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seashell
10-17-2017, 05:24 AM
I'm so confused if I should stay with my partner ! The main issue is his resistance to live out of the USA ( for 2 - 4 months or so to see if we like it ) . I'm just in a tangle of not knowing what to do. I feel like so often it's the women who compromise and I really don't want to compromise on the opportunity to run my online business from a less expensive place for awhile. I've already done 1-2 month trial trips before and it worked fine.
Sometimes I feel ok with just spilling the next 4-6 months between my own travels and staying here with him ( an even split seemed fair ) but now I'm feeling uneasy about it . I find it so crazy that I COULDN'T BELIEVE my luck with him 5-6 years ago when we met and now I'm really considering if we should stay together.
;/

Sometimes people grow apart. I know it's hard when your life goals don't match up, especially something as important as where to live.

Do you want to live somewhere else permanently, or just on and off for a couple years?

WendiStarr
10-17-2017, 09:11 AM
Financial domination looks tempting. I mean, I see some women on Twitter doing that and they make it look so easy. They post pictures of themselves getting their hair or nails done or going on shopping sprees and demand reimbursement for it. The men apparently send them $ too. At the same time the whole findom thing scares me. I just read an article about a findom who is facing extortion charges and prison time due to her findom arrangement with a man. That's so confusing to me because it seems to me that the guys who are into findom seem to get off on humiliation and threats of being "exposed" to everyone. There are blackmail fetish guys too. Where do you draw the line? If conversation is done via email and such, how do you know that the person is serious or joking or that it's even the real person at all? I don't know. That seems like more work and risk than I care to get involved in.

SnuffleUffleGrass
10-17-2017, 02:03 PM
Financial domination looks tempting. I mean, I see some women on Twitter doing that and they make it look so easy. They post pictures of themselves getting their hair or nails done or going on shopping sprees and demand reimbursement for it. The men apparently send them $ too. At the same time the whole findom thing scares me. I just read an article about a findom who is facing extortion charges and prison time due to her findom arrangement with a man. That's so confusing to me because it seems to me that the guys who are into findom seem to get off on humiliation and threats of being "exposed" to everyone. There are blackmail fetish guys too. Where do you draw the line? If conversation is done via email and such, how do you know that the person is serious or joking or that it's even the real person at all? I don't know. That seems like more work and risk than I care to get involved in.

This is why I avoided findom because I've had escorting clients with severe mental health issues & I feared they'd turn on me after giving me access to funds while unmedicated.

I plan on Domme work in the near future but with very clear cut boundaries.

DonaDiabla
10-17-2017, 04:20 PM
Actually, a lot of findoms on Twitter and Instagram do financial domination without blackmail. Frankly, I avoid the blackmail guys because they cause the most problems in the findom community. :)


Financial domination looks tempting. I mean, I see some women on Twitter doing that and they make it look so easy. They post pictures of themselves getting their hair or nails done or going on shopping sprees and demand reimbursement for it. The men apparently send them $ too. At the same time the whole findom thing scares me. I just read an article about a findom who is facing extortion charges and prison time due to her findom arrangement with a man. That's so confusing to me because it seems to me that the guys who are into findom seem to get off on humiliation and threats of being "exposed" to everyone. There are blackmail fetish guys too. Where do you draw the line? If conversation is done via email and such, how do you know that the person is serious or joking or that it's even the real person at all? I don't know. That seems like more work and risk than I care to get involved in.

miss.a.p1600
10-17-2017, 05:56 PM
Financial domination looks tempting. I mean, I see some women on Twitter doing that and they make it look so easy. They post pictures of themselves getting their hair or nails done or going on shopping sprees and demand reimbursement for it. The men apparently send them $ too. At the same time the whole findom thing scares me. I just read an article about a findom who is facing extortion charges and prison time due to her findom arrangement with a man. That's so confusing to me because it seems to me that the guys who are into findom seem to get off on humiliation and threats of being "exposed" to everyone. There are blackmail fetish guys too. Where do you draw the line? If conversation is done via email and such, how do you know that the person is serious or joking or that it's even the real person at all? I don't know. That seems like more work and risk than I care to get involved in.

Thats the thing that confuses me too.

I have to have a discussion about it upfront. But even then its still murky waters because dude could lie or be mentally ill like snuffle suggests.

And there is not a lot of training/resources as far as Im aware.

To me the safest space is to just "role play" (money is real though lol). Perhaps even do a debriefing so to speak afterwards to make sure everything is kosher.

Reminds me of the strip club customers who spend it all in the club then come to SW whining. Most dancers are like well youre an adult and its your responsibility to manage YOUR finances. And then the men are like ugh those predatory dancers.

I read one story dude was living in damn near poverty while his mistress was getting majority of his paychecks.

It is a fine line. Because some of these dudes go overboard and have a severe addiction like gambling n shit.

I thought about creating a private group we could learn from each other ???

Join Here -----> https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/group.php?groupid=187


Which leads me to my confession: It would be awesome to have several FD clients and make a cushy living

SnuffleUffleGrass
10-18-2017, 09:22 AM
I hope I'm not causing problems by mentioning this but a super crazy strip club customer was stalking this site over a financial agreement he had with a girl who was on here a lot. Long story short that's where I realized that doing business with unstable people can really blow up in unexpected ways.

miss.a.p1600
10-18-2017, 11:07 AM
Yeah one reason not to meet up with people on here. Especially the men or anything where money is tied into the equation.

Ive heard too many horror stories of ladies getting stiffed on rents, hotels, etc.

I almost ran into one of the male members on this forum but he was into OTC and (more power to the girls that are) that wasn't my thing and I didn't want to give him the wrong idea. Glad I didn't cause his ass is a covert mentally ill person. Like a wolf in sheep clothing.

carmen_b
10-18-2017, 11:37 AM
I want to split the next year in between seeing our families ( both USA based ) and living in a cheaper country / or countries.
The cost is a very large factor . I want to do it to both save on costs and also to have the adventure ( I've always wanted to be an expat even temporarily such as 2-5 months ).

To be honest .... if he wasn't resistant on it ..... I would rent our place out for mid-Nov. through mid March and really just GO FOR IT in a cheaper place.


Sometimes people grow apart. I know it's hard when your life goals don't match up, especially something as important as where to live.

Do you want to live somewhere else permanently, or just on and off for a couple years?

xStacey
10-18-2017, 08:59 PM
Omg I have a date on Monday I'm really looking forward to we've been talking for so many weeks all day every day and I usually don't find men that interesting but we have so much in common and we've been constantly making jokes. I'm always a bit stressed out on first dates although I know I have a great personality and I look good, but I still feel a bit insecure, hopefully it goes well. It's a dinner date too and he's looking for something serious, he's taking me somewhere really nice and already planning our date 5 days in advance but that's stressing me out haha... I think drinks would have been less stressful but would have been less romantic and I would be less inclined to believe him saying he wants something serious.

miss.a.p1600
10-19-2017, 07:13 AM
I love first dates! I'm probably a serial first dater lol. Thankfully mine have mostly gone really well with just a few mediocre ones. I only had a small percentage of horrible ones - first dates with a narcissist = no bueno

I think youre right about the drinks. It just kind of seems cheap or like the dude has some fear (like hey if it doesnt work out at least I only spent $15 on her or whatever). I guess its good for those who prefer casual type dates, don't care about the guys spending/earning power, or have ADHD lol.

It's a good thing he planned it with you vs last minute expecting you to drop everything and also taking you some place nice

Good luck with your date!

xStacey
10-19-2017, 08:37 AM
I love first dates! I'm probably a serial first dater lol. Thankfully mine have mostly gone really well with just a few mediocre ones. I only had a small percentage of horrible ones - first dates with a narcissist = no bueno

I think youre right about the drinks. It just kind of seems cheap or like the dude has some fear (like hey if it doesnt work out at least I only spent $15 on her or whatever). I guess its good for those who prefer casual type dates, don't care about the guys spending/earning power, or have ADHD lol.

It's a good thing he planned it with you vs last minute expecting you to drop everything and also taking you some place nice

Good luck with your date!

Well actually it's a Tinder date hahaha I kept my account when I got back since I had a really good experience in Asia. Not sure if you read my post but I went on my first and only Tinder date over there and he was a great guy, not at all what I expected to find on Tinder after hearing horror stories about guys just wanting to fuck (obviously there are many jerks but you just gotta filter them out). We dated the whole time I was there, we were seeing each other everyday and I was gonna delete my account but he's the one who insisted I keep it because he didn't want me to be lonely back home since we're 35-hour away it wouldn't work.

I usually just swipe to past the time and never reply or if we talk it's only a couple texts but him we matched because he used to study and live in Montreal but he moved to Ottawa for work in global affairs. He also studied law, did an LLM abroad and had been accepted in all the Ivy League universities so I've been asking him a lot of questions about that and he wants to help me with my applications. He's a good-looking nerd so he kept asking to review my papers because he's actually published and I do really well already so I never need anyone to review my papers but he keeps begging me lol. And it's pretty refreshing we've been talking for weeks every day and he doesn't ask for nude photos, we don't talk about sex, we talk about a lot of stuff and it's never boring. We also have in common the fact that we're not from privileged background and found it difficult at first in law surrounded by rich kids. I never dated law students or lawyers I avoid them like the plague because I find it weird to date people in the same field since there's so much gossip, everybody knows everybody and knows everything about everyone... But whenever we talk we always play with words, make law jokes and since we're not being sexual I'm always making witty comments that could be interpreted in different ways to tease him, he gets them all the time and keeps going then at a time he said I hope you don't find me offensive, if you do tell me to stop, but you keep making those comments... And I said no I actually find it amusing and I'm doing it on purpose lol. Haha it's much more of a turn-on than just exchanging nude photos. The guys I dated previously were not that into books or anything and knew little about law, so it's really refreshing !

He's currently living in Ottawa and he said he wouldn't mind coming to Montreal (although it's a 3-hour drive so total of 6-hour every time?!) every week-end to see me if we date. I'm always really busy and unavailable so next week is my reading week and after that I think my next availability is during Xmas break lmao and he kept saying he wants to meet me before Xmas so I'm gonna make some time next week. He's coming over for his friend's birthday this week-end and he said if I'm unavailable he could come back, but well it's nice and all to chat for weeks, but it's as much to my advantage and to his to meet earlier lol. Hopefully it clicks in person too...

I'm less stressed out when it's a guy I met in-person who asks me out because I know we've met so he asked me out because he liked me, but online you never know what to expect. I'm self-conscious about my nose and I know my photos I make sure to take them in an angle that makes my nose look good (okok I know guys always say they don't care) lol.

But he's really cute at first he invited me out for drinks and then he said do you just want drinks or you wanna do something else ? Then he asked me where I usually go to, suggested a nice restaurant at a really romantic area and it wasn't a cheap place, then he said he will keep doing research to pick a place and said to not hesitate if I want to recommend a place up to my standards.

He's good-looking, has a law degree, master's in law, clerked at the International Court of Justice and he's into human rights law (corporate guys are often jerks), he was also a law professor in Latin America, published many papers, worked for the Dean of his law faculty, said his last two relationships were 5-years long. He likes to cook and even talked about bringing me home-made food because I am too intense and always eat out and he said he doesn't have sex just with anybody or on the first date because it has a meaning to him.

Anyway so far he seems perfect, although I'm not looking for a boyfriend, but they always say it changes when you meet the right person so I'm open if it goes well. Now just hoping in-person it goes as well, because now I have high expectations haha, unlike when you talk to someone one day, find them good looking and just meet.

I always fantasized about hot law professors lmao. I said I will go get changed on Monday evening because I will be spending all day in court he said no come in your court outfit you must look sexy in it and I said will you come in a court outfit too ? He said well I'm not gonna wear a suit and I said but you want me to come in a suit. I said I wanted to wear something sexier because I have no occasion to wear my nice dresses anymore and he said we could go on a Pearson/Specter date. I said I prefer a sexier outfit because we would intimidate people both in a suit, so I said I will wear a nice professional jumpsuit and he said he will come in nice shoes, regular pants, cashmere sweater and tweed blazer jacket like his outfit when he teaches hahaha.

WendiStarr
10-19-2017, 09:27 PM
I had an appointment with the sweetheart nerd client again and I enjoyed it way more than I should have. He's too damn adorkable. I probably shouldn't let him cuddle with me after sexy time again. He ended up falling asleep while cuddling with me and I almost did too, too comfy. I kind of felt bad waking him up to let him know that I had to leave.

Aurora_Sunset
10-20-2017, 07:44 AM
I'm honestly super bummed every time I think about the fact that no one really said anything about me finishing grad school. It may not have been a full Master's degree but it was still a complete grad school program that I worked really hard on. I got a diploma, I was invited to a commencement ceremony... I didn't go because I was busy that day, but I didn't attend my undergrad graduation either.

I guess it's not like it's a huge deal, but especially now that I'm not in school for anything when I want to be, and not moving toward anything in particular right now, it feels really crappy that all the time and effort I did put into something wasn't even acknowledged. My own family and boyfriend had to ask if I was even "done." Of course they never said congrats or showed any sort of excitement over it.

whirlerz
10-20-2017, 07:08 PM
That's shitty.
Hope U don't mind me saying that..
I know myself, I have 3 yrs of college, & I finished a 2 yr vocational school in 6 mo, w/B averag I consider it an accomplishment, but it's ignored.
Eh I guess you gotta pay yourself on the back, but damn I am impressed, & I for one think it's great, so Hugs!

whirlerz
10-20-2017, 07:13 PM
@ seashell, they have just bangs w/clips I got 2 pair, 1 from Sally's, 1 from Ulta.

xStacey
10-20-2017, 09:10 PM
Well actually it's a Tinder date hahaha I kept my account when I got back since I had a really good experience in Asia. Not sure if you read my post but I went on my first and only Tinder date over there and he was a great guy, not at all what I expected to find on Tinder after hearing horror stories about guys just wanting to fuck (obviously there are many jerks but you just gotta filter them out). We dated the whole time I was there, we were seeing each other everyday and I was gonna delete my account but he's the one who insisted I keep it because he didn't want me to be lonely back home since we're 35-hour away it wouldn't work.

I usually just swipe to past the time and never reply or if we talk it's only a couple texts but him we matched because he used to study and live in Montreal but he moved to Ottawa for work in global affairs. He also studied law, did an LLM abroad and had been accepted in all the Ivy League universities so I've been asking him a lot of questions about that and he wants to help me with my applications. He's a good-looking nerd so he kept asking to review my papers because he's actually published and I do really well already so I never need anyone to review my papers but he keeps begging me lol. And it's pretty refreshing we've been talking for weeks every day and he doesn't ask for nude photos, we don't talk about sex, we talk about a lot of stuff and it's never boring. We also have in common the fact that we're not from privileged background and found it difficult at first in law surrounded by rich kids. I never dated law students or lawyers I avoid them like the plague because I find it weird to date people in the same field since there's so much gossip, everybody knows everybody and knows everything about everyone... But whenever we talk we always play with words, make law jokes and since we're not being sexual I'm always making witty comments that could be interpreted in different ways to tease him, he gets them all the time and keeps going then at a time he said I hope you don't find me offensive, if you do tell me to stop, but you keep making those comments... And I said no I actually find it amusing and I'm doing it on purpose lol. Haha it's much more of a turn-on than just exchanging nude photos. The guys I dated previously were not that into books or anything and knew little about law, so it's really refreshing !

He's currently living in Ottawa and he said he wouldn't mind coming to Montreal (although it's a 3-hour drive so total of 6-hour every time?!) every week-end to see me if we date. I'm always really busy and unavailable so next week is my reading week and after that I think my next availability is during Xmas break lmao and he kept saying he wants to meet me before Xmas so I'm gonna make some time next week. He's coming over for his friend's birthday this week-end and he said if I'm unavailable he could come back, but well it's nice and all to chat for weeks, but it's as much to my advantage and to his to meet earlier lol. Hopefully it clicks in person too...

I'm less stressed out when it's a guy I met in-person who asks me out because I know we've met so he asked me out because he liked me, but online you never know what to expect. I'm self-conscious about my nose and I know my photos I make sure to take them in an angle that makes my nose look good (okok I know guys always say they don't care) lol.

But he's really cute at first he invited me out for drinks and then he said do you just want drinks or you wanna do something else ? Then he asked me where I usually go to, suggested a nice restaurant at a really romantic area and it wasn't a cheap place, then he said he will keep doing research to pick a place and said to not hesitate if I want to recommend a place up to my standards.

He's good-looking, has a law degree, master's in law, clerked at the International Court of Justice and he's into human rights law (corporate guys are often jerks), he was also a law professor in Latin America, published many papers, worked for the Dean of his law faculty, said his last two relationships were 5-years long. He likes to cook and even talked about bringing me home-made food because I am too intense and always eat out and he said he doesn't have sex just with anybody or on the first date because it has a meaning to him.

Anyway so far he seems perfect, although I'm not looking for a boyfriend, but they always say it changes when you meet the right person so I'm open if it goes well. Now just hoping in-person it goes as well, because now I have high expectations haha, unlike when you talk to someone one day, find them good looking and just meet.

I always fantasized about hot law professors lmao. I said I will go get changed on Monday evening because I will be spending all day in court he said no come in your court outfit you must look sexy in it and I said will you come in a court outfit too ? He said well I'm not gonna wear a suit and I said but you want me to come in a suit. I said I wanted to wear something sexier because I have no occasion to wear my nice dresses anymore and he said we could go on a Pearson/Specter date. I said I prefer a sexier outfit because we would intimidate people both in a suit, so I said I will wear a nice professional jumpsuit and he said he will come in nice shoes, regular pants, cashmere sweater and tweed blazer jacket like his outfit when he teaches hahaha.

I have a pretty good feeling about him, my phony and bullshit detectors are usually very strong. I hope it goes well lol. He actually asked me what I wanted and when I said I wasn't looking for a relationship at the moment he seemed so disappointed and then I said I'm open if it happens, but I don't have expectations because I don't like being disappointed. Whenever we talk he's always so cute and sweet though. He sent me a picture for me to pick his blazer for our first date and I said he's always distracting me talking to me so much, usually I ignore, but our conversation are really interesting and he said but when I leave you alone you're the one who comes back to me ! He then left me alone and this morning he apologized and said I'm very emotional and intense when I'm into someone or something, I'm very sorry, but he seems to be a sensitive and affectionate guy, he liked to write and recitate poems, he was in such a club in law school hahaha.

I asked his astrology sign out of curiosity, he's a Taurus, I've never been with one but as a cancer from Google, it seems our sexual compatibility is 95%, trust 99%, communication 80% and a match made in heaven LOL... I showed him the link and he actually googled more and said apparently Taurus and Cancer is very good, you might not be able to get rid of me so easily ! But it was all about how it's a very trusting relationship, with communication, the type that grow old together, like to spend time at home cooking, etc. a loving and affectionate couple, but it was mentioned the sex might be problematic because we might lack initiative and the relationship might be so comfortable all we do is cook, eat and get fat. I copied and pasted, said I was offended and he said yeah I saw, but to be honest it was the least of my worries. We'll see...

Glamourmilf
10-21-2017, 06:21 AM
I have a pretty good feeling about him, my phony and bullshit detectors are usually very strong. I hope it goes well lol. He actually asked me what I wanted and when I said I wasn't looking for a relationship at the moment he seemed so disappointed and then I said I'm open if it happens, but I don't have expectations because I don't like being disappointed. Whenever we talk he's always so cute and sweet though. He sent me a picture for me to pick his blazer for our first date and I said he's always distracting me talking to me so much, usually I ignore, but our conversation are really interesting and he said but when I leave you alone you're the one who comes back to me ! He then left me alone and this morning he apologized and said I'm very emotional and intense when I'm into someone or something, I'm very sorry, but he seems to be a sensitive and affectionate guy, he liked to write and recitate poems, he was in such a club in law school hahaha.

I asked his astrology sign out of curiosity, he's a Taurus, I've never been with one but as a cancer from Google, it seems our sexual compatibility is 95%, trust 99%, communication 80% and a match made in heaven LOL... I showed him the link and he actually googled more and said apparently Taurus and Cancer is very good, you might not be able to get rid of me so easily ! But it was all about how it's a very trusting relationship, with communication, the type that grow old together, like to spend time at home cooking, etc. a loving and affectionate couple, but it was mentioned the sex might be problematic because we might lack initiative and the relationship might be so comfortable all we do is cook, eat and get fat. I copied and pasted, said I was offended and he said yeah I saw, but to be honest it was the least of my worries. We'll see...

I agree with the Taurus/ Cancer match.
I'm a Taurus, and absolutely adore Cancerian men! Even my best customers on cam are cancer.
I could write a novel on Taurean men, but it would only be from my vantage point, and it wouldn't be good.
Two Taureans together= no bueno.
Although they are very loyal, which is a major plus.
Keep us posted. Best of luck. I hope it works out.:crossfing

Aurora_Sunset
10-21-2017, 04:47 PM
I'm in a super man-hatey place right now. I go there sometimes for awhile. I know it won't last, but it keeps cycling around.

I think I'm just all around in a shit mood about everything too. My cat is just too far along in kidney disease to be stable long-term. I have dropped over 20k on him in the last 3 months, doing everything possible, and it just feels like a shitty joke that he declined so quickly to the point where I can't do anything for him when I know of plenty of cats who were in worse shape when they finally went to the vet, didn't get as much treatment, and bounced back to still be alive and well years later. I'm paying for his hospital treatment to come home alright this time around, but this will have to be the last time. He'll just deteriorate again in another 2-4 weeks, because he can't be sustained on anything other than continuous IV hospital support, and I'll have to give it up and let it go at this point.

Dealing with that on top of bullshit fights with my boyfriend the last couple weeks, perverted comments during one of my vanilla jobs, and guy friends doing stupid misogynistic things that they really don't think are misogynistic... just... I can't people, especially with men, right now.

JGB2009
10-21-2017, 07:03 PM
I'm in a super man-hatey place right now. I go there sometimes for awhile. I know it won't last, but it keeps cycling around.

I think I'm just all around in a shit mood about everything too. My cat is just too far along in kidney disease to be stable long-term. I have dropped over 20k on him in the last 3 months, doing everything possible, and it just feels like a shitty joke that he declined so quickly to the point where I can't do anything for him when I know of plenty of cats who were in worse shape when they finally went to the vet, didn't get as much treatment, and bounced back to still be alive and well years later. I'm paying for his hospital treatment to come home alright this time around, but this will have to be the last time. He'll just deteriorate again in another 2-4 weeks, because he can't be sustained on anything other than continuous IV hospital support, and I'll have to give it up and let it go at this point.

Dealing with that on top of bullshit fights with my boyfriend the last couple weeks, perverted comments during one of my vanilla jobs, and guy friends doing stupid misogynistic things that they really don't think are misogynistic... just... I can't people, especially with men, right now.


Man hate has been my thing this week as well.....

baer45
10-22-2017, 01:33 PM
I do not like to lie. I feel every single time I lie, there will be more lies in order to cover the first lie. Not to montion the consequences just follow like shadows. And that's exactly what happened.

::Sad face::

whirlerz
10-22-2017, 01:39 PM
I'm so sorry to hear bout ur kitt, Aurora, & hugs

xStacey
10-22-2017, 02:05 PM
Gah I'm feeling a lot of pressure he's already inviting me to a shooting range double date with his best friend who's a lawyer at a big business law firm on Tuesday and we're meeting tomorrow. I hope the date goes well lol. But at least now I see he's serious when he meant he's looking for a relationship although we met on Tinder hahaha

seashell
10-22-2017, 04:11 PM
This is the second time I've been to Zagreb, Croatia, and it feels like deja vu. I'm spending most of my time in my airbnb, camming to catch up on bills. I'm here because of Schengen visa issues. But last time, I was on the verge of homelessness. When I finally left, I had to throw most of my belongings into a garbage bin because I couldn't afford to check a suitcase at the airport. I was hungry, had never felt so hopeless, or like such a failure.

This time, I have an apartment to go home to. I have money coming into my bank account. I have a boyfriend who will cook me a nice hot meal when I come home. I don't know how to feel, thinking about it. It's like two alternate realities, from two different lives.

charlie61
10-22-2017, 07:05 PM
Gah I'm feeling a lot of pressure he's already inviting me to a shooting range double date with his best friend who's a lawyer at a big business law firm on Tuesday and we're meeting tomorrow. I hope the date goes well lol. But at least now I see he's serious when he meant he's looking for a relationship although we met on Tinder hahaha

Add to our serious dating thread on here!

xStacey
10-22-2017, 07:41 PM
Add to our serious dating thread on here!

Haha will definitely update tomorrow after the date ! Especially since it's so rare it happens to me !

xStacey
10-22-2017, 07:42 PM
Add to our serious dating thread on here!

Haha will definitely update tomorrow after the date ! Especially since it's so rare it happens to me !

His friend's girlfriend is also a law student at the same year, at the same university as me... We're meeting tomorrow for the first time and the double date is the next day lol. He told his best friend he's known for over 10 years about me and said but she will confirm late tomorrow evening lol. I always imagine the worst and he keeps telling me I'm not at all worried. It feels so serious haha.

Oh we also talk about a lot of stuff, including books, he was talking about an author who's inspiring a lot of his work and I mentioned a book... Tonight I talked about lending it to him tomorrow and he took a picture of the book with a weird title of the author he mentioned the other time because I googled him and laughed at the name of the best-selling book, I can't believe he actually brought me a book as a gift for our first date ! How cute is that... ?!

ScarletKitten
10-23-2017, 12:16 PM
This is the second time I've been to Zagreb, Croatia, and it feels like deja vu. I'm spending most of my time in my airbnb, camming to catch up on bills. I'm here because of Schengen visa issues. But last time, I was on the verge of homelessness. When I finally left, I had to throw most of my belongings into a garbage bin because I couldn't afford to check a suitcase at the airport. I was hungry, had never felt so hopeless, or like such a failure.

This time, I have an apartment to go home to. I have money coming into my bank account. I have a boyfriend who will cook me a nice hot meal when I come home. I don't know how to feel, thinking about it. It's like two alternate realities, from two different lives.

That actually gives me hope that things do indeed get better. I've been struggling with everything lately since my place got flooded and I got displaced as a result. I lost all my furniture and some of my belongings in the flood. I've been living in this motel feeling lost and hopeless with little direction in life. But reading your post somehow shines a light for me. I hope to find my alternate reality soon. :)

Elektra Luxx
10-23-2017, 06:25 PM
I'm in a super man-hatey place right now. I go there sometimes for awhile. I know it won't last, but it keeps cycling around.

Dealing with that on top of bullshit fights with my boyfriend the last couple weeks, perverted comments during one of my vanilla jobs, and guy friends doing stupid misogynistic things that they really don't think are misogynistic... just... I can't people, especially with men, right now.


Man hate has been my thing this week as well.....

::deep breath::

Me too.

I want to leave everything behind and start over some place where people don't know who I am.

BarbieNYC
10-24-2017, 06:32 AM
I confess that I'm friends with my ex. The same awful ex who was a trash boyfriend to me the last 3-4 years.

He has matured and changed so much for the better. It's like he did a total 180. After he turned 30 something must have kicked in. I am actually proud of him for what he is doing now and the decisions he is making.

When he first came back to Cali he tried really hard to get back together with me but after some time he realized I had moved on. It took a few months for him to accept it but now we are in a good place. And he is a lifesaver helping me study for school.

Not to say I won't get sad when he starts dating someone else. Something that does make me a littke sad is that all of his couple friends that we used to go out with are getting engaged/married and he definitely is wanting to settle down soon. He even asked me if I wouldn't marry him would I consider having a child with him. It's like his biological clock is ticking. Lol

But I'm honestly happy and want to stay single for a very long time. I love school and want to focus on my career. Maybe in the future when we are older and if he hasn't found anyone we can give it a try. But not now.

xStacey
10-24-2017, 09:16 AM
The date went amazingly well. We went out to dinner at the Old Port and talked an hour past closing time and then walked outside and talked until 2:00 a.m. It wasn't too cold and since it was a Monday we were the only two people on the road the whole time. I loved it since I am not much of a people person. We kissed like teenagers but there was nothing inappropriate and when we talked about calling a Uber I said okay two ? ;) He said you made it quite clear ! And before I left he said " We are both very lucky. It's very rare people who are this nerdy and this cute like us" LOL

He actually brought me two gifts, one book that inspired him a lot and he actually went to buy a book I hadn't read yet from one of my favorite authors to surprise me... And he was 5 minutes late he said he realized he forgot his cologne back at home in Ottawa so he had to go to the pharmacy and act cute for Burberry perfume samples and brought me proof hahaha.

So he's inviting me on a double date to meet his best friend of over 10 years tonight and he wants to cook for me tomorrow before he leaves. He said nothing more, except cuddling but that is only if I want to <3 He's really sweet and not a pushy guy, anyway I have my periods I think it's a sign god doesn't want me to sleep with him right away, he might be relationship material so I'm playing the teasing game for the first time ever outside of work I think... It's driving him crazy haha I'll post more detail later on in the Serious dating thread... :)

ScarletKitten
10-24-2017, 10:27 AM
^Awwww, that is so adorable! I'm happy for you. :) He sounds like a total sweetheart. <3

My confession for today: I am supposed to be getting ready for a job interview, but instead I'm sitting here on Stripperweb.

miss.a.p1600
10-24-2017, 07:27 PM
^^ I'd do the same shit....probably surfing sSW at the interview

And speaking of interviews I had one.....And the boss is smoking hot! As soon as I saw him in person I realized he looked pretty attractive and thought - I'd fuck him from sun up to sun down....omg!

I hope I didn't have the look of thirst in my eyes....

ScarletKitten
10-24-2017, 07:46 PM
^Omg! Girl! If I were you I would accept the job just to fuck him. lmaooo

Did they offer you the job? Hop on that shit!

miss.a.p1600
10-24-2017, 08:50 PM
^^^Yesssss!

Strategically bend over will opening the fridge in the break room. And eventually culminating to an impromptu meeting in his office. Close the door behind me, push everything off the desk in one full swoop, push him onto the desk, and hop up on that - literally ... lol

And my x-ray vision tells me he has a big thick one....

IDK yet...still waiting to hear back. Plus I really am reluctant to be working for a boss when I feel like I should be the boss and have people working for me.

*sigh*

Elektra Luxx
10-27-2017, 02:38 PM
If I would have thought about it sooner I would have gotten wasted drunk tonight, but I made plans with my younger brother. We're going out to eat and I'm going to make sure they sell alcohol there because I need a something to chill me the fuck out.

baer45
10-27-2017, 03:54 PM
If I would have thought about it sooner I would have gotten wasted drunk tonight, but I made plans with my younger brother. We're going out to eat and I'm going to make sure they sell alcohol there because I need a something to chill me the fuck out.

Just don't drink and drive. it's nice to have some time with family. Forget about the unhappy things, enjoy the moment.

I am having a few friends come over for "Stranger things" night.

WendiStarr
10-27-2017, 06:43 PM
The cute nerdy client is getting to me. I have my period and feel crampy and unsexy. I offered bj instead and he said that he just wanted to cuddle. He went to his room, came back out in superhero pj pants and we cuddled on couch for 2 hours watching TV. I'm not used to cuddling with escort clients. It's always wham, bam, thank you ma'm with them. I do cuddling as one of my other gigs but I always keep that seperate and never have sex with cuddle clients. Something about this guy is getting to me and I should probably either get him to be a platonic cuddle client or take cuddling off the table or I don't know. I've never had this issue before.

MistressX
10-27-2017, 08:18 PM
I got engaged a couple months ago to a man I dated from 2009-2012 who left me for another woman (on my birthday) in 2012. Long story but we reconnected under strange coincidental circumstances almost 6 years later and realised we were still madly in love. We were talking for 3 weeks before he asked me. And I said yes.. haha.. I know I'm crazy but I've never loved a single person since him.. And of all the men I have loved, never anyone like him. He's changed a lot thankfully but he's so much older.. Hes almost 60 now and I have precious little time with him. We will be married in May of 2019. Yay :)

lilylilylily
10-27-2017, 08:20 PM
Congratulations!

I orderered a veggie calzone from restaurant and went to pick it up to eat at home. I noticed something tasted off about it but scarfed 80% of it down then I decided to look down at it and realized it was a pepperoni calzone. Yuck. Next time I will for sure check what I'm eating no matter how hungry I am lol

ScarletKitten
10-28-2017, 04:09 PM
Being alone during this time of year is the absolute worst. I guess I'm just going to cuddle with my kitty cat. <3

xStacey
10-28-2017, 06:02 PM
I’m still not sure how I ended up in a serious relationship one week after meeting a guy and we still haven’t slept together. He’s already checking out vacation plans for us this Christmas holidays, talked about me to his sister and mom, wants me to meet them...

He’s literally perfect, super smart, a huge nerd, but well-spoken, extremely good-looking, muscular, he cooks, is caring, poetic, I thought maybe it’s because he has a small dick but I saw it and it wasn’t small at all I was like wtf... I met his best friends and they said he’s super picky, had groupies when he was a prof but he wasn’t interested. He doesn’t have one-night stand and had two 5-year long relationships.... I’m not sure if this is reality?

miss.a.p1600
10-28-2017, 07:45 PM
Being alone during this time of year is the absolute worst. I guess I'm just going to cuddle with my kitty cat. <3

You're not alone....you have the ladies of SW!

Vyanka
10-28-2017, 11:52 PM
I’m still not sure how I ended up in a serious relationship one week after meeting a guy and we still haven’t slept together. He’s already checking out vacation plans for us this Christmas holidays, talked about me to his sister and mom, wants me to meet them...

He’s literally perfect, super smart, a huge nerd, but well-spoken, extremely good-looking, muscular, he cooks, is caring, poetic, I thought maybe it’s because he has a small dick but I saw it and it wasn’t small at all I was like wtf... I met his best friends and they said he’s super picky, had groupies when he was a prof but he wasn’t interested. He doesn’t have one-night stand and had two 5-year long relationships.... I’m not sure if this is reality?

You maybe hit the jackpot? :-D

whirlerz
10-29-2017, 01:06 AM
Super HAWT wimmens @ last nite's partee:hyper::hypnotize

Aurora_Sunset
10-30-2017, 12:32 PM
After his most recent, and pretty unsuccessful hospitalization, I've finally decided to let my sick kitty go. I spent the whole day with him yesterday, knowing he didn't have much time left, and made the call today to schedule at-home euthanasia. I wasn't quite ready to tell them to come out immediately, but honestly would've liked to have it done tomorrow. But they can't come out until Wednesday morning. I know I should cherish having more time with him, and I wanted today, but honestly, I think another full day of watching him sit around being sick, not wanting to cuddle, not eating voluntarily, and barely being able to use the litter box without my assistance... is just gonna be even harder than getting it over with tomorrow. I don't think I'll ever be ready to say goodbye but at this point he's not himself anymore and I hate watching him suffer. I refuse to put him back in the car and have it done on a sterile hospital table though. The only time he's acted like himself after returning home this time around is the very first night. He wandered all over the place, was super social, and obviously happy to be home. I want him to pass peacefully in his happy place.

ScarletKitten
10-30-2017, 04:39 PM
^Awww, Aurora, I'm so sorry. :'( My heart breaks for you and your precious kitty. That's so difficult and heart-wrenching. But I know you're making the right decision......

BarbieNYC
10-30-2017, 04:49 PM
Aurora i am so so sorry :'( sending love and hugs to you and your kitty

baer45
10-30-2017, 05:27 PM
Sorry to hear that. Letting beloved pet go is the hardest thing. It's the right decision, kitty will no longer suffer after this.

vanessa_mtl
10-30-2017, 08:57 PM
^^I'm so sorry

lilylilylily
10-30-2017, 09:03 PM
I'm sorry Aurora, Big hugs xx