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LoveyDovey
12-30-2020, 02:53 PM
^^^Thats sweet.

Sorry for being a whinny baby, but who else can I tell I’m sad about not seeing my married crush anymore. I need to focus on making money. He didn’t seems sad today when I said bye. I’m not good at goodbyes. I hurried out as fast as possible. I pretend I don’t care because I care too much. I’m glad I don’t have to see him-too much temptation. I deserve better. I deserve more than to be someone’s side chick. Honestly, I think he knew I deserved better too. He couldn’t give me the life I deserve. I deserve to have it all. Definitely deserve more than being someone’s mistress. You can’t help who you fall in love with. I have some things I need to focus on, so I hope the love bug doesn’t bite me again.

You are saving yourself from a world of wasted time, heartache, and drama. Focus on you. Married guys who cheat are awful anyway.

indiegirl
12-30-2020, 03:47 PM
Me when my customer brought up my favorite show restarting the new season in a day:Looked all shocked and said "OH NO! You have no idea!!!"

Gurrllll I'm so ready for the final series of this show!! I tried to avoid the topic because nobody wants to discuss witch shows and walk away happy HAHA. I'm TOO involved hahaha!

carmen_b
12-30-2020, 04:30 PM
If meeting you is the lesson he needs to leave it's kind of flattering hahaha.

You wouldn't have temped him ( as much anyway ) if he was happy !
Of course he could be playing GAMES . Watch OUT !
:)

I mean if he is ready to leave it's as easy as leaving / getting another place. It's not super EASY but only he can do it.


^^^What you tell your friend if she asked you the same question.

One of the last days of seeing J at work. He had tears in his eyes! This dude is in love with me! Ugh! Too bad he’s married.I wish things were different, but I’m not dating a married guy. Honestly, he has a really good heart. I don’t think he would cheat on his wife. I understand how he feels, but his ass needs to get a divorce first. I can’t wait for him. This is why if you are in an unhappy relationship you need to leave cause the right person can’t be in your life if you’re in the wrong relationship.

miss.a.p1600
12-30-2020, 05:02 PM
You are saving yourself from a world of wasted time, heartache, and drama. Focus on you. Married guys who cheat are awful anyway.

exactly.

prettt much only good for dick or money.

carmen_b
12-30-2020, 05:32 PM
^ How good is his heart really if he is disrespecting his long term partner by living with her but flirting with you ?

That’s why I recommended the $$$$cash$$$$$ hahaha.

miss.a.p1600
12-30-2020, 08:07 PM
^yeah id estimate less than 10% of married dudes who checkout on their marriage (like explore their options while married then leave to be with the person they left their wife for) are actually worthwhile

Pretty slim chance for successful emotional connection

moneybags
12-31-2020, 12:42 AM
^Amen...yeah im sad, but I’m not stupid. My head knows what you all are saying is right, but my heart feels differently. I’m grown enough to look at this logically and know that saying good-bye before anyone lines get crossed is the best thing.

I’m super happy to focus on making money. No man is worth is destroying my life for. That’s 99.99 percent what will happen with a married dude. You’re basically going to lose all the time and energy you put into the relationship. Because he’s not going to leave his wife. He’s just bored and horny.

No good can come from fucking with a married guy. I think if one does they need to be smart and get paid.

carmen_b
12-31-2020, 12:54 AM
So damn smart !! ^^

There are other dudes out there and who knows maybe you’ll see him in a year or two.

ava$
12-31-2020, 08:46 AM
^^Right, there are so many others out there, married guys are always a waste of time, they almost never leave the wife. I leave that situation alone everytime nomatter how much I like a guy, and there was one I really really liked but had to be real, he goes back to his like while im just sittn there?? umm no!! Cant even call/talk to him after hours n stuff, tf....lol

indiegirl
12-31-2020, 11:08 AM
SOOOOO.....are we getting a second stimulus check or not? It's been back and forth. Is it $2000 or the $600? I'm down for 2k.

carmen_b
12-31-2020, 11:30 AM
I could really use 2k.
Let’s cross fingers haha.

ava$
12-31-2020, 11:44 AM
We’re getting 600 right now, my husband’s is pending in my account but mine n my kids is not, we filed separately but I file w the kid so I assume it must just be his, not sure why I don’t see mine cause I qualify ��♀️

indiegirl
12-31-2020, 12:37 PM
We’re getting 600 right now, my husband’s is pending in my account but mine n my kids is not, we filed separately but I file w the kid so I assume it must just be his, not sure why I don’t see mine cause I qualify ��♀️

Oh do we have to go through the IRS website to get the funds again or is it just being sent out again from our previous one?

miss.a.p1600
12-31-2020, 12:58 PM
SOOOOO.....are we getting a second stimulus check or not? It's been back and forth. Is it $2000 or the $600? I'm down for 2k.

I posted a while back that it should be at least 2k (considering the millions the wealthy be getting)

It’s insulting that they not only decreased the amount to 600 but kept taking their sweet time with it.

Last I heard was Bitch McConnell objected to the 2k

Not only are other countries containing the virus better but also their compensating their citizens MONTHLY

A bunch of greedy narcissistic idiots we have in government

carmen_b
12-31-2020, 01:04 PM
$600 is pretty " meh " .

I don't know. A check is a check on the other hand.

I hope they push another $600 or more out in a couple weeks.

ava$
12-31-2020, 01:39 PM
Oh do we have to go through the IRS website to get the funds again or is it just being sent out again from our previous one?
The irs get my payment tool is currently down but the site says it will be up soo so I am guessing early next week we should be able to check status of our stims them.. and yea 600 isn’t anything really it is bs how every other country got a monthly check n they make it so hard for us to even get 2 decent checks.. tf! And I cannot stand McConnell he’s a hater, blocks all the $$$. However, if he’s correct on the 2k going to households earning 300k per year that is stupid, however they can just reword the damn bill in like 2 seconds!

LoveyDovey
12-31-2020, 01:56 PM
Bitch McConnell is like that stingy, cheapass dude in the club who waves a dollar at us and tells us he won't give it to us unless we "work for it" even after we deliver a kickass performance that set the stage on fire.

Tired of him cockblocking OUR money.

indiegirl
12-31-2020, 02:44 PM
I'm too lazy to go to Home Depot to pick up my curbside pickup order. I was supposed to get it nine days ago BAHAHA.

miss.a.p1600
12-31-2020, 04:31 PM
My longtime Tx friend text me happy ny saying he hoped he’d be able to see me soon.

charlie61
12-31-2020, 08:08 PM
$600 is pretty " meh " .

I don't know. A check is a check on the other hand.

I hope they push another $600 or more out in a couple weeks.

Yeah, for anyone who actually needs the money, $600 is basically nothing. And for anyone who doesn't need the money, $600 is sort of just like... uh, okay, i guess I'll take it? My mortgage is $2700, so if i were hurting for funds, $600 would get me, like, some groceries for a few weeks, i guess?

miss.a.p1600
01-01-2021, 07:55 AM
Bitch McConnell is like that stingy, cheapass dude in the club who waves a dollar at us and tells us he won't give it to us unless we "work for it" even after we deliver a kickass performance that set the stage on fire.

Tired of him cockblocking OUR money.

He’s probably the sweatpants viagra boner guy.

indiegirl
01-01-2021, 09:11 AM
Fuck I was a happy clam hearing they serve free breakfast in a brown bag at this hotel. Some places serve sausage/eggs/etc. When I opened it, I was thinking “jail food is better than an apple juice and cup of questionable fruit.” Lol �� hahaha

Should’ve picked a 4 star with real food dining because lord knows it’s gonna take hours for DoorDash on a holiday. Over this hotel. Someone brought their loud ass dog into the room barking. That dog wouldn’t make a sound if he didn’t baby it just like mine don’t when I’ve hauled them to hotels in the past.

I’m flat out of food at my house as well. So this is it on a holiday lol

Also some guy decided to haggle with me for half hour lol for 160. Girl NOOO. That’s a price for a fancy ho in Mexico for an overnight. Lol. Gtfo.

LoveyDovey
01-01-2021, 01:26 PM
He’s probably the sweatpants viagra boner guy.

Lol exactly. The WHAT CAN I GET FOR $20 guy.

miss.a.p1600
01-01-2021, 02:09 PM
Lol exactly. The WHAT CAN I GET FOR $20 guy.

The “I’ll just sit here and gawk at you nude with my creepy bug eyes while I slowly sip this liquor and waste your time with senseless chat till you have the sense to leave”

indiegirl
01-01-2021, 04:00 PM
Yeah, for anyone who actually needs the money, $600 is basically nothing. And for anyone who doesn't need the money, $600 is sort of just like... uh, okay, i guess I'll take it? My mortgage is $2700, so if i were hurting for funds, $600 would get me, like, some groceries for a few weeks, i guess?

Yeah the $600 is nothing...not even covering my electric, landscaper, gas, trash, water, phone, food bills for one month. My mortgage is 2,515 now. It was at 2,434-5ish a few years ago and think to myself "I'm renting this home out if I have to pay anymore." Thank god for roommates even though I'd rather live alone. I still don't get why the monthly mortgage has increased. But hey I'll take whatever I can.

indiegirl
01-01-2021, 04:36 PM
Hell yes I'm getting sushi delivered to my house before I brave my way back to work. Wasn't expecting such a fast delivery!!!

miss.a.p1600
01-01-2021, 04:46 PM
I’ve had approx 6-7 hours without “relationship obligations”

I need a break for a moment. Just wanna do wtf I want to do.

moneybags
01-01-2021, 07:37 PM
I’ve known this for a long time, but my friend said the most negative thing about sex work. I was taking about going back to work when I get the vaccine and wondering how business will be and she said something about how guys are sex addicts. Yes, some customers are addicts, but sex is a need for men and what’s wrong with them getting their needs met in a healthy and safe way? Sigh. This is really common in 12 step-which is why I quit going-because of the religious bullshit. They are good people, but this attitude is prevalent. If you drink, smoke, or have sex EVER you’re an addict. People in recovery be such religious nuts. Everything is character defect. I’m so glad I quit going.

I’m really grateful for her friendship and I hope we stay in touch, but I’m definitely setting some boundaries with how often we speak and what we talk about.

Outgrowing relationships is so tricky. I want to be loyal, but I also have to be loyal to myself.

indiegirl
01-01-2021, 08:06 PM
I’ve known this for a long time, but my friend said the most negative thing about sex work. I was taking about going back to work when I get the vaccine and wondering how business will be and she said something about how guys are sex addicts. Yes, some customers are addicts, but sex is a need for men and what’s wrong with them getting their needs met in a healthy and safe way? Sigh. This is really common in 12 step-which is why I quit going-because of the religious bullshit. They are good people, but this attitude is prevalent. If you drink, smoke, or have sex EVER you’re an addict. People in recovery be such religious nuts. Everything is character defect. I’m so glad I quit going.

I’m really grateful for her friendship and I hope we stay in touch, but I’m definitely setting some boundaries with how often we speak and what we talk about.

Outgrowing relationships is so tricky. I want to be loyal, but I also have to be loyal to myself.

Some guys are legit sex addicts. I look at their review history and realize very quickly "you've had sex with how many people this week sir? I only do so to pay the bills." Some guys go through spurts of wanting a bunch of sex and then call it a day and wait months. No big deal if they wanna go on a quick splurge...just spent December splurging on my house LOL.

Don't we all have something we use to comfort us anyways? For some it's food, smoking, watching excessive tv/internet, women, drugs, shopping, gambling, or other? People can be so judgmental and not look in the mirror at what they do.

People reciting quotes to me from The Big Book in AA during conversations was it for me on having to attend LOL. I started bitterly showing up calling it the booze church when I was forced into god knows how many AA's for my DUI's. Couldn't do anymore and just forged the signatures because it was too much to deal with and people wanting to "13th step" me.

Sorry if this response wasn't good lol.

miss.a.p1600
01-01-2021, 09:47 PM
I mentioned Valentine’s Day and L said he was just going to surprise me.

Um NO.

I think he’s trying to keep his budget which I get. But I do not want any surprises. I want to know the options, I want input, and I don’t want to cut too many corners.

I might just pick an expensive restaurant and go by myself.

moneybags
01-01-2021, 09:54 PM
^^^She meant in a good way-like I should be busy because people turn to vices in hard times, but I felt it was a micro-aggression. Because she’s basically saying I enable addicts. Sex work can be healing or harmful. She just is projecting her own negative experiences and programming on to me and my job. I don’t think she’s had ANY positive experiences with sex. That’s why sex work is so empowering because instead of being used for sex, I get to pay my bills.

Even my therapist said she’s had professionals try to tell her anyone who does sex work or buys sex must be have some type of trauma and addiction.

At some point, I will no longer be in alignment with her- for a lot reasons. Hopefully it will be a natural drifting apart with as little awkwardness and hurt feelings.

LoveyDovey
01-01-2021, 10:37 PM
After my morning runs, when I do my ab workout and squats, I always watch that Dallas Cowboy Cheerleader show. They always motivate me to do extra crunches lol.

lurkingtitties
01-02-2021, 05:41 AM
^^I used to really want to be a cheerleader until I learned how little they earn. Shame on the NFL for that! (And for a lot of other reasons)

miss.a.p1600
01-02-2021, 06:33 AM
^exactly.

And the nfl ones aren’t supposed to interact with the players. So technically they can’t even network with their wealthy coworkers aka no social climbing at work.

Not to mention the cheerleaders n dancers have talked about how sexist it is the players are making hella gwap but the ladies who draw in many viewers don’t get paid accordingly. They also are held to strict standards like weight n hair n such.

LoveyDovey
01-02-2021, 06:56 AM
I think a former dcc sued them and now they get paid about $400 a game. Not sure though. I agree, they should get paid a heck of a lot more!

indiegirl
01-02-2021, 08:56 AM
I recall hearing that some baby photographers heat up the room to make the baby feel like they are in the womb and relaxed. I prolly need to freeze my room so I feel like I’m in a jail cell again with no sweater and the lights on to see appointments. Fuck I’m mad at myself. I need a new pimp to help me wake up LOL. I got way too comfy in my hotel room blasting the heat napping and didn’t see anyone late last night or today. This is no vacay!

Escorting even high end is not glam at all and never has been! Lol

moneybags
01-02-2021, 09:25 AM
Sex work isn’t glamorous or as exciting as people think. It’s just work...lol

indiegirl
01-02-2021, 09:36 AM
Yeah I had two ask me for bareback. One called it “the secret menu” girl Hell nooooo!

where are the gentlemen nowadays?

miss.a.p1600
01-02-2021, 01:34 PM
I think I’m changing my mind about progressing with L

He got an iPhone for his 12 year old and promised one for his 9 year old because the manager at the store told him it was free. The manager made an error and called him saying the phone was not free but 30/mo

So now he’s taking the phone back because he doesn’t want to pay that much for it and he thinks his kid will destroy it.

I guess I’m materialistic. Okay.

Then earlier he joked about “oh what if you were pregnant” then he’s like “it would be alright”

I’m thinking in my head “no! If you can’t get an iPhone for our kid (paid in full) then no ... there will be no kid” you can have a kid with Bertha and she’ll accept that.

carmen_b
01-02-2021, 01:51 PM
Kids don’t need phones wtf ?
Maybe a cheap flip one for emergencies ?

carmen_b
01-02-2021, 01:52 PM
The 12 year old should be paying half for phone / plan if they want it !

It should be a lesson in earning, planning, paying a bill on time ect.

miss.a.p1600
01-02-2021, 01:55 PM
Kids don’t need phones wtf ?

yeah I agree but kids nowadays be getting phones at 7,8,9 years old

And I guess IÂ’m thinking if a guy can afford to gift a nice phone to a kid then that means he can afford to do other things that require money for the kid like pay for ballet lessons n summer camps n what not

miss.a.p1600
01-02-2021, 02:20 PM
L said when he divorced Bertha he asked for his ring back.

I’m like ‘bruh how tf you gone ask the broad to give a gift you GAVE her’

He’s was like we’re not married anymore and that ring was a symbol of our union so I wanted it back.

Dude I don’t know that Bertha lady but she was allegedly faithful to you for 11 year and gave you two kids so she was more than deserving of that ring. Who tf ask for gifts back?!?

carmen_b
01-02-2021, 02:23 PM
Omg ^

I know you are worried about his cheapness. I don’t know why he tells these stories fueling your worry fire !

?

LoveyDovey
01-02-2021, 02:24 PM
I gave my son a phone when he was in middle school bc this way I wouldn't have to deal with his asshole father when I wanted to speak with him. Also it made me feel relieved knowing that kiddo had a way of reaching me in an emergency. It also helps when you have to pick up your kid from sports, etc. and you can't find them, etc. Also, as he grew older and borrowed my car, I was able to track his whereabouts on the Verizon app. It gave me relief knowing he could reach me and I could reach him whenever necessary. I agree, flip phones for younger kids so they're not online looking at shady shit.

LoveyDovey
01-02-2021, 02:27 PM
L said when he divorced Bertha he asked for his ring back.

I’m like ‘bruh how tf you gone ask the broad to give a gift you GAVE her’

He’s was like we’re not married anymore and that ring was a symbol of our union so I wanted it back.

Dude I don’t know that Bertha lady but she was allegedly faithful to you for 11 year and gave you two kids so she was more than deserving of that ring. Who tf ask for gifts back?!?

I agree. He should have let her keep it.

I gave back my engagement ring to my ex because I broke the engagement when I found out he was gay, using me to cover it up, wasting my time. I didn't want the reminder, so I gave it back. But if my ex broke up with me, I would've kept it and sold it.

In hindsight, I wish I kept it and sold it anyway. The asshole wasted my time.

miss.a.p1600
01-02-2021, 02:30 PM
Omg ^

I know you are worried about his cheapness. I don’t know why he tells these stores fueling your worry fire !

?

Thanks Carmen

We might have to have another conversation about it.

I do know his negative chatter about money today really decreased my attraction to the point that when he asked me to come over I pretended not to hear and changed the subject.

Le sigh!

carmen_b
01-02-2021, 02:31 PM
Yeah. ^

You thought you were doing the “ right “ thing but a better thing would be to sell to just recover *some* of that wasted time. :(

carmen_b
01-02-2021, 02:32 PM
^ He knows it bothers you and still rambles so I’d like to think he isn’t doing it on purpose but it looks a little odd.

miss.a.p1600
01-02-2021, 02:32 PM
I agree. He should have let her keep it.

I gave back my engagement ring to my ex because I broke the engagement when I found out he was gay, using me to cover it up, wasting my time. I didn't want the reminder, so I gave it back. But if my ex broke up with me, I would've kept it and sold it.

In hindsight, I wish I kept it and sold it anyway. The asshole wasted my time.

That’s exactly what I told him.

according to etiquette the only time woman gives ring back is if she broke off the engagement

But yeah hell mfs be putting up with a lot of shit from these dudes n they deserve they ring or money from
selling it.