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miss.a.p1600
10-11-2020, 09:06 PM
L’s kids is not okay with him dating
Great
I do not have time for the attitudes of bey bey kids. I hope he gets that together. Law n order! Lol!
miss.a.p1600
10-12-2020, 06:17 AM
L wanted to do an activity with his kids n I
Well one of the kids invited his ex wife and she said okay.
Now he’s trying to figure a way to uninvite her.
I said why not invite Bertha looking broad along. He’s like no that would be awkward lol!
^^lol, see that’s y the kids r too much!!
WendiStarr
10-12-2020, 12:16 PM
I need to hide my absentee voter ballot from my boyfriend. He's a Trump supporter and I'm not. I don't want him messing with it so I have it hidden in the baby's room.
^^LOL, those trump supporters are so into it, they would do such things!! I cant with his rally today, like really it looks like a rally from pre pandemic times.. u would think nothing is wrong till tons of people who attended die before they ever get to vote.. wtf
indiegirl
10-12-2020, 08:10 PM
This bitch is still at 98% in class. I literally emerged from that midterm and went to sleep right after being up all night studying. Hopefully starting the next portion of nursing school next month if I'm given the thumbs up after my background check. Finished a nursing program interview this morning and feeling so happy about this one even though it is more pricey than the previous 2 I talked to about enrolling in.
chanzep
10-12-2020, 08:11 PM
Don't feel pressured to spend time with his kids. You are his girlfriend not his wife you are not obligated to. I wouldn't unless I wanted to marry a guy as we had been together a while. Enjoy the girlfriend life.
indiegirl
10-12-2020, 09:02 PM
Unsure if I'm procrastinating but I'm taking a break to watch youtube videos of Disneyland rides again like a crazy person trying to wish I was there. Round 2 of this lol.
moneybags
10-13-2020, 09:32 AM
Gave a doctor fuck me eyes...can’t help it. Stripper habits die hard.
miss.a.p1600
10-13-2020, 04:42 PM
L didn't call me last night like he usually does. He said he spent all evening with his daughter. She had a meltdown when he told her for the second time that he had a girlfriend and is not with her mom anymore.
I'm actually kind of relieved I had a night to myself to read and organize.
Elle:)
10-14-2020, 11:51 PM
I think I am officially out of ideas.
WendiStarr
10-15-2020, 08:32 AM
I'm looking forward to later. I'm aggravated and want to be alone. I had to book a hotel room just so that I can take an exam for class. There's no way I'd be able to take it at home with a teething baby hollering and wanting to be on the boob all day.
indiegirl
10-15-2020, 02:48 PM
I love comparing myself to others and getting upset. I got incredibly frustrated hearing my brothers fiance was given the entire downpayment on her house at $$$,$$$$ at 23-24 yrs old along with paying for her college tuition. Learning my brother paid her family back for the downpayment had me livid. Some people get such an easy life. Makes me re-evaluate myself and wish I married wealthy because I've had to pay for everything compared to the females in my family who are judgmental.
miss.a.p1600
10-16-2020, 07:03 PM
L is annoying tf out of me with his cheapskate confessions and deal searching antics
I just ignore him n text on here while he rants to himself
carmen_b
10-16-2020, 07:14 PM
^ Not defending him here but it’s such a stressful time for $ stuff for so many.
Me included !
L is annoying tf out of me with his cheapskate confessions and deal searching antics
I just ignore him n text on here while he rants to himself
Lol, I hate this also with men, it’s such a turn off when there cheap or frugal, like get the eff outta here w that and if u do it don’t let me see it... I’ve even noticed this w doctors or lawyers I’ve dated n am thinking wtf, I mean the ones I dated were new to it and younger so probably super in debt just getting outta school looking back that was probably y but it’s a turnoff fo sho!!👎🏼👎🏼
miss.a.p1600
10-16-2020, 08:22 PM
That’s my exact point!!!
He loves to brag about the deals and the sales and I get it. Everyone loves a good deal but I don’t want to know that you got your whole outfit for $12. Maybe this would be great for married couples on a tight joint budget but were don’t share accounts so this is too much info
miss.a.p1600
10-16-2020, 08:27 PM
I think he’s pissed at me.
I NEED to be alone tonight, he knows I have “free time”, and I would rather be by myself than boo’d up right now.
I just am moody cause I didn’t do well at work this week, I can’t tell him the real reason because it’s not like he can do anything to help, so I tell white lies while I get more wrapped up in trying to get better at work.
I do this to guys all the time. If they aren’t or barely doing anything financially then I have less time to spend with them.
chanzep
10-17-2020, 09:52 AM
L is annoying tf out of me with his cheapskate confessions and deal searching antics
I just ignore him n text on here while he rants to himself
Yeah this is a major turnoff. Even in the book The Art Of Seduction it says cheapness is anti seductive. I remember your posts saying he is a bad tipper. There's nothing wrong with saving money but no need to go on about it.
Also it's understandable you wanting time alone.
chanzep
10-17-2020, 10:06 AM
I love watching Cheaters on Saturday lol. Now there is a dancer cheating. I think she is with a customer.
chanzep
10-17-2020, 10:18 AM
So he not a customer but her man's best friend!. Messy.
whirlerz
10-17-2020, 10:53 AM
Yipes^!
Life not tricky enuf?
Jeez.
Anyone care to help me annoy a jerk on here?
Bump the Asian characters thread, "Get, can someone do something for me", Lounge. No, not a nice person.
Thanks in advance.
This latest a/hole.roomie (the convict) has a WiFi repeater/extender, which we're Not supposed to have!.
This other jerk had one, it fucks it up here, I remember the maintenance guy telling him to get rid of it, &he did .
I already got bumped off a bunch of times, used up a LOT of data>:(
Just waiting for the right time to text him about it.
Savannah Lee
10-17-2020, 11:34 PM
Started sleeping with an old fling. It was always strictly physical and that lasted about 8 yrs on and off. About 2 yrs ago he let me know he started dating someone and could no longer see me. I respected that and we stopped communicating. Fast forward to a few months ago, he contacted me and we have since started seeing each other again. When he reached out to me, I knew he was in a relationship with someone and they had a child together. While we've been seeing each other, he has since gotten engaged, married, and just told me expecting another child with this same woman he stopped seeing me for 2 years ago. I'm just getting out of a very abusive relationship and for some reason I only feel comfortable sleeping with old lovers and have zero desire to meet any new men..
He didn't cheat on her when they were dating but he's ok with cheating on her now ?? Ugh
WendiStarr
10-18-2020, 07:51 AM
I'm in an I hate men mood again.
Started sleeping with an old fling. It was always strictly physical and that lasted about 8 yrs on and off. About 2 yrs ago he let me know he started dating someone and could no longer see me. I respected that and we stopped communicating. Fast forward to a few months ago, he contacted me and we have since started seeing each other again. When he reached out to me, I knew he was in a relationship with someone and they had a child together. While we've been seeing each other, he has since gotten engaged, married, and just told me expecting another child with this same woman he stopped seeing me for 2 years ago. I'm just getting out of a very abusive relationship and for some reason I only feel comfortable sleeping with old lovers and have zero desire to meet any new men..
He didn't cheat on her when they were dating but he's ok with cheating on her now ?? Ugh
I’m going to guess he was more into her at the time and now, she’s been around so long the sex is probably not as good and he needs more excitement, he sounds like a POS.
Savannah Lee
10-18-2020, 10:59 AM
Yeah I can't really get over the wife being pregnant thing and how nonchalant he was about telling me. Haven't seen him since.
trustfundkiller
10-19-2020, 06:31 PM
Sometimes I wonder if my sugar daddy is in the beginning stages of dementia. He tells me the same stories and says the same shit over and over again. He'll tell me a story, and then tell me the same story a few hours later. Sadly, he never seems to forget when he's already paid me. His older sister has Alzheimer's. I'd marry him in a heartbeat if I found out he did :D
lynn2009
10-19-2020, 06:42 PM
I know she means well, but someone in my extended family is driving me nuts. I visited her family when they were on vacation nearby a couple of months ago and honestly it was not fun. They are being really intense about social distancing, and driving an hour just to be treated like an infection was not a pleasant way to spend a Saturday. In fact they are being so intense about it that I think they are going to traumatize their kids. In any case, I work in public health so I completely respect CV is serious and when required by law or to make people comfortable I always wear a mask or social distance. But I'm also allowed to find it a pain in the ass and avoid situations that require this in the first place. She keeps insisting I go spend a night Halloween weekend and I really don't want to. She said we could avoid masks and distancing if I quarantined the week prior, which I can't do because I don't have a maid. So otherwise she said they would "allow" me to spend the night in their spare room and we could wear masks. And I'm sorry but this just does not sound fun. And I'm pretty sure she doesn't really care if I visit but is one of these people that considers me a charity case because I spend so much time in solitude. But having a low-key Halloween with just me and the dog and a scary movie sounds lovely to me. I don't really like visiting anyway...she and her husband are kind of extra in my opinion even in good times and don't really let their kids be kids. She's a really good person and I know she means well but seriously...just give me a break.
Oh for fuck sake I finally insisted I was not going for Halloween. Now she's up my butt about renting an Airbnb for Thanksgiving and going over for dinner. Leave me the fuck alone already.
JGB2009
10-20-2020, 03:27 AM
I miss our morning text. I am so sad :-(
indiegirl
10-20-2020, 04:54 AM
I love buying my mom birthday gifts each year and getting more excited than she probably is over the gift LOL. I'm so excited for the gift in the next few days. I once splurged on a b-day present years ago and texted her for a full month about it. All her co-workers wanted to know what I finally got her. It was her dream trip to Scotland. I can't control my excitement and end up youtube watching what I bought her lol. Currently have been watching tours of a god damn restaurant for a few days so excited for her to go there. No shame... lol. Now I'm back to saving for school...mom always comes first though because you only have 1. :)
WendiStarr
10-20-2020, 12:27 PM
I had a phone interview today. I'm trying to be optimistic but at the same time, I'm not going to be too bummed out about it if I don't get the job. In all honesty I googled some of the questions that the interviewer dude asked me, during the phone interview.
whirlerz
10-20-2020, 01:45 PM
I had a phone interview today. I'm trying to be optimistic but at the same time, I'm not going to be too bummed out about it if I don't get the job. In all honesty I googled some of the questions that the interviewer dude asked me, during the phone interview.
Most of them don't know WTF they want, or what they're doing
indiegirl
10-20-2020, 02:29 PM
Most of them don't know WTF they want, or what they're doing
A phone interview sounds so much better than being in person. I hate having to get all dolled up and sit in traffic to waste my time.
yaya_cash
10-21-2020, 12:19 PM
Sometimes I wonder if my sugar daddy is in the beginning stages of dementia. He tells me the same stories and says the same shit over and over again. He'll tell me a story, and then tell me the same story a few hours later. Sadly, he never seems to forget when he's already paid me. His older sister has Alzheimer's. I'd marry him in a heartbeat if I found out he did :D
Haha, you're funny. I can't stop laughing. Maybe he has no new experiences to tell you and you have to create more experiences with him... whatever experiences you want to do incorporate him / get him to spend on.
JGB2009
10-21-2020, 08:53 PM
I kind of stood someone up tonight and I really don't even care. I also miss having sex with my last child's dad. I was never bored with him. At least he had a sex drive.
carmen_b
10-21-2020, 09:08 PM
^ Nothing infuriates me more than a low libido partner. I always found myself trying to " work " with these people and it's led to misery and rage every time. So now I just considering it an incompatible match ( if monogamy is a factor ) .
miss.a.p1600
10-22-2020, 07:53 AM
I waited anxiously af for 4 days to get my period
Thought I was pregnant
Tried to have a lot of orgasms to bring my period on and let the post orgasm hormones relax my fears
Had long deep talks about an unplanned pregnancy with L
Cried like a bitch over and over again because I felt like shit about not being “ready”
And just....I want to take a day off and go to the park to ease my past 5 day neurotic binge but I need to get to work
Now I’m back to hustling (n cramping)
WendiStarr
10-22-2020, 08:55 AM
I'm frustrated that I can't be miss independent working a full-time job, supporting myself AND be a mom. It seems like I can only do one or the other. I used to be able to before because my oldest kid is much older and used to leave for school so I had a lot more freedom. With the kids at home 24/7 it's hard. I wish my boyfriend understood how hard it is to try to cam and do pso when I have to be taking care of kids all day too. I can't stick to any set schedule and it's hard to keep my custies because of this. I'm disappointed by how much money I've lost out on. He at least gets a set 9 hours a day, 5 days a week where he can work his job from home. He doesn't give me that same courtesy since he doesn't see camming or pso as a real job. It's such bullshit because even when I was working the vanilla customer service job from home, I still had to juggle that with taking care of the kids and trying to keep them quiet while I was taking phone calls and chats back to back from customers, who would tell my supervisor on me about background noise(ie. baby crying) during a call. I wish I could be like superwoman and do both successfully but I'm not skilled like that. I feel like no matter what, if I put work first then the kids will be neglected and if I put the kids first, my income will suffer. There is no happy medium. I'm so over this pandemic, the uncertainty, and not having a stable income. 8 months of this is long enough already!
chanzep
10-22-2020, 10:31 AM
Wendi sorry you are going through this, I can't imagine how hard it is. You need to have a talk with your boyfriend. Your jobs are real too and he needs to respect that. I thought you were studying full time?. You need to try to make a plan based on your needs. Is it essential that you work full time? You have a small child so I would only do what's needed. Hopefully your boyfriend is paying for everything. You need to really evaluate everything and do what's best for your family. I know it can be hard but you have a lot going on there's only so much you can do. I hope things get easier for you.
I'm frustrated that I can't be miss independent working a full-time job, supporting myself AND be a mom. It seems like I can only do one or the other. I used to be able to before because my oldest kid is much older and used to leave for school so I had a lot more freedom. With the kids at home 24/7 it's hard. I wish my boyfriend understood how hard it is to try to cam and do pso when I have to be taking care of kids all day too. I can't stick to any set schedule and it's hard to keep my custies because of this. I'm disappointed by how much money I've lost out on. He at least gets a set 9 hours a day, 5 days a week where he can work his job from home. He doesn't give me that same courtesy since he doesn't see camming or pso as a real job. It's such bullshit because even when I was working the vanilla customer service job from home, I still had to juggle that with taking care of the kids and trying to keep them quiet while I was taking phone calls and chats back to back from customers, who would tell my supervisor on me about background noise(ie. baby crying) during a call. I wish I could be like superwoman and do both successfully but I'm not skilled like that. I feel like no matter what, if I put work first then the kids will be neglected and if I put the kids first, my income will suffer. There is no happy medium. I'm so over this pandemic, the uncertainty, and not having a stable income. 8 months of this is long enough already!
girl I feel this, all of it!! And the government doesn’t even wanna help us, any of us, I’ve lost so much damn $$ cause of this damn pandemic it’s insane and do they give a eff, hell no! And I feel the man not wanting to do ish, mine acts like that too unless I’m bringing $$ home but then who wants someone all in there pockets.. I sure don’t 👎🏼👎🏼
WendiStarr
10-22-2020, 01:11 PM
^ Yes, that's the thing. I've been going to school full-time while he's the sole income provider and at first he was fine with it. Then he starts with threatening to leave us, which means that I'd have to get a full-time job. Going to school is like a full-time job. Being a parent is also like a full-time (unpaid) job too and he wants me to work a full-time job on top of it. I feel like he expects me to work three full-time jobs and for what? Sometimes I fantasize about having multiple men, one to pay the bills and rent, one to help with domestic stuff/household chores, and one for sex.
chanzep
10-22-2020, 02:02 PM
Wow that is stressful. My ex did something similar to me. Can you put him in child support of he leaves?. I know the stress of having a man pay everything then threaten to leave. It becomes really stressful. I got so stressed I was sick. I can't imagine it with kids too plus stupid COVID. Are you able to get help from the government ? I'm not sure how the welfare system works here. But I do know if I had access to it like I did in my country I wouldn't of let someone stress me out about finances to the point I became really sick. I hope you can find a solution.
miss.a.p1600
10-23-2020, 06:41 AM
Sadly the government is just as unreliable.
Many child support systems are fallible because there are unsavory parents who will do ANYTHING (work under the table, work low paying jobs, move around a lot, etc) to avoid having to be financially responsible for kids they produce.
I’ve heard guys threaten women n say “if you file a child support claim you’re going to get less than what I give you now”
Not only that they operate slowly, the child support case workers are paid like minimum wage so the give zero fucks, etc
When a person needs to file child support with the government they have to be like a machine (no emotion, persistent, lots of research, go non stop until the issue gets resolved, etc) to get the money their kid is entitled to.
miss.a.p1600
10-23-2020, 07:11 AM
L told me he loved me yesterday :O
chanzep
10-23-2020, 01:21 PM
How do you feel about it?
indiegirl
10-23-2020, 07:52 PM
Wellll....I didn't last as long as I expected to tell my mom what her birthday gift was (4 hours to go before her birthday)...LOL. Close enough. :P...Been checking that dinner menu and videos of the place for too long and had to tell her hahaha. It's beachside too!!
queenelayliah
10-23-2020, 11:12 PM
I feel invisible, un-heard and worthless.
miss.a.p1600
10-24-2020, 06:27 AM
How do you feel about it?
I feel like now I have to be accountable
Like I can’t do my normal “I’m just going to slow fizzle out of this”
Now I have to be mature n shit because I don’t want to hurt his feelings
But also it feels like I’m connecting deeper to a guy. I’ve never done that so it feels like uncharted territory
I guess I’m surprised by how much I can be around him n not be annoyed like I get with most guys.
I told him I loved him too.
JGB2009
10-24-2020, 08:16 AM
I feel invisible, un-heard and worthless.
I have had days like this....{{Hugs}} wishing u happier days ahead.
miss.a.p1600
10-24-2020, 03:22 PM
I have hypergamous thoughts