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baer45
07-29-2017, 08:00 AM
I had told her to ignore my posts just move on before.
Anyway, I didn't mean to get everybody uncomfortable. That's why it's in confession thread, not in "Feeling pissy today..."
Everybody, I am sorry.
whirlerz
07-29-2017, 05:02 PM
Ok, so now I do think I like the jumpsuit I ordered. Lol after packing it up to send back, SD texts me he's early @ restaurant, so instead of dropping it off to post office, I said F it, later.
Now I just opened it back up, haven't retried it on yet.
Yea, I know I'm nuts ok/:O
seashell
07-30-2017, 06:13 PM
Men in Paris are just the worst. The whole time I was there, I kept getting catcalled in French. Super uncomfortable for a girl who's alone.
I took a city bus to go to the Eiffel Tower, and on the way, this Indian guy started chatting me up. He was cute, totally my type, but some guys from other cultures just don't know how to talk to women, you know? There was no way to avoid him once I said I was going to the Eiffel Tower... I tried to ditch him after we got off the bus, but we were still walking in the same direction... d'oh! Anyway, he invited me to dinner, to visit him in Switzerland (he had an awesome embassy job), and then said I was more beautiful than the Eiffel Tower.
Once I saw the tower and took some pics, I managed to get away. Felt kinda bad. He seemed genuinely sweet, wish I had some other nice girl to send his way.
seashell
07-30-2017, 06:20 PM
Also, had a weird experience at the airport. I was trying to nap while waiting for my flight, but I kept jolting awake and awkwardly making eye contact with this gorgeous girl. I was like sleepily blinking up at her, just because she was sitting directly across from me. I thought she must have been super weirded out by me, lol.
Anyway, I got up to get some food, then came back and sat down in a different area. This was a busy airport with a ton of people. She found me and approached me, asked if I could watch her luggage, and I said sure. She came back about 5 minutes later, and asked if she could sit right next to me. I said yes, but I also felt really awkward and it was time for me to line up to board my plane, so I said goodbye and left.
I dunno. I have this weird fear of beautiful women. She was so pretty and had a French accent. I'm not sure why she went out of her way to find me, or how she wasn't weirded out by my accidental staring lol. I am such a closet bisexual. This is totally why I don't have many female friends!
lilylilylily
07-30-2017, 09:12 PM
I was bored so looked up and messaged a guy on Facebook that I used to go out with when I was a teenager lol I wasn't even sure he'd remember me but not only did he remember me he remembered my old phone number and that we used to stay on the phone all night till we fell asleep on the phone together. Aww he's been married now for 10 years. I remember as a teen meeting so many sweet guys.. Where are they now lol
Glamourmilf
07-31-2017, 09:33 AM
I met this older woman who I really clicked with at church on New year's day. She's pretty, very upbeat, artistic type, who loves to go out dancing,etc.
We exchanged numbers, but every time I called or text her, she never got back to me.
It's now July, and she's reached out to me. She's suicidal because she lost part of her ssi benefits. No car, no job, a 44 yr old daughter whose mooching off her and lives with her, etc.
Although I really like her, I'm not in a place to be someone's free therapist every day.
I'm just going to tell her that she and her daughter need to get out there and suck dick like I had to do when I was destitute. But she's not going to want to hear that.
Not too long ago I would have been her sounding board.
But, I'm now cynical because nobody was around for me when the chips were down.
My confession is that I feel no remorse for blowing her off.
None.
I guess you could say that I have Soteriophobia
WendiStarr
07-31-2017, 11:07 AM
^ I understand the soteriophobia. I have a bit of that too, after having been homeless myself.
My confession is that if everything could be done totally online, from banking to secretary of state/dmv, I would do it. If only we could deposit cash somehow via online. How great would it be to be able to renew your license and such without having to waste 2-3 hours of your life, standing in line, waiting for them to call your ticket number?
Aurora_Sunset
07-31-2017, 01:10 PM
One of my kitties has kidney disease - like stage 3 or 4, his levels are really high. The most horrible feeling is that I had noticed him being more lethargic and weak for the last couple months. I just attributed it to old age/arthritis. It wasn't until I noticed drastic weight loss in the last 2 weeks and then him barely eating this past weekend that I made an emergency visit to the vet this morning. I can't help but wonder if I had taken him in as soon as I'd noticed something wrong, if they'd have caught it when treatment would have been more likely to make a difference. I know it's not my fault for just attributing the slight symptoms to old age - that's how cats are: by the time you really notice that they're sick, they're REALLY sick because they generally don't show it. But I feel so awful. He's 12 but that shouldn't be that old for indoor cats these days.
whirlerz
07-31-2017, 05:56 PM
Aw, so sorry to hear bout your baby. rabbits are like that, they suddenly get very sick, & that's about it not much can be done.
They know their time's near, that's why they stop eating.
He had those years w/you, you were good to him & love him.
Take care, know you did your best, he definitely does
miss.a.p1600
07-31-2017, 08:06 PM
I'm just going to tell her that she and her daughter need to get out there and suck dick like I had to do when I was destitute.
Omg! Lol at the phrase "get out there and suck a dick"......one of my male associates was like "you need to throw that pussy around" ..... basically the same concept
Legz541
08-01-2017, 12:10 AM
One of my kitties has kidney disease - like stage 3 or 4, his levels are really high. The most horrible feeling is that I had noticed him being more lethargic and weak for the last couple months. I just attributed it to old age/arthritis. It wasn't until I noticed drastic weight loss in the last 2 weeks and then him barely eating this past weekend that I made an emergency visit to the vet this morning. I can't help but wonder if I had taken him in as soon as I'd noticed something wrong, if they'd have caught it when treatment would have been more likely to make a difference. I know it's not my fault for just attributing the slight symptoms to old age - that's how cats are: by the time you really notice that they're sick, they're REALLY sick because they generally don't show it. But I feel so awful. He's 12 but that shouldn't be that old for indoor cats these days.
So sorry to hear about your fur baby. My mom went through the exact same thing with her cat, advanced kidney disease and the feeling terrible for not noticing earlier. I'm sure your vet told you but they do make foods nutritionally balanced for kitties with kidney disease and also a supplement that can help. My mom's cat ending up living about 2 years after diagnosis with special food and extra care. My heart goes out to you, I lost my little buddy to cancer when he was 13.
Glamourmilf
08-01-2017, 09:11 AM
^ I understand the soteriophobia. I have a bit of that too, after having been homeless myself.
My confession is that if everything could be done totally online, from banking to secretary of state/dmv, I would do it. If only we could deposit cash somehow via online. How great would it be to be able to renew your license and such without having to waste 2-3 hours of your life, standing in line, waiting for them to call your ticket number?
Omg! Lol at the phrase "get out there and suck a dick"......one of my male associates was like "you need to throw that pussy around" ..... basically the same concept
@WendiStarr..If you have AAA, they can renew your license,( if no eye test is required). I'm actually going there today to get my new tags.
@Miss.a.p...I LOVE that. May use it when needed.
Really brings home a point.
baer45
08-01-2017, 10:28 AM
@WendiStarr..If you have AAA, they can renew your license,( if no eye test is required). I'm actually going there today to get my new tags.
@Miss.a.p...I LOVE that. May use it when needed.
Really brings home a point.
Don't some DMVs have self-service machine to renew license now?
charlie61
08-01-2017, 11:35 AM
Summer depression. I haz it.
Didn't realize it was even a thing until I looked it up after weeks of thinking "wtf is wrong with me... everyone else is so happy right now... why am I wasting my life indoors when the rest of the world is frolicking around in the sun??"
http://www.webmd.com/depression/summer-depression
My muted moods and preference for low-key activities are far better suited to fall and winter.. I've been buying fall candles and stalking autumn blogs while everyone else is running to the beach on their weekends.
lilylilylily
08-01-2017, 12:54 PM
Ive def been like that this summer too. I'm not sure if I'm depressed but I'm indoors like 80% of the time now, only leave when I need to. Dont like the heat anyway. My fun times these days are chilling at home with a coffee with my cat and reading stripper web at least I'm staying away from certain people who upset me
whirlerz
08-01-2017, 01:20 PM
The same ol' shit I always talk about- Well, today I had a lead for an apartment..it's been for rent for awhile now. It's not a corporate place at all, it didn't say the rent either. I didn't call bc I want to see how much I actually have, been running around paying some bills n stuff
I have got to get out of this hotel already
I'm going to have to do some convincing, I can show payment for rent/storage, but not income since I've an SD
Also, I have some $ I owed utilities from last fiaso so I may have to have deposits to get those
Elektra Luxx
08-01-2017, 01:46 PM
I live with a constant low level of anxiety and depression. It increases or decreases depending on what going on in my life. There are times when I just want to kill myself and times I'm so happy I'm crying because my heart is bursting with joy. I'm the most messed up person I know.
BTW, I stop talking to my ex-bf. (the really good-looking one) I'm way too obsessed with him and he has way to much control of my feelings and stomps on them every chance he gets. He's not nice to me and uses me and everybody else. I'm done with him. I can say this because I'm feeling strong right now.
whirlerz
08-01-2017, 05:41 PM
Yay, good 4U n hugs & no ur NOT messed up!
thatgingercamgirl
08-01-2017, 08:02 PM
I can totally relate Elektra, my depression and anxiety had been kicking my ass lately. I've been slowly finding my way out, I hope you do too. Glad to hear the ex is totally out of the picture, getting the toxic people out of your life can be a huge weight off of your shoulders. Hugs lady!
WendiStarr
08-01-2017, 08:24 PM
I live with a constant low level of anxiety and depression. It increases or decreases depending on what going on in my life. There are times when I just want to kill myself and times I'm so happy I'm crying because my heart is bursting with joy. I'm the most messed up person I know.
BTW, I stop talking to my ex-bf. (the really good-looking one) I'm way too obsessed with him and he has way to much control of my feelings and stomps on them every chance he gets. He's not nice to me and uses me and everybody else. I'm done with him. I can say this because I'm feeling strong right now.
Was that the one you work with? I'm glad to hear that you're done with him. Men like that are toxic. I have some idea of what you mean because I have constant anxiety too(it runs in my family) but depression, only the week before my period I get depressed like that and feel so low. My daughter is what keeps me grounded. I'm obviously not in any position to be calling anybody messed up but it sounds like not allowing the ex bf to get to you and not obsessing over him or allowing him to control your feelings is a good start.
WendiStarr
08-01-2017, 08:28 PM
I confess that I have a crush on one of my Phrendly regulars. He's got the dilf in nerdy eyeglasses thing going for him. I would fuck him so hard! I know it's against the rules to actually meet up in person with anyone from there and I'm not going to break the rules but dang!
Elektra Luxx
08-01-2017, 11:41 PM
Was that the one you work with?
The one I work with is jerkass too, but I'm over him. The ex-bf after him. The one that I walked in on and caught him fucking young, pixie, neighbor girl. I was so hurt and angry and devastated, but like a dog that goes back to happily lick up it's own puke, i still talked and texted and even fucked one time. I'm pathetic.
xStacey
08-02-2017, 05:41 AM
Omg first date in a few minutes lol i'm stressed out. People are always like he's the one who's probably stressing out he's the one who invited you LOL
Glamourmilf
08-02-2017, 08:07 AM
Don't some DMVs have self-service machine to renew license now?
Yes, that's right. Some do have that option.
You can also pay for the registration online, but my tags would have to be mailed to me.
Didn't want to take a chance of getting pulled over, then having to sit while the cop looks up that I paid.. My new tags are due today.
The cops around here don't play.
BarbieNYC
08-02-2017, 10:30 AM
I cut off a girl I used to be really close to in New York years ago. But our friendship was dying and I really don't know why she was trying to fight for it. I wouldn't want to fight for a friend who doesn't want me. She was a good person but we were drifing apart and I didn't have the energy to try and maintain the friendship. Also she doesn't have very many friends so the pressure on me was intense.
But honestly I'm trying to surround myself with people who don't have daily drama in their lives. Cutting off people who are drama magnets is one of the best things you can do for yourself. You are the company you keep after all.
seashell
08-02-2017, 01:31 PM
I confess that I have a crush on one of my Phrendly regulars. He's got the dilf in nerdy eyeglasses thing going for him. I would fuck him so hard! I know it's against the rules to actually meet up in person with anyone from there and I'm not going to break the rules but dang!
I had a giant crush on one of my regulars from Phrendly... that site just fuels it! But luckily(?), my guy turned into a jerk and disappeared. Definitely enjoy yours while you can :)
seashell
08-02-2017, 01:36 PM
My confession is that I'm a terrible roommate. I just don't feel like hanging out and chatting randomly throughout the day. I'm an introvert and I need my alone time. If you bug me at the wrong time, odds are I'll be an unfriendly bitch. I don't mean to be, but all my energy and focus usually goes toward work, and it's hard to switch out of that mode.
DonaDiabla
08-02-2017, 02:14 PM
I can't wait until this summer is over. I was just getting frat boys, couples, and demanding sissies as cam clients this summer. Couples just make terrible cam clients. ::) In the psychic world, I was just getting a lot of sorority girls calling about if Johnny will ever propose.::)They paid and most of them behaved themselves but they were just so mind-blowing difficult. Plus, my SD's dad passed way and he was never the same after that. I let him go because he needed time to heal. I will scout for a new sugar daddy in the winter. :'( Anyways, it is almost the end of summer and August will be so much better;D
xStacey
08-02-2017, 05:01 PM
Omg first date in a few minutes lol i'm stressed out. People are always like he's the one who's probably stressing out he's the one who invited you LOL
Date went so well, last night was a lot of fun and he was really hot ! It was my first Tinder date ever, I'm so sad I leave in less than 3 weeks and a half and during that time he goes back to England for 10 days... I haven't had sex in months lol and the last one was my asshole ex. He was my first English guy, his accent was such a turn-on and sex was great... ! He had two cats lmao and was so cute, the whole time he kept telling me you're so beautiful, you're so sexy, you're so hot, you turn me on so much and whenever I did something he would say it's the best he's ever had lol.... He kept saying omg that's the best blowjob I've ever had, and I haven't had sex so good in a long time. My ex never said any of these things ! (but it's not the first time I hear best blowjob ever... lol) Then when we did it a third time that same night and he said omg you're sooo good with your hand too LOL I was thinking yeah I know been doing body rub for 6 years ::) He's really cuddly and loves kissing, I reallyyyy needed affection lol. Usually guys are not this affectionate the first night... He kept begging me to stay over and the whole night he would caress my body and kiss me. The next morning I was playing with his cat in bed and he was touching me then he joked and said that's what I usually do to my cat and when I saw him touch his cat it was pretty similar lmao..... Oh and he lasted so long and came multiple times ! He had a black condom lmao I was like what and he said here the condoms are really small so the only ones that fit are black LOL
Also, he adopted an abandoned baby kitten <3
whirlerz
08-02-2017, 07:58 PM
Sorry, I surely do have anxiety as well, I'm on a couple sites, psych2go.com, onlinecounseling college.com & I took a Do you have anxiety ? Quiz got everything right
ChocoChanel
08-03-2017, 01:28 AM
When i just turned 18 I was in LA and got ran out of money. I was supposed to be staying with my friend, but she got in trouble a few hours before I got there and her mom said I couldn't say. It was 4th of july weekend so an hotels were booked or way out of my price range,
Between craigslist and Backpage I "applied" for every model wanted ad there was. I ended up couch surfing but I only had one more day I could stay at that place. I wasn't leaving LA for 3 more days. Nothing was hitting and by 10 am the next day,I was just roaming the streets of LA. Near the airport. So I walk several miles to a kinkos and start back on the internet. I stayed there till it closed... Finally at almost the last minute, someone wrote me back! I gave him my number and we started texting.
He asked if I did anal. I said yes. I didn't and still don't do anal lol. So we negotiate a price and then he says that he booked a suite at this nice hotel. I head over and try to check in. Nothing. I waited and kept trying forever because this was my last hope. If this guy didn't come through, I was gonna be on the street. Well, several hours later, he came through.
So I finally get let into the room, and it was the most amazing thing i had ever seen. I literally jumped on the bed and pretty woman-ed the whole thing out of it! But he still wasn't there. He said he was gonna come the next day. Whatever! at least I had an amazing room! I ordered room service and read all about what to do before anal!
So the next day this guy finally arrives. He has full on video equipment, and he sets it up. Then he goes to take a shower and says there was a letter for me. It was so many hundreds in there yall! I took black cars everywhere for the rest of my stay! This was before Uber so that was like the cool jam! haha
It ended up being some of the best sex I've had. Like totally amazing top 10 I came so many times ! But I know he could totally tell i hadn't done anal, and was a little disappointed but I think he was still really happy. He left after and I got to stay in the suite for the rest of my stay too! Some guy has a Pov of me though lol.
Glamourmilf
08-03-2017, 08:23 AM
I cut off a girl I used to be really close to in New York years ago. But our friendship was dying and I really don't know why she was trying to fight for it. I wouldn't want to fight for a friend who doesn't want me. She was a good person but we were drifing apart and I didn't have the energy to try and maintain the friendship. Also she doesn't have very many friends so the pressure on me was intense.
But honestly I'm trying to surround myself with people who don't have daily drama in their lives. Cutting off people who are drama magnets is one of the best things you can do for yourself. You are the company you keep after all.
How do I add the last part to my siggy?
seashell
08-03-2017, 01:49 PM
Whenever I notice people looking at me, a small part of me wonders if I am fully dressed, and I have to remind myself that I am. Is this a byproduct of sex work? Or just me? haha
lilylilylily
08-03-2017, 05:10 PM
Omg I so relate,lol
ChocoChanel
08-03-2017, 11:40 PM
Whenever I notice people looking at me, a small part of me wonders if I am fully dressed, and I have to remind myself that I am. Is this a byproduct of sex work? Or just me? haha
haha i have this with my hair cause sometimes I wear wigs. I do 4 sloppy cornrows to keep my hair down. Sometimes I'm in such a hurry.. and probably stoned from being anxious cause i actually have to go somewhere lol.. I'll forget to put my wig on!
I Usually make it to the car and when I check my rear view.. Its just my crazy ass with the cornrows and i have to run back in the house to put my wig on! lol
So If anyone looks at me funny I'm like .. "shit, did i forget to put my wig on"
BarbieNYC
08-04-2017, 09:51 AM
It's really hard to go back to dancing after you've been out for so long. I went from dancing full time practically every day to dancing part time only on weekends, to dancing sporadically whenever I get a break from school. I'm not gonna lie the transition is hard. I did four shifts in a row and had 2 killer shifts and 2 so-so shifts which brought me out to a pretty good average over 4 days. I went home for 2 days because i was so tired and missed my dog but now I gotta go back this weekend and it's so hard getting in the mindset to go. I never had this problem before. It's so weird. You would think after quitting my horrible vanilla job and making more than a week's pay in one night I would be hurrying to go back to the club but I just wanna lay in bed all day with my dog. Lol
I'm still gonna make myself go. This weekend is a full moon and mercury retrograde is coming up this month so I wanna make as much as I can this weekend so I can just focusing on studying and preparing for fall semester during mercury retrograde.
xStacey
08-04-2017, 06:48 PM
Date went so well, last night was a lot of fun and he was really hot ! It was my first Tinder date ever, I'm so sad I leave in less than 3 weeks and a half and during that time he goes back to England for 10 days... I haven't had sex in months lol and the last one was my asshole ex. He was my first English guy, his accent was such a turn-on and sex was great... ! He had two cats lmao and was so cute, the whole time he kept telling me you're so beautiful, you're so sexy, you're so hot, you turn me on so much and whenever I did something he would say it's the best he's ever had lol.... He kept saying omg that's the best blowjob I've ever had, and I haven't had sex so good in a long time. My ex never said any of these things ! (but it's not the first time I hear best blowjob ever... lol) Then when we did it a third time that same night and he said omg you're sooo good with your hand too LOL I was thinking yeah I know been doing body rub for 6 years ::) He's really cuddly and loves kissing, I reallyyyy needed affection lol. Usually guys are not this affectionate the first night... He kept begging me to stay over and the whole night he would caress my body and kiss me. The next morning I was playing with his cat in bed and he was touching me then he joked and said that's what I usually do to my cat and when I saw him touch his cat it was pretty similar lmao..... Oh and he lasted so long and came multiple times ! He had a black condom lmao I was like what and he said here the condoms are really small so the only ones that fit are black LOL
Also, he adopted an abandoned baby kitten <3
Lmao I wrote this the next day right after sex but I just noticed I forgot to write about how of a gentleman he is. Very polite, well-mannered, classy, so sweet and nice! I'm very picky and difficult I notice every single detail but he didn't do a single thing wrong! LOL. I read they're all like this in England because they have to show respect to the royal family and from a young age they don't just learn subjects in school but also classes on etiquette, manners... so they know how to treat a woman like a princess.
Before our first date he was really happy I haven't been here for long because he said there's still a lot he could make me discover and said he would surprise me. Took me somewhere really nice not on Trip Advisor and next week he said he will make up for not being able to join me at the week-end resort I'm so excited lol.
Woke up this morning and was reading articles about dating British men. It's not taboo over there to sleep with a guy on the first date, no label such as being easy etc. and when you see someone on more than one occasion he's your boyfriend without having all the talk, they take dating very seriously and it's exclusive from the start unlike dating in America where you date to find who you want to be exclusive with.... I was thinking of doing an MA in the States or in England, I really loved New Yorkers but now I think I like British men more LOL. Obviously I'm sure there are some assholes but if anyone is from the UK and could comment on that?
JessaJade
08-05-2017, 02:49 AM
I read they're all like this in England because they have to show respect to the royal family and from a young age they don't just learn subjects in school but also classes on etiquette, manners... so they know how to treat a woman like a princess.
Woke up this morning and was reading articles about dating British men. It's not taboo over there to sleep with a guy on the first date, no label such as being easy etc. and when you see someone on more than one occasion he's your boyfriend without having all the talk, they take dating very seriously and it's exclusive from the start unlike dating in America where you date to find who you want to be exclusive with.... I was thinking of doing an MA in the States or in England, I really loved New Yorkers but now I think I like British men more LOL. Obviously I'm sure there are some assholes but if anyone is from the UK and could comment on that?
The first part would apply to men who grew up in an upper-middle class family and/or had private schooling. So if you are picky anyway and know what behaviour/treatment you will and won't accept, you can of course choose to be around only those types of men.
The second part, no...I would say the taboos and judgements are no different here, and the dating thing is very similar too. Are they magazine articles? That isn't accurate and some of that stuff is more like a quaint fantasy idea of what Englishness is. Plenty arseholes here, of all classes, LOL.
Your date sounded very hot and seems a real gentleman though!
xStacey
08-05-2017, 07:27 AM
The first part would apply to men who grew up in an upper-middle class family and/or had private schooling. So if you are picky anyway and know what behaviour/treatment you will and won't accept, you can of course choose to be around only those types of men.
The second part, no...I would say the taboos and judgements are no different here, and the dating thing is very similar too. Are they magazine articles? That isn't accurate and some of that stuff is more like a quaint fantasy idea of what Englishness is. Plenty arseholes here, of all classes, LOL.
Your date sounded very hot and seems a real gentleman though!
Really?!?! Awww hahaha I love sex and I am rarely attracted to anyone so when I am I often have sex on the first night because the last time was usually months ago, but people are very judgmental about it. Yeah haha they were magazine and online articles LOL. I'm not here very long at all and during the last 3 weeks I have here he's leaving back to London for 10 days for his brother's marriage :( so that's less than 2 weeks left together. I'm so sad, obviously didn't wait until the third date or whatever because otherwise we'd be sleeping together the first time the last week I'm here and was so attracted to him.
Yeah he was sooo hot and nice I haven't been this crazy about a man in a long time!! <3 I'm working in Asia and the expats community is very small, he's friend with a lawyer who works with me in the same practice group at the firm I'm interning at and even before I met him, words got out quickly that I had a date with him just right after I told one gal I have a date with an English man who's been here for 3 years everybody at the office knew LOL so harder to be an asshole... But even before I met him she told me yes he's a very good guy. I'll stop here and message you :)
xStacey
08-05-2017, 08:14 AM
Really?!?! Awww hahaha I love sex and I am rarely attracted to anyone so when I am I often have sex on the first night because the last time was usually months ago, but people are very judgmental about it. Yeah haha they were magazine and online articles LOL. I'm not here very long at all and during the last 3 weeks I have here he's leaving back to London for 10 days for his brother's marriage :( so that's less than 2 weeks left together. I'm so sad, obviously didn't wait until the third date or whatever because otherwise we'd be sleeping together the first time the last week I'm here and was so attracted to him.
Yeah he was sooo hot and nice I haven't been this crazy about a man in a long time!! <3 I'm working in Asia and the expats community is very small, he's friend with a lawyer who works with me in the same practice group at the firm I'm interning at and even before I met him, words got out quickly that I had a date with him just right after I told one gal I have a date with an English man who's been here for 3 years everybody at the office knew LOL so harder to be an asshole... But even before I met him she told me yes he's a very good guy. I'll stop here and message you :)
Oh and he lives alone with two rooms, one is just for his cats with a huge bed lmao, he also has those cat trees for them it's way too adorable LOL
miss.a.p1600
08-05-2017, 08:28 PM
One of my family members bought me a pricey gift. I feel slightly guilty because I don't know if the giver is/was financially wise in purchasing this for me. I accept the gift but now I feel like I have to repay this person in some sense.
miss.a.p1600
08-05-2017, 08:35 PM
It's not taboo over there to sleep with a guy on the first date, no label such as being easy etc. and when you see someone on more than one occasion he's your boyfriend without having all the talk, they take dating very seriously and it's exclusive from the start unlike dating in America....
This is how I think it should be. Too much mind games, confusion, awkward talks, stupid labels, stigmas, double standards, etc if its any other way.
chanzep
08-05-2017, 10:04 PM
xStacey sounds like you found a nice guy. But in general British guys do judge about the same things as North American Guys. Also I do think in general guys can be different when dating away from home. And your probably exotic to him too. So he wants to impress you.
miss.a.p1600
08-06-2017, 09:55 PM
Went out on a "blind" date.
Surprisingly he was decent. Slightly overweight but looks not as important as earning/handling money well and generosity.
Good food - plus
Let me make decisions (knows when to lead and when to let women lead) - plus
Seemed to have gentlemen like manners - plus
Luxury car - plus
Not overly religious - plus
Dressed nice - plus
WendiStarr
08-08-2017, 09:04 AM
I love thrift store shopping. Where else can you buy 8 books, a cute dress for myself, 4 shirts and 4 pants for my daughter, all for under $10?
Aurora_Sunset
08-08-2017, 09:55 AM
My friend who was accidentally pregnant had a miscarriage a couple weeks ago. I said I was sorry when she first told me and she kinda ended the conversation saying she was tired and needed a lot of rest. I told her she could contact me whenever and she hasn't yet. I don't know if I should reach out to her. My honest feelings about the pregnancy and her decision to keep it were not positive. I never expressed that to her, thankfully, but as horrible as it sounds, I think this was really in her best interest to not have a kid right now.
That feeling is combined with my inability to feel a lot of empathy toward the situation. I don't mean to be mean, but I am very NOT maternal, I never want kids of my own, and I've never understood the urge to go through pregnancy and produce biological offspring. As a result, I just have a tremendous amount of difficulty empathizing appropriately with fertility issues because I legitimately don't understand. I understand enough to know that it is important to a lot of people, but I really don't "get it" - which, especially in a situation like this, where she wasn't trying to get pregnant in the first place, lost the fetus within like 3 weeks of finding out, and I think it was a bad idea to keep it anyway - I am grappling with my ability to genuinely empathize over this. So I don't know what to say.... I know that my inability to care does not mean I should be stoic about it to her. I obviously care about her and her pain. I just don't want my obvious non-understanding to come out and hurt her more.
baer45
08-08-2017, 11:22 AM
I love thrift store shopping. Where else can you buy 8 books, a cute dress for myself, 4 shirts and 4 pants for my daughter, all for under $10?
just made a trip to a shrift store to unload some clothes and a coffee table. I am a moderate shopper, some clothes I unloaded was at least 5 years old which I barely wore them. A few still have tags on them.
I saw some nice kitchen ware over there. very tempting.
lilylilylily
08-08-2017, 12:53 PM
I love thrift store shopping. Where else can you buy 8 books, a cute dress for myself, 4 shirts and 4 pants for my daughter, all for under $10?
You're lucky you can find stuff for so cheap. Thrifts stores in my area have become quite pricey, I can find similar stuff at regular stores for the same price as the thrift stores a lot of the time... but I do love shopping there, can spend hours there
Elektra Luxx
08-09-2017, 03:41 AM
My younger sister is going through a lot right now and she's drinking (self-medicating) until she passes out drunk. I've told her that I will help her seek professional help and to stay away from doing other self-destructive things to herself. I feel like a hypocrite because I've done the same too. I've had two extended stays in a psychiatric hospital due to my self-destructive behavior and I don't want it to happen to her.
xStacey
08-09-2017, 04:34 AM
The English guy is so cute lol we talked about our previous relationships and right away he told me he's not sleeping with anyone else at the moment. I was like oh I meant to ask but I wasn't sure considering we just met and I'm leaving in less than 3 weeks. Then he said actually I was sleeping with this girl but right after I met you I stopped seeing her. He says it's awkward because our common friend who's my coworker knows the girl and she's closer with her than with me. She said to him oh xStacey really likes you, but I think Tess really likes you too! Because she wanted to hook up with him again and he didn't want to. He was like I'm really bad at lying so i avoid being put in situations where I'd have to. Lmao I suspect it's because of the sex. He still keeps telling me how I do things to him nobody has ever done to him before and how no one ever gave him this much pleasure etc.
I really lack practice sexually, I don't know if I'm that good because I can't fuck myself but I know I'm really good at seduction and foreplay and a big part of sex is psychological... I am so proud of this secret weapon I acquired from sex work I remember being so insecure in bed as a civilian... Now I see him almost everyday and he's so sad leaving to go back to London he was like I wanna message you and have your news he seemed so sad lol compared to my ex who would just travel to another country, ignore me, cheat on me but go on online dating sites.
I can't stop thinking about how quickly my skills in bed would improve even more if I finally gave it a go at escorting!! Lol