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miss.a.p1600
07-28-2020, 11:42 AM
L said his ex wife told him she loved him just 3 weeks ago .......
I wonder what his response was.
JenniferNorth
07-28-2020, 11:45 AM
Can you ask him? I would feel so uneasy. I have a hard time trusting partners early on though.
My confession is that I hate everyone lately. So-called old "friends", my downstairs neighbors, and sometimes just people as a whole. I feel like this pandemic brings out the absolute worst in people.
carmen_b
07-28-2020, 12:39 PM
^ He’s probably just “ testing “ ... inserting jealousy hahaha.
Women are not the only ones who play little games. :)
I’d say most likely harmless.
How long has it been over with them ?
miss.a.p1600
07-28-2020, 01:41 PM
Yeah I think he was trying to pull the little jealousy game lol I do think it’s harmless because he seems like he was really unhappy with the situation and didn’t think it would ever get better hence his rationale for divorcing her
They divorced about a year ago
^^i just feel like everyone has an ex they still fuck or could at some point, who knows what’s really going on..
WendiStarr
07-28-2020, 02:20 PM
I need to get my tubes tied because I don't want to risk getting pregnant and possibly dealing with pre-eclampsia again. I don't want to be in the hospital though. I'd feel so guilty leaving the baby with bf or a babysitter. I have this fear that my blood pressure would be sky high and the hospital would want to keep me for 5 days, since that seems to be how long they like to keep people. With Coronavirus shit going on I have no interest in being in any hospitals. Seeing as how both my kids were likely the results of fertility drugs, maybe I will be okay for now with holding off on the surgery.
^^or just get on bc till this is over, I’d personally never risk it but I get pregnant like every single time I have unprotected sex and am not on bc so..
miss.a.p1600
07-28-2020, 04:26 PM
I feel like a mega cunt. Like if there is a cunt of the year award It would go to me.
The whole pregnancy scare and Facebook friend thing is making me realize I’m really going against my true gold digging nature and it’s making me mentally uncomfortable. Like why can’t a guy be both amazing partner AND financially well off?
If I were pregnant rn I would not keep it because I don’t think he could afford another kid right now and I am not about to struggle raising kids especially during tough economic times like this.
Idk.
^^u can get more financial help than you’d think from the government than you’d think and something in child support, also the abortion thing is a lot easier said than done, I’ve done it and wish all the time that I didn’t, it’s stayed with me forever, it sucks!!
miss.a.p1600
07-29-2020, 06:59 AM
Yeah and I discovered last night he’s against aborting his own children or fetus or whatever
carmen_b
07-29-2020, 04:56 PM
Not because you told him about your fears though ? ! ? It sounds like you guys were careful and using protection so I wouldn't get overly worried at this point.
Might as well start the BC though maybe if you are having these fears ? Don't tell him you started it and you'll be doubly protected. Haha.
WendiStarr
07-29-2020, 05:36 PM
Bf randomly decided to go golfing. I was suspicious of him because he made a fuss about making himself look nice before he left. Meanwhile a friend was complaining about how bored he was. I told him he should go golfing. He went to the same golf course as bf and sure enough he saw bf there but bf was alone. My friend texted me to let me know when he saw him leave and bf was home in 7 minutes from the time he left the golf course, which means he must've been speeding to get back home. I know I sound neurotic but it's hard to trust someone when they've broken your trust before. It looks like at least for now he is behaving himself as promised.
miss.a.p1600
07-29-2020, 06:35 PM
Not because you told him about your fears though ? ! ? It sounds like you guys were careful and using protection so I wouldn't get overly worried at this point.
Might as well start the BC though maybe if you are having these fears ? Don't tell him you started it and you'll be doubly protected. Haha.
no I followed you guys advice and just kept my fears to myself
we happened to be talking politics and the abortion topic just came up. He mentioned his viewpoints then asked me mine.
my dumb ass (mega cunt of the year) said I wouldn’t abort ..... I conveniently left out the part about I would consider it if I was not fiscally able (and the guy didn’t make enough to support a family) to do it.
JGB2009
07-29-2020, 10:44 PM
I confess that I am very shocked how old my daughters dad looks. He text me last night again but I didn't reply. I suppose since he couldn't get no action from me that he decided to put his dating profile back up. He put up a new pic and I was just shocked. He looks unhappy. All I can say is wow.......
moneybags
07-30-2020, 02:50 AM
I can be a judgmental person. I’m really working on not being so judgmental. I only judge others because I was judged harshly. Anyways, I use to judge women for dating or marrying for security, but this shit is hard to do alone. Still happy I’m single and not quarantined with a narcissist.
My best friend is talking to her ex. He abandoned her during the pandemic! A man has one job! To keep his woman safe and secure and he basically ghosted her when she needed him the most. She never needs anyone, but the one time she needed him he abandoned her. I hate him! I’m just gonna shut my mouth. Because I can understand needing someone right now-we both are virtually orphans because our families suck so bad. This pandemic is hard AF when you don’t family. So I love her. I’m just gonna shut my mouth and let her do whatever she needs to do to her through the pandemic.
miss.a.p1600
07-30-2020, 05:14 AM
I told my neighbor he could be my bf since he makes a lot of effort to be with me and please me.
Only downside is he’s chubby (granted he’s lost a lot of weight) but I’d like him to tone up and gain more muscle, on his casual days he should still dress better (I’d describe his casual look as grandpa-esque) and he doesn’t make that much money/doesn’t have a high status that I’m used to.
I try to just accept him as he is right now but deep down I want him to improve these things.
I can be a judgmental person. I’m really working on not being so judgmental. I only judge others because I was judged harshly. Anyways, I use to judge women for dating or marrying for security, but this shit is hard to do alone. Still happy I’m single and not quarantined with a narcissist.
My best friend is talking to her ex. He abandoned her during the pandemic! A man has one job! To keep his woman safe and secure and he basically ghosted her when she needed him the most. She never needs anyone, but the one time she needed him he abandoned her. I hate him! I’m just gonna shut my mouth. Because I can understand needing someone right now-we both are virtually orphans because our families suck so bad. This pandemic is hard AF when you don’t family. So I love her. I’m just gonna shut my mouth and let her do whatever she needs to do to her through the pandemic.
my neighbors guy has also left during pandemic, I wonder if the guys who ghost during this time were actually married or in another relationship they obviously feel is more important... if u think about it, it makes since, your wife would always be around you couldn’t creep as easily lol
miss.a.p1600
07-30-2020, 08:03 AM
So we were supposed to go to the adult store and get a vibrator but his ass fell asleep and took 20min longer than planned so when we got there it was closed - by 2 minutes
Damnit!!!! You had ONE job....one!
moneybags
07-31-2020, 12:50 AM
my neighbors guy has also left during pandemic, I wonder if the guys who ghost during this time were actually married or in another relationship they obviously feel is more important... if u think about it, it makes since, your wife would always be around you couldn’t creep as easily lol
I think the pandemic is showing people’s true colors and it’s bringing out the worst in people.
^^yea people r going crazy, it’s like everyone is a step away from snapping and little stuff is sending people over the edge
miss.a.p1600
07-31-2020, 07:07 AM
So my gold digger tendencies were coming out and I felt uncomfortable because I could feel him getting uncomfortable when the sales associate was recommending “expensive” vibrators.
I tried to feel grateful he was buying it for me but deep down I didn’t want to have to think about the price or feel guilty wanting something out of his price range.
We didn’t get to use it because he wanted to watch a movie first and by the time it was over I was dead ass tired.
miss.a.p1600
07-31-2020, 01:39 PM
I think I'm going to convince him to go back to the adult toy store and try some different condoms.
I love how he tries to please me sexually but my neurotic tendencies come out during sex because I swear I think he is wearing a condom that is too big for him and I don't want it to come off/sperm get inside me. And I don't have the heart to burst his bubble / measure his dick to get the right size condom. I'm just going to tell him I want to try the 'for her pleasure' condoms. Do any of ya'll like ribbed condoms?
I loathe how the media glorifies big dicks n magnums.......so guys run out to buy magnums (never mind the fact that they can't fit into them)
carmen_b
07-31-2020, 01:59 PM
^ If he is on the smaller side ribs ( or the ones with bumpy dots ) are ok.
Big dicks + ribs = extreme pain.
No joke, it will ruin the next 2-3 days from the pain lol so choose wisely.
moneybags
07-31-2020, 11:49 PM
I think I'm going to convince him to go back to the adult toy store and try some different condoms.
I love how he tries to please me sexually but my neurotic tendencies come out during sex because I swear I think he is wearing a condom that is too big for him and I don't want it to come off/sperm get inside me. And I don't have the heart to burst his bubble / measure his dick to get the right size condom. I'm just going to tell him I want to try the 'for her pleasure' condoms. Do any of ya'll like ribbed condoms?
I loathe how the media glorifies big dicks n magnums.......so guys run out to buy magnums (never mind the fact that they can't fit into them)
Trojans are the best condoms! They have multipacks with his pleasure and hers. If you have a Costco membership you can them in bulk because condoms get pricey. I think there’s a really big difference if you go cheap versus brand name.
miss.a.p1600
08-01-2020, 06:39 AM
That’s a good idea!
Off to find multipack at Costco
Trojans and bumpy dots
carmen_b
08-01-2020, 08:20 AM
Skyn makes great ones too ( and they are not overly large ).
miss.a.p1600
08-01-2020, 11:07 AM
^I thought about buying some Skyn brand because they are non-latex right? And the size may be a better fit
whirlerz
08-01-2020, 12:57 PM
Jumping on the condom bandwagon convo:
I've had a multipack (Trojan brand I believe) from amazon, when there was an alleged 'condom shortage'::)
Ms P, some of the sex shops let you buy a single condom, (Lovers Lane, etc)
whirlerz
08-01-2020, 01:18 PM
Oh, so nice & peaceful here, (most of roomies out).
Sat.'s rent day, I immediately head out to my cheap but good breakfast place, just to gtfo for a while.. They've an outdoor area, it's nice.
I also went to a nature center, all bldgs closed, including bathrooms (Porta potty only). It was nice to be in nature, instead of a rank ghetto atmosphere.
Like where I live
whirlerz
08-01-2020, 01:25 PM
^ If he is on the smaller side ribs ( or the ones with bumpy dots ) are ok.
Big dicks + ribs = extreme pain.
No joke, it will ruin the next 2-3 days from the pain lol so choose wisely.
Ooh, thanks so much, great to know! You're always soo helpful!
So, no dots either, w/the Big D? :O
I had a toy w/dots, my bunny gnawed some of them off:)
WendiStarr
08-01-2020, 06:18 PM
I'm horny today and it's annoying because we've only had one hour of time when kids were asleep and we could have quietly got some "us time". I felt like the man of the relationship because I was rubbing up against him half naked and he was more interested in getting up and making coffee. Usually all I have to do is be topless or bottomless and he'll be on me.
carmen_b
08-02-2020, 08:32 AM
^ Same.
I always struggle hard when J has this daughter three days in a row ( only twice a month ).
It’s struggle day # 3 lol.
Tomorrow will be nice.
I stayed in town to help him here and there with her as I know even 2-3 hours of help is great for him.
miss.a.p1600
08-03-2020, 11:28 AM
L said he was worried I’d leave him if the sex doesn’t improve soon.
What he doesn’t realize is my gold digger tendencies and I’d be more likely to leave a guy who doesn’t quickly improve his financial status than I would if the sex didn’t improve.
I’d rather have financially security with Mediocre sex than be dickmatized by a lower class dude who doesn’t make enough money.
As long as I have hands n a vibrator I’m good.
I am going to have to eventually tell him the truth cause I can’t hide my true feelings if I do I’ll end up resenting him and it’s not fair to do that to someone.
Once I get a promotion - if he ain’t got one too.....I’m out! It’s going to be hard cause he’s super supportive in every other aspect
whirlerz
08-03-2020, 01:22 PM
Really disgusted rn.
A dead bug (roach) on the stove, + plus stove top left dirty, which I cleaned, ugh.:yikes:
Plus I took out the garbage in the kitchen (no one else will) >:() & cleaned the counter tops, kitchen table
I also washed the filthy bathroom rugs (TG I have my own br), but the washer dryer are in the other br.
I know it's a constant gripe..
Then, my tum got upset, had to take pepto-bismal
whirlerz
08-03-2020, 05:54 PM
I am so tempted to hide the black metal things that fit over the stove's burners.
miss.a.p1600
08-03-2020, 06:24 PM
My friend from the upper middle class told me she has a wealthy guy friend she wants to hook me up with.
I told her about L and how everything was perfect except his current earnings and how I didn’t believe he could provide the lifestyle I envision.
She asked if I would be okay if she gave him my number and I said okay.
I realized I didn’t tell her that he asked me to be his gf and I agreed. I just told her we were dating.
Is this “cheating”?
miss.a.p1600
08-03-2020, 06:25 PM
I just ordered a vibrator from amazon.
It claims to give orgasms in less than 5 minutes
I can’t wait!!!!!
whirlerz
08-03-2020, 06:34 PM
My friend from the upper middle class told me she has a wealthy guy friend she wants to hook me up with.
I told her about L and how everything was perfect except his current earnings and how I didn’t believe he could provide the lifestyle I envision.
She asked if I would be okay if she gave him my number and I said okay.
I realized I didn’t tell her that he asked me to be his gf and I agreed. I just told her we were dating.
Is this “cheating”?
Nah, go for it!
I just ordered a vibrator from amazon.
It claims to give orgasms in less than 5 minutes
I can’t wait!!!!!
Wow!!!
moneybags
08-04-2020, 02:11 AM
My friend from the upper middle class told me she has a wealthy guy friend she wants to hook me up with.
I told her about L and how everything was perfect except his current earnings and how I didn’t believe he could provide the lifestyle I envision.
She asked if I would be okay if she gave him my number and I said okay.
I realized I didn’t tell her that he asked me to be his gf and I agreed. I just told her we were dating.
Is this “cheating”?
I can’t tell you what’s right or wrong? Only you can.
I don’t think I’d date someone exclusively ever. Let me explain, one of old friends was really smart and ghetto-I mean ghetto in a good way. She grew up in the hood and she was a classy girl, but she knew better to believe in fairytales. Anyways, she said that she told every guy unless they had a ring on her finger she would have no problem upgrading. She was kind about it, but unless there’s a ring on her finger she had no problem finding greener grass . In the beginning, I was like “Wow” but now I understand. She was just putting herself first.
I’ve opted out of the game, so can’t give good advice.
miss.a.p1600
08-04-2020, 04:44 AM
^ yeah I didn’t realize it until now that I shouldn’t have agreed to his terms so soon. Like 1 week in he asked me to be his gf
2 weeks in we’re having sex, he’s calling me babe, telling me he doesn’t want any other women, talking about marriage, and spending every waking moment with me.
I realize I let this move too fast too soon
miss.a.p1600
08-04-2020, 04:56 AM
L told me his ex wife came over his house but he claims she was just eating with their kids and that he wasn’t even there and that he’s not interested in her at all.
In my mind I secretly hope she puts some moves on him
Makes my job a lot easier if/when I end this he can seamlessly go back to his Bertha ex wife.
miss.a.p1600
08-04-2020, 05:00 AM
I can’t tell you what’s right or wrong? Only you can.
I don’t think I’d date someone exclusively ever. Let me explain, one of old friends was really smart and ghetto-I mean ghetto in a good way. She grew up in the hood and she was a classy girl, but she knew better to believe in fairytales. Anyways, she said that she told every guy unless they had a ring on her finger she would have no problem upgrading. She was kind about it, but unless there’s a ring on her finger she had no problem finding greener grass . In the beginning, I was like “Wow” but now I understand. She was just putting herself first.
I’ve opted out of the game, so can’t give good advice.
I told L how men hit on me at work all the time.
He should know that when women work outside the home, they are at greater risk of risk meeting someone else better.
JGB2009
08-04-2020, 06:26 AM
I had chips for breakfast...
WendiStarr
08-04-2020, 02:38 PM
I had my mandatory business attire top on all day during Zoom meeting/8 hour class. What no one knew is that I had polka dot booty shorts on bottom.
moneybags
08-04-2020, 10:42 PM
I had my mandatory business attire top on all day during Zoom meeting/8 hour class. What no one knew is that I had polka dot booty shorts on bottom.
I love you. I’m gonna laugh about that for days. LOL
It’s really flattering when younger guys hit on me, but it’s weird. Especially when I’m wearing a mask. Dude you can’t even see my face. I definitely attract men who like older women. If I ever date...haha like that will ever happen.. he’ll definitely be a cub.
carmen_b
08-05-2020, 08:46 AM
^ Love it. I find myself drawn to the younger ones at times myself. :)
miss.a.p1600
08-05-2020, 08:51 AM
I told L my vibrator came. He text back saying not to use it without him.
Too late! I actually prefer myself and my vibrator cause I didn’t have to deal with a guy staring at me and trying to figure out how to please me without gawking n asking “did you come?!?”
“No mf I did not come....with you” Now I will be off to solo pleasure where there is no pressure, no expectations, no gawking, and no dumb ass questions.
I like that he tries to please me but cotdamn sometimes I just want to do it without all the things listed above.
I had my mandatory business attire top on all day during Zoom meeting/8 hour class. What no one knew is that I had polka dot booty shorts on bottom.
I do this too, for interviews n stuff lol, I can’t stand pants at home..
I confess I want no sex now that I am entering my 2nd trimester, I mean non, it just does nothing for me at this point, isn’t it supposed to be the opposite, now is when u should want it..
whirlerz
08-05-2020, 09:07 AM
Well, my former crush upstairs is back texting me.. I left him a burger yesterday (I didn't want it)
He said 2 molars broke off yesterday, which I told him to Google around, my dentist told me of a free place.
So now I left him some Asian rice & chilli
carmen_b
08-05-2020, 11:02 AM
^ Are these treats drop ever gonna pay off ? Lol