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michele11
11-08-2014, 04:31 PM
Vets are money hungry! I see it now that I had to take my kitten for all his shots and stuff. I've had Persians all my life but it had been about 12 years since I went to a vet on the frequent. I paid 60 to have him fip and feline lk tested when I got him at 3 months. I took him to a different vet( who was ridiculous expensive because they only see cats) and they wanted me to test him again for 80. He also had tapeworm and they charged me 40 to bring back a poop sample( I haven't yet because I broke my wrist). I know only the ones at vets get rid of worms too but I like advatage. Frontline never worked for my last persian and none of my cats go outside.

ava$
11-08-2014, 04:35 PM
Last night I literally had to sit in the bathroom for an hour. I just had got there and took a drink or 2 and suddenly felt uncontrollably drunk like I couldn't balance or even hold my head up. The bathroom mom was like um are you ok you been in there for 40 mins. IDK if someone put something in my drink or what but I had drank before I got there also so idk. I never do that tho, I always can handle my liquor. ANyways after about an hour I continued my night and did pretty well. Weird tho, hope this doesn't ever happen to me again.

michele11
11-08-2014, 04:58 PM
I have some homework to do, but not in the mood, the fact that I had to go out on my day off annoyed me so Im just gona binge on crap tv, might catch up on Teen MoM .

Yessss. Come here so we can eat junk together and watch reality TV.

michele11
11-08-2014, 05:01 PM
Last night I literally had to sit in the bathroom for an hour. I just had got there and took a drink or 2 and suddenly felt uncontrollably drunk like I couldn't balance or even hold my head up. The bathroom mom was like um are you ok you been in there for 40 mins. IDK if someone put something in my drink or what but I had drank before I got there also so idk. I never do that tho, I always can handle my liquor. ANyways after about an hour I continued my night and did pretty well. Weird tho, hope this doesn't ever happen to me again.

Did you eat or take any meds you usually don't? I remember I took a allergy pill the day I flew in to Manhattan and I got so fucked up on a few drinks I went and sat in the back and called( another stripperwebber) to come get me. How embarrassing. Nice first impression.

michele11
11-08-2014, 05:07 PM
My neighbor wanted me to go to a wrestling thing tonight. I feel bad because she's from Poland ( and doesn't have a lot of friends here). Her husband and just got divorced( I'm so mad she gave him the house!) But, I couldn't go. I have such severe depression unless it's going to work I never go anywhere. Unless sometimes when I travel. My sister puts pics on facebook of her and my mom out eating, shopping and I say something and she gets all mad and says I never wanna fucking go anywhere anyway. Yes, that's what depression does. I'm wasting my life away. Oh god my ex is calling! I'm going to get snacks!

michele11
11-08-2014, 05:30 PM
My fucken ex is so stupid! I regret every time I pick up to him. He's saying I should hook up with my neighbors husband ( because he asked why they got divorced) and I said he has depression and never did anything with her and he son. So I hung up and he calls back and I give him another chance to be normal and he says maybe that's why they broke up because I was fucking him! So I hung up again. He just text me " omg the truth". Then, " tell me I'm wrong'. Why can't he just be normal. Then he kept saying I'm coming there and I ignored him ad just kept talking about my cat and stuff and he mumbles " yeah that says it all. He's fucking texting again. omg he's saying she probably wants me to go out with her so she can comfort me?!? Wtf and you you don't wanna go because you know it why else would you bring it up to me. I can't tell him our neighbors got divorced( he use to sy she was hot and wanted to fuck her, when they first moved in). He's wack. He texted me yeaterday about how he had to train a client early but I probably don't wanna drinl later. Obviously it was for someone else( he lives in Conn) I didn't say anything about that. Were not together. He needs to get with my weirdo sister!

simone87
11-09-2014, 12:13 AM
. had this old guy tell me how cute and wholesome i looked, and how much i reminded him of this girl he used to BABYSIT. what the fuck?? creeptastic. and then in the same breath talked about this other dancer who came up and asked him if he had an erection and how hot her dances were. "but i could never imagine something like that coming out of your mouth". yeah me neither pal, it makes me cringe talking to perfect strangers about the state of their private parts. i mean is that what it takes to make money in my club now?? to me that's gross and uncomfortable. i'm feeling kind of hopeless about the money in my club and stripping in general if that's what i need to do..because all the top earners do, and more.

Nina_
11-09-2014, 07:49 AM
So there's this really trashy girl whom I barely even know but she's obviously a hater because several months ago she was talking hella shit about me being a stripper and how "nasty" it is (because she knows I'm also a college student and I'm not slutty, she had no other leg to stand on but to talk shit about my dancing, whereas she has no job and I'm pretty sure she didn't even finish high school). So last night I was looking up random people's mugshots and found several of hers. Not only is she currently on probation in one state for stealing & using other people's credit cards and having a fake ID to back it up, but she was also arrested in 2012 served jail time for soliciting and prostitution! But she wants to call me a ho for taking my clothes off when she was literally a street walking prostitute. I had heard rumors about her doing that, but I didn't know she was actually arrested for it! Gave me such a laugh.
;D

wednesday86
11-09-2014, 10:06 AM
So there's this really trashy girl whom I barely even know but she's obviously a hater because several months ago she was talking hella shit about me being a stripper and how "nasty" it is (because she knows I'm also a college student and I'm not slutty, she had no other leg to stand on but to talk shit about my dancing, whereas she has no job and I'm pretty sure she didn't even finish high school). So last night I was looking up random people's mugshots and found several of hers. Not only is she currently on probation in one state for stealing & using other people's credit cards and having a fake ID to back it up, but she was also arrested in 2012 served jail time for soliciting and prostitution! But she wants to call me a ho for taking my clothes off when she was literally a street walking prostitute. I had heard rumors about her doing that, but I didn't know she was actually arrested for it! Gave me such a laugh.
;D

Haha it's always the truly nasty girls that call us "nasty." Like my husband's ex (who is still friends with some of my friends) used to say that about me all the time because I'm a dancer. Meanwhile she works fast food and now has 3 kids by 3 different dads. She doesn't even know who the father of her last kid is. But I'm the nasty one...Okay haha

audrey_k
11-10-2014, 08:53 AM
Sorry guys this is a long one... I hate my boyfriend's mother and my boyfriend a little bit right now.

I am so upset right now. I'm supposed to be moving in with my boyfriend this weekend, I've already dealt with the trainload of shit that came from giving my landlord notice, and 70% of shit is packed. My bf's parents are pretty wealthy and right now he's renting one of their properties while he's house hunting (we're looking to move in the summer).

I find out today that his mum has decided my cat cannot come and live at the flat so I am going to have to find him a home to go to this week since I won't put him in a shelter. Just writing this is making me cry again.

I have become so attached to this cat I feel like I'm never going to forgive his mum for this or him for not even arguing with her. The thought of having to sit across from her at lunch just makes my blood boil.

He has never had a pet and doesn't understand how upset I am. People that don't like animals just don't get it. He told me "the first thing we'll do when we move in the summer is get a new cat." I don't want a new cat, I want my fucking cat! I don't think I could even look at a new cat.

I feel like I'm giving up my job, (although that one I'm perfectly OK with) my apartment, and now my cat for this man-- and like most things I love him enough that I would chose him over it, but that doesn't mean I'm not going to fucking resent you like hell for it. Choosing a cat over my boyfriend seems insane, but the levels to which I am attached to my cat ARE insane.

Selina M
11-10-2014, 10:11 AM
^^ I would totally choose my dog/cat/horse over a guy, and in fact 2 of my exes being afraid of horses was kind of a deal breaker for me. It's not insane. The cat will never wake up and decide he doesn't love you anymore.

I'm guessing you don't feel comfortable enough with the mom yet to argue? Because it's not like this is early in the process, that was really shitty of her to wait until now to decide that.

lynn2009
11-10-2014, 10:24 AM
I would choose a companion animal over a boyfriend too. As far as the apartment situation for I would fight back with his mom a little. Did they know about him before this? Giving you a weeks notice is pretty shitty of them.

michele11
11-10-2014, 10:24 AM
Sorry guys this is a long one... I hate my boyfriend's mother and my boyfriend a little bit right now.

I am so upset right now. I'm supposed to be moving in with my boyfriend this weekend, I've already dealt with the trainload of shit that came from giving my landlord notice, and 70% of shit is packed. My bf's parents are pretty wealthy and right now he's renting one of their properties while he's house hunting (we're looking to move in the summer).

I find out today that his mum has decided my cat cannot come and live at the flat so I am going to have to find him a home to go to this week since I won't put him in a shelter. Just writing this is making me cry again.

I have become so attached to this cat I feel like I'm never going to forgive his mum for this or him for not even arguing with her. The thought of having to sit across from her at lunch just makes my blood boil.

He has never had a pet and doesn't understand how upset I am. People that don't like animals just don't get it. He told me "the first thing we'll do when we move in the summer is get a new cat." I don't want a new cat, I want my fucking cat! I don't think I could even look at a new cat.

I feel like I'm giving up my job, (although that one I'm perfectly OK with) my apartment, and now my cat for this man-- and like most things I love him enough that I would chose him over it, but that doesn't mean I'm not going to fucking resent you like hell for it. Choosing a cat over my boyfriend seems insane, but the levels to which I am attached to my cat ARE insane.

Would he let you just sneak it and hide it if his mom comes? Do you have a friend that can watch him until you move so you can visit and get him back after? You got your kitty when I got mine and yeah I couldn't do that! I know how you feel.

michele11
11-10-2014, 10:27 AM
^^ I would totally choose my dog/cat/horse over a guy, and in fact 2 of my exes being afraid of horses was kind of a deal breaker for me. It's not insane. The cat will never wake up and decide he doesn't love you anymore.

I'm guessing you don't feel comfortable enough with the mom yet to argue? Because it's not like this is early in the process, that was really shitty of her to wait until now to decide that.

I don't know why people are so weird about cats. Their clean and go in a box and if their adults they don't cause damage. I have rentals and I don't allow pets but if someone had an inside cat I'd probably let them if it was a good cat. I'd rather have that than smokers in my property.

Kellydancer
11-10-2014, 10:33 AM
Audrey, that is a bad sign. I once dated a man who wanted me to get rid of my cat so I got rid of the man. Men that do that will expect you to give up more.

wednesday86
11-10-2014, 10:45 AM
Audrey, I would be mostly concerned about the fact that he won't stand up to his mother/his mother seems to still have a hold on him. I wouldn't choose a cat over a serious relationship, but HE should deal with this and either stand up to her or find someone to take care of the cat until you move.

ava$
11-10-2014, 10:52 AM
Did you eat or take any meds you usually don't? I remember I took a allergy pill the day I flew in to Manhattan and I got so fucked up on a few drinks I went and sat in the back and called( another stripperwebber) to come get me. How embarrassing. Nice first impression.
I took a little small piece of adderal right before going in but as you know Ive been on it since I was 13 for my ADD so I tolerate it well and Ive done that before working before to keep me up all night, all it usually does is make me more alert, not more drunk.. IDK wtf happened but it was scary, I even cried a lil bit cause the bathroom mom made me sit out where she could see me and it was embarrassing, I didn't want any of the girls to see me like that so I ran back in the stall.lol. Maybe I drank more than I thought is the only thing I can come up with cause if someone puts something in your drink don't you get really sick like all night?

ava$
11-10-2014, 10:55 AM
Did you eat or take any meds you usually don't? I remember I took a allergy pill the day I flew in to Manhattan and I got so fucked up on a few drinks I went and sat in the back and called( another stripperwebber) to come get me. How embarrassing. Nice first impression.
I took a little small piece of adderal right before going in but as you know Ive been on it since I was 13 for my ADD so I tolerate it well and Ive done that before working before to keep me up all night, all it usually does is make me more alert, not more drunk.. IDK wtf happened but it was scary, I even cried a lil bit cause the bathroom mom made me sit out where she could see me and it was embarrassing, I didn't want any of the girls to see me like that so I ran back in the stall.lol. Maybe I drank more than I thought is the only thing I can come up with cause if someone puts something in your drink don't you get really sick like all night?

whirlerz
11-10-2014, 10:57 AM
Awww. I don't have a pet now, but I know how much I loved my bunny..(they're similar to cats, litter or paper trained). I could NOT be w/o her..I wd get another but my sitch isn't stable right now.
Yea. I agree w/everyone, he sounds like he has to put her 1st. I can see caring about your Mom, but it doesn't seem right.

Me: I am so happy I found some canned stuffed grape leaves. Was dreading going shopping, I am still sick.

Aniela
11-10-2014, 10:57 AM
Sorry guys this is a long one... I hate my boyfriend's mother and my boyfriend a little bit right now.

I am so upset right now. I'm supposed to be moving in with my boyfriend this weekend, I've already dealt with the trainload of shit that came from giving my landlord notice, and 70% of shit is packed. My bf's parents are pretty wealthy and right now he's renting one of their properties while he's house hunting (we're looking to move in the summer).

I find out today that his mum has decided my cat cannot come and live at the flat so I am going to have to find him a home to go to this week since I won't put him in a shelter. Just writing this is making me cry again.

I have become so attached to this cat I feel like I'm never going to forgive his mum for this or him for not even arguing with her. The thought of having to sit across from her at lunch just makes my blood boil.

He has never had a pet and doesn't understand how upset I am. People that don't like animals just don't get it. He told me "the first thing we'll do when we move in the summer is get a new cat." I don't want a new cat, I want my fucking cat! I don't think I could even look at a new cat.

I feel like I'm giving up my job, (although that one I'm perfectly OK with) my apartment, and now my cat for this man-- and like most things I love him enough that I would chose him over it, but that doesn't mean I'm not going to fucking resent you like hell for it. Choosing a cat over my boyfriend seems insane, but the levels to which I am attached to my cat ARE insane.

This cat has become like your child, & I will tell you from personal exp -- DO NOT EVER take your child for granted to the point where you would choose a romantic relationship over them. I won't get too detailed here but I essentially did just that -- my parents decided his failing health wasn't important enough to mention, so they didn't, & then it turned out the only reason I got those extra 2wks b4 my ex dropped the breakup-bomb was only bc my little boy died a couple days b4 he was planning to break up w/ me. This guy had had a total meltdown 3mo b4 at the thought of us breaking up, then basically woke up one day & decided he didn't love me anymore.

Like you & this guy, my ex & I were pretty intense (tho we didn't move in together) over the course of a very short time knowing each other. Your bf is taking the easy way out here, & that's making my blood pressure rise as I read/write :bomb: YOU are the one making all the sacrifices -- packing, breaking lease, etc, now they are literally telling you to give up your furbaby so he can stay in a family-owned property :no: put your foot down w/ him: either he stiffens up to his mother or you guys find a different place so you can keep the cat.

wednesday86
11-10-2014, 11:59 AM
I think I get why 'host clubs' exist in Japan and why most of the patrons are female sex workers. Lately I have felt so lonely after work after giving so much emotionally and physically to fugly fucks, feeling totally depleted and really couldn't wait to get home, relax and get attention from my HOT husband. I understand how thy feel. Maybe I should open a host club here.........hmmm

Selina M
11-10-2014, 12:52 PM
I don't know why people are so weird about cats. Their clean and go in a box and if their adults they don't cause damage. I have rentals and I don't allow pets but if someone had an inside cat I'd probably let them if it was a good cat. I'd rather have that than smokers in my property.

I think it's because of the pissing thing... while my cat is the most well-behaved creature on the planet, every roommate's cat I've ever known has been horrible in that department. Our current roommate's cat pees on the couch, in our closet, in things (he ruined my Coach purse, little fuckhead) and I am pretty sure we are going to get charged for carpet damage bc of him. The smell is so effing hard to get out.

MyButter
11-10-2014, 12:55 PM
I think I get why 'host clubs' exist in Japan and why most of the patrons are female sex workers. Lately I have felt so lonely after work after giving so much emotionally and physically to fugly fucks, feeling totally depleted and really couldn't wait to get home, relax and get attention from my HOT husband. I understand how thy feel. Maybe I should open a host club here.........hmmm

It'd be interesting to see if host/hostess clubs would float here. I think we lack a lot of the cultural elements that have probably contributed to their success in Japan. Eta: For the time being, we're really missing out on this side of the world though!

SnuffleUffleGrass
11-10-2014, 02:11 PM
You "kill" those people...with kindness. You "calling" her all that just puts you at her immature level...and I assume you aren't an immature person, right?


I ignore her. I just find her to be kind of weird and sad.

audrey_k
11-10-2014, 03:48 PM
I don't think he realized how upset I was going to be about giving up my cat-- like I said he's never had a pet before so to him it's like why can't we just get another one? I tried to explain to him that's like giving someone a replacement baby and he nodded but I can tell he doesn't get it. When he told me I got really upset, told him I hated him and his mum (I apologized later) and locked myself in the bedroom. When I came out I said he was going to have to find him a new home because it would be too hard for me, and he said he is going to speak to his mum again as he doesn't want to see me this upset. I would rather just speak to her myself but I've only met her a few times so I'm not really comfortable arguing with her. But I gave him some points to bring up-- even as a little kitten with lots of energy he's never destroyed anything in my flat, I've never had issues with him not using the litter box, and I've had cats for 25 years so I know what furniture they'll go after so we're going to put the leather chairs in the office, and of course if anything is damaged I'll pay for it. But I'm not holding my breath. I feel like her decision is based more on her dislike of cats than on possible damages.

We had talked about it before and his mum has said to me that she hates cats (she didn't realize I had one at the time) and that he wasn't sure how she would react and I think he was just putting it off since she isn't wild about the idea of me moving on in anyway since she thinks we haven't been dating long enough. I get along with her great and as I've gotten to know her she seems more OK with it (obviously it's his place so she can't do much). But I feel like she could have called me and explained why my cat can't come instead of just sending a text message. But I feel like he just went about it in a stupid fuckint way; I told him to mention all those points above and he didn't.

I want him to argue with her but I also know you can't change someone's mind just because you want them to. I feel better knowing he's at least going to fight for it and not just let it go. Even if he can't get her to say yea it makes me feel better he's going to try/ He definitely loves his mum and puts a lot of effort into his relationship with her, and it's one of the things I liked about him since I feel like you can tell how a guy is going to treat you based on how he treats his mun. But he has a lot of issues with arguing with women than he loves, occasionally he'll argue with me about something but he'll rarely go against what I say (to absolute ridiculous levels sometimes).

My mum suggestes that I try and find someone who might be willing to take him in the short term, look for agencies that do fostering, or try and find a friend to watch him. I'm going to start researching tomorrow.

And yea that's exactly what I've been thinking; a cat is never going to stop loving me, dissapoint me, leave, lie... (not that my boyfriend has done any of these things)

michele11
11-10-2014, 04:25 PM
I think it's because of the pissing thing... while my cat is the most well-behaved creature on the planet, every roommate's cat I've ever known has been horrible in that department. Our current roommate's cat pees on the couch, in our closet, in things (he ruined my Coach purse, little fuckhead) and I am pretty sure we are going to get charged for carpet damage bc of him. The smell is so effing hard to get out.

I know. Persians are like that. Mine all had kidney disease and peed all over. I didn't think regular cats did though. I guess they do.

michele11
11-10-2014, 04:29 PM
I took a little small piece of adderal right before going in but as you know Ive been on it since I was 13 for my ADD so I tolerate it well and Ive done that before working before to keep me up all night, all it usually does is make me more alert, not more drunk.. IDK wtf happened but it was scary, I even cried a lil bit cause the bathroom mom made me sit out where she could see me and it was embarrassing, I didn't want any of the girls to see me like that so I ran back in the stall.lol. Maybe I drank more than I thought is the only thing I can come up with cause if someone puts something in your drink don't you get really sick like all night?

I don't know. I guess it would depend what was in the drink, how much etc. There's been a lot of times I swear I was drugged but couldn't be sure. Yeah the adderall wouldn't do that. Allergy pills maybe some supplements. Glad your ok.:)

audrey_k
11-10-2014, 04:33 PM
I've never had issues with cats peeing like that.... but scratching? Oh yes!

fishielicious
11-10-2014, 04:37 PM
I think it's because of the pissing thing... while my cat is the most well-behaved creature on the planet, every roommate's cat I've ever known has been horrible in that department. Our current roommate's cat pees on the couch, in our closet, in things (he ruined my Coach purse, little fuckhead) and I am pretty sure we are going to get charged for carpet damage bc of him. The smell is so effing hard to get out.
I actually had to move out of my last apartment because my roommate's cat kept pissing and shitting on all my stuff. What is it with roommates' cats and being little fuckheads?

But Audrey, I'm soooo sorry you're having to go through this. It must feel like you're really stuck, already having given notice and packed everything up and then to be hit with that. I can't even imagine anyone asking me to give up my dog. This probably sounds crazy as shit, but I would kill for my dog. Some people just don't understand how important pets can be and what a meaningful relationship that can be in a person's life. I think your mom's suggestion sounds like a good one. If you can just find a friend to watch him for a few months until you and your bf move in the summer. That way, you can still see him and you know he's in a good home, and when you're ready you can have him back full-time. I hope things work out, because that's such a horrible situation. How awful of his mom to spring that information on you like that.

My confession: Today in class I was leading my students in a discussion of women's rights and women's representation in politics/portrayal in the media. One of my students started talking about a couple of friends she has who work at a Hooters-type bar in town and how degrading it sounded and gross it was for old men to be ogling those young girls all the time. I feel like that moment was the one moment it really hit me how bizarre it is for me to be living this life where half the time I'm teaching and half the time I'm stripping and how shocked my students would be if they knew that. It was kind of surreal. Also, I yelled at one of my students when he straight up said women are worse drivers than men and that it's fair that women get paid $.77 for every $1 a man is paid because young men have to pay more money for car insurance than young women do lmao. I flipped out at him. I feel kind of bad about it, now.

michele11
11-10-2014, 06:12 PM
I've never had issues with cats peeing like that.... but scratching? Oh yes!

You shouldn't if he's neutered. Did you get that done yet? I hope it works out for you.

michele11
11-10-2014, 06:18 PM
I hate calling clubs. I can talk to anyone and everyone but get nervous to talk to mangers. I messaged my manager today at my summer club ( because I know they will be more willing to work with me about my wrist than the other place i was going to go) and he called back and said it was alright if I didn't go on stage( we have 3). I'm usually in vip so I don't go on stage much but they've yelled at me when i didn't hear because I was in members only vip. So I'm happy about that. He asked me what kind of shoes I would be wearing. lol. I was like heels of course( I wear gowns) and he was like well I don't know and I can't having you wear flats or something. Oh and I fianally feel good to go out today and to the gym and I fell going in , hard right on my hands! I hope I didn't screw anything up.

lynn2009
11-10-2014, 06:59 PM
I think it's because of the pissing thing... while my cat is the most well-behaved creature on the planet, every roommate's cat I've ever known has been horrible in that department. Our current roommate's cat pees on the couch, in our closet, in things (he ruined my Coach purse, little fuckhead) and I am pretty sure we are going to get charged for carpet damage bc of him. The smell is so effing hard to get out.

My parents cat is really bad about this but I've always thought it's a behavioral thing because he's lonely after all us kids moved out and especially after the other cat passed away 2 years ago.

chanzep
11-10-2014, 07:00 PM
thinking about how to get out of morning class tommorow.

audrey_k
11-11-2014, 04:24 AM
You shouldn't if he's neutered. Did you get that done yet? I hope it works out for you.
They won't do it in England until he's 6 month, some sketchy places will do it at 4. But I've always had issues with cats scratching furniture even if they were spayed/neutered.

michele11
11-11-2014, 12:40 PM
^ I know but males can spray if they aren't neutered before puberty. That's funny in Europe too. I read a blog about a lady in Itally and they wouldn't neuter her cat until 6 months and she was worried about him spraying. They do it at 8 weeks or 4 pounds in the U.S. Most persian breeders don't let them go until their Neutered or spayed. They have stuff you can put on the furniture that deters them from scratching.

audrey_k
11-11-2014, 02:51 PM
^he's about 3 months now and I haven't had any issues with spraying, thank god. He's actually pretty good about scratching furniture, the only issue I have with him is biting and scratching me, which I think is just kitten energy from being locked in a tiny flat.

My boyfriend has stepped up and has been calling people all day trying to find a friend to take him and hasn't had much luck, now he's looking into foster care. He spoke to his mum again and she said no, she wants the place to be perfect. I am SO angry at her, I honestly feel like I will never forgive her for this or be able to be civil with her, let alone friendly. I feel like she's forcing me to throw my baby away like he's an old pair of clothes that don't fit. I don't understand what he could possibly do this place that would destroy it so much I couldn't pay for repairs when he has destroyed NOTHING in two months couped up in a place have the size. I have to go to a birthday lunch with her and 4 other people at the end of the month (it's not her birthday) and I think I am going to be ill on the day of. I know she's my boyfriend's mum and I can't avoid her foreved, but god I REALLY hate her right now.

And it's really hard to discuss this with my boyfriend when I want to say "your mom is a @&)&@£))&&))&!"

Gia2608
11-11-2014, 03:04 PM
. creeptastic. (&) it makes me cringe talking to perfect strangers about the state of their private parts.

OMG I am laughing my ass off at these two gems

Selina M
11-11-2014, 03:22 PM
My parents cat is really bad about this but I've always thought it's a behavioral thing because he's lonely after all us kids moved out and especially after the other cat passed away 2 years ago.

We were wondering that, actually. He's been an only cat with one human, and then got moved in with 2 more humans, a dog and another cat... He might just be saying "fuck you all, this is my stuff"

wednesday86
11-11-2014, 08:00 PM
I'm considering taking classes again at the school I said I was done with...I love my camera and taking pictures so much but I have no idea what I'm doing. So, I might just go ahead and pay for a photography and photoshop course out of pocket. The only thing is that would delay us moving another 6 months...Ughh. I don't know what to do.

lovelydancer
11-11-2014, 10:23 PM
I'm finally going to audition at a new club tomorrow...and I'm nervous. Not only is the crowd at this club typically younger guys, but the dancers are also younger too. I'm 29, and my stripper persona that I'm comfortable with Doesnt cater to this type of crowd. But money has been dead at my home club so I figured why not try? 5.5 years into this and I STILL get nervous. Lol.

Jay12
11-11-2014, 10:55 PM
I think I get why 'host clubs' exist in Japan and why most of the patrons are female sex workers. Lately I have felt so lonely after work after giving so much emotionally and physically to fugly fucks, feeling totally depleted and really couldn't wait to get home, relax and get attention from my HOT husband. I understand how thy feel. Maybe I should open a host club here.........hmmm

All the above soundds like burn out to me. Perhaps take a few days off to recharge?

Aniela
11-12-2014, 02:09 AM
I am having less & less patience every day for my current project. I spent most of the last day & a half dicking around w/ it more than actually working on it.

Tsepmet1
11-12-2014, 09:38 AM
Things that I want right this very second:

A cupcake
A clonazepam
Pumpkin spice latte
Maybe a vodka soda for good measure
For it to be 30 degrees warmer
Lots of money couldn't hurt
A new season of Futurama

michele11
11-12-2014, 10:58 AM
I don't know what the fucks wrong with me. I've been depressed since sep and started taking paxil like 7 days before my trip and I was fine. I planned to drive to tampa today( there's a lady at neimans that gives me like 200 free samples of Revive) it's a 200 jar cream. I can't even go. I wanted to get up early, do the treadmil and go. I laid in bed for 2 hours after i was supposed to get up. I didn't even want to come on here( I do everyday) until I drank some coffee and took an energy pill. I even went and laid in my daughters bed for 30 minutes( she never talks to me or lets me in her room if she's home). I was going to leave mon or tues to go work but don't know if I can.

Tsepmet1
11-12-2014, 11:29 AM
^ being hurt will fuck up your state of mind.

audrey_k
11-13-2014, 09:09 AM
I have a serious problem of crawling into my relationship when I have a boyfriend and abandoning all my female friends. I'm such a hypocrite because I'm sooo harsh with girls when they do that, but yet I'm the worst.

I really miss having a group of close female friends like I had in America. I really haven't found that here as I've put all my focus into work and dating. I just wish I had a group of girls to go shopping or drinking with... I love my boyfriend and spending so much time with him, but the only people I really speak to besides him are ex boyfriends and clients and my friends at home via Facebook.

lovelydancer
11-13-2014, 09:14 AM
I quit my homeclub last night. Got dressed midshift, walked out the door and didn't look back. Didn't say a word to anyone. Part of me is scared that I won't find a club where I feel I belong, but with as much BS that I dealt with being at that club over 2.5 years...enough was enough. Even though it's scary I feel a huge weight off of me. It's a bit relieving. Going to audition at a new club tonight. Wish me luck!

xStacey
11-14-2014, 12:32 PM
I can't believe that after over two years there is still unfinished business between me and my ex. We've been talking & sexting lately, but the problem is that he currently has a girlfriend.

TransdimensionalPrincess
11-14-2014, 01:38 PM
Posted this in the wrong thread yesterday: 'On Friday I weighed myself (do it once a month), and found out I lost another 10 pounds (Only 148 w00t). So I spent all Friday, Saturday, Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday eating everything in my house stoned off my ass - what is self control? I really regret it because that 10 pounds I was so happy about losing... well I'm sure I just gained it all back. I am such a bad girl.'

newb2
11-14-2014, 09:36 PM
I have the biggest crush on one of the bouncers at work
He wasn't working tonight but he came in with his friends and he was quite drunk
I got to see him with less clothes and now I'm even more in love hahah