you're already out $300 if you've made "a G". So you're telling me in a 6-7 hour shift you sell OVER 20 HJs/LDs but you are still a semi-clean dancer?
Texas clubs tend to have pretty reasonable tipouts and housefees. They usually range from $15-50. There is no mandatory 10% rule and not all clubs have housemoms, or require a tip for them. Very seldom would a stripper pay more than $100 total for all fees and tips. But you're dead on about having to sell multiple handjobs to consistently break $1K in Texas. But it can be done dancing clean too, just not on the reg anymore.
Athenathefabulous
05-20-2010, 10:27 AM
I read through the first three pages of this thread but got tired of the cattiness. I'm curious though how that dancer was "easily" making "at least a G" every night just dancing and giving hand jobs in this economy? How much are you charging for a hand job and a lap dance? I can't think of a man in his right mind that would pay more than $40-$50 for a HJ and a lap dance! A hand job and a lap dance should take between 5 and 8 minutes and my experience says that hand jobs aren't too much more exciting than masturbation. So, if you were selling a LD and HJ for $50 you'd have to sell 20 in a night. That's not including paying your house fee (assuming you don't work somewhere like Deja Vu) and any mandatory/optional tip outs you have. You could easily pay out $3-400 in a night if you're making "a G" because with a $100 house fee and tipping the DJ and housemom 10% you're already out $300 if you've made "a G". So you're telling me in a 6-7 hour shift you sell OVER 20 HJs/LDs but you are still a semi-clean dancer?
Hahaha! Fuck you. It's dancers like you that have put me in my current situation. I have to drive AN HOUR to work at a club so I don't have to weed through hookers in VIP rooms and protect my son from STDs because I'm breastfeeding. I have ZERO problem with escorts, more power to them, but it doesn't belong in the SC...period. There is no rationalizing it, and it does affect clean dancers' business.
A sales example of this would be:
- Salesman A from Travelocity is offering you four (4) round trip plane tickets, a one week hotel stay, and all meals paid for $2,400.
- Salesman B from Travelocity is making a back door deal. He is offering you four (4) round trip plane tickets, a two week hotel stay, all meals paid, and tickets to DisneyWorld for $2,400.
Which are you going to choose?
Salesman A has little to no chance of selling his package to you (even though is trying to make an honest living) if you know about Salesman B's offer. So, hookers in strip clubs are lazy, rude and create unfair competition. I agree with J.D.
does salesman A offer a complementary blowjob? I feel like that would really sweeten the package ::):P
Laurisa
05-20-2010, 10:57 AM
Texas clubs tend to have pretty reasonable tipouts and housefees. They usually range from $15-50. There is no mandatory 10% rule and not all clubs have housemoms, or require a tip for them. Very seldom would a stripper pay more than $100 total for all fees and tips. But you're dead on about having to sell multiple handjobs to consistently break $1K in Texas. But it can be done dancing clean too, just not on the reg anymore.
I'm from metro-detroit, so pardon my disdain. ::)
Zinaida
05-20-2010, 04:18 PM
I think a SKANK is a person who hates on another person on an open public forum for circumstances that occur in a city that is already fucked and she has no control over. It is NOT one person's fault for what is happening in Houston. Taking your frustrations out on one person and name calling DOES NOT MAKE YOU A BETTER PERSON. It makes you skanky.
Why don't you call up the city of Houston or the club managers and call them names? I think they have more control over this than any one else.
Just sayin'.
I think a skank is a girl that gives hand jobs in a strip club.
Kylea2
05-20-2010, 04:34 PM
I'm not sure what the prices are in Texas for extras.
When I was in FL the guys were wanting toy shows for $100 and HJ for a little above that. If the girl had a "following" out there she could get $300 for a BJ - but it was only done in the CR, and the clubs took over $100 right off the bat for the room fee. I'm not sure if the extras girls doing that in the club had to tip out to the managers too or not? I literally turned down 5 CRs in an hour... I don't want to deal with guys like that - and its obviously not like the managers or security (or lack thereof) cared.
At one club I danced at in Texas this girl was providing extras for $50 flat (no dance fee on top of that) - kissing, heavy petting etc. She was a brand new girl though, so I don't really think that what she was charging them was necessarily the going rate for extras.
deedee at the beach
05-20-2010, 06:10 PM
$50???....And then people wonder why strippers gets such a bad rap??!!!
Kylea2
05-20-2010, 07:54 PM
^^^ Keep in mind, you cross that line and you are no longer just a stripper...