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michele11
12-13-2013, 09:01 AM
I got my lips done today and I LOVE THEM! After "stabbing" me the nurse said, "You are brave" and I replied, "No, I'm not brave, I'm just vein ;)!" and she cracked up! I confess that I wish my boyfriend would notice. Last time I got them done (a little, 6 months ago) he kept saying, "blow job lips" and being really "affectionate"...so I know that he DID notice, even he didn't realise that their was a difference /:O. Men *rolls eyes* lol.
Haaha! Blow job lips and being more affectionate. This made me crack up!
luscious sadie
12-13-2013, 05:19 PM
ahahah me too
michele11
12-13-2013, 09:33 PM
Ughy ex fiancée is coming here to my state tomorrow for a game. He's really just coming to see me. We were together for 8 years. I don't know if I wanna see him. He's already turning me off! He keeps going on and on about how he wants to make me cum on his big cock. When I don't say anything he wines. I haven't seen him in almost 2 years so I want him to dress nice and he's bitching I want him to dress nice because he only wants to bring one bag on the plane. I told him I want to be attracted to him if he wants to get laid. UGH! This shit is too much. Gotta decide. LOL. He just said are you gonna kiss me? Kiss your big lips. HAHA!
michele11
12-13-2013, 09:44 PM
OMG! Now he's saying too bad you can't give compliments. I'm like what and he's like whatever. Do I need this . just because he says all these complimentary things doesn't mean I have to. I never do. Then he's going on about things we did 5 years ago. Fucking on the fisio ball? I'm like what he's like forget it, your not into it. Sorry you left 4 years ago and youbeg me back for 4 years but now I;m over it. Gosh when will men ever learn. Do you ever think about me. Me' honestly Jason not anymore. I've had time to reflect on things that ai aceepted that I realize are not right, I just accepted.' Oh come on I could say the same thing about you! Do I want to deal with this for 24 hours for an orgasm? Hmm. Sorry I'm all high on my kolonopin dealing with that. forgive the shit typing.
michele11
12-14-2013, 10:47 AM
Oh god he's here! I thought he said 4. Like I'm still in my pajamas and don't even wanna get ready or drive. I'm a scorpio and have good intuition. Maybe something bads going to happen.
Kellydancer
12-16-2013, 03:21 PM
I confess I told off a zero posts guy in chat. This guy asked to chat in a private chat so I asked him what the fuck he wants. Apparently I'm supposed to be nice to some random men who have never posted and apparently are only here to chat.
DonaDiabla
12-16-2013, 03:31 PM
I must say that I always wanted to become a mistress to a hot South American Catholic Priest. But I never had the nerve to do and will not do it. But I always to be a priest's mistress in my dreams. LOL!! I watched the thorn birds as a child :)
OliveJardin
12-19-2013, 01:34 AM
I made a birthday appt for myself next month to get my lips redone and my undereyes filled for the first time. I'm a scaredy cat and not looking forward to needles being so close to my eyeballs. :faint:
^I'd like to get fillers there too, but my doc' says I don't need it /:O (but I've noticed that my under eyes are hollowing out as I get older :(). Needles aren't fun, at least they numb your lips though.
Shut up! Lmao!
U Should post his pik on here and warn everyone. Lol!
^I'd like to get fillers there too, but my doc' says I don't need it /:O (but I've noticed that my under eyes are hollowing out as I get older :(). Needles aren't fun, at least they numb your lips though.
I want this done also but my lady says it stretches the skin so if u ever stop using fillers u will look older..
^I'd like to get fillers there too, but my doc' says I don't need it /:O (but I've noticed that my under eyes are hollowing out as I get older :(). Needles aren't fun, at least they numb your lips though.
I want this done also but my lady says it stretches the skin so if u ever stop using fillers u will look older..
whirlerz
12-23-2013, 05:59 PM
There's some good products by Physican's Formula, not as good as procedures, but pretty good. Oh please you ladies are sooo young!^
michele11
12-24-2013, 07:37 AM
^ Yeah I've been getting filler for 7 years and it hasn't. I also use to do fat in my lips( 3 times) before I had a permanent procedure and they would just go back to the way they were. I need under eye done but that is the thinnest skin on the face and it's off label and if you get someone who doesn't do that area a lot and is versed in anatomy of the face you can go blind.
Nina_
12-24-2013, 12:12 PM
I'm seriously considering calling my now ex-manager's probation officer and anonymously telling him/her what he's been doing. I'm never going back to that club until he's gone. He gets wasted at work and grabbed me up one night so hard I was bruised for days (he grabbed me for no reason, I wasn't even talking to him). My friend saw him grab me and told him to watch it so he threatened to break her fingers and to have his friends jump her. I went back to that club last night and he was drunk as usual and when I tried to leave the club early he got pissed and wouldn't even let me stay in the club to wait for my ride, he made me stand outside in the freezing cold while my ride came.
He brags all the time about how he's broken a girl's finger and cracked another girl's skull. After the first incident when he left bruises on my body and threatened my friend, I figured he had an assaultive past so I looked him up on Michigan's offender search and sure enough he has a felony assault charge for causing great bodily harm to an ex-girlfriend of his. His probation guidelines include that he isn't supposed to consume alcohol but he gets wasted every night at work. He also illegally sells weed throughout the club. Staff members know this so idk why he hasn't been fired; he's also been caught charging customers $60-100 for booths when they are really only $20 so he can't pocket the change.
I don't want to be spiteful, but I want to make an anonymous complaint to his P.O about him. He is a dangerous person and continues to harm and threaten women.
I know it's stupid and I probably shouldn't call his P.O, but I also feel like something has to be done about his behavior. He is well known for having caused severe injuries to several women. At an old club he used to manage at he had a problem with one of the girls so he had a bunch of girls jump her while she was onstage (he said this to my friend as he was threatening her).
Maybe I should just let it go but he deserves to be behind bars for all the times he's assaulted women.
lynn2009
12-24-2013, 12:22 PM
I don't think it's stupid at all and I would definitely call his probation officer!
Kat w
12-24-2013, 12:34 PM
It is NOT stupid! Please safely do what you can to put this guy away.
Nina_
12-24-2013, 01:04 PM
Thanks ladies. After Christmas I think I'm going to find out who his PO is and give him/her a call.
Renee89
12-24-2013, 02:21 PM
Just found out that one of the guys I'm hooking up with is old high school buddies with another booty call of mine. They hate each other now :o What to do :x
lynn2009
12-24-2013, 10:37 PM
My ex posted a picture of the flowers he got for his now girlfriend for christmas and it was enough to send me to near hysterics
Renee89
12-24-2013, 10:38 PM
My ex posted a picture of the flowers he got for his now girlfriend for christmas and it was enough to send me to near hysterics
aww what a bastard!
lynn2009
12-24-2013, 11:06 PM
Ty but he's not. he's a great guy. But did leave me really heartbroken.
Renee89
12-24-2013, 11:07 PM
Ty but he's not. he's a great guy. But did leave me really heartbroken.
sometimes they just don't think
athletic1
12-25-2013, 02:57 PM
I really don't know about that; the skin on the lips is the thinnest skin on the face and one's lips don't look deflated when lip filler wears off. Plus I have multiple girlfriends who have been doing their undereyes for a long time and they aren't sagging plus they're older.
For YEARS-I've received both undereye fillers to include Radiesse in the nasiolabial folds. I've not received undereye fillers in the last 3yrs though. My eyes haven't suffered a bit. If the Dr/RN isn't overfilling and performing a natural look; you shouldn't end up with sagging skin if you decide to stop in the future.
Kellydancer
12-26-2013, 01:35 PM
My one ex boyfriend is annoying me on Facebook. When we were dating he was a horrible boyfriend who didn't buy me presents for my birthday, Christmas or Valentines Day. To boot I sent him money to come visit me and he spend it on himself. I moved on, but through the years he contacted me and because he is an okay guy (though an awful boyfriend)we kept in touch as friends. Through the years he got married and divorced three times and now has 4 kids. He is mad because I refuse to give him a second chance. Yes everyone wants to date someone who was a horrible boyfriend and has a bad rep for marriage and has 4 kids. I told him off, telling him he never had a chance to get back with me and definitely no way with 3 marriages and 4 kids in his past.
charlie61
12-26-2013, 02:07 PM
Quitting Facebook was one of the best decisions I've ever made.
lynn2009
12-26-2013, 02:28 PM
I don't have a facebook account for a bunch of reasons (him being one) but I cannot help but look at his twitter feed sometimes.
Kellydancer
12-26-2013, 02:51 PM
Yeah that's why the only exes I have on FB are ones I have no feelings for. My one ex that I chat with often is now married and we broke up because we could see we were going nowhere. The other ex who I chat to on FB (the one I mentioned above)I definitely have no feelings for. I know I would be devastated if someone I had feelings for was with someone else. I currently have feelings for someone and if I found out he was with someone would devastate me.
smeca
12-27-2013, 05:13 AM
REgretting adding a good customer on twitter. I signed upt o twitter originally to keep in touch with good customers because i didn't want ot give my phone or get a work phone, but it wasn't effective at all. But now it's become quite an important anonymous-ish outlet, and he literally responds to DMs straight away. So now that's bugging me when i see new messages and just want to ignore them. And I forgot how much I tell from work/my feelings on stuff at work/stripper rant, so now I'm monitoring what I post. What have i done!
Nina_
12-28-2013, 08:41 AM
It is NOT stupid! Please safely do what you can to put this guy away.
And I found out that he was recording me on his phone while I was in the DRESSING ROOM getting ready to leave. Wtf? That's illegal.
charlie61
12-28-2013, 10:27 AM
^If he captured an image of nudity electronically without your consent, I believe that's actually a felony.
Nina_
12-28-2013, 10:44 AM
I asked my friend if my clothes were on or off while he was recording and she said she doesn't remember. -__-
SweetJulia
12-29-2013, 05:13 AM
I'm seriously considering calling my now ex-manager's probation officer and anonymously telling him/her what he's been doing. I'm never going back to that club until he's gone. He gets wasted at work and grabbed me up one night so hard I was bruised for days (he grabbed me for no reason, I wasn't even talking to him). My friend saw him grab me and told him to watch it so he threatened to break her fingers and to have his friends jump her. I went back to that club last night and he was drunk as usual and when I tried to leave the club early he got pissed and wouldn't even let me stay in the club to wait for my ride, he made me stand outside in the freezing cold while my ride came.
He brags all the time about how he's broken a girl's finger and cracked another girl's skull. After the first incident when he left bruises on my body and threatened my friend, I figured he had an assaultive past so I looked him up on Michigan's offender search and sure enough he has a felony assault charge for causing great bodily harm to an ex-girlfriend of his. His probation guidelines include that he isn't supposed to consume alcohol but he gets wasted every night at work. He also illegally sells weed throughout the club. Staff members know this so idk why he hasn't been fired; he's also been caught charging customers $60-100 for booths when they are really only $20 so he can't pocket the change.
I don't want to be spiteful, but I want to make an anonymous complaint to his P.O about him. He is a dangerous person and continues to harm and threaten women.
I know it's stupid and I probably shouldn't call his P.O, but I also feel like something has to be done about his behavior. He is well known for having caused severe injuries to several women. At an old club he used to manage at he had a problem with one of the girls so he had a bunch of girls jump her while she was onstage (he said this to my friend as he was threatening her).
Maybe I should just let it go but he deserves to be behind bars for all the times he's assaulted women.
I don't usually comment on this thread, but oh fuck this! He needs to be in jail, now. If I were you, say it's January, I would have his stripper-threatening, naked girl recording, letting others fight his fights, drunken, retarded, about to be sodomized by men twice his size ass in jail by February. Faster than you can say "Happy Groundhog Day." Feel free to tell him he's officially pissed me off, that's hard to do. Also, the only thing keeping me from going up there and kicking his ass myself is wanting to stay in and watch all eleven seasons of Bad Girls Club with a friend and some wine. He's lucky, cuz I was gonna let the Cleveland in me come out }:D
Nina_
12-29-2013, 07:02 AM
I don't usually comment on this thread, but oh fuck this! He needs to be in jail, now. If I were you, say it's January, I would have his stripper-threatening, naked girl recording, letting others fight his fights, drunken, retarded, about to be sodomized by men twice his size ass in jail by February. Faster than you can say "Happy Groundhog Day." Feel free to tell him he's officially pissed me off, that's hard to do. Also, the only thing keeping me from going up there and kicking his ass myself is wanting to stay in and watch all eleven seasons of Bad Girls Club with a friend and some wine. He's lucky, cuz I was gonna let the Cleveland in me come out }:D
Great post! :D
Aniela
12-29-2013, 07:32 PM
Nina, reporting him isn't being spiteful -- reporting him is protecting yourself & any other girls at the club (or likely anywhere else for that matter) who end up on the receiving end of a smashed skull, broken fingers or God knows what b/c he thinks they looked at him wrong.
lol1337a
12-30-2013, 03:22 AM
Similar thing happened with me a few years back Nina. A DJ stole from me ($10, but still) and touched my breasts in a physically painful way even after I told him he'd better not lay a finger on me again. I worked out an arrangement with mgmt where we'd be scheduled on different days (still unacceptable they didn't fire him but I reluctantly put up with it). He harassed another dancer a couple months later, but unlike me she knew he was on probation and wasn't allowed in bars. She called his officer and a handful of us REJOICED when he got additional time. Saw him a couple years later and it seemed he even learned his lesson because he tried to apologize. I didn't acknowledge him even though he was standing a foot away though.
charlie61
12-30-2013, 07:56 PM
This is a great topic that deserves its own thread, perhaps. Let's get back to confessions! :)
michele11
01-01-2014, 04:21 PM
Alcohol is the Devil! That is all!
chanzep
01-02-2014, 02:50 PM
^ It sure is!, I went out NYE with my bestie and her younger cousins we drank so much, I fell over and bruised my knees, I should know better by now not to mix drinks and be drinking like a 20 something eww.
michele11
01-02-2014, 06:37 PM
^ I fall down when drunk too but in the club. Lol. I managed to not fall but I drank half a bottle of wine before my sister came then had shots, champagne and vodka cranberry and orange. I felt like I should o9f came home with a grand it was all custies following me around and then they buy you a drink and act like they own you. I met a wealthy Greek man who owns a jewelry store and winery in santorini Greece. Loaded but I don't know how to work someone out of the club. He want's me to travel the world with him. Lol.
DonaDiabla
01-02-2014, 06:58 PM
It is hard to get a real sugar daddy in SL.....most ladies who have SL sugar daddies are happy with 30 dollars a week or something. But I recently look into get sugar mama due to the fact of meeting this Japanese girl willing to spend 300 USD or 80000 Lindens a week on my Asian avatar. I believe that this is nice change for me to get in SL :) Yay!!! I love getting sugar Mamas in Second Life :)
michele11
01-03-2014, 04:13 PM
Omg! This rich Greek guy I met NYE will not quit calling me! He just wants to take me out! I didn't meet him in the club so I don't know how or have energy to work this to my angle. I go to work make my money and want to rest in between work trips. Seems like a lotta fucking work. I mean if he gave me 1000 each time I'd go. Not alone though because I can tell he'd be trying shit! He kept trying to hold my hand and stuff. I can make that at work and go home and be done with fuckers. If I get a sugar daddy for me to be worth it I want like 1000 every time I hang with him. I don't want gifts I can buy myself. I guess I just never got into this because I do very well for myself and don't want to deal with custies on my own time. He is a multi millionaire. I've researched him. Does he think I'm just going to go out for free? I didn't tell him I dance. My mom said to go out with him for free a few times and drop hints or he'll give up. How can I work this. He's called me 3 times and I haven't called back?
charlie61
01-03-2014, 06:52 PM
I love sitting down in the shower. Especially in the winter when it feels soooo good to take a hot shower. Even better - candle-lit hot showers! I usually wash my face while sitting there just to make it feel more productive. :)
chanzep
01-03-2014, 11:09 PM
Omg! This rich Greek guy I met NYE will not quit calling me! He just wants to take me out! I didn't meet him in the club so I don't know how or have energy to work this to my angle. I go to work make my money and want to rest in between work trips. Seems like a lotta fucking work. I mean if he gave me 1000 each time I'd go. Not alone though because I can tell he'd be trying shit! He kept trying to hold my hand and stuff. I can make that at work and go home and be done with fuckers. If I get a sugar daddy for me to be worth it I want like 1000 every time I hang with him. I don't want gifts I can buy myself. I guess I just never got into this because I do very well for myself and don't want to deal with custies on my own time. He is a multi millionaire. I've researched him. Does he think I'm just going to go out for free? I didn't tell him I dance. My mom said to go out with him for free a few times and drop hints or he'll give up. How can I work this. He's called me 3 times and I haven't called back?
From what I know about dealing with guys like this (not a lot ) its hard work and you have to be patient, I am not which is why I don't, maybe talk to him and arrange one free date, make up another job maybe, then when he wants to see you again say you are working extra hours to pay for? , Something like this is how 1 girl I knew used to operate, I think there is a sugar babies group on here maybe get advice there if you wana pursue him.
OliveJardin
01-04-2014, 02:04 AM
I confess that I had a quick sniff of the One Direction perfume today (yep, they made one for women /:O) and I didn't hate it-it was similar to the Brittany Spears ones (very strippery lol). I wouldn't wear it, but it was generic, fun and not completely terrible.
michele11
01-04-2014, 09:31 AM
From what I know about dealing with guys like this (not a lot ) its hard work and you have to be patient, I am not which is why I don't, maybe talk to him and arrange one free date, make up another job maybe, then when he wants to see you again say you are working extra hours to pay for? , Something like this is how 1 girl I knew used to operate, I think there is a sugar babies group on here maybe get advice there if you wana pursue him.
He lives in Greece and travels the U.S. for his business. Lol he showed me pictures of him with the bush's. They're his customers. He leaves tomorrow. I told him I travel and do club promotions so I called him and said I'd like to go out but I need to get back to work. I've been off 6 weeks and with me being a single mother and Christmas I need the money. He said whatever you like. So I think it's too much bother for me. I make good money when I work ( I have the luxury to take months off) so when I'm off I don't want to deal with that bullshit. In the club they know what's going on. If I met him in a club it would be easier but me being a scorpio like you don't have patience for that bullshit. If I put in that kind of work I want 10's of thousands of dollars. I have my own money and own 3 houses so 500 here and there , to me is a waste of time.
Kat w
01-04-2014, 11:00 AM
I love sitting down in the shower. Especially in the winter when it feels soooo good to take a hot shower. Even better - candle-lit hot showers! I usually wash my face while sitting there just to make it feel more productive. :)
I do this too! I will wash my face and brush my teeth while sitting down in the shower, I find it super relaxing!
blkschoolgirl
01-04-2014, 11:30 AM
I do this too! I will wash my face and brush my teeth while sitting down in the shower, I find it super relaxing!
Yes!! There's a Korean bathhouse that I love, where everyone sits down in front of a trough of faucets and shower heads to scrub and bathe. I wear my face mask while I take care of everything else and rinse it off last. I used to buy these tablets from Lush that you drop in the shower to create a super relaxing steam that clears out the sinuses until I learned to make my own. I love bathing, it's a ritual for me.
Aslinn
01-05-2014, 08:03 PM
Im so tired of finding out every guy I talk to is a douche bag. Do I have other woman written on my forehead?! Its so stupid, the guy I like the most and have invested most of my time with has a "she's not my girlfriend " situation. Site he never sees her he's states away but wtf! She's not even cute. On top of that when I tried to go out and meet new people only guys im not interested in want me and I know I look damn good. I just want to die alone with my cat at this point. Maybe several cats and a room full of vibrators. I just wish someone would be straight forward with me. F you want me or don't just tell me.
Trixia
01-05-2014, 09:36 PM
I stayed away from home all day today to avoid helping my dad with his work. Even though they have been very supportive of everything I have done and gone through. I just can't take the stress of working with him on his job. Plus its my day off and I need it to recover to deal with the week. I feel like I'm being selfish sometimes.
OliveJardin
01-05-2014, 11:33 PM
I'm avoiding my old "friends" (people I haven't seen or heard from really in 6 years). I'm such a people pleaser that I will probably end up meeting up with them for a drink *sigh*. I'm going to be tip toeing around topics, nodding, smiling and getting people to talk about themselves to avoid talking about myself...hm, sounds a lot like a night's work ::)!