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SimoneGray
05-14-2015, 04:23 PM
I confess that i LOVE Hillary Duff's new son "Sparks". Not only is it an awesome song, I'm just so happy that she's back on the scene to speak.

amberlly
05-14-2015, 04:53 PM
I bought a new dress and its super super cute. Fits perfectly. I also bought a dress that is too small and no chance of fitting. I can return in 30 days and I keep putting it off.

I keep getting in trouble at work for tiny petty shit. You greeted the customers wrong. You change shifts too often. Your unreliable (no im not!! I always show up within reason). End result - I figure stuff it. I will show up whenever and just do whatever suits me. Its not possible to get any approval from mgt. I also got in trouble for ducking when the regs pull out their phones itc. I don't want photos of me. Thanks!

I don't care. I will duck and show up whenever. im only in the gig another few months before i work out my next move.

I also got told im dumb and not right in the head. Really? I guess I am a good actor afterall.

KikiGem
05-14-2015, 05:05 PM
Amberlly, your managers suck. Don't they know that strippers don't have to follow the 'rules of society'?

amberlly
05-14-2015, 05:15 PM
Apparently not!! Im working later tonight. Im planning to treat them as if they are very mentally slow and smile and nod. Nothing else for it.

kaninchen
05-14-2015, 06:24 PM
I really miss when I could love stripping and it didn't feel like an hours-long battle against sexual assault.

Alternatively, I am finally registered for my first graduate class which starts on Sunday. This of course makes me think about my undergraduate and when I am being completely honest with myself, I regret almost all of it. It was so expensive, my mental health issues peaked, I was too shy/scared to approach professors. I basically went to three undergraduate universities, which would it hard for anyone to feel connected to any, but especially me. It wasn't the best years of my life like everyone always says. To me it was just years. And I should have majored in something else. I only talk to two girls fairly regularly, one of whom is worse than I am. I remember at graduation having no one to line up with and then at the department celebration I remember feeling really uncomfortable and out of place, leaving after 10 minutes and being so embarrassed to have my parents see it all.

Congratulations on getting into grad school! And thank you for sharing this so frankly. I'm still really struggling with depression and school is, like, impossible. I'm scraping by with Cs for my final quarter when I was on the Dean's List with a 4.0 every previous one. It is embarrassing, and weird too, especially as someone who is normally a super-duper overachiever. While I'm sorry you had to go through that, it makes me feel less ashamed and awkward to know that even a cool and intelligent lady like you had negative university experience. It's so helpful to see that you're not "the only one," you know? <3

Aurora_Sunset
05-14-2015, 06:44 PM
I really really want to go back to stripping part time. But, I don't want a concrete schedule and I don't want to interact with managers beyond checking in and tipping out. And that's just not really possible around here. Ugh... I miss everything else. But I can't deal with the club bullshit anymore. The bureaucratic bullshit of wannabe club manager pimps was always harder for me to deal with than walking away from some asshole customer. Why do they have to suck nowadays? :(

lynn2009
05-14-2015, 06:44 PM
Congratulations on getting into grad school! And thank you for sharing this so frankly. I'm still really struggling with depression and school is, like, impossible. I'm scraping by with Cs for my final quarter when I was on the Dean's List with a 4.0 every previous one. It is embarrassing, and weird too, especially as someone who is normally a super-duper overachiever. While I'm sorry you had to go through that, it makes me feel less ashamed and awkward to know that even a cool and intelligent lady like you had negative university experience. It's so helpful to see that you're not "the only one," you know? <3

Thanks hon. I'm not actually accepted into the program that I want though, lol. I was an overachiever in HS and really 'bottomed out' in college, and got pretty average grades. So I'm planning to take 3 classes, ace them and then get into the program. I'm already worried about it though, the book I need was 200 used and I'm so stressed out about money these days, I tried getting the book through the university library, which had to be sent from a different location and now is in limbo and Idk if I'll have it for Sunday anymore. It's just so frustrating because one semester in my undergrad, I forget why exactly, but I also then didn't buy one of my textbooks because it was too expensive and obviously I struggled in the class.

In any case thanks for sharing too <3. Are you in your final year? My college had mental health services available which I always thought about and never went to. I would really encourage anyone still in school and struggling w/ any mental health issues to take advantage of it.

charlie61
05-14-2015, 06:48 PM
Discussion belongs in the mental breakdown thread. :hug:

I confess that stripping is very boring to me most of the time.

zoezoebelle
05-14-2015, 06:58 PM
Sometimes men annoy me by being super pathetic and having crushes on me, and I end up talking down to them to try to get them to stop liking me. It's so awful to realise just how much shit they take from me without being deterred. I can call a "man"(they're such children though) an idiot, pathetic, poor, worthless to me, childish, etc. I can make fun of them for being virgins or not having a job or having a crush on me, even throwing it in their faces. AND THEY STILL WORSHIP ME. I fucking hate these guys. I don't like being mean to people but sometimes I just wish they'd get a grip and stop being so pathetic. I guess I just don't block them all instantly because blocking someone for being kind of lame seems like overkill, but is insulting and belittling someone any better? Arg. Fuck Disney for telling all young men that they can get a hot, strong willed, successful, generous woman to love them for doing absolutely nothing. Get a fucking job!!

charlie61
05-15-2015, 03:23 PM
I confess that I just thought about audrey_k, and now I'm worried about her. I hope she's just lurking these days...

SnuffleUffleGrass
05-15-2015, 03:45 PM
^^Poor mouse. :(

My confession: I miss my bro in law. He is completely insane, but damnit I miss talking to him. He had some interesting things to say. But he is schizophrenic and has borderline personality disorder. Not a good combo at all. But I still love him and care about him, despite the fact that he went off on me for literally NO reason whatsoever. But we have this psychic connection....and the past is kinda fucked up because I had some feelings for him. I don't have those same feelings anymore, I love my bf/husband to death, but I know I will always care about his brother. I just wish he could get some mental health help. I know, I'm one to talk, I'm insane too. But I can't help but feel compassion for those who are suffering. Also, my bf's son who is autistic is being bullied in school and I'm pissed about that and want to do something about it.

I care more about my bf's family more than my own damn family.

My mom has the same diagnois. My advice is- you have to avoid these people b/c they sadly take everyone down with them.


On a related note I feel like I had some sort of connection to a friend of my brother's who had severe mental issues- once when something bad happened to him, I hd a weird dream the night before we all found out about the Bad Event. It was a very specific dream b/c I knew a lot about him & his past.

I choose to think that we do have "connections" to people but we have to have the good judgement to make good choices for ourselves without factoring in someone else's dysfunction.

amberlly
05-15-2015, 06:29 PM
Update 3! Im quitting! Work last night was horrible. Place has gone dead and the mgt criticized me from the moment I arrived till I left. This is with me actively staying out of their way...

I'm over the politics and stupid games. Plus they are letting customers bring out their phones and laptops in the club area. Way to risky for me.

Sugar daddy time!

simone87
05-16-2015, 10:03 AM
i love having my friend over, but whenever she is over its nothing but fighting between my bf and i..she will tell me shit like " i think he's lying about this or that" or " if he really loved you, he would bla bla bla" or " he said this to me last night" and i dont know if she's actually bringing up good points i need to look into, or whether she's stirring the pot and trying to ruin my relationship. but after 5 days, i've about had enough, its making me absolutely miserable!

KikiGem
05-16-2015, 10:22 AM
Now that I'm no longer smoking weed ATM, I've began having dreams again, and very vivid ones at that. Last night was a dream about my old love. Why am I still haunted by him?

Aniela
05-16-2015, 02:42 PM
My best friend's wedding is this wk & I still haven't found a gift for them. During the convo when he told me they were finally getting married, & we were talking abt details, I asked what they would like -- they've been living together already for a few yrs, long engagement, so they pretty much have whatever they need. He said don't worry abt it, since he & I go back so long (10+yrs) & esp since I am literally driving from one corner of FL to the opposite corner to attend he said that's 'gift' enough. I still feel kinda weird abt it tho, like you don't show up empty-handed for a wedding.

Selina M
05-16-2015, 04:12 PM
^ I was a bridesmaid at my friends and didn't get them anything.
Personally I think the expectation of your guests to give you a gift is a little silly... like, I'm a grown up, I can buy my own kitchen shit. I don't need anyone to subsidize my everyday household stuff. That's not really a 'gift' IMHO if you've given people a list of shit you need and told them to pick something.

amberlly
05-16-2015, 09:14 PM
I just listened to the WORST sugar daddy podcast. It was just bad marketing plugs and no info. UGH

SimoneGray
05-16-2015, 09:31 PM
^^ I am super curious about this..sometimes I laugh listening to terrible sex work advice...link me?

zoezoebelle
05-17-2015, 09:07 AM
I'd make the worst sugar babe ever. Suits and money intimidate me, I'm anti-materialistic, I don't like jewelry or cars, and I'm way too prideful to ask for help on my bills. But apparently everyone wants to be my sugar daddy. @[email protected] Oh the irony. The guy I'm seeing is having to jump through hoops to convince me to accept anything from him.

charlie61
05-17-2015, 12:14 PM
I'd make the worst sugar babe ever. Suits and money intimidate me, I'm anti-materialistic, I don't like jewelry or cars, and I'm way too prideful to ask for help on my bills. But apparently everyone wants to be my sugar daddy. @[email protected] Oh the irony. The guy I'm seeing is having to jump through hoops to convince me to accept anything from him.

Some anti-materialistic girls make the best sugar babies because they have rock-solid personas (since their real personalities are totally different from the characters they're playing). It's easier to keep that personal / work boundary strong.

Selina M
05-17-2015, 12:14 PM
I totally bailed out on plans last night without even telling someone (friend I posted about in annoyances). Like, just stopped answering her fb messages. I didn't bother making up an excuse, or even telling her, bc I think the friendship has run its course and I didn't want to deal with discussing it.

I just didn't want to go out until 2 am, at a 'rave'/'desert party' with a bunch of 20 year olds. It sounded fun until I remembered that every time I go to those, I feel old and find myself waiting for everyone to be ready to leave. It was for fiancé's bday and he confessed that while he liked the DJs playing, he didn't want to actually go either, and was appalled at the $50 standing room ticket price. He wanted to go to the casino and play poker, so that's what we did.

michele11
05-17-2015, 01:08 PM
Omg. My neighbor I fucked ex wife text me she is over there giving their dog a bath can she come over. I hope she doesn't know!!! And my kitten has an other eye ulcer.

zoezoebelle
05-17-2015, 01:12 PM
Some anti-materialistic girls make the best sugar babies because they have rock-solid personas (since their real personalities are totally different from the characters they're playing). It's easier to keep that personal / work boundary strong.

Hmm good point. I guess I could figure out which gifts have the highest resale value and be very systematic with flat rates. But it seems like very few guys are into businessy sugar babes... They all seem to want some clueless little girl who's easily impressed by random gifts. Besides, I keep getting told I'm "wife material." xD People inevitably fall really hard for me and want to marry me, and most of the exceptions to this rule are sociopaths. I guess I don't have a persona that screams "fun party girl" so much as "try to knock this one up."

kaninchen
05-17-2015, 01:23 PM
They all seem to want some clueless little girl who's easily impressed by random gifts. Besides, I keep getting told I'm "wife material."

This is what guys do when they're cheap and are looking for excuses not to pay you for your hard work.

SnuffleUffleGrass
05-17-2015, 03:33 PM
I'd make the worst sugar babe ever. Suits and money intimidate me, I'm anti-materialistic, I don't like jewelry or cars, and I'm way too prideful to ask for help on my bills. But apparently everyone wants to be my sugar daddy. @[email protected] Oh the irony. The guy I'm seeing is having to jump through hoops to convince me to accept anything from him.

Yeah, after years of breaking their backs and busting heads to get rich, some guys are thirsty for a girlish naive sugarbaby. This is why Marilyn Monroe became a sex icon. She was a childlike person in a sex goddess body. A real man is gratified by that.

My confession- I am getting drunk b/c I had a weird day at my day job. I miss being self-employed.

wednesday86
05-18-2015, 06:34 AM
I am going back to the club this week...I had a dream about dancing on the pole and ever since I've been WANTING to go back. Really weird going from "completely burned out NEVER dancing again!" to "can't wait to strap on my stilettos and seduce everyone!"

Other (kind of embarrassing) confession: I was sourcing at a thrift store for stuff to sell on ebay and found a Gucci bag. I paid $17 for it, took it home, started researching it and found it's a fake. :( I thought I'd just made an easy $200-$300. At least that store takes refunds.

xStacey
05-18-2015, 10:38 AM
I'm so happy I chose to work full-time instead of taking summer classes. I was content with how much I was making working only one night per week but I almost cannot believe how much I am making right now dancing and doing body rubs 4 days per week. It's gonna be hard returning to school in Fall.

Elektra Luxx
05-18-2015, 11:25 AM
My bf's mom can't remember my name. She's called me Anna, Eva, Eve, Annie, Rene you name it and everybody thinks it's so funny. There's some real tension when we're in the same room together. I know she doesn't like me and I know she is purposely being mean because she doesn't think I'm good enough for her little boy.

Confession: I don't like her either and I'm not going down without a fight and I'm not going to let her get to me.

SweetJulia
05-18-2015, 11:31 AM
My bf's mom can't remember my name. She's called me Anna, Eva, Eve, Annie, Rene you name it and everybody thinks it's so funny. There's some real tension when we're in the same room together. I know she doesn't like me and I know she is purposely being mean because she doesn't think I'm good enough for her little boy.

Confession: I don't like her either and I'm not going down without a fight and I'm not going to let her get to me.
I had a nursing school teacher who had a different version if my unusual, Russian name every time it left her mouth, which reeked of booze. in retrospect, I should have put her in her place. My confession: I won a good amount on two lottery tickets and am not telling anyone irl.

xStacey
05-18-2015, 11:39 AM
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xStacey
05-18-2015, 11:40 AM
My bf's mom can't remember my name. She's called me Anna, Eva, Eve, Annie, Rene you name it and everybody thinks it's so funny. There's some real tension when we're in the same room together. I know she doesn't like me and I know she is purposely being mean because she doesn't think I'm good enough for her little boy.

Confession: I don't like her either and I'm not going down without a fight and I'm not going to let her get to me.

My first boyfriend's mom didn't like me much either. The only compliment she could think of about me was how I could finish a meal with my lipstick still intact. When I broke her precious son's heart she told him he should have picked his girlfriend based on more than her ass lol

kaninchen
05-18-2015, 11:45 AM
My boyfriend has a habit that drives me up the wall. He leaves his clean laundry in a trash bag on the floor instead of putting it away in his dresser. He has two bags on the floor right now. I don't get it, his parents are lovely, tidy, decent people -- why does he act like he was raised by wolves?

So, I kind of want to sprinkle some fresh, clean cat litter from the refill container onto his clothes so he'll be motivated to put them away. The bags are near the litterbox so he'll think the cat tracked it there. Is that petty and terrible? I honestly don't know.

JessaJade
05-18-2015, 11:48 AM
My bf's mom can't remember my name. She's called me Anna, Eva, Eve, Annie, Rene you name it and everybody thinks it's so funny. There's some real tension when we're in the same room together. I know she doesn't like me and I know she is purposely being mean because she doesn't think I'm good enough for her little boy.

Confession: I don't like her either and I'm not going down without a fight and I'm not going to let her get to me.

Pah. My boyfriends mum is also very petty and rude to me in a sly way.
I don't really care anymore but she has been really passive aggressively nasty to me several times.

The last straw was when she gave me a horrible birthday card(I mean an obviously ugly, weird design from some discount bin, totally different from her usual taste) and some chocolates called 'Going Nuts' after she knew I was suffering depression...LOL. What a bitch.

I am tempted to get her a 'With Sympathy' card on her birthday but I can't be bothered stooping to her level.

michele11
05-18-2015, 12:21 PM
Oops. Just sent a message calling the damn bitch breeder I'm dealing with a cunt to her. Haha. It was meant for someone else. Oh well. I'm sitting here waiting to look ar kittens and she's at the beach, cat shows every weekend. Oh i lost my phone and I see her signed in on facebook. Like I'm supposed to drive 6 hours round trip to her ass when she sold me an ill cat! And I'm a dancer and her husband doesn't like that and doesn't trust me because I should of brought her back right away. Really She should of offered to drive here before I spent 600 on her eyes and offered my money back and said when he had available liters I could pick one. Now 5 months later it's bring her back. And I'm a dancer and her husband doesn't like that!?! Her ass and tits are all over her facebook page. Fake model bitch. I'm sooo sick of this woman and don't know what to do. Yeah lets turn the tables around when I could have her cattery shut down!!!

baer45
05-18-2015, 12:28 PM
My boyfriend has a habit that drives me up the wall. He leaves his clean laundry in a trash bag on the floor instead of putting it away in his dresser. He has two bags on the floor right now. I don't get it, his parents are lovely, tidy, decent people -- why does he act like he was raised by wolves?

So, I kind of want to sprinkle some fresh, clean cat litter from the refill container onto his clothes so he'll be motivated to put them away. The bags are near the litterbox so he'll think the cat tracked it there. Is that petty and terrible? I honestly don't know.


Did he move a lot in the past? I had a bf who was a navy seals, he had all his shit packed up in a duffel bag at night and unpack it in the morning, which is odd. No wonder why one day he just left and never returned.

michele11
05-18-2015, 03:16 PM
I'll be fat again by the time I got back to work it'll be 6 weeks off and i'm back to eating my goldfish and chocolate every night now for two weeks. I should say fat in my eyes since I gained 2 pounds so far and am 114 but I'm sure by the time I leave I'll gain another 5 or more. I don't care!!! I have stress!!!

ava$
05-18-2015, 05:37 PM
I have to sell some stuff (worth around $500-1000 each, otherwise I wouldn't even bother) and I really don't feel like taking pictures of the items, posting them online, writing a description, replying to e-mails & phone calls and then meeting the buyers in person. Ugh, I cannot just throw them away (designer coats, bags, electronic stuff) but I don't want them sitting around in my apartment anymore.

Why not just sell it on ebay or amazon? You won't have to meet the ppl in person at least

zoezoebelle
05-18-2015, 05:42 PM
I'll be fat again by the time I got back to work it'll be 6 weeks off and i'm back to eating my goldfish and chocolate every night now for two weeks. I should say fat in my eyes since I gained 2 pounds so far and am 114 but I'm sure by the time I leave I'll gain another 5 or more. I don't care!!! I have stress!!!

I've had a tiny belly and a little leg fat (which I've never even had before in my life) since starting this job. I've been eating so many fried dumplings and pastries. ._.

wednesday86
05-18-2015, 07:10 PM
i started smoking about a month ago and i know i need to quit....but i love it. it relaxes me and sometimes it's the only time of day i get out of the house by myself..without anyone talking to me...not to mention i've lost even more weight between smoking and stress. i know it's killing me but it's also making me look pretty damn good. lol

charlie61
05-18-2015, 07:25 PM
i started smoking about a month ago and i know i need to quit....but i love it. it relaxes me and sometimes it's the only time of day i get out of the house by myself..without anyone talking to me...not to mention i've lost even more weight between smoking and stress. i know it's killing me but it's also making me look pretty damn good. lol

I (confess?) that I had a dream recently in which I started smoking cigarettes (I've never smoked before), and it was super, super addicting. In my dream, I found myself reaching for cigarettes constantly; it gave me a pleasant, lifting feeling. I knew I was addicted, but it felt so nice that I didn't care. Which, I guess, is kind of the point of an addiction, right? It was actually a good dream (and hyper-realistic at that), but I woke up very relieved to find I'd never picked up the habit.

amberlly
05-19-2015, 05:12 AM
I have to move in a few months. I have loads of crap I need to sell or get rid of. Its not particularly valuable and im scared to sell it coz i hate dealing with crazy ppl and strangers.

wednesday86
05-19-2015, 06:32 AM
I have to move in a few months. I have loads of crap I need to sell or get rid of. Its not particularly valuable and im scared to sell it coz i hate dealing with crazy ppl and strangers.

ebay it girl! I've been killing it on there. I keep planning to go into the club but I get overrun with orders. I can't do craigslist either. too many crazies in chicago

Selina M
05-19-2015, 10:06 AM
ebay it girl! I've been killing it on there. I keep planning to go into the club but I get overrun with orders. I can't do craigslist either. too many crazies in chicago

Seriously girl, you make me want to start scouring thrift shops and selling stuff...

I remember my ex cleaning out his house, selling all this random shit like Lego sets and whatnot, and it was amazing how easy it was to sell it all on Ebay. I, on the other hand, was in charge of furniture, and Craiglist was a colossal pain in my ass.

Amber, do you maybe have a FB group called "swip swap" or something similar? We have them for some of the suburbs out here and it's pretty easy to deal with!

xStacey
05-19-2015, 10:09 AM
I've never been interested in having a sugar daddy but I'm starting to be curious about it. I always hear girls at work saying they want to find a sugar daddy to buy them gifts, take them on vacation, pay for their bills but don't know where to find them, a lot of them are on SD websites lol. I have regulars I've been leading on for years and have sugar daddy potential, they're celibate, work a lot, don't have many friends but a lot of money.

There's this guy who always tips generously whenever he visits and keeps telling me he has too much money and too much free time on hand because he doesn't work. I was thinking yeah sure he's probably bullshitting because wealthy men don't say they're rich. My manager just told me he does have a lot of money, owns a jewelry store and was the sugar daddy of a girl who used to work at the club. He bought her huge diamond rings, took her on a $30k vacation for 4 months and paid all her expenses and her friend's. My manager even encouraged me to seize the opportunity, she's sure he's looking for a new sugar baby because the girl left and returned to France. He keeps inviting me to go get dinner and I always decline...

Selina M
05-19-2015, 03:32 PM
I want to build a little cabin and just live in that. There's room on my parents acreage, we could do it for like $3000. The building permit process just looks awful and the permit itself is like $1300 (fucking ridiculous!) :/

michele11
05-19-2015, 05:54 PM
Cabins are cute do it. My confession, I need to lean to just keep my mouth shut. I may have srewed this whole kitten scenario up and I want to deal with the first lady whose cats I saw and just bring my sick cat back. She had a liter of 4 kittens that are fabulous. But she won't accept my friend rewuest and won't answer my message. I've been crying on and off all day but the pther breeder I spoke to said I should just bring her back. I can report her to dept of ag and they will handle everything for me. I love her but this is her third eye ulcer in 4 months and I can't worry everytime and have her get my other cat sick.

amberlly
05-19-2015, 10:03 PM
@Michelle - those eye ulcers sound really serious! Good luck!

I gave up the gym because I was stressed and busy. Dumb move. My tummy is squidgy now. I went back yesterday and going in an hour today. Best feeling ever.
Whenever I go there are always school kids around. Its great people watching plus the guys who guard their weights with angry stares. lOl

Prettyglitter
05-20-2015, 03:21 AM
I've never been interested in having a sugar daddy but I'm starting to be curious about it. I always hear girls at work saying they want to find a sugar daddy to buy them gifts, take them on vacation, pay for their bills but don't know where to find them, a lot of them are on SD websites lol. I have regulars I've been leading on for years and have sugar daddy potential, they're celibate, work a lot, don't have many friends but a lot of money.

There's this guy who always tips generously whenever he visits and keeps telling me he has too much money and too much free time on hand because he doesn't work. I was thinking yeah sure he's probably bullshitting because wealthy men don't say they're rich. My manager just told me he does have a lot of money, owns a jewelry store and was the sugar daddy of a girl who used to work at the club. He bought her huge diamond rings, took her on a $30k vacation for 4 months and paid all her expenses and her friend's. My manager even encouraged me to seize the opportunity, she's sure he's looking for a new sugar baby because the girl left and returned to France. He keeps inviting me to go get dinner and I always decline...
Be careful! SDs are wonderful and fun but they can require a lot of time and attention and being on their terms.

SweetJulia
05-20-2015, 05:16 AM
Plus, going on vacations with them? Who the fuck wants to spend that that much time with them? My confession: This is beyond gross, but I haven't washed my hair in five days, it's starting to itch.

Aniela
05-20-2015, 09:39 AM
My confession: This is beyond gross, but I haven't washed my hair in five days, it's starting to itch.

Been there -- during basic, I was lucky if I got to wash my hair three times a wk, & the extra two times would always have to be in the sink after taps :irked:

My confession -- best friend's wedding is today, & my anxiety is kicking in … how will I function around all these strangers … will his bride like me or think I shouldn't have a place in his life anymore now that he's married … I can't even remember if she even knows I'm a retired stripper :eek: … what if sm1 asks me to dance(totally can't dance w/o a pole :laughing: ) … what if sm1 gets drunk & obnoxious towards me … will my feet just explode again in these 4" heels … is the skirt I chose too short(even tho I know it's fine) …