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charlie61
06-16-2021, 02:30 PM
I promise myself I will get school figured out on certain dates and don't do it. My last final date was on the 15th when Cali reopened. Now it's the 16th. I need to push my ass to do it. I'm scared of change but it is needed.

Yes, sometimes i have to become more afraid of the lack of change than i am of change itself, and that's what ultimately motivates me. Thinking about a future of more of the same can be really scary and overwhelming if you aren't in a great place currently.

Aurora_Sunset
06-16-2021, 06:35 PM
Cannot get myself out of a funk lately. I'm usually super ambitious (at least mentally), planning stuff out, setting schedules for myself - and if I really really want to do something, I know I can push through months of sleep deprivation to get up early/stay up late to do it.

But lately, I logically "want" to do stuff, but emotionally, do not want to, to the point of complete inaction. Even if I force myself to do something productive, I'm annoyed the whole time, and just feel kinda "meh" about it afterward, instead of proud of myself like I normally would. I always feel too tired or just plain unmotivated. I don't feel "depressed" though, the way that I normally associate with a bad depressive episode. It's more like I've worked so hard on certain things, or told myself that I was gonna do something, so many times only to have nothing come of it that my brain has shut down and gone, "Nah, I don't believe you anymore. Not worth the effort."

Aurora_Sunset
06-16-2021, 06:37 PM
I made a TikTok video!

Never thought I would - I used to not understand the app at all. I'm a little pissy that I had a cut a lot of stuff I was planning on because of the 1 minute video rule. They've rolled out trials of 3-minute videos for some users but you have to have a ton of followers to be granted access to testing that feature. Oh well. It's kinda rough-looking but I'm pretty happy with how it turned out.

It's a feel-good video for Pride, so I hope it reaches some people and makes them happy.

It got over 100 likes and several comments from people telling me how much they appreciated it! I don't feel like that's bad at all for someone who's never made an internet video in her life and had no followers to start off with.

Gave my brain about 2 minutes of dopamine lol

Genoveve
06-16-2021, 08:08 PM
I just want to log off cam and go buy and inhale a box of Reese's Puffs.

Genoveve
06-17-2021, 02:05 PM
I just want to log off cam and go buy and inhale a box of Reese's Puffs.

I bought a jumbo box this morning and all I've eaten today are Reese's Puffs.

xxxGothBarbie
06-17-2021, 04:23 PM
I am having way too much fun over here on the east coast and haven't exactly told bf when for sure I'd be back in CA LOL
I don't wanna go back tbh :P

LoveyDovey
06-17-2021, 05:01 PM
I am having way too much fun over here on the east coast and haven't exactly told bf when for sure I'd be back in CA LOL
I don't wanna go back tbh :P

I live in southern CA and it would be way better if there weren't so many people. And a lot of them are crazy. Where back east are you visiting? NY right? I grew up near Philly. I kinda want to go back and visit with my guy. He's from Brooklyn NY. We'd have fun, I know that!

WendiStarr
06-17-2021, 05:52 PM
I ate strawberry cheesecake today and french fries. Pms!

LoveyDovey
06-17-2021, 06:00 PM
^^I ate chocolate. Yum yum.

So yesterday, I sent a message to my older sister's friend asking if my older sister was okay. My big sister ran away from home in the late seventies, when I was a little kid because my father was raping her, and when she threatened to run away, he took out one of his guns and threatened to shoot our entire family. She ran away after that and never came back. I hope this will lead to a reunions with big sis. It would be amazing.

xxxGothBarbie
06-18-2021, 09:13 AM
I live in southern CA and it would be way better if there weren't so many people. And a lot of them are crazy. Where back east are you visiting? NY right? I grew up near Philly. I kinda want to go back and visit with my guy. He's from Brooklyn NY. We'd have fun, I know that!

Yep NY is on the list as well as possibly Salem, Mass & a few other spots in Mass. The weather over here is fucking amazing right now! No humidity at all & not too hot, I would be a fool to return to CA. Ya we'd prob have a blast over here together haha :P

WendiStarr
06-18-2021, 10:34 AM
I thought of sending my oldest daughter's dad something from poopsenders.com for father's day but I figured why waste money on sending him something he is already made of(shit).

LoveyDovey
06-18-2021, 03:25 PM
Yep NY is on the list as well as possibly Salem, Mass & a few other spots in Mass. The weather over here is fucking amazing right now! No humidity at all & not too hot, I would be a fool to return to CA. Ya we'd prob have a blast over here together haha :P

That's awesome! Usually it's humid AF over there this time of year.

LoveyDovey
06-18-2021, 03:33 PM
I thought of sending my oldest daughter's dad something from poopsenders.com for father's day but I figured why waste money on sending him something he is already made of(shit).

Omg poopsender? I love it!

xxxGothBarbie
06-18-2021, 06:43 PM
I just gotta brag haha... SO I've been ordering food to go from places that have a decent kids menu & OMFG today I had an amazing VERY filling dinner & for only $7! I'm very proud of myself for saving money & beating the system of having to spend tons on one single meal daily. I highly suggest it ladies! It's worth it! :)

miss.a.p1600
06-18-2021, 07:48 PM
I thought of sending my oldest daughter's dad something from poopsenders.com for father's day but I figured why waste money on sending him something he is already made of(shit).

Ive seen one card company that when you open it, fake butterflies pop out.

It scares the shit out of most people because it’s unexpected and flying at their face.

Also the glitter bomb cards. Makes a complete glittery mess they have to clean up.

Kylie8585
06-19-2021, 04:56 PM
I can't really talk about this with to many peeps and my roomie is out of town but I have now hit the 100 client goal for escorting. I never knew I'd get into this line of work but it's been amazing and I feel like it's something I'll be doing for awhile. I've paid of a lot of debt and my car! <3 Even better I've been in an open relationship with a guy I've posted about on here. He's totally cool with that line of work and respects what I want in life.

charlie61
06-19-2021, 05:55 PM
I can't really talk about this with to many peeps and my roomie is out of town but I have now hit the 100 client goal for escorting. I never knew I'd get into this line of work but it's been amazing and I feel like it's something I'll be doing for awhile. I've paid of a lot of debt and my car! <3 Even better I've been in an open relationship with a guy I've posted about on here. He's totally cool with that line of work and respects what I want in life.

Congratulations, and thank you for sharing! I freaking love hearing from our active escorts on this board! I dabbled, but never went all in with escorting. Just cool to hear about the lifestyle, the wacky stuff, and even the mundane details!

Kylie8585
06-19-2021, 06:09 PM
Congratulations, and thank you for sharing! I freaking love hearing from our active escorts on this board! I dabbled, but never went all in with escorting. Just cool to hear about the lifestyle, the wacky stuff, and even the mundane details!

Thanks girl! I never was turned off by this lifestyle just never really was introduced or knew anything about it. Got tired of dead end jobs and started dancing & just met some cool peeps that helped me get going. I love being able to vent/open up on here. My roomie is in the business too but she's always going back and forth out of town for personal family issues so it's nice to chat on here and talk with people in similar situations.

PrincessQ
06-19-2021, 06:54 PM
Thanks girl! I never was turned off by this lifestyle just never really was introduced or knew anything about it. Got tired of dead end jobs and started dancing & just met some cool peeps that helped me get going. I love being able to vent/open up on here. My roomie is in the business too but she's always going back and forth out of town for personal family issues so it's nice to chat on here and talk with people in similar situations.

Congrats so happy for you! I remember when I started adjusting and thinking how did I get here! I was literally with the same guy (my X husband) for 15+ years but left him as the only guy I had ever slept with! yes crazy nobody can believe that when I tell them! Super controlling marriage. Couldn't wear what I wanted or do anything fun. I do hair and got bugged into going to a club to watch some of my clients that I do hair for. I loved the atmosphere and just really felt good. They convinced me to try and dancing and I did. Then I ventured into parties and before long I was working with another escort and she taught me so much. I never thought I'd do this type of work but it's really saved me being a single mom. I've read your posts and you seem like you know what you're doing and very glad it's working out!

miss.a.p1600
06-20-2021, 06:08 AM
Although I enjoy the emotional connection with L, I cannot shake my hypergamous beliefs.

Until he gets this ex broad in check n truly steps into the provider role (he does partially offer but not to the level I’m accustomed to), I just have the feeling that I’m going to be working a lot, probably doing frequent out of town trips, and possibly networking with clients/teammates to see what the grass is looking like on the other side.

Kylie8585
06-20-2021, 07:14 AM
Congrats so happy for you! I remember when I started adjusting and thinking how did I get here! I was literally with the same guy (my X husband) for 15+ years but left him as the only guy I had ever slept with! yes crazy nobody can believe that when I tell them! Super controlling marriage. Couldn't wear what I wanted or do anything fun. I do hair and got bugged into going to a club to watch some of my clients that I do hair for. I loved the atmosphere and just really felt good. They convinced me to try and dancing and I did. Then I ventured into parties and before long I was working with another escort and she taught me so much. I never thought I'd do this type of work but it's really saved me being a single mom. I've read your posts and you seem like you know what you're doing and very glad it's working out!

Amazing story good for you! Glad you're out of that sounded like a nightmare! Crazy your X was the only guy you had been with at that age! Couldn't wear what you wanted? wow! Do you think the controlling marriage and being sheltered contributed to getting into this industry?

indiegirl
06-20-2021, 08:32 AM
I feel bloated as F. Dunno if it's like that for anyone else but my second day of my period is the heaviest. I will work through almost anything as you can tell hahaha. If I cancel it's for a good reason. I got a 100 dollar tip and made 1600 off the last client.

I also confess I have a major problem with men who do not clean and are lazy. I'm not doing your dishes or living that lazy type of lifestyle with dishes in the sink. Put em in the dishwasher please. Just the way they toss their towels in my hotel room bugs me sometimes. It reminds me of when I lived with my brother and I did all the cleaning. I even got my former pimp to purchase cleaning products after bitching about it over time bahaha.

This industry has honestly been building me more into a more of a no nonsense level type of woman with things important to me which is one thing I appreciate. I used to be such a people pleaser and do anything to make a guy happy yearrrrss ago.

PrincessQ
06-20-2021, 10:31 AM
Amazing story good for you! Glad you're out of that sounded like a nightmare! Crazy your X was the only guy you had been with at that age! Couldn't wear what you wanted? wow! Do you think the controlling marriage and being sheltered contributed to getting into this industry?

Thanks it was exhausting and still happy I left. I think because I invested so much of my younger years into the relationship/marriage I kept just hoping for change. It's in the past now so that's all that matters. He didn't like me to wear anything that would show off my body and I mean like regular leggings. I'm shorter and thicker so my ass would stick out and the though of other men looking just acted like I'd cheat. I think me being sheltered just kept me from living a life I was okay with. When I left him I went on a few dates and then almost forced myself to hook up with a guy to just make my X not be the last guy. It was a huge relief to finally hook up with another guy besides my X. From that point I literally went into what they call ho mode. Dating apps didn't help either! I was literally like a new guy every other day just doing it out of need and rage hoping my X would get wind. At first I think I got into the industry in spite of him but then I feel like I just really enjoyed being on my own and doing what I wanted and I was good at it. A lot of what we do that bothers some and forces them to quit just didn't bother me.

indiegirl
06-22-2021, 07:05 AM
I'll never forget the time I was bitching at the wrong person on the phone about my customer and I ended up accidentally texting the customer everything instead hahahaha. I was so embarrassed. He apologized and everything. I felt so bad!

Business is picking up again, I got 2 new reviews this morning. I was tired and passed on $4500 over the past few hours this early morning. One from the past I knew was gonna review me and talk about my appearance because that was the selling point for him and he sure did lol. Yay for more prospective money.

I find it funny when men ask me to show up in casual clothes because of neighbors. It's like they think I'm showing up in these clothes:
https://i.ibb.co/PzjDxYL/Screen-Shot-2021-06-22-at-7-22-55-AM.png (https://imgbb.com/)

carmen_b
06-22-2021, 07:38 AM
^ I would get that doing massage outcalls too.
Like .... NO .... I'm going to call some serious attention to MYSELF and get the cops called on ME at your nice hotel lol.

Aurora_Sunset
06-22-2021, 05:56 PM
I feel bad I was kinda snotty on the phone to my husband earlier. I'm still in my weird mental mood, and it's starting to get to me. I'm annoyed that I have no desire to do anything. I feel pointless. So, I'm not in a great mood to begin with, but I'm happy to listen to him talk about his day or whatever. But he always has to comment on how quiet I am and how I seem like I "don't want to talk to him." So I ask "talk about what?" Like... I have nothing to fucking talk about. I work all day. I come home, take care of cats, clean, watch TV and play on my phone until bedtime, so I can get up and do it all over again. I rarely talk to anyone else about anything important. I have absolutely nothing to talk about in terms of work. It's boring, repetitive shit. Nothing exciting happens. Like... what am I supposed to say?

So, I got shitty about it. He said he'd let me go, and I was just like, "fine." I could tell he was surprised and hurt that I was just willing to say ok, fine, and hang up. I'm just not in the mood to talk about myself. There's nothing to fucking report.

indiegirl
06-22-2021, 08:49 PM
I confess I have a problem with LA. It's more manageable at night so it dims all the filth in the crap neighborhoods. I lied to a customer. I did spend 65 bucks roundtrip in uber to arrive at his place and the lady dropped me off at the wrong house (once again). I wasn't emotionally ready to see this person at the time so I stood outside shoveling edibles in my mouth and I just remembered how much I hate being in crap parts of LA. There were stray cats and the area looked shitty. He talked about opening a gate for me and I just wanted outta there and left with my excuse that I was dropped off elsewhere. God LA has gone to shit. I'd prefer them to come to me. Cost me money but oh well.

Also I'm at a point in life where if a man doesn't pick me up (not work related) I'm not fucking leaving the house. Why should I come to you? I used to allow this behavior on first dates with my stupid ass trying to be nice while they sat at home. Never again.

carmen_b
06-23-2021, 07:23 AM
^ Agreed ! I would always have vanilla dates meet me within like 1/2 mile of my place. If they can't even make the effort to come to my area ..... meh.
Plus ..... I was living in the best area. :)
I was NOT going to the burbs. Haha.

LoveyDovey
06-23-2021, 12:47 PM
I'm worried about my guy. I texted him yesterday to help me with my car repair stuff and he is really overwhelmed with things going on in his life. He told me that he knows he is a grown man but he is on the verge of a mental breakdown and he wants to cry. He said he was going to take a sleeping pill last night to get some sleep. When I texted him today and told him I hope he was having a better day, he hasn't answered. I hope he is okay. I told him if he is overwhelmed I can hire a mobile mechanic instead, but he said he'd help me because I think he'll feel like crap if he can't take care of me. He's a good guy, I just wish he was happier with his life. All I can do is pray for him. I think it may be time for him to see a therapist because while I can stand back and support him, I cannot fix him. He has to do that himself.

Genoveve
06-23-2021, 01:01 PM
^^^I would hire the mobile mechanic. You can’t fix him but if he is seriously struggling and there’s anything you can do to lighten the load I would do it.

miss.a.p1600
06-23-2021, 01:09 PM
I just want to meet some normal people.

Normal people who are making contributions to society.

No pretentious, belligerent, annoying, snooty, judgmental, assholes allowed.

Keep that demon energy over there!

LoveyDovey
06-23-2021, 03:51 PM
^^^I would hire the mobile mechanic. You can’t fix him but if he is seriously struggling and there’s anything you can do to lighten the load I would do it.

That's what I'm thinking. Thanks G. My only fear is that my guy will feel like crap for not being able to be there for me. Maybe I'll just tell him a white lie and say my housemate had the mechanic over to fix her car and since he got done early, I decided to have him fix my car as well.

moneybags
06-23-2021, 03:57 PM
^^^the best thing you can do is detach in love.

LoveyDovey
06-23-2021, 04:48 PM
Yep. Very wise words.^^

JenniferNorth
06-24-2021, 07:29 PM
I want to go to a strip club with hubby. Not to work, just fun. We used to when we were dating and it was a blast.

JGB2009
06-25-2021, 07:13 AM
When I was 20 or 21 I accidentally told someone to go north instead of south. They were trying to go to an amusement park. To this day I still feel like a dork for telling them that. I always wondered how far did they go until they realized I was wrong.

miss.a.p1600
06-25-2021, 07:20 AM
L’s ex wife is leaving out of town and taking their kids.

After hearing them staying up all night, yelling at each other, arguing, and his daughter constantly talking in a whiny voice……….

I can honestly say I’m kind of glad.

Although he does regulate n mediate, Im not sure I’m cut out to deal with that on a regular basis. It’s one thing to tell your own kids to stfu but with someone else’s kids it’s like their parents have to step up n enforce.

WendiStarr
06-25-2021, 11:34 AM
I bought a magnetic fishing game for the pool and a solar eagle light for the garden that I didn't need. I've been trying to only buy necessities. 8 days of rain + being sick for several of those days, I'm determined to get outside in the backyard with the kids, whenever it finally stops raining. We need some fun and sunshine in our lives.

moneybags
06-25-2021, 05:36 PM
L’s ex wife is leaving out of town and taking their kids.

After hearing them staying up all night, yelling at each other, arguing, and his daughter constantly talking in a whiny voice……….

I can honestly say I’m kind of glad.

Although he does regulate n mediate, Im not sure I’m cut out to deal with that on a regular basis. It’s one thing to tell your own kids to stfu but with someone else’s kids it’s like their parents have to step up n enforce.

You have the right to set boundaries with anyone’s kids. Frequently people don’t parent their children and they grow up to be adult children, so long as you’re not laying hands on the them or spanking them you have the right set age appropriate boundaries-your kids or not. They need to learn to respect other humans no matter their position.

LoveyDovey
06-25-2021, 07:14 PM
^^^ ugh I remember when I attempted to set boundaries with my ex's daughter when she unnecessarily flipped out on me over something her brother did. He brought a basketball covered in poop into the house and I when told him to take it back outside and hose it off,she screamed at me because he did that. When I told my ex about her unwarranted behavior, he put her in check, only for his ex bertha broad turning around and praising the daughter for snapping at me! Her mother was diagnosed as a narcissist so no surprise there. So glad I left him. Kiddo and I don't need narcissists in our lives.

Elektra Luxx
06-25-2021, 08:52 PM
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miss.a.p1600
06-26-2021, 04:12 AM
^wise words.

Pretty much why I stay off social media.

If I am feeling competitive I’ll just compete with myself

miss.a.p1600
06-26-2021, 06:29 AM
I feel kind of bad because L is going to be sad about not seeing his kids often and his petty ex wife is only leaving town cause she doesn’t want her kids around another woman.

I get it…..to an extent.

His daughter especially is attached to him and kids not being around their father often can be detrimental.

It’s like on one hand I’m glad I don’t have to deal with someone else’s kids but on the other hand I do think kids should spend as much time with their parents while they can.

On another note. Both of his kids are overweight and he just lets them eat the same fried foods multiple times a week n drink sugary sodas. They had not one but two sodas at one sitting. I try not to judge but all I can think is why set up habits that are going to be very hard to change later. Just a fast track to type 2 diabetes. Then I think should I even care cause it’s not my kids. If their parents don’t care about their health then I guess I shouldn’t either.

JenniferNorth
06-26-2021, 07:08 AM
I get you Miss P. With my own kids, I am very motivated to give them the best schooling, extracurriculars and even try to enforce healthier eating habits. Soda is a rare treat. It's sad that L allows this. He sounds like he is in good shape from the way you describe him, so I wonder if this is ex's doing. Or if the kids are using food for comfort or something.

I get from Bertha's standpoint about not wanting some other woman around, but I also feel if I was in her situation, I would care more about my kids being with their dad and just woman up and deal with the new lady. Bertha's mind is very juvenile if she cannot think about HER own kids first and foremost.

Also, the whole comment about people on social media is spot on. You KNOW people who post XYZ and everything else on social media and make it PUBLIC are just hoping for others to look at them and praise them, and if they want that much praise and attention from strangers, you know they are unhappy.

carmen_b
06-26-2021, 10:17 AM
I want to with my guy too.
I am worried though if he spends a lot I'll get jealous lol.
That is really my only fear about it hahaha.


I want to go to a strip club with hubby. Not to work, just fun. We used to when we were dating and it was a blast.

carmen_b
06-26-2021, 10:20 AM
So unhealthy ! You should talk to him about lowering the sugar levels ( mix like 1/3 juice to 2/3 water ) .

It can also factor into behavior issues obviously. I hope it goes smoothly. How far are we talking.

Maybe he can just get a hotel near them a few days a month or something to get some longer visits if it's more than a couple hours away.


I feel kind of bad because L is going to be sad about not seeing his kids often and his petty ex wife is only leaving town cause she doesn’t want her kids around another woman.

I get it…..to an extent.

His daughter especially is attached to him and kids not being around their father often can be detrimental.

It’s like on one hand I’m glad I don’t have to deal with someone else’s kids but on the other hand I do think kids should spend as much time with their parents while they can.

On another note. Both of his kids are overweight and he just lets them eat the same fried foods multiple times a week n drink sugary sodas. They had not one but two sodas at one sitting. I try not to judge but all I can think is why set up habits that are going to be very hard to change later. Just a fast track to type 2 diabetes. Then I think should I even care cause it’s not my kids. If their parents don’t care about their health then I guess I shouldn’t either.

LoveyDovey
06-26-2021, 10:26 AM
I get you Miss P. With my own kids, I am very motivated to give them the best schooling, extracurriculars and even try to enforce healthier eating habits. Soda is a rare treat. It's sad that L allows this. He sounds like he is in good shape from the way you describe him, so I wonder if this is ex's doing. Or if the kids are using food for comfort or something.

I get from Bertha's standpoint about not wanting some other woman around, but I also feel if I was in her situation, I would care more about my kids being with their dad and just woman up and deal with the new lady. Bertha's mind is very juvenile if she cannot think about HER own kids first and foremost.

Also, the whole comment about people on social media is spot on. You KNOW people who post XYZ and everything else on social media and make it PUBLIC are just hoping for others to look at them and praise them, and if they want that much praise and attention from strangers, you know they are unhappy.

Agree with all the above. Beritha sounds insecure and needs to get over it. I could see if Dad's new gf was abusive and mean, but that's not the case here.

miss.a.p1600
06-26-2021, 10:31 AM
I want to with my guy too.
I am worried though if he spends a lot I'll get jealous lol.
That is really my only fear about it hahaha.

L has invited me to strip club.

my fear is I’ll be the one getting more into it than him then he’ll be questioning my sexuality lol!

miss.a.p1600
06-26-2021, 10:36 AM
So unhealthy ! You should talk to him about lowering the sugar levels ( mix like 1/3 juice to 2/3 water ) .

It can also factor into behavior issues obviously. I hope it goes smoothly. How far are we talking.

Maybe he can just get a hotel near them a few days a month or something to get some longer visits if it's more than a couple hours away.

I hope it goes smoothly too. If he’s in a pissy depressed mood for too long he may slip back into his old habits like overeating and being unmotivated

He said he plans to drive up next month. It’s a couple hours away. Take them out for the day.


Agree with all the above. Beritha sounds insecure and needs to get over it. I could see if Dad's new gf was abusive and mean, but that's not the case here.

True. As much as I rant about not wanting to deal with other people’s kids I would never abuse anyone’s kids. I would never make a kid feel bad cause they are just kids and they didn’t ask for any of this.

lynn2009
06-26-2021, 12:44 PM
I am pet sitting a Betta fish this week and I have been surprisingly worried about him. For as annoying as my dog is, I always know if he needs or wants something or is sick because he will bark at me or paw and whine and do big sad eyes. But the fish doesn't tell me anything so I'm like is he hungry? Is he overfed? Does he need less light or more light? Is he staying in place because he's sick or is that how fish sleep? Also I know I need to up my anxiety medication, thank you.

Poor little guy passed away. His mom says she thinks his water got too hot. I think it is just as well to be honest, his tank was WAY too small. I felt so bad for him.