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Velveteen.Rabbit
06-28-2016, 10:43 AM
So... I was totally that person that called Comcast because my cable "wasn't working".... I had unplugged it from the TV accidentally...

But just by calling, they lowered my rate and gave me extra channels. So, I can deal with my own stupidity.

Whenever I make a stupid mistake or someone does something shitty to me, something really really really good immediately happens to me. Every single time.

xStacey
06-28-2016, 05:47 PM
I am so obsessed with productivity that I set up goals for my leisure activities, such as a specific number of episodes to watch, books and magazines to read to make the most out of the little amount of free time I have.

lynn2009
06-28-2016, 07:07 PM
I am so obsessed with productivity that I set up goals for my leisure activities, such as a specific number of episodes to watch, books and magazines to read to make the most out of the little amount of free time I have.

I do this too especially with books.





I'm dying. I need someone else to write my statement of goals. Please. Pretty please.

Pro tip: copy paste from job advertisements

carmen_b
06-29-2016, 02:46 PM
I'm feeling the urge to dance again after YEARS ( over 3 ! ) of not working in the clubs . There are a few different reasons including being somewhat geographically close to my fave middle of nowhere clubs and having the season be right to do some camping in national parks in between club stints. I'm going through a weird burn out phase running the business I own and am craving the primal " lets just go get this money NOW " thing that stripping offers v.s. the slower moving sales I've been dealing with the last few years.
I feel like a small mental break with some FASTER MOVING sales goals might refresh me. Then again .... it really may not.
I'm a little thicker than my old dancing self but I can do it at certain places and would need to tone up for others. ;/
I won't be making any crazy plans to do it full time but may pop into a couple old places as I'm popping by for some day job work.

Elektra Luxx
06-30-2016, 09:20 AM
I finally learning to allow myself small blowups instead of gigantic blowups.

Confession: I went out with a guy friend from highschool. Bad decision, I see hurt feelings on the horizon.

KikiGem
06-30-2016, 06:42 PM
I spend way too much time in my head. I went to the mall for the book store and I was like "woah, people. Woah, activities. I faintly remember this, from another lifetime maybe?"

Idk. I enjoy my own company so much that I forget just how little I interact with other people these days! OTC of course, but that's been more than enough lately.

whirlerz
06-30-2016, 07:03 PM
I am horrified..I read on cnn.com about this sorority girl, that gave birth in the house, killed the kid, took it outside & left it in the trash, where the other girls found it. Then texted her bf, "no more baby", taken care of" WHY couldn't she have adopted it to somene? They have places you can drop the kid off, no ? asked.
She got life w/o parole.
Then, some guy was screaming loud @ a little boy in a pkg lot, there was other ppl around, I was going to call the cops, but he calmed down, they went inside a fast food place.
I'm just going to stay in bed now

miss.a.p1600
06-30-2016, 07:55 PM
^^^I saw that too.

What an evil biotch. I could see this happening in the 40s or before abortion, morning after pills, safe places, and adoption, It's 2016 she had no excuse and several legal options if she didn't want to take care of a baby. And where were her family and friends? ThosE sorority "sisters" must not have been her real friends. No one to help her make wise decisions or guide her to counseling? And was she texting no baby to the dude that impregnanted her because he should be partly responsible. Maybe he drove her to do it or he didn't do much to stop her?

Crocodile tears and privilege won't save you, sorority girl!

She should be under the jail - eye for an eye - from what I hear child killers are at the bottom of the totem pole in prison.

JenniferNorth
07-01-2016, 07:55 PM
^ As a mom, that totally breaks my heart. She couldn't have given it up for adoption? Baby safe houses! They will take the baby, no questions asked!! Now I want to go wake my daughter up and hug the life out of her. Ugh. And all the animal abuse I see on FB and in the media....WHY. Oh my god. I've already been telling my husband we need to get a house so I can foster animals.

I've been getting wrapped up in head, and getting so wrapped up that nothing gets done. So I'm like "oh, tomorrow!" And then my daughter gets me up at the asscrack of dawn, and functioning takes forever. I feel like an unproductive piece of crap.

whirlerz
07-01-2016, 09:32 PM
Awhile bk, there was a story on Oprah, awhile bk similar^..the girl was in college, concealed her pregnancy, her & the guy met @ a motel, she gave birth & they threw it in a river?? She's doing some time (not life like 16 yrs?). She turned herself in I think.
Nothing much happened to the guy, he moved on to another girl & got married though.>:(

Anyway, I feel dopey cause I bought 2 similar prs of shoes today, wtf I do/need that for lol. I had fun in the store tho, talking to another lady, & she was actually helping me (I helped her too). Then I went to my storage, got nothing done, then forgot my phone @ the storage when I rushed off to return the one pr that was too big, got a different pr, then had to go allll the way bk to get the damn phone:-\

xStacey
07-02-2016, 01:42 PM
I have always been attracted to power and money, but I am honest with myself and it was never something I tried to hide.

I have a classmate who claims she went into law to help people out, wants to do humanitarian law, is not interested in working for big corporations and is not here for money... But all she ever talks about is big firms and how much they pay lol. She's constantly asking me questions about my male friends (surprise!) who work at large firms...

We were talking about a top business law firm in Canada and she talks about $85k a year, I corrected her and said it's actually $120k the first year, thought it was common knowledge and one of the reasons why it's one of the most coveted firms, she screamed and got all excited. When we talked about another firm she was saying it is not a seven sister firm and putting it down then I said it's still a very powerful firm with big files, she knew I have an acquaintance who works there and quickly asks me "how much is your friend paid"? LOL... I didn't know and honestly it's not something that would occur in my mind to ask, I always found it so tacky talking about salary, asking someone how much they make...

With my background in sex work and my first year in law, I learned not to trust people easily and am skeptical about every single person who approaches me. Not sure if it's a good or bad thing, some people might have good intentions but I always have doubts. What both fields have in common : people are manipulative and will take avantage of you if you're naive, and they will try to befriend you if they think you can bring them something in return.

She's very soft-spoken with an air of innocence (the type of person I trust the least) and used to say i'm not sure if I want to participate in the recruit next year, I am not sure if it's for me, if I'll like it, I did not come into law for this, but then she tells me she's been checking out websites of firms for over a year, students profiles and made a joke about applying and working for five years at a large firm in the future. I get the impression she's just pretending not to be this interested to extract as much information as possible out of me lol.

I understand why students in upper years and older associates are so eager to help out the young law students, because they were in their place not too long ago. But helping the competition? Nope.

Likethis
07-02-2016, 03:01 PM
I'm just so sick and tired of sexist men that it's a relief to read the sections on here where only pinks are allowed to post because while I still might not agree with everything at least there will be no sexist men.

So sick and tired.

miss.a.p1600
07-03-2016, 06:19 AM
I cringe around sexist chavanistic men. The ones who are like girls can't do this or that. The ones who pretend male privilege doesn't exist while enjoying said privilege. They make me want to gag myself with a spoon.

My confession is I hate that my ex is the only man who made me feel orgasmic during sex. Im still mad he had a premature ejaculation issue that night and I didn't come but almost did. I'm pissed he has a sex addiction and doesn't make a good husband. I'm pissed it's been years and I haven't had anyone to stimulate my g spot like he did.

My vagina is lonely.

JenniferNorth
07-03-2016, 02:21 PM
I feel like I have no business being around people, because people annoy me. I feel like this is not normal/I am not normal, and then I feel guilty. I also feel guilty, because I don't want normal jobs where there is a lot of interaction with people.

(Sidenote: I think it's time for me to go back to journaling again).

JenniferNorth
07-04-2016, 03:14 AM
So I had it out with my husband last night. I basically asked him what do you want to do for a job? What do you want to do with your life? And I called him out on it, saying as long as we make bare min-not even anything fancy for expensive vacations mind you, just bare min. for rent, electric and so on, he's fine. Like he's fine to make bare min., and play video games all day long etc etc. So then he got upset, and claimed when he was working a factory job, he had to come home and cook and clean, which I called him out and said "No! I kept the house totally clean AND took care of a newborn." Like seriously, I remember baby wearing my daughter and making the bed, washing the windows etc etc. Don't try and tell me I didn't do shit!

I actually woke up in the middle of the night, and left the bedroom. I don't want to cuddle, and I'm just really upset. I had to support the first husband, not interested in supporting this one as well.

So right now I just feel really sad, and I feel this huge burden on my shoulders, and I am thinking about divorce, which makes me really sad. But also, supporting people who don't want to change or do anything with their lives makes me really sad, too.

xStacey
07-04-2016, 06:42 PM
I stalked my ex. He dyed his hair blonde and is now sporting a tan, looks so cute with his freckles, blue eyes, and chiseled cheeks. Admiring from far away lol. I blocked him and haven't talked to him in 1 month. Don't want to ruin my progress. It's my birthday tomorrow, I wonder if he will text me happy birthday... But I won't unblock him to find out. I don't want to be disappointed again :)

lynn2009
07-04-2016, 06:49 PM
I stalked my ex. He dyed his hair blonde and is now sporting a tan, looks so cute with his freckles, and blue eyes. Admiring from far away lol. I blocked him and haven't talked to him in 1 month. Don't want to ruin my progress. It's my birthday tomorrow, I wonder if he will text me happy birthday... But I won't unblock him to find out. I don't want to be disappointed again :)

dude unfriending and blocking exes is one of the best things I ever did

xStacey
07-04-2016, 06:55 PM
dude unfriending and blocking exes is one of the best things I ever did

I blocked him everywhere so he wouldn't be able to contact me or know what is happening in my life, but I stalked his online dating profile (creepy I know!! LOL)

JenniferNorth
07-04-2016, 06:59 PM
I second blocking exs. Omg yes, yes, a thousand times yes! Best thing I have ever done, and honestly, I suggest it to everyone. They are ex's for a reason.

My confession is I feel like shit, because I had it out with my husband, and really upset him. I apologized, but it was shaking and upsetting to see him as distraught as he was. I guess he was starting to take initiative on some things we had talked about. I feel like shit for getting so mad/upset. But I also felt if I hadn't said anything, nothing would have happened. I just hate to make the person I love upset. Hopefully it's better now...I just take things day by day.

JenniferNorth
07-04-2016, 06:59 PM
I blocked him everywhere so he wouldn't be able to contact me or know what is happening in my life, but I stalked his online dating profile (creepy I know!! LOL)

Girl, I've done it too!

miss.a.p1600
07-05-2016, 06:10 PM
I concur - must block exes to keep sanity. Those f*ckers don't deserve to have their thirst quenched.

I want to see Maroon 5 live and I wish I had a sugar daddy to pay $$$$ for some vip passes and front row seating. *Sigh*

miss.a.p1600
07-05-2016, 06:47 PM
Taking my online dating profile off private was THE best decision. I was scared these fools from the club would recognize me but I have not been into the club in a while so I don't worry as much.

Most of the guys that message me seem nice so far.

This hot guy messaged me ---- OMG! I am hoping he ask to talk on the phone and go out on a date. He is tall, likes to work out so he is in shape, and wants a relationship. I am so over womanizing players that are full of sh*t. I don't want to put the cart before the horse up but I am hoping it goes well and he turns out to be a good match for me. My vagina, and heart, need serious attention right now.

#onlinedatingchallenge
#dustoffthecobwebs
#nomediocre
#babydaddygonnahatewhenheseethis

#whyamIdoinghashtagslikethisistwitter


Okay I don't want to jinx it so Ill report later.

Likethis
07-06-2016, 10:30 AM
Getting older freaks me out. I feel like I should get myself together and do something with my life, like I shouldn't be such a mess at this age.

baer45
07-06-2016, 12:31 PM
I have a date from match.com tonight but I don't want to go. So I need to come up a good reason to cancel it. Maybe i just have a flu today.

Vyanka
07-06-2016, 01:22 PM
Taking my online dating profile off private was THE best decision. I was scared these fools from the club would recognize me but I have not been into the club in a while so I don't worry as much.

Most of the guys that message me seem nice so far.

This hot guy messaged me ---- OMG! I am hoping he ask to talk on the phone and go out on a date. He is tall, likes to work out so he is in shape, and wants a relationship. I am so over womanizing players that are full of sh*t. I don't want to put the cart before the horse up but I am hoping it goes well and he turns out to be a good match for me. My vagina, and heart, need serious attention right now.

#onlinedatingchallenge
#dustoffthecobwebs
#nomediocre
#babydaddygonnahatewhenheseethis

#whyamIdoinghashtagslikethisistwitter


Okay I don't want to jinx it so Ill report later.


Good luck! :)

I need to stop procrastinating and do a damn profile already. Yes, I'm going to give it a shot again after complaining about it. Lol. Oh WTH

miss.a.p1600
07-06-2016, 01:24 PM
I have a date from match.com tonight but I don't want to go. So I need to come up a good reason to cancel it. Maybe i just have a flu today.

Yeah Im on match too. No worries - Ill put a wig on and go in your place lol!

Why don't you want to go?

baer45
07-06-2016, 01:35 PM
Yeah Im on match too. No worries - Ill put a wig on and go in your place lol!

Why don't you want to go?

I don't think I am attracted to this person by looking at the photos. But he looks like a nice guy and not a player type from what I read on his profile. Shouldn't have got myself into this date if the last guy was not such a douch.

Kaya_x
07-07-2016, 08:05 AM
My confession today is just about me having a complete binge day on food! Simply because I'm ill, can't walk, fed up and just comfort eating a little!

miss.a.p1600
07-07-2016, 04:13 PM
About to go on date with hot guy to one of my favorite restaurants.

He better be hot in real life.

I'm kinda pissed though because even though he wants same things I do like a marriage, a housewife, and a mixed baby I am feeling trapped already. I liked being single and not giving a fuck with a man thinks of me. Now I haven't gotten any work done because I've been too busy doing my nails, shaving my legs, straightening my hair, and trying to look hot. I wish he was wealthy but I think he's middle class.

Damnit what the hell is wrong with me?!?

baer45
07-07-2016, 04:33 PM
First of all, I love you.

Not—I don’t really love you, like, LOVE you… We just don’t have a word… You know how in England, they’ll say they ‘fancy’ someone? That. I fancy you. Like, we say, I ‘like’ you, but that’s sorta, like, fifth grade, and it’s not enough to describe the flutter in my stomach. Neither is saying I fancy you, really… Umm… so, yeah, I guess that means I’m in l—Well, not—Don’t think—It’s just…

Also, I slept with your brother.

I didn’t know he was your brother though. I hadn’t met you yet. And it wasn’t my fault; he has those, your, those same deep grey eyes, you know? So I just had to do him. I couldn’t help myself. But, I mean, of course I could resist doing him if I was, you know, doing you. Not that I want to presume any… doing. Although if you felt like… a do…

I’m going to stop using that word.

Now, don’t get me wrong. Your brother’s eyes aren’t like yours: gorgeous pools of molten steel, the depths of which reflect a hidden future that a woman may only allow herself to wish for only on a starry night, your rippling arms to come home to, each of my children with that same cleft in their chin that you have. Or… that’s coming on too strong. Right? I know it is. It’s just that you seem like the kind of man who wouldn’t shy away from Love. That’s one of the things I love about you. Well, fancy about you.

Huh? Oh… Daisy. And here I promised myself next time I’d start with my name. Anyway, yes, mocha latte coming up.

Elektra Luxx
07-07-2016, 06:49 PM
^^^What's with the romantic monologue?

whirlerz
07-07-2016, 07:45 PM
Ok. I feel like a jack ass..
I was supposed to go to the city for a pre show 'meet up' for the Exxotica tomorrow, & I couldn't get fucking Uber to work on my phone..
I sent a email right away but I was supposed to have texted somebody, which they sent me a return email saying this, meanwhile I was so hungry I ate a whole pizza (almost ate the cardboard too, it was that bad!) I was going to eat when I got down to the city, & hadn't really had much today for that reason. Plus it rained like a shit ton, which we needed but there's mini/to large 'lakes' everywhere!
I just now saw the email & sent the text. Honestly I really didn't want to go, but wht/ev I was going to.
So, supposed to go to the Exxotica Convention tomorrow, I wanna take the bus which's dopey, but they charge 30. just to park, & fuck all that. So, we'll see.

baer45
07-07-2016, 08:53 PM
^^^What's with the romantic monologue?

WAsn't it a confession?

Velveteen.Rabbit
07-07-2016, 08:58 PM
Omg!! Okay so this year I accentally dated brothers, and then the guy I was SO into but went no where with after a couple dates over a year ago, he messaged me on Facebook to tell me he didn't have my new # and wants to hang out now that he's actually single. He doesn't know I fucked his SISTER before I ever met him and didn't realize it was his sister til now!!! So sketch. Not only that but she lived with his godmom and I just feel wayyyyyy too invasive and knowledgable about things I shouldn't know. I'm going to tell him.

This is so accidentally Jerry springer I cannot. I also basically have a boyfriend so I just should not anymore with any of this. Somehow I can't just walk away.


First of all, I love you.

Not—I don’t really love you, like, LOVE you… We just don’t have a word… You know how in England, they’ll say they ‘fancy’ someone? That. I fancy you. Like, we say, I ‘like’ you, but that’s sorta, like, fifth grade, and it’s not enough to describe the flutter in my stomach. Neither is saying I fancy you, really… Umm… so, yeah, I guess that means I’m in l—Well, not—Don’t think—It’s just…

Also, I slept with your brother.

I didn’t know he was your brother though. I hadn’t met you yet. And it wasn’t my fault; he has those, your, those same deep grey eyes, you know? So I just had to do him. I couldn’t help myself. But, I mean, of course I could resist doing him if I was, you know, doing you. Not that I want to presume any… doing. Although if you felt like… a do…

I’m going to stop using that word.

Now, don’t get me wrong. Your brother’s eyes aren’t like yours: gorgeous pools of molten steel, the depths of which reflect a hidden future that a woman may only allow herself to wish for only on a starry night, your rippling arms to come home to, each of my children with that same cleft in their chin that you have. Or… that’s coming on too strong. Right? I know it is. It’s just that you seem like the kind of man who wouldn’t shy away from Love. That’s one of the things I love about you. Well, fancy about you.

Huh? Oh… Daisy. And here I promised myself next time I’d start with my name. Anyway, yes, mocha latte coming up.

miss.a.p1600
07-07-2016, 09:10 PM
Drank 2 glasses of wine on the date.

Now I feel tipsy and have a headache. Smdh!!

baer45
07-07-2016, 09:11 PM
Drank 2 glasses of wine on the date.

Now I feel tipsy and have a headache. Smdh!!


I can't drink 1 bottle of wine and pass any math test.

miss.a.p1600
07-08-2016, 06:26 AM
Idk if I'm just overthinking this whole thing.

Overall the dude seems okay. He's about an 8.5 in his online pictures but 7.5 in real life. I though his pants were too tight - what's with dudes wearing tight pants that look damn near like jeggings?!? And he talks a lot about his ex girlfriends - weird.

He's slightly annoying - asking hella questions (I wish I could go into stripper persona a lie without fear of repercussions) and many times he's made remarks about how I've been celibate for past few years (As if I'm a frigid lesbian incapable of orgasm with a man) I told him I identify as bisexual even though I've never slept with a woman.

Maybe I should have lied about the being single/celibacy thing? if I knew he was going to freak out about it. Or maybe it's him and he's just some horny dude incapable of seeing outside his own perspective.

I'm not sure if he's dating other people and if I should keep sifting through more online dating profile to date other men.

baer45
07-08-2016, 07:43 AM
Haha, I meant I can drink wine and pass math test.

miss.a.p1600
07-08-2016, 08:37 AM
^^^oh well [email protected] - I need tradsies with your brain and liver.

whirlerz
07-08-2016, 09:04 AM
Idk if I'm just overthinking this whole thing.

Overall the dude seems okay. He's about an 8.5 in his online pictures but 7.5 in real life. I though his pants were too tight - what's with dudes wearing tight pants that look damn near like jeggings?!? And he talks a lot about his ex girlfriends - weird.

He's slightly annoying - asking hella questions (I wish I could go into stripper persona a lie without fear of repercussions) and many times he's made remarks about how I've been celibate for past few years (As if I'm a frigid lesbian incapable of orgasm with a man) I told him I identify as bisexual even though I've never slept with a woman.

Maybe I should have lied about the being single/celibacy thing? if I knew he was going to freak out about it. Or maybe it's him and he's just some horny dude incapable of seeing outside his own perspective.

I'm not sure if he's dating other people and if I should keep sifting through more online dating profile to date other men.

Sorry, to me he sounds like an A/hole..talking a lot about ex(s), & asking too many ?'s, big red flags, but again, my opinion.

Me: Fuck Uber..so aggravating. & wtf is 'upscale casual'?

carmen_b
07-08-2016, 10:23 AM
He sounds like a " pass " to me to be honest just from initial impressions. Who talks about their exes all the time ? :/

The celibacy thing might have scared him. How soon did you tell him ?


Idk if I'm just overthinking this whole thing.

Overall the dude seems okay. He's about an 8.5 in his online pictures but 7.5 in real life. I though his pants were too tight - what's with dudes wearing tight pants that look damn near like jeggings?!? And he talks a lot about his ex girlfriends - weird.

He's slightly annoying - asking hella questions (I wish I could go into stripper persona a lie without fear of repercussions) and many times he's made remarks about how I've been celibate for past few years (As if I'm a frigid lesbian incapable of orgasm with a man) I told him I identify as bisexual even though I've never slept with a woman.

Maybe I should have lied about the being single/celibacy thing? if I knew he was going to freak out about it. Or maybe it's him and he's just some horny dude incapable of seeing outside his own perspective.

I'm not sure if he's dating other people and if I should keep sifting through more online dating profile to date other men.

carmen_b
07-08-2016, 10:25 AM
Business dress such as slacks / shirt or nice sleek dress ( dress should be a step up from a sun dress and a step down from a formal style dress ) . You'd be find in slacks / top or a simple little black dress ect.


& wtf is 'upscale casual'?

Likethis
07-08-2016, 10:52 AM
Idk if I'm just overthinking this whole thing.

Overall the dude seems okay. He's about an 8.5 in his online pictures but 7.5 in real life. I though his pants were too tight - what's with dudes wearing tight pants that look damn near like jeggings?!? And he talks a lot about his ex girlfriends - weird.

He's slightly annoying - asking hella questions (I wish I could go into stripper persona a lie without fear of repercussions) and many times he's made remarks about how I've been celibate for past few years (As if I'm a frigid lesbian incapable of orgasm with a man) I told him I identify as bisexual even though I've never slept with a woman.

Maybe I should have lied about the being single/celibacy thing? if I knew he was going to freak out about it. Or maybe it's him and he's just some horny dude incapable of seeing outside his own perspective.

I'm not sure if he's dating other people and if I should keep sifting through more online dating profile to date other men.

I wouldn't date that.

Talks a lot about exes - no, just no, I wouldn't want to listen to that on a first date.

If he asks too many questions now I'd wonder what he's like in an actual relationship -probably asking even more questions. I feel claustrophobic just reading about it. In my experience the ones who ask you so many questions that you get a bit uncomfortable are usually either very clingy or the controlling jealous type. I wouldn't go for either.

Many remarks about your celibacy just makes him seem immature and insecure. No I wouldn't have time for that.

There are better men out there!

I'm so damn picky though so maybe you shouldn't listen to me :-X

miss.a.p1600
07-08-2016, 02:44 PM
Thanks y'all.

Glad I didn't kiss him lol!

I'm going to hop back on match tonight.

LilLadyLux
07-08-2016, 03:22 PM
Letting guys know that you don't sleep with men without a lot of work is a great litmus test. I've been telling guys right away that I'm a stripper, but I add that I find it "so frustrating that men oversexualize me when they find out" and that "I don't have sex outside of a monogamous commutes relationship." that scared away one guy, but all he wanted was a quick lay. Good riddance.

I will add saying "celibate" may make people think you'll never have sex again lol

Cashmere Star
07-08-2016, 05:26 PM
i secretly want to find a baby under a bridge or something, as stupid and irrational as it sounds

Genoveve
07-08-2016, 05:29 PM
I've been so fucking busy lately that I barely even have time to eat which has caused weight to start dropping off and I love it.

VioletOctober
07-08-2016, 06:56 PM
I'm kinda-sorta back with my ex and have told virtually no one about it. I'm testing the waters to see if our new relationship boundaries and such work before I bring him fully back into my life.

It's been nice so far. We opened up our relationship all the way, and he knows about my (idk what to call her) girlfriend, and knows I'm on Tindr and OKCupid and will play with other people and he has n control over my job anymore. There's been a lot less fights and I'm a lot happier feeling as free as I am.

But literally all of my friends hate him because of the constant drama we had for a year.

Elektra Luxx
07-08-2016, 08:09 PM
This is the last week of the first summer semester. I'm been taking macro-economics class online and it majorly sucks. So I have 2 last assignment and I have to take a final exam before 10:00 pm Sunday night. It's Friday night, my sister and her bf are out and I'm single again, so I'm here by myself working on homework. I really hate being alone.

BabyWillow
07-08-2016, 08:23 PM
Some asshole on a motorcycle ran a red light and T-boned my car going 50 mph and totaled my car. In Florida, motorcyclists don't need insurance if they're wearing a helmet. I really wish he wasn't wearing a helmet. :'(