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carmen_b
01-30-2017, 03:02 PM
I did this for 5 years and it actually worked out ! I didn't make " a ton " due to the high cost of where I was living ( most went into just staying ), but it was a great experience. If you are serious about this, I could give you a lot of info via PM .

I stayed too long actually because I was getting really depressed at the end of year #4 ( I just was ready to move on but my partners job was holding us ). I am so glad we left and are onto new things but the first couple years were amazing. The last 4 weeks have been the first winter I've had in 5 years!

These types of locations can get OLD for people and sometimes the onset of wanting to leave can come on FAST ( it did for me ). Some people bail after a few months or sometimes after 1-2 years you just feel DONE ! Exit plans are good to have.


I feel bad but I wish I could ditch 97% of my friends and family, move to a remote tropical location, and quietly make shit tons of money.

I feel restricted by my past.

whirlerz
01-30-2017, 03:06 PM
I'm actually thinking of going to live in another country,(dual citizenship to save $. more than a few of the areas have great climates, inexpensive living costs. I belong to an international living newsletter. As far as working well that's prob a different story

BarbieNYC
01-31-2017, 05:52 PM
I cried today.

I bought concert tickets a few months ago for me and my now ex best friend. The artist was the artist my ex and I both loved listening to together and the concert was during what was gonna be our 3rd year anniversary. I remember telling her how badly I wanted to go, but didn't want to be reminded of him and so she said she would go.

Now I'm sitting here with two very expensive concert tickets and no one to go with. I tried listening to the artist today and just cried because as much as I don't want to admit it, I still love my ex. He is trying to get back together and it took all my strength not to do it, but I stuck to my guns.

I really want to go to the concert, but not by myself. No one really listens to this artist so I can't really ask anyone. Or they can't afford the ticket, my best friend had to pay me back over the course of a few months. I bought insurance on the tickets so I can get the money back, I'm just sad that the two people I thought would be in my life at this time aren't.

xStacey
02-01-2017, 09:47 PM
Very excited, a lot of great things coming up !

Legz541
02-05-2017, 04:32 AM
I spent like an hour watching exercise and nutrition videos on YouTube today...all while eating tortilla chips dipped in horrible for me cheese dip. Hey, at least my mind was in the right place.

Glamourmilf
02-05-2017, 04:50 AM
I confess it feels SOOO good to block, and delete people I hate from my phone.
I started doing it yesterday, am only on the letter 'B', but already I've had more peace of mind and been more productive.;D
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miss.a.p1600
02-05-2017, 05:25 AM
Yes! I had to do the same thing yesterday. 5+ people gone. Giving the cold shoulder to those heauxs!

My time is valuable and I don't want to waste it on idiotic losers who don't deserve one iota. Tired of wasting my time and compassion on those types. Like they really should be paying me to pay attention to them.

buttonpop
02-05-2017, 12:58 PM
I'm actually thinking of going to live in another country,(dual citizenship to save $. more than a few of the areas have great climates, inexpensive living costs. I belong to an international living newsletter. As far as working well that's prob a different story

The only thing that sucks about dual citizenship is that you still have to pay US taxes. which sucks. i know some ex-pats who are permanently out of the country give up their US citizenship for that reason.

seashell
02-05-2017, 04:46 PM
Whenever I sit down to think about my future, I feel like I'm going to have a panic attack. I'm in Croatia hooking up with a local, while almost in relationship with an American back home, and I'm going from one city to another to another and back to another next week, then to Las Vegas, then to my hometown, then to Japan. omg... I can't keep it all straight! :(

I also confess that I made a thread about being in a love triangle, and now the Czech guy has been switched for a Croatian guy. It's not a serious thing... I don't think there's any way I could make the Croatian guy work, unless I started teaching English here... but I feel bad about hooking up with him behind another guy's back. And it's not just hooking up, it's spending a significant amount of time with the guy, going out to eat, driving several hours to sightsee, with him paying for everything, omg... he's just been a huge sweetheart to me. I'm not in a relationship, but if the other guy asks me about it, I don't know what to say. I'm not usually the kind of person who does this. It makes me feel so guilty.

Aurora_Sunset
02-05-2017, 11:26 PM
This seems weird to admit, even to myself, but I think I'm grossed out by mouths. I've never been super into kissing, and I've noticed my aversion to them on other parts during sex lately. I love nipple-play, but when someone tries to use their mouth, I get super annoyed. Even when watching porn, the second it turns into sucking, I get MAD and turn it off, like "Why the fuck did you have to slobber your gross mouth all over it!?" Same with oral - it's just so uncoordinated and disgusts me to watch it.

I don't know if it's that I actually find mouths themselves gross, or just the fact that it seems like most people don't know how to use them sexually. Too much saliva, no finesse whatsoever; just like they're trying to fucking eat someone's face or body parts.... bleeergh

miss.a.p1600
02-05-2017, 11:33 PM
Or the guys that try and shove their tongues in your throat. Gross! If my mouth is barely open why are you steadily trying to shove your tongue in? You're assaulting my mouth and I'm seconds away from kicking you in testicle #1

Most guys are horrible kissers which I why I quit French kissing. It's hard to fuck up pressing lips together but tongue kissing - not unless they're good at it which 75% are not.

The worst is bad breath saliva. One time I had a guy kiss me on my chest. Some of his saliva got on me and when my head moved down towards my chest I could smell a bad smell. Well apparently his breath was stank. I was disgusted and never talked to him again.

*I'm bored af but I need to log off before the moderators log me off for posting too much.

persianprincess
02-06-2017, 07:47 AM
^^^ almost spat out my coffee - bad breath saliva is THE WORST.

I literally got a new phone number recently and gave it to 3 people - so aside from my beaux number ... the phone scenario is very peaceful.

LoveyDovey
02-06-2017, 09:16 AM
This seems weird to admit, even to myself, but I think I'm grossed out by mouths.

Ok, it's early Monday morning, and at first I thought you said you were grossed out by MOTHS LOL!

chanzep
02-06-2017, 05:47 PM
The only reason I want to go back to work tomorrow is because I eat less when im there!.

SnuffleUffleGrass
02-06-2017, 07:55 PM
I confess I've been burning with rage & humiliation since the New Year passed. I've cried all my tears for 2017.

But I've been reborn & life is going to be better.

persianprincess
02-06-2017, 08:51 PM
^^ Aw babe!!
That's a rough start to the year, but it's all up from here xo

We had a rabbit like you
02-07-2017, 08:21 AM
I didn't realize til lately how unhappy and isolated and alone I've been in Massachusetts these past few years and how much I hate it!! Hate Boston, hate unfriendly cold massholes, I just want to go back to NH so bad.
These past few years I've managed to make 0 friends here and I have 0 family and now that I just had a baby it's getting to me. I can tell this is going to be a big fight w my husband but why is it that he gets to live near his family and hometown while I'm isolated af??

persianprincess
02-07-2017, 08:22 AM
^^^ yeh I'm partially regretting the move to Mass also.

Glamourmilf
02-07-2017, 08:38 AM
I didn't realize til lately how unhappy and isolated and alone I've been in Massachusetts these past few years and how much I hate it!! Hate Boston, hate unfriendly cold massholes, I just want to go back to NH so bad.
These past few years I've managed to make 0 friends here and I have 0 family and now that I just had a baby it's getting to me. I can tell this is going to be a big fight w my husband but why is it that he gets to live near his family and hometown while I'm isolated af??

I was born and raised there, and I couldn't agree more.
I always felt like some alien, who had been dropped there as an experiment.
I hate it so much, that I refuse to go there anymore to visit family. Well, what's left of them.
Massholes. Ha ha!
That about sums it up.

Aurora_Sunset
02-07-2017, 09:26 AM
I created an awesome blanket fort in my living room at 3am last night. Fell asleep watching TV in it. It's kinda in my way for going about my day, but I really don't want to take it down so I can hang out in it again tonight.

BarbieNYC
02-07-2017, 03:36 PM
Ex called to tell me his mother is in the hospital with water in her lungs and needs surgery. I felt bad and I get that he doesn't really have anyone to call for support but I just couldn't really be supportive. I just told him I'm sorry and wished him and his family the best, but the conversation was very short. Does that make me evil? You know with it being his mom and all.

I mean I hope she gets better, but I refuse to be a loving, concerned ex. If he wanted a loving, doting concerned gf, he shouldn't have broken up with me.

Thank God I am across the country so he couldn't come crying at my door. Lol guess he was enjoying being single till he realized he didn't have someone's shoulder to cry on and someone to comfort him when shit hit the fan. Men always realize too late. Still it's sad about his mom though

Vyanka
02-08-2017, 02:17 AM
Ex called to tell me his mother is in the hospital with water in her lungs and needs surgery. I felt bad and I get that he doesn't really have anyone to call for support but I just couldn't really be supportive. I just told him I'm sorry and wished him and his family the best, but the conversation was very short. Does that make me evil? You know with it being his mom and all.

I mean I hope she gets better, but I refuse to be a loving, concerned ex. If he wanted a loving, doting concerned gf, he shouldn't have broken up with me.

Thank God I am across the country so he couldn't come crying at my door. Lol guess he was enjoying being single till he realized he didn't have someone's shoulder to cry on and someone to comfort him when shit hit the fan. Men always realize too late. Still it's sad about his mom though

No. You're not evil at all. His lost!

ScarletKitten
02-08-2017, 02:44 AM
I always felt like some alien, who had been dropped there as an experiment.

Sorry, but I love this line! :alien:


I confess I'm kinda stoned, and I just ate 2 different kinds of vegan ice cream and peanut butter crackers. So decadent.

ScarletKitten
02-08-2017, 02:48 AM
I didn't realize til lately how unhappy and isolated and alone I've been in Massachusetts these past few years and how much I hate it!! Hate Boston, hate unfriendly cold massholes, I just want to go back to NH so bad.
These past few years I've managed to make 0 friends here and I have 0 family and now that I just had a baby it's getting to me. I can tell this is going to be a big fight w my husband but why is it that he gets to live near his family and hometown while I'm isolated af??

If you want to move or at least visit with your family back home, you should do it. Feeling isolated after giving birth isn't good. Plus, I feel like most women could use the emotional support network after having a baby. *hugs*

xStacey
02-08-2017, 09:52 AM
I was sitting next to a guy in class and then I plugged my cellphone to my laptop to charge it. My pictures in lingerie popped up, I hid them, but he saw them and since he wouldn't stop talking to me.

hamdinger
02-08-2017, 09:30 PM
I'm going on a date with a sexy married man from my day job tomorrow night. He is Belgian, rich, and so fit. Too bad this can't be a sugary situation... I don't know if he is deceiving his wife or if they are open.

miss.a.p1600
02-08-2017, 09:46 PM
I want to end my celibacy because I don't even think I should be celibate but I know its partly my fault for not putting in effort to meet more guys.

I wish I could just make things easier on myself and just set up a casual sex thing like Tinder style. Actually Id rather get paid and Im thinking dudes on tinder are looking for free sex. I wish I could post an ad online that says "Looking for orgasmic peen. If your dick is slaw I will ask you to immediately withdraw. Have some money ready because this a'int free. Must be mentally and physically healthy. Repeat sessions for preferred gentleman only."

DonaDiabla
02-08-2017, 09:48 PM
Confession: My ex-sugar daddy coming back is an interesting development. He wants more a deeper relationship for a higher allowance and he gave me some money so far. However, I am still debating on the whole deeper relationship aspect of the arrangement. We will talk more on Saturday about this "deeper" relationship stuff :)

buttonpop
02-08-2017, 09:51 PM
I'm late to the thread but a couple days ago a few of you were talking about having an aversion to kissing and I kept thinking about it... then I saw my new dude and I had a realization. Kissing doesn't turn me on at all. If anything its a romantic thing for me, but it does nothing for me other than signal that the other person is interested in getting busy.

with the exception of the first makeout upon meeting someone new, i'd rather kiss after/during sex than before it. they can kiss my neck instead. now, how to tell people this without offending them?

SnuffleUffleGrass
02-09-2017, 10:03 AM
I confess I really miss a co-worker I had at a regular job- she was older than me & worked in Hollywood for years & years. She taught me a lot. One thing she said to me is stuck in my head this year........."Life Is A Performance And Some Performances Are Better Than Others." It's basically the same as the Shakespeare verse "All the world's a stage and the men and women merely players."

Right now this means to me that I'm seeing the true face of people I've known for years & what I'm seeing is hard for me to live with.

We had a rabbit like you
02-09-2017, 01:38 PM
I know this is probably because I became a teenager in the early 2000s but I feel like the styles and "it" girls of that era were so much hotter than now! It's taken me so long to get used to the styles nowadays. I'm used to light lip gloss and highlighted crimped hair and hip hugger bell bottoms/tube tops, frosty light eye shadows, French gel square manicures, Britney and xtina..and now its heavy contouring and matte lips and big heavy brows and super high waisted stuff and claw nails and wow I'm making myself look old af but I feel very nostalgic lately

SnuffleUffleGrass
02-09-2017, 01:42 PM
I know this is probably because I became a teenager in the early 2000s but I feel like the styles and "it" girls of that era were so much hotter than now! It's taken me so long to get used to the styles nowadays. I'm used to light lip gloss and highlighted crimped hair and hip hugger bell bottoms/tube tops, frosty light eye shadows, French gel square manicures, Britney and xtina..and now its heavy contouring and matte lips and big heavy brows and super high waisted stuff and claw nails and wow I'm making myself look old af but I feel very nostalgic lately

I feel the same way about 1980s & 1990s supermodels. Standards were higher/the industry had WAY more control over what got pushed.

I feel terrible for Britney Spears because I heard from people who met her back in the day that she had to do a lot of pharm drugs & workouts to maintain her figure. Definitely had a bad effect on her long term. (Back in the day we called that "The Jenny Crank Diet" or "Coke Skinny")

charlie61
02-09-2017, 06:38 PM
Moving out is going to be expensive, so i shouldn't be spending money. But i just stress bought two products from Origins. Got a good deal on them with a coupon code, but still...

hamdinger
02-09-2017, 07:06 PM
Sexy married day job man got real weird today. He's just too worked up about me, doesn't want to be seen by our co-workers out with me. So I cancelled and asked the hot dude who sits next to me out for drinks. Still not a great idea, but... my judgment is sometimes questionable, and I'm a slut.

Violethollywood
02-09-2017, 09:12 PM
im hiding money from my b/f. weird ik right, don't all women hide their money? idk. but it feels good. and im gonna keep doing it . like i feel in control.

We had a rabbit like you
02-10-2017, 08:45 AM
im hiding money from my b/f. weird ik right, don't all women hide their money? idk. but it feels good. and im gonna keep doing it . like i feel in control.

Hey, your money , your business ! Hell im married and my husband and I keep separate bank accounts and money. Idk how much exactly he has, and he doesn't know how much I have, we just split bills. Always keep your independence!!

seashell
02-10-2017, 11:38 AM
^Yes! Keep your own bank account, maintain your own money.

My mom has always done that, and thank god, since my dad developed a gambling problem. If saved her when she decided to divorce him and needed to support herself.

persianprincess
02-10-2017, 11:45 AM
^^^ same my parents always had separate bank accounts despite having both of their names on the homes etc.

I think it's good to keep independence overall.

miss.a.p1600
02-10-2017, 12:45 PM
Y'all are schooling me today!

The narcissist told me married people should have one account. I've never been married so I have no clue but I could see this being a disaster especially if one person is irresponsible, impulsive, etc - like a lot of people with npd tend to be

Do you tell your spouse you have a separate account or is this something that should be kept "secret". Or does it depend on the guy? Like if you have an abusive/irresponsible partner that seems like it would be good to have a secret separate account. But if you have a mature partner you could be forthcoming about having separate accounts?

SnuffleUffleGrass
02-10-2017, 04:54 PM
Y'all are schooling me today!

The narcissist told me married people should have one account. I've never been married so I have no clue but I could see this being a disaster especially if one person is irresponsible, impulsive, etc - like a lot of people with npd tend to be

Do you tell your spouse you have a separate account or is this something that should be kept "secret". Or does it depend on the guy? Like if you have an abusive/irresponsible partner that seems like it would be good to have a secret separate account. But if you have a mature partner you could be forthcoming about having separate accounts?

Separate accounts keep a marriage harmonious & will save the weaker partner should he or she choose to leave.

A lot of abusive partners will insist on the same phone plan or same checking account so they can spy on the other person's activities.

We had a rabbit like you
02-18-2017, 01:02 PM
Lol idk if I'm allowed to say this, but there's this one member who is just flat out bat shit insane lmao, it's so entertaining reading their threads and comments. Just entire paragraphs of pure "wtf??" Haha

Oh yeah my dad has this little shi-poo or however you spell it,,and goddamn he takes that thing everywhere! Including the car on his lap and in my house..right after I've cleaned the floors. Can't he at least have a big cool dog? I just find the little ones so annoying

BarbieNYC
02-18-2017, 01:09 PM
^^^girl there are a couple on here that fall under that category. That's the internet for you lol

carmen_b
02-18-2017, 07:33 PM
So I was dying for Greek food and parked only to see an ex of mine through the window of the place. This is " low libido man " from 6 or so years ago. Haha.
I don't want make small talk so I'm hiding around the corner hoping he'll leave.
This is who you should just always pick new cities to live in.

He was such a bad boyfriend but on the plus side an excellent pro sex work confidante.

Genoveve
02-18-2017, 08:06 PM
Lol idk if I'm allowed to say this, but there's this one member who is just flat out bat shit insane lmao, it's so entertaining reading their threads and comments. Just entire paragraphs of pure "wtf??" Haha

I think I know who you're talking about lol. But speaking of SW confessions, a lot of times when I read some of the advice that's given in the body business section I feel like I'm in Victorian England or something.

ScarletKitten
02-18-2017, 08:30 PM
Lol idk if I'm allowed to say this, but there's this one member who is just flat out bat shit insane lmao, it's so entertaining reading their threads and comments. Just entire paragraphs of pure "wtf??" Haha

Yep. Except it's no longer entertaining at this point. Now it's just straight-up irritating. Thank fuck for the ignore list!

BarbieNYC
02-19-2017, 12:43 PM
I went to the concert by myself last night and it was loads of fun. I made friends with a few girls but I ended up wandering off by myself cuz they all wanted to be smushed in the crowd by the front and I was definitely not down for that. I made my way to the side exit and it was way better that way. The view was awesome and there was space to dance. I noticed all the older people were around me. I guess we have all learned throughout the years. Lol

The concert was way better in New York though. Over there it was in a tennis stadium and he even did an encore. He was not feeling the LA crowd.

I'm off again tonight for the mainstream artist event. Also glamourmilf if you're reading this, your idea to wear Depends is genius and I am definitely gonna do it tonight because those bathroom lines and the state of the bathrooms did not look good. I overheard way too many drunk girls crying about having to pee and their friends urging them to just pee themselves and the pee will dry by the time the concert is over. Like I do not wanna think how many girls peed themselves in that crowd. Thankfully I wasn't there for that long so I was able to hold it until work right after

Glamourmilf
02-19-2017, 05:02 PM
I went to the concert by myself last night and it was loads of fun. I made friends with a few girls but I ended up wandering off by myself cuz they all wanted to be smushed in the crowd by the front and I was definitely not down for that. I made my way to the side exit and it was way better that way. The view was awesome and there was space to dance. I noticed all the older people were around me. I guess we have all learned throughout the years. Lol

The concert was way better in New York though. Over there it was in a tennis stadium and he even did an encore. He was not feeling the LA crowd.

I'm off again tonight for the mainstream artist event. Also glamourmilf if you're reading this, your idea to wear Depends is genius and I am definitely gonna do it tonight because those bathroom lines and the state of the bathrooms did not look good. I overheard way too many drunk girls crying about having to pee and their friends urging them to just pee themselves and the pee will dry by the time the concert is over. Like I do not wanna think how many girls peed themselves in that crowd. Thankfully I wasn't there for that long so I was able to hold it until work right after
Bravo!
I'm peeing in my Depends as I'm reading this. Lol!
I've been on the road all afternoon and now I'm stuck in a long drive thru line at Starbucks.
Plus, I have a long drive home.
Aah, such a relief, isn't it?

buttonpop
02-19-2017, 05:22 PM
:O

lol you guys crack me up ;D

whirlerz
02-19-2017, 05:34 PM
I went to the concert by myself last night and it was loads of fun. I made friends with a few girls but I ended up wandering off by myself cuz they all wanted to be smushed in the crowd by the front and I was definitely not down for that. I made my way to the side exit and it was way better that way. The view was awesome and there was space to dance. I noticed all the older people were around me. I guess we have all learned throughout the years. Lol

The concert was way better in New York though. Over there it was in a tennis stadium and he even did an encore. He was not feeling the LA crowd.

I'm off again tonight for the mainstream artist event. Also glamourmilf if you're reading this, your idea to wear Depends is genius and I am definitely gonna do it tonight because those bathroom lines and the state of the bathrooms did not look good. I overheard way too many drunk girls crying about having to pee and their friends urging them to just pee themselves and the pee will dry by the time the concert is over. Like I do not wanna think how many girls peed themselves in that crowd. Thankfully I wasn't there for that long so I was able to hold it until work right after

This reminds me, I went to a Cubs game yrs ago w/a large group..I went to use the bathroom, & some drunk chick JUST MISSED dumping an entire beer all over me.

SexxiLexxi
02-20-2017, 05:48 AM
I woke up at 5AM .... But haven't done shit until now which is making myself some breakfast! Go me lololol