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SnuffleUffleGrass
11-23-2020, 03:58 PM
^ Sugaring is not for the meek , omg. It is sometimes I swear the HARDEST hustle ever.
Word. I just saw this.
I couldn't hack it & I am pretty tough.
carmen_b
11-23-2020, 06:39 PM
^ Same. I honestly do have feeling for my SD ( because he literally hasn't ever let me down in like 9-10 years ).
We had some fun times in Hawaii last Feb. when I happened to not be seeing anyone in that time frame.
Even at the start of Corona fun he gave me $ when I was panicked.
He does know if I start to see someone though ( I fade ) . I think he also hijaked his way into my personal FB account . I swore this person seemed familiar and added them and then the " new friend " was gone in like two weeks. I have pictures of my current partner there so he is most likely pissed if that WAS indeed him ( it probably was !! ) .
I consider him a good friend and mentor but I also have very negative feeling sometimes because my former partner seemed to HATE me and NEVER forgive me after discovering that I ever sugared. I didn't have sex with my SD either ( he hoped on many occasions but nada ). :/
It sounds like I'm such a monster but what DOES one do one the same week in 2011 when they meet an older wealthy dude and a nice normal dude the same week ? See BOTH was my answer hahaha. My ex never really forgave me for that I think. Live and learn. Now I only sugar when actually single haha.
I often feel like if I wouldn't have gotten busted from that I might be married to the guy I was seeing in Hawaii 2011 and who moved with me to the mainland in 2016 only to leave me in 2018 !
^ The nutshell version of my wins / fails bundled, ugh.
indiegirl
11-23-2020, 08:45 PM
Word. I just saw this.
I couldn't hack it & I am pretty tough.
Takes a strong/patient person to be a sugar baby. I'd snap at them. I need payment upfront. Remembering having feelings for one customer to only find out he had a wife. Never again. I went back to business only. My rule now is no customers in the dating area.
lurkingtitties
11-24-2020, 03:17 PM
I just talked to my parents about my dog going to stay with them for a while, while I get through the covid outbreak at work and moving into a new place. They’re happy to have him around-my dad just had a big shoulder surgery so it will probably be good for him to have a furry friend. But I feel like the biggest failure any time I’m not able to take care of him on my own!
whirlerz
11-24-2020, 05:12 PM
Between the over sharing over posting men, spamming trolls on here, my eyes are rolling back in my head & I'm ready to vom...:yikes:
miss.a.p1600
11-24-2020, 08:15 PM
Lol!! Those dudes are some damn characters
It’s actually quite entertaining when their dumb asses be arguing with each other
indiegirl
11-24-2020, 08:36 PM
Between the over sharing over posting men, spamming trolls on here, my eyes are rolling back in my head & I'm ready to vom...:yikes:
The men on here are too much drama. This is what happens when things are cheap or free for men. It attracts the intolerable ones.
charlie61
11-25-2020, 07:29 PM
^i don't know why i read that as "too much diarrhea" instead of "too much drama," lol. But i feel both are accurate.
indiegirl
11-25-2020, 09:35 PM
The time has come to pick another tv show and eat my frozen Thanksgiving dinner tomorrow lol! Found a witch tv show but kinda hightailed it outta there once I saw it was on the Hallmark Channel haha. Not the best acting when it comes to that channel. I usually make great money on holidays or pre-thanksgiving but I'm nervous this year since I don't know how it's gonna pan out because of covid.
baer45
11-25-2020, 09:42 PM
There was this house my brother really wanted to buy. But I might have given him the wrong advice on the offer. He didn’t get the house, it’s been bothering me.
indiegirl
11-25-2020, 10:09 PM
There was this house my brother really wanted to buy. But I might have given him the wrong advice on the offer. He didn’t get the house, it’s been bothering me.
It's hard depending on the area you live how to know what to offer. Does he have a realtor or did he decide to go without getting one?
miss.a.p1600
11-25-2020, 10:15 PM
L confessed his love for me again today
Said he was considering asking me to marry him in a couple months
I want to see him take a higher paying job before I agree.
I don’t know how to tell him this without shattering his ego or making him become militant and refuse to do anything he knows I want
The time has come to pick another tv show and eat my frozen Thanksgiving dinner tomorrow lol! Found a witch tv show but kinda hightailed it outta there once I saw it was on the Hallmark Channel haha. Not the best acting when it comes to that channel. I usually make great money on holidays or pre-thanksgiving but I'm nervous this year since I don't know how it's gonna pan out because of covid.
right, i hate those fake acting shows, netflix is pretty good, i need a new show on there, some there r bad also but plenty good ones
charlie61
11-25-2020, 10:48 PM
L confessed his love for me again today
Said he was considering asking me to marry him in a couple months
I want to see him take a higher paying job before I agree.
I don’t know how to tell him this without shattering his ego or making him become militant and refuse to do anything he knows I want
Girl, is that really all he'd need to do to get you to marry him??
indiegirl
11-25-2020, 11:32 PM
L confessed his love for me again today
Said he was considering asking me to marry him in a couple months
I want to see him take a higher paying job before I agree.
I don’t know how to tell him this without shattering his ego or making him become militant and refuse to do anything he knows I want
I totally get what you mean. Marrying someone without enough money and the possibility of not being able to afford kids (if wanted) versus a more comfortable lifestyle sounds so much better than having arguments over financial stress/bills. Plus it is more attractive when they are striving to make more money for the family and not being lazy.
One escort I was in contact with (husband doesn't know she was one) met her husband on some playboy cruise or something. She now has 2 kids, drives a ferrari, and lives on ocean front property in LA. Talk about an upgrade. (Doesn't mean we all need that to be happy but someone who is a provider for the family is important)
baer45
11-26-2020, 09:03 AM
It's hard depending on the area you live how to know what to offer. Does he have a realtor or did he decide to go without getting one?
I am his realtor...
whirlerz
11-26-2020, 09:41 AM
L confessed his love for me again today
Said he was considering asking me to marry him in a couple months
I want to see him take a higher paying job before I agree.
I don’t know how to tell him this without shattering his ego or making him become militant and refuse to do anything he knows I want
Sorry if this sounds harsh ..
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Men (in my opinion) default to the, I might ask you to marry..they talk about it. $ talks, BS walks.
Hiw many X"s have I heard & fallen for, a bunch if fucking lines, been pacified to keep dragging along w/some one (wasting my time in the process..
Just saying, your call dear. Best to ya
lurkingtitties
11-26-2020, 10:35 AM
Girl, is that really all he'd need to do to get you to marry him??
Yoo for real...he needs a higher paying job AND to learn where the clit is first!
miss.a.p1600
11-26-2020, 06:36 PM
^yeah he doesn’t know the difference between a vibrator and a dildo either. How he be married for 11 years but not know the basics of sex toys? Him and his exBertha must have had the most boring sex plain af sex life. To each their own I guess.
Anyways
I finally confessed that I had gone against the agreement to only use a vibrator together and that I had solo vibrator time.
Then he was looking all sad n whatnot because he said I could ask him anytime for that and then he halfway joked that he was going to confiscate my vibrator / that I was “cheating”. He should have never asked the question if he didn’t want to know the answer.
I guess I would rather use my toys alone cause last time I let him use vibrator on me he kept moving it all around (it has various sensation modes so I didn’t want him moving it around) and pressing it too hard on my clit.
I think ima try ONE more time with the vibrator. With one of those vibes cam ladies be using where the woman puts it on and their partner can control it by remote. I’m also going to have to school him, give him a harsh ultimatum....he finds my clit or we will not be having sex until that is accomplished first.
Sorry if this sounds harsh ..
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Men (in my opinion) default to the, I might ask you to marry..they talk about it. $ talks, BS walks.
Hiw many X"s have I heard & fallen for, a bunch if fucking lines, been pacified to keep dragging along w/some one (wasting my time in the process..
Just saying, your call dear. Best to ya
I agree. I thought about that a while ago.
That him throwing out the “I want to marry you one day soon” (whether he means it or not) is one way men think they can keep women around.
I get the feeling he’s serious but he subconsciously knows that I can (and will) leave anytime to pursue more beneficial options - since we have no legal commitment so he keeps bringing it up thinking that’s one way I’ll stay with him.
naomi_doll
11-26-2020, 06:47 PM
He only wants you to use a vibrator with him around? Please don’t marry this dude he’s so insecure.
whirlerz
11-26-2020, 06:51 PM
He only wants you to use a vibrator with him around? Please don’t marry this dude he’s so insecure.
I said basically the same, (except I said I didn't even think they were compatible)
miss.a.p1600
11-26-2020, 07:03 PM
He only wants you to use a vibrator with him around? Please don’t marry this dude he’s so insecure.
According to this article about 37% of women said their partner would be upset with the idea of using vibrators. https://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/us_1074017
This question “why are some men so intimidated by women using vibrators” was posed in another forum and the responses are interesting f https://gossip.thedirty.com/gossip/dallas/why-are-guys-so-intimidated-by-sex-toys/#post-1502526
I said basically the same, (except I said I didn't even think they were compatible)
If we don’t get on the same page about finances and sex then no we will not be compatible.
I guess I’m trying to give some opportunity for efforts leading to improvement vs. doing my usual quick ditch/slow fizzle.
There are some things he does well that I suppose I don’t highlight as much as my rants n whatnot. But yeah the money and the sex are two major things that may very well be dealbreakers
naomi_doll
11-26-2020, 07:24 PM
I said basically the same, (except I said I didn't even think they were compatible)
Sorry, I read a lot of these on my tiny phone and miss stuff. You are right.
indiegirl
11-27-2020, 06:08 AM
Sooooo....I decided to throw a tantrum when my mom texted and wished me a happy thanksgiving as the night grew later. I haven’t attended anything family related for more than 7-8 years. She told me my sister was angry at me too. Girllllll! There is nothing for her to be angry over. I financially helped her when she needed it until her meal ticket married her. Then my mom said we need to go to counseling. Like hell! I am not going to counseling for a woman who was crying at the gas station without money and given no thank you/hung up on when I sent the money. Telling family/relatives I was a sex worker to embarrass me while she happily took my money for her bills when I told her not to Or driving without hesitation to pick her up when she was drunk in Fullerton with no ride and when I had a bad night said “can’t you get a ride?” Plus more situations. It pained me I had to reinforce no contact but I need this for myself right now. I hate my sister she’s an adult baby with children. Lol. And the fact she isn’t even sorry or rethinking her BS. Girlllll I was helping you and I’m now the perpetrator and you’re the victim lolll?!
Sorry came here to vent. And my mom “you have hurt this family with your secretive life” okay mom.... this is how bills are paid right now.
Not an A+ day
carmen_b
11-27-2020, 01:47 PM
^ Beyond fucked up and toxic to take the $ but then throw shame your way !!
Ugh!!!
How about a thank you ? :(
miss.a.p1600
11-27-2020, 02:14 PM
The successful carribean guy who my friend was going to hook me up with right before L asked me to be in a relationship with him just text me even after I informed him I was single at the time I okayed the matchmaking but he took like a month to get back to me and by that time I was already with L.
Idk if it’s worth it to even chat him up on a friendly level.
My friend admitted she was reluctant to hook us up because he’s “alpha male” aka narcissistic, misogynistic, toxic masculinity,, player who won’t be tamed. I wonder am I going to the extreme or am I right on the money?
miss.a.p1600
11-27-2020, 02:19 PM
^who am I kidding
I really don’t have time to entertain a harem unless I’m getting paid.
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carmen_b
11-27-2020, 03:44 PM
^ I’d just offer a paid setting if he comes to your town probably haha.
Time is so valuable.
carmen_b
11-27-2020, 03:45 PM
I just bought 9 massage gift certificates for Black Friday.
Amazing deals just can’t be passed up. Haha
I’m good for like 3-4 months on massages.
But should I stock for 5-6 months lol?
I will tip very well of course ( a pay it forward reflection of getting these deals ).
miss.a.p1600
11-27-2020, 05:12 PM
^ I’d just offer a paid setting if he comes to your town probably haha.
Time is so valuable.
That’s the Texas guy. Which I happened to just get off the phone with.
This guy is here in my city and an associate of one of the soccer moms in my friend group.
Id love to offer a paid setting if we get to that point. If I am going to take the risk of finding greener grass, ima definitely need to see some money upfront. It may have to be very discreet because I don’t want her (or anyone else) knowing all my business b
miss.a.p1600
11-27-2020, 05:14 PM
I just bought 9 massage gift certificates for Black Friday.
Amazing deals just can’t be passed up. Haha
I’m good for like 3-4 months on massages.
But should I stock for 5-6 months lol?
I will tip very well of course ( a pay it forward reflection of getting these deals ).
nice!
yes get as many as you can.
Some places only offer these discounts during Black Friday .... once a year
JGB2009
11-27-2020, 07:52 PM
My kids aunt died last week. I went to see her at the viewing today. She was only 42. I feel so sad and numb.
indiegirl
11-27-2020, 08:06 PM
I thinks it's hilarious that after all these years as a SW I alway need to blast party music on my phone to pump me up before and during the appointment LOL. Most girls just do the job in silence and go home. It's like I've turned the hotel into a personal strip club LOL. Oh and I've been wearing a hat for many months throughout all the appointments lately because I don't wanna damage my hair styling or curling it.
chanzep
11-27-2020, 08:10 PM
Sorry for your loss
AChildOfBoredom
11-27-2020, 08:20 PM
I can be a very lenient person, except when it come to matters concerning myself. I bought one of those stun guns a few years back. Not some cheap dime store one - this one will roast someone’s ass real good. I know this all too well, because I’ve only ever used it on myself whenever I did something I feel like I shouldn’t have done, as a reminder to never do it again. As I’ve said before, I maintain an extremely high level of self discipline, and I do not give myself a pass for any time when I fall short with it. But, what do I do when it’s not enough? Because I’m having that problem right now. What can I do to out myself back in line?
charlie61
11-27-2020, 08:27 PM
I can be a very lenient person, except when it come to matters concerning myself. I bought one of those stun guns a few years back. Not some cheap dime store one - this one will roast someone’s ass real good. I know this all too well, because I’ve only ever used it on myself whenever I did something I feel like I shouldn’t have done, as a reminder to never do it again.
Giiiiirl, are you for real?? Lol
AChildOfBoredom
11-27-2020, 08:34 PM
Giiiiirl, are you for real?? Lol
Absolutely. I entered adult life with ~$1000 to my name and a little Ford Ranger that was a year older than me. Failure meant for certain that I would end up going back and feeling trapped in a way of life which I felt with every fiber of my being was wrong for me. So I absolutely would not - and still do not - tolerate failure on my end.
chanzep
11-27-2020, 09:10 PM
am watching Life after lockup this show is a mess.
indiegirl
11-27-2020, 10:26 PM
am watching Life after lockup this show is a mess.
Hahaha it's like a Jerry Springer reality show.
miss.a.p1600
11-28-2020, 06:40 AM
^yes. It has to be scripted on some level.
The one dude Michael whose a baby daddy/jailbird that has a harem of like 3 women. Dick n tongue must be superb cause I have no clue what those women see in him.
WendiStarr
11-28-2020, 11:56 AM
^^^ Every time while getting ready to strip or see fbsm clients, I'd blast,"Boys Wanna Be Her" by Peaches. That song would get me all pumped up about going in to work, make me feel like a badass, ready to slay and make money.
Don't get me wrong. I love my kids and being Betty Crocker/teacher/maid/chef, etc but I miss the days of being the sexy dancer or masseuse. These days I don't bother straightening my hair and rarely wear makeup anymore. Then when I look in the mirror I think who's that plain, pasty, ugly lady with the wild wavy hair staring at me.
chanzep
11-28-2020, 01:42 PM
I have been eyeing up makeup on sale online. I really miss doing myself up. I might just start and become a Insta hoe lol.
chanzep
11-28-2020, 01:44 PM
^yes. It has to be scripted on some level.
The one dude Michael whose a baby daddy/jailbird that has a harem of like 3 women. Dick n tongue must be superb cause I have no clue what those women see in him.
Yes I was watching and he said he had Devil dick! Lol. He is horrible I don't get it at all. The old dudes with the young girls are annoying too. They promised them stuff and now they being right with the money and act annoyed saying they are just being used lol what do they expect.
miss.a.p1600
11-28-2020, 02:31 PM
^Like that Scott dude.
Playing the role of a typical white knight trick, putting hella money on that Lizzie woman’s books, tricking off to the tenth power, then playing victim when she leaves him once his money runs dry.
That lady hustled the hell out of him lol!
miss.a.p1600
11-28-2020, 02:41 PM
I confessed to L last night that I need more in the sex department starting with his beliefs about vibrators.
He admitted it wasn’t something he was used to but he was willing to be more open minded and Apologized for being insensitive
I didn’t have the guts to tell him about the income thing because I didn’t want to crush his ego too much at one time. I’m going in steps and I’ll get to that topic soon.
indiegirl
11-28-2020, 03:14 PM
^yes. It has to be scripted on some level.
The one dude Michael whose a baby daddy/jailbird that has a harem of like 3 women. Dick n tongue must be superb cause I have no clue what those women see in him.
I really wanna know if '60 days in' on Netflix is staged. How are they allowed to have a camera crew in prison? Couldn't pay me enough to volunteer to be in prison for a reality show.
miss.a.p1600
11-28-2020, 07:52 PM
Never seen that.
Are the cameras hidden or in plain sight?
They could be in a minimum security prison. I’m sure some of the prisons have had cameras or publicity because when I think about it some of them commit newsworthy crimes, get interviews in prison and more.
But yeah I would not go to a prison for my 15min of fame.
I bet they sign waivers so they can’t sue production if they get injured when they’re in there
charlie61
11-28-2020, 08:39 PM
I have been eyeing up makeup on sale online. I really miss doing myself up. I might just start and become a Insta hoe lol.
Glossier never ever has sales, so i grabbed a few things from their black Friday sale. They're more of a no-makeup-makeup vibe though, which isn't for everyone. I really enjoy having a few products i can use while working from home to give my face a bit of life and dimension without having to put foundation on.
Colourpop also has a great sale happening, and their makeup is legit. Especially their eyeshadow and lip products.
indiegirl
11-28-2020, 08:53 PM
Never seen that.
Are the cameras hidden or in plain sight?
They could be in a minimum security prison. I’m sure some of the prisons have had cameras or publicity because when I think about it some of them commit newsworthy crimes, get interviews in prison and more.
But yeah I would not go to a prison for my 15min of fame.
I bet they sign waivers so they can’t sue production if they get injured when they’re in there
They have camera crew as well as cameras in the pods. One guy (poor Brian) signed up and didn't know prison protocol so he kept getting picked on, stuff taken, allegedly a fight against him, and being flashed by some prisoners. Poor guy didn't know what he was signing up for!
trustfundkiller
11-28-2020, 10:52 PM
I really miss the strip club. I'm hoping by this time next year the pandemic will be mostly over. I think Covid is here to stay, but I know it won't always be this big of an issue.