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kaninchen
12-14-2015, 10:01 AM
Yesterday I woke up, went to work, went straight to a choral performance, and then had dinner with a group of people in a crowded restaurant. It was way too many people in my face for like, 10 hours straight. This morning I was basically dying for my boyfriend go to work so I could have some alone time. He was trying to be all lovey-dovey, but all I could think was "GTFO already bitch! I need my space!" I mean, I adore him, but I was totally running on empty!

Now that I'm alone with my coffee and cats, I feel awesome. 8) 8) 8)

Glamourmilf
12-14-2015, 10:24 AM
I think I'm gonna give camming another shot...At this point I'd rather stick things in my butt for less $ than walk back into the club.

Yippee! I'm so happy that You are going to cam again!
You can take out your frustration On guys, By being a domme, And you do know that you never have to stick anything up your butt right? Lol!

But if you think people are boring now, Try listening to the same dumb questions over and over each time you cam. It's all good though. I love camming, all things considered.

wednesday86
12-14-2015, 11:42 AM
Yippee! I'm so happy that You are going to cam again!
You can take out your frustration On guys, By being a domme, And you do know that you never have to stick anything up your butt right? Lol!

But if you think people are boring now, Try listening to the same dumb questions over and over each time you cam. It's all good though. I love camming, all things considered.

hehehe I was being silly...I don't do anal :p They can't be any more boring than SC customers ugghhh. Just signed up for SM so I'm waiting to get approved! Maybe you can be my camgirl spirit guide Glamour? <3

baer45
12-14-2015, 12:43 PM
Maybe you can be my camgirl spirit guide Glamour? <3
Be careful what you wish for! LOL

baer45
12-14-2015, 12:58 PM
https://41.media.tumblr.com/f1bea36093afc508d34a56d79d726e51/tumblr_nzd61kNOBd1v0rrg3o6_540.jpg

I am going to steal this christmas idea and apply to my business for the rest of the month.

Glamourmilf
12-14-2015, 05:41 PM
hehehe I was being silly...I don't do anal :p They can't be any more boring than SC customers ugghhh. Just signed up for SM so I'm waiting to get approved! Maybe you can be my camgirl spirit guide Glamour? <3
Sounds good Wednesday!
Edit to add: I was in an Ulta beauty supply today. The salesgirl was so bubbly, and had so much charisma, that I felt like yanking her outta there to be my camming doppelganger.
Talk about customer service! Women left and right were commenting to her about it.
Such enthusiasm for her job. Kinda rubbed off on me, cause I want to be a better cammer. There's always room for improvement, ya know?

xStacey
12-14-2015, 11:00 PM
I blocked my ex on Facebook, from my cellphone, and soon I will block his Instagram pages on all my devices. I still think about him every day, multiple times a day. Sometimes I just miss him so much and I want to text him but I have to resist even though it's hard, and sometimes I wonder if he might have texted me but that I haven't received his message because I blocked him. Deep down, I know he probably did not, he never texts first but I still wonder.

SimoneGray
12-15-2015, 01:37 AM
I think I'm gonna give camming another shot...At this point I'd rather stick things in my butt for less $ than walk back into the club.

Yay!! We'd be happy to have another join the ranks hehe

Glamourmilf
12-15-2015, 12:21 PM
I confess that I miss shopping at high end stores, and boutiques. :'(
Was just visiting a town that I used to live in, and is populated by very wealthy people.
I flashed back to when I lived there and was making great money, and would just point to anything I wanted and say "Wrap it up, I'll take it."
I mean, who needs a $150 rhinestone collar, and matching Chanel sweater, for their dog?
Me, dang it,:-[ that's who!
At least today my teddy bear is getting to wear that same Chanel sweater.

simone87
12-15-2015, 01:38 PM
i confess i breathed a sigh of relief when i knew a particularly angry, pugnacious member had been permanently banned, it felt like walking on eggshells sometimes. lol

kaninchen
12-15-2015, 01:45 PM
I want to go to work tonight, but I'm PMSing pretty hardcore. My boobs hurt and my patience is at 0%, and weekday nights tend to require so much talking ... and empathizing... Empathizing with men is already hard enough!

Maybe that guy who likes to be slapped, humiliated, and pinched will come in and I can take my frustrations out on him. :devil:

MistressX
12-15-2015, 02:12 PM
Confession time!

Most of you know now I just LOVE my hearses! But, its more than that! I am actually an Objectophiliac. I have a romantic and sexual relationship with my cars. I normally dont tell guys on cam about this although I am very open about it, because they never understand. Anyway, that's my confession. I am a certified weirdo :D

SweetJulia
12-15-2015, 02:17 PM
i confess i breathed a sigh of relief when i knew a particularly angry, pugnacious member had been permanently banned, it felt like walking on eggshells sometimes. lol

Haha awesome:) I wanted to say the same thing when someone who only posts in the camming section got banned, but wasn't sure if it was allowed.

Glamourmilf
12-15-2015, 04:13 PM
Confession time!

Most of you know now I just LOVE my hearses! But, its more than that! I am actually an Objectophiliac. I have a romantic and sexual relationship with my cars. I normally dont tell guys on cam about this although I am very open about it, because they never understand. Anyway, that's my confession. I am a certified weirdo :D
I get it. I love hearses also. I used to grief counseling, and sales at a funeral home. ( I have a thing for caskets, but that's a whole other subject.)
P.S. Looking at your hearse pic in your profile, I see so many cool things? Do you see them see?

MistressX
12-15-2015, 06:31 PM
I get it. I love hearses also. I used to grief counseling, and sales at a funeral home. ( I have a thing for caskets, but that's a whole other subject.)
P.S. Looking at your hearse pic in your profile, I see so many cool things? Do you see them see?

Do I what? lol sorry I didnt understand the question? I have 3 coaches, 2 full sized caskets, two childs caskets and a baby one, and various other funerary items. Most of which we "liberated" from an abandoned mortuary. The lincoln was a gift for my birthday in 2013. The '71 I got for $100 and came with the two full sized caskets. It is really interesting what you used to do, why did you leave if you don't mind me asking? I live vicariously through my FD friends as I dont have what it takes to be one lol

Glamourmilf
12-15-2015, 09:59 PM
Do I what? lol sorry I didnt understand the question? I have 3 coaches, 2 full sized caskets, two childs caskets and a baby one, and various other funerary items. Most of which we "liberated" from an abandoned mortuary. The lincoln was a gift for my birthday in 2013. The '71 I got for $100 and came with the two full sized caskets. It is really interesting what you used to do, why did you leave if you don't mind me asking? I live vicariously through my FD friends as I dont have what it takes to be one lol

I left when I moved. I miss it. Met the nicest folks. My first job, even before stripping, was as a makeup artist at a funeral home.
What I meant about the photo in your siggy, is that I see very interesting shapes appearing. Also, the way the sun is shining on the car. Well, its very beautiful and mystical.

wednesday86
12-16-2015, 11:58 AM
I don't know if I'm actually starting to look older or if I'm about to turn 30 and I'm having confirmation bias issues. My husband took me out to dinner and we didn't get carded for drinks. I bought cigarettes and the guy didn't card me..Then last night at work customers guessed my age to be around 26 when they usually guess much younger. Oh well...I guess it's unreasonable to believe I'll look 19 forever.

carmen_b
12-16-2015, 02:18 PM
^ It kind of drives me crazy if I don't get carded too and I have to remind myself not to take offense to it in my current area ( where they just care a lot less about following rules ect. than my other area ) . Try to not get too offended - it kind of pisses me off not to get carded though. :/
I think the staff should be SMART and card any lady that looks under 45ish !

charlie61
12-16-2015, 05:57 PM
I want to get professional pictures taken with my partner (regular, happy, non-selfie, smiling, outdoor pictures), but the idea of paying a bunch of money for that feels a little ridiculous.

Glamourmilf
12-16-2015, 06:21 PM
I don't know if I'm actually starting to look older or if I'm about to turn 30 and I'm having confirmation bias issues. My husband took me out to dinner and we didn't get carded for drinks. I bought cigarettes and the guy didn't card me..Then last night at work customers guessed my age to be around 26 when they usually guess much younger. Oh well...I guess it's unreasonable to believe I'll look 19 forever.
I get carded evertime i buy cold medicine. Lol! And at a certain gay bar.

wednesday86
12-16-2015, 06:33 PM
I get carded evertime i buy cold medicine. Lol! And at a certain gay bar.

oh yeah I know some cold medicines have alcohol in them or something...I Just want to know who these people are that are getting drunk on cold medicine...?! lol

Aurora_Sunset
12-16-2015, 06:42 PM
oh yeah I know some cold medicines have alcohol in them or something...I Just want to know who these people are that are getting drunk on cold medicine...?! lol

You can actually trip pretty good on Robitussin. Not that I would know...

Me: I realized I have actively avoided making new friends for over a year. Every time I think someone is cool, I deliberately don't pursue them as friends like I normally would. I just can't deal with the "what do you do for a living?" question anymore. I don't even remember what I used to be cool with telling people, but I just can't anymore. It was one thing to slowly come out to most of my friends who were friends before I started escorting while telling them I still just stripped (because I could broach stripping easily with someone I already knew). But the thought of trying to actually be good friends with anyone new just seems impossible. Like, what would I do? Lie for a few years until I know they're worthwhile and trustworthy friends and then reveal that I've been lying from the very beginning of getting to know me? Can't seem to do it or reconcile it.

simone87
12-16-2015, 07:27 PM
kinda dawned on me today..i've felt like a loser for the majority of my life and i think its because i'm an INFP and shit that our culture holds up as success ( fame, power, flashing your money around, being ambitious,competitive) i've never wanted or been good at. and stuff like math/science/STEM is the highest paying but i not only do i hate it, I really suck at it. in this culture extraversion is seen as the norm, and you're just an antisocial friendless loser for not liking parties or not having 500 fb friends! i remember just feeling really hopeless at 18, desperately searching for a career or degree that i loved and was good at, that also paid a decent wage. and I'm STILL searching. i'm not trying to say I'm this special snowflake because i know a ton of ppl who are just like me, i just wish i lived in a culture that valued other things

kaninchen
12-16-2015, 10:43 PM
I lost my favorite work thong, so I ordered another one and had it overnighted. Granted, I needed ("needed") a bunch of other stuff from Yandy too, but it still feels ridiculously diva-y to have a $9 item overnighted for $19.95.

Although it's not like it won't pay for itself with, like, 2 minutes of work, so...

SimoneGray
12-17-2015, 02:46 AM
I keep dreaming about my ex-crush...I say ex because I am for the most part over him, yet in my dreams we always do the most intimate things, like snuggling, hand holding etc, super close contact. ugh.

tuesdaymarie
12-17-2015, 07:35 AM
kinda dawned on me today..i've felt like a loser for the majority of my life and i think its because i'm an INFP and shit that our culture holds up as success ( fame, power, flashing your money around, being ambitious,competitive) i've never wanted or been good at. and stuff like math/science/STEM is the highest paying but i not only do i hate it, I really suck at it. in this culture extraversion is seen as the norm, and you're just an antisocial friendless loser for not liking parties or not having 500 fb friends! i remember just feeling really hopeless at 18, desperately searching for a career or degree that i loved and was good at, that also paid a decent wage. and I'm STILL searching. i'm not trying to say I'm this special snowflake because i know a ton of ppl who are just like me, i just wish i lived in a culture that valued other things

Word. My landlords are from Bosnia, and they're here in the States because they wanted to make enough money to have options. But now their biggest dream is to live frugally enough so that they can move back to Bosnia or Croatia and live simple, peaceful lives. They showed us pictures of apples a family member grew there. They were all enormous and looked delicious. They have one kid who just finished college, and he wanted a flashy life, so they're all concerned he's messing up his priorities and is going to be another wage slave for the newest flat screen soon. I have pretty much no professional ambition besides writing, and I consider it more of an art. I think it's probably some of my family members' worst nightmare.

wednesday86
12-17-2015, 10:08 AM
I had dreams I was friending SW members on fb and was getting requests from people I didn't know..Woke up to a friend request from some random Chinese lady I've never seen before. Crap like that happens in my dreams all the time...like the other night I lost my keys, turned the house upside down looking for them, and dreamed they were in this specific pocket in my purse. Lo and behold... It freaks me out.

Glamourmilf
12-17-2015, 10:40 AM
[QUOTE=tuesdaymarie;2831443]Word. My landlords are from Bosnia, and they're here in the States because they wanted to make enough money to have options. But now their biggest dream is to live frugally enough so that they can move back to Bosnia or Croatia and live simple, peaceful lives. They showed us pictures of apples a family member grew there. They were all enormous and looked delicious. They have one kid who just finished college, and he wanted a flashy life, so they're all concerned he's messing up his priorities and is going to be another wage slave for the newest flat screen soon. I have pretty much no professional ambition besides writing, and I consider it more of an art. I think it's probably some of my family members' worst nightmare.[/QUOTE

Interesting story. I have always had 'the grass is always greener' symptom. You know, '"If I just had THAT, or If I just could live THERE, I'd be happy." Dont really know how to stop feeling like that.

Elektra Luxx
12-17-2015, 02:27 PM
My parents are spending the holidays in Seattle with the older sister and her fiance. They are going to be there until December 26th. This is the first time that I'm spending the Christmas holidays without them. So it's just me and my little brother. My younger sister is spending the holidays with her bf's family.

I've been kinda semi-seriously seeing this older guy for more than a month. The guy is nice and I like him, but his job requires him to travel so I only get to see him once or twice a week. He spends the night at my place mostly. I can't decide if I still want him coming over with my little brother around. Either way no ka-noodling for the by the Christmas tree for me until after the 26th. I think the guy will understand, but he may not like the arrangement. Well, if he doesn't like it, he can go ka-noodle himself.

Cashmere Star
12-17-2015, 03:01 PM
I have pretty much no professional ambition besides writing, and I consider it more of an art. I think it's probably some of my family members' worst nightmare.

omg what are you writing??? (lol had to ask)

tuesdaymarie
12-17-2015, 03:06 PM
^I've been working on a screenplay with my friend, and I'm writing a mystery/action novel. We've done a few complete drafts of the screenplay, but the novel is way more difficult for me. Maybe it's working collaboratively vs. working alone that forces me to make more progress on the screenplay? Idk. What about you?

MistressX
12-17-2015, 03:48 PM
I left when I moved. I miss it. Met the nicest folks. My first job, even before stripping, was as a makeup artist at a funeral home.
What I meant about the photo in your siggy, is that I see very interesting shapes appearing. Also, the way the sun is shining on the car. Well, its very beautiful and mystical.

Oh! Derp. Yeah, it's one of my fav pics. I don't like that I can't really see Dusty because she's far away, but she looks great because of that and he fact she's half covered up (and the covered half is the one that's still in primer.. She's literally 50 shades of grey right now LOL). That's too bad about having to leave. I know quite a few funeral professionals and would love to be one too but I know I wouldn't be able to handle it lol

charlie61
12-17-2015, 05:25 PM
You can actually trip pretty good on Robitussin. Not that I would know...

Me: I realized I have actively avoided making new friends for over a year. Every time I think someone is cool, I deliberately don't pursue them as friends like I normally would. I just can't deal with the "what do you do for a living?" question anymore. I don't even remember what I used to be cool with telling people, but I just can't anymore. It was one thing to slowly come out to most of my friends who were friends before I started escorting while telling them I still just stripped (because I could broach stripping easily with someone I already knew). But the thought of trying to actually be good friends with anyone new just seems impossible. Like, what would I do? Lie for a few years until I know they're worthwhile and trustworthy friends and then reveal that I've been lying from the very beginning of getting to know me? Can't seem to do it or reconcile it.

I used to LOVE talking to people about my job, correcting their misconceptions, etc. It's only within the last couple of years that I've lost any interest in talking to people about it. I find it boring, and I find their lack of understanding and inability to ask insightful questions to be highly irritating. I hate how obvious it is when someone is glamorizing or fetishizing what I do. The topic has become boring to me. It's just a job. And it takes years for someone to develop a true understanding of how much skill and effort sex work can take. Even then, they don't truly get it. I don't have the patience for years of explanations anymore.

carmen_b
12-17-2015, 07:52 PM
^ One of the big reasons I never came out as a dancer.
Yaaawwwnnn. There's so much more to talk about than why I put on heels and war paint and a fake persona when it all just boils down to earning money but people expect it to be " more " than that.

Cashmere Star
12-17-2015, 08:42 PM
I used to LOVE talking to people about my job, correcting their misconceptions, etc.

I don't bother correcting their misconceptions because if they realized how "normal" this job is except just more $$$ per hour, they'd be strippers too. Honestly, I think the ignorance and taboo-ness surrounding sex work is part of what makes it such a high paying job.

If people found out that I am a stripper, I wouldn't bother trying to justify it to them because no matter how much "logic" or "reason" you try to give people, people only listen if they want to.

Genoveve
12-17-2015, 09:06 PM
That's why I don't tell random people and casual acquaintances about what I do, because I don't want to do the free interview that's going to follow. I honestly don't mind their curiosity, they're usually polite and I know I'm hella curious about plenty of shit but I've been in this biz for years now and it's a pretty mundane topic to me. When it was new and exciting to me too I was more willing to talk about it, but after years of the same questions I'm just too bored to answer them again.

Same thing with cosmetic surgery, when casual acquaintances ask me if I've had any and I just say no because people tend to be really fascinated by it and will then proceed to ask me a million questions about it if I admit it. And again it's always the saaaaame questions. And again I don't blame them or judge them for their curiosity but I am too impatient to do anotherrrrrrr free interview on the topic.

Selina M
12-17-2015, 09:33 PM
^ "Free interview", exactly. I don't mind my friends doing it so much because they seem to ask interesting questions or want funny stories. I hate acquaintances doing it; SO is pretty open about it to his co-workers and they ask him stupid shit all the time... like "Doesn't that bother you that she's naked for other dudes?"... I want to smack them for basically attempting to create an issue... Like NO it wasn't bothering him until you reminded him that's what I was doing right that second :banghead:

Me: I'm re-gifting a mug from last year. I bought it for another friend, who I never ended up hanging out with for 4 months after Christmas, and then she proved to be a shitty friend so we stopped speaking. It's been sitting gift-wrapped on top of my fridge for a year. I have another friend who will love it, so she's getting it. Shhhhhhhhh!

MistressX
12-18-2015, 12:53 AM
My boyfriend is boring and unemotional and doesnt communicate well. I have bee missing my ex lately. I "hung out" with him the other day and I feel guilty :(

Glamourmilf
12-18-2015, 01:53 AM
This guy who hit on me 2 months ago, and took my number, JUST called me and left a message late tonight. Wtf?
What a slacker! I confess that I've completely lost interest, but want to do something devious to him.
Im so fucking sick of guys doing this. Who in their right mind acts so aggressive when they meet you, then waits 2 months to call?
I understood why guys did this in the city. But what could be more pressing to do in this one horse shit town?
Hmmm, any ideas of how to prank him ladies?

wednesday86
12-18-2015, 02:09 AM
This guy who hit on me 2 months ago, and took my number, JUST called me and left a message late tonight. Wtf?
What a slacker! I confess that I've completely lost interest, but want to do something devious to him.
Im so fucking sick of guys doing this. Who in their right mind acts so aggressive when they meet you, then waits 2 months to call?
I understood why guys did this in the city. But what could be more pressing to do in this one horse shit town?
Hmmm, any ideas of how to prank him ladies?

Tell him to meet you somewhere and show up 2 months later..?

Glamourmilf
12-18-2015, 02:37 AM
Tell him to meet you somewhere and show up 2 months later..?
:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: Omg! I'm dying over hear! I love you Wednesday!

Cashmere Star
12-18-2015, 09:07 AM
^^ omg wednesday your cat gif is too cute! russian blue cats are one of my favorite! i can't keep it to myself lol

also for my confession... I am applying for internship at a science institute and one of the first things I do is check for strip clubs in the area where I can work LOL smh

wednesday86
12-18-2015, 11:41 AM
^thanks! I didn't even know what kind of cat it was. I just thought it was cute.

http://www.itsyoursexlife.com/assets/trojan/08b-26d3cde3ac5d9fdd60fc18679ce99d98.gif

xStacey
12-18-2015, 05:47 PM
One of the first people I met when I started law was such a bitch. She always talked about how great she was, how she had great marks upon entrance as if she was the only one who met the requirements to be admitted. When me and another girl we're talking about the curve she said well what's the point of complaining, there's people who are gonna fail, it's just life, I always worked hard and there's no way to fail as long as you work hard, if you don't want to work then that's your problem.

And my friend replied well that's not the point, it's that with the curve some people who would other wise have a good mark in another program inevitably fail to which she replied with her annoying high-pitch voice well that's life it's too bad, when I entered law I knew it would be competitive, what's the point complaining about it I know it's one of the profession with the highest depression and suicide rate but I don't care, just get over it it's just how life works.

And when my friend talked about her friend who failed the bar 4 times, she replied well I don't understand how it's possible to fail the bar exam.

I feel a little bad for thinking this (although not that much), but it's pretty satisfying to see her complaining now about how she's never been in the average before and complaining about stuff that were in the exam the teacher never talked about but were all in the readings, seems like she's not working as hard as she was claiming eh.

BambiCutie
12-18-2015, 06:19 PM
Usually the ones that failed in making decent choices (like not butting into other people's conversations) so they reflect that on other woman they feel inferior to..what a bitch!

charlie61
12-18-2015, 07:04 PM
I have never experienced so much secondhand embarrassment as when I watched the VSFS this year. Half of the models were SO awkward...like they're just so young that they're clearly super nervous and uncomfortable. Even some of the veterans looked odd - Lais seemed bored during her walk. Forgettable music performances (Selena Gomez literally wears a stripper outfit, and Ellie Goulding sneers after each of her performances). I thought last year's show was decent, but this year's was awful IMO.

Vyanka
12-18-2015, 08:55 PM
I have never experienced so much secondhand embarrassment as when I watched the VSFS this year. Half of the models were SO awkward...like they're just so young that they're clearly super nervous and uncomfortable. Even some of the veterans looked odd - Lais seemed bored during her walk. Forgettable music performances (Selena Gomez literally wears a stripper outfit, and Ellie Goulding sneers after each of her performances). I thought last year's show was decent, but this year's was awful IMO.

Also, must we see a shot of Kris Jenner.....

charlie61
12-18-2015, 09:09 PM
Also, must we see a shot of Kris Jenner.....

Oh, yeah, I should've included a separate rant about the Jenner inclusions in the show. Kendall has such a plain face (pretty, but plain). So obvious she was included just for her celebrity status and despite her terrible walk / average appearance.

I honestly can't believe that some of those women got chosen to be in the show. They either look like they're 15 years old or are completely forgettable.

And don't even get me started on the lack of diversity. It's clear that the VS "girls" (the CMO's words, not mine), are picked based on what their 60+ yr old CMO whacks off to at night, not based on what women want to see on the runway.

/threadjack :D

Cashmere Star
12-19-2015, 08:26 AM
I know it's a stereotype, but working at a club exposed me to a lot of single mothers. I think it was a good thing for me. It showed me that being a mother doesn't mean you're dowdy and ugly (in a culture that shits on motherhood so much), these women are just so damn interesting and I admire their ability to work hard and look hot at the same time. They can be like 35 and look just as young as me, except they work a lot harder. But at the same time, hearing them complain about having to support their kids hammered into me "be able to provide and have options before you have kids!!!!" because a lot of my coworkers who have kids say they honestly don't want to be here and even if it's a shitty night they come anyway because they need that extra $$$$. It also made me see what can happen if you have kids with the wrong guy and why we can't rely on guys.

SweetJulia
12-19-2015, 10:24 AM
I know it's a stereotype, but working at a club exposed me to a lot of single mothers. I think it was a good thing for me. It showed me that being a mother doesn't mean you're dowdy and ugly (in a culture that shits on motherhood so much), these women are just so damn interesting and I admire their ability to work hard and look hot at the same time. They can be like 35 and look just as young as me, except they work a lot harder. But at the same time, hearing them complain about having to support their kids hammered into me "be able to provide and have options before you have kids!!!!" because a lot of my coworkers who have kids say they honestly don't want to be here and even if it's a shitty night they come anyway because they need that extra $$$$. It also made me see what can happen if you have kids with the wrong guy and why we can't rely on guys.

I'm really glad you work with them. Unfortunately, many I worked with used their status as a sob story. As in, come to a table where I was trying to create a romantic atmosphere, plop down on my customers lap, grab their dick instead of shake their hand, and say they needed diaper money cuz meth prices went up. Yes, those exact words. Way to encourage a negative stereotype.