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Tourdefranzia
03-07-2014, 02:01 PM
I worked an extra hour last night so that I could take today off. I strip so that I don't have to work all the time. I make sure that I pay all my bills and put money in savings, but once I hit my goals, I cheerily skip away knowing I've got way more time for myself to do whatever I want.

I love my job. ;D

AlenaRoza
03-07-2014, 05:18 PM
I have a huuge crush on my ex boyfriend's dad. Crushed on him when we were together, still do. Hes not even attractive. Cute ish at best.

Aslinn
03-09-2014, 01:19 AM
Im in an akward love square. The guy I want the most is miles away and even though we both have other people and we both say we don't want a relationship for 2 years we keep acting like we are. Literally just the other day I said I was over "talking" to people and going to actually start taking myself seriously by maybe start dating someine regularly (aka movie,dinner,drinks badically cadual dating) he freaked amd was upset because he was "plan b" last I checked I thought you didn't want me like that and some girl thinks she is in a relationship with you. Its like were both beating around the bush because were to anti-relationship and refuse to put all our eggs in one basket. On the brightside he's officially booked to come see me and he's been acting all affectionate since I said I wanted something more serious.

charlie61
03-09-2014, 07:20 PM
Please don't quote this message

Please reach out to someone if any of us can help. :grouphug:

whirlerz
03-09-2014, 07:34 PM
Thank you, I appreciate it, am in the process of discussing it w/a specific resource center.
I didn't realize it & felt kind foolish..

Nina_
03-10-2014, 09:17 AM
I'm really starting realize how few real friends I have. They're dropping like flies. There's only a few people who I can actually consider a true friend. I terminated my friendship with one of my best friends like 6 months ago due to her jealousy, always lashing out on me, etc. I don't regret it at all. I just had to end another friendship with a girl who I thought was a true friend (I fucking held her hand through the delivery of her child) and I find out she's talking shit about me and my family to my ex boyfriend of all people who she knows I'm clearly still involved with. And she told him she doesn't like how I treat him. I don't go to the father of her children and tell him I don't like the fact that she goes home with customers and stays out 'til 10am leaving him with the kids, because she was my friend and he was her ex/whatever. Bitch. She has like no friends in Michigan, and just burned her bridge with me.

I don't regret either of these friendships ending, I'd rather have no friends than fake ones. But yeah I have very few friends. And I'm very OK with that. :)

PrincessN
03-10-2014, 07:30 PM
real friends, whats that
because all i seem to be making is fake friends
is being fake the new fashion

well my confession is having slept with my fake best friends hubby, was it worth it, hell yeah :D

LaurenAus
03-15-2014, 12:16 PM
can someone just give me a million dollars so i can stop working

Vyanka
03-15-2014, 02:05 PM
I'm really starting realize how few real friends I have. They're dropping like flies. There's only a few people who I can actually consider a true friend. I terminated my friendship with one of my best friends like 6 months ago due to her jealousy, always lashing out on me, etc. I don't regret it at all. I just had to end another friendship with a girl who I thought was a true friend (I fucking held her hand through the delivery of her child) and I find out she's talking shit about me and my family to my ex boyfriend of all people who she knows I'm clearly still involved with. And she told him she doesn't like how I treat him. I don't go to the father of her children and tell him I don't like the fact that she goes home with customers and stays out 'til 10am leaving him with the kids, because she was my friend and he was her ex/whatever. Bitch. She has like no friends in Michigan, and just burned her bridge with me.

I don't regret either of these friendships ending, I'd rather have no friends than fake ones. But yeah I have very few friends. And I'm very OK with that. :)


There are very few genuinely real good ppl out there. I know a lot of ppl but very few are real friends.

Jay12
03-23-2014, 06:22 PM
In 2011, I charged for sex once. It was some officer who was going to Djibouti for eight months. He paid me well :D

chanzep
03-24-2014, 12:25 PM
Im such a bitch when im on my period, Im waiting for my flatmates to leave the kitchen because, I can not pretend to be nice to people after such a long weekend, I don't want the poor sweet people to see my other side!

Vackra
03-24-2014, 04:25 PM
I'm a hypocrite. My husband doesn't mind a single bit what I do, but I would be upset if he worked as a male stripper (it's come up before).

SweetJulia
03-25-2014, 02:27 PM
Within an hour of pissing me off, an unnamed someone spilled hot coffee in their lap and I liked it ::)

Vackra
03-25-2014, 03:08 PM
^^ It's more I wouldn't want him to be treated the way I have, a lot. I wouldn't worry about it being sexually tempting just... I think he deserves better.

Kaii
03-25-2014, 06:06 PM
i planned a very productive day for today and i ended up sleeping 11 hours and doing nothing but playing videogames... oh wait, i plan that every day and end up the same! yaaay!

Aslinn
03-26-2014, 10:00 AM
I have come to the conclusion I never will trust a man again.

Renton
03-26-2014, 11:12 AM
Within an hour of pissing me off, an unnamed someone spilled hot coffee in their lap and I liked it ::)

omg I love when karma strikes so quickly. something like that can really make my day. someone who's been an absolute asshole to me for months has just crashed his car and all I could do was smile ^____________^ and cackle. maniacally. still cackling actually.

Tourdefranzia
03-26-2014, 11:38 AM
I have to get this off my chest:

I met a customer last night who I was so intensely attracted to, that if I thought I could get away with it, I would have fucked him in the VIP room. I didn't hide my attraction to him one bit. I dirty talk to guys all the time, but usually it's just play acting. This time I was dead serious when I told him all the things I wanted to do with him. This man is smart, rich, and very good looking. He's also married (he was wearing a wedding band, he didn't volunteer that information). So am I. :-[

There have been only 2 other men I've felt this level of intensity with in my life: My husband and a man who acted as my booking agent in the early 2000's. I never did anything with the booking agent, and in some ways have always regretted it. I'm not ashamed to say that I'm a slut, and since I've been involved in stripping since 1998, I've had ample opportunity to experience sexually charged situations with more men than I can count.

I ended up making out with this customer in VIP. There were a lot of customers out in the main room, but we were the only ones in the VIP. I'm not sure where the bouncer was, maybe there isn't any policy against kissing? I forgot myself. I forgot where I was. I had a single glass of wine, but felt drunk and out of control with him. I could feel his erection through his thin slacks, and he was a very pleasing size and girth.

I've been sending him text messages today. He keeps asking me to meet. I can't get him out of my head. My husband has been working 60-80 hour work weeks lately, and my attraction to this customer is a little terrifying. I need to talk to my husband about this man. We have been involved in swinging on and off through the entire span of our 17 year relationship, so I know that he's fine with me being hot for another guy. But I've never fucked anyone else without my husband first meeting my playmate.

Even more twisted, I think I could make a lot of money off this guy as his escort. The idea of getting paid to sleep with him is almost more than I can take. I'm also terrified that I could fall in love with him. That's how intense the chemistry was between us.

I probably won't check the replies to this thread. I just needed to share this experience with someone, and this is the perfect place for confessions. I sure the hell am not going to say anything to anyone at work, and my vanilla friends won't understand at all and would get really judgmental. I'm going out of town with my husband this weekend and fully plan on telling him about this. He's just got too much on his plate at work right now for me to drop this bombshell on him.

Thank you for listening. Please PM me if you want, I'd love to know if this has happened to someone else.

Kaylak
03-26-2014, 03:19 PM
i planned a very productive day for today and i ended up sleeping 11 hours and doing nothing but playing videogames... oh wait, i plan that every day and end up the same! yaaay!

Geek Girls Unite!!!

XxAmber89xX
03-26-2014, 06:42 PM
I met a customer last night who I was so intensely attracted to, that if I thought I could get away with it, I would have fucked him in the VIP room.

That is so hot. I love it!

The fact that you can tell your husband, puts you into a very powerful position where you can make this happen. In that case, I think you should pursue it under your husbands knowledge.

Issabelle
03-27-2014, 11:56 PM
Supposed to go the gym today after camming. Instead, proceeded to cam twice my normal shift then veg out with my computer and generally dick around. Saddle bag size and cellulite count increasing, one day at a time.

Rinse and repeat, because this is like the second straight week I've done this. Hah.

ava$
03-28-2014, 02:29 AM
I have come to the conclusion I never will trust a man again.

I feel u, I never will either!

ava$
03-28-2014, 02:30 AM
I have come to the conclusion I never will trust a man again.

I feel u, I never will either!

SweetJulia
03-29-2014, 03:19 PM
I'm convinced most men should function like ATMs, so only money comes out of their random holes, instead of compliments that don't pay the bills, gas, and bullshit.

Jay12
03-29-2014, 05:35 PM
When I had sex last morning with my man, he said that (while I has having a few orgasms) I squeeze his dick soooooooooooooo hard that it hurt him. Luckily, it did not break.

OliveJardin
03-31-2014, 09:27 PM
In one of ma tutorials, the topic of strip clubs, sex work etc was raised ::). I contributed to the discussion and one of my class mates said to me, "With a topic like this research is sooo important. I mean, like, it's not you go to adult establishments a lot *laugh*!?!". I couldn't help but think, "actually I will be at an "adult establishment" in a few hours ::)".

charlie61
04-01-2014, 12:01 PM
Sometimes I wonder what happened to some of the older posters on here...where are they now? Hmm...

SweetJulia
04-01-2014, 08:55 PM
This is going to sound so petty, but my hair is down to my waist but looks shorter in the front cuz my boobs stick out. As they should, but it still pisses me off.

smeca
04-03-2014, 04:41 AM
I'm so bored with my life at the minute and lonely... i mean i'm stuck in a long lease and i'm working towards a few things but i have no idea what i want to do for work, where i want to live, annoyed i stuck myself in this long expensive lease... i'm on good terms/still involved with the ex which is nice but i just feel lost now we're not living and planning together. I literally feel the best when i'm in bed with a guy. I miss having someone to lean on, I don't like being miss independent, it's tiring constantly fighting to keep going and feel like i'm doing well enough for... what? I don't know what my goals are.




^^^sweetjulia I know just what you mean!

chanzep
04-03-2014, 09:48 AM
So not in the mood for work, I hate working out of town, I hate the Town I work in, the men are lower class chavs who hate expect you to beg them to dance, the girls who I get along with, allow this which annoys me argh I need a new club!

PrincessN
04-03-2014, 06:23 PM
my sin, my confession was, my sisters husband came here last week
ended up drinking, back to my place, sex etc real good, do i regret it!! not one bit

caramelcraze
04-04-2014, 02:38 PM
Confession and thoughts for the day: If someone hands me decaf coffee for any reason, I feel like they're saying "Fuck you and fuck your happiness!" I feel like I've been slapped in the face. Yes, that's right... I judge you based on what kind of coffee you give me.

Kaii
04-04-2014, 02:57 PM
^^^ haahahhahahahahahahahahahaha just... hahahaha

whirlerz
04-04-2014, 06:26 PM
Confession and thoughts for the day: If someone hands me decaf coffee for any reason, I feel like they're saying "Fuck you and fuck your happiness!" I feel like I've been slapped in the face. Yes, that's right... I judge you based on what kind of coffee you give me.

Yea, Nvr saw the point of decaf..so you can have the taste? F' that.

jadey23
04-04-2014, 07:35 PM
I have been laid a total of three times in the span of more than a year. I just want to be spooned but I'm so damn picky it is ruining me.

charlie61
04-04-2014, 08:47 PM
I have been laid a total of three times in the span of more than a year. I just want to be spooned but I'm so damn picky it is ruining me.

Put an ad on craigslist looking for a cuddle buddy and then filter the fuck out of the responses. Filtering is easier if you're open to cuddling with women - they tend to be less creepy with their responses, and it's easier to find the good eggs. I've only ever had positive experiences with this. You can make it clear that you specifically don't want anything sexual to happen. Then meet up at a coffee shop, and if all goes well, move on from there. There are other safety measures you can take if you're paranoid, of course (i.e. telling a friend where you are and checking in regularly). Sure, it's a little awkward at first, but if you're a stripper, then I'm sure you can get the conversation going and make it feel natural. I usually start out with a bit of humor to break the ice of the awkwardness: "So I bet you do this thing all of the time, right? Meet strangers on craigslist looking for cuddle buddies?" A bit of red wine helps take the edge off, too. :)

You'd be amazed by how many people out there are starved for platonic but intimate touch and haven't had the opportunity to explore that. Once you take sexual expectations out of the picture, people relax and open up much faster. As a biromantic asexual who loves cuddling, I've done this a number of times when I've felt lonely or under-attended (sometimes my partner gets quite busy with work).

From your post, it sounds like you may be too picky for this method, but I thought I'd share anyway. :)

smeca
04-05-2014, 06:03 AM
I have been laid a total of three times in the span of more than a year. I just want to be spooned but I'm so damn picky it is ruining me.

I got a cuddle buddy off tinder! Honestly we cuddle more than have sex, there are spooners out there. He went with saying 'spooning partner urgenty required!', totally worked.

jadey23
04-05-2014, 04:38 PM
@charlie LOL that is the sweetest CL ad I have ever heard of. It doesn't sound like something I would normally do.. but if my dry-touch-spell goes on for much longer, I might just have to experiment.

@smeca ugh I have had the worst luck with Tinder... I've set up two dates through it and both flaked.. I think it's just my area that has crappy prospects

DonaDiabla
04-06-2014, 02:31 PM
My confession of the week: On facebook, some extremely right-wing chick wrote me a message about how she wanted to stop marriage fraud. Everyone knows that I want to get married for something other than romantic reasons. She found out that I would totally marry a foreigner for financial reasons.However, I was fearful at first but then I told that bitch off. No one will tell me how I should conduct my life. Plus who the fuck talks about marriage fraud on facebook! Ugh....some women should mind their own business! Also she wants to stop adult entertainment in the state of California...I dislike stupid women :)

Aslinn
04-06-2014, 08:07 PM
I really want to get out of my relationship. Quietly saving up money is taking so long and I hate being married. Its just one thing after another. Thank God im dancing because he cut me off. I get an allowence now, a whopping $145 every two weeks which is suppose to cover my gas,cell phone bill, and stuff I need that's for me (shampoo,tampons,ect.). Im not allowed to grocery shop anymore and he won't let me find a babysitter and get a day job. I just wish I came from money like him so I could ask my parents for help like he always does. I just want to hurry up and buy a car and a lawyer so I can get the fuck out. I regret ever meeting him.

Vackra
04-06-2014, 09:06 PM
^^ This is a terrible way for a husband to treat his wife. How does he cut you off, do you have to turn in your cash when you get home? I'm sorry you're going through this.

Aslinn
04-10-2014, 08:05 AM
^^ This is a terrible way for a husband to treat his wife. How does he cut you off, do you have to turn in your cash when you get home? I'm sorry you're going through this.


Its not your fault but thanks, and no he just changed all the banking passwords and gives me my allowence. He finally said yes to my day job but wants me to pay bills. Whatever its freedom.

Kellydancer
04-11-2014, 12:28 AM
I fucking hate men now so much. Between all the anti men posts in here and my dealings with men I really understand why so many women are choosing not to date. I just want to hurt some man just because he is a man. I won't do this but it's a fantasy.

ava$
04-11-2014, 02:23 AM
ugh, I dont even want my bf anymore, he is just an asshole and not shit, someone else pleeeeaaaase, take him!!!!!lbs. I used to love fucking him at night an now I am like ugh, nooooo

AlenaRoza
04-11-2014, 05:23 AM
My new boyfriend is too short. Hate that but I love him. I also kissed another guy the day before we made it "official". I'm also not capable of falling "in love". I can only find people I'm most compatible with and stay with them.

I started at a new club on wed. Huge, I really like it. But I got a little too drunk and fell in front of everyone like twice. I for one blame the very narrow steps, as I auditioned sober and still fell going up them.

LaurenAus
04-11-2014, 05:54 AM
wow the confession thread is on fire right now hahaa

wednesday86
04-12-2014, 05:20 AM
I think my husband has repressed hotwife/cuckold fantasies. If he isn't fighting with me about my job, he wants to fuck me and he can't keep his hands off me...Like way more than usual...Especially if I complain about a customer groping me. For some reason that seems to really turn him on. He gets really mad, then really horny. WTF? lol! I'm trying to decide if I should quit dancing for now since I can't find a club I like, but the sex when I come home is so damn good...

charlie61
04-12-2014, 09:25 AM
I think my husband has repressed hotwife/cuckold fantasies. If he isn't fighting with me about my job, he wants to fuck me and he can't keep his hands off me...Like way more than usual...Especially if I complain about a customer groping me. For some reason that seems to really turn him on. He gets really mad, then really horny. WTF? lol! I'm trying to decide if I should quit dancing for now since I can't find a club I like, but the sex when I come home is so damn good...

It sounds like he's conflicted between finding your job sexy (gorgeous stripper whom other men find highly desirable) and his core values (my wife shouldn't have to strip / stripping is dirty / whatever). Just my :twocents:

wednesday86
04-12-2014, 09:32 AM
It sounds like he's conflicted between finding your job sexy (gorgeous stripper whom other men find highly desirable) and his core values (my wife shouldn't have to strip / stripping is dirty / whatever). Just my :twocents:

You're probably right charlie. I was complaining about grabby customers and he was all "Well stop being so hot then!" *Pounce* haha. He's nuts..

Vackra
04-13-2014, 11:14 AM
I think my husband has repressed hotwife/cuckold fantasies. If he isn't fighting with me about my job, he wants to fuck me and he can't keep his hands off me...Like way more than usual...Especially if I complain about a customer groping me. For some reason that seems to really turn him on. He gets really mad, then really horny. WTF? lol! I'm trying to decide if I should quit dancing for now since I can't find a club I like, but the sex when I come home is so damn good...

My husband is 100% supportive, but all the sex is good for your work, trust me. I always tell my husband I need to be "blessed" before I go to work. I always make more if we have sex before I work.