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Neonsugar
11-15-2014, 12:36 AM
I'm a part time pornstar
SweetJulia
11-15-2014, 08:07 AM
I keep handing a friend of mine with terrible breath Altoids and he has no clue why.
wednesday86
11-15-2014, 10:58 AM
last night I got all dressed up and went out with friends for girls night. I was a total BITCH to the guys who tried to hit on me. I would take drinks they bought me and then tell them to go away, replied to "you're so pretty/hot/beautiful" with "I know", told one guy his breath smelled and to stop talking to me, and was just generally super snarky and mean. It was fun though. My bestie said I'm evil. I think I just hate (most) men now, thanks to stripping.
michele11
11-15-2014, 11:03 AM
^ I've always been like that even before I danced. My girlfriends use to get mad and be all" what if I wanted to talk to him. I'm weird , I've never liked guys who approach me go crazy over me. I like the ones that ignore me. Lol.
misssincere
11-16-2014, 12:57 PM
Some of the ladies on this site are overly opinionated. Nothing to with this particular thread. Just in General. It annoys the shit out of me. It'll make you not want to post anything.
wednesday86
11-17-2014, 11:32 AM
I went to visit some friends in my old town that I haven't seen in months. Two hour drive each way but it was worth it. I loved every second of being back in my old town..People are so much nicer there and the energy is much more relaxed. When I was coming back, as soon as I got into Chicago territory, the drivers started cutting me off, tailgating me and just being the rude ASSHOLES that they are. INSTANT BAD MOOD. I fucking hate it here so much...but it's giving me the motivation to dance my ass off and move ASAP. Everything I make over the next 2 months is going into savings so I can the fuck out of here.
audrey_k
11-17-2014, 07:29 PM
I really hate one of my bf's best friends. They dated like, 18 years ago for a year and broke up and have been platonic since then (their first year of uni). They have this tradition of watching a TV show at her house alone and we occasionally see her at parties-- they're trying to get to end of the show. I don't know why I feel so insecure about it. A lot of my exes have had female best friends and while I was hesitant at the beginning, I was always OK with it after I saw nothing was going on. And I feel like I should get that.... my bf is 11 years older than me but hasn't dated anyone his age since he was 20, and I know I'm more attractive than her... but it drives me fucking nuts when her name is brought up or he says he wants to go over there, even though he always asks my permission. I even talked to my therapist about it and he said, if he still wanted to be with her he would have gotten with her by now and never broken up with her in the first place, and that I should not bring the issue up with him, so I'm venting her instead. I was starting to become OK with her, but when I was absolutely desperate for someone to take my cat, he asked her-- she has cats-- and she said no she wouldn't take another cat. I was really offended she wouldn't take him for a short period since she's supposed to be such a good friend of his (he wasn't too pleased about it either) and now I'm back to hating her. We're going to a party on Saturday that she'll probably be at and I feel like I'm going to be such a cunt to her. And I HATE myself for being so petty and jealous.
simone87
11-17-2014, 07:55 PM
went to michael's crafts today and saw this toy section, noticed all these toys i used to play with as a kid and went nuts..i was having so much fun that this kid came up to me and started making small talk and showing me all the other cool toys like i was another kid lmao
lovelydancer
11-17-2014, 08:55 PM
went to michael's crafts today and saw this toy section, noticed all these toys i used to play with as a kid and went nuts..i was having so much fun that this kid came up to me and started making small talk and showing me all the other cool toys like i was another kid lmao
^^^I LOVE Michaels and Joanns!! I'm always on Pinterest looking for DIY and craft ideas to create :)
charlie61
11-17-2014, 09:07 PM
I really hate one of my bf's best friends. They dated like, 18 years ago for a year and broke up and have been platonic since then (their first year of uni). They have this tradition of watching a TV show at her house alone and we occasionally see her at parties-- they're trying to get to end of the show. I don't know why I feel so insecure about it. A lot of my exes have had female best friends and while I was hesitant at the beginning, I was always OK with it after I saw nothing was going on. And I feel like I should get that.... my bf is 11 years older than me but hasn't dated anyone his age since he was 20, and I know I'm more attractive than her... but it drives me fucking nuts when her name is brought up or he says he wants to go over there, even though he always asks my permission. I even talked to my therapist about it and he said, if he still wanted to be with her he would have gotten with her by now and never broken up with her in the first place, and that I should not bring the issue up with him, so I'm venting her instead. I was starting to become OK with her, but when I was absolutely desperate for someone to take my cat, he asked her-- she has cats-- and she said no she wouldn't take another cat. I was really offended she wouldn't take him for a short period since she's supposed to be such a good friend of his (he wasn't too pleased about it either) and now I'm back to hating her. We're going to a party on Saturday that she'll probably be at and I feel like I'm going to be such a cunt to her. And I HATE myself for being so petty and jealous.
There's nothing hotter than a secure, confident, non-jealous woman! Maybe try to make this a game in your head? Show your boyfriend just how amazing you are as a girlfriend by being super cool with this girl. Prove to him that you're the ultimate girlfriend. That said, I'm a huge proponent of communication in relationships - you should feel safe enough to air your insecurities to him without fearing his reaction. But I know this is a very new relationship for you that may still feel shaky what with everything you have going on right now (namely, financial dependence...that causes a HUGE power differential in relationships).
wednesday86
11-17-2014, 10:06 PM
I really hate one of my bf's best friends. They dated like, 18 years ago for a year and broke up and have been platonic since then (their first year of uni). They have this tradition of watching a TV show at her house alone and we occasionally see her at parties-- they're trying to get to end of the show. I don't know why I feel so insecure about it. A lot of my exes have had female best friends and while I was hesitant at the beginning, I was always OK with it after I saw nothing was going on. And I feel like I should get that.... my bf is 11 years older than me but hasn't dated anyone his age since he was 20, and I know I'm more attractive than her... but it drives me fucking nuts when her name is brought up or he says he wants to go over there, even though he always asks my permission. I even talked to my therapist about it and he said, if he still wanted to be with her he would have gotten with her by now and never broken up with her in the first place, and that I should not bring the issue up with him, so I'm venting her instead. I was starting to become OK with her, but when I was absolutely desperate for someone to take my cat, he asked her-- she has cats-- and she said no she wouldn't take another cat. I was really offended she wouldn't take him for a short period since she's supposed to be such a good friend of his (he wasn't too pleased about it either) and now I'm back to hating her. We're going to a party on Saturday that she'll probably be at and I feel like I'm going to be such a cunt to her. And I HATE myself for being so petty and jealous.
I know your relationship is kind of new-ish but if it gets serious, like you get engaged, he really needs to drop that friend. Call me old fashioned but I just DON'T think it's appropriate to keep close friends of the opposite sex when you're committed (unless they're gay I guess.) I would not be okay with that at all. Definitely wouldn't let my husband hang out ALONE with some bitch because she's lonely. Let her get some female friends or hang out with her cats.
audrey_k
11-18-2014, 06:05 AM
^see that's how I feel and it's part of the reason it's pissing me off, but he doesn't seem to get it. We just seem to have different views. I'm very traditional and he loves that and it respectful of it in every other way except for this girl. He's very friendly with his exes, one of his exes was supposed to take my cat until she had issues with her landlord (and knew it was his new gf's cat)... I am not friendly with my exes because if I were to be they would assume I wanted to get back together! But that doesn't seem to be the case with him. I have never had a long-term friendship with a man who has not wanted to sleep with me/date me, so I think this relationship is partly just very confusing to me. His ex girlfriend was INSANELY possessive and wouldn't even let him go to his parent's house without he and he put up with it until he dumped her for it, and she told him he couldn't be friends with this girl and he said fine. But I don't want to sabotage my relationship with him by telling him he can't see someone that seems like, just a completely platonic friend that happens to have a vagina.... ugh I don't know. I really had come to a, I don't like it but I can deal, place until this cat issue and now I'm hating her more than I did before.
@Charlie- I try but it's difficult. I always say yes you can go and try to be sunny about it, but then I'll start getting cold or bitchy to him for no reasons a few days before and he gets really confused. We've talked in circles about it and it's really come down to, if you don't want me to see her because it makes you unhappy, fine, but I will feel like you are controlling me and being unfair, and worst of all, don't trust me when I have never done anything not to deserve it. And me saying fine just see her, I don't want to do that to you. I really do want him to be happy and it makes me sad whenever I do something that I can see upsets him, so I do my best not to, as I don't want to push him away because I'm insecure... which is why I'm having lunch with his ***** of a mother next weekend. I'm just hoping she doesn't bring up the cat or I really will blow up at her.
SweetJulia
11-18-2014, 08:48 AM
This is going to sound awful, but there's a picture of Charles Manson on Yahoo cuz he's getting married. Before I read who it was, I was like, "what a cute, little old guy!"
wednesday86
11-18-2014, 09:34 AM
@Audrey I know you're trying to do the right thing, but you've already made a lot of sacrifices to be with that guy...You should just tell him "It makes me uncomfortable. Make her go away." Period. Why does he need female friends if he has you? He doesn't. If he wants to go out with his guy friends that's fine, but he doesn't need a harem of bitches around him. That's my opinion anyway. Sorry to thread jack!
My confession: I am going into work today for the first time in over a week...For some reason I feel as nervous as the day I started. Is "new girl money" possible after a 12 day break? haha
michele11
11-18-2014, 10:27 AM
This is going to sound awful, but there's a picture of Charles Manson on Yahoo cuz he's getting married. Before I read who it was, I was like, "what a cute, little old guy!"
Haha. I just saw this on tv. There's no mistaking him with that swastica on his forehead. i'm just wondering what took him so long. These weirdos get mairrage proposals all the time. Haha. She looks like one of his followers from back in the day.
Aniela
11-18-2014, 10:54 AM
@Audrey I know you're trying to do the right thing, but you've already made a lot of sacrifices to be with that guy...You should just tell him "It makes me uncomfortable. Make her go away." Period. Why does he need female friends if he has you? He doesn't. If he wants to go out with his guy friends that's fine, but he doesn't need a harem of bitches around him.
One platonic female friend does not 'a harem of bitches make'. If they have been platonic for going on 2decades, stop looking for reasons to think they are not, bc that's exactly what you're doing here IMO. It's no different, no less controlling & ugly than a guy telling his new gf 'That friend of yours that you've had for 10yrs has to go, just bc he's a guy & I KNOW he wants to fk you' The thing w/ the cat? You may be trying to make that refusal abt you when it really might not be. Just a possibility to consider if you're not making the effort to know what's going on in her life apart from what she does w/ your bf.
My confession: I have a friend coming to visit this wk end for a couple days. He runs almost every day. My mantra on the subj: 'Running is bad for you!' Doesn't help that I have been lazy as all fk abt working out in general. I am hoping like hell he will be cool w/ taking a couple days off from it & will go swimming w/ me instead.
Vackra
11-18-2014, 11:52 AM
I know your relationship is kind of new-ish but if it gets serious, like you get engaged, he really needs to drop that friend. Call me old fashioned but I just DON'T think it's appropriate to keep close friends of the opposite sex when you're committed (unless they're gay I guess.) I would not be okay with that at all. Definitely wouldn't let my husband hang out ALONE with some bitch because she's lonely. Let her get some female friends or hang out with her cats.
I would choose my husband over absolutely anyone in the world, but my best friend of 10 years is a guy and if he told me to get rid of him, I would... but I'd be extremely resentful. My husband works in fashion and does shoots with female models when I'm not there. What's the big deal if you trust them?
audrey_k
11-18-2014, 01:19 PM
One platonic female friend does not 'a harem of bitches make'. If they have been platonic for going on 2decades, stop looking for reasons to think they are not, bc that's exactly what you're doing here IMO. It's no different, no less controlling & ugly than a guy telling his new gf 'That friend of yours that you've had for 10yrs has to go, just bc he's a guy & I KNOW he wants to fk you' The thing w/ the cat? You may be trying to make that refusal abt you when it really might not be. Just a possibility to consider if you're not making the effort to know what's going on in her life apart from what she does w/ your bf.
My confession: I have a friend coming to visit this wk end for a couple days. He runs almost every day. My mantra on the subj: 'Running is bad for you!' Doesn't help that I have been lazy as all fk abt working out in general. I am hoping like hell he will be cool w/ taking a couple days off from it & will go swimming w/ me instead.
I have made lots of effort to get to know her and she's rebuffed me-- if I had some kind of relationship with her of my own and she wasn't just this mystery woman who hangs out with my bf alone, it would make me feel a lot better. I've tried to organize outings and she's always "busy" (but not busy for my bf?) When she's been forced to be around me she barely speaks to me, even when we were stuck in a car together. I suggested that they watch their show here so we could all see it... she was "busy" again. Perhaps she is really busy but that, along with a snippy comment that she made about us moving in together, haven't really put me at ease. She also asked my bf to donate sperm to her a few years ago, and that seemed a bit odd to me. And I know why she wouldn't take the cat, she said another one would be too much. And that's fine. But I asked her to take him for ONE month because no cattery would take him as he wasn't properly vaccinated, it was that or a rescue shelter as we'd been turned down by everyone else. I can't see how one month could be such an inconvenience to her coming from a friend of almost two decades? I offered to pay for everyone's litter/food for the month as well. I would take a stranger's cat for 30 days to avoid it having to go into a rescue shelter! Maybe know all the facts about a situation before making judgments? I don't know if my post brought up some personal issues for you, but I already stated how bad I feel about uncomfortable with this situation and how I'm working on, I don't think it's neccesary to then go and accuse me of being "ugly" and "controlling."
Anyway, moving on...
MyButter
11-18-2014, 01:46 PM
Perhaps she is sensing that you're uncomfortable with their friendship?
SnuffleUffleGrass
11-18-2014, 01:54 PM
I quit my homeclub last night. Got dressed midshift, walked out the door and didn't look back. Didn't say a word to anyone. Part of me is scared that I won't find a club where I feel I belong, but with as much BS that I dealt with being at that club over 2.5 years...enough was enough. Even though it's scary I feel a huge weight off of me. It's a bit relieving. Going to audition at a new club tonight. Wish me luck!
I wish you luck. I cut ties with my home club & it was the right move.
Aniela
11-18-2014, 03:21 PM
Maybe know all the facts about a situation before making judgments? I don't know if my post brought up some personal issues for you, but I already stated how bad I feel about uncomfortable with this situation and how I'm working on, I don't think it's neccesary to then go and accuse me of being "ugly" and "controlling."...
Whoa ... way to project personal issues! So sry for making suggestions based on the facts you DID give rather than the ones you didn't! :-X
My point w/ the 'ugly & controlling' 'accusation' wasn't to 'accuse' you of anything. I would call it a steaming pile of BS if your guy was telling you to dump a platonic opposite-sex friend that had been in your life long b4 he came along, & I don't think the behaviour is anymore attractive coming from a gf than a bf. I agree w/ Vackra that even if you & your SO (speaking in general here, not just talking abt you) would choose each other over the whole world, it's a bitch move to demand that they sever a yrs-long friendship w/ sm1 purely bc the other person is of the opposite sex, which -- sry to be blunt -- was largely how you've come across when you've posted abt this situation.
If it makes you feel any better, yeah, I think the sperm-donation request is ... ugh, I don't even have a word that would describe the combined ick-strange-possibly-mentally-unbalanced combination that that's inspiring in me. (Just so we're clear, I turned off the sarcasm after the 2nd sentence of my reply.)
At the very least your bf shouldn't be tolerating her behaviour if she is really cold-shouldering you so severely. He needs to sit her ass down & make it clear that she needs to play nice. Can he not make the 'get-together' arrangements w/ her & then bring you along w/o telling her upfront? I just think there should be all attempts made (on all sides, not just yours!) to accommodate each other b4 he simply discards sm1 he's known for so long.
audrey_k
11-18-2014, 04:13 PM
^well I would never tell him that he couldn't hang out with her because I agree, it would be unfair-- as I've said in this thread I've tolerated them hanging out and whatnot and said nothing, but my blood boils anytime it's brought up. I wouldn't tell him what to do because I just don't believe in being that way in a relationship, unless we're talking about basics rules like "don't lie to me" "don't cheat on me" "don't steal from me."
When he told me about the sperm thing is when I started to feel weird. But still, nothing has occurred between them that should make me feel nervous and he says he has no feelings for her. I think what sort of unnerves me about her a little is that, she's in her late 30s and she's not married and has no future prospects, yet she's desperate for kids, and after he told me that it just made me think, older woman desperate for a family... he turned her down because he said it would be too weird and claims it was still a platonic request, but I think a part of me wonders if she asked him that and she's so cold to me... could it be because she has feelings for him and is upset he's in a relationship? He vehemently denies she has any feelings for him or that anything sexual has occurred between them since they were in their teens, and I believe him on the latter but not so much the former. I mean, how can you know anyway? I've had very strong feelings for guys before and they just didn't pick up on it because I was hiding it.
I really blew up about it with him last week after the cat incident, so I think he is going to try and make an attempt to get us together a bit more, he's been very whatever about it in the past-- he doesn't like drama and he just wants everyone to get along and wants to believe the best in people and that she wouldn't intentionally be dodging me, but I think he sees now that something needs to be done or this is just going to now become a repeated argument we have.
Perhaps she is sensing that you're uncomfortable with their friendship?
I really don't know what her issue is. To be honest I thought she would be really cool towards me in fear of the last situation repeating itself (he literally didn't speak to her for like a year and a half cause of his ex gf) and want us to get along. But she's been like this since the beginning and we met really early on, so there wasn't really any way for her to pick up on anything since at that point I didn't know how much time they spent together, that she was his ex, that she had asked for his sperm, and had none of the issues I have with her now... I know she does have a pretty busy life with her job and whatnot but it's just sort of extreme, especially to the point that she's cold towards me when we have to be in the same room. I'm supposed to see her this weekend at a party so hopefully she'll be a bit friendlier!
charlie61
11-18-2014, 04:18 PM
Back to confessions, y'all. These are all topics that deserve their own separate threads!
OliveJardin
11-18-2014, 05:57 PM
To change to mood here, I confess that...I like to smell my cat. Apparently, I'm not alone either-a girl at work was talking about it and I thought phew, it's not just me!
xStacey
11-18-2014, 05:58 PM
I'm so busy lately, with my sedentary lifestyle all I've been doing is eat and sit in front of a desk 12-15 hrs a day. I wanted to go to the gym today but decided it would be a better idea to pay off my sleep debt. I'm scared of getting fat and gaining weight, I don't have much time to eat during the day either so I'm always eating a big meal right before I crash into bed...
whirlerz
11-18-2014, 06:04 PM
To change to mood here, I confess that...I like to smell my cat. Apparently, I'm not alone either-a girl at work was talking about it and I thought phew, it's not just me!
OMG! I loved to smell my rabbit too! Aww! I also liked to kiss her eye..is that weird?:O
I'm so busy lately, with my sedentary lifestyle all I've been doing is eat and sit in front of a desk 12-15 hrs a day. I wanted to go to the gym today but decided it would be a better idea to pay off my sleep debt. I'm scared of getting fat and gaining weight, I don't have much time to eat during the day either so I'm always eating a big meal right before I crash into bed...
THIS^. I can't even really blame it on that^..:-[ At least when it was decent out, I'd take walks..bleh. Tomorrow I'm getting my ass a yoga mat & doing exercises w/it:-[
OliveJardin
11-18-2014, 06:21 PM
OMG! I loved to smell my rabbit too! Aww! I also liked to kiss her eye..is that weird?:O
^Nope, I always give my cat a little kiss of the forehead lol. Even my, now ex, boyfriend would kiss the kitten constantly. Cute animals do crazy things to people :P.
lol1337a
11-18-2014, 06:40 PM
I love to sniff my chinchilla too!
I confess I'm a huge nut about her and try to treat her as an equal. Most people consider their pet their little baby, but we adopted her as a grown ass chinchilla lady. In order to show her respect I've researched chinchilla communication and always try to speak her language. Every time I come into the room I rub her nose with mine because that's how they greet each other, and their feelings get hurt when you don't acknowledge them. I turn around and hunch my back when she does something I don't like because that's one way they show annoyance. It's hard to simulate chinchilla noises, but I do the same little "Hmph!" noise she does whenever she makes me physically uncomfortable (running across my face when I'm trying to nap). I draw the line at grooming her like she grooms me though! Hope she's not offended..
I feel SO guilty about keeping her in a cage whenever I'm out of the room. She's supposed to be running up and down the Andes mountains in a herd of 100! She's more demanding than most chinchillas so she shakes the bars on her cage like she's in jail. But it's the only way to keep her safe since she chews on everything. I just wish she could understand how bad I feel! Speak English Deanna!!!!
Aniela
11-18-2014, 06:47 PM
Hopping on the animal-sniffing wagon here!
My dog sniffs me a million times a day sm times, even if she last saw me only 2min ago. Mostly it's just a brief once-over but at least once a day she has to have me sit in place while she sniffs me ALL OVER. So sm times I will do it back (just quick around her face & neck) just to goof on her ... but I also like to just cuddle w/ her & breathe in her scent bc I think dogs have the most comforting smell ever.
I also love stroking her paws! I caught myself doing this a couple wks ago & wondered if I must have sm kind of puppy dog foot fetish :rotfl: I swear they don't turn me on, I just like to hold them!
whirlerz
11-18-2014, 06:58 PM
Hopping on the animal-sniffing wagon here!
My dog sniffs me a million times a day sm times, even if she last saw me only 2min ago. Mostly it's just a brief once-over but at least once a day she has to have me sit in place while she sniffs me ALL OVER. So sm times I will do it back (just quick around her face & neck) just to goof on her ... but I also like to just cuddle w/ her & breathe in her scent bc I think dogs have the most comforting smell ever.
I also love stroking her paws! I caught myself doing this a couple wks ago & wondered if I must have sm kind of puppy dog foot fetish :rotfl: I swear they don't turn me on, I just like to hold them!
Yes, I used to play w/my bunny's paws..sometimes, when we'd nap together, I'd hold her & she'd slip her lil' paw between my fingers..she also liked to put one of her big back feeties in the palm of my hand, when I'd hold her around her tum.
charlie61
11-18-2014, 07:05 PM
To change to mood here, I confess that...I like to smell my cat. Apparently, I'm not alone either-a girl at work was talking about it and I thought phew, it's not just me!
I also smell my cats! And I'll one-up your confession by confessing that I talk to my cats like a freak. I'm not talking about the cute stuff, like "awwww sweetums come to mommy!" I call them all by whacky nicknames that evolve on a daily basis, and I communicate with them using a full range of noises (different ones for when I'm getting them riled up for play, when I want to get their attention, etc.). Super bizarre. My whole family has always talked to our animals this way (I grew up with a huge variety of pets), so it's just normal to me!
lol1337a
11-18-2014, 07:23 PM
OMG Whirlerz, that is heartwarming to picture! Napping with my chinchilla is my absolute favorite thing to do. She sleeps smushed up against my face and it makes me feel so loved.
To keep this a confession technically, the chinchilla owner community would frown upon letting her out while I'm asleep.. I've seen a couple forum posts where people get chewed out for it because you might roll over and kill him/her or they could eat something they shouldn't. Not that they ever cite actual cases. In my defense the room is meticulously proofed. Chinchillas also are difficult animals to bond with, and I know that letting her snuggle up and nap with me was a huge part in strengthening out bond. She's always much sweeter and calmer afterward.
I figure it's sort of like the indoor/outdoor cat debate.
OliveJardin
11-18-2014, 11:35 PM
I call them all by whacky nicknames that evolve on a daily basis
^Aw, I can totally relate to this-my poor kitten has a million different nick names that make no sense and have basically nothing to do with his actual name. He comes to his name, but he also comes his nick names and a range of other weird sounds lol
Selina M
11-19-2014, 12:18 AM
My confession is that I really, really hate being an adult and having to do things like pay rent. Seriously need to get over this since it's, ya know, a major component of life.
But if I had no significant other, I would be living in my parents house and saving most of my money so I could purchase a house instead of rent. A mortgage would be much easier to swallow than rent. Rent feels like I'm throwing money down the toilet.
lol1337a
11-19-2014, 01:30 AM
^^I've always agreed about the renting vs mortgage issue until owning became a potential reality. Currently my BF, his mom, and I are considering buying a condo in Harlem in just my name and his (she'd buy outright in cash as the guarantor and we'd pay her back without much interest -- lucky, right!?). The property values are almost definitely going to go crazy over our "mortgage" period and we'll save a shit ton of money if this occurs, but despite my previous gripes about renting, I'm freaking out.
We'll be stuck paying for repairs! What if a better condo for a comparable price comes onto the market right after we buy!! (And I will be checking compulsively, that's just what I do!) What if the market crashes even worse than it did in 2008 before economists predict and we're stuck with now high payments for decades? Will we be able to sell and move onto the next place like my BF's mom's friends did when things go bad on our block (think unlivable construction noises etc). I know a lot of these things are NYC specific, but property owning fantasies used to be my panacea and now I'm like... I DON'T EVEN KNOW HOW TO CLEAN AN OVEN, HOW DO I KNOW WHEN TO REPLACE ONE, OR GOD FORBID HOW TO BUY ONE X_X.
michele11
11-19-2014, 05:56 AM
Hopping on the animal-sniffing wagon here!
My dog sniffs me a million times a day sm times, even if she last saw me only 2min ago. Mostly it's just a brief once-over but at least once a day she has to have me sit in place while she sniffs me ALL OVER. So sm times I will do it back (just quick around her face & neck) just to goof on her ... but I also like to just cuddle w/ her & breathe in her scent bc I think dogs have the most comforting smell ever.
I also love stroking her paws! I caught myself doing this a couple wks ago & wondered if I must have sm kind of puppy dog foot fetish :rotfl: I swear they don't turn me on, I just like to hold them!
No I have a cat foot fetish. Lol. My persians have always been small but years ago when I showed there were ones with massive feet and I was hypnotised by them. My kitty now loves his feet touched( he's the only one.) And I love to smell hin too. I pick him up and sniff him real hard and crazy. He tries to get away but i won't let him go until I'm done. He must think I'm a weirdo.
Etain_
11-19-2014, 06:03 AM
I sniff inside my horse's ear! And his neck, mane, etc...it's like taking a Xanax
michele11
11-19-2014, 06:10 AM
I'm really scared to go on my trip. I woke up at 4am and could not go back to sleep and the kitty wouldn't come to me( ass hole). I've had diarhea last night and this morning and I needed to get my lucky jeans fixed( they go on every trip with me) and i didn't feel like picking them up. I'm always nervous but I've had severe anxiety and depression. It's going to be like 30 degrees coooler, I'm staying somewhere i don't know because the girl I'm going in with the girl i'm training this week. The guy didn't spray tan me dark enough. I can't find my thing I carry my shampoo and cond in. I'm afraid I won't get a window seat.I'm never like this. I think a lot of it is staying somewhere i've never stayed because I sometimes can't sleep in beds even though I bring a memory foam pad and noise machine. Ugh. and I was getting comfortable doing nothing ( which I'm usually not after a few weeks. I've only worked 2 shifts since sep and only 8 in aug. Ugh. I gotta leave in an hour. I dread going through security. That is the thing i hate the most. wish me luck!
SweetJulia
11-19-2014, 06:31 AM
Another cat smeller here. I even put kitty cologne on then, it's Wild Berry this month :) My confession: I'm gonna write a term paper in an hour today and get an A.
whirlerz
11-19-2014, 07:06 AM
Wow, I didn't know there were so many 'animal smellers' here! Charlie, I used to sing little songs to my bunny, some borrowed from real songs & some made up..just a line or two
Ugh I still have this bronchial thing
My hair came 'back to life' w/the new cond. i used last night :)
MyButter
11-19-2014, 07:12 AM
I took the abortion pill in June, and I haven't had a period or any sort of spotting since. The doctor had mentioned that there might be some 'irregularity', but... I don't know if non-existence is considered 'irregular'?
SnuffleUffleGrass
11-19-2014, 09:38 AM
I took the abortion pill in June, and I haven't had a period or any sort of spotting since. The doctor had mentioned that there might be some 'irregularity', but... I don't know if non-existence is considered 'irregular'?
Your body might be reacting to a hormonal change, I missed a period just from switching BC pill brands + working a lot....
I'm really scared to go on my trip. I woke up at 4am and could not go back to sleep and the kitty wouldn't come to me( ass hole). I've had diarhea last night and this morning and I needed to get my lucky jeans fixed( they go on every trip with me) and i didn't feel like picking them up. I'm always nervous but I've had severe anxiety and depression. It's going to be like 30 degrees coooler, I'm staying somewhere i don't know because the girl I'm going in with the girl i'm training this week. The guy didn't spray tan me dark enough. I can't find my thing I carry my shampoo and cond in. I'm afraid I won't get a window seat.I'm never like this. I think a lot of it is staying somewhere i've never stayed because I sometimes can't sleep in beds even though I bring a memory foam pad and noise machine. Ugh. and I was getting comfortable doing nothing ( which I'm usually not after a few weeks. I've only worked 2 shifts since sep and only 8 in aug. Ugh. I gotta leave in an hour. I dread going through security. That is the thing i hate the most. wish me luck!
Girl, you'll be fine, you always do great! I take a xzanax when I fly if Im nervous, maybe that would help.. Are you gonna be there next week? Im coming back in town then.
I'm really scared to go on my trip. I woke up at 4am and could not go back to sleep and the kitty wouldn't come to me( ass hole). I've had diarhea last night and this morning and I needed to get my lucky jeans fixed( they go on every trip with me) and i didn't feel like picking them up. I'm always nervous but I've had severe anxiety and depression. It's going to be like 30 degrees coooler, I'm staying somewhere i don't know because the girl I'm going in with the girl i'm training this week. The guy didn't spray tan me dark enough. I can't find my thing I carry my shampoo and cond in. I'm afraid I won't get a window seat.I'm never like this. I think a lot of it is staying somewhere i've never stayed because I sometimes can't sleep in beds even though I bring a memory foam pad and noise machine. Ugh. and I was getting comfortable doing nothing ( which I'm usually not after a few weeks. I've only worked 2 shifts since sep and only 8 in aug. Ugh. I gotta leave in an hour. I dread going through security. That is the thing i hate the most. wish me luck!
Girl, you'll be fine, you always do great! I take a xzanax when I fly if Im nervous, maybe that would help.. Are you gonna be there next week? Im coming back in town then.
wednesday86
11-19-2014, 10:36 AM
My confession: I need to delete fb or at least STOP fighting on there. Omg...it's like I just can't stop. I keep seeing people posting things I don't agree with, and I usually just shrug it off...but lately I want to fight everyone and I know I've already alienated some people. I don't know what my problem is. I think I'm just gonna go through and unfollow everyone today so I won't even be tempted.
michele11
11-19-2014, 07:57 PM
I'm waiting for my gf and i drank a half bottle of vodka. Oops! It's small but I haven't drank in 2 months and i feel fat. and the lighting in this hotel sucks!
michele11
11-19-2014, 07:58 PM
Girl, you'll be fine, you always do great! I take a xzanax when I fly if Im nervous, maybe that would help.. Are you gonna be there next week? Im coming back in town then.
Thanks love. i'm buzzed. We'll have to go to that designer place that was on tv when you get back. I feel soooo fat!
lol1337a
11-19-2014, 08:08 PM
I didn't go to work today because I'm on the last days of my period and still had some pain when I woke up at 7 PM. By the time the Tylenol kicked in and I woke up completely it was borderline too late to work. I could've gotten ready in time if I rushed and now I wish I did since I feel great! I'm so fucking lazy.
Aniela
11-19-2014, 10:00 PM
I have been trying to teach my dog how to play, w/ mixed results. I 'steal' one of her plush toys & put it in my room, in easy sight+reach, & let her steal it back. Except for the first couple times I always choose the same toy, since it's one she doesn't play w/ too much, but I wonder if she is misunderstanding bc she is becoming more&more guarded w/ her toys. She stockpiles her favourites in her doggy bed & lays down on top of them & will give us this weird begging look when we approach, even if it's just to pet her & talk to her, like 'Pleeeeeeeeezzzzzz don't take my toyzzzzzz!!' I feel kinda bad now.
fishielicious
11-20-2014, 05:50 AM
So it's like 6:30 in the morning and I just got done listening to my downstairs neighbors battle it out. And by "battle it out," I mean he screamed nonstop at her for like twenty minutes. So loud it woke me up. It's not the first time I've heard that happen, either, and I'm really unsure what to do. I never hear her answer him except occasionally to cry, and I feel like he is definitely--if not physically, then verbally--abusing her. And maybe physically too. I hear some unexplained crashing noises to go along with it. Buuut since I don't have any proof and I don't want to make things harder for her than they already are, I'm hesitant to call 911. Well, it's really not even an option right now since I don't have a phone. If I wanted to report it somehow I'd have to wait to get somewhere where I did have access to a phone. I also just moved in a month ago and don't know this woman at all, so I'm not sure how going down there when she's alone (if I can figure out when that is) and trying to talk to her would go.