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indiegirl
12-24-2020, 12:59 PM
I have a 4.38 rating on Uber....For what?! Always been cordial with these people. Lyft is my type of mf-ers. 5 stars! Have to to head to the grocery store soon and done with going because that same guy is always there to say hello or create a convo when I don't want to.

charlie61
12-24-2020, 01:54 PM
Kinda want to scream. I was short changed tonight ( checked when he left) and did anal as well to appease him since I’ve seen him before. I’m upset for being stupid. I fucking hate anal.

Bad days in sex work are the lowest lows, and good days in sex work are the highest highs. I'm so sorry. Are you sure it was intentional?

indiegirl
12-24-2020, 01:59 PM
Bad days in sex work are the lowest lows, and good days in sex work are the highest highs. I'm so sorry. Are you sure it was intentional?

I dunno. I'm upset and want to move forward :(. I always charge extra for anal and this bitch gave me 40 bucks. 40!?!? There's girls in strip clubs that request 40 bucks to have their boobs touched....meanwhile this guy is putting it up my ass. So not okay.

ava$
12-24-2020, 02:23 PM
^^oh hell no, that’s so effed up!! It’s $40 a dance for sure u should contact him about it and if he doesn’t make it right, review him everywhere badly for that BS!!

indiegirl
12-24-2020, 05:47 PM
Always weird how people review you. This new one says I was too chatty and to not waste any time getting "started"... Okay you hired an escort? We're here for companionship as well and I don't know what you like because I'm not a mind reader. Some of these guys want to talk for 45 minutes long to get to know you and feel comfortable for their only 5 minute round of sex and some want back to back rounds of sex only. Down for both but let me know, it's not my fault. I opted to talk because old men like that tend to have ED. Didn't expect him to blab to the review community.

LoveyDovey
12-25-2020, 02:50 AM
Things with my boyfriend and I are taking an interesting turn. I'm thinking this may work out after all!

carmen_b
12-25-2020, 12:52 PM
^ Indie
Reviewer guys are the WORST. They are just so lame I can’t even put my full thoughts together.

Totally not your fault . He could have moved the session along.

carmen_b
12-25-2020, 12:53 PM
Ohhhhh :)


Things with my boyfriend and I are taking an interesting turn. I'm thinking this may work out after all!

indiegirl
12-25-2020, 02:09 PM
Hilarious how similar my mom and I are. Her next door older neighbor collapsed outside her house on her morning walk and she called the paramedics, 2 rescue squad, and a fire truck came. One of the firefighters really liked the new stucco work on my mom's house and OF COURSE...she invited him in to see the renovations BAHAHAHA. I'm so the same wanting to show people how excited I am with improvements lol!!! Anyone with eyes and ears....come on in! LOL.

Recall when she called the police over a burglar with her neighbors across the street and we both sat staring out the window hoping to watch some shit go down hahaha. "They're here!"

lurkingtitties
12-25-2020, 03:09 PM
Want to find a guy I can be honest with. Obviously that’s never gonna happen. I’ve done more than 12,000 people and feel bad about it. Not including regular repeats. Hoping to amp up my self esteem. I know it’s not a cute situation.

I'm late to this thread but girl that's pretty impressive. How many years did it take you to get to that number? You've been BUSY!

indiegirl
12-25-2020, 03:26 PM
I'm late to this thread but girl that's pretty impressive. How many years did it take you to get to that number? You've been BUSY!


Good reviews and working a lot. Been in the biz since I was 19. Celebrated my 20th in a strip club. Left around 20-21ish of stripping and have been in and out. 31 now of stripping but stuck with escorting mainly. It can be exhausting.

WendiStarr
12-25-2020, 03:41 PM
I have no idea how many people I've had sex with. I used to escort too. I used to tell myself that it didn't count if it was work.

ava$
12-25-2020, 04:23 PM
I have no idea how many people I've had sex with. I used to escort too. I used to tell myself that it didn't count if it was work.

That’s how I feel about it, the only ones that count r relationships and hookups if there worth a count... lol

indiegirl
12-25-2020, 05:37 PM
I have no idea how many people I've had sex with. I used to escort too. I used to tell myself that it didn't count if it was work.


In the back of my head it does. Like someone is there to yell at me to my subconscious for doing it haha! Feels easy to feel less than because an average female is not in the 12,000+ person ballpark. Kinda hoping nursing school and all my BS (but helpful calming) aromatherapy helps me with my problems and hoping to find a man LOL. I'm tired of being alone and want a family. Hoping for that in the future :)!

miss.a.p1600
12-25-2020, 09:24 PM
That’s how I feel about it, the only ones that count r relationships and hookups if there worth a count... lol

them shits don’t count either

after losing virginity it’s like there’s no purpose in numbers.

It’s not a number we ever share anyways.

doesn’t matter if ya fucked 2 guys 200 times or 200 guys 1 time each.

In my opinion

indiegirl
12-26-2020, 02:13 AM
“I just jizzed looking at your face photos”

Girl, the amount of times I’ve heard a man say that to me LOL. Who cums to face photos?Totally fine. But this is why I don’t do anything for free. They always manage to get what they can for free.

moneybags
12-26-2020, 11:59 PM
Well I’m over J. I swear it really takes the star aligning the right way for me fall in love with a guy, or to even want to have sex with a guy. The older I get, I move on so much quicker. I realize a crush is just crush. Love makes a dummy out of all of us. Glad I’m outta love and can focus on improving my financial situation. I’m not gonna lie, if he would have offered me something nice, then I probably would have slept with him. He didn’t know what he wanted.

Omg...if you want to screw a hot girl at least offer her something in return. I’m not sleeping with a guy for what...a nice dinner and hotel room. I can buy that for myself. You really have to tell guys to take you shopping because they are just clueless, but you have to do it in a way that doesn’t make you look like a money hungry whore. That’s the tricky part. Being aggressive enough to get money, and still be charming. I’m working on it.

carmen_b
12-27-2020, 12:02 AM
^ Oh ! So he did slink back around ! I told you he WOULD ! I also said make sure to get paid up front $$$$$$ hahahaha.

Jokes aside though there are honestly probably times he does care for his long term partner and times where he feel disconnected and is bored. It happens.

carmen_b
12-27-2020, 12:05 AM
Oh .... so wait .... he offered a nice dinner and hotel room ? ! ?

and .... that's IT ? :(

Yeah you honestly really have to spell it out.

Shopping or ask for a day spa experience or something out of your normal price range. I really can't advise on the married thing. I guess it's unethical ugh but before we talk ethics lets talk about his capacity to spend so we have all the info. :)

moneybags
12-27-2020, 12:11 AM
^ Oh ! So he did slink back around ! I told you he WOULD ! I also said make sure to get paid up front $$$$$$ hahahaha.

Jokes aside though there are honestly probably times he does care for his long term partner and times where he feel disconnected and is bored. It happens.

Bingo! Well I’m not gonna be someone’s fuck toy for free.

He didn’t offer anything. Never had the balls.

I was just assuming that’s what most guys offer women a nice date in order sex.

Yep, I’ll quit being coy and just tell a guy next time to take me on a “shopping date” and well see what happens.

indiegirl
12-27-2020, 12:13 AM
I hate it when I watch Dance Moms (hello lifetime youtube channel) and Abbey compares everyone to Maddie Ziegler. One of my previous customers had his daughter as Maddie's friend when Maddie was a kid....honestly Maddie is average when it comes to the dancing biz. No hate...I think it's all about business connections as usual.

Totally know that feeling of rejection when you get assigned to groups you don't want to and work hard as fuck to prove yourself. Favoritism is so common in that industry. Watching these young girls cry brings me back to memories of that industry as a kid. Treat you like a number in the dance competition world.

carmen_b
12-27-2020, 12:19 AM
Not saying you *should* just saying you could offer some companionship and high discretion should he have the capacity to spoil hahaha. Like ..... if you had a conversation about your " friend " who had a married guy as a boyfriend that truly treated her spectacularly and you were always just SO curious about the dynamic.

I'm awful ! Don't take my advice. I'm glad I am not in this situation. I'd probably be running from the wife in my new heels. :/


Bingo! Well I’m not gonna be someone’s fuck toy for free.

He didn’t offer anything. Never had the balls.

I was just assuming that’s what most guys offer women a nice date in order sex.

Yep, I’ll quit being coy and just tell a guy next time to take me on a “shopping date” and well see what happens.

miss.a.p1600
12-27-2020, 02:49 AM
Bingo! Well I’m not gonna be someone’s fuck toy for free.

He didn’t offer anything. Never had the balls.

I was just assuming that’s what most guys offer women a nice date in order sex.

Yep, I’ll quit being coy and just tell a guy next time to take me on a “shopping date” and well see what happens.

guys know what’s up.

they play dumb on purpose so they can get away with being lazy n cheap

but yes if they need more obvious hints - throw em out.

my past old dude would always offer to go on dates in a mall then after dinner date we’d walk around the mall and voila!

you’re right not to fuck for free - especially married dudes.

once I had a married dude who took me on a date and tried to fuck ..... in the damn restaurant. That’s what I liked about him that he was adventurous n risk taking

but I damn sure ain’t doing anything nor taking any risks for a married dude with zero compensation to make it worth my while ... so I ditched him. Guess he thought I was a young dumb gullible n naive broad who doesn’t know any better.

WendiStarr
12-27-2020, 06:56 AM
I had yesterday and today to cam (during baby's naps) since my oldest is visiting her grandparents(douchecanoe's parents). So far I can't even motivate myself to remove my ass from the bed or couch. I'm exhausted and my whole body aches. Can people get arthritis at 33? I feel old as fuck lately.

indiegirl
12-27-2020, 07:26 AM
This was the first holiday where I realized "geez my whole family is drifting apart and doing their own thing". My brother always tells my mom I never respond to his text messages when it's the actual opposite.When he finally decided to text me I just never responded back so he can be truthful this time BAHA. He sent me a text on how busy he was....Boy you ain't that busy to send a text back. Let me know when you're available so I can make sure I'm busy.

I'm flat out over it and removing myself from family and drama. I gotta create my own family so I don't wind up alone being a crazy old dog lady.

miss.a.p1600
12-27-2020, 09:13 AM
I had yesterday and today to cam (during baby's naps) since my oldest is visiting her grandparents(douchecanoe's parents). So far I can't even motivate myself to remove my ass from the bed or couch. I'm exhausted and my whole body aches. Can people get arthritis at 33? I feel old as fuck lately.

yes there’s a couple different types of arthritis. I knew this lady who had arthritis in high school.

miss.a.p1600
12-27-2020, 09:56 AM
I have no idea how many people I've had sex with. I used to escort too. I used to tell myself that it didn't count if it was work.

Somehow me and L got on topic of numbers.

He pisses me off sometimes when he acts like he’s the expert on women’s orgasms like he’s plowed through 100’S of women when he’s allegedly only had less than 20

Then he asked me my number and of course I never told him because it was irrelevant. I told him to guess and he said “6?” which is probably double of the actual numbers.

So when he tried to pull a number out of me I said “I don’t keep those kind of records n numbers”

He was looking shocked in a bad way.

I’m like bruh! Wtf am I going to keep a running list of some dudes I’m never going to see again, don’t want to remember those jokers, actually wished I could expunge them from my pussy record...... so yeah

He later said he was glad I never told him my numbers because he didn’t want to envision me being fucked by other men

moneybags
12-27-2020, 10:36 AM
guys know what’s up.

they play dumb on purpose so they can get away with being lazy n cheap

but yes if they need more obvious hints - throw em out.

my past old dude would always offer to go on dates in a mall then after dinner date we’d walk around the mall and voila!

you’re right not to fuck for free - especially married dudes.

once I had a married dude who took me on a date and tried to fuck ..... in the damn restaurant. That’s what I liked about him that he was adventurous n risk taking

but I damn sure ain’t doing anything nor taking any risks for a married dude with zero compensation to make it worth my while ... so I ditched him. Guess he thought I was a young dumb gullible n naive broad who doesn’t know any better.

He’s playing dumb! I didn’t even think about it.

If he was already a womanizing bastard I wouldn’t think twice about seducing him and taking his money, but I think he really tries to be a good husband. Which is why this is so hard for him to have feelings for me. Neither of us were looking for trouble when we met. We just have a shit ton of chemistry.

I think he’s looking for emotional intimacy more than physical intimacy. I have a bad habit of caring too much. No matter how much i care about a guy, I need to be compensated for my time and energy.

This week is the last time I’ll have to work with him. I’ll be glad to focus on work instead of entertaining this guy who is jerking my feelings around. I wonder what it will be tomorrow???

carmen_b
12-27-2020, 10:41 AM
^ Yeah , I'd hate to see you get caught up in the hassle of a married guy without some serious perks.
No perks ? No pussy.

I think if a guy isn't offering a traditional relationship ( dating leads to boyfriend ect. ) then he should be really clear / fast with presenting the perks that he IS bringing.

I think he assumes you are a little more naive that you are. :)
Like .... maybe complaining about a lack of attention would work on someone without sex work experience.

carmen_b
12-27-2020, 10:43 AM
Indie : I felt that way this year ! I had so much guilt not going home and then realized my other siblings were not even at parents house the morning of Christmas but they did go by in the evening.

moneybags
12-27-2020, 11:01 AM
^ Yeah , I'd hate to see you get caught up in the hassle of a married guy without some serious perks.
No perks ? No pussy.

I think if a guy isn't offering a traditional relationship ( dating leads to boyfriend ect. ) then he should be really clear / fast with presenting the perks that he IS bringing.

I think he assumes you are a little more naive that you are. :)
Like .... maybe complaining about a lack of attention would work on someone without sex work experience.

Lol..I do come off as a good girl.

No perks! No pussy.

@Indie I’ve done a lot of work in therapy to deal with my family. I truly feel for you. It gets better the older you get. All I can say is you’re a grown ass woman and you have the right to put yourself first and live life on your own terms without guilt and shame from your family. I still struggle with setting psychological boundaries and detaching with love. But my family can’t trigger me like they use to.

I’d like to push back on being a single mature lady. Would you say the same thing if a guy was single all his life? Would he be a crazy old dog man? To each their own. If that’s how you feel that’s fine, but the belief of being alone is bad is more bullshit societal programming to scare women into settling down and having babies. I totally agree in wanting to break the family dysfunctional cycle, but I don’t think being single or in a relationship has anything to do with that. You can be just as crazy in a relationship as you can be alone.

Thank you all. I’m so glad I’m surrounded by sex workers. Very smart ladies.

miss.a.p1600
12-27-2020, 12:19 PM
^ Yeah , I'd hate to see you get caught up in the hassle of a married guy without some serious perks.
No perks ? No pussy.

I think if a guy isn't offering a traditional relationship ( dating leads to boyfriend ect. ) then he should be really clear / fast with presenting the perks that he IS bringing.

I think he assumes you are a little more naive that you are. :)
Like .... maybe complaining about a lack of attention would work on someone without sex work experience.

True. Most men be entitled af!

if they can get away with stringing along a naive woman for their own benefit, whilst doing the bare minimum....::::they will!

Suck em n fuck em with no commitment nor money involved — perfect set up for a lazy entitled dude.

L told me he cheated on his ex wife and kept a woman who he viewed as a girlfriend for the last 1-2 years of his failing marriage. He said the ex thought she could treat him badly and he’d lay down n take it, according to him she eventually even refused to have sex for over a year an he felt he was backed into a corner.

I probed him about the mistress n he said he actually had an emotional connection, met her family, and took her out in public without wearing his wedding ring.

I think his mistress / girlfriend was not wise to engage that far without something tangible to show for it. Instead she got tangled up emotionally, tried to compete against his then wife (pressing him to leave her), and really got caught up in wanting something she couldn’t have

All the while I’m sure L’s ego was boosted from having the woman fight for him and do all the things he claimed his ex wife never did.

In the end she left empty handed when he didn’t leave his then wife. He didn’t want to be racked with guilt for contributing to breaking up a home for a mistress.

Ironically he eventually left his then wife once he realized staying with her would mean a miserable existence for the next 30 years if he stayed.

carmen_b
12-27-2020, 12:24 PM
Men are stupid.

I just got this message on my vanilla social media and this guy sees what I'm doing with the property management .

He wants to pick my brain about short term rentals in this area.

Anyone want to compose a " Time and Info = $$ " reply ? Hahaha.

moneybags
12-27-2020, 12:33 PM
Men are stupid.

I just got this message on my vanilla social media and this guy sees what I'm doing with the property management .

He wants to pick my brain about short term rentals in this area.

Anyone want to compose a " Time and Info = $$ " reply ? Hahaha.

Ugh...just tell him you’re hourly rate for consulting. I get that a lot with my health coaching. I spent years on my fitness education. No you can’t pick my brain for free. Best thing is to come up with an hourly fee. Either they will leave you alone cause they just wanted free info, or they happily pay you if they are serious.

carmen_b
12-27-2020, 12:54 PM
Oddly, his gf leaving could have been his " lesson". Like .... he wasn't set up to offer a woman anything really while still being attached and it made it more obvious .

L told me he cheated on his ex wife and kept a woman who he viewed as a girlfriend for the last 1-2 years of his failing marriage. He said the ex thought she could treat him badly and he’d lay down n take it, according to him she eventually even refused to have sex for over a year an he felt he was backed into a corner.


Ironically he eventually left his then wife once he realized staying with her would mean a miserable existence for the next 30 years if he stayed.

carmen_b
12-27-2020, 12:55 PM
YES ! Obviously. The coffee hasn't sunk in. I'll just handle it like everything else.
$$$ up front hahahaha.


Ugh...just tell him you’re hourly rate for consulting. I get that a lot with my health coaching. I spent years on my fitness education. No you can’t pick my brain for free. Best thing is to come up with an hourly fee. Either they will leave you alone cause they just wanted free info, or they happily pay you if they are serious.

miss.a.p1600
12-27-2020, 02:21 PM
Oddly, his gf leaving could have been his " lesson". Like .... he wasn't set up to offer a woman anything really while still being attached and it made it more obvious .

he claimed she was more financially successful than he was and really was just wanting emotional connection/stability/commitment

he could offer the emotional connection but not the commitment

She was smart not to wait for him to leave Bertha

miss.a.p1600
12-27-2020, 05:23 PM
Oddly, his gf leaving could have been his " lesson". Like .... he wasn't set up to offer a woman anything really while still being attached and it made it more obvious .


you already know men think offering DICK is equivalent to offering 5k plus an exotic trip to a resort island.

carmen_b
12-27-2020, 07:06 PM
^ Well it isn’t so it’s up to us to set them straight haha.

Give me some good dick and good spoiling and youve yourself a deal Sir. Hahaha.

miss.a.p1600
12-27-2020, 09:19 PM
^yeah next go around I’m just going to marry a sugar daddy n call it a day.

I confess I’m perusing stripper web on my cellular data- not L’s wifi- while he’s in the shower.

Ima log out when he gets out lol!

indiegirl
12-28-2020, 01:18 AM
It's raining right now! I love the rain!!! It' like god came in to bring some positivity. Yessss. LOL!

moneybags
12-28-2020, 01:03 PM
^^^me too! It’s so relaxing. You must be somewhere warm if it’s rain and not snow...lol.

I have to be more flexible. I’m a very rigid person. In order to be successful, I’m going to have to learn to juggle multiple balls and just do my best. I guess that’ll be my New Year’s resolution. I’m going to relax tonight and tomorrow I’m working on my financial planning. I’m going to start camming full time Jan 30th.

miss.a.p1600
12-28-2020, 02:32 PM
I REALLY want to start an OnlyFans for another source of income.

I refuse to be posting my best pics n videos FOR FREE on fucking instagram, FB, etc - unless its to tease into some sort of paid membership, consulting, etc.

The only problem is that L is super conservative.

Since its not an adult-only site (I don't think) ..... would this be considered like cheating or whatnot? I would be doing vanilla but sexy

moneybags
12-28-2020, 06:29 PM
^^^What you tell your friend if she asked you the same question.

One of the last days of seeing J at work. He had tears in his eyes! This dude is in love with me! Ugh! Too bad he’s married.I wish things were different, but I’m not dating a married guy. Honestly, he has a really good heart. I don’t think he would cheat on his wife. I understand how he feels, but his ass needs to get a divorce first. I can’t wait for him. This is why if you are in an unhappy relationship you need to leave cause the right person can’t be in your life if you’re in the wrong relationship.

miss.a.p1600
12-28-2020, 10:25 PM
Y’all always be having some good advice

And I agree. Work on it first but hell longer you stay the harder it is to leave n next thing you know your faking it n living an unauthentic life

I confess I’ve spent hella time with L last night, this afternoon AND this evening

I NEED my downtime, ALONE plus I know when I’m by myself tonight n tomorrow I will wake up early. He always tries to discourage me from rising early because he likes to lay in bed and cuddle. Bruh what we not gone do is waste the morning.

So I told him I’d be sleeping at home by myself. He gets a pissy attitude because he was expecting me to stay.

He is acting a bit clingy.

JGB2009
12-29-2020, 12:36 PM
My cousin text me on Christmas saying Merry Christmas. I was polite and told her the same. She then said she loved me and my kids but I didn't reply back. Once upon a time me and her used to be really close and she pulled back. She got weird after I told her I was pregnant. I don't kiss butt so I went about my way. I don't know why she bothers to keep in contact with me......I'm just not feeling no love so I'm not saying wut I don't feel.

carmen_b
12-29-2020, 02:31 PM
I need some dick today and only have a 6:30-7:45 window.

Haha

I love that my lover has no problems with this. I’ll just text him to meet me in bed at 6:30 and he’ll be there !

EDIT : I actually had my evening free up 6-10 p.m.! What a nice evening !!

moneybags
12-30-2020, 01:00 PM
^^^Thats sweet.

Sorry for being a whinny baby, but who else can I tell I’m sad about not seeing my married crush anymore. I need to focus on making money. He didn’t seems sad today when I said bye. I’m not good at goodbyes. I hurried out as fast as possible. I pretend I don’t care because I care too much. I’m glad I don’t have to see him-too much temptation. I deserve better. I deserve more than to be someone’s side chick. Honestly, I think he knew I deserved better too. He couldn’t give me the life I deserve. I deserve to have it all. Definitely deserve more than being someone’s mistress. You can’t help who you fall in love with. I have some things I need to focus on, so I hope the love bug doesn’t bite me again.

miss.a.p1600
12-30-2020, 02:03 PM
Money will make you feel better or at least take your mind off of it

moneybags
12-30-2020, 02:17 PM
Money will make you feel better or at least take your mind off of it

I’m focusing on making money and working out. I appreciate your support.