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charlie61
02-27-2015, 09:20 AM
^If it's inappropriate, report it.
zoezoebelle
02-27-2015, 09:20 AM
Uhg! I joined eharmony today
No shame in that! I met my boyfriend on OKCupid and he's awesome! :) Classy, brilliant, good in bed, good job. It can happen.
Kellydancer
02-27-2015, 10:23 AM
Anytime I start a thread I click on the thank button on every post whether I agree with them or not. For me it's just a way of showing my appreciation for reading the thread and taking the time to post something. But I refuse to click the thank button for a post a particularly crass blue made in a thread I started. The blue posted a quote from a movie about a slow witted individual and how a box of chocolates is a metaphor for life in a thread about spousal abuse.
Yeah that post was way out of line. I enjoy sometimes when people post jokes to lighten threads but there is a time and place and that wasn't it.
Kellydancer
02-27-2015, 10:29 AM
Uhg! I joined eharmony today
Let's us know how it works. I've tried almost all the dating sites except eHarmony but considered it. I failed on all the sites (met lots of guys but not the one)so not crazy about doing one again but my mom keeps pressuring me to do so. I know others have succeeded but for me it was either men where we didn't click but were decent (the men I met in person), or the bottom barrel trash that contacted me on the dating sites.
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-27-2015, 12:03 PM
I confess I'm feeling some feelings of hatred towards men that I haven't felt since I was in my mid-20s. ugh ugh ugh. All of it makes me feel yucky...
zoezoebelle
02-27-2015, 01:38 PM
When I first decided to become a stripper, my therapist told me not to. She got very cross and said, "It's going to trigger so much! You won't be able to be mentally stable. You'll lose your boyfriend because of this job." The first week made almost everything she said seem like the truth. But since then I've been doing great. I confess that I get this gleam of joy every time I prove my various doctors wrong. I've always been a survivor. I don't need your damn medication and I'm not broken. Just hurt.
I love the show secret diary of a call girl, been watching it on demand all day even tho I should be productive. Belle the escort in the show reminds me of audry K when she used to escort.lol.
Selina M
02-27-2015, 07:22 PM
^ ME TOO! Especially with her new avatar.
kaninchen
02-27-2015, 10:39 PM
My sister found the most adorable, sweet, super-soft cat wandering the streets last night. She was dirty and mewing for help, poor bebe! The cat's staying at my house while my sister puts up flyers and a Craigslist ad to find her owners.
I confess I really don't want her to get found... I want to keep her! She's SO cute, I'm dying. She will not stop cuddling with me and looks just like this one:
http://florenciabirmans.com/Birmans/birmanspic5.jpg
I'm calling her Pasha Moonboots.
ScarletKitten
02-27-2015, 11:06 PM
^^OMG!!! So cute! I hope you get to keep her too!!! I feel bad for the owner(s) though.
My confession: I really cannot live without cannabis. I have to admit it. Sometimes I think I'll be fine without it for a few days, but then I have a complete mental breakdown, can't eat, can't sleep, have anxiety attack after anxiety attack. But once I get my medicine, all that goes away. Cannabis is amazing. It's as important as food and air to me.
Elektra Luxx
02-28-2015, 01:20 AM
When does a friend become a boyfriend? I don't know yet. All I know is Val just left, we kissed like this is going somewhere, my stomach is in knots and I'm freaking the fuck out!!!
michele11
02-28-2015, 11:43 AM
My sister found the most adorable, sweet, super-soft cat wandering the streets last night. She was dirty and mewing for help, poor bebe! The cat's staying at my house while my sister puts up flyers and a Craigslist ad to find her owners.
I confess I really don't want her to get found... I want to keep her! She's SO cute, I'm dying. She will not stop cuddling with me and looks just like this one:
http://florenciabirmans.com/Birmans/birmanspic5.jpg
I'm calling her Pasha Moonboots.
Looks like a Birman. They are expensive. I bet the owners going crazy.
Selina M
02-28-2015, 12:20 PM
Kaninchen, I can't help but think that's a "sign" and that some kitty company would be great for you right now. If you do find her owners, maybe adopting a cat in need would be good :)
charlie61
02-28-2015, 02:09 PM
I'm still really struggling with accepting my chronic burnout from dancing. I had convinced myself that once I moved out of $10/dance land, I'd start stripping again...but I moved to a place where literally everyone says that earnings are abysmally low, and that coupled with my burnout has resulted in me continuing to not dance.
I'm literally considering getting a cashiering job in a grocery store just to have something to do that's bringing in a small amount of money (I'd rather not keep draining my savings account). Just to have a low-stress job while I'm in school. The idea makes me feel super lame, but then it seems like dancers here pull in similar money to what cashiers make...
charlie61
02-28-2015, 02:25 PM
I'm still really struggling with accepting my chronic burnout from dancing. I had convinced myself that once I moved out of $10/dance land, I'd start stripping again...but I moved to a place where literally everyone says that earnings are abysmally low, and that coupled with my burnout has resulted in me continuing to not dance.
I'm literally considering getting a cashiering job in a grocery store just to have something to do that's bringing in a small amount of money (I'd rather not keep draining my savings account). Just to have a low-stress job while I'm in school. The idea makes me feel super lame, but then it seems like dancers here pull in similar money to what cashiers make...
I can't tell if I'm just making up excuses because I don't have it in me to dance consistently anymore, or if that's a legitimate excuse to not do it.
lynn2009
02-28-2015, 02:27 PM
I can't tell if I'm just making up excuses because I don't have it in me to dance consistently anymore, or if that's a legitimate excuse to not do it.
Aren't there a couple upscale clubs there that are better? Maybe worth a shot?
Aurora_Sunset
02-28-2015, 02:41 PM
I've realized that lately I've become abnormally, and kinda unhealthily, attached to my cat. I mean, I've always loved my pets deeply, but since living on my own again and losing a bunch of friends in the past several months, I feel like I've become super-dependent on him. I've found myself more enamored with his cuteness and wanting to have him cuddle up next to me all day than usual.... I literally even get this deep pang of missing him when I've been out of the house for several hours and then suddenly think of him. I get the urge to run home and check on him when I'm out with friends.
It's really disturbing me.
I think I'm starting to understand how "crazy cat ladies" truly become crazy cat ladies.
Vyanka
02-28-2015, 07:05 PM
Kaninchen, maybe that cat is chipped.
kaninchen
02-28-2015, 07:30 PM
^ My sister and I both felt her for a chip and we can't find anything. She put up posters today and went door to door but the only response she's received so far was someone texting about an orange tabby. Meanwhile, I've been trolling Craigslist and lost and found Facebook pages, but no one seems to be "missing" her! Which is unbelievable considering how sweet she is.
I trimmed her claws (they were like velociraptor talons, but at least she's not declawed!) and gave her a bath because she was so dirty, her paws were covered in sooty black stuff like she'd been crawling around in a chimney. She actually has mats all over her belly and she's covered in fleas, too, poor thing! AND her eyebrow whiskers are damaged. WTF happened to this cat?!
charlie61
02-28-2015, 07:45 PM
^ Get this stuff from the vet if you can. No prescription needed, safe, and easy to apply. Starts working in thirty minutes and all fleas dead by 24 hours. Worked well for us when our kitties picked up fleas from a La Quinta.
https://www.cheristin4cats.com
Selina M
02-28-2015, 08:00 PM
I didn't know you could feel for microchips? I thought they were super tiny. One of my dogs is chipped and we would never have known except they told us. A vet would probably scan her for free though, just to check.
But it sounds like she's been loose a while, so the chances of finding her owners are slim. Good for you, I suppose!
Aurora_Sunset
02-28-2015, 09:19 PM
I very often hit a point of depressed lethargy where I curse the fact that I never remember to buy straws at the store so that I could continue drinking while lying down.
Vyanka
02-28-2015, 09:53 PM
I didn't know you could feel for microchips? I thought they were super tiny. One of my dogs is chipped and we would never have known except they told us. A vet would probably scan her for free though, just to check.
But it sounds like she's been loose a while, so the chances of finding her owners are slim. Good for you, I suppose!
My family's small dog is chipped. I couldn't feel his either, & I took him to get chipped.
michele11
03-01-2015, 10:35 AM
I'm sick of chicks whining on this sight who do nothing to help themselves!
michele11
03-01-2015, 10:38 AM
^ My sister and I both felt her for a chip and we can't find anything. She put up posters today and went door to door but the only response she's received so far was someone texting about an orange tabby. Meanwhile, I've been trolling Craigslist and lost and found Facebook pages, but no one seems to be "missing" her! Which is unbelievable considering how sweet she is.
I trimmed her claws (they were like velociraptor talons, but at least she's not declawed!) and gave her a bath because she was so dirty, her paws were covered in sooty black stuff like she'd been crawling around in a chimney. She actually has mats all over her belly and she's covered in fleas, too, poor thing! AND her eyebrow whiskers are damaged. WTF happened to this cat?!
The owner may be an elderly person who died.
Kellydancer
03-01-2015, 02:25 PM
I'm sick of chicks whining on this sight who do nothing to help themselves!
Yes. One was complaining about changing her life, people made suggestions and she didn't want to help herself. I will add related to this I hate when not only don't they help themselves they decide to take the easy way, as in expect others to help them.
lynn2009
03-01-2015, 03:28 PM
I kind of want to bring my facebook account back only to try tinder. Gah.
KikiGem
03-01-2015, 03:48 PM
I am starting to view my school as a prison sentence. It's this continuous loop in my mind reminding me that I will never be happy until I have my surgeries... And in order to get money for that I need to dance... But I can't do that until I'm done with school. So my conclusion is I will just have to get by because all I can do right now is this goddamn school.
I'm going a little nuts.
miss.a.p1600
03-01-2015, 04:08 PM
I wish my manager would quit being so cotdamn nice to me and quit smiling at me and quit walking around so much and stay his ass in the office. Because I am doing the best I can to focus on work and stay professional and not smile and have googly eyes.
I've asked a couple girls what they thought about him and they are not attracted to him so I'm not sure why I still find him attractive.
*sigh*
#needanewobjectofaffection
#tiredofusinghandsandtoys
#hirefuglymanagers
xStacey
03-01-2015, 04:51 PM
I am finishing my Accutane treatment in a month and I cannot wait!
My skin never looked so nice before, I now wake up in the morning looking like I just applied my $70 foundation. I hope my pimples don't come back because I don't want another course of Accutane.
xStacey
03-01-2015, 04:54 PM
I kind of want to bring my facebook account back only to try tinder. Gah.
I wanted to register on Tinder a while ago and encountered the same problem :( I don't have Facebook and don't want to reactivate my account... There's plenty of other hook up websites that don't discriminate against people without Facebook!
Vyanka
03-01-2015, 07:13 PM
I am finishing my Accutane treatment in a month and I cannot wait!
My skin never looked so nice before, I now wake up in the morning looking like I just applied my $70 foundation. I hope my pimples don't come back because I don't want another course of Accutane.
That was the best thing I ever did years ago and never came back. I don't remember if you can/can't consume certain herbs while on it. Look into herbs for liver detox, since it makes the liver sensitive.
amberlly
03-02-2015, 01:09 AM
I hate my hairdresser. I got a cut that is very pretty but too short and blonde. My opinion or desires are ignored as he is superior and knows best.
Now finding someone else.
amberlly
03-02-2015, 01:13 AM
My hairdresser likes to make subtle insults and be moody and superior to everyone. He is incredibly talented and does a great job BUT its soo annoying. I feel so tense the entire time I am there and avoid getting my hair done for as long as possible.
I have finally had it. Now looking for a new one.
amberlly
03-02-2015, 01:40 AM
Triple post.
MyButter
03-03-2015, 05:30 AM
The fact that I'm not even remotely in touch with my femininity becomes blaringly obvious when my daughter has girlfriends over. Poor thing couldn't come to terms with me not posessing any nail polish, and the look on her little face when I gave her my makeup bag which only contained a single tube of lipstick and an eyeliner pen was priceless.
I've determined that boys are much, much easier to babysit.
wednesday86
03-03-2015, 09:47 AM
my confession: if I wasn't married I would so escort or get some sugar daddies. My friend has a sugar daddy and now makes more in an hour with him than a whole day at the club. She claims there's no sex but I would seriously rather let a couple dudes screw me once in a while than sell 5billion lap dances. Can we say "burn out"? I guess that'll be my back up plan if my husband doesn't get his shit together and get a real fucking job.
carmen_b
03-03-2015, 01:54 PM
I'm traveling tomorrow and can't focus today!
I made a list of must dos and what can wait till after to calm my mind.
All I want to do is be on vacation mode!
SweetJulia
03-03-2015, 07:20 PM
I almost fell asleep in class a handul of times today.
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-03-2015, 08:12 PM
I almost fell asleep in class a handul of times today.
I used to fall asleep in college class. It was funny. Obviously I dropped out.
Cool confession- I have to buy a new car at the end of this year so I am going to get a vanity plate that says "OMRCOMN" ("Omar Comin" from "The Wire.") I want to subtly encourage people to watch the Wire. God knows no one is going to do a series that good for a while.
Elektra Luxx
03-03-2015, 10:18 PM
my confession: if I wasn't married I would so escort or get some sugar daddies.
I really considered being a stripper, but people I know suggested I try escorting because they thought it might be easier to keep it secret from family and friends. At 18 it was a big deal, now I'm much more carefree about who finds out.
zoezoebelle
03-04-2015, 10:08 AM
The road and sidewalk have been covered in ice for the past week, and I've accomplished absolutely nothing with my life. I've been sitting here naked in a towel browsing the internet, just waiting for spring to come. More snow in the forecast, FML.
emma383
03-04-2015, 10:18 AM
The road and sidewalk have been covered in ice for the past week, and I've accomplished absolutely nothing with my life. I've been sitting here naked in a towel browsing the internet, just waiting for spring to come. More snow in the forecast, FML.
Isn’t this fun? Another weekend wintry mix from Mother Nature is making for hazardous driving and walking conditions across the area.:cold::cold::cold::cold::cold::cold:
zoezoebelle
03-04-2015, 10:21 AM
Isn’t this fun? Another weekend wintry mix from Mother Nature is making for hazardous driving and walking conditions across the area.:cold::cold::cold::cold::cold::cold:
Uhhg, I want to go walk down the street to the tea shop but it's so icy I'm afraid to even walk. I'm looking over at the balcony and it's covered in two inches of solid ice.
emma383
03-04-2015, 10:24 AM
Uhhg, I want to go walk down the street to the tea shop but it's so icy I'm afraid to even walk. I'm looking over at the balcony and it's covered in two inches of solid ice.
The combination of a lack of sun and cold weather invariably strains me. I brought a treadmill to burn some of it b/c I can't walkoutside..sucks. My poor credit card is offically maxed out..
charlie61
03-04-2015, 10:26 AM
Uhhg, I want to go walk down the street to the tea shop but it's so icy I'm afraid to even walk. I'm looking over at the balcony and it's covered in two inches of solid ice.
Put out bird food if you can! I can't imagine being an animal in those conditions. Winters are hard enough when they're 'normal'...
whirlerz
03-04-2015, 10:44 AM
Put out bird food if you can! I can't imagine being an animal in those conditions. Winters are hard enough when they're 'normal'...
Love to but the rats'd get it. :(
I need to wash my hair now. Can't get my ring off cause hand's swollen.
Vyanka
03-04-2015, 10:49 AM
Love to but the rats'd get it. :(
I need to wash my hair now. Can't get my ring off cause hand's swollen.
Rats hate the smell of cat piss. It sends them away.
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-04-2015, 12:23 PM
Rats hate the smell of cat piss. It sends them away.
Oh cool, best excuse ever to have a cat (if you have an older property.)
My confession- I' being lazy today but I'm also celebrating the end of my day job.....this is the first time in my life I have bailed off of a situation at the exact right time. I'm really happy for all my experiences there but it was time to GO and get something better.
michele11
03-04-2015, 04:03 PM
Saw lots of cute deer last night driving. I wanted to go pet one. Would it have bit me? Lol. I kept day dreaming of taking one with me.