View Full Version : Confessions Thread!
charlie61
12-10-2014, 07:05 PM
I'm seeing a lot of talk about kitties and Adderall and not nearly enough confessions!
Always feel free to start your own threads discussing these (very valid, but misplaced) topics!!
michele11
12-10-2014, 08:24 PM
^ they started as confessions and girls asked questions and they were adressed. I think it would be rude not to address someones quote!?!
charlie61
12-10-2014, 08:30 PM
^ they started as confessions and girls asked questions and they were adressed. I think it would be rude not to address someones quote!?!
I'm not attacking anyone personally. I get it...we all threadjack here and there without meaning to do so! It's just my role to help keep threads on track. And seriously - it sounds like a great thread topic! :)
Aniela
12-10-2014, 09:17 PM
I am really feeling the time crunch to get this damn quilt project finished in 10-12 days, & I am behind where I want to be … it's making me :irked: … but after snacks & tree-decorating tonite, I am looking at it laid out on the floor right now & Just. Don't. Wanna. I want to veg out in front of the tv & just chill. Trying to find a 2nd wind gusty enough to let me stitch straight thru into tomor afternoon so I can catch up
OliveJardin
12-11-2014, 01:38 AM
My new club is soooo stuffy, I enjoy moving around, grooving and singing (it passes time and makes me happy lol). When I do this here (the music is not loud btw), everyone looks at me like I'm on crack :(. I mean, I am not loud at all or OTT, meh.
Flickdreams
12-11-2014, 05:47 AM
^Is that what you meant by stuffy? Gawd theyre going to love me then!!!!! Imagine Shy there :)
wednesday86
12-11-2014, 08:49 AM
Last night my husband and I were bickering (not yelling or screaming...more like loudly whispering). He had the door cracked open and his mom heard us, came upstairs and yelled at us because we apparently woke her up.....Yeah we got in trouble like we're in fucking middle school. I'm pissed. It was not that late, only 9:30pm and we weren't loud. I've been doing well with her sticking her nose into our parenting choices every chance she gets...I've let her tell me how to wash the dishes and how to clean the coffee machine because she doesn't like the way I do it, but that crosses the line. We give them money to stay here and help with the bills. We're adults. Guess who's about to start dancing 6 days a week and moving out within a month? This lady right here.
Silver lining: My husband apologized for being a douchebag and we worked our shit out. So I guess he can come with me if he wants.
SweetJulia
12-11-2014, 09:06 AM
I kinda hit a car this weekend.........completely sober, barely a scratch on mine. Theirs............not so much. On the upside, my full coverage insurance isn't going to waste.
OliveJardin
12-11-2014, 09:35 AM
^Is that what you meant by stuffy? Gawd theyre going to love me then!!!!! Imagine Shy there :)
It's exactly what I meant by it :(. Haha, aw you've got to love her :). I hope weekends there will be more "tolerant" of me! I feel very, very out of place there, but I'm happy to ride the money train for now (even if it's boring and not a fun place to work meh).
michele11
12-11-2014, 10:02 AM
I kinda hit a car this weekend.........completely sober, barely a scratch on mine. Theirs............not so much. On the upside, my full coverage insurance isn't going to waste.
I did that when I got my new car. I drove to a place I don't usually go and there was tons of construction and the stupid girl on the phone couldn't tell me if I passed the dealership or not and when I finally arrived I pulled in so quick I hit the car next to me. Not only was I rude and hung up on the lady I had to walk in and be all" who's truck is that"? " I just hit it". Thank god it did nothing to their truck( they said ) but it put a huge dent in the right front bumper. I was shaking and almost passed out to walk in a be all " who's truck is that" . Lmao.
michele11
12-11-2014, 10:28 AM
I feel bad i'm even going to say this but I kind of wish I didn't accept this guys friend request on facebook. He's a neighbor of my ex ( first boyfriend) he's in a wheel chair and a really nice guy but now he bombards me with messages. Constantly tells me I'm beautiful and look exactly the same. I hope not I met him when I was 17 ( before my plastic surgery)lol. Now he keeps messaging me. Good morning. what are you doing this cold day. Blah, blah. He's really nice but this is why I don't accept from people I don't know well.
michele11
12-11-2014, 10:30 AM
Oh and the stickers. Between him, my mom and my sister. i'm going to die from sticker suffocation.
SweetJulia
12-11-2014, 10:39 AM
I did that when I got my new car. I drove to a place I don't usually go and there was tons of construction and the stupid girl on the phone couldn't tell me if I passed the dealership or not and when I finally arrived I pulled in so quick I hit the car next to me. Not only was I rude and hung up on the lady I had to walk in and be all" who's truck is that"? " I just hit it". Thank god it did nothing to their truck( they said ) but it put a huge dent in the right front bumper. I was shaking and almost passed out to walk in a be all " who's truck is that" . Lmao.
Good thing we were insured :) My next confession: I just got a new stun gun and am DYING to use it lol.
wednesday86
12-11-2014, 11:33 AM
I feel bad i'm even going to say this but I kind of wish I didn't accept this guys friend request on facebook. He's a neighbor of my ex ( first boyfriend) he's in a wheel chair and a really nice guy but now he bombards me with messages. Constantly tells me I'm beautiful and look exactly the same. I hope not I met him when I was 17 ( before my plastic surgery)lol. Now he keeps messaging me. Good morning. what are you doing this cold day. Blah, blah. He's really nice but this is why I don't accept from people I don't know well.
Psh I wouldn't care if he's in a wheelchair. He's still being annoying and creepy. Why treat him differently because he's disabled? BLOCK!
michele11
12-11-2014, 11:46 AM
^ I met him and he's really nice but yeah. He was like stop by if your bored. I told him bye. I'm going to run errands now so he wouldn't message me again. I think he'll be normal in a few days i hope. I hope it's just because i accepted his request yesterday but yeah if he keeps bothering me I will.
wednesday86
12-11-2014, 11:49 AM
^You can also mute conversations. I do that all the time with people who won't stfu and leave me alone. Maybe I'm evil but, if you don't know me well enough to have my phone # and text me, I don't want to talk to you.
SnuffleUffleGrass
12-11-2014, 12:12 PM
I kinda hit a car this weekend.........completely sober, barely a scratch on mine. Theirs............not so much. On the upside, my full coverage insurance isn't going to waste.
Oh that sucks. Glad you are okay.
charlie61
12-11-2014, 01:01 PM
When I first found Hozier's "Work Song," I think I listened to it ten times in a row before I realized what I was doing.
audrey_k
12-11-2014, 01:52 PM
I love Christmas but I really hate buying Christmas gifts this year-- normally I love buying gifts for people during this time, and I feel so shitty for complaining about it, but I'm not working right now so shelling out money for gifts when I'm trying to not spend any money and just save is irritating. And it seems like everyone is asking me for money on top of gifts right now. I don't mind spending money on my boyfriend (especially him for all he spends on me) or my mum or brother, but buying gifts for like, my step sisters and extended family who I have barely spoken to in the last 9 months since I moved, annoys me. I'm just buying them cheap little gifts and saving my xmas spending money for the people I'm closest to. This is the first xmas in a long time I've worried about spending, last year I must have spent about $1,500 on xmas gifts and now I'm trying not go over $300 (my bf aside, going to buy him the speakers he has been dying for). I want to start working soon.
HoolaTwister
12-11-2014, 02:04 PM
I feel the same, it seems like this year my Christmas shopping is overwhelming me!
michele11
12-11-2014, 03:24 PM
I love Christmas but I really hate buying Christmas gifts this year-- normally I love buying gifts for people during this time, and I feel so shitty for complaining about it, but I'm not working right now so shelling out money for gifts when I'm trying to not spend any money and just save is irritating. And it seems like everyone is asking me for money on top of gifts right now. I don't mind spending money on my boyfriend (especially him for all he spends on me) or my mum or brother, but buying gifts for like, my step sisters and extended family who I have barely spoken to in the last 9 months since I moved, annoys me. I'm just buying them cheap little gifts and saving my xmas spending money for the people I'm closest to. This is the first xmas in a long time I've worried about spending, last year I must have spent about $1,500 on xmas gifts and now I'm trying not go over $300 (my bf aside, going to buy him the speakers he has been dying for). I want to start working soon.
Send them gift card to say starbucks or something for like 10. I'm sure they'll appreciate it. I love getting gift cards to were I like to frequent that way it saves me money.:)
michele11
12-11-2014, 04:12 PM
omg. My sister just called me all high and put me on speaker phone and is like guess who I'm hanging out with? Well that guy in the wheelchair and my ex. He had asked me to drop by but my sister did. because she knows he takes pills and smokes weed. Well at least she isn't bugging me for my adderall anymore today. freak!
audrey_k
12-11-2014, 07:53 PM
Send them gift card to say starbucks or something for like 10. I'm sure they'll appreciate it. I love getting gift cards to were I like to frequent that way it saves me money.:)
I would love to, trust me, but my mun banned gift cards as gifts a few years ago because she believes they are "thoughtless." My brother just wanted cash last year because he was saving up for a $1,500 bass so I gave him a bunch of cash and got a bunch of shit from her for being "unthoughtful." I was like for god's sake that's what he asked me for!
SnuffleUffleGrass
12-12-2014, 01:06 PM
I confess I've been reflecting on the failures of two of my ex boyfriend who hurt me really badly....I can admit of course I feel better that they might have learned some lessons in life, but I still feel dis-satisfied/down about those bad memories. I think I need to try some white magic spells to reduce the impact of these bad memories and feelings.
JessaJade
12-12-2014, 02:59 PM
I bought 3 100g bars of Green & Blacks chocolate on Wednesday as there was a 3 for £5 deal...they were meant to last a couple of weeks. Pahaha. I have been home alone too, no one else to blame.
What is worse is that I ate the last one tonight instead of going to audition at a new club, because I was stalling getting ready and ran late and got nervous. Fuck is wrong with me!?
^^I hate auditioning, I am gonna have to audition soon in a new club maybe a few depending on the $ situation, I have a month to get in audition shape and Ive been slacking, not working out as much as I should and eating whatever I want, smh!
whirlerz
12-12-2014, 05:21 PM
Yea..I need 2 audition..seriously
But, my tooth was gettin' worse so today I had a lst min. root canal..
When I get ovr that, it's bk 2 the stage/sc for me! Gotta get shoes 2 the 8 pleasers didn't fit must get a 9
simone87
12-12-2014, 06:34 PM
its my boyfriend's birthday today, and our anniversary, but since i haven't auditioned at any clubs yet i'm kinda broke. i'm hoping that he will be happy with some exotic sexual favors tonight instead of gifts lol
ScarletKitten
12-12-2014, 06:55 PM
I love Christmas but I really hate buying Christmas gifts this year-- normally I love buying gifts for people during this time, and I feel so shitty for complaining about it, but I'm not working right now so shelling out money for gifts when I'm trying to not spend any money and just save is irritating. And it seems like everyone is asking me for money on top of gifts right now. I don't mind spending money on my boyfriend (especially him for all he spends on me) or my mum or brother, but buying gifts for like, my step sisters and extended family who I have barely spoken to in the last 9 months since I moved, annoys me. I'm just buying them cheap little gifts and saving my xmas spending money for the people I'm closest to. This is the first xmas in a long time I've worried about spending, last year I must have spent about $1,500 on xmas gifts and now I'm trying not go over $300 (my bf aside, going to buy him the speakers he has been dying for). I want to start working soon.
I feel ya. Reading this makes me soooo glad that I don't buy xmas gifts anymore. For anyone. I don't accept them either. It's all just mass consumerism bullshit. I despise it. Massive, wasteful consumerism is one of the major things killing this planet. I can just see all the landfills completely covered in wrapping paper, plastics, unwanted gifts, broken electronics, and all the other shit humans produce and then throw away. It needs to stop. Sorry....I'm not going off on you, Audrey, I'm just venting about this b/c noone seems to ever talk about how our planet is in turmoil due to shit like this. BTW, Audrey, I don't think you should pay any mind to your mom in regards to gift cards or cash as gifts. Cash is the best gift ever! Hell, if I wasn't so broke, I'd be handing out cash as xmas gifts to everyone! Everyone loves cash. It's not thoughtless IMO. UGH people are always so ANAL around this time of year.
OliveJardin
12-13-2014, 05:47 AM
My kitten is extremely sick atm and I'm at work and can't get into it because I'm worried about the little boi. Argh, I've banked through deaths in the family and break ups and this fluffy little man has me acting like I've never hustled before :(
I want a little boo dog so freakin bad!
whirlerz
12-13-2014, 08:53 AM
Yea^! I want a lil' bunny girl..
Popping Vicodans, ladies root canal yesterday..
Aniela
12-13-2014, 09:41 AM
I have been having sm weird-ass dreams lately.
In one the other nite, my dog ended up flying face-first into the canal in our backyard. :eek: She is a Greyhound & they are NOT built for swimming. Luckily my dad & I were there to jump in & pull her out, but it still has me really paranoid whenever she gets close to the edge. I usually let her go look over the side if I am w/in arms reach of her but I don't even want to do that anymore.
The other dream was last nite, I saw a guy from my middle school class whom I haven't seen in 11+ yrs. He is always on my mind around xmas bc he did a really kind thing for me in school that has stayed w/ me all this time & I nvr got to tell him how much it meant to me. I am sure he just showed up in my dream bc I've been thinking of him lately, but even in the dream I didn't get the chance to tell him. I really want to look him up online but all I have is a name, don't know where he went after leaving our town & I am so tech-tarded I don't even know where to start. :weeping:
SnuffleUffleGrass
12-13-2014, 11:25 AM
The other dream was last nite, I saw a guy from my middle school class whom I haven't seen in 11+ yrs. He is always on my mind around xmas bc he did a really kind thing for me in school that has stayed w/ me all this time & I nvr got to tell him how much it meant to me. I am sure he just showed up in my dream bc I've been thinking of him lately, but even in the dream I didn't get the chance to tell him. I really want to look him up online but all I have is a name, don't know where he went after leaving our town & I am so tech-tarded I don't even know where to start. :weeping:
Check Classmates dot com, it's disturbing how much info they get on people. They have an association with My Life dot com too.
I just looked up one of my middle school bullies that way...I am shocked he doesn't have a rap sheet. I feel sorry for him now....I have let my anger towards him go. He was pretty pathetic.
My confession- I am being lazy today. I really have to work on my motivation.....ugh.
fishielicious
12-13-2014, 01:59 PM
You made the right decision....I called the cops on a guy screaming at his wife in a hotel room at 3 Am and the dumb motherfucker stood outside his hotel room after the cops left and said "Whoever called the cops, I'm gonna kill you" I heard him through the window of my (locked) room LOL....Ugh fucking scum of the earth, domestic abusers...
can you stick an envelope with a card for a women's shelter in her mailbox?
This is a really late reply, but as an update...
A little while after I posted this, I woke up another morning hearing cops banging on the door downstairs. I didn't really hear anything else, but when I left to go to work there were still three or four cop cars in the parking lot. I don't know what happened, but the couple downstairs has since moved out. I hope everything worked out for the best for that girl, and that the cops handed her asshole bf his ass.
In other confessions, I'm dealing with some real dancer drama for the first time of my stripper career. I posted about this in the "my last shift" thread, but basically this dancer was trying to disrupt my work because she thinks I danced for her fiance (I didn't) and that I owe her the money her fiance spent on these imagined dances, she he owed her that money and was supposed to give it to her later than evening. Even if I had given her man these dances, I fail to understand how it would've been my fault instead of, you know, her fiance's. It's not like I interview every single guy I dance for to determine if he is engaged to one of my coworkers. That's not on me. Now she's spreading all this shit about me and I'm just trying to "rise above" lol. Any advice on dealing with it?
wednesday86
12-13-2014, 02:18 PM
This is a really late reply, but as an update...
A little while after I posted this, I woke up another morning hearing cops banging on the door downstairs. I didn't really hear anything else, but when I left to go to work there were still three or four cop cars in the parking lot. I don't know what happened, but the couple downstairs has since moved out. I hope everything worked out for the best for that girl, and that the cops handed her asshole bf his ass.
In other confessions, I'm dealing with some real dancer drama for the first time of my stripper career. I posted about this in the "my last shift" thread, but basically this dancer was trying to disrupt my work because she thinks I danced for her fiance (I didn't) and that I owe her the money her fiance spent on these imagined dances, she he owed her that money and was supposed to give it to her later than evening. Even if I had given her man these dances, I fail to understand how it would've been my fault instead of, you know, her fiance's. It's not like I interview every single guy I dance for to determine if he is engaged to one of my coworkers. That's not on me. Now she's spreading all this shit about me and I'm just trying to "rise above" lol. Any advice on dealing with it?
You just gotta be a bitch. If she brings it up again look her in the eye and say "I don't know him. Stop talking about it. I don't want to have this conversation again. Leave me alone." Then ignore her and act like she doesn't exist. If she tries to fight you go to management and have her removed from your presence. Who cares if she's talking about you? Free publicity! You don't see her or hear her. I've had girls talk shit about me when I was in the same DR thinking it would make me fight them. I let them talk shit while I made $. Who gives a fuck about dumb bitches?
wednesday86
12-13-2014, 02:21 PM
Confession: I slipped and had two drinks last night while I was out with a friend I hadn't seen in a long time. Also ate fried pickles with her. Big mistake. My stomach was torn up and I felt sick all day. I don't even know if I can go back to drinking at all now. Even a little bit makes me ill.
This is a really late reply, but as an update...
A little while after I posted this, I woke up another morning hearing cops banging on the door downstairs. I didn't really hear anything else, but when I left to go to work there were still three or four cop cars in the parking lot. I don't know what happened, but the couple downstairs has since moved out. I hope everything worked out for the best for that girl, and that the cops handed her asshole bf his ass.
In other confessions, I'm dealing with some real dancer drama for the first time of my stripper career. I posted about this in the "my last shift" thread, but basically this dancer was trying to disrupt my work because she thinks I danced for her fiance (I didn't) and that I owe her the money her fiance spent on these imagined dances, she he owed her that money and was supposed to give it to her later than evening. Even if I had given her man these dances, I fail to understand how it would've been my fault instead of, you know, her fiance's. It's not like I interview every single guy I dance for to determine if he is engaged to one of my coworkers. That's not on me. Now she's spreading all this shit about me and I'm just trying to "rise above" lol. Any advice on dealing with it?
OMg, this girl can eat a dick, Id tell her to stfu, not my fault if he did dances w me, and she should ask him for the $, not u, thats between that girl and her man, has nothing to do w u at all. Hoes…*eyeroll*
MyButter
12-13-2014, 04:35 PM
She is a Greyhound & they are NOT built for swimming. Luckily my dad & I were there to jump in & pull her out, but it still has me really paranoid whenever she gets close to the edge.
Ain't nothing sadder than a wet greyhound :D
I'm glad she's okay!
Aniela
12-13-2014, 04:42 PM
Ain't nothing sadder than a wet greyhound :D
I'm glad she's okay!
She was probably a bit freaked out when I ran half-asleep to check on her. Thank God it was just a dream :relieved:
MyButter
12-13-2014, 05:24 PM
Ohhhhhhh! *facepalms herself in shame* lol
fishielicious
12-13-2014, 10:34 PM
OMg, this girl can eat a dick, Id tell her to stfu, not my fault if he did dances w me, and she should ask him for the $, not u, thats between that girl and her man, has nothing to do w u at all. Hoes…*eyeroll*Thanks, girl. I was just so blown away by her sudden weird hostility and accusations. And like, all this on top of the fact that I never even danced for the guy at all. Even if I had, I can't see how it would be my fault. But even so, I didn't! I had never seen the guy she showed me a picture of before in my life.
But whatever bitch is crazy. Thanks for the advice. <3
amberlly
12-14-2014, 03:42 AM
^^ Some people are just that paranoid about their partners.
I had a customer with super smelly breath try to kiss me at work. Ewww. I was tempted to offer him breath mints and an oral hygiene class.
amberlly
12-14-2014, 04:19 AM
Whenever I feel down or over work I go count my money (mentally or at home). It makes everything better.
audrey_k
12-14-2014, 10:06 AM
I slept in late today not because I was out all night but because I stayed up late organizing my recipes and using a label maker to label the top of my spices so I don't have to pull them out of the cupboard to read them. I am such a nerd.
xStacey
12-14-2014, 05:50 PM
I am such a sex addict when final exams are near!
I farted on a customer last week! He was pulling my ass cheeks super far apart when he was grabbing handfuls of my ass and I had really bad gas on this night so finally it just slipped out. LMAO! We both laughed and kept on going w the dance, he didn't buy another one tho..
fishielicious
12-14-2014, 08:43 PM
^^LOL, Ava! One day a few weeks ago I had really bad gas, but they were coming out silent and deadly. A couple times I could smell it and I either tried to play it off like I didn't notice anything or grab the guy's head and force it into my neck, boobage, whatever so my vanilla perfume could mask the scent lmao. I have definitely done it to a guy on stage while twerking/opening my legs up lol. Luckily this has always happened towards the end of my shift so I'll be like, "Awesome now I've turned off this guy so he won't pester me for dances and I can go home."
simone87
12-14-2014, 08:45 PM
i did it to a guy once..and it was a super high-pitched loud one haha OMG so embarrassing..played it off like it was a queef, figured that was somehow better? lol
^^LMAO, mine was super loud too, like really loud and his hands were near on the butt cheeks so I know he felt it. It didn't stink tho, thank god! I always get gas toward the end of the night too but somehow I usually can keep um in, this guy tho was too rough, pulling my ass cheeks apart, couldn't help it, haha!