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Glamourmilf
11-15-2019, 09:15 AM
^ Mail yourself something . Use a friends return addy.
Make sure you need to sign so he needs to ring. ;)
Great idea. Thanks for the suggestion.
Will report back.
Elektra Luxx
11-15-2019, 06:46 PM
I'm spending a lot of time with a particular biker-looking guy at work. We eat lunch almost everyday together and today I brought lunch for both of us. He's married and his wife is absolutely beautiful and they have two kids. I have a really like our time together. He listens to what I have to say and he makes me laugh.
Although when we're in a group of people he's always talking vulgar and he directs it at me. I know he's joking around, but don't like it because he gets too graphic. The other day he talked about giving me a toe curling orgasm. I just ignore him.
miss.a.p1600
11-15-2019, 07:21 PM
^damn! He must have no fear of HR repercussions
carmen_b
11-16-2019, 12:49 PM
^ Aw. He might be taken and hiding it ? Or maybe just started to see someone?
Those are just the scenarios I can think of for a 180 turn .......
Do you know his situation much at all ?
carmen_b
11-16-2019, 03:40 PM
I'll confess I was a little jealous seeing this man ( acquaintance ) I know return to his wife after pulling the same mid life crisis B.S. my partner did last Aug.
I assume things were different and varied ( she probably was willing to speak to him and they have children making things different ). Eh.
I have a feeling lately about being grossed out by men a lot . I felt jealousy because I saw this a week ago and kind of was hit by the thought " oh .... some of them come back .... mine just didn't ".
JGB2009
11-17-2019, 07:16 PM
I confess I'm about to tell this fool that I am back with a certain someone. Perhaps he will leave me the fuck alone!!!!!
carmen_b
11-17-2019, 10:34 PM
My head was all over the place in Hawaii but I think part of what I came back much earlier is that I was envisioning myself slip with boundaries with the former SD. We have a complex relationship ( if I ever really needed anything he would help ) . There were some cuddling involved . I was exhausted. He wanted to me to stay at his place a few days and I was tempted . It was such a mistake to go over there in the first place ( probably speaking both about his condo and the island itself ).
The job I went out on had an issue and was horrible.
I worked for months to have the time / money to travel in Dec. / Jan. and I didn’t want to compromise that work !
miss.a.p1600
11-18-2019, 06:26 AM
A part of me is horny and want male pleasures but the other part of me is like do I want to be all open n vulnerable to a guy.
I want to change things around and have a better track record with men. Or I guess find better selection of men so my track record with men will be much better.
NitaBaby
11-18-2019, 07:25 AM
What if dealing with entitled customers is worse than dealing with entitled dicks.
I can block entitled dicks.
I seriously hope I enjoy stupid customers (with guaranteed hourly pay) more than I enjoy stupid guys (who may or may not pay). The jury is out tho.
miss.a.p1600
11-19-2019, 09:49 AM
So I’m feeling like I need to have orgasms but still single n celibate at current moment so instead of waking up early like I planned, I lay in bed So that I could engage in solo pleasures.
Then the guy I went out with last week was like “did you wake up on time?”
I’m like “it’s a long story”
And now he actually wants to hear the story.
Bruh! I can’t reveal all that yet.....
WendiStarr
11-19-2019, 11:44 AM
I ate a bag of Clancy's apple chips from Aldi in one sitting. In my defense the bags are only 2.5 oz. They are just so damn tasty and as an added bonus, I swear they make my coochie area smell like apples.
KariSwitch
11-19-2019, 02:53 PM
I have such a gym crush on the one female trainer at my gym. I've barely talked to her, but went total stripper mode on her today. First on accident, then on purpose. Just got outta the shower at the gym, and was back at the locker and one of my favorite songs came on. Just did a little minor booty shaking, and caught a glimpse of the girl at the mirror putting on some make-up and looking at me. Totally caught her looking, and she laughed, turn a little red, and said she caught me dancing out of the corner of her eye. So then stripper/tease mode kicked in, and my 10 second leg lotion routine turned into a couple minutes routine. She was trying not to look, but she definitely was. It felt nice teasing someone I actually wanted to tease...
miss.a.p1600
11-19-2019, 04:40 PM
I used to date this guy who was very well known and wealthy.
Well turns out he had a small dick, was a bad lover, was a womanizer, acted recklessly, and in the end he lost a lot of money.
He apologized and tried to get back with me but I didn’t want to deal with his shit and I figured he hadn’t changed one bit
Ifyouseekamy
11-19-2019, 09:41 PM
^^^Karmas a bitch.
I slept in today. I need to start getting up “early”. Such a bad stripper habit to break.
“Early to bed, early to rise...makes a woman wealthy and wise.”
carmen_b
11-19-2019, 09:44 PM
Yeah, we will need an immediate update on this situation. ;)
I have such a gym crush on the one female trainer at my gym. I've barely talked to her, but went total stripper mode on her today. First on accident, then on purpose. Just got outta the shower at the gym, and was back at the locker and one of my favorite songs came on. Just did a little minor booty shaking, and caught a glimpse of the girl at the mirror putting on some make-up and looking at me. Totally caught her looking, and she laughed, turn a little red, and said she caught me dancing out of the corner of her eye. So then stripper/tease mode kicked in, and my 10 second leg lotion routine turned into a couple minutes routine. She was trying not to look, but she definitely was. It felt nice teasing someone I actually wanted to tease...
carmen_b
11-19-2019, 09:45 PM
Sometimes I think having the small dick is what motivates them to do better ( out Alpha ) in other ways ..........
I used to date this guy who was very well known and wealthy.
Well turns out he had a small dick, was a bad lover, was a womanizer, acted recklessly, and in the end he lost a lot of money.
He apologized and tried to get back with me but I didn’t want to deal with his shit and I figured he hadn’t changed one bit
miss.a.p1600
11-19-2019, 10:00 PM
^he wasn’t good at oral sex either
I think for me it was just the excitement of being with a high status guy.
I remember him coming to my dorm picking me up for a date in his new Mercedes. He was THE guy on campus. My first time riding in a new luxury car. He even let me drive it a few times and it was pretty interesting feeling to be 19 having people stare as I got out that car.
Idk. Maybe that was my karma for being superficial but at the same time I feel like everyone should have moments where they feel abundant.
I was abundant but just with the wrong guy.
miss.a.p1600
11-19-2019, 10:17 PM
I wanted to lay my head on his chest and get closer to him
But my dumb ass blew it by throwing up/not handling my liquor
Maybe next time.
Oh he has a beard and I’ve never kissed a guy with a beard
queenelayliah
11-19-2019, 11:37 PM
52332
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Basically how i feel right now
miss.a.p1600
11-20-2019, 07:02 AM
Thanks kamy!
I confess: I am imagining experiencing good dick for once in my life
And I want it so good that I want to schedule dick appointments
miss.a.p1600
11-20-2019, 06:34 PM
Yo! He sent me text saying he was thinking about me...then that he liked me.
Um “Siri how do I respond to this???”
MissTay
11-20-2019, 06:48 PM
Remember this?
I ran into Mr. Hot Chocolate FedEx guy when I was out yesterday.
We past each other while driving a few blocks from my house. Nice to see that he's still on this route.
He leaned into the windshield, gave a big wave, and flashed those pearly whites. ;D
Aw, I want him even MORE now!
I don't get my checks via FedEx anymore.
So, I'm going to have to figure out a way to order something via FedEx.
But, what?
Any suggestions would be helpful.
Thanks in advance.:)
So this just happened today. I thought of this post! I had a delivery from UPS and it was this hella fine black guy. I thought it was a NFL player delivering a package at first haha. He delivered something for me. It's the first time I've gotten UPS in awhile but I did ask if this was his area. Now I'm all thinking about what can I order and what should i wear next delivery? LOL
NitaBaby
11-20-2019, 06:52 PM
So this just happened today. I thought of this post! I had a delivery from UPS and it was this hella fine black guy. I thought it was a NFL player delivering a package at first haha. He delivered something for me. It's the first time I've gotten UPS in awhile but I did ask if this was his area. Now I'm all thinking about what can I order and what should i wear next delivery? LOL
If it feels too skimpy to even wear to your car and back, put it on.
miss.a.p1600
11-20-2019, 06:59 PM
Yall giving me thoughts about UPS men......now *I* want to order up something for ups delivery
MissTay
11-20-2019, 07:36 PM
If it feels too skimpy to even wear to your car and back, put it on.
}:D good idea. I have this tank top I wear around the house and these short gym shorts. Thinking I can wear them because usually my cheeks are trying to breath on the outside.
Randi Starr
11-20-2019, 08:15 PM
}:D good idea. I have this tank top I wear around the house and these short gym shorts. Thinking I can wear them because usually my cheeks are trying to breath on the outside.
Did you at least flirt with him to give him an idea of possibly hooking up?
MissTay
11-20-2019, 08:27 PM
Did you at least flirt with him to give him an idea of possibly hooking up?
I did flirt yes! My daughter was home so it's not like anything was going to happen. BUT now I'm thinking maybe I offer him some ice cold water or lemonade if he shows up again. He was all sexy and sweaty when he came to my door. I know this sounds really bad/slutty whatever but since my divorce I'm all about no regrets. I really have the idea of offering him a cold drink and if he takes the bait give him a drink then call him into the kitchen with me bending over just welcoming him }:D This is the new me!! haha I'd think if he is down for a drink their is a good chance he'd give me the D :o Yes this is the new & improved me!! lol
MissTay
11-20-2019, 09:29 PM
Women have needs too. Be safe. Have fun. For me, I like the fantasy more than the reality. I usually chicken out and I’m like nevermind.
I really appreciate this group. I’ve been researching a lot about camming, but I need to take a break from social media. I’m wasting way too much time online. Which my classes are online so it so easy to “take a break” next thing I know 30 minutes is gone! I need some type of app, so I can budget my time.
Thank you <3 I love this group too. I've had a huge life change since leaving my X. I feel like part of me owes all you ladies a big thank you for being where I'm at now. I've gone from being a boring ol' housewife that did everything her husband told her to to trying to fuck the UPS guy next delivery haha.
miss.a.p1600
11-20-2019, 10:11 PM
So I noticed him calling me pet names
“Siri what does this mean?”
Trying not to get too caught up
NitaBaby
11-21-2019, 03:36 AM
Thank you <3 I love this group too. I've had a huge life change since leaving my X. I feel like part of me owes all you ladies a big thank you for being where I'm at now. I've gone from being a boring ol' housewife that did everything her husband told her to to trying to fuck the UPS guy next delivery haha.
We're clearly the same person.
My ex would have a stroke if he knew what I've been up to since him. Not anymore, I'm in a whole relationship. But my hoe phase was sinful.
lynn2009
11-21-2019, 09:04 AM
I lost my credit card for a few days and I was about to give up and request a new one when I finally found it this morning.
WendiStarr
11-21-2019, 12:05 PM
I actually slept good last night but I still feel like sleeping.
Elektra Luxx
11-21-2019, 03:08 PM
I think sex work keeps a person sharp and I don't feel as self confident as I once was.
MissTay
11-21-2019, 03:56 PM
We're clearly the same person.
My ex would have a stroke if he knew what I've been up to since him. Not anymore, I'm in a whole relationship. But my hoe phase was sinful.
Yes girl! I might eventually quiet down and get into a relationship but after so many years locked down and at an older age now I think it might be awhile.
miss.a.p1600
11-21-2019, 04:32 PM
Sometimes I wish I could be better at multi-tasking and compartmentalizing.
I need to hustle my ass - but lately my thoughts have been consumed by wondering if this guy is a keeper, not feeling like 'working', then wanting to perform to the level that other people will notice and be impressed.
carmen_b
11-21-2019, 04:46 PM
7 weeks celibate tomorrow.
I bet y’all thought I’d never make it that long .
Sign me up for another week. I have SO much free time now that I don’t date.
miss.a.p1600
11-21-2019, 05:12 PM
7 weeks celibate tomorrow.
I bet y’all thought I’d never make it that long .
Sign me up for another week. I have SO much free time now that I don’t date.
Niiice! I'm hoping I can hang on to my celibacy for a bit longer here myself
I'm over here struggling to get motivated to work cause I keep thinking about that dude......
miss.a.p1600
11-21-2019, 07:56 PM
It would be nice if my sole fin domme client called. Haven’t heard from him in 2 months
yaya_cash
11-22-2019, 06:59 AM
So I went out to an upscale restaurant, with some Ladies of Night. And they were talking so loud and proud about their profession among other guests; and I didn't like it. They made me feel uncomfortable. They didn't have much etiquette. I expected them to be discrete, considering the environment. But no. I felt ashamed being with them.
lurkingtitties
11-22-2019, 08:46 AM
^^Oh man I had a friend who used to always want to talk shop about club stuff in restaurants and I didn't like it either. I was pretty out and proud when I was dancing but there are some things that should stay discreet for the good of the profession!
NitaBaby
11-22-2019, 08:52 AM
bf mentioned myfitnesspal since he knows i'm trying to lose weight and we started talking about how long it's been since we logged into our respective accounts. so he logged onto his and showed me how to scan my food for it to automatically reveal the calories/protein/sugar/fat/etc. info.
had no idea that the healthiest meal i know how to make (vegan stir fry) is still 900 something calories. Like, my portions are way off. I'm literally over-eating on healthy shit.
It would explain why I'm not losing any weight even after two weeks. Seriously glad that he mentioned that stupid app.
yaya_cash
11-22-2019, 12:32 PM
^^Oh man I had a friend who used to always want to talk shop about club stuff in restaurants and I didn't like it either. I was pretty out and proud when I was dancing but there are some things that should stay discreet for the good of the profession!
I agree. It makes me feel exposed. And with people being so judgement, effecting how you function in society, makes it harder to deal with others. I just rather not have to deal with more stress or drama.
I need to be more sure the company can be discreet in a nice restaurant since I don't like unwanted attention, affecting my everyday life outside the industry. I should have known-- I remember a customer from the club took me out to drink/eat and was talking so loud about me being a stripper. Doesn't it not occur to people that someone doesn't want to be known for that in the public? Do people not consider that they do not want the stigma with their otherwise image/reputation outside the industry? I thought these people were going to be appropriate, considering the environment and working in the corporate world and, a graduate student. But now. I have notice people are dumb considering what they talk about proudly or brag about in public draws bad attention and has real consequences.
KariSwitch
11-22-2019, 12:52 PM
Yeah, we will need an immediate update on this situation. ;)
Well, I wasn't crazy, she was def checking me out. Didn't see her again until yesterday at the gym. She was training someone, and I might have been watching her a little more than I should. Noticed she left her phone near one of the machines, so I just had to pick it up and give it to her. Ran into her as I was headed back to the locker room. She essentially said thanks, I wouldn't believe how many phones she lost/had broken at the gym, and said she owed me something. I was struggling like a deer in headlights, and mumbled something about liking coffee. Well she took that as me inviting her for coffee (there's a starbucks walking distance from gym), as in right there/right then. So she asked if i needed to get changed and said she was finishing up with a client, but would be ready to go in 20. Um, this girl got flustered... but pulled it together.
So coffee was great, sorted out that we both like girls, and talked for 45mins+. She had another client coming to the gym, so we had to walk back. She walked with me back to my car in the garage, exchanged numbers, and she asked/more kinda told me she was taking me out on a date this Sunday. Then there was a hug that lingered a few seconds longer than it should have, which led to a nice soft kiss. I'm actually excited for Sunday!!!!
lurkingtitties
11-22-2019, 06:07 PM
^^omg what a cute story! Good for you, thanks for updating.
carmen_b
11-22-2019, 08:11 PM
^ MMMmm
She sounds hot and together and FORWARD ( prrrrrrrr ).
charlie61
11-22-2019, 09:01 PM
Well, I wasn't crazy, she was def checking me out. Didn't see her again until yesterday at the gym. She was training someone, and I might have been watching her a little more than I should. Noticed she left her phone near one of the machines, so I just had to pick it up and give it to her. Ran into her as I was headed back to the locker room. She essentially said thanks, I wouldn't believe how many phones she lost/had broken at the gym, and said she owed me something. I was struggling like a deer in headlights, and mumbled something about liking coffee. Well she took that as me inviting her for coffee (there's a starbucks walking distance from gym), as in right there/right then. So she asked if i needed to get changed and said she was finishing up with a client, but would be ready to go in 20. Um, this girl got flustered... but pulled it together.
So coffee was great, sorted out that we both like girls, and talked for 45mins+. She had another client coming to the gym, so we had to walk back. She walked with me back to my car in the garage, exchanged numbers, and she asked/more kinda told me she was taking me out on a date this Sunday. Then there was a hug that lingered a few seconds longer than it should have, which led to a nice soft kiss. I'm actually excited for Sunday!!!!
Omg!! I'm dying. <3
miss.a.p1600
11-23-2019, 08:35 AM
So here it goes....
The guy that I started liking ....
On our last date I would have liked to see things go better. I had this heavy coat cause it was colder than a mf but he wasn’t wearing a coat. So I took mine off so we wouldn’t look awkwardly different together. Well at the end of the night he’s so focused on finding the Uber outside that in freezing cold and regretting every moment cause I though he’d put his arms around me to keep me warm.
Fucker my body is more important than Uber.
Call the Uber and tell her to come to us while we wait inside. Not walking around outside for this hoe
I was pissed
miss.a.p1600
11-23-2019, 08:43 AM
I woke up today realizing that if it’s meant to be it will be.
I’m just not going to gaf about this one way or the other.
I know I’m a quality woman and it will be his loss if he doesn’t recognize it
lynn2009
11-23-2019, 08:57 AM
I have been falling asleep early, with lights on not brushing my teeth, washing my face or taking the dog out for almost two weeks. I did again last night, woke up around 6am and took my poor dog out and went back to sleep. It's 11am and I am only waking up for real now but god I feel so much better finally.
WendiStarr
11-23-2019, 11:22 AM
^ ^
I agree, it's best not to talk about such things anywhere where vanilla civilians could overhear. I had a friend who did that, loudly and proudly talking about her clients no matter where we were. She started doing that at this shared, upscale apartment that we were using for working purposes, where a nosy, busy body, old retired lady moved in across the hall. I had gotten too paranoid to go to that apartment anymore because of how loud and open she was about it and because of her sudden addiction to drugs and with her going from being low key fbsm to high volume escort, having guys come and go for 10 minute quickies and such. I kept picturing LE busting the door down at any minute and I had to quit going to that apartment and associating with her. My fears were warranted because it turned out that that nosy neighbor or some other neighbor or neighbors overheard her loudly talking about her clients, noticed the increased traffic to the apartment and reported it. That apartment did end up going under surveillance, was raided, and she was arrested and charged. I was so glad that I had stopped going there when I did. People who have no filter could end up getting busted if the wrong person overhears them. Unfortunately some end up getting hooked on drugs and they lose their discretion. I don't know if that could be the case with your friends or not but you might need to keep your distance, just in case.