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malayataylor
08-07-2010, 06:36 AM
http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_RjzeMrSvLIo/Rdo11lwc1cI/AAAAAAAAAAk/Sn9r1E6g_Lk/s1600/skinny%2Bjeans-dolce%2B%26%2Bgabanna.
http://www.celebritybeautybuzz.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/636_10169743092.jpg
http://www4.images.coolspotters.com/photos/68827/frankie-b-jeans-mohawk-prepster-skinny-jeans-profile.jpg
It looks REALLY bad when the girl has no shape at all but when she has a body/curves it's UBER sexy..to me. I'm sure the guys will agree on this one. Frankie B Jeans are the shit! Ooh and they make my ass look bigger .. lol
Harleigh HellKat
08-07-2010, 07:45 AM
^Yeah you definitely have to have the right body type... and the right shoes. Certain shoes look 'grade school' with skinny jeans. I vote heels or cute flats that don't make your feet look uber big.
Now one jean trend I DO like is boyfriend jeans. Love em. But not the super-saggy ones, the almost-skinny-but-kinda-saggy ones that are a little ripped up and faded.
malayataylor
08-07-2010, 07:53 AM
^Yeah you definitely have to have the right body type... and the right shoes. Certain shoes look 'grade school' with skinny jeans. I vote heels or cute flats that don't make your feet look uber big.
Now one jean trend I DO like is boyfriend jeans. Love em. But not the super-saggy ones, the almost-skinny-but-kinda-saggy ones that are a little ripped up and faded.
I loooove boyfriend jeans! however, I wouldn't wear them everywhere. Maybe to the amusment park or something but not to dinner with the bf. Harleigh, speaking of amusment parks have you been to carowinds? I have a Season pass and I've only been 3 times.. LOL! It's hella fun though.
Back to jeans: I wouldn't wear skinnys to a park ...they can be a bit uncomfortable.
oH and True religion skinny jeans are schexy!
http://images.bloomingdales.com/is/image/BLM/products/9/optimized/948479_fpx.tif?wid=325&qlt=90,0&layer=comp&op_sharpen=0&resMode=bilin&op_usm=0.7,1.0,0.5,0&fmt=jpeg
http://piperlime.gap.com/Asset_Archive/PLWeb/Assets/Product/767/767792/main/pl767792-00p01v01.jpg
I have these .... they're HOT!
Harleigh HellKat
08-07-2010, 08:06 AM
I have not been to carowinds yet.... hmmm sounds interesting. Mostly roller coasters? Ooh do they have spinny rides?
malayataylor
08-07-2010, 08:12 AM
I have not been to carowinds yet.... hmmm sounds interesting. Mostly roller coasters? Ooh do they have spinny rides?
http://www.carowinds.com/
Girl they have EVERYTHING! It's so much fun! My client actually bought the season pass for my bday and we went together on a thursday and there was almost noone there.. didn't have to wait to get on the rides! We had a blast!
Saturdays are crowded ..I just can't stand it but the Season pass is good until October! Girl, Ima have to show you around Charlotte!
Harleigh HellKat
08-07-2010, 08:18 AM
^That's what's good about being self-employed... you can go to the amusement park in the middle of the week! Sweet!!
My confession: My backpack with my outfit for the shoot today AND my ponyfall extensions is missing. I am freaking pissed. It was in my friend's truck and now POOF it's gone? Oh hell no.
malayataylor
08-07-2010, 08:45 AM
^That's what's good about being self-employed... you can go to the amusement park in the middle of the week! Sweet!!
Heh.. True! :)
pixierocksonthepole
08-07-2010, 02:44 PM
I love my skinny jeans too. My legs are my best feature and I like to show them off! They definitely look best with really high heels, don't like them with flats.
My legs are my best feature too but you can bet that if I am showing off their shape, I'm really showing them off in a dress of skirt. I'm not a big fan of the skinny jeans. I like some room in my pants. lol
noelle
08-07-2010, 06:47 PM
For the girls that hate skinny jeans: what kind of jeans do you think look good? Baggy jeans? Flared jeans? I don't think flares look good on most women, they make me think of horses. Anyway I am curious!
fantasiarene
08-07-2010, 10:36 PM
I realize I've been dancing for nearly 8 1/2 years and hear how gorgeous/sexy/beautiful I am all the freaking time but tonight a guy made me blush. I was at the liquor store looking for some hard cider and he went to help me. We couldn't find any for a make your own 6 pack so we were walking back up to the front and he just looked at me and said so honestly "you are so beautiful." I blushed and quietly said thank you because it was just sweet and it didn't come from some jerk in the club trying to get in my pants.
The second for the day is I plan to go tomorrow to another club and do their dancer interview. I walked out of my club with nothing tonight after I paid my tipout. I was pissed. I'm scared though because I'm considered thick (my thighs and hips are muscular from skating). I wear a 10/11 in jeans. Anyway I swore after I walked out of the club I wanted to audition at, I heard another guy ask she wants to be a dancer, and then thought I heard them bust out laughing. I could have just been hearing things but oh well.
Harleigh HellKat
08-07-2010, 11:05 PM
^I am about to go back to dancing this week... temporarily, until other things get going. So I'm probably in the market for a new club as well. The ones in this area frustrate the hell out of me though! I may try a divey bar so I can wear whatever I want. I want it to be as stress-less as possible. I might even wear my dreads. (I found them!!) I feel like I haven't let my style shine in the club so fuck em, I'ma do me.
fantasiarene
08-08-2010, 12:21 AM
Oh and I forgot to mention I don't know how to do a lap dance. Been dancing almost 8 1/2 years and only danced at lap dance clubs for a very short time long time ago (back in 2004). I really need to learn.
carmen_b
08-08-2010, 01:23 AM
I cuddled with my reg OTC. I hope there is an idiot trophy out there for me. I'm trying to salvage it with the " come save my night " line. Probably won't work. Stupid. Stupid. Stupid.
In my defense he's 6'4" with Tats and hot.
carmen_b
08-08-2010, 01:51 AM
Why in the fuck did I come back here? I told myself I wouldn't be back... And I'm here. How can I make $700 last time on sat and now here it is 2am with $120 made. How in the fuck can I salvage the night?!?
pixierocksonthepole
08-08-2010, 07:20 AM
For the girls that hate skinny jeans: what kind of jeans do you think look good? Baggy jeans? Flared jeans? I don't think flares look good on most women, they make me think of horses. Anyway I am curious!
I prefer flared, only slightly not like bell bottom flare. They actually are the only jeans that look great on me. My husband loves them.;D
malayataylor
08-08-2010, 08:09 AM
For the girls that hate skinny jeans: what kind of jeans do you think look good? Baggy jeans? Flared jeans? I don't think flares look good on most women, they make me think of horses. Anyway I am curious!
I know you said for the girls that hate skinny jeans but just wanted to add my $0.02. I like either Skinny or Straight. I HATE flare or baggy jeans.
I dunno I have a pretty awesome figure. I guess I like to show it off too much. I'd wear baggy jeans to walmart though .. LOL!
princessjas
08-08-2010, 08:26 AM
http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_RjzeMrSvLIo/Rdo11lwc1cI/AAAAAAAAAAk/Sn9r1E6g_Lk/s1600/skinny%2Bjeans-dolce%2B%26%2Bgabanna.
http://www.celebritybeautybuzz.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/636_10169743092.jpg
http://www4.images.coolspotters.com/photos/68827/frankie-b-jeans-mohawk-prepster-skinny-jeans-profile.jpg
It looks REALLY bad when the girl has no shape at all but when she has a body/curves it's UBER sexy..to me. I'm sure the guys will agree on this one. Frankie B Jeans are the shit! Ooh and they make my ass look bigger .. lol
Thos women look like disasters and they are models....doesn't that say everything about them? Or maybe it's just that some people didn't live through the 80's and are therefore not traumatized by them the same way those of us that wore that garbage back then are. Dunno, but I nearly bust a gut laughing everytime I see someone strutting around like they are sexy in those. }:D No matter how good the body is or what kinda shoes they wear I just wanna scream "My eyes, my eyes!" lol
Harleigh HellKat
08-08-2010, 08:46 AM
At least they aren't high rise like in the eighties though. My eyes! The high rise just look uncomfortable, make you look like you have a gut (even if you don't), and diminish the booty!
@fan... I totally didn't know how to do a lap dance for a long time. I worked in stage clubs and when I tried out in Atlanta, I was like WTF? Then I moved up here and it's ALL lap dance. Don't worry, you'll learn quick!
_Avery_
08-08-2010, 09:22 AM
I haven't been to a mall in probably about 4 months! :(
I'm going today!! :)
This is going to be dangerous. Good thing I'm working tonight! :P
Glamgirl
08-08-2010, 10:39 AM
I love bootcut and skinny bootcut jeans :)
DirtyLittleSecret
08-08-2010, 10:50 AM
Ok, i think i should add mine..... i hope no one minds....
Last night i had a flash back of my high school life and its making me panic. I was out with my SO and my always adorable daughter at a small local fair. All my SO's friends were there but even surrounded by everyone i literally felt like i was alone in a crowd. Those friends don't have children so they treated me as if i was cancer patient ("how old is she? She's beautiful. *silence*). It was the most weirdest feeling ever and i barely talked or made eye contact with anyone cause i just didn't care to. My sole concentration was my daughters happiness.
A very familiar hermit like feeling is all i feel right now. I'm scared i'll always be this way. No friends. No association with the world. Just me.
jennsweet
08-08-2010, 01:23 PM
u have to have a super skinny figure to look good in those jeans.... any thigh or ass that doesnt scream SUPERMODEL (like you have to weigh less than 95lbs) and i think you are going to look terrible in those jeans. those girls look amazingly hot in those pics, but i know we all don't look like that when we wear them! :) ~just my .02
malayataylor
08-08-2010, 01:25 PM
u have to have a super skinny figure to look good in those jeans.... any thigh or ass that doesnt scream SUPERMODEL (like you have to weigh less than 95lbs) and i think you are going to look terrible in those jeans. those girls look amazingly hot in those pics, but i know we all don't look like that when we wear them! :) ~just my .02
I do!;D;D
malayataylor
08-08-2010, 01:27 PM
Thos women look like disasters and they are models....doesn't that say everything about them? Or maybe it's just that some people didn't live through the 80's and are therefore not traumatized by them the same way those of us that wore that garbage back then are. Dunno, but I nearly bust a gut laughing everytime I see someone strutting around like they are sexy in those. }:D No matter how good the body is or what kinda shoes they wear I just wanna scream "My eyes, my eyes!" lol
I think they look amazing! I love my skinnies.. they are very sexy on me and my clients love them. I agree you have to have the body for them or they just look stupid and I just happen to have THAT body.. and I just happen to. To each their own of course.. everyone has different tastes.
Jessie_tinydancer
08-08-2010, 11:25 PM
^I confess... I like skinny jeans too. I think they look good on me as long as Im wearing the right shoes/boots and top. I wore my thigh high suede boots with my skinnies for the first time last week (usually wear them with skirts) and damn! I thought I was hot...LOL
I'll admit I sometimes wear them with the wrong shoes to uni because I have no other clean pairs of jeans and I have to wear gross shoes to uni because they are mandatory in labs. But I also sometimes wear sweat pants and no makeup.... I basically look like a huge slob there and I really dont care hehe.
malayataylor
08-09-2010, 04:16 AM
^I bet they look hot on you Jess! You have a really HOT bod!
My confession of the day: I made crazy bank.. I made ALMOST what I make in a month yesterday! I honestly thought raising my rates would put me out of business but it's doing the exact opposite. I went shopping yesterday for my daughter before I had any calls thinking "Oh well I'm not going to make this money back for another week" and I did SOOO I'm going to pay my rent for 2 months and buy the new HDTV I've been eyeing for the longest.
Confession #2: Client #2 yesterday was so effin HOT. I would have f'd him for free and I think he pretty much figured that out. I almost left the money on the counter! First time for everything. Sooo unlike me!
jennsweet
08-09-2010, 06:25 AM
omg thats awesome! ^im soo happy for you. banking is fun bc it feels like a mini lotto winning. buying stuff you can't afford always makes me feel good ~until i see the credit card later that month. but knowing you can just buy anything bc you EARNED it... SSOOOO rewarding. i would love a 55 inch TV in our living room... now i just have to make 2500 in a night LOL
malayataylor
08-09-2010, 07:26 AM
omg thats awesome! ^im soo happy for you. banking is fun bc it feels like a mini lotto winning. buying stuff you can't afford always makes me feel good ~until i see the credit card later that month. but knowing you can just buy anything bc you EARNED it... SSOOOO rewarding. i would love a 55 inch TV in our living room... now i just have to make 2500 in a night LOL
I made well over 2500 last night which was a huge shocker BECAUSE this is my home base and though I've had some 2k days ..a good day for me is now $800-1500 (no no im not complaining at all)
I don't have credit cards. I don't believe in them. I got rid of the cards and the debt last year after working with the escort agency..now that I'm on my own I'd NEVER think about "credit" again.. It's just smarter using case ya know..
It's just a super fun job girl! It feels so damn good to pay bills and just chill and not have to worry about shit! It's a crazy high.
mandy216
08-09-2010, 09:06 AM
^I bet they look hot on you Jess! You have a really HOT bod!
My confession of the day: I made crazy bank.. I made ALMOST what I make in a month yesterday! I honestly thought raising my rates would put me out of business but it's doing the exact opposite. I went shopping yesterday for my daughter before I had any calls thinking "Oh well I'm not going to make this money back for another week" and I did SOOO I'm going to pay my rent for 2 months and buy the new HDTV I've been eyeing for the longest.
Confession #2: Client #2 yesterday was so effin HOT. I would have f'd him for free and I think he pretty much figured that out. I almost left the money on the counter! First time for everything. Sooo unlike me!
confession: I NEED SOME DICK GODDAMMIT!!!! and Malaya, you just made it worse. LOL.
malayataylor
08-09-2010, 09:12 AM
confession: I NEED SOME DICK GODDAMMIT!!!! and Malaya, you just made it worse. LOL.
:rotfl:
I just got lucky yesterday.
_Avery_
08-09-2010, 12:14 PM
Delete.
pixierocksonthepole
08-09-2010, 01:34 PM
Todays confession : I have these pet peeves that some days don't bother me so much. Today was not one of those days. Everything pissed me off after I found out that I had to take the junky beater car way out away from home to take my little sister somewhere because my parents refuse to take her driving to get her license. So they rely on me and my husband to do it. And it pisses me off, she isn't my responsilibity and then they yell at her about "not driving enough" before she starts segment 2. Well maybe if they took her out themselves this wouldn't be an issue now would it. The girl is almost 17 and she is waiting for them to take her out driving. They even got the girl a car! WTH?? Come on now, take care of your kid so my husband and I can take care of us and get out own place sooner. That'd be lovely.
Now I honestly feel like pigging out. >:(
carmen_b
08-09-2010, 07:52 PM
I confess that I totally regret not trading the bag of weed for lap dances. It just seemed like such a stupid idea at the time in money hungry stripper mode, but now I want the weed.
_Avery_
08-10-2010, 03:42 PM
Delete.
malayataylor
08-10-2010, 04:03 PM
^^I've danced for coke before. :-/
:O not you.. nope.. not you.. I refuse to believe this.
_Avery_
08-10-2010, 04:06 PM
Delete.
malayataylor
08-10-2010, 04:21 PM
Yeah, back in Vegas. I had a bad habit. :-[
one of the reasons we decided to move...to get away from it. Plus, my husband couldn't find a job out there.
Didn't think it would be in the middle of nowhere, but it's out here too. Finally found a club though were I am "safe" from it.
Staying clean. :)
Good for you! :)
carmen_b
08-10-2010, 04:22 PM
Good job Avery!
DirtyLittleSecret
08-10-2010, 07:25 PM
My confession:
My relationship is over. I feel it. I mean, even my own dreams are screaming GET OUT OF IT! But i need to write things down and figure out how i can tell him and most of all how to "start over". It would be easy if i was without a kid but with a kid it makes it even harder. Ugh. I'm scared but it has to be done. I can't live another day unhappy.
Jessie_tinydancer
08-10-2010, 11:48 PM
^^I've danced for coke before. :-/
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Hahaha I haven't danced just for it but gladly accepted it as an additional tip many o' time. I went through a good run there were I don't think I bought any coke for 6-7 months... hilarious.
OR not so hilarious... sorry I didnt read that it was a problem for you. Good girl staying away then. I dont find it addictive, but ya its impossible to say no. Heck half my office in one of my day jobs would be doing it in the boardroom and off their desks!
malayataylor
08-11-2010, 05:23 AM
My confession:
My relationship is over. I feel it. I mean, even my own dreams are screaming GET OUT OF IT! But i need to write things down and figure out how i can tell him and most of all how to "start over". It would be easy if i was without a kid but with a kid it makes it even harder. Ugh. I'm scared but it has to be done. I can't live another day unhappy.
Non of my business but from what I've read it sounds like you could do so much better. YOU deserve sooo much better! Take care!
Confession of the day: My boyfriend will be back in the states August 16th. I will be
picking him up from the airport and bringing him back to my place. I am planning to
hold him hostage here for at least a week and fuck his brains out at least 4-5 times a day
for that whole week. Next time he'll think twice before he leaves for that long. :(
anouk.oui
08-11-2010, 05:23 AM
my cat owns a more expensive hairbrush than i do
the cat im actively smuggling from my landlords attention
shh
jennsweet
08-11-2010, 07:08 AM
Non of my business but from what I've read it sounds like you could do so much better. YOU deserve sooo much better! Take care!
Confession of the day: My boyfriend will be back in the states August 16th. I will be
picking him up from the airport and bringing him back to my place. I am planning to
hold him hostage here for at least a week and fuck his brains out at least 4-5 times a day
for that whole week. Next time he'll think twice before he leaves for that long. :(
i confess i'd want to be a fly on the wall in that bedroom...
carmen_b
08-11-2010, 11:04 AM
Ugh ! I can not continue to lie about dancing to a couple people. One is my best friend of 11 years - she doesn't know ! Only a few people do and I have been continually worried to tell her. But .... when I have " plans " or I'm "Traveling" ( all this crap is a cover for being at the club ) , she feels blown off. It's got to be done and I don't know how to do it ( we met in church of all places 11 years ago ! ) .
And .... I'm seeing a new boy who should know too. I'm nervous about telling them both .... all it takes it ONE person to open their mouth to someone who can't keep their mouth shut. Yuck. Maybe I'll just stick to my " heavy business travel " schedule for a couple more weeks. ;(
carmen_b
08-11-2010, 11:14 AM
I think he should have paid for me and refused the $10 I set on the table for my beer. It was just a second date. Accepting the $10 from me makes me feel like he isn't trying even though I offered it.
AudrinaN
08-11-2010, 11:15 AM
It was ME who crushed the ADVIL and Smarties for the girl to buy. I didn't tell her not to taste it before she put it up her nose. Dumb ass.
pixierocksonthepole
08-11-2010, 11:15 AM
I confess...I have pretty expensive taste when I shop. o_0
Harleigh HellKat
08-11-2010, 11:17 AM
My confession... I just ate like sooooo many pancakes. And I'm going back to dancing tomorrow and I feel faaaaat.
carmen_b
08-11-2010, 11:20 AM
Man .... he has a nice dick. I KNEW he would too ( he's stocky and it followed suit ) . I'm proud of myself for keeping things PG-13 rated though and making him put it away. I'm excited to encounter it in the near future.
_Avery_
08-11-2010, 11:23 AM
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