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amberlly
06-29-2015, 11:10 PM
I wish I could have a super hot sugar baby to come shopping with me and pose for instagram photos. Drink cocktails and make everyone else jealous with cool photos and the perfect photogenic friend. lol.
Plus I wouldn't have to lie to leave when I had enough - I could be totally upfront. Here is lots of cash. Call you again soon! Im tired - bye.
zoezoebelle
06-30-2015, 01:16 AM
I used to be one of those cynical people who thought "love" was just hormones and reproductive urges and that the idea of "true love" was a stupid fabrication created by Disney to sell shit, because all people eventually disappoint me. Then I met him. I know he's been married once, so I said, "I'm sure it must be different the second time around. I've never felt like this about anyone, not even close." He said, "Neither have I. I've waited my whole life to find you."
Every little thing he does melts my soul. It's like looking at my heart in a mirror. All the joys I've felt since I was a child that nobody else could understand I find in him as well. He fits into my world effortlessly and vice versa. He shares my passions, my values, my dreams for the future. We both have such strong personalities and opinions but never fight at all. He always seems to know exactly what I need without asking. Sex is rapidly becoming less about physical contact and almost a completely spiritual experience, which is really different for me. I know that we'd both let go of the other in a heartbeat if we thought it was for the best, but until that time comes nothing can pull us apart. So for the record, true love is real and it's as incredible and crazy as all the books say. I feel so blessed to have met him.
Cashmere Star
06-30-2015, 01:28 AM
I wish I could have a super hot sugar baby to come shopping with me and pose for instagram photos. Drink cocktails and make everyone else jealous with cool photos and the perfect photogenic friend. lol.
Plus I wouldn't have to lie to leave when I had enough - I could be totally upfront. Here is lots of cash. Call you again soon! Im tired - bye.
lol I wish for the same. Sugar baby or not, an ultra feminine girl/woman friend who can do girly shit with me! We'd browse Nordstrom and buy some pretzels and tea at a cafe in the mall and talk about traveling and guys and how to exercise our female privilege over them :D
I used to be one of those cynical people who thought "love" was just hormones and reproductive urges and that the idea of "true love" was a stupid fabrication created by Disney to sell shit, because all people eventually disappoint me. Then I met him. I know he's been married once, so I said, "I'm sure it must be different the second time around. I've never felt like this about anyone, not even close." He said, "Neither have I. I've waited my whole life to find you."
Every little thing he does melts my soul. It's like looking at my heart in a mirror. All the joys I've felt since I was a child that nobody else could understand I find in him as well. He fits into my world effortlessly and vice versa. He shares my passions, my values, my dreams for the future. We both have such strong personalities and opinions but never fight at all. He always seems to know exactly what I need without asking. Sex is rapidly becoming less about physical contact and almost a completely spiritual experience, which is really different for me. I know that we'd both let go of the other in a heartbeat if we thought it was for the best, but until that time comes nothing can pull us apart. So for the record, true love is real and it's as incredible and crazy as all the books say. I feel so blessed to have met him.
How did you meet him? And I hope you told him what you told us!
zoezoebelle
06-30-2015, 02:00 AM
How did you meet him? And I hope you told him what you told us!
I met him at the club, amazingly enough. It was late, I was exhausted and had recently broken up with my lame boyfriend. I had a cool conversation with a depressed looking businessman. I actually had to force him to talk to me because he always ignores the younger girls, but we got along really well so he caved in and humored me. Then he just kissed me out of nowhere. I don't kiss customers, but it really caught me off-guard and it felt right. At the end of the night he said, "Look, I'm recently divorced. I like you. Come with me and I'll fly you first class anywhere you want to go, I'll show you the best restaurants in the country, and I'll spend every morning going down on you. I'll show you a world you can't imagine." Of course I thought he was full of shit, but I was bored and lonely and for some reason I felt the urge to trust him. So I talked to a girl who I knew was a regular of his and asked what she knew about him. She said, "I've known him for 10 years. He's a great guy." I thought this would be the most shallow thing I've ever done in my life, and I still expected him to be gone in the morning. But I went with him anyway.
It's been two months now, and he's kept all his promises to me so far. Ever since the first date we've been in this amazing dance where everything just seems perfect. The weirdest thing is, I don't even give a fuck about money or any of that. I've started requesting that we go to parks or hang out in my neighborhood because his lifestyle intimidates me a lot and I'm not exactly used to it yet. When we first got together I thought it would turn into a sugar babe situation but I actually refused to accept any help from him because I care too much and don't want to create a dependent dynamic. He respects that, but tries to sneak in little things like gifts and buying me groceries because he worries a lot. He's not thrilled about my job, but he accepts that I want to be independent right now and he calls me every night to make sure I get home safe.
About a week ago, we were driving through the countryside in his porsche and he grabbed my hand, kissed my ring finger and whispered, "Mine." I blushed and didn't say anything. Then a few days later he got a bit drunk and called me, and said, "Hey, I love you. Hey, maybe I want you to be something more. Is that crazy?" I actually had kind of a mental breakdown for the past week where I kept going out and getting drunk, because I couldn't even deal with the emotions and thoughts going through my mind. He came over the other day and asked why I've been so nervous lately, if it was about him. This was after a few drinks, so I managed to blurt out, "That... that thing you hinted at when you kissed my hand. It really scared me. And I finally realised it's because I know what I want. I never thought I could keep you."
Emotions don't come so easily to me. I feel things very strongly but don't know how to express or handle my feelings. He's the opposite. He said "I love you" drunkenly the first night we met, and again more seriously after just two weeks. I responded with, "How old are your kids?" xP So as to the question of whether I've told him what I wrote down here... not in so many words. But I think he knows. He always knows somehow. Every time I started to think the phrase "I love you" he somehow would just mystically read my thoughts, look into my eyes, smile and say, "Yeah." The first thing my friends and family ask when I mention him is "Is he a nice person?" I always say, "He's nicer than I am." Nobody believes me, but it's really true. I finally introduced him to a couple friends and they finally understood what I meant. The other day I was in a really bad mood and on my period, and he drove an hour both ways just to take me out to dinner and make me feel better. He always goes way above and beyond, to the point where I've even said, "You know you don't really have to try this hard." He just smiles and says, "You deserve it." Just thinking about it makes me tear up.
HoolaTwister
06-30-2015, 04:13 AM
Who says Mexicans aren't good looking!!! Thems fighting words!!! Mexicans and people of Mexican decent are very attractive. Sure not everyone is attractive, but overall we are good looking people. Who ever says that has never been to Texas either. That really pisses me off!!!
I think when people say that they think of Mexicans who have Indian blood? The shorter guys.
When I was in Mexico, omg droool! So many hot people! My favorite
is Robert Rodriguez and Salma Hayek isn't too shabby either :)
michele11
06-30-2015, 06:41 AM
:/ I've been guilty of being annoyed by that, because it's kind of ungrateful in one sense... they could be working a job where they DON'T make $90/hour... I think some girls need a reality check at times. And I will admit to being semi-jealous because I can't go on 2 week long trips to follow the money, and when it's not season here $400 is a pretty lofty aspiration.
Me: I just downloaded WoW again. My friends from high school started a raiding group and I said what the hell, at least it's a cheaper hobby than shopping.
Also makes me feel stupid because I remember one of my first non-stripping posts here, I was pissed that my ex was playing WoW all night and ignoring me... that will definitely not be me lol
This was more a rant about saying I'm rude to all newbies that ask for info. I was in Denver 3 years ago and there was a girl in newbie section having trouble getting hired. I went out of my way based on her pics. I met her at the front door early ( to accommodate her. Went put of my way to get a director and said she was my friend. Borrowed her a gown( one of my faves) and guess what? She didn't get hired and took off with my gown and never posted here again. And another girl was having an issue at my summer club. I personally called the manager and got her hired. Never thanked me. The countless girls I've talked on the phone for hours helping them get accomidations in areas etc. I wish people could read the 1000's of pms. Ugh.
anacol
06-30-2015, 07:19 AM
This was more a rant about saying I'm rude to all newbies that ask for info. I was in Denver 3 years ago and there was a girl in newbie section having trouble getting hired. I went out of my way based on her pics. I met her at the front door early ( to accommodate her. Went put of my way to get a director and said she was my friend. Borrowed her a gown( one of my faves) and guess what? She didn't get hired and took off with my gown and never posted here again. And another girl was having an issue at my summer club. I personally called the manager and got her hired. Never thanked me. The countless girls I've talked on the phone for hours helping them get accomidations in areas etc. I wish people could read the 1000's of pms. Ugh.
Lol! I'm crying laughing.
ScarletKitten
06-30-2015, 07:20 AM
I think when people say that they think of Mexicans who have Indian blood? The shorter guys.
When I was in Mexico, omg droool! So many hot people! My favorite
is Robert Rodriguez and Salma Hayek isn't too shabby either :)
Hey now, Natives are fucking hot too! I have Cherokee Indian in my blood. :)
I find beauty in every race! All races have beautiful people.
HoolaTwister
06-30-2015, 07:33 AM
Hey now, Natives are fucking hot too! I have Cherokee Indian in my blood. :)
I find beauty in every race! All races have beautiful people.
Oh I totally agree! I just meant sometimes people think of a very short and squat guy when they hear "Mexican".
HoolaTwister
06-30-2015, 07:44 AM
I think I'm getting too cynical or jaded because sometimes when I read some posts my bs radar starts going off like crazy.
Prettyglitter
06-30-2015, 08:22 AM
This was more a rant about saying I'm rude to all newbies that ask for info. I was in Denver 3 years ago and there was a girl in newbie section having trouble getting hired. I went out of my way based on her pics. I met her at the front door early ( to accommodate her. Went put of my way to get a director and said she was my friend. Borrowed her a gown( one of my faves) and guess what? She didn't get hired and took off with my gown and never posted here again. And another girl was having an issue at my summer club. I personally called the manager and got her hired. Never thanked me. The countless girls I've talked on the phone for hours helping them get accomidations in areas etc. I wish people could read the 1000's of pms. Ugh.
Aww Michele! You're making me feel bad lol. We appreciate you!
Prettyglitter
06-30-2015, 08:30 AM
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wednesday86
06-30-2015, 10:07 AM
My confession is I love my kittens but here are sooooo annoying like I'm borderline ready to get rid of them. They are tearing up my furniture, scratching my walls (omg my ears), flying through the air, climbing on my head and massaging my scalp with their sharp nails, walking on my tables, trying to pull the tv on the stand by playing with the cords, knocking over all my decorations, and all the other annoying things kittens do. The thing that annoys me (and is kind of cute) about them is hey know they're not supposed to do this stuff and they think it's so funny because as soon as I look at them they take off running only to sit on me and start purring later. Smh. This is why I'm not having kids.
haha I was gonna say....sounds a lot like my 2 year old's behavior (minus the scratching.) I've finally taught him to stay out of the house plants and stop throwing dirt on the floor. lol!
My confession: I miss Japan so much! I had another dream last night that I still lived there. Japan is like the one that got away....I really feel like its a lover I lost. I went through serious grief and depression when I moved back to the states 5 years ago. I would love to retire there when I'm old and teach English there. I love it so much!
baer45
06-30-2015, 10:11 AM
This new handsome Chinese client gave me a prada tote bag as a gift and left the store address just in case I want to return it for Cash/or something else. I saw him twice already in 7 days :) . Got a good feeling about this one.
Vyanka
06-30-2015, 10:18 AM
Ugh I'm fantasizing about hot millionaire CEO with whom I have a date next week. He turns me on so much, from the way he talks to me and everything else, can't sleep with him on the first date, can't sleep with him on the first date... Especially if I want to convert him into a high paying sugar daddy... I don't know if I will be able to resist. Ahhhhh!!!! :guilty:
Don't shave and wear dirty underwear. Lol. Resist girl, resist!! ;)
Vyanka
06-30-2015, 10:19 AM
My confession is I love my kittens but here are sooooo annoying like I'm borderline ready to get rid of them. They are tearing up my furniture, scratching my walls (omg my ears), flying through the air, climbing on my head and massaging my scalp with their sharp nails, walking on my tables, trying to pull the tv on the stand by playing with the cords, knocking over all my decorations, and all the other annoying things kittens do. The thing that annoys me (and is kind of cute) about them is hey know they're not supposed to do this stuff and they think it's so funny because as soon as I look at them they take off running only to sit on me and start purring later. Smh. This is why I'm not having kids.
Get them post scratchers with catnip on it, and some cat toys to distract them.
baer45
06-30-2015, 10:22 AM
I think when people say that they think of Mexicans who have Indian blood? The shorter guys.
When I was in Mexico, omg droool! So many hot people! My favorite
is Robert Rodriguez and Salma Hayek isn't too shabby either :)
Same thing about Asian guys. I am a huge sucker for pretty faces.
https://farm1.staticflickr.com/41/92305594_c4642685c8.jpg
xStacey
06-30-2015, 10:26 AM
Don't shave and wear dirty underwear. Lol. Resist girl, resist!! ;)
A couple years ago I did that, not shaving prior to my date thinking I'd be able to resist. We ended up having sex and I had a bush :(
miss.a.p1600
06-30-2015, 11:16 AM
Don't shave and wear dirty underwear. Lol. Resist girl, resist!! ;)
You'd be surprised at the number of dudes who'd still hit it....
I used to tell dudes I didn't want to f*ck right away that I hadn't waxed in a long time thinking it would be a turn off / buy me some time but they STILL wanted to get some and did not care!?!? I think some guys are more attracted to hairy p*ssy than they are willing to admit. Either that are they are so determined to get a nut that they put blinders on.
wednesday86
06-30-2015, 11:21 AM
Same thing about Asian guys. I am a huge sucker for pretty faces.
https://farm1.staticflickr.com/41/92305594_c4642685c8.jpg
Who is this?! my heart skipped a beat! i have a weakness for hot asians, obviously. :p my husband is short but he's sexy as hell. he looks a lot like (younger) Lee Byung Hun...mmmmm
Vyanka
06-30-2015, 11:23 AM
You'd be surprised at the number of dudes who'd still hit it....
I used to tell dudes I didn't want to f*ck right away that I hadn't waxed in a long time thinking it would be a turn off / buy me some time but they STILL wanted to get some and did not care!?!? I think some guys are more attracted to hairy p*ssy than they are willing to admit. Either that are they are so determined to get a nut that they put blinders on.
I hear you on the hair. Lol. That's why I said dirty panties too.
Men are so gross tho. My exbf once didn't give a shit that one time i was hairy, didn't shower, and was wearing granny period panties. Lol. Nasty.
I_am_out
06-30-2015, 11:26 AM
^ Yeah, lol, once I had discussion with male ex-classmates of mine and they claimed that they don't give a shit if girl wears "granny" panties or her body is not perfectly shaven/smooth. And I believe them, after all, guys aren't so attentive to details as girls. But regardless, personally I still don't feel confident in the bed if I didn't shave before or feel bloated or forgot to shave, whatever.
Selina M
06-30-2015, 11:27 AM
I am becoming a crazy person... this is the last day I'm able to send my contract in (they expire after 15 days) and the fax machine isn't working... so I'm like "Oh my God is that a sign not to do it?!"
Then again, I've been so teeter-totter about this decision that I've been taking EVERYTHING as a 'sign', even trivial stuff like posts on SW. I even sat down and crunched a zillion numbers as to what job is more profitable in terms of gross income/taxes/being able to get a house and pay mortgage vs. wasting $$ on rent. Of course stripping won, but there's part of me that wants an adult 8-4 job with salaried pay.
I'm afraid I'll be getting what I *thought* I wanted but not what I need or actually do want.
kaninchen
06-30-2015, 11:36 AM
Don't shave and wear dirty underwear. Lol. Resist girl, resist!! ;)
OMG this is killing me. LOL.
baer45
06-30-2015, 11:43 AM
Who is this?! my heart skipped a beat! i have a weakness for hot asians, obviously. :p my husband is short but he's sexy as hell. he looks a lot like (younger) Lee Byung Hun...mmmmm
According to google, it's takeshi_kaneshiro. Takeshi Kaneshiro is a Taiwanese-Japanese actor and singer.
SnuffleUffleGrass
06-30-2015, 11:56 AM
I really think I'll make the worst gold digger ever, I am too soft lol. There's a regular who used to visit me all the time at my previous club, I never took my regulars number at that time and haven't seen him for over a year after I switched club. Saw him again on Tuesday, it was so unexpected and he visited again yesterday. He's a millionaire too and has a Porsche.
We talk a lot about deep topics. It's very sad, people always take advantage of him, girls always screw him over, all the girlfriends he had in the past, his friends, his family, his mom. His ex-girlfriend is a high-end escort, she was working behind his back, he wasn't aware of it and discovered it after many years together. He didn't understand why she had to do that because he offered to pay for her living expenses and anything she needed, she was often stealing money at his place, a few hundreds in his pants, a few thousands, he had $30 000 in cash stolen at his house. It's hard for him to make friends because he doesn't know if they're genuine or only interested in his money. He told me he just lost a million in investments but doesn't care much, he never wants to work and isn't interested in making money anymore after seeing what money does to people.
He's so sweet and nice, he said no matter what happened I still have faith and try to see the best in people but I've been deceived many times. When I trust someone, I don't trust them 95% or 99%, it's 200%. My dad was the same, he was always volunteering and ended up losing all his money because he gave it all away.
I mean it would be so easy, he's always texting me and wants to see me outside, looking for a girlfriend but I don't want to do that to such a gentle person. Sometimes when I talk to him I feel like telling him he should stop displaying his wealth while talking about how gullible he is, it's not hard to understand why he attracts so many gold diggers... :(
This all seems scammish to me. Either he's got a rich dad, or is using a friend's possessions to pretend to be super wealthy. Beware...
edit to add- psychopathic people use the "poor me" lines to use people's sympathy. (Normal people tend to act embarrassed about or hide that they get burned a lot, if at all.)
The line about "never wanting to work" really blows my mind. A lot of wealthy people still work (managing their assets still takes time and personal attention.)
BarbieNYC
06-30-2015, 03:00 PM
I think when people say that they think of Mexicans who have Indian blood? The shorter guys.
When I was in Mexico, omg droool! So many hot people! My favorite
is Robert Rodriguez and Salma Hayek isn't too shabby either :)
That's definitely who most people in the us think of when they think mexican. My family is indigenous but my brothers and I came out tall and non indigenous looking. But ive seen some hot indigenous girls whenever I go back to visit. And I get soo tempted to offer money for their gorgeous hair cuz I coukd definitely make a bomb ass weave out of their hair. LOL
Ok back to confessions
This site is getting crazy. It's like watching a novela. I like posting in my little threads in ladies only but I need to start contributing back to the stripper side of it. I feel like as soon as I log on I go straight to ladies only section.
Also eating waaayyy to much mexican food in LA. Someone stop me for gorging myself at taco trucks
amberlly
06-30-2015, 04:53 PM
Before working in the sex industry I figured ugly guys would be nicer coz they have to try harder. Now I think the opposite. The ugly ones are too resentful and manipulative. Hot guys all the way.
SnuffleUffleGrass
06-30-2015, 07:36 PM
That's definitely who most people in the us think of when they think mexican. My family is indigenous but my brothers and I came out tall and non indigenous looking. But ive seen some hot indigenous girls whenever I go back to visit. And I get soo tempted to offer money for their gorgeous hair cuz I coukd definitely make a bomb ass weave out of their hair. LOL
This is true, half of my family looks light even though they're mostly native. We really lucked out with health & looks genes.... I think it had to do with how harsh life is in Mexico (a lot of kids died young there from disease and issues/poverty...that essentially scrapes a lot of bad genes out of the gene pool.) I think this is also why South Africans of ALL colors are generally un-killable.
zoezoebelle
06-30-2015, 09:01 PM
I keep listening to "A Thousand Years" on repeat. Last night it made me cry for like half an hour straight. Cursed 4-chord pop songs making me feel things.
Elektra Luxx
06-30-2015, 09:32 PM
My sister is feeling better and feeling up to traveling, so her friends and I taking her to the beach for a long all-girl weekend.
Confession: I'm secretly hoping to spending some time with my sister's friend. A girl!!! OMG!!! What am I thinking? She's so much fun and nice and really gets me. Last summer we became very close during a all-girl vacation and had several moments where I sensed a "more than a friend chemistry". We really had thing going. Kind of nervous to see her, but kind of excited too.
zoezoebelle
06-30-2015, 10:39 PM
I think I'm developing stockholm syndrome for this super evil customer that all the other girls hate because he likes to take the innocent girls and push them to do more than they're comfortable with. He's just weirdly interesting to talk to and likes to get really intimate in conversation, which I guess is how he tricks girls into feeling comfortable. Still, there's something odd. He reminds me of like an evil, opportunistic version of my boyfriend. I can't help but miss our conversations and look forward to playing mind games with him. And he's totally got it bad for me. He keeps getting me little gifts and tries to come see me constantly, and was chasing me for months after we first met. Today he walked in just as I was heading to the VIP with another regular, got a super depressed look on his face and just walked back out of the club. One of the girls talked to me about it and said it was strange, and that she had tried to convince him to wait. So now I'm reading this book he got me and feeling really weird about all of this. Most of me really wants this guy to stay away from me and never talk to me again, but part of me misses him. It's weird to think he knows more about me than my boyfriend does, and I've gotten him to open up about things he wouldn't tell a priest.
KikiGem
06-30-2015, 11:34 PM
Blowing up on people left and right. I'm full of so much rage and anger.
charlie61
06-30-2015, 11:35 PM
I feel like SW is collectively PMSing right now.
Cashmere Star
07-01-2015, 01:39 AM
Before working in the sex industry I figured ugly guys would be nicer coz they have to try harder. Now I think the opposite. The ugly ones are too resentful and manipulative. Hot guys all the way.
I agree, the ugly guys tend to be the mean ones. Actually it's like that in real life too IME, and I can understand why. It's easy to be nice when you're handsome and everyone treats you well.
OliveJardin
07-01-2015, 03:13 AM
i have a weakness for hot asians,
^Me too, the pretty ones are so, so pretty!
SnuffleUffleGrass
07-01-2015, 06:55 AM
I think I'm developing stockholm syndrome for this super evil customer that all the other girls hate because he likes to take the innocent girls and push them to do more than they're comfortable with. He's just weirdly interesting to talk to and likes to get really intimate in conversation, which I guess is how he tricks girls into feeling comfortable. Still, there's something odd. He reminds me of like an evil, opportunistic version of my boyfriend. I can't help but miss our conversations and look forward to playing mind games with him. And he's totally got it bad for me. He keeps getting me little gifts and tries to come see me constantly, and was chasing me for months after we first met. Today he walked in just as I was heading to the VIP with another regular, got a super depressed look on his face and just walked back out of the club. One of the girls talked to me about it and said it was strange, and that she had tried to convince him to wait. So now I'm reading this book he got me and feeling really weird about all of this. Most of me really wants this guy to stay away from me and never talk to me again, but part of me misses him. It's weird to think he knows more about me than my boyfriend does, and I've gotten him to open up about things he wouldn't tell a priest.
My guess is he is someone who feels entitled to being an abusive man & you fit his physical idea of what he wants in a woman perfectly, so he's being a bit more flattering to you. A lot of these guys think all dancers are mentally inferior, so he's counting on eventually being able to fuck you somehow.
I've dated a couple guys like this (unfortunately) .....They always move on to another victim. They're like vampires but less poetic, dramatic or ballsy.
edit to add- he might be making things up to impress you/intrigue you, and using Neuro-Linguistic Programming tactics to manipulate you. If it feels like Stockholm Syndrome it's probably right on, he seems to have a motivation to capture you attention. Once the money dries up you should just avoid this guy. I'm getting creeped out just thinking of all of this....
wednesday86
07-01-2015, 10:02 AM
Before working in the sex industry I figured ugly guys would be nicer coz they have to try harder. Now I think the opposite. The ugly ones are too resentful and manipulative. Hot guys all the way.
omg this this this!! the best is hot guys that are sweet but don't know just how hot they really are. all the guys I've dated, my husband and even my best customers are cuties. my meanest customers were always fugly and bitter.
charlie61
07-01-2015, 01:03 PM
All right y'all, chill on the hot guy talk.
miss.a.p1600
07-01-2015, 01:36 PM
I am wanting to snag a partner with no kids (just seems easier and less time consuming and less dramatic) but I have a kid....lol! Is there something wrong with this?
I'd guess be willing to bend if the the kids were grown and could support themselves financially.
baer45
07-01-2015, 02:22 PM
After you get your partner aroused, you drop his pants and use batman's voice "Where is it?". Give it a try! :))))
Prettyglitter
07-01-2015, 06:43 PM
I am toooooo sensitive with friends o swear. I expect way too much. But I have this one friend who I finally just blocked because she's so negative and every time she gets around certain people she tries to show off at my expense. Over it.
Prettyglitter
07-01-2015, 06:44 PM
I am wanting to snag a partner with no kids (just seems easier and less time consuming and less dramatic) but I have a kid....lol! Is there something wrong with this?
I'd guess be willing to bend if the the kids were grown and could support themselves financially.older men.
Vyanka
07-01-2015, 07:58 PM
Taking a day off work this week to take my bff(she's not a dancer) sugar daddy hunting. Lol. I hope she finds one good, bc she needs it. This should be fun. The lies we are gonna create! Lol
DAYUM!! It happened. A serious banker $$$$$$$ woooooo
kaninchen
07-01-2015, 09:39 PM
My goal over the next few weeks is to get my portrait drawn. I'm seeing an artist and I want him to draw me nude, like an odalisque. I would totally hang it in my office above my escritoire because apparently I'm an 18th century courtesan.
amberlly
07-02-2015, 05:18 AM
My bff broke up w her loser boyfriend. Now going to go clubbing to find her next one!
Elektra Luxx
07-02-2015, 05:42 AM
After you get your partner aroused, you drop his pants and use batman's voice "Where is it?". Give it a try! :))))
Lol!!! This is so "out there" but now I can't stop thinking of Batman saying it.
baer45
07-02-2015, 09:42 AM
Lol!!! This is so "out there" but now I can't stop thinking of Batman saying it.
Where is your dick? Where is it!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_ga1jlzaxIQ
zoezoebelle
07-02-2015, 10:47 AM
My guess is he is someone who feels entitled to being an abusive man & you fit his physical idea of what he wants in a woman perfectly, so he's being a bit more flattering to you. A lot of these guys think all dancers are mentally inferior, so he's counting on eventually being able to fuck you somehow.
I've dated a couple guys like this (unfortunately) .....They always move on to another victim. They're like vampires but less poetic, dramatic or ballsy.
edit to add- he might be making things up to impress you/intrigue you, and using Neuro-Linguistic Programming tactics to manipulate you. If it feels like Stockholm Syndrome it's probably right on, he seems to have a motivation to capture you attention. Once the money dries up you should just avoid this guy. I'm getting creeped out just thinking of all of this....
Yep, that sounds exactly like him. I have dated men like him in the past too, and one of them was very sexually abusive to me.
I don't think he's making things up, though. At least not most of it. I think he was sexually abused in the past and then his wife eventually wanted nothing to do with him (probably because he's a psycho narcissist). I think he's power hungry and has some psychopathic/antisocial tendencies, and probably social anxiety. And I think because of all of that, he likes to take out his sexual fears and insecurities on young women who he deems vulnerable. But he's very specific in the girls he chooses. He actually prefers the bartenders to the dancers sometimes, because he knows they're more squeamish and don't want to touch men so much. And he goes after girls who seem very confident and sexually secure. But not the ones who are known to do extras. I'm pretty sure he has fucked a few of the girls before, in and out of the club, but he quickly gets bored of it. It's not about the sex; it's about the power play. I don't know if he would even enjoy victimising someone to the point of actually traumatising or overpowering them. He just wants to manipulate them through devious mind games. He has a way of getting girls to talk about their fears, insecurities, past trauma, etc. He admitted to me once that he finds stories of sexual abuse arousing. Just said it outright. It's weird how he seems to want me to accept him without sugar coating any of it.
It's strange but I guess I find him fascinating. I think of him almost as a mental play partner, and he feels similarly (though of course he wishes I were a sexual play partner). I know for a fact that I'm the only girl in that place educated enough to talk to him at length. We've discussed economics, finance, world culture, psychology, human nature, sexuality, film, art, religion, philosophy... And he's starting to include me in his games with the bartenders, which is kind of perverse but also fascinating. He knows I'll take their side and he doesn't care because it makes it more challenging. Sometimes he'll bring girls in while we're in the VIP and say, "How much can I tip you for her to feel your tits?" They'll list some high figure and he'll laugh and pretend to haggle with them, and they get confused and end up doing it anyway. And I can tell they're torn because I'm not exactly threatening but it's awkward for them. Nobody is exactly afraid of him... but everyone is wary. Every girl who's been in the back with him has told me, "He got me to do things I didn't want to do." I don't know why I have this sick fascination with psychopaths. The weirdest part is I think he's actually in love with me. He's literally afraid of hurting me in a real way, but I don't think he could stop himself from hurting me if he tried. I've told him that, and he said, "I want to believe that I could stay in control." He reminds me a lot of my abusive ex.
Unfortunately or fortunately, the money isn't going to run out. This guy may be one of the richest men in the country.
HoolaTwister
07-02-2015, 12:50 PM
OH PLEASE! ^^ I can't anymore. I just can't with this. Sorry guys! But someone had to say it