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MyButter
02-05-2015, 05:50 PM
I went to the store to grab some tampons today, because damnit my period decided to come back from it's hiatus. I asked the clerk if he had any tampons, and without missing a beat he responded "no I'm afraid I don't have any trampolines". We both couldn't stop laughing afterwards. Good times!

SimoneGray
02-05-2015, 05:52 PM
I am emotionally sexually frustrated, its the strangest feeling. Its like I definitely wanna have sex, but I wan't there to be some sort of connection, some sort of feeling attached, be it butterflies or crazy lust, I just want to have that. It sounds so refreshing thinking about it even.

HoolaTwister
02-06-2015, 03:35 PM
I'm so incredibly depressed. Just broke up with my boyfriend, he wasn't a good boyfriend at all and it bothers me so much that I was actually with him, that I gave him that satisfaction. We had great times too but the bad outweigh the good. What I can't shake is this depression, sadness, utter worthlessness that I feel. I'm also tempted to text or call him but I know that's insane. Ugh.

Kellydancer
02-06-2015, 05:34 PM
You can ignore him. He's already disappointed and frustrated you. Why waste the energy? It's hard but believe me. I speak from experience on this one.

Oh I don't speak to him anymore. He actually unfriended me on Facebook in 2011 and I never looked back.

Kellydancer
02-06-2015, 05:36 PM
^ I hate that too. At our grocery stores there will be these kids right were you exit or go in ( no getting around them) constantly asking for money. I never even know what it's for. Sometimes the girls have cheerleading outfits on and they get all snotty if you say no. Like when I was in school we did things for money. Car washes, sold candy, whatever. Didn'r just beg. and i hate when the moms sit there in chairs and give you dirty looks. Like why don't you teach your kids fund raising, not begging.

It depends on what the fundraiser is for and whether I support it. There was this church that was having these kids ask for money and I knew it was a scam. I didn't give to them. However I give to the Legion (I am involved with them)and the Knights of Columbus and animal charities.

michele11
02-06-2015, 06:35 PM
^ Those ones don't stand out front of grocery stores here. It's kids. The only legit one I've seen is salvation army at christmas.

ScarletKitten
02-06-2015, 06:39 PM
I'm so incredibly depressed. Just broke up with my boyfriend, he wasn't a good boyfriend at all and it bothers me so much that I was actually with him, that I gave him that satisfaction. We had great times too but the bad outweigh the good. What I can't shake is this depression, sadness, utter worthlessness that I feel. I'm also tempted to text or call him but I know that's insane. Ugh.

*hugs* It will get better, babe. Whatever you do, DON'T contact him. you need to purge him completely from your system, as painful as it is. I've been through this so many times, so trust me, it does get better. You deserve a man who worships the ground you walk on. Good men are out there, they are hard to find, but they are out there.

My confession: I'm late on my rent and all my bills, but I don't give a fuck. I know I should care, but I don't. I'm going to be paying late fees out the ass, but I have no fucks to give.

Kellydancer
02-06-2015, 08:19 PM
^ Those ones don't stand out front of grocery stores here. It's kids. The only legit one I've seen is salvation army at christmas.

The church one would stand in front with their hands out. I actually went to the store manager and he kicked them out of front of the store.

HoolaTwister
02-06-2015, 09:38 PM
*hugs* It will get better, babe. Whatever you do, DON'T contact him. you need to purge him completely from your system, as painful as it is. I've been through this so many times, so trust me, it does get better. You deserve a man who worships the ground you walk on. Good men are out there, they are hard to find, but they are out there.

My confession: I'm late on my rent and all my bills, but I don't give a fuck. I know I should care, but I don't. I'm going to be paying late fees out the ass, but I have no fucks to give.

Thank you <3 I won't let myself down and contact him, ever.

lynn2009
02-07-2015, 11:33 AM
I wish I could dump the girl I've been calling my best friend from college. I know she wants to mean well but she's so caught up in her own life all the time, completely unsupportive, always bitching about the same things ALL THE TIME. We talk almost daily and I know exactly how it's always going to go because I never stop getting the same tired responses from her all the damn time. Every time I do try to talk to her about something going on in my life 90% of the time all she says is "I'm sorry" or "valid" or "fair". It's annoying because it's like she actually gives NO consideration to what I am telling her, I get these automated responses constantly. And it doesn't matter if I tell her I miss my ex, I was late to work, I fought w/ my parents, etc. all she ever says is I'm sorry and it's fucking obnoxious. She always bitches about her weight and how it's not worth it to lose weight because people almost always gain it back, no one wants to date her because men are so shallow. Her parents paid for her university (expensive private school) and her car insurance and she also can't ever stop bitching about money. She was recently asked to be a bridesmaid in a second wedding and kept going on and on about how expensive it is and she's never being a bridesmaid ever again, like really, so sorry someone wants you to be a part of their special day!! She just never stops being soooo negative, it's way too much and it's been years since it felt like I could really talk to her.

SnuffleUffleGrass
02-07-2015, 12:52 PM
Mean confession- my ex boyfriend from over a decade ago sent me a facebook friend request. I looked at his profile and he is now a creepy right-wing hick with a very large wife and three kids. (When we dated he was a fine young sailor, younger than me and very handsome.) I just rejected the request...ugh. It's weird how life can turn on a dime- I wanted to marry him! I would have retired from dancing and started a family with him. But frankly I am better off where I am now. Maybe he's not lol but that is not my problem.

charlie61
02-08-2015, 01:02 PM
Facebook gives me so much fucking anxiety...it's crazy. I'm not really on there - I only have one picture up and barebones information about what I've been up to... But every now and then I'll get bored, hop onto Facebook, and check out what some of my sort-of-used-to-be-kind-of-not-really friends have been doing. And I always get so freaked out about it.

People only ever post the positive things that have happened to them over the years (marriage! kids! twelve degrees! graduated from yale! travel! peacecorps! everything you haven't done and more!). It's not realistic at all. But then, of course, you can't help but compare your less-than-perfect life with the 'highlights version' of theirs, and it's crazy what that does to your brain. It's like poison! No matter how much I've accomplished, Facebook always dredges up my insecurities and fears. Ick!

ScarletKitten
02-08-2015, 01:37 PM
^^ Just one of the many reasons I quit facebook years ago.

charlie61
02-08-2015, 01:49 PM
^^ Just one of the many reasons I quit facebook years ago.

Seriously. Every now and then I get all falsely nostalgic about my past and jump on there thinking I can handle it. Nope! Nope nope nope.

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lynn2009
02-08-2015, 02:08 PM
People only ever post the positive things that have happened to them over the years (marriage! kids! twelve degrees! graduated from yale! travel! peacecorps! everything you haven't done and more!). It's not realistic at all. But then, of course, you can't help but compare your less-than-perfect life with the 'highlights version' of theirs, and it's crazy what that does to your brain. It's like poison! No matter how much I've accomplished, Facebook always dredges up my insecurities and fears. Ick!

Remember what you said, people only ever post the most positive things. Maybe it is because I'm fairly quiet that people frequently open up to me, and I'm pretty good at reading between the lines, but one thing I know for sure is other people's lives are NEVER as good as it seems. I know lots of people my age who married years ago who are already unhappy with their spouses, couples who have kids they can't afford. PhDs don't mean anything anymore, job security wise or pay wise. I mean obviously some people are doing well but no ones life is perfect...much as they may want it to appear that way. I deleted facebook 2 years ago, I go on my mom's sometimes still just to see family pictures but overall I think it is much better to avoid it.

michele11
02-08-2015, 05:13 PM
^ Everyone I know only posts freaking political crap constantly or shit about Gmo and all this doom and gloom shit. then I have all my persian breeder friends from around the world and I look at their beautiful cats and it sorta un stresses me, Lol.

SnuffleUffleGrass
02-08-2015, 09:17 PM
I use fb now for social activist things, and seeing what my crazy cousins in Los Angeles are up to ....that makes me feel good.

Oddly enough some of my "frienemies" from the past have posted pathetic stuff on fb...I actually felt terrible guilt over gloating over the failures of pathetic people. Like, what was I expecting out of some of these people....?

SweetJulia
02-08-2015, 09:32 PM
I kind of miss dancing at times. If there was a clean, contact free club around, I'd do it. But ohio is an extras heavy hellhole with no money. My bf is ok with dancing or camming, but I have some sexual ptsd that dancing worsened. So I'm gonna cam for now. My ex hated it and told everyone I was a nurse. He also threatened to out me to my mom if he dumped me. Hello, blackmail. The friends of the one I'm with now are fine with it. It's so weird to have no secrets and feel accepted by the majority for once. I've had a rough life, I deserve it.

OliveJardin
02-09-2015, 02:05 AM
I confess that I am getting boobs tomorrow-I'm nervous lol!

xStacey
02-09-2015, 06:12 PM
Yeah I closed my Facebook account a few years ago too and don't regret it... Sometimes I feel like re-activating my account but nope... Don't like "friending" people who are not really my friends, having people whose name I don't even know stalk me or recognize me in the streets, I feel like my personal life is intruded when I have a Facebook account.

And especially when working in this industry, you never know who might stumble upon your profile and find out your real identity. Maybe I'm just being paranoid but I've had that happen on some online dating websites where customers recognized me and messaged me... It was creepy.

SweetJulia
02-09-2015, 06:18 PM
No facebook here, either. I mean, facial recognition, enemies, stalkers-and honestly, the people who wanted to get back in touch with me on there, I lost touch with for a reason. My confession: I've lit up a cigarette or two at gas stations not thinking lately. Amazingly, I haven't gone up in flames.

michele11
02-09-2015, 06:20 PM
^ my dad use to pump gas with a cig in his mouth. I was always scared we were going to blow up. Lol.

xStacey
02-10-2015, 10:53 AM
I am so fed up with my major, I can't wait to be done with this semester so I can finally go to law school in Fall. I am counting the days and thinking about it almost every waking hour!! lol

Kellydancer
02-10-2015, 11:04 AM
Yeah I closed my Facebook account a few years ago too and don't regret it... Sometimes I feel like re-activating my account but nope... Don't like "friending" people who are not really my friends, having people whose name I don't even know stalk me or recognize me in the streets, I feel like my personal life is intruded when I have a Facebook account.

And especially when working in this industry, you never know who might stumble upon your profile and find out your real identity. Maybe I'm just being paranoid but I've had that happen on some online dating websites where customers recognized me and messaged me... It was creepy.

I mentioned this before, but I had guys from online dating sites try to friend me on Facebook. Freaked me out and I ended up deleting all my dating profiles. I was going to anyway (mostly weird guys on these sites)but it made me even faster. Recently I've had this problem with someone I friended. We know many of the same people in real life and we may have met years ago because he works where my dad used to. The messages I would get from him were non threatening, mostly about our shared love for classic movies and television. Lately he's been sending me messages telling me he's falling in love with me and he wants to meet and "take it from there" and also that it's my choice to have sex. Did I mention he is married? Yep and obese, has kids and considerably older, all issues but the but the married is the top. I told him I was dating someone (a lie)and he told me he hates the guy and he'll break us up, but when I say "but you're married" he blows it off. He then pulled the I'll be alone because I am not interested in him. He never mentioned divorcing his wife (not that I would date him) but wouldn't I be alone if I dated him because these men rarely leave the wife.

michele11
02-10-2015, 11:23 AM
I mentioned this before, but I had guys from online dating sites try to friend me on Facebook. Freaked me out and I ended up deleting all my dating profiles. I was going to anyway (mostly weird guys on these sites)but it made me even faster. Recently I've had this problem with someone I friended. We know many of the same people in real life and we may have met years ago because he works where my dad used to. The messages I would get from him were non threatening, mostly about our shared love for classic movies and television. Lately he's been sending me messages telling me he's falling in love with me and he wants to meet and "take it from there" and also that it's my choice to have sex. Did I mention he is married? Yep and obese, has kids and considerably older, all issues but the but the married is the top. I told him I was dating someone (a lie)and he told me he hates the guy and he'll break us up, but when I say "but you're married" he blows it off. He then pulled the I'll be alone because I am not interested in him. He never mentioned divorcing his wife (not that I would date him) but wouldn't I be alone if I dated him because these men rarely leave the wife.

Don't even respond to him. I have 74 friends on facebook and 20 are persian breeders. I"ve has about 40 friend requests this year from random people in other countries. Some kids. Guys and girls. I also constantly get messages from friends, friends. I just ignore. Some weirdo who is friends with my cousin was messaging me 3-4 times a day begging to hang out. He lives 1200 miles away. And yesterday some random dude messaged me " munch, munch". I just ignored it. My gf posted a hot pic and I commented and one of her friends started saying he liked all my pics and how hot I am. I asked her if she can block what he sees and she ignored me. Is there a way? I'm technologically illiterate.

xStacey
02-10-2015, 11:32 AM
Don't even respond to him. I have 74 friends on facebook and 20 are persian breeders. I"ve has about 40 friend requests this year from random people in other countries. Some kids. Guys and girls. I also constantly get messages from friends, friends. I just ignore. Some weirdo who is friends with my cousin was messaging me 3-4 times a day begging to hang out. He lives 1200 miles away. And yesterday some random dude messaged me " munch, munch". I just ignored it. My gf posted a hot pic and I commented and one of her friends started saying he liked all my pics and how hot I am. I asked her if she can block what he sees and she ignored me. Is there a way? I'm technologically illiterate.

Is your profile private? You can always change the settings of your account so that only your friends can view your posts, status and pictures (some of my friends were unaware that anybody who visit their profile can see just about everything without having to send a friend request).

xStacey
02-10-2015, 11:36 AM
I find it so weird when people have 5000 friends on Facebook and share everything about their lives openly...

michele11
02-10-2015, 11:43 AM
Is your profile private? You can always change the settings of your account so that only your friends can view your posts, status and pictures (some of my friends were unaware that anybody who visit their profile can see just about everything without having to send a friend request).

I'm not sure. I tried to make it private. I remember a while ago some of my friends were saying they didn't want people who are friends with people their not to see their stuff and you had to do this thing over their name and right click and all this stuff. i don't remember now. But I thought they had to? i want it to be when they click on it they only see ? like some people. I accused my ex of knowing my password because he was commenting on all my pics and he never has in 6 years so it must be public somehow now.

xStacey
02-10-2015, 11:51 AM
I'm not sure. I tried to make it private. I remember a while ago some of my friends were saying they didn't want people who are friends with people their not to see their stuff and you had to do this thing over their name and right click and all this stuff. i don't remember now. But I thought they had to? i want it to be when they click on it they only see ? like some people. I accused my ex of knowing my password because he was commenting on all my pics and he never has in 6 years so it must be public somehow now.

Try to click on the lock on the top right of your Facebook page and you should see something like "Privacy setting" then you have a bunch of stuff : who can see my pictures, who can see my posts, who can contact me, who can see my phone number, e-mail address, ect. for each one of them you can select who gets to see it: all (everyone), friends of friends, friends only or only you...

Selina M
02-10-2015, 01:00 PM
I find it so weird when people have 5000 friends on Facebook and share everything about their lives openly...

Seriously. My friend just went through a breakup and the while thing played out super publicly via both of them updating FB statuses. Like, dude... All 500 of your friends now know you cheated, tried to apologize and she wouldn't take it, she kicked you out, she tried to keep your TV... Literally everything that happened was public knowledge. It's annoying as fuck to those of us who don't care and why do you wanna blast your business to everyone?

Kellydancer
02-10-2015, 01:33 PM
Don't even respond to him. I have 74 friends on facebook and 20 are persian breeders. I"ve has about 40 friend requests this year from random people in other countries. Some kids. Guys and girls. I also constantly get messages from friends, friends. I just ignore. Some weirdo who is friends with my cousin was messaging me 3-4 times a day begging to hang out. He lives 1200 miles away. And yesterday some random dude messaged me " munch, munch". I just ignored it. My gf posted a hot pic and I commented and one of her friends started saying he liked all my pics and how hot I am. I asked her if she can block what he sees and she ignored me. Is there a way? I'm technologically illiterate.

Yeah I blocked him and glad I did. He was freaking me out because he started as a cool guy but turned into a pervert. Most of those on my list on Facebook are people I know in real life (high school classmates for example). My Facebook is private now but I noticed when I posted on various Facebook pages they saw me.

charlie61
02-10-2015, 03:02 PM
I bought a book to help me prepare for the GRE. I'm glancing through the math problems.

Literally, what the fuck is this shit.

Kellydancer
02-10-2015, 03:25 PM
Weird conversation that I am trying to figure out. I have this guy friend who apparently he tells people he's interested and does things that seem to make him interested, like staring at me at events, then giggling and waving if I see him staring. I figured since he hasn't asked me out he's either not interested in me or just not interested in anyone (plus he's dealing with a lot of personal issues). No biggie and we still chat often. Today she asked me if I could introduce her to some widowed ladies like herself around her age because she needs social interaction without her son (they go everywhere). She then asked me if I had a boyfriend. It just struck me as odd.

charlie61
02-10-2015, 05:07 PM
There's a newer male member on here (he's been posting a decent amount) whose user name makes me feel uncomfortable every time I see it. It sounds like something a child molester would have his victims call him. :ill:

xStacey
02-10-2015, 08:25 PM
Seriously. My friend just went through a breakup and the while thing played out super publicly via both of them updating FB statuses. Like, dude... All 500 of your friends now know you cheated, tried to apologize and she wouldn't take it, she kicked you out, she tried to keep your TV... Literally everything that happened was public knowledge. It's annoying as fuck to those of us who don't care and why do you wanna blast your business to everyone?

... Attention craving? xD

Also, I find it so annoying when some girls in the adult industry keep bragging about how much money they make on their Facebook account. One girl I knew would even post pictures of piles of money hiding under her bed mattress, she was then surprised about having someone break into her apartment and having to move out (of course she also made that a public knowledge on her facebook status).

xStacey
02-10-2015, 08:26 PM
I bought a book to help me prepare for the GRE. I'm glancing through the math problems.

Literally, what the fuck is this shit.

You should come to Quebec! Here the GRE is not a requirement for psychology grad schools :P

charlie61
02-10-2015, 11:16 PM
There's a newer male member on here (he's been posting a decent amount) whose user name makes me feel uncomfortable every time I see it. It sounds like something a child molester would have his victims call him. :ill:

I told my partner about this guy's username, and now he's obsessed with it. He keeps saying it in this creepy clown voice....hahaha! "Come touch _____ ______!" "Wheeeere's ______ ______?" "_____ ______'s here...come out and play!!"

MyButter
02-11-2015, 08:31 AM
I've recently been lurking on this message board dedicated to long hair. Sometimes I'll read an entire thread and still have no clue what they're talking about because their posts are laced with all of these strange (to me) acronyms and blends.

Lol, Imagine our non-sexworker lurkers! Probably thinking to themselves: "What the hell is a bb?!"

michele11
02-11-2015, 08:43 AM
I told my partner about this guy's username, and now he's obsessed with it. He keeps saying it in this creepy clown voice....hahaha! "Come touch _____ ______!" "Wheeeere's ______ ______?" "_____ ______'s here...come out and play!!"

Hahaha. Reminds me of what my ex would do.

simone87
02-11-2015, 10:29 AM
my bf and i only have amazing passionate sex after we've had a fight. this is probably so not healthy...

kaninchen
02-11-2015, 10:59 AM
I bought a book to help me prepare for the GRE. I'm glancing through the math problems.

Literally, what the fuck is this shit.

Get a tutor! I graduated high school without having taken any math classes and when I had to take statistics in college, I was like:

http://i.imgur.com/ABtwP3k.gif

Fortunately, I swallowed my pride, got a tutor, and got an A in the class. You're smart, you can do math!

michele11
02-11-2015, 11:09 AM
my bf and i only have amazing passionate sex after we've had a fight. this is probably so not healthy...

No it's called make up sex. I always got really horny after a fight. Lol.

charlie61
02-11-2015, 11:43 AM
Fortunately, I swallowed my pride, got a tutor, and got an A in the class. You're smart, you can do math!

Yeah. I'm good with the arithmetic, statistics and algebra (I've actually taken college statistics, chemistry, etc.). It's the other stuff - the things we learned in sixth grade and haven't used since then due to their practical worthlessness - that have me worried. Permutations, geometry, probability, rates, ratios, primes, roots, inequalities ... :shudders:

smeca
02-11-2015, 11:45 AM
I get so annoyed and have to leave the area when girls are chatting about sex and all the orgasms they have. No one has ever made me come nor can I manage it during sex/in the presence of a partner. :'(

Kellydancer
02-11-2015, 12:12 PM
Yeah. I'm good with the arithmetic, statistics and algebra (I've actually taken college statistics, chemistry, etc.). It's the other stuff - the things we learned in sixth grade and haven't used since then due to their practical worthlessness - that have me worried. Permutations, geometry, probability, rates, ratios, primes, roots, inequalities ... :shudders:

I had a very strange thing happen in college about math. I always struggled in math and was so afraid that when I finally took math (I waited until senior year, not a wise choice)I would end up in remedial class and have to take several of them which would cause me to have to attend an extra semester just for math. Turns out I not only didn't have to take remedial I got accepted into the next level, skipping the college level math entirely. Apparently when I was in school I was learning these things (and remembering them) but had severe math anxiety due to having a math teacher who was mean. I had an amazing math teacher in college and she had told me that many women in school are often belittled and this is why so many think they are worse than they are. I was so lucky to have gotten her as a teacher because she changed my thinking that had been ingrained in me for many years.

xStacey
02-11-2015, 01:45 PM
I get so annoyed and have to leave the area when girls are chatting about sex and all the orgasms they have. No one has ever made me come nor can I manage it during sex/in the presence of a partner. :'(

I have never came with a partner either in my whole life! But I can easily orgasm or have multiple ones when by myself with my vibrators :P

Tsepmet1
02-11-2015, 04:10 PM
I'm moving back to Florida on Sunday and I'm super worried that Mons won't take me back because I've gained weight.

:(

lynn2009
02-11-2015, 06:53 PM
I've recently been lurking on this message board dedicated to long hair. Sometimes I'll read an entire thread and still have no clue what they're talking about because their posts are laced with all of these strange (to me) acronyms and blends.

Lol, Imagine our non-sexworker lurkers! Probably thinking to themselves: "What the hell is a bb?!"

On tuscl I see 'DS' which I have never been quite able to figure out, if someone wants to enlighten me.

charlie61
02-11-2015, 07:00 PM
On tuscl I see 'DS' which I have never been quite able to figure out, if someone wants to enlighten me.

Dick suck? I'm just scrolling down on urban dictionary...

lynn2009
02-11-2015, 07:16 PM
Dick suck? I'm just scrolling down on urban dictionary...

It always seems to be about a particular dancer, like a fav, so maybe? Idk, I perused urban dictionary once and didn't see anything that seemed to fit the context but it's not used terribly often so I can't remember. Internetslang.com has it as 'dear son' though!

edit: I think it is dream stripper! I googled 'tuscl ds'. Don't know why I never did that before. I knew it was very similar to ATF!