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buttonpop
11-22-2015, 05:59 PM
Someone in my old group of friends in my old city committed suicide. We were both in heavily involved in an underground subculture that was really, really toxic to my mental health, and I can't stop thinking about how easily that could've been me. I mourn the years I lost being so miserable. It wasn't until I got away that I realized how damaging it was; at the time I thought it was helping me deal with the shittiness of the world, but it was really just poisoning me with anger and hatred. I mourn for everyone i once knew who's still in that toxic environment. She wasn't kind to me when I transitioned away from that lifestyle but I wasn't kind to others who had done the same before me, either. This situation helps me forgive everyone who treated me poorly; they were probably just as miserable and caught up in that world as much as I was. I'm extremely sad that she wasn't able to get real help and i am overwhelmed with gratitude that I was able to change my life. The changes in my thoughts & feelings regarding myself, and my mental health weren't just evolutionary but apocolyptic and reborn. that old life feels like a distant nightmare now. I'm so very very very lucky I got out. nobody could have saved me and likewise there's nothing I could've/can do for my old friends. its just tragic.

ScarletKitten
11-22-2015, 10:55 PM
Someone in my old group of friends in my old city committed suicide. We were both in heavily involved in an underground subculture that was really, really toxic to my mental health, and I can't stop thinking about how easily that could've been me. I mourn the years I lost being so miserable. It wasn't until I got away that I realized how damaging it was; at the time I thought it was helping me deal with the shittiness of the world, but it was really just poisoning me with anger and hatred. I mourn for everyone i once knew who's still in that toxic environment. She wasn't kind to me when I transitioned away from that lifestyle but I wasn't kind to others who had done the same before me, either. This situation helps me forgive everyone who treated me poorly; they were probably just as miserable and caught up in that world as much as I was. I'm extremely sad that she wasn't able to get real help and i am overwhelmed with gratitude that I was able to change my life. The changes in my thoughts & feelings regarding myself, and my mental health weren't just evolutionary but apocolyptic and reborn. that old life feels like a distant nightmare now. I'm so very very very lucky I got out. nobody could have saved me and likewise there's nothing I could've/can do for my old friends. its just tragic. I'm so sorry to hear about your friend. What you described sounds soul-crushing. I'm glad you got out, too. At least she doesn't have to suffer anymore. Although, suicide is the most tragic way to die. :'( :hug:

wednesday86
11-23-2015, 08:50 AM
I'm breaking up with my boyfriend today...It's got nothing to do with anything he did or the stupid dating site thing...I just don't want a boyfriend right now. I want to know what it's like to be single for once and not have to plan my schedule and life around someone else. The problem is I really don't know how to break up with someone without being mad at them. I won't talk to him until he gets off work tonight....Dreading this so much........

xStacey
11-23-2015, 12:45 PM
Two confessions... I've been sleeping with my ex and the sex is crazy... I'm supposed to see him again later this week and I'm really tempted by the idea of leaving hickeys all over his neck for the 5 girls he's dating who probably think they're the only one in his life to see lol.

Genoveve
11-24-2015, 12:46 AM
I just bought a dress that I know will never be worn. I have a rule where I'm not allowed to buy any dress clothes what-so-ever because I never go out, there's been so many times where I fell in love with something dressy, bought it, and it ended up hanging in my closet with the tags on it until it eventually went out of style and I didn't like it anymore because I never go out(I don't even like going out). But I fell in love with this crazy skimpy red 'dress' covered in fringe, I know it won't fit right and even if it did it's too skimpy for me to ever feel comfortable wearing in public but it was only $80 and I love it so much that I find it to be worth the $80 just to get some cute pics of me in it. I also confess that even though I have approx. 2500 chokers I just bought 2 more. I need help. At least I DO wear my chokers all the time.

Well I was right it does not fit right. It actually fits even worse than I was expecting but I knew it would be a bust so whatevs. The chokers are amazing though and I confess that I just ordered ANOTHER choker.

charlie61
11-24-2015, 01:31 AM
Well I was right it does not fit right. It actually fits even worse than I was expecting but I knew it would be a bust so whatevs. The chokers are amazing though and I confess that I just ordered ANOTHER choker.

Where do you buy chokers?

Genoveve
11-24-2015, 01:54 AM
^^Everywhere. Especially because they're trendy right now so everywhere has them.

SimoneGray
11-24-2015, 02:31 AM
I'm addicted to buying Pleasers.

NatalieCentro
11-24-2015, 04:16 AM
I realized I use way too many smiley faces. All the goddamn time. Then I tried to force myself to stop using them, and all my messages started to seem offensive, like threats... it's like the smiley faces were the "i'm just kidding" hint. Sigh. :)

A serious confession's this. I don't understand my man. At all. The whole men and women are from different planets and all that. I thought before that it'll take time and it's cool and keeps the relationship fresh and mysterious. Now, all the more often I'm like "what the fuck"... Then I started thinking that I must be stupid or not sensitive. I'm naturally a really calm person. I don't yell, I rarely get mad and it takes something very extraordinary to get me pissed. Sometimes he gets upset for seemingly no reason what so ever, or none that I could think of. I used to get worried and try to make it right, or at least strived to figure out what the hell happened. Now, all the more often I just let him cool off and get over it on his own, without spending any of my nerve cells. It seems like a more logical behavior, but I'm wondering if that means the feeling is going away, or being drained by the worrying over these weird fits.

Maybe it's a contrast thing. The guy I was with before was incredibly phlegmatic. My girlfriends joked that he wouldn't notice if I went for a week's vacation out of town. I spent 3 years in a totally no-argument and no-stress space. It was nice to have the safe harbor, but eventually that was what drove me away. Very calm water goes stale.

QueenBitch
11-24-2015, 04:34 AM
I realized I use way too many smiley faces. All the goddamn time. Then I tried to force myself to stop using them, and all my messages started to seem offensive, like threats... it's like the smiley faces were the "i'm just kidding" hint. Sigh. :)

A serious confession's this. I don't understand my man. At all. The whole men and women are from different planets and all that. I thought before that it'll take time and it's cool and keeps the relationship fresh and mysterious. Now, all the more often I'm like "what the fuck"... Then I started thinking that I must be stupid or not sensitive. I'm naturally a really calm person. I don't yell, I rarely get mad and it takes something very extraordinary to get me pissed. Sometimes he gets upset for seemingly no reason what so ever, or none that I could think of. I used to get worried and try to make it right, or at least strived to figure out what the hell happened. Now, all the more often I just let him cool off and get over it on his own, without spending any of my nerve cells. It seems like a more logical behavior, but I'm wondering if that means the feeling is going away, or being drained by the worrying over these weird fits.

Maybe it's a contrast thing. The guy I was with before was incredibly phlegmatic. My girlfriends joked that he wouldn't notice if I went for a week's vacation out of town. I spent 3 years in a totally no-argument and no-stress space. It was nice to have the safe harbor, but eventually that was what drove me away. Very calm water goes stale.

my bf has borderline, so he gets upset over nothing sometimes. he'll take what I said the wrong way or a tiny little thing goes wrong and he blows up. I've learned that ignoring the bad behavior makes it go away much faster. don't feed into it.

of course this might be different, I don't know anything about your bf, but in general I found it's best to stay calm at all times and just let someone calm down on their own. you can't reason with someone who's extremely pissed off.

NatalieCentro
11-24-2015, 04:43 AM
Thanks @QueenBitch, I appreciate the input. I don't think it's different. Sounds very much like it, or even that my case is worse - literally like the stereotypical teenager in the worst of PMS that you see jokes about on FB. I've been thinking whether ignoring it will help or make things worse. I'll try to work on that tactic and see where that goes. Dear lord it's nice to know I'm not the only one this is happening to.

QueenBitch
11-24-2015, 05:00 AM
Thanks @QueenBitch, I appreciate the input. I don't think it's different. Sounds very much like it, or even that my case is worse - literally like the stereotypical teenager in the worst of PMS that you see jokes about on FB. I've been thinking whether ignoring it will help or make things worse. I'll try to work on that tactic and see where that goes. Dear lord it's nice to know I'm not the only one this is happening to.

it's hard at first, but eventually you'll be able to predict what will happen. my bf has 2 modes: 1. you're a goddess you're the best gf ever and I love you so much, and 2. you're the worst and everything you do annoys me. at first I took the insults to heart, but I did some research on borderline personality disorder and that really helped me. I know that what he's accusing me of is projection most of the time. like he'll accuse me of doing things that he does himself, not me. as soon as he's calm again he goes back to "I have the best gf ever". depending on how severe his mood is, this may take 10 minutes or maybe a couple of hours. so I just sit here thinking "yeah whatever I'm going to ignore everything you're saying because in about half an hour you'll be cuddling me and running to the store to get me candy and pizza". I know he doesn't mean the shitty things he says.

in contrast: my friend has been in a relationship for over 6 years with someone who obviously has borderline but he refuses to acknowledge it or do anything about it (my bf knows about his problem and doesn't deny that anything is wrong with him). she reacts to his shitty behavior every time and basically cries and begs him to act normal. result: they argue for days and he makes fun of her for being a doormat. she once ignored him and sent me a message like "omg I ignored his bullshit and told him to calm down before he can talk to me again and it didn't take long at all for him to be nice again". unfortunately she only succeeded in doing this once and now they're back to arguing for days. they literally argue more than half of the week, every single week. I have no idea how she can stand this, but oh well.

it's good that you're a very calm person, makes it easier to put things into perspective. I had to learn that because I'm naturally not a calm person at all. I have a very short temper so it often takes all my willpower to just stfu lol. doesn't mean you can't put him in his place of course, but only when he's calm and reasonable again. he probably won't admit that anything was his fault otherwise.

sometimes I get the feeling that I'm training a puppy.

Elektra Luxx
11-24-2015, 06:01 AM
I knew this would happen, I accidentally found out my ex-bf and his ex-gf (the one before me) are together again. I can't stop thinking about it.

NatalieCentro
11-24-2015, 06:17 AM
I am calm, but it actually makes things worse I measure things against my own feelings and hence think that I must have really hurt him somehow if he went so ballistic. Then I start worrying about it and take everything very seriously and to the heart. Maybe if I was more short tempered I'd understand it better.

The projection thing sounds very familiar, except it's often some occasion or situation that happened a long time ago with one or another of his EXes. I gotta stop jacking this thread but seriously QueenBitch thank you very much. You make it sound like it's something that I will be able to deal with and overcome, that's a great help. I'll also read up on borderline and see what other useful info I can find that will help me deal with it. I wish I knew how to train puppies.

P.S. for some of the 24/7 arguing relationships I've seen among my friends, it's all about the making up sex :)

baer45
11-24-2015, 08:07 AM
I knew this would happen, I accidentally found out my ex-bf and his ex-gf (the one before me) are together again. I can't stop thinking about it.

Take your mind off it. Listen, there was a reason you broke up with him. He's someone else's problem now. Maybe that someone else like to be abused, but not you. Keep your chin up, go do something fun and exciting, focus on earning money and a better guy will come your way. Trust me, there will always be another guy, a better guy.

NatalieCentro
11-24-2015, 08:21 AM
Take your mind off it. Listen, there was a reason you broke up with him. He's someone else's problem now. Maybe that someone else like to be abused, but not you. Keep your chin up, go do something fun and exciting, focus on earning money and a better guy will come your way. Trust me, there will always be another guy, a better guy.

This ^^^ 100%

Elektra Luxx
11-24-2015, 01:42 PM
I knew this would happen, I accidentally found out my ex-bf and his ex-gf (the one before me) are together again. I can't stop thinking about it.


Take your mind off it. Listen, there was a reason you broke up with him. He's someone else's problem now. Maybe that someone else like to be abused, but not you. Keep your chin up, go do something fun and exciting, focus on earning money and a better guy will come your way. Trust me, there will always be another guy, a better guy.

I know. I'm not even sad, I'm angry because I knew it would happen. I want to punch someone and I think I want to punch her. I feel like giving him call, ask him to come over, fuck him on video and send to her and his mom for Xmas. I know I could easily make it happen too.

baer45
11-24-2015, 04:29 PM
I know. I'm not even sad, I'm angry because I knew it would happen. I want to punch someone and I think I want to punch her. I feel like giving him call, ask him to come over, fuck him on video and send to her and his mom for Xmas. I know I could easily make it happen too.

I understand your pain and anger. Honestly, I have been to that girl's position which I was not proud of. It was a bad experience.

But if you were here with me, I would spank you for being silly. Let's say he and she are losers, they deserve each other. from what I read, they have nothing to do with you anymore. Why do you go out your way to fuck a loser in order to prove she's a loser which is already given? What do you gain from this? not to mention to show it to her mom and his family. If you want punch someone, go to the YMCA. You can beat the hell out of a punching bag. I really don't want to be the righteous ass here, I really feel you. Wasting your time and energy on something that you benefit so little, no so smart. Look forward, I see a beautiful you, happy and successful.

one of my ex texted me at 2am a few weeks ago. He asked me how I was doing. I replied:"None of your fucking business!" Guess what? never felt better.

charlie61
11-24-2015, 04:36 PM
I'm drinking Apothic Dark and banging out a rough draft for my grad-school application essay. I tried this last week and ended up watching Parks & Rec instead. But this fucker is due in a week and determines my future. Time to get serious.

charlie61
11-24-2015, 04:55 PM
::procrasturbates::

Elektra Luxx
11-24-2015, 05:32 PM
My grandpa had 2 doctor appointments today, one with his cardiologist and the other with his GP. The cardiologist will not release him for surgery until he gets a ECG. So now he has to wait for that. We also found out he has a heart aneurysm. I don't understand, "What the fuck is going on?" I feel so overwhelmed.

Aurora_Sunset
11-25-2015, 09:59 AM
I did laundry last night and got done with it so late that I just dumped it out all over the living room floor so it wouldn't get too wrinkly and just left it for the night. I have half an hour before a client shows up - which is plenty of time to put it away, but I so HATE putting away laundry that I just don't feel like it. I think I'm gonna lie and say I just finished and didn't have time to put it away before he showed up.

The hatred I have for doing laundry is, franky, irrational, considering it's not even half as hard or tedious as other chores.

miss.a.p1600
11-25-2015, 05:11 PM
^^^maybe you can pay someone who like to organize laundry a nominal fee to do it for you?

My confession is I had a plan to try to hookup with a doctor for perhaps a sugar daddy type relationship. Well I find one and go to his office twice looking good. Somehow fate aligned us together again today but I didn't feel like talking to him cause I'm running errands today and looking like a bag lady in sweats and my hair in a messy ponytail. Ugh! Well he walks off and all I can think is how I wished I would have spruced up before I left the house so now I've probably ruined his fantasy and the possibility of taking it further.

[email protected] onto plan b.

wednesday86
11-25-2015, 08:03 PM
I just squirted chocolate syrup out of the bottle into my mouth because I have no other sweets in the house. I'm PMSing hard.

simone87
11-25-2015, 09:43 PM
I'm about to slap myself because for the past few years i cannot decide whether i like brunette or blond better..i swear to god every few months i change my mind. i'm currently a dark blond right now, and considering going back to sexy ( cheaper, less time consuming, easier DIY) brunette. because I'm just never going to make it in every 4-6 weeks, just not gonna happen. but then i feel "plain" brunette and want the glamour of blond. grass is always a better shade on the other side

QueenBitch
11-26-2015, 04:56 AM
I just squirted chocolate syrup out of the bottle into my mouth because I have no other sweets in the house. I'm PMSing hard.

hahaha before I reached "out of the bottle" I was like "WHAT? HOW?". good morning, me :')

wednesday86
11-26-2015, 06:58 AM
I'm about to slap myself because for the past few years i cannot decide whether i like brunette or blond better..i swear to god every few months i change my mind. i'm currently a dark blond right now, and considering going back to sexy ( cheaper, less time consuming, easier DIY) brunette. because I'm just never going to make it in every 4-6 weeks, just not gonna happen. but then i feel "plain" brunette and want the glamour of blond. grass is always a better shade on the other side

Maybe try blonde balayage?..that's what I am now and it's actually very low maintenance. I just get touch ups every 6-8 weeks (could probably go longer) and use special shampoo...I have the dark/root part as my natural color.

Sometimes I want to go back platinum but then I remember how much I hate it when my roots start coming through and it's a pain in the ass.

whirlerz
11-26-2015, 09:17 AM
There's a new 'temp root touch up' prod out, (looks really good, not too expensive) styleedit.com..however, there's no contacting them, I tried. My hair grows fast, even though I do keep up @ salon I need something like this. There's some other stuff @ Ulta, but it's like 40.00, not paying that much for powder. Also nothing about where they're sold. Nice. :(

Selina M
11-26-2015, 03:10 PM
I went Super High Maintenance White Girl today and made the barista remake my coffees. Like, got home, figured out they were wrong, got back in the car and drove a mile back, went inside, and watched him re-do both of them.

I have never done that, I rarely even send really bad stuff back at restaurants, but I felt justified. I did not spend $4.50 a piece on fancy holiday flavored lattes to drink what was basically heated up milk.
AND the kid (who has only been working there like a week) got an attitude about it, and still didn't do them right... slightly better, but not correct. Oy vey.

xStacey
11-26-2015, 03:14 PM
Ok, this time it's for real. I cut off my ex once and for all, blocked his number from my phone so I wouldn't be tempted to text him or feel sad because he's not texting me. I blocked his Facebook page, the page of the girls he's dating (including that girl in my faculty, so glad I don't have to see her face everywhere anymore because we have friends in common and she attends a lot of events I am invited to) and the girls he dated. The sex is good but it's not worth suffering that much. It hurts not having him in my life but it hurts even more to have him in my life and to know things will never be the way I want them to be, that he will always treat anyone better than me because he hasn't conquered them yet.

I have to move on and I should have done that three years ago when we broke up.

SimoneGray
11-26-2015, 11:44 PM
^^ Good for you girl!! It's always so hard at first but it does get better.

I ate a can of condensed milk mixed with lemon juice. So very very bad but amazing.

Vyanka
11-27-2015, 12:34 AM
I can't decide if I want to open up a business, or become an esthetician. Grrr...

I'm getting close to my final chapter of stripping and want something that won't bore me to death, pay bills, and have weekends off (depending on the business). I am not an office person. I can't sit in front of a computer 8 hours a day, while my ass goes soft. That's just slow torture to me.

Aaaahhhh, decisions decisions.

OR, do both? :) hmmmm

whirlerz
11-27-2015, 09:03 AM
I can't decide if I want to open up a business, or become an esthetician. Grrr...

I'm getting close to my final chapter of stripping and want something that won't bore me to death, pay bills, and have weekends off (depending on the business). I am not an office person. I can't sit in front of a computer 8 hours a day, while my ass goes soft. That's just slow torture to me.

Aaaahhhh, decisions decisions.

OR, do both? :) hmmmm

Yeah, why not do both, or some form of?

Aurora_Sunset
11-27-2015, 09:09 AM
Sometimes I think the feeling of wanting to move/run away to somewhere new comes from feeling like I need to "show" people around here that I'm moving on and starting something new. I know it's completely narcissistic and irrational to think that people spend their days sitting around thinking about how my life (and me by extension) is boring and stagnant because I still live here, but that's how I feel. And I so want people to think I'm moving on, doing something exciting, and being somewhere where they can't see me to know if it's true or not.

I know that's completely crazy. But I spent so long making a lifestyle/reputation here as kind of a shitshow drunk that I feel like I need to break out of that mold in people's minds in order to actually move on. That shouldn't be required to better my life, I know.

The thing is, I've never even been/done anything that bad that I really really fucked up or anything. I've never pissed someone off to the point where they stopped being my friend because of my drunken shenanigans. I've never gotten into a drunk driving wreck or tried to do something stupid and dangerous while drunk. But I feel like I've become the "court jester" kinda "fucked-up wino lite" or something for everyone to just laugh at, or invite me over to get their own party started cuz they assume I'm always down for that. I just want to feel like an adult that people respect.

Vyanka
11-27-2015, 09:50 AM
Yeah, why not do both, or some form of?

I think I'm gonna. Better to have options. :)

charlie61
11-27-2015, 10:59 AM
I've just now started wearing fake eyelashes to work.

O_o

Glamourmilf
11-27-2015, 11:50 AM
[QUOTE=Vyanka;2824725]I can't decide if I want to open up a business, or become an esthetician. Grrr...

I'm getting close to my final chapter of stripping and want something that won't bore me to death, pay bills, and have weekends off (depending on the business). I am not an office person. I can't sit in front of a computer 8 hours a day, while my ass goes soft. That's just slow torture to me.

Many years ago when I felt like I was done with stripping, I read a book titled "Do What You Love, and the Money will follow."
I did, and it didn't.
Now my motto is, "Do what men Love, and the Money will follow." Lol
Your post made me think of this, because its what I've been pondering lately.
Im planning my next career move since, new year, new goals...going to be dance related. Dancing is in my blood.
I, like Whirlez, say why not do both? Or, which one, when u think about doing it, gets u the most excited?

Vyanka
11-27-2015, 02:09 PM
[QUOTE=Vyanka;2824725]I can't decide if I want to open up a business, or become an esthetician. Grrr...

I'm getting close to my final chapter of stripping and want something that won't bore me to death, pay bills, and have weekends off (depending on the business). I am not an office person. I can't sit in front of a computer 8 hours a day, while my ass goes soft. That's just slow torture to me.

Many years ago when I felt like I was done with stripping, I read a book titled "Do What You Love, and the Money will follow."
I did, and it didn't.
Now my motto is, "Do what men Love, and the Money will follow." Lol
Your post made me think of this, because its what I've been pondering lately.
Im planning my next career move since, new year, new goals...going to be dance related. Dancing is in my blood.
I, like Whirlez, say why not do both? Or, which one, when u think about doing it, gets u the most excited?

I'll probably won't quit right away. Lol. I'll most likely pop in ince in a while. Maybe, maybe not...idk yet?
It's just not gonna be full time any more. Party's gotta end at one point.

I'll see what will fall in my lap first. Will keep you ladies posted.

miss.a.p1600
11-27-2015, 05:03 PM
I went Super High Maintenance White Girl today and made the barista remake my coffees. Like, got home, figured out they were wrong, got back in the car and drove a mile back, went inside, and watched him re-do both of them.

I have never done that, I rarely even send really bad stuff back at restaurants, but I felt justified. I did not spend $4.50 a piece on fancy holiday flavored lattes to drink what was basically heated up milk.
AND the kid (who has only been working there like a week) got an attitude about it, and still didn't do them right... slightly better, but not correct. Oy vey.

Whaaaat. I unfortunately had to do the same thing today too. And yes, I drove back to the store to get my correct order and to let them know the order was made incorrectly.

And why when I get there I notice this piss poor employee (I don't know what manager in their right mind would hire her cause I think she is a slick sociopath) that I don't like there and I think she was the one fixing the drinks. I think she f*cked up my order on purpose cause I always order the same drinks. Evil b*tch.

Then the dude that remade my order had a stank attitude. Im going to have to quit going to that location.

baer45
11-28-2015, 08:56 AM
I honestly don't understand why people act this way on black friday. I know it's unfair to criticize people when I don't work on a minimium wage job. of course I am by no means rich or well off. Not going to compare my sex work pay rate with the time and energy people spend on this black friday just to save...how much? probably $300 on that tv? What's really annoying was the attitude. They treat each other like enemies just for a few bucks. these are the things I won't do.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1gOi0DCpzLo

miss.a.p1600
11-28-2015, 09:42 AM
^^^yeah that's ridiculous. It's not like that everywhere. I think people have this unrealistic idea of getting all the best presents for really cheap prices - remind you retailers are partly to blame for the frenzy. The day after thanksgiving is traditionally known as THE biggest shopping day of the year. So they're probably under pressure to pull out every tactic to get people to buy so they can produce record sales/profits.

Now that we have the Internet and retailers are online - it makes no sense to go into a literal war zone when you can find the exact same deals online.

wednesday86
11-28-2015, 10:08 AM
^^^yeah that's ridiculous. It's not like that everywhere. I think people have this unrealistic idea of getting all the best presents for really cheap prices - remind you retailers are partly to blame for the frenzy. The day after thanksgiving is traditionally known as THE biggest shopping day of the year. So they're probably under pressure to pull out every tactic to get people to buy so they can produce record sales/profits.

Now that we have the Internet and retailers are online - it makes no sense to go into a literal war zone when you can find the exact same deals online.

Yeah and the funny thing is there are usually better sales right before Christmas... That's why I don't even bother with Black Friday.

Vyanka
11-28-2015, 11:19 AM
Yeah and the funny thing is there are usually better sales right before Christmas... That's why I don't even bother with Black Friday.

I thought it was after Christmas?

whirlerz
11-28-2015, 01:38 PM
I thought it was after Christmas?

I believe this 2 b true..I think a lot of stuff could bgone, or in low supply

Vyanka
11-28-2015, 01:47 PM
I believe this 2 b true..I think a lot of stuff could bgone, or in low supply

I'm going to shop for myself after Christmas. I remember the sales being good after.

charlie61
11-28-2015, 01:56 PM
Just deactivated my Facebook account again. That site sneaks up on you. You start out using it healthily, and before you know it, you find yourself spending time thinking of posts that will generate positive feedback, taking pictures just for posting purposes, and constructing this online image that doesn't reflect your real life. I do a lot of self-work, and Facebook causes me to regress.

baer45
11-28-2015, 02:43 PM
After Christmas is the peak of returning gifts.

Selina M
11-28-2015, 05:54 PM
I am such a childish little wuss about things like putting in notice at jobs, not renewing leases, etc. I hate when people ask "Why?" or want to fix it so you stay so I just avoid it.

I just had to tell the guy I board with that I'm taking my horse back home next week and it was agonizing trying to word the text. I don't want them to offer to haul him either, I hate accepting help. I contemplated just taking the horse when they're not home and sending a text. It makes me feel THAT awkward.

absolutelyadorable
11-30-2015, 12:34 AM
I really REALLY don't like one of my bf's nephews and am so freakin glad he's not close to that one. Now I get why he doesn't hang around that nephew too much. Omg. The next time he says some dumb racist shit I just might slap the dog shit out of him in front of everyone.

SimoneGray
11-30-2015, 05:39 AM
Sometimes I worry that after a relatively successful camming career, the rest of my life will suck. Ugh.