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Glamourmilf
03-04-2017, 08:43 AM
Tbh I don't think this is a stripper thing as much as it is a general human nature thing. Something I have seen a lot on SW over the years is girls on here doing a lot of vanilla/stripping cycling. Like they eventually get so burned out on stripping that they begin to crave a vanilla job, so they get a vanilla job and at first they love it but then over time they begin to hate it and miss stripping, so then they go back to stripping and at first they love it again and wonder why they ever left, but then over time they get burned out and start looking for vanilla work again...etc. And it's not just strippers who do this, I have friends with vanilla jobs who leave one job because they get to where they can't stand it anymore, and at first their new job is great but then over time they start to dislike it and want to leave for somewhere else again. People do it with relationships too, at first their new partner is great but then over time as the honeymoon period fades further and further away their partner starts to become more and more annoying LOL. People do this with everything. I don't know if it's a matter of us needing to learn to appreciate what we currently have and the positive aspects of it or if it's just that people regularly need change and variety and most of us simply don't thrive when we get locked into the same routine for months or years.

I think it's definitely the latter.
For me it definitely is.
I need to be stimulated by new things and different challenges all the time.
Ruts get me depressed and very down.
When I started getting burnt on stripping, I confided in a long time customer. He told me that his best buddy was an anesthesiologist who felt the same way.
It was at that moment that I knew it could happened with all jobs.

charlie61
03-04-2017, 10:01 AM
Tbh I don't think this is a stripper thing as much as it is a general human nature thing. Something I have seen a lot on SW over the years is girls on here doing a lot of vanilla/stripping cycling. Like they eventually get so burned out on stripping that they begin to crave a vanilla job, so they get a vanilla job and at first they love it but then over time they begin to hate it and miss stripping, so then they go back to stripping and at first they love it again and wonder why they ever left, but then over time they get burned out and start looking for vanilla work again...etc. And it's not just strippers who do this, I have friends with vanilla jobs who leave one job because they get to where they can't stand it anymore, and at first their new job is great but then over time they start to dislike it and want to leave for somewhere else again. People do it with relationships too, at first their new partner is great but then over time as the honeymoon period fades further and further away their partner starts to become more and more annoying LOL. People do this with everything. I don't know if it's a matter of us needing to learn to appreciate what we currently have and the positive aspects of it or if it's just that people regularly need change and variety and most of us simply don't thrive when we get locked into the same routine for months or years.

Absolutely agree 100%! There are some things that make burning out of dancing a bit different than other jobs (e.g. the lack of social support we often have, the lack of paid time off/sick leave/FMLA, the intensity of the job that makes burning out and continuing to work particularly excruciating...). But i love your post. You're a smart lady! ♡

charlie61
03-04-2017, 10:02 AM
I confess that, since moving out, i haven't been thinking about my partner at all. He'll cross my mind occasionally, but mostly, i feel nothing but relief and happiness about having left..

SnuffleUffleGrass
03-04-2017, 10:12 AM
I confess that, since moving out, i haven't been thinking about my partner at all. He'll cross my mind occasionally, but mostly, i feel nothing but relief and happiness about having left..

This is a good sign.

Genoveve
03-04-2017, 09:07 PM
There are some things that make burning out of dancing a bit different than other jobs (e.g. the lack of social support we often have, the lack of paid time off/sick leave/FMLA, the intensity of the job that makes burning out and continuing to work particularly excruciating...).

It's definitely different, but every line of work has its own set of downsides. I have a friend who has what most people would probably consider to be a very prestigious job and she makes a lot of money and stands to make a lot more. However she hates it; the workload is extremely intense as are the politics and she's always stressed out. She also has lots of anxiety because she has no idea what she would rather be doing professionally and no time to figure it out because she's constantly working. Her situation parallels those of a lot of strippers I know; being burned out and desperately wanting to do something else but having no idea what and no real time to pursue it even if she did. She has the kind of job many people would dream of, but in reality it's just the same shit but a different setting----and a setting with much higher stakes and consequences. AND, as far as the lack of support, imagine how difficult it is to hate your job when most people would consider it to be the ideal and can't wrap their head around the idea of someone being unsatisfied with it? You can't really complain to anyone because no one is going to sympathize and will just think you're being a spoiled brat basically. 'Boohoo, poor you, you sit in your pretty little office in one of the nicest neighborhoods in the country making hundreds of thousands of dollars a year, yeah you've got it sooooo tough....' that type of thing. Which so many non-strippers would say about us too if they heard us complaining, because they have no idea what stripping can really be like.

All that being said though I definitely get what you're saying, that one of the most difficult aspects of our job is that our mood tends to very literally determine the kind of money we make, so when we are burnt the fuck out it gets even worse because our earnings go downhill. When we get sick of work our income shrinks, which means we have to work even more.

LoveyDovey
03-05-2017, 05:29 PM
I confess that, since moving out, i haven't been thinking about my partner at all. He'll cross my mind occasionally, but mostly, i feel nothing but relief and happiness about having left..

That means you did the right thing.



I confess that I'm being a total lazy turd today.

22lligm
03-05-2017, 07:18 PM
^ Me too! Rainy overcast weather makes me hibernate.

lilylilylily
03-05-2017, 07:40 PM
told this dude I know who lives out of town that he can't just call me at 8 o'clock at night to tell me he's in town and let's get together. No, I need at least 2-3 days notice, if you wanna make plans, call me in advance. I guess I'm old school and wondering if people make plans in advance anymore

charlie61
03-05-2017, 07:51 PM
told this dude I know who lives out of town that he can't just call me at 8 o'clock at night to tell me he's in town and let's get together. No, I need at least 2-3 days notice, if you wanna make plans, call me in advance. I guess I'm old school and wondering if people make plans in advance anymore

I hate it when people do this! It's always my exes and old guyfriends, too...when i need time to make sure I'm in great shape and look my best. Like, i need a few weeks to fully prepare!

lilylilylily
03-05-2017, 08:14 PM
Exactly! A few weeks in advance would be perfect, but a few hrs?! And hes disappointed, saying he's only here for a few days. Well, why spring it on me last minute like that?

LoveyDovey
03-05-2017, 08:54 PM
Exactly! A few weeks in advance would be perfect, but a few hrs?! And hes disappointed, saying he's only here for a few days. Well, why spring it on me last minute like that?

Does he want a bootie call maybe?

lilylilylily
03-05-2017, 09:06 PM
I'm sure he does.

LoveyDovey
03-05-2017, 09:13 PM
I'm sure he does.

Haha they always do...

BarbieNYC
03-05-2017, 09:50 PM
I truly believe in the universe bringing back to you what you put out there.

I had to go to the fashion district today to get something for a friend and on my way there I saw a mother and her daughter trying to sell fruit in the pouring rain, in a dangerous part of downtown by skid row and I couldn't help it and I cried. Even with the anti-Mexican hate and ICE raids going on, this woman was still out there hustling. Anytime I ever bitch about dancing I need to remember this woman and her kid. It took me a few tries driving around the one way streets but I was finally able to pull up to her and give her some $$

So when I get to the fashion district before I leave something tells me to check the stripper store I always buy my shoes from. I have these pair of heels that are incredible and I always regretted using them for work because they are great heels for going out but my work pair are pretty busted already. They are also discontinued so the last time I went to this store they didn't have my size.

Well whaddya know, they had put out the last pair and it was in my size! I asked the sales associate how that was possible when they didn't have them last time and she said they were spring cleaning the attic and found them.

I don't think if I hadn't made that effort to give that woman and her kid some $$ this would've happened. I mean it's not like God/the universe made the shoes magically appear, but I don't think I would've gotten the feeling to check the stripper store and they would've been snatched by somebody else.

Aurora_Sunset
03-06-2017, 01:53 PM
I've honestly met very few people in my life that I think are better off in relationships than they are single. The majority of my friends become these shitty, lame, shadow versions of themselves when they're dating someone, and I honestly preferred them when they were single. I don't think it's necessarily relationships, inherently, but that most people hang on to the wrong relationship, which kills their true personality even more because deep down, they're miserable, but think that they are the problem that needs to keep changing and molding themselves into something that will make their crappy partner happy.

I can think of one friend right now who I support his relationship, and the rest, I don't even really want to talk to anymore because their lack of being who they used to be (in a bad way) makes me mad.

buttonpop
03-06-2017, 04:20 PM
I've honestly met very few people in my life that I think are better off in relationships than they are single. The majority of my friends become these shitty, lame, shadow versions of themselves when they're dating someone, and I honestly preferred them when they were single. I don't think it's necessarily relationships, inherently, but that most people hang on to the wrong relationship, which kills their true personality even more because deep down, they're miserable, but think that they are the problem that needs to keep changing and molding themselves into something that will make their crappy partner happy.
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I believe as a society we have over-valued the idea of staying in a relationship to work on it when problems arise. Women especially have this notion that leaving relationships without trying everything possible to save it is wrong, and end up sacrificing whole parts of themselves to make it work. I'm not advocating that people should cut their losses and run anytime things aren't perfect, but I think as a society we tend to see staying in a relationship the more "moral" choice. So many people stay in relationships that are comfortable yet unsatisfying; I think this also stems from fear of being alone and societal stigma towards being single. Our society likes to equate success in life with length of relationships instead of quality.

Good relationships bring out the best in both people and make each person a better person overall, not just a better partner.

Aurora_Sunset
03-08-2017, 03:13 AM
I don't know how to feel about men who make shitty jokes about sex workers but who adamantly speak against assault against women. I know that their hearts are in the right place, but the divide of who is "worth" the protection and pity really upsets me. I know they just don't think about, but it bugs me.

I've been reading "Sex Workers Unite" at work recently, saying it is for my domestic violence shelter reading group, and my male coworkers, who have dealt with women in the aftermath of domestic violence and sexual assault, are appalled by these things, but they still have madonna/whore complexes about which sex workers are "worthy" of rights - like street-based, survival sex workers are horrible and should be arrested. I don't agree at all, but I don't know how to argue it without giving myself away.

Aurora_Sunset
03-08-2017, 03:43 AM
I don't know what I would be or how life would be if I hadn't gone into the adult industry. How would I take care of myself? Would I have moved back home? Would I be a miserable "I just get by paycheck to paycheck and never buy luxuries" person? I legitimately don't know. I really really wonder where I'd be now.

There are several "turning points" in my life where I wonder "where would I be now." It's weird. Like the butterfly effect. In general, I don't think life is like that, but I think there are several points in my life like that.

BarbieNYC
03-08-2017, 10:16 AM
I confess that I am terrified of technology.

I had an iPhone 6 and hated it and gave it to my stepmom. I've had cheap android phones ever since and love it because no one ever steals my phone when I lose it at work or out in public. It's always turned in. Lol people must feel really bad for me when they see it.

I have a super basic windows tablet that I am running to the ground. I know it's time for a new one soon but I can't convince myself to part with it.

My dad and I still use the basic laptop I got for him 7 years ago. My brothers helped him pick out this super expensive high tech computer that was pretty much the price of a macbook -_- and I am still pissed at them for it. I really feel they picked it out so my dad would give up and give it to them as a present. It just sits in his office and I always say I am going to take a computer class for it.

I still love writing my essays in the desktop computers at the library.

My dad refuses to part with his iPhone 4 even though it's time to upgrade and I totally get where he is coming from. Lol it must run in the family

ScarletKitten
03-08-2017, 02:23 PM
I hate oral sex, both giving and receiving. I had casual sex with some guy a few days ago, and he was begging me to go down on him. I told him "no", and he wondered why, so I said I just wasn't into that. I don't give a fuck. I used to feel like I had to do it to please the guy, but now that I'm in my 30's, I don't give a flying fuck. I refuse to do something I hate just to please some douchebag who I'm not in love with. Fuck off and stop begging. You're lucky you're even getting this pussy, numbnuts. lmao

charlie61
03-08-2017, 06:13 PM
I hate oral sex, both giving and receiving. I had casual sex with some guy a few days ago, and he was begging me to go down on him. I told him "no", and he wondered why, so I said I just wasn't into that. I don't give a fuck. I used to feel like I had to do it to please the guy, but now that I'm in my 30's, I don't give a flying fuck. I refuse to do something I hate just to please some douchebag who I'm not in love with. Fuck off and stop begging. You're lucky you're even getting this pussy, numbnuts. lmao

I'm right there with you. On top of my orientation, I'm also just hella lazy in bed.

ScarletKitten
03-08-2017, 07:58 PM
^I was just reminded of this scene in SATC:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZO5G6SjnA-o

lol.....ugh, I just hate it.

The last time I went down on a guy he kept my head there & I couldn't move. He came in my mouth, and I had no choice but to swallow. Omg, I hated it so much. It was fucking gross and turned me off completely from going down on any guy ever again. I'm pissed off at him for reasons I don't even want to get into. He was a fucking jerk, and I hope karma handles him soon. I just realized this should be in the "feeling pissy, petty annoyances" thread, but to hell with it.

Aurora_Sunset
03-10-2017, 07:06 AM
While I am relieved to be free of the BS from my vanilla job, I really am sad about quitting. I liked the job itself, I liked all the people who worked there aside from my boss. I really wanted to work the fairgrounds and summer events - I was so excited about the summer... And I'm sad that I probably won't be in the industry I want to be working in for another several months.

I wanted the place to be good. I kept hearing from people who had been there for several years what a great company it used to be. But it just obviously isn't anymore. I'm sad I ended things on a not super professional note, but with the way they've been treating me, I didn't want to play nicey-nice for the next 2 weeks in the hope that they would be cool about keeping me on PRN to work the events I wanted to. And honestly, I felt like I needed to burn the bridge and force myself to move on entirely. It's just really bumming me out.

lynn2009
03-10-2017, 08:38 AM
^ I feel the same way about having quit mine. I had such a good relationship with everyone else in my department.

We had a rabbit like you
03-10-2017, 03:47 PM
I'm hoping it's just a weird post partum hormonal fuck up or something, but lately I've had a very hard time expressing myself and getting the words from my head out of my mouth..a week or two ago I was really struggling. I'm stuttering a bit. And I just don't want to talk..it feels almost "tiring". and I avoid phone calls and try and get out of the conversation as fast as I can. I'm naturally on the "not talkative" side which is fine cause most people just want to talk themselves. but now it's just like I don't wanna use my vocal chords..but have way less problem expressing through typing or writing

persianprincess
03-10-2017, 04:39 PM
In NYC for a friends kidney related surgery - not a transplant - fitting of some PD dialysis thing. Well it didn't go well despite being a simple operation. After days of being unable to go to the bathroom, eat and keep anything down, and getting weaker and weaker, last night he snapped and became delusional.

20 mins of depressed 20 mins of mania and shouting and obscenities and some violence all the way til we got him to the hospital at 8am. We didn't want him to get shoved into any old hospital being his kidney dr was at a specific one.

Well now he is in the ER - still delusional and its not looking good. He punched me last night and today threatened suicide.

So now I am kinda hoping he passes peacefully because I think it's all got too much for him and there's not a kidney in sight.

buttonpop
03-10-2017, 07:12 PM
I just don't want to talk..it feels almost "tiring". and I avoid phone calls and try and get out of the conversation as fast as I can.

This happens to me when I am socially drained. Usually when I haven't had enough time alone.

Its gets so bad that I find myself just straight up ignoring people who try to talk to me in public-- which unfortunately happens A LOT because I have unique hair and tattoos so people approach me to talk to me or compliment me several times a day. I went to the mall today and was approached seven or eight times in an hour. Its exhausting!!! I just want to be left alone, thats why I came to the mall alone!

I read an article that said people with high emotional IQs have this friendly, non-judgemental energy that people subconsciously pick up on and feel safe opening up to. People approach me randomly all the time and tell me super personal information about themselves. Growing up, random kids at school would come to me to tell me their secrets. It helped that I had a reputation for not gossiping. I wrote them all down in a notebook that I still have... there's some juicy stuff in there.

But it does get socially exhausting.

lilmerry
03-10-2017, 07:23 PM
I confess that I'm so fed up of people assuming because I don't have kids and they do, my time is less important and they expect me to run after them if I want to keep in touch. I'm also fed up with people putting pressure on me to 'find a man' and settle down just because I'm over 30 when I'd much rather get more cats and live as a spinster. Just because someone lives a different life to yours, it doesn't mean they are living life wrong.

ScarletKitten
03-10-2017, 09:04 PM
I've been applying for vanilla jobs lately. I just don't have the enthusiasm for stripping anymore. I will probably work a couple more nights here and there, but I need to take another break from it. I've realized that when I start dancing again, I'm all into it for about 4-5 months, then I want to quit again. Please, Saturn, send me a vanilla job interview soon! Yes, sometimes I pray to the planet Saturn.

Yeah, so the prayer to Saturn worked apparently. I found out I had a job interview after posting this the same day. I went to the interview yesterday, but I didn't get the job. So next time I pray to Saturn, I guess I have to be more specific. I asked for a job interview but not a job. lmao

In a way though, I'm kind of glad I didn't get it because it only paid $9/hr., and I would have felt trapped eventually and end up quitting. I'll keep looking for a part-time gig, but I'm going to keep dancing for now. At least I'll have more time to do the things I really want to do such as volunteering at the animal sanctuary.

buttonpop
03-11-2017, 04:07 PM
I confess that I fucked one of my best friends last night. oops.

I've known for a couple weeks that he has feelings for me but I felt conflicted myself. On one hand, he is very talented & passionate about his artistic work which made me feel like I was half in love with him, but I tend to feel that way about my friends a lot so I just tried to ignore those feelings. I did find myself thinking about him a lot and preferring to spend time with him even over other people I was sleeping with. But I dont want to ruin the friendship and I tend to move on from dating partners quickly due to my impossible standards and I really dont want to lose him from my life if the romantic part of our relationship ends, so I've avoided going there. But last night we were cuddling and watching a movie and one thing led to another. I'm not sure if I've made a huge mistake or not... but the sex was good...

He told me that he is in love with me
fuuuuuccckkkk.

WendiStarr
03-12-2017, 09:33 AM
Yesterday was my birthday and despite being sick, I felt a lot better after taking cold medicine and drinking hot tea. I didn't feel sick anymore temporarily. We had a nice romantic dinner, the jacuzzi suite was wonderfully relaxing. I was hoping to get some birthday action or any kind of action because we haven't in a couple weeks. I was able to get him hard in the jacuzzi but he didn't want to do it in there. We went to the bed and as soon as he was about to put it in, it went soft. I tried to get it hard again but no matter what, nothing worked. I felt like such a failure. It turns out that he stopped taking his Viagra because he said that it makes him feel old. I love him but I feel like if he doesn't get back on Viagra I'm either going to have to end things with him or get a fuck buddy on the side again. I'd much rather be having sex with him. I'm trying to be a good girl but I feel so sexually frustrated.

whirlerz
03-12-2017, 10:00 AM
Glad you had a decent B day!
Don't feel like a failure, not yr fault.
He need to take his blue pill, shit, men are so fragile, get over it

We had a rabbit like you
03-12-2017, 05:07 PM
Yeah, so the prayer to Saturn worked apparently. I found out I had a job interview after posting this the same day. I went to the interview yesterday, but I didn't get the job. So next time I pray to Saturn, I guess I have to be more specific. I asked for a job interview but not a job. lmao

In a way though, I'm kind of glad I didn't get it because it only paid $9/hr., and I would have felt trapped eventually and end up quitting. I'll keep looking for a part-time gig, but I'm going to keep dancing for now. At least I'll have more time to do the things I really want to do such as volunteering at the animal sanctuary.

I may sound like a total weirdo saying this, but I'm into plantary spells and I did one w the help of Saturn last summer and it worked so undeniably well.like very dramatic results, it blew me away and I haven't done one since cause it kinda freaked me out ..however i gave my son the middle name Saturn as a little tribute plus I like the name lol. I usually do moon spells but wow

ScarletKitten
03-12-2017, 06:37 PM
^Saturn has some real power. For real.

rareaspasia
03-12-2017, 07:21 PM
I ate so much delicious food and drank so much good beer at a music festival today that I look pregnant. I'm not dancing again for probably another week and am starting a juice fast Wednesday so I seriously give absolutely no fucks.

I regret nothing!

SexxiLexxi
03-12-2017, 09:53 PM
This will be kind of an exciting and sad confession all balled up into one.

Well. The sad part is.... This will be my first ever dildo. And I just turned 31 in Feb lol. :laughing::goodvibes

47648

I'm so fucking excited and can't wait for it to get here!! }:D:P

seashell
03-13-2017, 09:16 AM
I went to Goodwill for the sole purpose of finding cheap clothes to re-sell on eBay... and I found SO MUCH amazing stuff from nice brands like Banana Republic and Hollister... I bought everything in my size, so that if it doesn't sell, I have an excuse to keep it :D

Aurora_Sunset
03-16-2017, 04:08 PM
"I really want to get my body and looks together" I say as I don't get off the couch while stuffing cheetos in my face...

DonaDiabla
03-16-2017, 08:54 PM
I confess that "Are you at work to find Mr. Right" is one of the most hilarious threads of all time. :)

whirlerz
03-16-2017, 09:34 PM
Lol. I'll have to check that 1 out!

SexxiLexxi
03-17-2017, 04:24 AM
I think I may be more interested in creating naughty content than I am actually getting on cam. Being an introvert, for me at least, I get easily worn out dealing with a lot of people all at once - sending me messages trying to get me to talk to them dirty for free is one thing that really drives me nuts lol. Plus it's increasingly difficult to focus for me on a lot of things...I get easily distracted, bored, and to top all of that off ... I'm always exhausted - still no confirmation on what's causing that - could range from a sleeping disorder to a shit ton of other crap & I have been diagnosed as diabetic type 2 so all the medical stuff gets to me and just makes me so unmotivated leading further into a depressive state of mind. Ugh. Life can be such a little fucking bitch. After reading about ADHD, it made a little sense but I'm not like fidgety or anything so who knows really. I know my s/o has ADHD, bad but the only symptoms I show really is the lack of being able to focus really.

Fuck. That was a long, drawn out, and clear signs of how truly unfocused, distracted, and scatter brain I can be even when I am processing my thoughts onto a reply to a thread.

Would be great if there was a FIX IT ALL pill I could take lmao.

ScarletKitten
03-18-2017, 04:16 AM
I am drunk as fuck right now. I wanted to work tonight, but decided to go out on a date with this guy from the dating site. Omg, I had so much fun with him, and he fucked me so good and hard. It was some of the best sex I ever had in my life! And he's a sweetheart too. I'm definitely going to see him again.

Glamourmilf
03-18-2017, 07:34 AM
I am drunk as fuck right now. I wanted to work tonight, but decided to go out on a date with this guy from the dating site. Omg, I had so much fun with him, and he fucked me so good and hard. It was some of the best sex I ever had in my life! And he's a sweetheart too. I'm definitely going to see him again.

May I ask you a question? Did you bring him back to your place or go to his?
Because if it was yours ( and this applies to anyone who does let a new guy come home with her), where/ how do you hide your personal stuff?
I have my camming/ work desk right in front of my door. It has toys, lube, bills with my name on it, passwords to my sites, etc right there for the looking.
Plus, I don't live in a gated community anymore. An obsessed guy could walk not only right up to my door, but hop the fence to my yard, and open my slider, or the many windows.
Thanks in advance.

DonaDiabla
03-18-2017, 09:58 AM
So, this one sugar daddy that I was seeing for a year and in half send me my last allowance and a love sick letter last night:O. I was a bit taken aback by the intense romantic longing in the letter. I mean he was talking about wanting a girl to be in love with him and thought that I could it. I was just thinking "Yeah, right." Seriously, what ever happen to guys who just wanted to have fun? Whatever happen to the paid fling? Now, a lot of guys are into this intense Wuthering Heights emotional intimacy crap with me?>:( Nope, I will not be catering to that emotional fetish. Well, at least I got paid!;D I just waiting for these other sugar daddy to say the same thing to me. But at least, he is on his best behavior for now.;D

whirlerz
03-18-2017, 09:56 PM
Yea, I hear you, I just hate that shit^! Thanks

ScarletKitten
03-18-2017, 10:00 PM
May I ask you a question? Did you bring him back to your place or go to his?
Because if it was yours ( and this applies to anyone who does let a new guy come home with her), where/ how do you hide your personal stuff?
I have my camming/ work desk right in front of my door. It has toys, lube, bills with my name on it, passwords to my sites, etc right there for the looking.
Plus, I don't live in a gated community anymore. An obsessed guy could walk not only right up to my door, but hop the fence to my yard, and open my slider, or the many windows.
Thanks in advance.

I went to his place.

Is there a drawer you can stash away your toys and passwords in?

Glamourmilf
03-19-2017, 04:14 AM
I went to his place.

Is there a drawer you can stash away your toys and passwords in?

Thanks for responding. No drawer, and I also wondered after I wrote my post, where did you put your phone and purse?
I'm so paranoid because I had surgery one time, and my girlfriend never showed up to help me.
She sent a guy we both knew from the gym to pick me up from the hospital, and stay with me.
While I was recovering, he went through EVERYTHING I had. Found evidence I danced, and fucked guys, and spread it around the gym.
Another time I had surgery, I hired a Jamaican nurse, who stole cash and jewelry from me.
On second thought, nobody will be coming to my new home, or know where I live.
It's too risky.

persianprincess
03-19-2017, 06:57 AM
^^^ I put my phone and purse in kitchen cabinet or weird place where no one would look - I also keep like 300 bucks sitting under my bed so if anyone tries to rob me I can give them something, claim its all I have and they will hopefully fuck off.

My girlfriend learned a hard lesson when fucking around with some guy and he took one of her watches.

Legz541
03-20-2017, 12:08 AM
I feel like I'm really out of touch with pop culture. Like I rarely watch tv or go to movies, don't even have Netflix. We just had a tattoo convention and they bring in these "celebrity" tattoo artists, like off the tattoo reality shows. I worked the day before it when of few of the tattoo guys had shown up, danced for some tatted up guy with tons of cash. Scrolling thru my FB timeline tonight and I see pics of tons of people posing with him. Had absolutely no freakin clue this guy was "famous." LOL

charlie61
03-20-2017, 12:17 AM
I watch kathleenlights like, all of the time. Especially now that i live alone. I watch her videos in the bathroom, in the sauna, in the evenings when i don't know what to do with myself... Love her!

I used to watch carli bybel all of the time, but she went too far with the facial plastic surgery imo (it killed her credibility as a makeup artist for me), she never takes risks with her makeup (another neutral look / smokey eye look, really??) and she always looks so sad / beaten down in her recent videos (she looks like she's trying to stay upbeat, but her energy is so heavy and down now, imo...). Loved her, but I've moved on.