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lynn2009
09-10-2014, 09:57 AM
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wednesday86
09-10-2014, 10:10 AM
I finally got the OK from the hubs to move!!! EEEEEE! I'm so, so relieved and excited. Now to pay off our credit card debt and start saving. :)
Aniela
09-10-2014, 10:15 AM
I have been so lazy abt working out, I am ashamed of myself. When I was still dancing I kept plenty fit, had to since I did so much polework & was able to since work practically doubles as a gym for me. But I put the pro in procrastinator. I stopped working out abt a month after moving home bc I was worried & stressed abt getting into the Navy, I thought it wouldn't happen. Now I have just been working out sporadically, but gotta get on it hardcore today & tomor bc I have PT on Fri
PinkiePie
09-10-2014, 10:27 AM
I'm supposed to be getting in shape for the winter season. What I'm actually doing is eating everything in sight, pretending I'm too ill to exercise, and telling myself I'll start tomorrow.
Aniela
09-10-2014, 10:49 AM
I'm supposed to be getting in shape for the winter season. What I'm actually doing is eating everything in sight, pretending I'm too ill to exercise, and telling myself I'll start tomorrow.
Hehe yep that's me, minus the pretending to be ill part :D I just keep finding things to do that suddenly seem critically important to finish NOW
I would be hard pressed to pop off an aerial shoulder mount right now. And fking upper body shit … my elbows pop loudly when I try to do pushups (any kind) & it makes me think I am doing smtg incorrectly even tho it's just tendinitis & not fixable. I have read up on this to make sure I am doing the exercises correctly & pretty sure I am, but the sound & sensation still makes me nervous & not want to do them. My hip also pops loudly when I do crunches & leg lifts, like 'hear it across the room' loud according to my bf. I get nervous thinking the recruiters or whoever will hear it during PT & decide I am not medically fit & kick me out :/
kaninchen
09-10-2014, 01:16 PM
^ Pretty much everybody who has been in the military for a few years has a noisy skeleton. I would be extremely surprised if your recruiters cared about your popping joints, if they can even hear yours above the sound of their own! Disqualifying medical issues are big issues like scoliosis, fatal allergies, epilepsy, etc. So chill out, recruit. :)
Physical fitness is weird. When I was in the Army I could bust out 55 push-ups for my PT test, no problem. But I struggled to do a single pull-up. After dancing, my upper body looks soooo much more muscular and toned, but now I max out push-ups at like, 15!!! while somehow having the strength for 5 or more pull-ups. Plus the last time I went shooting I could barely fire an AR-15 standing. I don't get it!
MyButter
09-10-2014, 02:11 PM
Disqualifying medical issues are big issues like scoliosis
I'm *still* so upset about this, lol. Tried to join in senior year, but my scoliosis wasn't within acceptable range, arrghhh!
I hope you enjoy your military career, Aniela!
wednesday86
09-10-2014, 02:36 PM
My mother in law got back from the Philippines today and immediately forced me to eat some dried mangos. I love listening to my in laws talk to each other in Tagalog. I have no idea what they're saying but it sounds so pretty.
charlie61
09-10-2014, 08:24 PM
It took half of a nervous breakdown for me to realize that I should be on a completely different path, career-wise. Thank you, SW, for giving me a place to vent! Whew.
misssincere
09-11-2014, 02:48 AM
After a year and a half or so of recreational Xanax use and mental breakdowns occasionally, it took my last one to make me realize I have to go in so they can diagnose me as bipolar... It's been a suspicion in my family for awhile and I'm just now coming to terms with it.
lol1337a
09-11-2014, 03:29 AM
If you are bipolar don't worry, it's easy to manage. Just be careful about atypical antipsychotics -- they can cause a lot of weight gain. A lot of people say Lamictal is a miracle for bipolar depression and anxiety and it shouldn't affect weight.
But just using benzos can lead to some awful funks in itself. Maybe this is what's causing you to think you're bipolar? Definitely see a Dr though. It's tough to find one who respects that you don't want to gain weight for professional reasons, but they're out there.
audrey_k
09-11-2014, 09:26 AM
^whatever you don't take Seroquel... my doctor put me on it for sleep but I knew a lot of people that were put on it for being bipolar when I was at rehab a long time ago. I was on 200mg and it's taken me yeeeears to taper down on it, as of now I'm on 25mg, I get the WORST withdrawal symptoms from it, like can't get out of bed because of hot flashes and nausea. And it besides knocking me out-- a couple years ago an ex of mine had canceled plans on me one night, a couple weeks later after I took my Seroquel I was just wandering around the room and then I saw two tickets to a romantic comedy for the night he had canceled, I started yelling at him about how he must be cheating on me because why else would you go to romantic comedy, and in the middle of my yelling at him I literally just fell over as it had just hit me, he freaked out and started shaking me asking if I was OK and I told him to fuck off I was tired-- not gaining weight on that shit has been SUCH a challenge, because after you take it it make you so fucking hungry and tired so you aren't really thinking straight when you go back for that 4th bowl of cereal! And these were at LOW levels, 200 mg is like half of what you would take if you were taking it for bipolar disorder.
My confession; my sex drive has come back and I'm seeing my guy today but I knew it would be really bad if I were to sleep with him because I'm not nearly healed, so I stopped taking my birth control so I would get my period. Yep, that's how much self control I have.
MyButter
09-11-2014, 10:53 AM
RIP Wild Alaskan spammers. I thought they were never going to throw in the towel, lol.
misssincere
09-11-2014, 03:30 PM
Well my moms convinced I have an anxiety disorder as well as bipolar. I had slowed down on the Xanax because it doesn't mix well with alcohol and I like to have a few drinks at work. I just have to find a primary care doctor and go from there. But I'll make sure to stay away from seroquel lol
audrey_k
09-11-2014, 03:51 PM
I think I have become REALLY fucked up in regards to sex since I started escorting... I like escorting but I'm doing sexual things in my personal life that I don't really understand why I'm doing them and I feel like they aren't good for me and I didn't used to do them before.
I really need to have a session with my therapist...
simone87
09-11-2014, 10:54 PM
i now only get dances from black and hispanic guys, which is fine, but my club is more of an "older white collar dude, young white college kids" kind of place. its such a dramatic 180 from where i was last year, i've lost *almost* all my regulars because my body type is so different now, its kind of making my head spin. i now have to gather my lady balls and go try different clubs, but i know that i'll just keep saying that and stay at my old club because i'm a total wimp and the thought of going to the urban club i used to work at is already giving me anxiety
ScarletKitten
09-12-2014, 05:54 AM
Well my moms convinced I have an anxiety disorder as well as bipolar. I had slowed down on the Xanax because it doesn't mix well with alcohol and I like to have a few drinks at work. I just have to find a primary care doctor and go from there. But I'll make sure to stay away from seroquel lol
I have anxiety disorders as well as bipolar disorder, and weed is the only thing that keeps it all in check! Stay away from pharmaceuticals! Toke up instead baby ;)
wednesday86
09-12-2014, 09:57 AM
I hate white boys. I know it's weird to be racist against my own race, and unfair to "generalize" people...but I'm sorry. 89% of the white boys I meet fall into one of 3 or 4 categories and they're all the same and WHY the fuck must they all have beards? Now they all look like my dad and it's even harder to tell them apart. I guess I'm just pissy because one of them said something racist about Asian men to me last night before I revealed that I'm married to an Asian guy. Sorry white boys. Don't assume that just because I'm a pretty white girl that I'm into your kind. You're hairy, fat and predictable. And after being with a few white boys and Asian guys, please don't think your penis is anything special. My husband's is probably bigger than yours.
fishielicious
09-12-2014, 10:06 AM
I guess I'm just pissy because one of them said something racist about Asian men to me last night before I revealed that I'm married to an Asian guy. Sorry white boys. Don't assume that just because I'm a pretty white girl that I'm into your kind. You're hairy, fat and predictable.
Not gonna lie, I love me some hairy, bearded white dudes (I have a thing for bikers what can I say?) but UGH at them making racist comments to you just because you're also white, like that makes it okay. In a vanilla job a long time ago one of my coworkers started saying all these hateful things to me about Indian men. I loved the look on his face when I told him that my boyfriend at the time was Indian.
I've also heard a ton of racist shit said in the club. Aside from guys insulting other dancers to me (calling them too "ghetto" or other more explicit insults), I actually had one guy drop the n-bomb to me like it was nothing. And when I looked clearly horrified he was like, "Oh, don't worry, no one else heard," as though that's why I was upset.
^^yea I hate when people think its ok to say the n bomb to me just cause I am white. This girl the other night comes up to me n is like" there sure are a lot of N*****s in here" I was just stunned like who is still this racist, its 2014. She even walked out of the club broke cause she wouldn't even talk to any of them. I think its so close minded and if you want to get anywhere in this world you cannot be racist, I mean all $$ is green.. I don't care as long as you spend $$ on me and respect my boundaries, I don't care what color you are.
audrey_k
09-12-2014, 12:54 PM
^I don't either, but I will confess that I am hesitant to talk to certain ethnicities... I usually stay away from blacks and Mexicans just because I've had a LOT of bad experiences, and also black guys usually have no interest in me whatever. I mean, if there was no one but black guys in a club I certainly wouldn't refuse to speak to them nor would I call them niggers, but if there's a black guy and a white guy, I'm usually gonna go with the white guy. It's not race, it's money.
misssincere
09-12-2014, 01:06 PM
To be honest I'm black and have only made decent money off of a black dude maybe twice. Most that come in my home club are either broke with only $20 for a dance, other are pimps either looking at everyone or just preying on white girls.
But besides that i had another break down last night. I think they stem from the environment I'm in. My home club is no longer my home club. If anyone ever visits take notes. club is a joke. Prostitutes and shady ass management run the club. How many other clubs have u been to where a customer runs a 10,000 bill atleast 4 times? For only certain girls. Certain girls are fucking management. Just over it.
kaninchen
09-12-2014, 01:10 PM
^ Well, there's a huge difference between avoiding certain customers out of prejudice and avoiding them out of good business sense because they aren't your target demographic.
Like, I usually stay away from young Latinos because in general they only like to talk about smoking weed and drinking, which is super boring. But I love older Latinos because they looove to talk about the businesses they own, the books they read, etc. Plus I find that a lot of them are self-made entrepreneurs who really get the hustle and tip well, unlike a lot of older white guys who can be more entitled.
And I have no idea WTF is up with racists being all cozy about their nasty hate just because they're talking to another white person. One of my clubs has a $$$ regular that I just cannot deal with-- every time I see him he has to talk shit about POC using all kinds of slurs. Ugh, STFU loser!
wednesday86
09-12-2014, 01:12 PM
Poorer blacks and Mexicans don't usually spend on me, but I think it's more of a class thing than racial issue. I've had professional/educated black (as well as every other race) men in my club spend a lot on me. Just last week a black physical therapist (super handsome too) spent a good $100 or so on me. I work in a more upscale club now which attracts more of that type. I do not do well in dives with lower class clientele.
fishielicious
09-12-2014, 01:14 PM
I'm sure it must be different everywhere, but I even though I hear people say they avoid black and Mexican men a lot, I've actually had great experiences with black and Mexican customers. Just as a consequence of where I'm located, if I ignored Mexican men I would just be sitting on my ass all day. Most of my best customers are Mexican. The hands down most generous guy who comes into the club is. I have sometimes been more hesitant to go up to black men because as a little white girl (I mean, I think I have a nice booty for a white girl, but it's definitely not a big bubble butt) I don't think I'll be what they're interested in. But I've been surprised by the number of them who actually have been really into me once I sucked it up and went over to them.
Like I said, I'm sure it's way different everywhere, and I wouldn't blame anyone for following the money. I, personally, have a lot of success with Mexican men in particular. They, along with old white businessmen, compose the biggest demographics among my customers.
misssincere
09-12-2014, 01:14 PM
^^^^ some ppl are really vocal. Its a tough thing to deal with and has been the main cause of me wanting to quit dancing altogether many times.
misssincere
09-12-2014, 01:19 PM
I'm sure it must be different everywhere, but I even though I hear people say they avoid black and Mexican men a lot, I've actually had great experiences with black and Mexican customers. Just as a consequence of where I'm located, if I ignored Mexican men I would just be sitting on my ass all day. Most of my best customers are Mexican. The hands down most generous guy who comes into the club is. I have sometimes been more hesitant to go up to black men because as a little white girl (I mean, I think I have a nice booty for a white girl, but it's definitely not a big bubble butt) I don't think I'll be what they're interested in. But I've been surprised by the number of them who actually have been really into me once I sucked it up and went over to them.
Like I said, I'm sure it's way different everywhere, and I wouldn't blame anyone for following the money. I, personally, have a lot of success with Mexican men in particular. They, along with old white businessmen, compose the biggest demographics among my customers.
Maybe it's because of where I'm located but most of the black men loved white girls opposed to black girls. I actually got turned down because of it last night.
simone87
09-12-2014, 01:22 PM
i honestly can't stand twerpy white boys anymore, and they don't like me so it works out! i stay far away from them unless they come up to me. i've never had a bad experience with a black man
fishielicious
09-12-2014, 01:33 PM
i honestly can't stand twerpy white boys anymore, and they don't like me so it works out! i stay far away from them unless they come up to me. i've never had a bad experience with a black man I have always had trouble getting young white guys to buy more than a dance or two from me at a time. Old white guys are my bread and butter, but young white guys always seem like they desperately need to prove something. Usually they seem desperate to prove they're smarter than me or that they could totally be getting some pussy somewhere else if they wanted to right now but they're in the club ~ironically or something, and they don't like me when I'm not willing to feed into their delusions. The young black guys I've dealt with, on the other hand, are usually just there to drink and get dances and have a good time without this giant chip on their shoulders.
charlie61
09-12-2014, 01:52 PM
Back to confessions! Feel free to start a thread on this topic if you'd like to keep discussing it! :)
audrey_k
09-12-2014, 03:28 PM
^ Well, there's a huge difference between avoiding certain customers out of prejudice and avoiding them out of good business sense because they aren't your target demographic.
Like, I usually stay away from young Latinos because in general they only like to talk about smoking weed and drinking, which is super boring. But I love older Latinos because they looove to talk about the businesses they own, the books they read, etc. Plus I find that a lot of them are self-made entrepreneurs who really get the hustle and tip well, unlike a lot of older white guys who can be more entitled.
And I have no idea WTF is up with racists being all cozy about their nasty hate just because they're talking to another white person. One of my clubs has a $$$ regular that I just cannot deal with-- every time I see him he has to talk shit about POC using all kinds of slurs. Ugh, STFU loser!
I'm not sure where you are, but location may have something to do with it... black guys don't like me any more here than they did in LA, but they do seem to be a bit more respectful in SCs here. Haven't deal with any Mexicans. Back in LA my bad experiences with black guys was usually because they were SUPER fucking grabby, it was like they were getting off on putting a white girl down and showing her who was in charge, and ripping me off-- claiming we hadn't done songs we had, slipping ones in with twenties, giving me fake money, etc. With Mexicans they would always pay and they were 50/50 as far as being horribly grabby and wanting to suck my tits and and then being very respectful... but either way, they almost always bought two dances with these crumpled up 2 50 dollar bills, or 1 one hundred bill, that was clearly like, ALL the money they had for the week, and and wanted the $20 back in change. Respectful or not, just not worth my time.
I love South Americans though, Brazilians are just beautiful people and always loved to spend, Argentineans, Guatemalans, Peruvians...
SamanthaSugar
09-12-2014, 11:34 PM
I miss my ex so much! I miss his kisses, his smell, his handsome face, his big muscles and his big penis. Even though I left and blocked his number I just want to unblock it and text him saying how much I miss him but I'm afraid of what his reply may be. If he told me that he's seeing someone else that would devistate me so it's better for me not to know but I think about doing it every single day.
lovelydancer
09-13-2014, 01:12 AM
I think the bouncer at my club is cute. Not only is he cute, but funny as hell. I love my boyfriend (who is super hot, smart, funny, etc) and would never cheat on him or leave him, it just makes work easier when a nice piece of eye candy works at the club. I don't act inappropriate or flirty with him, as I know his GF and she frequents the club quite often. I'm probably going to hell for not only thinking this, but for admitting it. Dammit for him and his smolder.
lol1337a
09-13-2014, 02:26 AM
I have anxiety disorders as well as bipolar disorder, and weed is the only thing that keeps it all in check! Stay away from pharmaceuticals! Toke up instead baby ;)
Try it but stop if it makes you feel happier than you've ever felt with epiphany after epiphany. That happens to me if I smoke while manic. But depressed, fuck yeah pass that shit.
lol1337a
09-13-2014, 03:56 AM
Confession: Well, kinda a confession since I don't want to leave the topic of racial profiling in clubs, but definitely a confession since I kept this precious hustle secret every time I read a relevant thread because it involved rare magic at my last club.
While all my coworkers antagonized or ignored Indian guys at this club, I had a cult following. Indian customers play cheap and get grabby like everyone says at first, but when I learned to make them respect me as a human, they became my favorite customers hands down. When they would act up during floor dances, I would bop them on the nose like a bad dog, tell them to treat me how their mothers would want them to treat a lady, and ask for a "real" date outside the club noise alone in VIP so we could get to know each other. It worked almost every time if the guy had money.
VIPs mostly consisted of them telling me how they would treat me like a queen after our marriage. Elaborate meal plans since I always say how much I love Indian food, my first trip to India to meet family and see their world, the best aspects of their culture, all while cuddling with clothes on.
They're the sweetest customers when you know to switch to being a real, strong, intelligent woman they can respect and become infatuated with. Not a stripper who's just bad at her job (AKA, not allowing contact and demanding payment anyway-- we're whores in India FYI).
I cherished those customers. My favorite ever was a young software engineer who worked for Google and had recently gotten an amazing promotion. He dropped over 5 grand just to snuggle and chat and indulge my drink requests all night. We used Hindi pet names. It would have been the best date ever if I were actually attracted to him. But both of us knew we were just roleplaying.
I hope someone benefits from this angle and profits after getting VIPs with Indian (or perhaps Middle Eastern) customers.
PS -- they like to grab your belly and are more likely to want to lick your armpits than white cohorts.
Kellydancer
09-13-2014, 10:30 AM
The only black men who loved me were older professional blacks. They had money and were great. I was never crazy about young white guys, young guys of any race even when we were the same age. In the clubs I always went for the older men, the unattractive men etc. Oddly, in real life these are the men who contacted me on dating sites and repulsed me in real life but in the clubs spent money on me.
In real life dating sucks bad. Right now I feel so bad because the guy I like (Mexican/Italian)is not chasing me. We are friends so I use that as an excuse to call him but I really want to date him. I really want him to be my boyfriend and don't know how to do that. I keep hoping in time he decides to do this. Strangely, he often treats me like a girlfriend and acts like he is interested but then he backs away (and no I don't push him). I thought of being more aggressive but that would scare him probably. He is very shy and warming up to me (I don't think he has a lot of dating experience)so I take is slowly by suggesting casual things. I invited him to my dad's birthday and he came and he invited me to his mom's birthday and I also attended.
This is the bad thing about dating later in life, you run into these men. People tell me to move on, but where would I find another man like him? I've mentioned him a lot because I really like him but admit I am confused on him because I have no problem attracting men, I just have a problem getting him to ask me out or at least tell me he will never ask me out.
I've considered going out on dates with men I am not interested in just to show him. I've also considered dating men I have no interest in with the idea of them buying me gifts. A relative once said it's better to find a guy you aren't interested in but is about you because they will do anything for you.
I'm also seriously considering taking this hot younger guy on his offer for sex. While wait forever for sex?
SweetJulia
09-13-2014, 10:40 AM
I confess that I'm exhausted from working.
wednesday86
09-13-2014, 11:27 AM
@lol1337a. I also like Indian customers and they like me! Some of them can be handsy but they're easy to tame. Most of the ones I've met are actually really sweet.
Confession: I had an Indian customer last weekend and he was actually kinda hot...He smelled really good, was well dressed but a little geeky (which I love). I think I enjoyed our LD's a little too much, and then I went back and talked to him for like 20 minutes just because he was fun and smart. I had a little crush on him for a minute...Don't tell my husband!! :o
DonaDiabla
09-13-2014, 01:31 PM
Confession: My second life clients are spending more money yet are getting more demanding. Now, every one of my avatars is getting appointments back to back.However, it is my own fault for catering to sickos for high prices. I mean should I do snuff fetishes...nope. Should I charged a lot for them....yes :)
kaninchen
09-13-2014, 01:41 PM
I think this August/September has been the laziest, least productive time of my entire life. My tan is on point and I have a fat stack of savings that I worked hard for though so I'm like:
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Just, like, fuck everything right now. Whatever. I'll go back to being an overachieving perfectionist workaholic top earner when school starts but until then I'm just fucking kicking it.
MyButter
09-13-2014, 04:00 PM
I got mad and complained to the manager at a resturant today, and I feel like such an asshole.
misssincere
09-13-2014, 08:10 PM
I confess that some of the girls on this forum are literally life savers when it comes to giving advice. I don't plan on dancing for much longer, but I am 21 and trying to make something out of dancing while I'm doing it. Some nights I want to quit but I can log on, read a few posts from you ladies and get back into the spirit. So THANKYOU !
Aurora_Sunset
09-13-2014, 09:12 PM
This random dude friended me on facebook a few months ago. He's a dom in a master/slave poly relationship with a wife, girlfriend, and 2 kids - one on the way from the girlfriend. NONE of them, especially him, are attractive. Him and his wife hit on me via facebook messenger ALL the time and are convinced that they're "seducing" me because I'm "such a sub" who is going "weak in the knees" from their perverted advances. I literally only keep talking to them occasionally because I find it fascinating just how wrong someone can be about another person while being SO COCKY about how they think they're reading me perfectly. They're so full of themselves that they're not only cocky about it, but make comments basically telling me how they think they're so good at this "game" of winning me over.
I can seriously flat-out say "No, you're wrong" at this point, and they don't believe me because they think they're such hot shit. It's so wrong to even keep up this communication, but it's so damn amusing.
Kellydancer
09-13-2014, 09:37 PM
Aurora, ew. I've been getting a lot of freaks on Facebook lately. I've had guys from dating sites try to friend me and they are ugly. It's bad enough they contacted me on dating sites, now they try on Facebook. Online dating made me so depressed because the ugliest, oldest, most uneducated men were contacting me. I'd rather be single than date those losers.
wednesday86
09-14-2014, 09:17 AM
Aurora what's up with that? It seems like every weird, kinky "open relationship" couple I've ever met, or seen on TV, or seen come into the SC are almost always fugly! Sorry if that's mean but no....I do not want to be in your love triangle. Y'all are not cute.
Kellydancer
09-14-2014, 09:26 AM
Aurora what's up with that? It seems like every weird, kinky "open relationship" couple I've ever met, or seen on TV, or seen come into the SC are almost always fugly! Sorry if that's mean but no....I do not want to be in your love triangle. Y'all are not cute.
I used to get it all the time on Yahoo personals. If I was going to be into that both partners better be hot.
simone87
09-14-2014, 10:59 AM
anytime i was ever invited to do a 3some, it was always with unattractive people..and i'm not some snooty person who would only consider it with a couple who was a 10..i mean like 100 pounds overweight, crossed eyed, bag hygiene. literally. ughhh
Kellydancer
09-14-2014, 11:22 AM
I'll never forget this one couple who approached me in person at a club. Ugh, gross, repulsive especially the man. I'm not a snob and have dated and slept with average men but these couples were disgusting.
fishielicious
09-14-2014, 11:57 AM
Haha that is so true about creepy/ugly people trying to invite you into threesomes. Before I was a dancer, I was out at a bar watching a friend's band play. This smelly, very unappealing dude came up to me and, pointing at his equally unappealing girlfriend (standing at a distance), said, "My girlfriend thinks you're really sexy," and proceeded to tell me how she really wanted to tell me that but was too shy and he thought I was hot, too, etc. etc. I was so naive I just thought they were being nice (if really weird) and was like, "Oh, thanks! Tell her I said thanks!" I couldn't get rid of him though and finally grabbed a male friend and went outside. It wasn't until I described it to my male friend that he was like, "Uh, they were trying to get you to have a threesome with them."
Another time in my club, I had just gotten off work and was in my street clothes. I was waiting for my friend to pick me up, so I was standing at the front of the club on my phone when this older, kind of crazy-eyed lady comes up to me and said she liked my outfit (which was basic shorts and tank top). I said thanks and a bit later, still waiting for my ride, I started teasing one of my waitress friends, pretending (in a really exaggerated, obviously jokey way) to give her a lapdance (which, yeah, maybe I shouldn't have been doing, especially in street clothes). This guy comes up behind me while I'm still halfway on top of my friend and hands me a business card, saying, "That was the best lapdance I've seen all night; my wife wants you to join us in our hotel suite" and told me about all the booze they had and all the fun we could have together. And the business card he gave me was for a grilled cheese food truck lmao. They clearly thought I was just some drunk civilian slut (especially because that was definitely the worst lapdance ever) they could take advantage of. It still cracks me up they tried to bribe me into a threesome with booze. I don't think so.
So yeah, the only hetero couples who have ever come up to me wanting threesomes have been really creepy and unattractive. As a consequence, the only threesome I've ever had was with two other hot girls. ;)
Kellydancer
09-14-2014, 12:22 PM
To be honest I'm not into group sex but years ago did have a foursome with a FWB and another couple. They were attractive (Puerto Rican I believe)but yeah the couples who approached me online and offline were all yucky. I guess it's a good thing I'm only into one on one sex (though most of the men who approach me are yucky also).