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Glamourmilf
11-07-2015, 06:21 PM
I am really, really happy about the holidays. I can not wait to make a small and light Thanksgiving meal. :)
Me Too! Me Too!
I was at KFC yesterday...They had an ad up announcing their Deep Fried Turkey Dinner... Now that I have a big house, and a yard with a pool,....Hmmm
baer45
11-07-2015, 06:23 PM
Last year I shot a turkey at my friend's farm. This year I am going to pardon the turkey and skip that dish. I would only hunt coyote from now on.
SimoneGray
11-08-2015, 02:33 AM
I lack so much motivation at the moment and I literally have no idea why. I'm not eating badly, I'm sleeping ok, nothing is "off" in my life, cam is going well and yet I have almost zero motivation to actually work...I confess this makes me feel like a total life failure.
miss.a.p1600
11-08-2015, 03:24 AM
^^^ I feel ya. Some days I wish I could just sleep all day, well sleep majority of the day when I don't feel like doing anything I don't want to do including hanging out with annoying a$$ family members.
I confess that I'm craving for a new partner and future children. I haven't even been dating yet but I'm open to i with the right person.
xStacey
11-08-2015, 10:18 AM
I have to stop talking to my ex and stalking his Instagram and Facebook. It's been three years and I still can't get over him. This has to stop because it's not going anywhere beside hurting myself. Even during the time we stopped talking, I still checked his Facebook and Instagram daily, which made it even harder to forget him. I know this is creepy but I am so obsessed with him and I still have feelings for him. This really has to stop. He doesn't treat me well and all he does is hurt me but I can't get over him :(
6 days and almost a week I haven't spoken to him. I miss him so much and I can't stop thinking about him. I want to talk to him so bad but I can't. I have to stop this habit of going to him whenever something happens in my life. Whenever something good or bad happens, my reflex is always to tell him first but this has to stop. :( I removed him off my contact list but iPhone doesn't really delete a number, I don't have the strength to block him. I know he won't text me first unless I do, he only chase women in the early stages of courtship, he's not the type who will make the first steps or apologize. I knew this already but it still hurts that he confirms what I already knew.
xStacey
11-08-2015, 10:36 AM
I feel so stupid because right now I am seeing a guy who loves me and treats me well, he always tells me he misses me, wants to see me, wants to introduce me to his family. He's always there for me, to comfort me when I don't feel well... He wants us to be an official couple but I don't feel the same way about him, I don't love him. But I can't get my mind off my ex, my feelings for him are so strong and I just don't understand. He's a jerk, he always makes me cry and when I'm with him I can't even recognize myself but I want him so bad :(...
A lot of people think the current guy I'm seeing is so much hotter than my ex too, I don't get it.
baer45
11-08-2015, 11:36 AM
I feel so stupid because right now I am seeing a guy who loves me and treats me well, he always tells me he misses me, wants to see me, wants to introduce me to his family. He's always there for me, to comfort me when I don't feel well... He wants us to be an official couple but I don't feel the same way about him, I don't love him. But I can't get my mind off my ex, my feelings for him are so strong and I just don't understand. He's a jerk, he always makes me cry and when I'm with him I can't even recognize myself but I want him so bad :(...
A lot of people think the current guy I'm seeing is so much hotter than my ex too, I don't get it.
You invested a lot of time and emotions into your last relationship. People are weird. Once you open yourself to someone and connect with him, your feelings, memories, just unconsciously invested in this relationship. It's not just as simple as people say "girls like bad guys".
Why don't you give the new guy a try? expose your weak side, let him "abuse" you a little. Create some new memories.
Glamourmilf
11-08-2015, 11:58 AM
I confess that I'm a bit envious of my live-in housekeeper.
All she does is wipe down the kitchen counters with moldy sponges, and sweep once a week.
I have found cobwebs in the coffee mugs, so I know shes getting a free ride living here.
I asked my friend why he lets her live here...he said nobody wants her, and she is his charity case.
I overheard her telling him that she couldn't afford to pay the $400 per month to live here anymore(she's been here for 3 yrs,), and he said it was o.k.! Wtf!
All she does is watch T.V., take naps, and go to sleep at 7 p.m. Nice life!
I hope when I'm 70 yrs old, that someone will take pity on me like that.
Selina M
11-08-2015, 12:57 PM
This reminds me of something one of my best friends told me...(may he rest in peace).
He loved to cook. Loved to go grocery shopping for all the ingredients. All of which i despise.
He could go on and on about cooking, and his eyes would light up.
I asked why he wasn't a chef?
He said that if he HAD to cook, he'd hate it.
My ex was a cook and refused to cook at home unless he had several days off in a row. Same with his roommate. They lived on pizza and beer. Same with me and horses; when I worked at a barn 30 hrs/week, riding my own horse just didn't happen. I quit bc a) shit money, b) didn't want it ruining my hobby.
Confession: My other half decided to quit school last night, and I am SO relieved. Normally I'm the most gung-ho person about getting an education, but it really wasn't jiving with what he wants his life to be like (a lot more freedom and less structure/deadlines/running around).
So once I get back to work, I'm taking him to the fancy store that needs appts to get a new pair of dance shoes, and then we're going to our old studio and getting him back on the instructor list. It'll probably take a while but I'm sure he can get back to where he was before... he used to teach 9-10 lessons a week at $75/hour. I think he'll be much happier.
baer45
11-08-2015, 08:52 PM
Sometimes I am so lost in life.
miss.a.p1600
11-08-2015, 09:17 PM
I confess.....now that the ex is in midst of a messy divorce, I want to find a husband quickly (must figure out a plan for this though). I can't wait to rub a new step-dad for our child in his face. I envision my wedding pics, new family pics, my new home pics, and happy photos of our child with my husband like a real father should be. I may even get back on Instagram just to carry out my plan so I can show off and I hope he sees them. I want to throw salt in his wounds and I want him to seethe with jealousy.
miss.a.p1600
11-08-2015, 09:52 PM
Confession #2 (sorry Im bored).........I think a guy friend I know may be deeper into the drug game then he's letting on. I personally saw him and his coworker friend sniffing a white powder. He offered me some but I declined (I just don't want to get addicted, blow money - pun intended, then have to struggle to break said addiction, and blow even more money for rehab).
He even has recently started selling drugs - at first I thought to make extra money - but then I think maybe to support his habit.
I also hear what sounds like sniffing on the phone twice now. I am wondering how often he's doing what I thought was recreational may be a multiple times per day habit/addiction.
He's a macho kind of guy so I don't think he would ever admit to any drug addiction or drug abuse. I just hope Im wrong and that his usage is recreational and he can quit anytime.
baer45
11-08-2015, 10:51 PM
I confess.....now that the ex is in midst of a messy divorce, I want to find a husband quickly (must figure out a plan for this though). I can't wait to rub a new step-dad for our child in his face. I envision my wedding pics, new family pics, my new home pics, and happy photos of our child with my husband like a real father should be. I may even get back on Instagram just to carry out my plan so I can show off and I hope he sees them. I want to throw salt in his wounds and I want him to seethe with jealousy.
Will you be happy? If it's an improvement for you and your kid, I don't see any fault of your plan even if it sounds kind of childish.
miss.a.p1600
11-08-2015, 11:51 PM
Thanks for asking that thought provoking question.
I believe I would be happy whether I'm single or married.
People judge single women especially after a certain age like "why isn't she married, something must be wrong?" Or "oh she's single? Well I'm locking up my husband because all single women are homewreckers" so it's hard to keep married couples as friends.
for me getting married would end the stigma and get my kid into a two parent household which is what I wanted to begin with. Plus I just want to experience a wedding a marriage for the first time. Even if it doesn't work out, which I hope it does last, i can say I tried it.
The icing on the cake would be to flaunt it in his face and any other hater just to be like "thought I could never be happy and in love and have a new family but look at me now b*tches!" And to the ex "yeah I'm looking good and you wish you could have this but I'm happy without you hoe". And he won't disrespect me anymore cause I'll have my husband to have my back and he won't dare try me then.
And I also want to do it to send a clear message that I moved on. Being single means the ex assumes you want him back or there's some opportunity so I have to do this so he'll know for certain that I'm off limits and desired by a man richer and better than him.
I equate the feeling to getting back at a cutthroat broad in the club. May be childish but sometime it feels good to be the one to have the last laugh.
Aurora_Sunset
11-09-2015, 08:36 AM
When I think about wanting a relationship lately, I realize that the number one reason is so that I can deflect all unwanted attention. And that's a terrible reason to want a boyfriend.
Cashmere Star
11-09-2015, 08:48 AM
Some people are just naturally so beautiful and get so much attention. I've seen some girls who gets so many good artists just painting and drawing them as gifts, and these aren't explicit or sexual pictures either. I wonder what it's like to be in that position, to have a face that launched a thousand ships... or artwork actually.
Elektra Luxx
11-09-2015, 09:14 AM
I always need to be reassured when I'm in a relationship. Like when the ex-bf and I made love I would always say "I love you", but he wouldn't always return the sentiment. This weekend I had an appointment with a regular I'm feeling close to. We were cuddling and I had my head on his chest listening to his heartbeat slow to normal and it took everything I had not to say "I love you". Not because I do, but it was just one of those moments.
SimoneGray
11-09-2015, 09:15 AM
I just ate a huge bar of nougat...but it fits my macros so I don't care.
charlie61
11-09-2015, 09:42 AM
Some people are just naturally so beautiful and get so much attention. I've seen some girls who gets so many good artists just painting and drawing them as gifts, and these aren't explicit or sexual pictures either. I wonder what it's like to be in that position, to have a face that launched a thousand ships... or artwork actually.
I totally hear you. I also think these tend to be the people who struggle most with the aging process, since their identities are glued to their beauty and the benefits that come with being so beautiful.
wednesday86
11-09-2015, 11:22 AM
I confess that I absolutely love dating a dominant man. He makes all the decisions about what we're going to do (he knows what I like and remembers everything I say so I'm fine with whatever he decides.) Like yesterday he's all "We are going to starbucks so I can study and so you can finish your homework...then we're going to this Thai restaurant. Then we're going to drink this new bottle of wine I got for us." Such a wonderful change from "I don't know, what do you wanna do?"
Vyanka
11-09-2015, 11:33 AM
I confess that I absolutely love dating a dominant man. He makes all the decisions about what we're going to do (he knows what I like and remembers everything I say so I'm fine with whatever he decides.) Like yesterday he's all "We are going to starbucks so I can study and so you can finish your homework...then we're going to this Thai restaurant. Then we're going to drink this new bottle of wine I got for us." Such a wonderful change from "I don't know, what do you wanna do?"
Hell yeah. ;)
baer45
11-09-2015, 01:03 PM
It's getting cold.
kaninchen
11-09-2015, 01:10 PM
I ate mozzarella sticks for breakfast today because I'm eight years old, apparently.
Genoveve
11-09-2015, 02:40 PM
^^^I had chocolate cake. Where are our Barbies.
buttonpop
11-09-2015, 03:54 PM
I confess that I absolutely love dating a dominant man. He makes all the decisions about what we're going to do (he knows what I like and remembers everything I say so I'm fine with whatever he decides.) Like yesterday he's all "We are going to starbucks so I can study and so you can finish your homework...then we're going to this Thai restaurant. Then we're going to drink this new bottle of wine I got for us." Such a wonderful change from "I don't know, what do you wanna do?"
THIS IS MY PERFECT MAN. oh my god. I absolutely love dominant guys like this. I can be such a control freak sometimes and it feels really good for someone else to make tiny decisions like this for me, especially when they understand my tastes and desires so well.
I've never dated a woman who was like this, but if I did, i would probably marry her.
wednesday86
11-09-2015, 04:45 PM
THIS IS MY PERFECT MAN. oh my god. I absolutely love dominant guys like this. I can be such a control freak sometimes and it feels really good for someone else to make tiny decisions like this for me, especially when they understand my tastes and desires so well.
I've never dated a woman who was like this, but if I did, i would probably marry her.
I think it's part of his Korean culture. I used to read this blog by a girl who taught English there, and she said she couldn't date the men because of the gender roles and them being 'bossy.' It's definitely very different from dating American men, even American born Asians. So far I love it.
baer45
11-09-2015, 05:31 PM
This Chinese kid, I call him a kid because he's only 20 years old, wants to take a photo of us then send it to his parents. It's just wrong at so many levels. Did you tell your mommy that I am only a paid girlfriend by hours? Don't want to lose him as a client though. He's sweet and fucking loaded with family money.
Serena-Shields
11-10-2015, 01:33 AM
I just made an account on SA. Probably not a thing I'll do, but whatever, right? ;)
SimoneGray
11-10-2015, 03:12 AM
I think it's part of his Korean culture. I used to read this blog by a girl who taught English there, and she said she couldn't date the men because of the gender roles and them being 'bossy.' It's definitely very different from dating American men, even American born Asians. So far I love it.
I confess that your dude is making me wish there were Korean guys where I'm from. I mean I'm sure there are but not as many as in the US...I could totally get down with that culture etc.
QueenBitch
11-10-2015, 04:27 AM
I confess that your dude is making me wish there were Korean guys where I'm from. I mean I'm sure there are but not as many as in the US...I could totally get down with that culture etc.
I love me a bossy man, it's the same as with the guys into femdom really. my boyfriend's extremely dominant and I love it because then I don't have to decide shit for myself lol. I just say "yes love" and that's it. of course I have limits, but it's so relaxing
MyButter
11-10-2015, 07:04 AM
My dad had a stroke yesterday, and although he's still in the hospital for observation and further testing the doctors have speculated that he'll either need a nurse at home, or he'll need to go to a rehabilitation center.
I've been up all night freaking out internally because I don't know how to process this information nor do I know how to move forward. Should I move back home? Should they sell the house since my mom can't afford the mortgage + bills herself? I can always go back to dancing so I can help them out with the bills. They can move in with me but I'm only renting and we'd have to get rid of either Dad's cherished dog or one of my dogs since the landlords have an inflexible 2 dog maximum pet clause. I feel so scatterbrained.
wednesday86
11-10-2015, 07:59 AM
It's been forever since I've been on SW. I'm now in Canada. Honestly I felt liberated taking a break from this site after the drama fest that went down last time I was on here. I just can't believe how sick in the head some people are. I probably won't be sticking around here anymore. I see things haven't really changed, and I just feel disgusted still from this site. I've left my entire life behind and I'm not even sure I want to remain in Canada permanently. Alot of shit has happened in my life, but I am hesitant to even post anything personal because apparently some loser men like to read ladies only? And I no longer trust to post here anyway after that drama fest. So yeah, hi. But bye again.
Missed you! <3
absolutelyadorable
11-10-2015, 08:37 AM
I despise movies where a wm cuts her hair off UGH!!
Waiting to exhale? ^____^
SimoneGray
11-10-2015, 01:33 PM
Been listening to Adele's "Hello" on repeat. I confess it will be a long long time before I get to that point with my last ex even though its been ages. It's that I hold a grudge or anything, its just that the hurt and fallout from what he did will take so long to finally clear out.
wednesday86
11-10-2015, 01:36 PM
I confess that I am about to start crying because I'm taking my pet bunny back to the shelter. I'm trying to move to a smaller/cheaper apartment and they said I can't bring him. Plus I'm hardly ever home to let him out of his cage and clean up after him...so he just sits in his own poop all day and he shits constantly. I love this bunny though...he's such a sweetie. It breaks my heart to give him up.
Cashmere Star
11-10-2015, 02:12 PM
I totally hear you. I also think these tend to be the people who struggle most with the aging process, since their identities are glued to their beauty and the benefits that come with being so beautiful.
I don't know... ironically they seem to be nonchalant about it. They don't go crazy with makeup or obsess/mention their own appearance any more than other women. They don't go out of their way to milk their looks, like get rich boyfriends or go model or whatever. They have jobs like doctors, secretaries, artists, etc... idk if they rap their identities up in their beauty.
simone87
11-10-2015, 02:42 PM
i dont understand the whole contouring thing. dont get how now its the thing to layer on 10 products onto your skin in the form of primers, liquid and powder foundation, high lighter, bronzer, contour, setting sprays, setting powders etc so that its just sitting on there, an inch thick looking muddy. at least that's how it always looked when i used to do that. now i've gotten OCD like i can feel my pores becoming suffocated and clogged just thinking about foundation on there. any grown woman can wear wtf she wants to on her own face, just a weird thing i have
charlie61
11-10-2015, 03:06 PM
I confess that I am about to start crying because I'm taking my pet bunny back to the shelter. I'm trying to move to a smaller/cheaper apartment and they said I can't bring him. Plus I'm hardly ever home to let him out of his cage and clean up after him...so he just sits in his own poop all day and he shits constantly. I love this bunny though...he's such a sweetie. It breaks my heart to give him up.
How would the apartment complex know you kept him? They have to give notice before entering. I have four cats (we're only allowed to have two), and there's never been a problem.
Maybe try finding a new owner on Craigslist before doing the shelter thing?
Hope my suggestions aren't patronizing. Just seems like there are other options!
Vyanka
11-10-2015, 03:50 PM
I confess that I am about to start crying because I'm taking my pet bunny back to the shelter. I'm trying to move to a smaller/cheaper apartment and they said I can't bring him. Plus I'm hardly ever home to let him out of his cage and clean up after him...so he just sits in his own poop all day and he shits constantly. I love this bunny though...he's such a sweetie. It breaks my heart to give him up.
If you can't keep him, look into rescue groups.
wednesday86
11-10-2015, 04:00 PM
How would the apartment complex know you kept him? They have to give notice before entering. I have four cats (we're only allowed to have two), and there's never been a problem.
Maybe try finding a new owner on Craigslist before doing the shelter thing?
Hope my suggestions aren't patronizing. Just seems like there are other options!
I wasn't able to go through with it...I started gathering his stuff and just started crying. I already told one apartment I have him (because I'm stupid) but I'm going to keep looking and just not mention it next time. It's not like they have to know.
And I know he's in his cage a lot lately, and I feel like a bad Bunny Mom but I'm too scared he'll be adopted by someone horrible.
charlie61
11-10-2015, 04:18 PM
I wasn't able to go through with it...I started gathering his stuff and just started crying. I already told one apartment I have him (because I'm stupid) but I'm going to keep looking and just not mention it next time. It's not like they have to know.
And I know he's in his cage a lot lately, and I feel like a bad Bunny Mom but I'm too scared he'll be adopted by someone horrible.
Good for you, girl.
Is a bigger cage (like a cat cage) an option? Would he be safe hopping around in your bathroom while you're gone? Either way, animals have fairly simple needs, so I'm sure he's happy as he is now. Food, water, love. :)
Also, you could lie and tell the first apartment that you got rid of him / gave him to a family member. They need to give you 24 hours of notice before entering, and it's not like you have a dog that you'd need to take outside for walks (much harder to hide). Just my thoughts!
I'll stop threadjacking now. :)
buttonpop
11-10-2015, 04:49 PM
i just want to date a guy who is 6 foot+ with impeccable fashion taste and a chiseled jaw who is emotional, passionate, ambitious, dominant and spontaneous, is that so much to ask for???
where does a person meet attractive men? certainly not on the internet. i need to try something else.
baer45
11-10-2015, 05:57 PM
i just want to date a guy who is 6 foot+ with impeccable fashion taste and a chiseled jaw who is emotional, passionate, ambitious, dominant and spontaneous, is that so much to ask for???
where does a person meet attractive men? certainly not on the internet. i need to try something else.
You can meet some at business conference at good hotels, if you self invite yourself in. I did a few times : Sorry, I left my name tag upstairs... I am Michelle, from Lincoln financial. Your name is...not sure I have heard of you but what are you working on these days?
baer45
11-10-2015, 06:03 PM
I confess that I am about to start crying because I'm taking my pet bunny back to the shelter. I'm trying to move to a smaller/cheaper apartment and they said I can't bring him. Plus I'm hardly ever home to let him out of his cage and clean up after him...so he just sits in his own poop all day and he shits constantly. I love this bunny though...he's such a sweetie. It breaks my heart to give him up.
I hear you. I love dogs but I don't have one. I was afraid something like yours will come up. Getting a pet dog is high up on my to do list once i retire from this business. For now, I just babesit my friends' dogs a lot.
carmen_b
11-10-2015, 06:24 PM
I am DYING to convince the bf to come live with me in Thailand ! :)
I definitely can make 1/3 of my USA income completely remotely EASILY . The last three weeks have been a test run and it's been FINE.
That's actually all we would need to live here .... just 1/3 of my normal income.
I LOVE crazy ideas like this and I need a way to sell it to him. I'm starting slowwwwllllyyy by forwarding some nice condo rentals and cost of living monthly breakdowns of these bloggers I follow.
carmen_b
11-10-2015, 06:28 PM
In person! This is my guy and I nabbed him at a nice cocktail lounge on one of my rare nights that I went out and wasn't working. I POUNCED . 6'6" hot men are not very common where we live.
i just want to date a guy who is 6 foot+ with impeccable fashion taste and a chiseled jaw who is emotional, passionate, ambitious, dominant and spontaneous, is that so much to ask for???
where does a person meet attractive men? certainly not on the internet. i need to try something else.
baer45
11-10-2015, 09:25 PM
Dance music is my least favor kind of music. there i said it.
Elektra Luxx
11-11-2015, 12:22 AM
My grandpa had an endoscopy of his colon and the doctor found something. They scheduled him for surgery in 2 weeks.
Me: "Wow, that's quick. This came from nowhere, good thing they found it".
It turns out that he's been bleeding for months.
Me: Months!!! What do you mean months?!! This is the first I've heard of this! Ahh, Hello?!! Why didn't I know about this?
Grandparents: "Oh, we didn't want to worry anyone".
First instant reaction, worry. Then, "I'm fucking pissed" because they didn't say anything, but I'm a worrier, so passed quickly. My mom is the same way. We just hold each other and just cry. My grandma and my sisters don't show worry, they're like "Okay, what's the plan of attack." So I'm thinking it must be serious because they told everyone. Last year around this time, he had a heart attack and he almost died. I'm worried.
I talked to my mom today, it's for sure, my grandpa definitely has cancer. The doctor took 6 photos of during his endoscope and all 6 show bleeding. He bleeds so much every time he makes a bowel movement that the doctor told him to double his dose of iron medication. He is very depressed. I thought my grandpa was 83, but he's only 80, which I think is still young. (fyi, my grandma is 66) I'm afraid for my grandpa, but the family is going to stay positive for his sake.
Aurora_Sunset
11-11-2015, 03:40 PM
I told myself I wasn't going to spend on anything nonessential this month.
I just dropped $65 on a ticket to meet Lil Bub... cuz I'm a ridiculous human being.
Genoveve
11-11-2015, 03:45 PM
^^I don't even know who that is and I still laughed.