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Rookie2010
01-12-2011, 08:17 AM
Honestly I really dislike when I just get there and I'm trying to sit and have a drink first before I start to get dances and some girl just plops into my lap without hesitation as soon as I sit down.. I just think, rude much?
In most cases someone who asks if they can sit more than likely will be getting a dance before the plopper.

princessjas
01-12-2011, 08:26 AM
Honestly i really dislike when i just get there and i'm trying to sit and have a drink first before i start to get dances and some girl just plops into my lap without hesitation as soon as i sit down, honestly i think rude much? In most cases someone who asks if they can sit more than likely will be getting a dance before the plopper.

Girls do this because it works! I've never been that bold, but trust me, I've seen fugly assed strippers who did this, then proceded to act super trashy BANK. Always boggled my mind. It was hard enough for me to ASK if I could sit, normally I sold all my CR's and laps from guys coming up and asking or asking the bartender/manager/bouncer/other girls while I was on stage.

Rookie2010
01-12-2011, 08:30 AM
I'm sure those guys probably love the "attention" or the view but i prefer to relax and be approached by someone with decent social skills.

jack0177057
01-12-2011, 04:18 PM
^ It could also be (1) "southern gentlemen" guys that don't know how to say "no" to a lady, or (2) a mercy deal.

I usually politely reject the dancers who sit down uninvited, but a few times, I've bought dances simply out of mercy and compassion,... like one skinny-ugly (skugly?) dancer who asked me 3 times if I wanted a dance, looked very sad after each rejection and didn't go away. Finally, I felt some compassion and felt my overdue humanitarian "good deed" would be to buy dances from her, but I couldn't bring myself to buy a second one.

warpath
01-13-2011, 12:25 AM
I will only get dances from girls that are:

- White or mixed white
- Smaller boobs
- Slender

If a girl that does not match all of those characteristics asks if I want a dance, I will decline, even if they are offering extras. If they sit down next to me and chat with me then I might chat a little, but my body language usually shows that I'm not interested and when they ask for a dance, I'll decline.

I also prefer if she's blonde, young, and has a pretty face, but these are not deal breakers.

Kisca
01-13-2011, 02:04 AM
Honestly I really dislike when I just get there and I'm trying to sit and have a drink first before I start to get dances and some girl just plops into my lap without hesitation as soon as I sit down.. I just think, rude much?
In most cases someone who asks if they can sit more than likely will be getting a dance before the plopper.

I always ask to sit with the guy no matter what, even if I jump on their lap, I always ask "Can I join you?" Why sit with a guy when he might not even want you there... I think its rude as well.

It also depends on the club, if its a busy/stressful club for the girls then they'll jump on the guy within seconds to get him before somone else does, unlike a chilled down club where girls give time to their customers.

jack0177057
01-13-2011, 09:08 AM
I always ask to sit with the guy no matter what, even if I jump on their lap, I always ask "Can I join you?" Why sit with a guy when he might not even want you there... I think its rude as well.

As a custie, I really appreciate being asked.

When a girl just plops down without asking, I just automatically tell them I'm not interested and try to get rid of them (nicely, of course). Its an automatic reflex I have with pushy sales people.

Also, its harder to check out a girl's body when you suddenly find her sitting right next to you. I'm very specific on body types. A few times, as they've gotten up and started walking away (after my rejection on reflex), I've realize what a perfect 10 hot body they have, and call them back... but usually, its already too late by then. (I'm sorry if I sound like a prick on this, but I really do need to "inspect" before making a decision -- if a body part is too small or too big for my personal liking, the dance experience will be disappointing for the both of us.)

The best way, for both of us, is for the dancer to make eye contact with me and smile, even before coming to my table. I smile back, check your body out and express my interest and enthusiasm with my happy/very interested face - looks like this -- ;D. Then you approach and ask if you can join me. Of course, I say yes,... and the rest is very easy.

KS_Stevia
01-13-2011, 10:17 AM
Also, its harder to check out a girl's body when you suddenly find her sitting right next to you. I'm very specific on body types. A few times, as they've gotten up and started walking away (after my rejection on reflex), I've realize what a perfect 10 hot body they have, and call them back... but usually, its already too late by then. (I'm sorry if I sound like a prick on this, but I really do need to "inspect" before making a decision -- if a body part is too small or too big for my personal liking, the dance experience will be disappointing for the both of us.)

This is kind of piggish, but I've had guys do it to me a few times and it wasn't that offensive because it led to sales. Ask her to stand up and do a slow, sexy turn, bending over a bit when her back is to you....you can phrase it on a kind way, versus "bend over and show me that ass". Yes, I've had guys say that to me.

But if she has jumped on you and there might be a chance, tell her, "I'd love to see how you move, could you kindly give me a sexy lil turn". Or something.

It seems kind of rude but everytime a guy has asked me to do that, he has been impressed and gotten dances.

Rookie2010
01-13-2011, 10:28 AM
Hahah, bend over and show me that ass! got a laugh out of me :D

yoda57us
01-13-2011, 11:26 AM
It seems kind of rude but everytime a guy has asked me to do that, he has been impressed and gotten dances.

This does not surprise me at all...;)

warpath
01-13-2011, 11:30 AM
This is kind of piggish, but I've had guys do it to me a few times and it wasn't that offensive because it led to sales. Ask her to stand up and do a slow, sexy turn, bending over a bit when her back is to you....you can phrase it on a kind way, versus "bend over and show me that ass". Yes, I've had guys say that to me.

But if she has jumped on you and there might be a chance, tell her, "I'd love to see how you move, could you kindly give me a sexy lil turn". Or something.

It seems kind of rude but everytime a guy has asked me to do that, he has been impressed and gotten dances.

But what if you ask the girl to stand up so you can see her body better, and then you decide you don't want a dance? That would be hard to pull off without being offensive to her.

jack0177057
01-13-2011, 02:03 PM
This is kind of piggish, but I've had guys do it to me a few times and it wasn't that offensive because it led to sales. Ask her to stand up and do a slow, sexy turn, bending over a bit when her back is to you....you can phrase it on a kind way, versus "bend over and show me that ass". Yes, I've had guys say that to me.

But if she has jumped on you and there might be a chance, tell her, "I'd love to see how you move, could you kindly give me a sexy lil turn". Or something.

It seems kind of rude but everytime a guy has asked me to do that, he has been impressed and gotten dances.

LOL.... I'd love to try doing that, but I don't know...

What if after she does all that for me, I decide I don't want a dance from her?... That would be kind of brutal, no?

What would you have done if the guy said "no thanks" after you turned and bent over for him? (Though I'm with Yoda on this - that would never happen.)

I will for sure try this on a dancer that I AM ALREADY interested in. I might bust her chops a little after she does it, and say I'm still not sure, and to please do it one more time.

Kisca
01-13-2011, 06:11 PM
But what if you ask the girl to stand up so you can see her body better, and then you decide you don't want a dance? That would be hard to pull off without being offensive to her.

If you want to nice and polite... let her sit for a few mins esp after doing a turn for you. Offer her a drink or a tip and let her know "Im good right now, but if you'd like a drink here $ X" Just hand her the money, and she'll leave to get herself a drink or keep it.

KS_Stevia
01-13-2011, 06:14 PM
It was just an idea. OR, you can have balls from the get go and kindly ask her to get off your lap.

Kisca
01-13-2011, 06:15 PM
^ I personally HATE it when men ask me to do a turn, I feel weird. I mean, usually they have a full view of my face, boobs, tummy, hips, waist, legs....
But I understand if the customer doesnt and the girl is sitting on your lap, you can always say
"I need to use the washroom" She'll get up and move
"Can you sit up for a bit, I want to remove my cellphone/wallet/etc so it'll be comfortable" Are nice ways of saying such things instead of asking for a turn. That is if you still want the girl witihn your company.

KS_Stevia
01-13-2011, 06:27 PM
I don't care for it either, but its not the worst thing in the world. Again, I hate being put on the spot like that, but its always worked in my favor.

livingdeadgirl
01-14-2011, 07:15 AM
^ I personally HATE it when men ask me to do a turn, I feel weird. I mean, usually they have a full view of my face, boobs, tummy, hips, waist, legs.....


Im the same way. Ill do it...but I dont like it. It seems like I get alot of younger guys and they love to say the whole "lemme see that ass" thing.

Hopper
01-15-2011, 02:50 AM
LOL - quit worrying. If the guy is even average size, 90-120 lbs in your lap isn't even uncomfortable after a long stint, unless you've got a super bony ass and are parking it all on one thigh. Even then it's not too bad if she's in the 100 lb or less category. If the guy is bigger (heavier or more built, either way) it matters even less. Just make sure yo don't put all your weight on one of his legs aall the time, and that you move around every 5 minutes if you think you might be restricting circulation. The more you weigh over 120 or so and the smaller the guy is, the more you need to be conscious of this, in proportion. Frankly even that girl wouldn't have been so bad for a couple of minutes or if she'd distributed her weight a little. Taller and/or bigger girls should get good at sitting cross-wise in the chair, leaning against one side with your legs over the other arm of the chair - that's the ONLY way a bigger or longer gal ISN'T making the guy uncomfy unless he's really tall/big himself.

In a LD, it's not the weight by itself which hurts but the dancer's shin bones digging into my lap with all her weight above them. The times I've had dancers do this, especially if they are a bigger in size, I've thought "How can she not know this is hurting me? Smaller dancers can get away with it, but not average to big.

Hopper
01-15-2011, 02:59 AM
This is kind of piggish, but I've had guys do it to me a few times and it wasn't that offensive because it led to sales. Ask her to stand up and do a slow, sexy turn, bending over a bit when her back is to you....you can phrase it on a kind way, versus "bend over and show me that ass". Yes, I've had guys say that to me.

But if she has jumped on you and there might be a chance, tell her, "I'd love to see how you move, could you kindly give me a sexy lil turn". Or something.

It seems kind of rude but everytime a guy has asked me to do that, he has been impressed and gotten dances.

To me that would feel worse than doing what Jack does. Asking her to give me a good close look at her body and then if I don't like it say "no thank you". Then it's as if there is not even any doubt that I don't like her. The way Jack described seems less offensive because if she is sitting on her ass beside me then of course I can't tell if I like it, but if I like it when I do see it, it's a compliment. How about you show off your attributes some way without being asked?

Hopper
01-15-2011, 03:21 AM
^ I personally HATE it when men ask me to do a turn, I feel weird. I mean, usually they have a full view of my face, boobs, tummy, hips, waist, legs....

They often don't tell us about the dancer's behind.


But I understand if the customer doesnt and the girl is sitting on your lap, you can always say
"I need to use the washroom" She'll get up and move
"Can you sit up for a bit, I want to remove my cellphone/wallet/etc so it'll be comfortable" Are nice ways of saying such things instead of asking for a turn. That is if you still want the girl witihn your company.

Dancers could show the customer her behind and everything else before she sits down and without being asked. There are discreet ways you could do it, or obvious ways if you are able to pull them off.

Pure
01-15-2011, 11:54 AM
I will only get dances from girls that are:

- White or mixed white
- Smaller boobs
- Slender

.


A little off topic but what do you consider "mixed white"? Like visibly has some caucasian in her or just non black looking. White mixed with Hispanic or Asian? Just curious.....

warpath
01-15-2011, 04:07 PM
A little off topic but what do you consider "mixed white"? Like visibly has some caucasian in her or just non black looking. White mixed with Hispanic or Asian? Just curious.....

Visibly has some caucasian in her, generally white+asian or white+hispanic.

she sells sanctuary
01-16-2011, 02:22 PM
Girls do this because it works! I've never been that bold, but trust me, I've seen fugly assed strippers who did this, then proceded to act super trashy BANK. Always boggled my mind. It was hard enough for me to ASK if I could sit, normally I sold all my CR's and laps from guys coming up and asking or asking the bartender/manager/bouncer/other girls while I was on stage.

oddly, it seems that fugly strippers have better luck with this sort of thing. even at my very hottest (not perfect, but definitely damn hot), i never was able to get even a single dance doing that. they would just tell me what a hustler i was. i guess it's easier to believe that an ugly girl really wants to rub up on you. meanwhile, it was those ugly girls talking the most shit in the dressing room about what stupid losers those guys were.


But what if you ask the girl to stand up so you can see her body better, and then you decide you don't want a dance? That would be hard to pull off without being offensive to her.

to be fair, a lot of the guys who ask girls to show them the wares are time wasters or assholes who go to the club to try to make girls cry. and even then, we know that men have different types, and any stripper who isn't a total whackjob will probably be fine with it if she's not you're type. she's someone's type.

nila
01-18-2011, 08:13 PM
I will tip all strippers I watch on stage, but I only buy lap dances from girls who are about my own age, so early-mid 20s, dark hair over blondes, and if they seem to be the "cheerleader type" I'm usually sold.

Still, none of that matters if she has the right attitude. One of my favorite strippers is this amazing girl with lots of tattoos, definitely more goth than cheerleader, not as thin as the girls I usually go for, but she's got such an awesome attitude, is always joking and flirting with me, and that totally makes up for her not being "my type" :)