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miss.a.p1600
06-29-2020, 10:20 PM
I’ve noticed my longtime Facebook friend called me “babe” on two occasions
Idk if some guys do this like how they call women “sweetie” or “hon” or whatever
I’m not used to that and I don’t know if I should be like “dude why you calling me babe” or bring it up or question it or just not say anything and just roll with it.
i know guys who just got out of long-standing relationships may do this out of habit and/or narcissistic men do this to trick you into think the relationship is more than what it is but I don’t get one oz of narcissistic vibe from this guy. In fact he seems like a pretty decent guy and has taken my side on many issues.
miss.a.p1600
06-29-2020, 10:32 PM
I’m not sure what’s going on here but ever since the damn coronavirus, I’ve been feeling like I need to have sex.
..........And ain’t a dick in sight........
Le sigh* (I’ll manifest some orgasmic peen into my reality very soon)
baer45
06-30-2020, 07:06 PM
I am pretty disappointed and upset today.
I have this friend, for about 6 years. I treated her as my mentor and consider her a trustworthy person. We shared many secrets together and all the hours we spent on the phone in these past 6 years. countless!
This morning, she called me and asked for a $10k loan. She told me that she received a letter from her mortgage company which said that her mortgage escrow account is short for $10k and if she doesn't deposit $10k in the account within 5 days, they will foreclose her house. I suggested that looking for help from professionals: attorney and bank mortgage specialist. She told me she's been trying to contact multiple attorneys in the past a few days and no one is working in the office these days. And the bank would not help. I told her I don't have that money at the moment and she should contact her family for it right away.
After the conversation, I tried to help. I called three attorneys, all three picked up the phone. They ALL told me this is a scam right away. I also called my bank's mortgage specialist, he told me nothing adds up in her story. This just upset me very much.
1. Escrow account only used for homeowner insurance and property tax. The mortgage bank will never let escrow account go $10k negative, that's unheard of in their 25+ year career experience(unless it's a new construction site).
2. Escrow account has a negative balance that will only make your monthly mortgage payment go up next year. and you will have one year to pay it back. It also will never end up with foreclosure. And no bank will issue a 5 days notice if that happens to you, you can sue the bank and win it easily.
3. I called three attorneys, all random attorneys, they immediately picked up the phone.
4. She told me that her nephew earns 170k a year and his wife earns an additional 80k a year. But she didn't want to trouble them, and she wanted my help.
5. Two hours after I spoke to her, she called me back, told me that she got an attorney, and they will handle it. I figured she's trying to salvage the situation. I pretended that I didn't know what's going on but I told her my attorney would be happy to help her to sue the bank. She quickly changed the subject.
6. She also told me that she can put my name on the house too. Really, how stupid or greedy she thinks I am?
Why? 6 years of friendship, just for a $10k scam? Why do people do this?:'(:'(:'(:'( I am really hurt.
chanzep
06-30-2020, 07:26 PM
That's horrible. I'm sorry. I don't understand people.
miss.a.p1600
06-30-2020, 11:04 PM
That’s hard.
I almost became victim of a scam online.
The hard part was feeling vulnerable and then anger etc.
Thankfully I kept my money bit it woke me up
moneybags
06-30-2020, 11:20 PM
I’m not sure what’s going on here but ever since the damn coronavirus, I’ve been feeling like I need to have sex.
..........And ain’t a dick in sight........
Le sigh* (I’ll manifest some orgasmic peen into my reality very soon)
If one could die from not getting enough dick-I’d be dead by now.
I did some race play for my camming business and it was so fun! I have hard time saying the N word, but he was into it. Black guys are really into me? I never thought I was their type. I’m kinda thick cause the gyms are closed down. I guess that’s the upside to gaining weight.
SnuffleUffleGrass
07-01-2020, 04:26 AM
I am pretty disappointed and upset today.
I have this friend, for about 6 years. I treated her as my mentor and consider her a trustworthy person. We shared many secrets together and all the hours we spent on the phone in these past 6 years. countless!
This morning, she called me and asked for a $10k loan. She told me that she received a letter from her mortgage company which said that her mortgage escrow account is short for $10k and if she doesn't deposit $10k in the account within 5 days, they will foreclose her house. I suggested that looking for help from professionals: attorney and bank mortgage specialist. She told me she's been trying to contact multiple attorneys in the past a few days and no one is working in the office these days. And the bank would not help. I told her I don't have that money at the moment and she should contact her family for it right away.
After the conversation, I tried to help. I called three attorneys, all three picked up the phone. They ALL told me this is a scam right away. I also called my bank's mortgage specialist, he told me nothing adds up in her story. This just upset me very much.
1. Escrow account only used for homeowner insurance and property tax. The mortgage bank will never let escrow account go $10k negative, that's unheard of in their 25+ year career experience(unless it's a new construction site).
2. Escrow account has a negative balance that will only make your monthly mortgage payment go up next year. and you will have one year to pay it back. It also will never end up with foreclosure. And no bank will issue a notice in 5 days, if that happens to you, you can sue the bank and win it easily.
3. I called three attorneys, all random attorneys, they immediately picked up the phone.
4. She told me that her nephew earns 170k a year and his wife earns an additional 80k a year. But she didn't want to trouble them, and she wanted my help.
5. Two hours after I spoke to her, she called me back, told me that she got an attorney, and they will handle it. I figured she's trying to salvage the situation. I pretended that I didn't know what's going on but I told her my attorney would be happy to help her to sue the bank. She quickly changed the subject.
6. She also told me that she can put my name on the house too. Really, how stupid or greedy she thinks I am?
Why? 6 years of friendship, just for a $10k scam? Why do people do this?:'(:'(:'(:'( I am really hurt.
Trust me she's probably Personality Disordered. Those types are one whim away from dicking over anyone.
Be glad you figured it out. Better safe than sorry.
moneybags
07-01-2020, 02:42 PM
Trust me she's probably Personality Disordered. Those types are one whim away from dicking over anyone.
Be glad you figured it out. Better safe than sorry.
Agreed. She must have been good at hiding it.
I had a crazy roommate that took my rent money and never used it to pay rent until we got an eviction notice. I think she spent the rent money before it was due and then just made excuses to the landlord for six months. She seemed so nice and normal. Bitch was crazy and she hid it so well!
I’m sorry for your loss. I’m glad you figured her out before she could do more damage.
miss.a.p1600
07-01-2020, 07:10 PM
^similar.
I had a sociopathic “best friend” and roommate.
Well I discovered she was evil after years Of getting to know her and multiple times she fucked other people over. It took me wising up to realize if she does this to everyone else then certainly she’d do it to me.
She was a finance major but horrible with money. Didn’t realize it till one day I’m chillin in the living room and the power goes out (this is dead middle of summer). I call the bitch up like bruh the power is out. Did you pay the electricity with the money we gave you.
And you know what this hoe said? “oh I’m getting my hair done right now”
Girl it took everything I had not to snatch that bitches hair out n kick her ass down a flight of steps.
She proceeded to fake apologize but it was only to save herself not because she felt genuine remorse.
Over the years she did a lot of fucked up shit to other people
Needless to say we’re not friends anymore and I realized just how vile of a person she was.
miss.a.p1600
07-01-2020, 07:14 PM
I’m not sure what’s going on here but ever since the damn coronavirus, I’ve been feeling like I need to have sex.
..........And ain’t a dick in sight........
Le sigh* (I’ll manifest some orgasmic peen into my reality very soon)
Edit. I think my neighbor is trying to offer dick.
He said he was interested in me and was nervous to ask me on a date.
this could either be awkward (If shit doesn’t go well) or It could be the orgasmic peen I need to end this 4 year celibacy
baer45
07-02-2020, 07:39 AM
Trust me she's probably Personality Disordered. Those types are one whim away from dicking over anyone.
Be glad you figured it out. Better safe than sorry.
^similar.
I had a sociopathic “best friend” and roommate.
Well I discovered she was evil after years Of getting to know her and multiple times she fucked other people over. It took me wising up to realize if she does this to everyone else then certainly she’d do it to me.
She was a finance major but horrible with money. Didn’t realize it till one day I’m chillin in the living room and the power goes out (this is dead middle of summer). I call the bitch up like bruh the power is out. Did you pay the electricity with the money we gave you.
And you know what this hoe said? “oh I’m getting my hair done right now”
Girl it took everything I had not to snatch that bitches hair out n kick her ass down a flight of steps.
She proceeded to fake apologize but it was only to save herself not because she felt genuine remorse.
Over the years she did a lot of fucked up shit to other people
Needless to say we’re not friends anymore and I realized just how vile of a person she was.
Agreed. She must have been good at hiding it.
I had a crazy roommate that took my rent money and never used it to pay rent until we got an eviction notice. I think she spent the rent money before it was due and then just made excuses to the landlord for six months. She seemed so nice and normal. Bitch was crazy and she hid it so well!
I’m sorry for your loss. I’m glad you figured her out before she could do more damage.
years ago we had a mutual friend, that person is a jerk and definitely sociopathic, I hate her. One day, she actually warned me about this "trustworthy" friend and told me she's not reliable, called her a joke. And I didn't believe her and defended this "trustworthy" friend.
So it turned out, the person I hated was right about the person I trusted. How ironic is that?!!
WendiStarr
07-05-2020, 04:29 AM
I've become super boring these days. All fireworks were cancelled this year due to virus circumstances in my state so I was going to watch the fireworks on tv. Miraculously the kids fell asleep by 9pm so I went to sleep too instead.
trustfundkiller
07-07-2020, 05:02 PM
My cousin tested positive for Covid-19. Thankfully, he's 29-years-old and has a very mild case. The doctor said his oxygen levels are great and he can go back to work next week.
moneybags
07-07-2020, 09:40 PM
I dunno how I did it on 6 hours of sleep I woke up took my exam-that I studied an entire week for, went to the gym, sat for a lecture, went for a run, cleaned the house and now I’m gonna study for a couple of hours . I’m exhausted, but grateful for a productive day.
I’m so exhausted from life. I’ve had a really hard life growing up and even as a young adult. I figured by now I’d have it all figured out and it’d be easy peasy.
Life doesn’t get easier we just get stronger.
miss.a.p1600
07-07-2020, 10:14 PM
Why does my Facebook friend keep calling me bae?
Why do guys do this?
It’s taking everything I have not to asking him like “hey bob you calling me bae n shit, what’s up?”
In my mind that should be reserved for relationships.
Next thing I know he going to be saying “goodnight I love you”
WendiStarr
07-08-2020, 04:33 AM
I find myself fantasizing about getting a hotel suite at the Belamere for a Friday or Saturday night(the one with the in-room pool and hot tub) but then I'd feel guilty because the baby hates bottles and prefers the boob and likes to be held by mama 24/7. Of the 2 times I had a babysitter for her for an hour or 2 refused to eat from a bottle. No way could I leave her overnight with a babysitter. I'm going to have to wait until she's old enough to eat solid food before planning a get away to Belamere.
miss.a.p1600
07-08-2020, 07:29 AM
I seriously need to have a male lover right now.
I think my neighbor might be trying to have sex with me. I don’t know what i should do. On one hand he seems like a gentleman and a marriage minded guy but I’m dead set on only being in a relationship with a guy with a provider type guy with means so I’m not being forced to work all gotdamn day n night.
I do not want a 50/50 type dude so why tf is the universe sending me good guys, but 50\50 type good guys.
Le sigh
miss.a.p1600
07-08-2020, 07:36 AM
If one could die from not getting enough dick-I’d be dead by now.
Lol!!
I would have perished 4 years ago
My tombstone would say - Rest in peace miss...may she be abundantly blessed with dick in heaven
I find myself fantasizing about getting a hotel suite at the Belamere for a Friday or Saturday night(the one with the in-room pool and hot tub) but then I'd feel guilty because the baby hates bottles and prefers the boob and likes to be held by mama 24/7. Of the 2 times I had a babysitter for her for an hour or 2 refused to eat from a bottle. No way could I leave her overnight with a babysitter. I'm going to have to wait until she's old enough to eat solid food before planning a get away to Belamere.
I feel this, like I want my time so bad but then when I’m away I miss my little angel and fell bad too... what to do 🤷🏼♀️
carmen_b
07-08-2020, 08:24 AM
50 / 50 actually explands your lifestyle somewhat.
A place to live for example ..... each person might get something " ok " ( state depending ) for $1000 - $1500 but put it together and you've got a much nicer spot ( if you can stand to live together ! ha! That's the tricky peice ).
Maybe he can do something like 70 / 30.
That's sort of what my partner and I do since he makes more but I still do work. I like to have my own resources anyway not just for safety but the routine of having something to do in day light hours! We are new though and don't live full time together even I'm at his place 70-80% of the time.
I seriously need to have a male lover right now.
I think my neighbor might be trying to have sex with me. I don’t know what i should do. On one hand he seems like a gentleman and a marriage minded guy but I’m dead set on only being in a relationship with a guy with a provider type guy with means so I’m not being forced to work all gotdamn day n night.
I do not want a 50/50 type dude so why tf is the universe sending me good guys, but 50\50 type good guys.
Le sigh
miss.a.p1600
07-08-2020, 11:31 AM
50 / 50 actually explands your lifestyle somewhat.
A place to live for example ..... each person might get something " ok " ( state depending ) for $1000 - $1500 but put it together and you've got a much nicer spot ( if you can stand to live together ! ha! That's the tricky peice ).
Maybe he can do something like 70 / 30.
That's sort of what my partner and I do since he makes more but I still do work. I like to have my own resources anyway not just for safety but the routine of having something to do in day light hours! We are new though and don't live full time together even I'm at his place 70-80% of the time.
you’re right. I started thinking to myself am I fucking myself off with an all or nothing approach
right now I pay everything and if I lived with a guy who paid living expenses that would save me a ton of money that I could invest, etc.
I’m just thinking if I married and we had a baby together I would wanted to stay at home while I’m pregnant and while the kids are little.
Last thing I want is a guy breathing down my neck like “bitch why you ain’t working today because you owe half this mortgage” and I’m 8 months pregnant or something.
Like I want to work to contribute to society and to my life but I don’t want to work out of sheer need and desperation.
And I can do what any classic sugar babe or hustler would do....work my way up. I think starting with a 70/30 type situation is reasonable
miss.a.p1600
07-08-2020, 04:35 PM
My neighbor said he never tried cigarettes barely drinks never tried drugs.
I confessed to him all the drugs I tried.
I think he was shocked lol!!! Oh well ... I’ll never regret the good times with my friends xstacy n Mary Jane
miss.a.p1600
07-08-2020, 05:14 PM
My neighbor (who is cheap but doesn't think he is cheap) asked me if I needed anything from the grocery store....I should have told him some tampons or something just to fuck with him lol!!! But knowing how extra thrifty he is I declined his offer because I didn't want to feel like I owe him anything.
whirlerz
07-10-2020, 07:14 PM
My neighbor told me she heard (but wouldn't say who told her) that one of the roomies & I were discussing her water usage of the pool?
Which, btw isn't even up anymore..
I told her no that's wrong, wtf.
And, the guy upstairs who basically has his girlfriend over full time, asked me who cleaned the stove, because there's burnt on food.
I said I did, but my arthritis bother me so I didn't do as good of a job on it.
He said he tried to clean it too, but couldn't.
Yes, bc the other guy uses it over &over not cleaning so the stuff gets more burnt on!:yikes:
THEN, they proceeded to leave one of the burners covered in grease, & go out for the night.>:(
Got it::)
whirlerz
07-10-2020, 07:18 PM
And, where's my neighbor Crush???:(
miss.a.p1600
07-11-2020, 09:38 PM
You’re not missing anything
The possibility of complete and utter awkwardness if the shit doesn’t go well is lurking in the back of my mind
miss.a.p1600
07-11-2020, 10:05 PM
Yo Im glad I quick working in the adult industry in this city.
I had several close calls being discovered.
I found out my other neighbor (who also had a crush on me) goes to the clubs here all the time. I guess I wouldn’t care cause he doesn’t know anyone in my circle of associates but it would still be awkward if your neighbor was a regular at the club you shook ass for.
miss.a.p1600
07-12-2020, 06:42 AM
My neighbor (who I went to lunch with a couple times) told me he woke up out of his sleep to talk to me and have an opportunity to spend time with me yesterday lol
miss.a.p1600
07-12-2020, 09:05 PM
I’m horny af. I need some really good oral sex like I need water in the middle of the desert on the hottest summer day.
I might have to give it to myself really good tonight
moneybags
07-12-2020, 11:37 PM
I’m horny af. I need some really good oral sex like I need water in the middle of the desert on the hottest summer day.
I might have to give it to myself really good tonight
I definitely understand that.
I’ve thought about getting on a dating sites. I hate dating. I’m on a dating site for 24 hours and then I’m like, “oh this is just like work except I get nothing in return.” I don’t like casual sex or dating. I get horny sometimes and get on a dating sites and then I’m like-nope not worth it. There’s a million things I’d rather do than entertain some guy for free of course with corona it’s not just std’s you have worry about now.
moneybags
07-12-2020, 11:52 PM
My neighbor (who is cheap but doesn't think he is cheap) asked me if I needed anything from the grocery store....I should have told him some tampons or something just to fuck with him lol!!! But knowing how extra thrifty he is I declined his offer because I didn't want to feel like I owe him anything.
If he buys you tampons he’s a keeper
I definitely understand that.
I’ve thought about getting on a dating sites. I hate dating. I’m on a dating site for 24 hours and then I’m like, “oh this is just like work except I get nothing in return.” I don’t like casual sex or dating. I get horny sometimes and get on a dating sites and then I’m like-nope not worth it. There’s a million things I’d rather do than entertain some guy for free of course with corona it’s not just std’s you have worry about now.
I feel the same about dating sites, it feels like your at a club or caming for free, same questions, same stuff but no check ♀️
miss.a.p1600
07-13-2020, 08:41 PM
If he buys you tampons he’s a keeper
hahaha. I’m gonna try it
miss.a.p1600
07-13-2020, 08:55 PM
Y’all I’m have straight up cognitive dissonance
My mind has ALWAYS focused on men with money first then I looked at their character. But this time things are reversed.
I think my neighbor is going to confess that he wants to be with me like more than friends like ..... He is really building his case on why I should be with him.
He seems genuine and he seems like he is husband material EXCEPT he makes no where near the amount of money I am used to dating. I do think he would provide more financially IF he could.
I’m having a hard time resisting because the last guy I went on a date with was my college friend and he turned out to be a jaded men’s rights activist and that guy who I thought was amazing who turned out to be a complete arrogant player who acted like a fuckboi
In order to resolve my emotional discomfort I have to accept that if I give him a chance I might not be the stay at home mom I want or I have to change my behavior and date someone else before he gets too attached
If he made more money this would be a good situation.
Not to mention I still want to talk to my long distance Facebook friend simply because he is just as kind as my neighbor but economic wise he has no kids to take care of financially
miss.a.p1600
07-13-2020, 09:08 PM
Also my neighbor is kind of chubby. He said he lost a lot of weight. Why the dudes that are genuinely kind n respect women always the chubby ones?
We watch that movie with Sandra Bullock and the blindfolds. And her lover in the movie ..... DAMN!!!!! That mf right there. I’m lusting over the actors chiseled body.
Are chubby dudes good lovers?
Why am I actually considering having sex with my neighbor? He said he bought some more of my favorite wine. I think he’s trying to get me tipsy so I’ll kiss him and have sex with him. And honestly I’d much rather have some weed but I think he’s anti drugs.
miss.a.p1600
07-13-2020, 09:19 PM
I’m sorry if I keep posting I am trying to process this.
What I do like about my neighbor is he is willing to trying new things because I like them, he always opens the doors AND the car doors. He carries stuff so I don’t have to. He seems like a loyal dude. He seems like a protector. He has offered to either cook or grab food (thank goodness he’s not asked me to cook). He always drives to where we go (thank goodness cause I don’t want to use my gas) and he listens to my ramblings.
I got slightly turned on when he was caressing my forearms last night
moneybags
07-13-2020, 11:47 PM
^^^
You have to listen to your gut because no one knows but you.
I tend to push love away. It’s too scary. The truth is when you love someone you’re taking a huge risk. You’re the only one who can decide if it’s worth it?
Relationships have pros and cons. Everything in life has pros and cons! There’s no easy answer. If someone wants to get married they get commitment and security, but they lose some of their freedom. There’s always going to be a trade off with any decision. It’s just picking which one is the best deal overall.
miss.a.p1600
07-14-2020, 10:42 PM
Cotdamn it!!!!!!!
Do I really have to give up my harem????
Fuck!!! Let a player play.......
miss.a.p1600
07-16-2020, 11:17 AM
I'm still horny today and HAD to resolve it......Should have been working but instead I was working on pleasing myself until new dude can show that he can please me. He better know what he is doing or I will rage against him lol.
WendiStarr
07-16-2020, 06:02 PM
I ate too many sweets today. I blame PMS.
^^i ate 4 Krispy Kreme donuts today, normally I wouldn’t feel so bad cause the weight can be lost but I’m pregnant so, it’s just gonna add to me, more for me to lose when I’m done ♀️
Adelina
07-16-2020, 08:05 PM
^^i ate 4 Krispy Kreme donuts today, normally I wouldn’t feel so bad cause the weight can be lost but I’m pregnant so, it’s just gonna add to me, more for me to lose when I’m done ����♀️
Oh babe, it's ok:) I am very happy for you. Take care of yourself.
miss.a.p1600
07-16-2020, 09:21 PM
My neighbor who has established himself as my bf asked if I’ve ever considered buying a house.
I certainly hope he knows I’m not buying a house. I’m moving into a house my future husband buys.
miss.a.p1600
07-18-2020, 08:22 AM
Woke up wet af and ready to fuck.
I guess for now I’ll have to handle it myself
miss.a.p1600
07-18-2020, 11:39 AM
I can’t believe I almost fucked my neighbor - I guess he’s my bf now.
I’ve seen him around and NEVER thought to give him the time of day.
He’s chubby (not at all my physical type) and he’s not rolling in dough rn but he treats me really well so I guess I’ll reward him and stick with him for now.
whirlerz
07-18-2020, 12:43 PM
Wow, what's in the air/water this week, or is it that comet neowise, or, the once every 2,000 year planet alignment??
Left my landlord a pissy note about the roaches, took off $ for the 16 traps I bought, not that he GAF.
As I was driving from home depot, there's these local garage sales, & if I didn't have a very keen eye, slow /careful, I could've easily run over 2 separate small children (w/mom & dad btw::)
Did you ever just want to jump out of your car & throttle a bitch or 2>:(???
miss.a.p1600
07-18-2020, 02:14 PM
My longtime Facebook friend from tx called me today saying he wished I was dining with him.
I’m trying to keep it just about work and business only
miss.a.p1600
07-18-2020, 06:16 PM
I can’t believe I’m about to pop some pussy like for real after all this damn time and thankfully it’s going to be a dude who respects women. A lot of guys I came across put on an Oscar worthy act but I’m getting better at telling when a dude is genuine.
Anyways it’s probably going down in about 2 or 3 days once my period is all the way over and I can wax this pussy up.
I hope he doesn’t try it tonight.
lynn2009
07-18-2020, 06:49 PM
I'm super disappointed already and want to cry. I feel like the area around here has changed too much since I lived here before, I can't afford what I thought I could and the few people who know I want to move and could help don't care. I don't have any family or close friends in real life and it's so hard to deal with. No one cares about me. And I'm getting resentful of how difficult my dog is making this because I need to be careful with locations because I know his barking will piss off everyone, which is one thing when I'm renting but I can't have if I'm owning.
carmen_b
07-18-2020, 09:13 PM
I'm North again and at my forest property. I was thinking last time I was here that it would be AMAZING to have a little house servant submissive type wait on me here. I could reward him well ( by pleasing me ). Lol.
I guess what I have in mind is quite detailed. A great " keeper " when I'm on the property. Thinks like chopping wood and getting the place nice before my arrival and then when I'm here things like making me tea , telling me how gorgeous I am , asking if I need a massage ect. ! Then after sunset make me a nice drink or some food . After my shower he can lick and please me until I see fit hahahaha.
But anyway ...... I'm monogamous with a gentleman a bit south of here.
Day dreams.....
This is what no D for 48 hours does to me. Haha.