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carmen_b
08-25-2019, 10:08 AM
This is absolutely fucking brilliant and after my dating diet / man free month ( or more ) , I may try this !
I think there is just a quirk to dating apps that makes them NOT really work.
I think the ease of meeting plays a mental trick on people ( men I guess since that's my experience ). They seem to not VALUE a meeting / date as meeting " organically " or in a non-tech focused way.
I honestly wish I had started driving for Uber/Lyft when I was single. I never realized the number of times non-creepy people would ask me to just turn off the app and come party with them. Men and women. I've been invited on boats, to outdoor concerts, out to group get-togethers at bars, to smoke weed. Individual guys who do it have also been super cute as well. Not too long ago, I had this middle-aged, rich, drunk golfer guy offer me a bunch of money to caddy for him the rest of the weekend, and then offer me $200 to turn the app off at the strip club I was taking him to and just come party with him and throw money at the dancers for an hour, because none of his friends wanted to go out with him that night. You know I could've played him at least the rest of the night, if not all weekend, like any other strip club or escort client, when he had no idea who/what he was talking to... ::)
If I was single, had no responsibilities.... I'd be snatching these opportunities up. I used to sit at home wanting ways to organically meet random people/guys, and find crazy adventures to live out my youth, but without going to an overcrowded bar alone and with no plan... If I'd known that half the time, I could hop in my car on a Friday or Saturday, make good money, and then end the night with an invitation to go do something fun and have a memory/story, possibly hot hookup without trolling Tinder.... Maaaan, I woulda been all over this.
I wish I had pulled the trigger when I broke up with my last bf, instead of constantly saying I wanted to do it, but dragging my feet and just picking up endless, shitty OT at the vanilla job until I had no choice and absolutely needed the money this year. I was scared... but now Uber-ing is no big deal. I meet way more cool people that I would totally go party with than I do creepy dudes (even if they do still exist).
Glamourmilf
08-26-2019, 08:53 AM
Today is that shitty 'friend's' birthday.
The chick that wouldn't rent an apartment to me, when I was going to be homeless.
The one I forgave.
The one I mentioned, who came out here for a visit. Then rushed me through lunch and shopping.
The one who, even though she's rich, sent me a dinky change purse for my birthday.
I've decided not to send her the beautiful crystal bracelet, and angel necklace that I bought almost 6 months ago.
We usually call each other on our birthdays.
But, honestly, I don't want to.
I'm not even sure that I want to send a text.
I mean. It would be curteous, but hypocritical.
She doesn't know yet that I've cut her from my life.
She just thinks the reason I don't call is because I'm busy with work.
What are your opinions?
*Her cheating live in boyfriend follows me on Instagram.
So, I can't pretend that I'm dead. Lol!
WendiStarr
08-27-2019, 04:29 PM
I miss coffee so bad but whenever I try to drink just a tiny bit I get bad cramps so it's a no-go for me.
miss.a.p1600
08-27-2019, 09:46 PM
My family members are dysfunctional......ALL of them!!!!
Help! Lol!
Glamourmilf
08-28-2019, 06:03 AM
I confess that I love putting cheap men in their place.
I had an inquiry about a massage appointment for this weekend.
He asked if my rates were negotiable?:O:O:O
I tell him, that yes, they are.
IF, he will forfeit a portion of HIS paycheck this week, so he doesn't meet his weekly money goal either.
He messaged me back, lol! Ok, I know you're worth every penny.
Let's do it.
* I get the haggling dance.
Still doesn't make it any more pleasant for me.>:(
WendiStarr
08-28-2019, 07:03 AM
^ Yuck! Just block him. Price hagglers make terrible clients anyways because they will forever be trying to get a cheaper deal or rip you off. You'll always have to count to make sure he gave accurate donation before appt, because those are notorious for shorting women.
I do not like baby's daddy right now. He's such an inconsiderate prick. I didn't tell him the baby's gender. He can stay in the dark until she's born. I've wasted too many tears on his bullshit.
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-28-2019, 08:11 AM
Funny bizarre confession-
Last night my dog was making odd noises in his sleep & a couple hours later he was very still. I actually thought he might have died from a seizure (he's really old) so I shook him awake to check if he was still alive. I was actually shocked as fuck that he woke up. (I was pretty sick last night so I was going to just push him onto the floor if he died. Didn't have the energy to deal with it..)
Confession- I wouldn't have felt bad about breaking the news to Boyfriend that way. "OH Jack's on the floor. He ded."
carmen_b
08-28-2019, 02:48 PM
The Tinder guy who said he wanted frequent Brewery Dates and to be used orally is back in town tomorrow ?
Thoughts?
( I do need $500 more for the month and need to leave a couple days for the club to be safe )
Too bad he didn't offer to pay . Would save me a trip out of town.
Leaning towards not seeing him ( without payment ) . He does want something specific ( big on the being objectified ). I like what he wants but not sure if I dig it for free for a traveler v.s. someone I could see regularly.
carmen_b
08-28-2019, 02:48 PM
What is UP with me today ? Today was supposed to be ultra productive. I've worked an hour maybe ugh.
I tanned, showered , took the dog to the park , procrastinated swimming laps, and then went to eat.
Glamourmilf
08-29-2019, 09:00 AM
^ Yuck! Just block him. Price hagglers make terrible clients anyways because they will forever be trying to get a cheaper deal or rip you off. You'll always have to count to make sure he gave accurate donation before appt, because those are notorious for shorting women.
.
You're probably right about that.
I will report back.
I had another guy message me who I've seen a bunch of times.
However, he doesn't remember that he made an appointment, then ghosted me the last time. Probably because I called HIM to let him know I was back in town.
All the clients I contacted first flaked on me too.
I already knew that one should never contact customers first.
Ah, live and learn.
carmen_b
08-29-2019, 09:13 AM
^ Now that you've put him in his place though .... he might be ok to see . I wouldn't offer him a prime spot ( no heavy traffic times or doing makeup just for him ) but if it's only been one warning .... maybe ok . If he is high maintenance in ANY other way , definitely ignore list him.
JGB2009
08-29-2019, 05:46 PM
I called and I hung up on you when you answered!!!! LOL did you know it was me?
Glamourmilf
08-29-2019, 06:55 PM
^ Now that you've put him in his place though .... he might be ok to see . I wouldn't offer him a prime spot ( no heavy traffic times or doing makeup just for him ) but if it's only been one warning .... maybe ok . If he is high maintenance in ANY other way , definitely ignore list him.
He's already ghosted me, right after I quoted my rate.
Damn cheap California guys!!
Glamourmilf
08-30-2019, 08:43 AM
I confess that I love putting cheap men in their place.
I had an inquiry about a massage appointment for this weekend.
He asked if my rates were negotiable?:O:O:O
I tell him, that yes, they are.
IF, he will forfeit a portion of HIS paycheck this week, so he doesn't meet his weekly money goal either.
He messaged me back, lol! Ok, I know you're worth every penny.
Let's do it.
* I get the haggling dance.
Still doesn't make it any more pleasant for me.>:(
This dude kept asking me to call him, so we could 'talk' about the massage.
What the hell do we need to talk about?
I'm glad I called him.
He's living in a dumpy Apt that I almost rented a long time ago.
It has a reputation for gang bangers.
I looked up this dude. Turns out, he has a record for theft at JC Penney.
He's only 30.
The conversation started off normal.
As in "I'm a construction worker, and my back always hurts. Can you help me?"
Then, quickly turns to, " Do you have pretty feet? Do you mind if I get an erection?
Will you send me a picture?"
:-\
Ugh. Why? Just why?????
carmen_b
08-30-2019, 11:50 AM
Omg , nightmare !!! ^^^
Yes, run, haha!
I never speak to them via phone.
Text only.
I HATE asking for more pics beyond ad pics ( mine do show at least half a face sometimes I even post face in more mellow ads ).
:(
They just don’t GET IT sometimes. Being high maintenance is just such bad form.
carmen_b
08-30-2019, 03:14 PM
What's a girl got to do to get some dick ? I am finding myself genuinely asking / curious / baffled. ;/
8-10 days ago B said he wasn't giving up on me ( I was traveling heavily and wanted to tell him I was coming back to town very soon ) and now it's crickets for 48 hours when I offered him Mon. or Tues. evening this week. He has children so I thought planning 3-4 days ahead is best for him. ;(
whirlerz
08-30-2019, 03:38 PM
Well I must confess I'm looking forward to the guy coming over to cut the lawn tomorrow, since I've a crush.:-[
I kinda wanted to do a yard sale Sun, but not sure now, it's the holiday..
& debating going to RenFair, it's the last day Mon.
carmen_b
08-30-2019, 04:36 PM
^ I see you going out with a lemonade , daisy dukes, white shirt with tie under boobs. Haha
whirlerz
08-30-2019, 07:09 PM
^ I see you going out with a lemonade , daisy dukes, white shirt with tie under boobs. Haha
Lol!
I have a sexy, cleavage showing, white halter, & yea jean shorts, so you nailed it!;D
WendiStarr
09-01-2019, 09:59 AM
It's rainy and overcast today. Days like these make me lazy and sleepy. I took a nap 2 hours after I woke up.
ravenskyy
09-01-2019, 10:48 AM
My depression and anxiety are really high today. I haven't cammed in a week and I really don't want to right now. I want to dance so badly but I don't want to deal with the racism and difficulties of Indiana. I need to lose weight but I have 0 motivation to do so.
I just turned 27 and the thought of being a year older, saddens me. I don't want to be 27. I want to be 23 again. I want to go back to the days when I was happy. When I was dancing and making lots of money. Hanging out with friends. Taking my kids out every week for family fun. I miss when my husband and I first started dating. Every moment with him felt amazing.
I'm so fucking sad and empty now. I just want to cry.
Nyla19
09-01-2019, 12:06 PM
My depression and anxiety are really high today. I haven't cammed in a week and I really don't want to right now. I want to dance so badly but I don't want to deal with the racism and difficulties of Indiana. I need to lose weight but I have 0 motivation to do so.
I just turned 27 and the thought of being a year older, saddens me. I don't want to be 27. I want to be 23 again. I want to go back to the days when I was happy. When I was dancing and making lots of money. Hanging out with friends. Taking my kids out every week for family fun. I miss when my husband and I first started dating. Every moment with him felt amazing.
I'm so fucking sad and empty now. I just want to cry.
I'm sorry, hang in there. That sucks about the racism in your club, geez!
chanzep
09-01-2019, 02:34 PM
I'm sorry, I hope things get better for you.
charlie61
09-02-2019, 08:37 PM
Omg, i've been MIA on here lately. Irresponsible mod!
Glamourmilf
09-02-2019, 10:40 PM
This dude kept asking me to call him, so we could 'talk' about the massage.
What the hell do we need to talk about?
I'm glad I called him.
He's living in a dumpy Apt that I almost rented a long time ago.
It has a reputation for gang bangers.
I looked up this dude. Turns out, he has a record for theft at JC Penney.
He's only 30.
The conversation started off normal.
As in "I'm a construction worker, and my back always hurts. Can you help me?"
Then, quickly turns to, " Do you have pretty feet? Do you mind if I get an erection?
Will you send me a picture?"
:-\
Ugh. Why? Just why?????
I let him make an appt., even though I already knew exactly what he would do.
It was for this morning at 11.
When I texted him, to get the apt number, naturally he ghosted me.>:(
As predicted, I got an apology text at 6 p.m. He said he forgot. ::) Asked if he could reschedule.
Yeah, uh, huh.
Blocked!!:beat:
carmen_b
09-03-2019, 09:33 AM
Omg , loser ! ^
Gross
Did you run the # on okcaller ?
Other providers may have posted a time waster warning or you can now !
Glamourmilf
09-04-2019, 06:38 AM
Omg , loser ! ^
Gross
Did you run the # on okcaller ?
Other providers may have posted a time waster warning or you can now !
No, I didn't. But I will now. Thanks for the tip.:great:
I would say, that's what I get for trusting a 30 year old.
However, every guy has flaked on me.
Every.....Single....One.
It's the locals. They are a bit ' off'.
When the snowbirds return in a couple of months, things should be back to normal.
lynn2009
09-04-2019, 09:21 PM
I am renting a townhouse now and I did not realize how big it was. 17 rooms, 3 floors. I wanted more space for once, but now that I am here it is just creeping me out. I kept all the lights on downstairs and I'm keeping the adjacent bathroom light on too. It would be so easy for someone to be in the house with me and I'm not looking to die this weekend.
seashell
09-05-2019, 03:34 AM
I am renting a townhouse now and I did not realize how big it was. 17 rooms, 3 floors. I wanted more space for once, but now that I am here it is just creeping me out. I kept all the lights on downstairs and I'm keeping the adjacent bathroom light on too. It would be so easy for someone to be in the house with me and I'm not looking to die this weekend.
I feel nervous being alone in homes that are too spacious, too! I love a cozy little one bedroom or studio.
seashell
09-05-2019, 03:41 AM
My confession is that I often judge my male friends for going out a lot or hanging out with different girls. But then I remember that almost everyone I hang out with is an attractive guy, and I'm a professional heaux. We're all playing the same game. I probably play it better than they do. XD
lynn2009
09-05-2019, 11:05 AM
I feel nervous being alone in homes that are too spacious, too! I love a cozy little one bedroom or studio.
It's still kind of creepy, but we are enjoying it more today. When I run around all the empty hallways, he likes to chase me and it is fun.
My new confession is that I'm being so lazy. Does anyone else feel lile you need to relax productively on vacation, like reading, sight seeing, etc.? A lot of that isnt fun by yourself and I really want to do nothing but lounge anyway. I've watched so much tv today...
Elektra Luxx
09-05-2019, 01:37 PM
My new confession is that I'm being so lazy. Does anyone else feel like you need to relax productively on vacation, like reading, sight seeing, etc.?
Same here. I'd rather go sightseeing by myself. I'm I go to a museum or art exhibition, I like to take my time read the information of each exhibit, but Bf or family are always in a rush to get through to move on to something else, It's not enjoyable. Same for the beach. I like to take my time. When I go to the beach by myself, I park where I'm 1/4 mile away from people in to relax, take my my top off to soak up the sun or walk and look for seashells and it never fails some guy, some family, some teens, will park 50 ft away me. WTF!!! You have the entire rest of the beach!!
carmen_b
09-05-2019, 01:55 PM
I consider a day of heavy lounging part of a vacation. I wouldn't be too hard on yourself for burning one day on a TV binge. ;)
It's still kind of creepy, but we are enjoying it more today. When I run around all the empty hallways, he likes to chase me and it is fun.
My new confession is that I'm being so lazy. Does anyone else feel lile you need to relax productively on vacation, like reading, sight seeing, etc.? A lot of that isnt fun by yourself and I really want to do nothing but lounge anyway. I've watched so much tv today...
Aurora_Sunset
09-05-2019, 02:05 PM
It's still kind of creepy, but we are enjoying it more today. When I run around all the empty hallways, he likes to chase me and it is fun.
My new confession is that I'm being so lazy. Does anyone else feel lile you need to relax productively on vacation, like reading, sight seeing, etc.? A lot of that isnt fun by yourself and I really want to do nothing but lounge anyway. I've watched so much tv today...
I am all about vacations being vacations. My family loves to pack as much as possible into trips, and it's not relaxing. Sightseeing or participating in experiences you wouldn't get at home is a good trip, don't get me wrong, but there's something to be said for just getting away from it all to simply veg out. One of my all-time favorite vacations, my friend and I wasted the entire first day drinking and talking on our hotel balcony to the point where we missed the beach being open. We wandered when we wanted to, napped when we wanted to, and I never even touched my vacation book. It was the true definition of vacation, imo. Wish I could do it again.
carmen_b
09-05-2019, 02:14 PM
^ 100% !!!
My friend is a nightmare to travel with ( my view ) . Haha. She is an " action " vacationer.
I always split it. If I'm not lounging 50% of the time, it is NOT a vacation. We can call it something else ( a trip , an excursion, ect. ) but not a vacation.
I love a day where it's split with things like relaxing over a coffee , reading / veg. , then in the afternoon go see something interesting.
peppermint
09-05-2019, 03:52 PM
^Exactly! I want to go do fun stuff and see exciting things, but I also want time to relax. If it's all go, go, go, it feels like work, and then I need a vacation from vacation. Who wants that?
My confession? I've been away from work for so long, that I'm scared I don't know how to do it anymore. A tiny part of me feels like I'll be amazing, maybe better than before? But mostly I feel like I shouldn't even bother going back.
MissTay
09-05-2019, 04:27 PM
This guy on POF has offered me $100 for a pair of my panties. He has said if I take a video me taking them off (i dont have to show my face or anything just prove it's real). He'll pay me $200. I heard that is a thing & really thinking how easy $ that is.
Elle:)
09-05-2019, 05:09 PM
sometimes I have the feeling that everything turn out the opposite way of how I want it. It's so underwhelming.
BambiCutie
09-05-2019, 05:56 PM
This guy on POF has offered me $100 for a pair of my panties. He has said if I take a video me taking them off (i dont have to show my face or anything just prove it's real). He'll pay me $200. I heard that is a thing & really thinking how easy $ that is.
I would be careful doing that, as there are some real creeps on POF. I believe there are some threads on here that explain how to sell used panties, so it doesn't trace back to you. Would also be slightly po at someone setting a firm price, rather than sending a proper request. Personally suggest requesting more than $200 for a video and used panties.
(Confession)
Have a strange fetish for latex and gas masks, going on a few years now. Think I've gone crazy, but damn do I wish to indulge!
miss.a.p1600
09-06-2019, 05:23 AM
So I’m on the paid texting site.
And the rules say not to ask for gifts
But wtf!?! I’m not trying to text hella pics and not get paid. And these guys are acting cheap by not offering to gift for pics.
So if I can’t ask then what do I do? .... demand, hypnotize, etc?
Glamourmilf
09-06-2019, 08:19 AM
I am renting a townhouse now and I did not realize how big it was. 17 rooms, 3 floors. I wanted more space for once, but now that I am here it is just creeping me out. I kept all the lights on downstairs and I'm keeping the adjacent bathroom light on too. It would be so easy for someone to be in the house with me and I'm not looking to die this weekend.
17 rooms. Wow! That IS huge!
I used to rent this freestanding condo that was 2200 sq ft. It was in a guard gated country club, so I somehow had a false sense of security.
I had 2 yappy dogs at the time, so I never felt scared.
I miss that place so much. If only for just the privacy aspect. I love to sprawl out.
My confession, is that when friends rapid text me from early morning all throughout the day ( even though they KNOW that I'm working and can't talk).
I wait until late in the evening and just text back an emoji, or worse.....A Bitmoji. :rotfl:
I hate texting so much.
Well, if you don't listen when I've told you a hundred times. You're phone is gonna look like this.
:3dglasses:chat::censored::cold::cop::couple::curl ers::cupid:
Now, cut it out!!!
BambiCutie
09-06-2019, 09:30 AM
I hate texting so much.
I admit, I absolutely hate texting as well . One reason why it is such a pain in the ass keeping up with those new friends who rely on it like a second leg. They typically end up playing the a cold shoulder game and avoid texting back for days as punishment. (Didn't last long) I'd rather they call or meet up for coffee, rather than start a conversation through text. Least then I would have my pretend happy face/personality on go mode, than having to sit there awkwardly thinking of what to respond with. Least there would be an hour to prepare and pull my ass out from the introvert state. ;D
carmen_b
09-06-2019, 10:11 AM
I'm so tired and worn out after one night of dancing.
Yes, one. Lol Not a typo.
Aurora_Sunset
09-06-2019, 01:02 PM
I applied to several jobs yesterday and already got an email back from a credit union asking my availability for a phone interview. Honestly, the job doesn't seem bad. It was even rated highly by employees on Indeed. I'm just dragging my feet on responding, because I just... don't want it. I don't want any vanilla job. Nothing appeals to me. The thought of working for greedy companies run by shitty management that smiles to your face while stabbing you in the back cuz you're just a number, while getting paid peanuts.... I can't stomach it. Even "good jobs" have some level of this... I don't know anyone who works for an honest place. I'd rather sell my soul for something that at least pays fucking well.
That's at least what I appreciated about sex work... I got fucking PAID, and at least I could be honest about the transaction. None of this bureaucratic BS where you have posters on the walls saying "We're the company that CARES!" while management is deliberately blocking raises, buying themselves private jets, and running you into the dirt. If I'm still gonna get fucked like the ho I used to be, I should be getting paid like one.
Aurora_Sunset
09-06-2019, 01:05 PM
I wish I had more in-person stripper/SW friends. I'm so glad this forum exists, but nothing could beat having a glass of wine and venting with someone who really "gets" it.
NitaBaby
09-06-2019, 01:24 PM
I applied to several jobs yesterday and already got an email back from a credit union asking my availability for a phone interview. Honestly, the job doesn't seem bad. It was even rated highly by employees on Indeed. I'm just dragging my feet on responding, because I just... don't want it. I don't want any vanilla job. Nothing appeals to me. The thought of working for greedy companies run by shitty management that smiles to your face while stabbing you in the back cuz you're just a number, while getting paid peanuts.... I can't stomach it. Even "good jobs" have some level of this... I don't know anyone who works for an honest place. I'd rather sell my soul for something that at least pays fucking well.
That's at least what I appreciated about sex work... I got fucking PAID, and at least I could be honest about the transaction. None of this bureaucratic BS where you have posters on the walls saying "We're the company that CARES!" while management is deliberately blocking raises, buying themselves private jets, and running you into the dirt. If I'm still gonna get fucked like the ho I used to be, I should be getting paid like one.
Alllllll of this. The job hunt, the "do I even want to respond?", the "passion, people, and perseverance" posters plastered in the break rooms......SW has it's ups and downs but at least you don't have to do the old monkey dance during that initial interview, lying about how much you love people and solving problems. Or fake nice like you give a fuck.
miss.a.p1600
09-07-2019, 05:58 AM
I applied to several jobs yesterday and already got an email back from a credit union asking my availability for a phone interview. Honestly, the job doesn't seem bad. It was even rated highly by employees on Indeed. I'm just dragging my feet on responding, because I just... don't want it. I don't want any vanilla job. Nothing appeals to me. The thought of working for greedy companies run by shitty management that smiles to your face while stabbing you in the back cuz you're just a number, while getting paid peanuts.... I can't stomach it. Even "good jobs" have some level of this... I don't know anyone who works for an honest place. I'd rather sell my soul for something that at least pays fucking well.
That's at least what I appreciated about sex work... I got fucking PAID, and at least I could be honest about the transaction. None of this bureaucratic BS where you have posters on the walls saying "We're the company that CARES!" while management is deliberately blocking raises, buying themselves private jets, and running you into the dirt. If I'm still gonna get fucked like the ho I used to be, I should be getting paid like one.
lots of times I felt like I was being shoved, bent over backwards then fucked by sociopathic “management” .... in the ass .... unlubed
Glamourmilf
09-07-2019, 06:49 AM
I admit, I absolutely hate texting as well . One reason why it is such a pain in the ass keeping up with those new friends who rely on it like a second leg. They typically end up playing the a cold shoulder game and avoid texting back for days as punishment. (Didn't last long) I'd rather they call or meet up for coffee, rather than start a conversation through text. Least then I would have my pretend happy face/personality on go mode, than having to sit there awkwardly thinking of what to respond with. Least there would be an hour to prepare and pull my ass out from the introvert state. ;D
I hate having to pull myself out of introvert state. It annoys me to have plans of any kind.
I'm meeting up with a friend for coffee later today.
Only because he cut my hair last week, and I didn't have cash on me. So, I promised to pay him today.
:-\
I don't even type when I'm camming.
Plus, the keyboard on my phone is so tiny, that it's hard to text.
And voice to text is crap, because I always have to proofread it before sending.
JGB2009
09-08-2019, 08:32 PM
I hate sex scenes and kissing in movies. If I wanted to see that I would go do it myself!!!!
seashell
09-09-2019, 06:16 AM
I hate sex scenes and kissing in movies. If I wanted to see that I would go do it myself!!!!
I love it, but now that I'm single, it makes me jealous XD